HIS BRAIN/ HER BRAIN

Why It Took Moses Forty Years To Find His Way Out Of The Desert

THE BRAIN
Reptilian Mammalian Homo Sapien Corpus Collosum

Wired For Survival Unchanged 50,000 Yrs

DEVELOPMENT
Basic Template Female Affected By Chromosomes XX Girl XY Boy Hormonal Wash 6-8 Week Brain Genitals Brain Orientation

HIS
Hunter Long Range Directional Skills Spatial Sense Single Task (Charles Emerson Winchester) Procreation Things Pain And Empathy

HERS
Nest Protector Communal More Finely Tuned Sensory Skills Multi-Tasker Non-Verbal Communicator People Can Process Input Faster, Integrate

BRAIN 2
MEN
Resting Brain 30% Active Logic Left Brain Dominant (Except Spatial Area) When Speak, Only One Site Active

WOMEN
Resting 90% Active Emotive Multi-Hemisphere, Corpus Collossum Speech And Hearing Centers Active

SPEECH
MEN
Left Brain Frontal 8000 Signals Direct, Literal

WOMEN
Multiple Sites, Bilat 20,000 Signals Indirect Language, Negotiating, Emotive More Facile, Integrated Use As Reward, As Bond 6 Listening Postures Talks And Talks

More Stutterers
Use To Compete Emotionless Listening Dont Feel Need To Express Pleasure In Words

SPEECH 2
60-80% Non-Verbal Signals 20-30% Voice Sounds 7-10% Words Men Only Hear The Words Women Hear And Use 6 Tones Men Hear And Use 4 Tones Silence Is Not Punishment

LYING
Women Lie To Make Others Feel Better Men Lie To Make Selves Look Good Men Dont Lie More, They Just Keep Getting Caught Most Common Lie Self-Deception The Closer A Person Is In Relationship, Harder To Lie

SOCIAL
MEN
Goal Oriented Lone Hunter Problem Solver Talks Achievement Defines Self By Achievements

WOMEN
Community Builder Communal Problem Sharer Talks Relationships Defines Self By Relationships

PROBLEM SOLVING
MEN
Linear Compartmentalize Emotion Divorced Solitary Gives Space Wants Answers Help Means He Failed

WOMEN
Cluster Churns Til Solved Emotion Involved Communal Wants A Hug Wants Support Wants To Help

SIGHT
MEN
Tunnel Vision, Great Distances Can See Zebras On The Horizon Better Spatial Vision Color Cones Xattached (What The Hell Is Mauve?)

WOMEN
Greater Peripheralup To 180 Can Find The Butter In The Fridge Better Night Vision Rarely Get Caught Ogling Men

OTHER SENSES
SMELL
Women Can Smell Whether A Man Has Healthy Immune System Within 3 Sec. Most Sensitive At Ovulation

HEARING
Womens Hearing On At All Times Men Find Sound Direction Better

TOUCH
Women 10X As Sensitive Touch Releases Oxytocin Cuddle Hormone Men Grope, Women Caress

ATTRACTION
MAN
Athletic Body Sensitive Mouth Full Breast 70% Waist-Hip Ratio Round Butt Attractive Eyes Flat Belly Blonde 12-14 Yr Old Meat On The Bone

WOMEN
Athletic Shape Broad Shoulders, Chest Full Hair Sensual Mouth Kind Eyes Strong Nose And Chin Narrow Hips Credit Cards

SEX
MEN
Larger Hypothalamus Orgasm 2 Minutes Need To Spread Seed Relieve Tension Really Can Mean Nothing Visual Stimulation (Lights On)(Playboy Handy) Talk Dirty Before Sex

WOMEN
Larger Amygdala Orgasm 13-30 Minutes Need Monogamy Build Tension Needs Emotional Bond Touch, Sound, (Lights Off) Talk, Listen, Smell, Touch

LOVE and SCIENCE

Each Stage Has Chemical Release, Specific Brain Activity

LUST - Physical, Non-Verbal Attraction INFATUATION - Attempt To Form Bond With

Potential Partner: Associated With Elation

ATTACHMENT - Build Cooperative Bond To

Raise Child

REFERENCE
WHY MEN DONT LISTEN AND WOMEN CANT READ MAPS
Barbara and Allan Pease ISBN# 0-7679-0763-9

WHY MEN DONT HAVE A CLUE AND WOMEN ALWAYS NEED MORE SHOES
Barbara and Allan Pease #ISBN 0-7679-1610-7

QUESTIONS?