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NONVERBAL COMMUNICATION: MESSAGES BEYOND WORDS

CHAPTER TOPICS
Characteristics of Nonverbal Communication Influences on Nonverbal Communication Types of Nonverbal Communication

Looking Out/Looking In
Thirteenth Edition

Characteristics of Nonverbal Communication


Nonverbal Communication
Messages expressed by nonlinguistic terms This rules out the written word and sign language Includes all vocal means that do not involve language
Sighs, laughs, etc. Nonlinguistic dimensions
Volume, rate, pitch

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Characteristics of Nonverbal Communication


Nonverbal Skills are Vital
Nonverbal encoding and decoding skills are strong predictor of
Popularity Attractiveness Socioeconomic status

Nonverbal skills are vital to emotional intelligence

All behavior has communicative value


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Nonverbal Communication is Relational Identity Management
Defines the kinds of relationships we want to have with others When youre at a party how do you act?
Which emotions are you displaying?
Friendly, attractive, easygoing

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Nonverbal Communication is Relational
Nonverbal communication is better suited towards conveying emotion How do you express the following nonverbally
Youre tired Youre in favor of capital punishment Youre attracted to another person in the group You think prayer in schools should be allowed Youre angry at someone in the room
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Characteristics of Nonverbal Communication


Nonverbal Communication Serves Many Functions
Repeating
When someone asks for directions, you often repeat your answer with a gesture

Complementing
Expressions that match thoughts and emotions

Substituting
When someone asks, Whats up? You may just shrug your shoulders
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Characteristics of Nonverbal Communication


Nonverbal Communication Serves Many Functions
Accenting
Nonverbal devices in oral messages
It was your idea!

Regulating
Influencing the flow of verbal communication

Contradicting
Sending mixed messages
Angry? Im not angry!
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Nonverbal Communicators Offer Deception Clues
Leakage
Nonverbal cues that send signals a person is deceiving you When someone is bluffing a hand of poker, a player may nervously tap their finger or fidget in their chair The voice also offers leakage clues

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Nonverbal Communicators Offer Deceptions Clues
Three findings:
We are accurate in detecting deception only slightly more than half the time We overestimate our ability to detect others lies We have a strong tendency to judge others messages as truthful

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Nonverbal Communication is Ambiguous
What does a kiss mean?
In some situations it can be a way of saying hello In another situation is could be the first step to a more romantic relationship

When your significant other pulls away


Is this a sign of trouble Or a suggestion to pursue

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Characteristic of Nonverbal Communication


Nonverbal Communication is Ambiguous
Service with a Smile
Twelve Safeway Employees filed grievances over the smile-and-make-eye-contact policy The clerks claimed shoppers thought their smiles and eye-contact was flirting

Nonverbal Leaning Disorder (NVLD)


Reading facial expressions, tone of voice and other cues is dramatically more difficult

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Influences on Nonverbal Communication


Gender
Research shows that, compared to men, women:
Smile more Use more facial expression Use more head, hand and arm gestures Touch others more Stand closer to others Make more eye contact
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Influences on Nonverbal Communication


Culture
Nonverbal behaviors can have different meanings depending on the culture
The OK gesture:
A cheery affirmation in American culture Means youre worth zero in France and Belgium Is a vulgar sexual invitation in Greece and Turkey

Americans are comfortable conducting business at a distance of four feet Middle Easterners stand much closer
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Culture The use of time depends greatly on culture
Monochronic
Emphasizing punctuality, schedules and completing one task at a time

Polychronic
Flexible schedule in which multiple tasks are pursued at the same time

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Types of Nonverbal Communication


Body Movement
Body Orientation
The degree to which we face toward or away from someone with our body, feet and head

Posture
By paying attention to the postures around your own, youll find another channel of communication

Gestures
Movements of the hands and arms
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Types of Nonverbal Communication


Body Movement
Gestures
Illustrators
Movements that accompany speech but do not stand on their own

Emblems
Deliberate nonverbal communication that has precise meaning

Adaptors
Unconscious body movements in response to the environment
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Types of Nonverbal Communication


Body Movement
Face and Eyes
At least eight distinguishable positions of the eyebrows and forehead Eight of the eyes and lids Ten for the lower face

Multiplied together you can understand why it is nearly impossible to compile a dictionary of facial expressions
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Types of Nonverbal Communication


Body Movement
Face and Eyes
Microexpressions
Expressions that happen quickly and are difficult to detect Can be very effective in identifying emotion

Eyes
Communicate positive or negative attitude Pupils grow larger based on the interest in the object

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Types of Nonverbal Communication


Voice
Paralanguage
Describes nonverbal, vocal messages Note how many meanings come from a single sentence, just by shifting the emphasis
This is a fantastic communication book. This is a fantastic communication book. This is a fantastic communication book.

Unintentional Pause Vocalized Pause


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Types of Nonverbal Communication


Touch
Haptics
Touch can communicate many messages What makes a given touch more or less intense? Several Factors:
Which part of the body does the touching Which part of the body is touched How long does the touch last How much pressure is used The situation in which the touch occurred
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Types of Nonverbal Communication


Appearance
Physical Attractiveness
Men and women whom others perceive as attractive are rated as:
Being more sensitive Kind Strong Sociable Interesting

Physically attractive professors receive higher evaluations from their students


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Appearance
Clothing
One writer suggests that clothing can covey at least ten types of messages to others:
Economic background Economic level Educational level Educational background Level of sophistication Level of success Moral character Social background Social position Trustworthiness

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Types of Nonverbal Communication


Physical Space
Proxemics
The study of the way people and animals use space. We each carry an invisible bubble of personal space wherever we go We feel uncomfortable with this bubble is violated Different cultures develop different bubbles It is important to choose distances based on the receiver of your message
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Types of Nonverbal Communication


Proxemics
Halls Four Spatial Zones
Intimate distance
Ranges out about eighteen inches

Personal distance
Ranges from eighteen inches to four feet

Social distance
Four feet to twelve feet

Public distance
Distances beyond twelve feet
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Types of Nonverbal Communication


Time
Chronemics
The study of how humans structure time In a culture that values time highly, waiting can be an indicator of status Time can be a marker of relationships The amount of time spent with a relational partner sends important messages about value Time is also valued in mediated communication
Email
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Chapter Review
Characteristics of Nonverbal Communication Influences on Nonverbal Communication Types of Nonverbal Communication

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