CASE ANALYSIS ON VINAYS PREDICAMENT

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AAKANKSHA JAIN ABHISHEK SHRIVASTAV ANKITA AGGARWAL APOORVA AGARWAL ARJUN SINGH ASHISH RAWAT

CASE BACKGROUND
Belongs to Kerala

Masters in commerce
Married against parents wish Living with his in-laws in Delhi Working as an Accountant Dissatisfied with his salary

Not able to adjust with his in-laws and colleagues

Feels lonely in Delhi and misses his Parents

POSITIVE QUALITIES

Short Tempered

NEGATIVE QUALITIES

Due to more negative qualities an imbalance is created in his life. He is unable to maintain his relationships and now is in a big dilemma.

At the crossroads
A new start going back to parents Continue with same life- open apology to MD

VINAYS BEHAVIOUR
AT HOME

Emotional Labor:
Behavior with in-laws One is Expected to behave in a specific manner

Emotional Dissonance
Behavior with parents Conflict between emotions felt and emotions displayed

External Locus of Control

Could not convince his in-laws to allow his wife to work

Low self-esteem and therefore negative affect

Always had the feeling of not earning enough to lead An independent life for himself and his wife

VINAYS BEHAVIOUR
AT WORK

Intelligent and hardworking Disclosing confidential Information Making fun of his boss with colleagues Rationality and emotional Conflict Negative emotions - too sensitive, introvert, unfriendly, rude, rebellious, too serious. Believed easily in what others spoke Aggressive and short tempered People did not take him seriously and made fun of him Could not take advice or criticism positively

REASONS FOR VINAYS BEHAVIOUR

Not able to adjust with his in-laws Since he thinks he is more intelligent and efficient, he deserves more and is thus unhappy with his salary Self respect was hurt because he felt he was not independent and was staying at in-laws place Guilt feeling because he married against his parents wish No recognition at work place Fear of failure in life, insecurities Young, Passionate and Impatient.

VINAYS EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

Self Awareness Self Regulation
Self Motivation Empathy
Not very decisive Not very clear with his motives

No self control Short tempered(loses his temper with Bimal) Type A personality
Disturbed with the situations in his life. Does not deal well with delayed gratification.

Co-workers Parents

Social Skills

Unable to establish good relationships with: Wife(Regular tiffs) Colleagues(Introvert, takes things too seriously) In-laws(Attitude of Indifference)

VINAYS EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

He has more IQ but less EQ

WAYS TO IMPROVE EQ

Self Awareness
He should assess himself properly and learn to accept his mistakes. Spend time for himself introspecting and be more aware of his emotions and needs.

Self Regulation
He should exercise a control over his extreme responses to the situation He should make himself more adaptable to situations.

Self Motivation
He should be optimistic about life and should not feel disturbed from the changing situations life has thrown at him. He should focus at the work on hand.

Social Skills
He should share his feelings with his wife and in-laws who can help him being emotionally stable and reach to a conclusion. Try to maintain good relations with his colleagues at work.

Empathy
He should empathize with his colleagues while interacting with them.

SUGGESTIONS

He He

needs to analyze and apologize to MD. should ask his parents to shift to Delhi and he should start living with them.

THANK YOU !!