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Chapter 11:
Interpersonal Conflict
and Conflict
Management
1. Definition of interpersonal
conflict
Occurs when people are
interdependent
Mutually aware of incompatible
goals
See each other as interfering with
achieving goals
Preliminaries to
Interpersonal Conflict
Preliminaries to
Interpersonal Conflict
(cont.)
Intimacy
Power
Personal flaws
Personal distance
Social
Distrust
Preliminaries to
Interpersonal Conflict
(cont.)
1. Conflict is inevitable
2. Conflict can have negative and
positive effects
Negative effects
Principles of
Interpersonal Conflict
Resolves problems
Improves relationships
Demonstrates commitment to
relationship
Principles of Interpersonal
Conflict (cont.)
Principles of Interpersonal
Conflict (cont.)
Nature of conflict
Conflict strategies
Organizational norms
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Principles of Interpersonal
Conflict (cont.)
Fight in private
Be sure you both are ready to fight
Know what youre fighting about
Fight about things that can be
solved
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Stages
Conflict Management
Stages (cont.)
Fact hat
Feeling hat
Negative argument hat
Positive benefit hat
Creative new idea hat
Control of thinking hat
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Stages (cont.)
Conflict Management
Stages (cont.)
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Strategies
Physical
Emotional or cognitive
Demand withdrawal
Non-negotiation
Silencers
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Strategies (cont.)
Talk strategies
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Strategies (cont.)
Beltlining
Blaming
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Strategies (cont.)
Unproductive
Trying to win at the others expense
disconfirming
Argumentativeness
Should be cultivated
Argue your point of view
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Strategies (cont.)
6. Argumentativeness strategies
(cont.)
Cultivating argumentativeness
Be objective
Avoid attacking the other person
Reaffirm the others competence
Avoid interrupting
Stress equality
Express interest in the others
viewpoint
Avoid being overly emotional
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Strategies (cont.)