Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Chap
11
LISTENING
UPWARD SELLING
STORY TELLING
TOXIC HANDLING
~ LISTENING ~
as a Communication Skill
Type of Listening
Discriminative Listening
Determining significance of
auditory / visual message
Comprehensive Listening
Therapeutic Listening
Helping others
Critical Listening
Evaluating message
The implication
~ TELLING STORIES ~
People tell stories in conversations to keep the
organization from repeating historically bad choices and
to invite the repetition of past successes.
~ SELLING CHANGE
UPWARD ~
New ideas for change can be pushed upward through the
organization from staff and various modes of argument
(intangible media) can be used to gain managerial
attention in support of changes ideas.
ISSUE SELLING
~ TOXIC HANDLERS ~
To describe people whose skills extend to
helping others deal with the
organizational pain that can be
associated with change
5 ways :
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
Listening empathically
Cooling people down
Suggesting solutions
Helping to solve problems
Providing advice
Talking coherently
Aligning your language with the desired
change
Creating a common change language
~ Talking in Stages ~
Initiative conversations bring attention to the need for change, whether reactive or
proactive. This may take the form of:
An assertion
A request
A declaration
CONVERSATION:
For understanding
For perfomance
For closure
~ Talking Coherently ~
ideals
appeals
rules
deals
Images
Based on
Change Agents
Role
Proper Language
1.
Repairperson
Repair, adjust,
correct
2.
Developmental imagery of
change
Trainer or Coach
Nurturing, growing,
getting better
3.
Transitional imagery of
change
Guide or Planner
Moving forward,
leaving the past
behind, moving from
__ to __
4.
Transformational imagery of
change
Visionary
Align language
No Common
Meanings
Common
meanings