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INSTITUT PENDIDIKAN GURU ( IPG )

KAMPUS SULTAN ABDUL


HALIM
SUNGAI PETANI ,
KEDAH DARUL AMAN
PROGRAM IJAZAH SARJANA MUDA PENDIDIKAN
(PISMP)
EDU 3107
GUIDANCE & COUNSELLING FOR CHILDREN

Topic 5
Basic Counselling Skills
( 6 hours )
+ Tutorial 6 & 7
JAN 2011 AMENDMENT 2012

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Topic 5
Part.2
Basic Counselling Skills:
Attending & Listening
(1 hour)
JAN 2011 AMENDMENT 2012

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Basic Skill of Counselling


Attending &
Listening
Skill

Interpreting
Non-Verval
Behavior
Skill

Verbally
Attending
Non-Verbal
Attending
(of
Counsellor)

Non-Verbal
Attending
(of Client)

Giving
Response
Skill

Identifying
Problem
Skill

Minimal Prompt

Clarifying

Paraphrasing

Open
Questioning

Restating

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Behavioral
Appriach
Cognitive
Approach

Probing
Reflecting
Leading

Active Listening

Intervention
Skill

Summarizing

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Affective
Approach

Basic Counselling Skills:


Attending & Listening
(1 hour)
JAN 2011 AMENDMENT 2012

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ATTENDING SKILL
Attentiveness =

the amount of verbal +


nonverbal behavior during communication
Mehrabian (1971):
percentage for 3 types of communication
during the interaction of 2 individual
7% - verbal
38% - vocal
55% - nonverbal

ATTENDING SKILL
Cormier & Cornier (1991): verbal skill

- probing
- requesting clarification
- restating
- summarizing of feeling/thinking

ATTENDING SKILL
Egan (1990):

5 nonverbal skill
S : face the clients squarely (literally &
metaphorically understanding)
O : to adopt with open posture
(nondefensiveness)
L : lean toward the clients (showing interest)
E : eye contact of the counsellor
R : relax + feel comfortable for the counsellor

ATTENDING SKILL
Nonverbal behavior :

a. supportive elements of verbal


b. explain the situation clearly
c. disclose the real feeling unconsciously
thus, counsellors are trained to observe
those non-verbal sharply & accurately

ATTENDING SKILL
Types of Non-Verbal Behaviors :

a. Posture
b. Facial expression/animation
c. Eye contact
d. Occasional head nodding, smiling,
touching
e. repetition of word(s)

ATTENDING SKILL
Example:
Client: actually Im not facing any problem
is my mom who wants me to be here
(starting grapping his hand while
talking) well, as I told you Im really
ok(avoiding the eye contact with
the counsellor)

Exercise 5.3
Base on the dialog , how does you (as if)
as a counsellor to read your client through
the verbal and nonverbal behavior.
To show your attentiveness in this
communication, what kinds of nonverbal
behavior you will apply.

LISTENING SKILL
Listen with your 3rd ear
= Active Listening Skill
not a passive listener, but listen to the
feeling
showing the interest of listening with
appropriate gesture and posture
embedded the empathy during the session

LISTENING SKILL
The important of listening skill in counselling:
(a) To ensure the process of problems
exploration achieving the goal of session
(b) Present a therapeutic condition where
the client feel safe to share their problem

TUTORIAL 6
( 1 HOUR )

TUTORIAL (6):
Select a person who is willing to be a client
and you be the counseling teacher. The
interaction should be about 5 minutes. While
your client is talking, you indicate boredom
by looking away, doodling and so on. After
the interaction, ask you clients reaction to
the session. Did he/she feel uncomfortable?
Why?

THANK YOU

JAN 2011

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