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Communication
LISTENING
What is Listening
Communication begins with
listening
It is a deliberate effort
While listening we must
discriminate, evaluate, appreciate
and react.
“The most basic of all human needs
is the need to understand and be
understood. The best way to
understand people is to listen to
them.”
The Process of Listening
Evaluating Remembering
Interpreting Responding
Sensing
Features
Paying attention:
One has to resist distractions and tune out noise.
Focus on the other speaker in a generous way:
Sometimes people listen looking for flaws. They focus on
matters other than the substance of the talk. This must be
avoided
Avoid making assumptions:
Many listening errors come from faulty assumptions. We should
never ignore instructions thinking it is unnecessary.
Listen for ‘feelings’ as well as ‘facts’:
-- We must consciously listen for feelings
-- We must pay attention to tone of voice, facial expression
and body language
--We must never assume silence means consent.
Importance
Positive interest-
An active listener must have the positive attitude that
something of interest or value is likely to reward his
attention to even a least promising topic
Preparation-
Any background information helps in making a person a
better listener.
Silence-
It is necessary to maintain silence while listening to
someone
Listening to the message-
We have to learn to concentrate on the message and
refuse to be distracted by the speaker’s voice,
idiosyncrasies or clumsy use of visual aid.
Allow the person to finish-
We generally don’t hear the speaker talking, because
we are already planning our replies.
Avoid prejudice-
Having a prior opinion about what is being said can
close our minds to the speaker’s arguments
Time and place-
Planned interview time makes for better listening, and
the planning should include appropriate surroundings
and also removal of interruptions
Integrity-
A good listener is one who respects confidence and
helps maintain the trust which is very essential.
Types
Informational listening
Evaluative listening
Emphatic listening
Informational listening
Questioning—
The right questions can help you analyze a problem
and offer good advice and help the other person
recognize important facts that were previously buried.
Supporting—
Support can sometimes provide a moral boost, giving
someone added strength to face a tough situation.
Paraphrasing—
Paraphrasing is restating the speaker’s message in
your own words. Here, however, the restatement should
include both the speaker’s thoughts and the listener’s
feelings.
Reasons for Poor Listening
Message overload—
It is hard to listen carefully when the phone rings every few
minutes, people keep dropping in to give you quick messages, and
you’re trying to organize your notes for a quick presentation.
Coping with a deluge of information is like juggling, you can only
keep a few things going at one time.
Preoccupation—
Business and personal concerns make it difficult to keep your
mind on the subject at hand.
Rapid thought—
Listeners can process information at a much faster
rate than the speaker delivers. This difference leaves a
great deal of mental spare time which often led the mind
to wander.
Physical distractions—
A stuffy room, noisy machinery, the cold you feel
coming on are only a few of the distractions that can
make listening difficult.
Hearing problems—
Some people suffer from hearing deficiencies and the
biggest problems come up when a hearing problem
goes undetected.
Faulty assumptions—
One common, though mistaken, belief is that the
responsibility for successful communication lists with the
sender. Even the most thoughtful, well expressed idea is
wasted if the intended receiver fails to listen thus both
the speaker and the listener share the burden of
reaching and understanding
Barriers