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Communication
A Must in Conflict
Management
Two Aspects of Communication
that are very important in conflict resolution or
management
Ability to effectively
express & assert oneself
- needs, viewpoints
- feelings, feedback
- proposed solution
preoccupation
emotional block
hostility
charisma of the speaker
hidden agenda
simple inarticulateness
culturally-determined verbal patterns
physical environment
defensiveness
status
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION
ACTIVE LISTENING
So you think
You feel _____ because _____
It sounds like
Let me see if I understand. As you see it
Then the issue is
From your point of view
WHY PROBE?
get more information/data
clarify other persons feelings
clarify other persons thinking
test assumptions
Mediators Network for Sustainable Peace
(MEDNET)
HOW ?
ask open ended questions
(i.e. what, why, how, where, when, who)
ask one question at a time
give time to answer
reinforce answers verbally and/or with body language
Avoid!
confuse probes with leading question
probing question: What have you done to solve your problems?
leading question: What have you done to win her back?
long silences
Assertiveness