Nguyen Thi Kim Yen

Group 4

Cao Thi Yen
Le Thi Ha Vinh
Nguyen Luu Tien
Pham Thi Tuong Vy
Nguyen Thi To Tram
Nguyen Thi Kim Yen
Nguyen Thi Minh Thu
Huynh Thi Thao Uyen
Nguyen Thi Viet Thuan






Nguyen Thi Kim Yen
OUTLINE
1. Introduction Kim Yen
2. Family size Tuong Vy & Minh Thu
3. Children Thao Uyen
4. The view of Happiness Viet Thuan
5. The secret for true happiness Luu Tien
6. Divorce and broken home To Tram
7. Married life Cao Yen



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The rule of the game

One student draws lots a song & sings
Everyone will guess the name of the song
The student guessing rightly will continue to
draw lots and sing.
Unit 15:
FAMILY S LIFE
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Small family
Pham Thi Tuong Vy

For the parents :
- Pay lower living cost
- Improve living standards
- Have more time and energy:
to be more relaxed and enjoy good health
to give proper attention
to love their children
to participate in other fruitful activities like education,
sports
to product more labour force
to enjoy all kinds of family recreation
Advantages
Pham Thi Tuong Vy
Advantages(cont)
For the children :
- Have fulfill the needs for their life
- Get the best support from their parents
- Receive more their parents care
- Have more opportunities to develop some costly
interests like piano
- Get best health care

Pham Thi Tuong Vy
Disadvantages
For the parents
- Too over- indulge or over-protect their children

For the children
- Sometime feel lonely
- Not know how to share their own with other people like sisters
or brothers
- Like to be pampered
- Lack of mutual assistance, help others
- Lazy in household chores
- Lack of the ability to overcome difficulties
- Not respect what they have



Pham Thi Tuong Vy
BIG FAMILY
Nguyen Thi Minh Thu
Advantages
A lively and joyful family ,never get lonely.
Children are not indulged as often as their small family
counterparts.
Children get to share their feelings and experiences with their
elders.
Develop in one discipline and a feeling for the others -
qualities that are desirable for good citizenship
Can learn lot of social skills early.
Teach children lessons of fairness, sharing fortifies their moral
standards, their lifelong conscience.


Nguyen Thi Minh Thu
The children in a large family are likely to grow up as
responsible adults conscious of the needs and desires of
others.
Helping each other with every work.
More sociable.
Can be more independence.
Can share problems and get many advices.
Can learn from other family members and they support and
guide you whenever you have the need.


Nguyen Thi Minh Thu
Disadvantages
Children don't growth properly. They might not receive
enough financial and emotional support .
Share everything.
There is no privacy.
Children become very competitive and everybody wants to be
the best.
Parents tend to lose patience and peace of mind.
Nguyen Thi Minh Thu
CHILDREN
REASONS FOR HAVING CHILDREN
To become a family
To get a happier marriage
To keep an unbreakable bond between husband and wife
To maintain the continuty of a family line
To raise a new generation for the world
To sharpen compassion and empathy
To become a responsible father or mother
To be more mature
To get a comfort and encouragement resource
To get the help when to be elder
REASONS AGAINST HAVING CHILDREN
Birth
Responsibility
High cost
Worry
Free time
Lost freedom
Changed relationships


Failed expectations
State of health
Lost build
Lost job position
Dissonance
Hard work
Laundry

DO YOU AGREE
HAPPINESS MEANS
BEING CONTENT WITH YOURSELF?
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HAPPINESS IS:
Content with
something we have

Family
Physical appearance
Enjoying good things in
the present


Struggle

Struggling for a better life
Improve your self
Proving your self
Realizing meaning and value of
the life.

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BE DISSATISFIED ENOUGH TO IMPROVE
BUT SATISFIED ENOUGH TO BE HAPPY

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What is the
secret for
true
happiness?
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The secret for true happiness

Know how to forgive easily
Feel comfortable and satisfy yourselves
The smile from heart
Achieve ambitious
Surround yourselves with people you love
Have truly love
Love and respect yourselves
Do work that you like
Bring joy to yourselves and others
Sit down with someone and talk about just one pleasure that you had
during the day
Being at peace with yourselves and the world
Know who I am
Lets enjoy happiness now



Nguyen Luu Tien
True happiness is something everyone wants
to have and finding happiness is like
finding yourself. If you don't find true
happiness, you make true happiness.

All in all, I would say that true happiness
is a decision. Happiness is simply a choice
that you make.

In order to truly be happy you need to
decide that you're going to be happy. It's
about making a conscious decision to enjoy
the good things in life and allowing
yourself to let go of the things you have no
control over.


Nguyen Luu Tien
SOCIAL PROBLEMS CAUSED BY
DIVORCE AND BROKEN HOME
SOCIAL PROBLEMS CAUSED BY DIVORCE
AND BROKEN HOME
To the children of divorce:
Earn lower grades and be more likely to drop out of school.
Be rated as less pleasant to be round by their peers and friends, and
report problems with them.
Tend to be lonely, unhappy, anxious and insecure , and to be more
aggressive toward others, particularly boys.
Need psychological help within a given year.
Be less physically healthy than children living with both biological
parents, and be at a greater risk to experience injury, asthma,
headaches, and speech detects.
Be almost twice as likely to attempt suicide than those not coming
from broken home.
Be 10 times more likely to be beaten or murdered.

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To the parent:
The second marriage divorce rate is even higher than that of the first
marriage.
Face the economic strain, especially the custodial mother, after divorce.
Exhibit higher levels of depression and anxiety and more symptoms of
psychological distress.
Exhibit more risk-taking behaviors (e.g. elevated rates of drugs and
alcohol abuse).
Experience more social isolation and have smaller social networks.


Nguyen Thi To Tram
Reasons to get married
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Marriage makes you a better man or women
Married people are happier
Marriage brings financial benefits
Marriage makes you more attractive
Marriage prevents you from dying alone
Marriage gives you a platform to build your bloodline on
Marriage increases your earning power
Marriage makes you live longer
Do you think married life these
days in easier for couples than
it was 50 years ago?

Cao Thi Yen
50 years ago
Too many prejudices
Many arranged marriages
Women are not treated equally
Too many children
Life is difficulty








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These days
Everything is simple

Equality between husband and wife

Trend to live test before marriages

Adulterine

Single after marriages

Divorce easily

Domestic violence tends to increase


Cao Thi Yen
References
http://www.writing.com/main/view_item/item_id/122490
0-Divorce-a-Detrimental-Social-Phenomenon
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/hidden-effects-divorce-
children.html
http://family.jrank.org/pages/413/Divorce.html