Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Exploring
The context for our work Self care and other practices that sustain us What it means to experience domestic violence
Battered women
Victims of violence Survivors
Domestic violence
Intimate partner
violence
Violence against women Family violence
euphemisms.
Consciousness-raising groups: a safe way to share
experiences.
Survivors created safe havens and communities of
support.
These led to the first publicly funded shelters for battered
the heart of this moral vision: the inherent dignity and worth of all members of the human family, the inalienable right to freedom from fear and want, and the equal rights of men and women.
old in 1993 would have witnessed 7,000 murders on television by seven years of age.
That same child would have been exposed to
the pain and other effects of violence are minimized or not shown.
approach
Institutional racism, classism, and homophobia reinforce unequal power in relationships. To end domestic violence, work for social justice and an end to institutional oppression.
A public health approach Focuses on the prevalence, health impact, and societal costs of partner violence. Prevention is the key to responding to these impacts and costs.
incest, and Im not a victim and Im not a client. Im a woman in this struggle.
For Shelter and Beyond
to love others and myself...I continue on my healing journey and take great pride in who I am as an Indian and a lesbian. I advocate for women and children who have the right to be safe.
KJ, Sharing My Story, in Same-Sex Domestic Violence Strategies for Change
Educate men and boys about domestic violence. Form alliances with battered womens organizations. Work to create a future with no violence against women.
The White Ribbon Campaign
The context for our work Some principles to guide our work
Race, class, and culture impact the way people
and clear differences between people that describe distinct groups such as Black, White, and Asian.
Science has shown that these beliefs and assumptions
are incorrect.
These beliefs serve no useful purpose but create false
senses of separation and eventually false notions of superiority and inferiority. This is what racism is.
rise to inequalities that pose the greatest barrier to equitable opportunities and results for people of color in this country. recognize their existence and work consciously to address them in all aspects of our work.
Race Matters: How to Talk about Race, The Annie E. Casey Foundation
Understanding racism
Racism
An ideological system of oppression...based upon unfounded beliefs (prejudices) about racial or ethnic inequality
Prejudice
An unjustifiable...attitude held by an individual or group toward another group and its members...usually based on unsupported generalizations (stereotypes) that deny recognition of individual members of the other group
Privilege
An invisible package of unearned advantages and benefits that people inherit based on their membership in a societys dominant group
Adapted from the Community Builders Tool Kit
Institutional racism
Institutional racism refers to the differential access to the resources, goods, and services of society due to differential educational, financial, recreational, and social opportunities by racial identity. Given that mainstream domestic violence response models were based primarily on the experiences of white, middle class women, services and response systems may not be equally appropriate for, or available to, women, men, and children of color.
The Boston Public Health Commission
Children born into middle class families almost never move beyond that class.
...the shared experiences that develop and evolve according to changing social and political landscapes. It includes race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, class, immigration, location, time, and other axes of identification understood within the historical context of oppression.
Culture Handbook, the Family Violence Prevention Fund
those we serve.
Celebrate the diverse values we bring to the work. Learn about the cultural contexts in which survivors
meet us.
Prevention
How we work to prevent intimate partner violence
Help community members prioritize family violence. Support strategies that do not stigmatize people as abused or abusers. Remember that communities mobilize within their own cultural contexts. Explore ways to hold perpetrators accountable without relying too heavily on either the criminal justice or child welfare systems. Build the capacity of individuals to intervene with family members and friends.
Preventing Family Violence: Community Engagement Makes the Difference Family Violence Prevention Fund
STS [secondary traumatic stress] ... is a normal and universal response to abnormal (violence induced) ... events.
The enduring or negative effects of this response, however, can be prevented from developing into a disorder (STSD).
Janet Yassen, Preventing Secondary Traumatic Stress Disorder, in Compassion Fatigue, Coping with Secondary Traumatic Stress Disorder in Those Who Treat the Traumatized
Contributing factors
The nature of the work Personal history Current life events Fear of the unknown Cumulative exposure
to remind us of our
connections to nature and to people
Boundaries are unspoken limits in relationships between those who provide services and those who receive services. Maintaining boundaries gives those we serve a real sense of safetythey can focus completely on their own needs.
Boundaries remind us that our power to guarantee safety is limitedthe survivor is in charge of her or his life.
Boundaries remind us of the power differential that is inherent in our relationships with survivorsthey help keep the power in balance.
violence is universal.
In some ways the experience of domestic
violence is particular to the communities and cultures in which the violence strikes.
Understanding this is a cornerstone of an
controlling behaviors that one person uses over another to gain power and control.
Domestic violence exists along a continuum that
includes:
Verbal abuse Emotional and psychological abuse Physical abuse Sexual abuse
Types of abuse
Verbal abuse
the victim Threats to harm or leave with the children Threats to relatives or friends
Types of abuse
Emotional, mental, and psychological abuse
Emotional, mental, and psychological abuse include:
Controlling access to friends, school, work, or family Forced isolation and imprisonment Intimidation Using and manipulating a persons fear of physical harm Threats to harm others Threats of suicide
Types of abuse
Physical abuse
Physical abuse includes: inflicting, attempting to inflict, or threats to inflict physical injury, such as:
Slapping Hitting Biting, Kicking Punching Use of objects to
Physical abuse is almost always coupled with verbal and emotional abuse.
Types of abuse
Sexual abuse
Sexual abuse includes any sexual contact without consent or any exploitive or coercive sexual contact
Unwanted fondling Rape Oral or anal sodomy Treating a person in a Inappropriate touch Intercourse Attacks on sexual areas of
the body
Use of objects or weapons
The withholding of
contraceptive methods
abortion
appears to be common.
Teen females sustain much more sexual violence than
teen males.
The more community violence, the more likely there is to
services.
have needs similar to those who survive sexual and domestic violence.
Many have had to endure extreme forms of
ways. They might: Withhold medication, personal care, or medical equipment. Refuse to fix meals or feed the person. Withhold access to communication such as interpreters and TTY.
Dependence on the perpetrator can increase vulnerability.
the abuser.
Accessible shelter can be difficult (or impossible) to locate.
to family or to an employer can result in job loss and the destruction of life-long relationships.
Historic homo/bi/transphobia of law enforcement
can leave GLBT victims of violence believing that the police will not help them to secure safety.
Courts do not necessarily enforce laws uniformly
though gay and lesbian people have some legal rights. Knowing this, many GLBT people hesitate to turn to the legal system for protection from abuse.
color can leave victims of violence doubting whether that system is able or willing to respond to violence perpetrated by one person of color against another.
Black women who are battered may find themselves in an
Immigrants too often assume that the law is not available to protect them from abuse.
Distrust of government and law enforcement
Some immigrants have come to the U.S. following experiences of brutality in their countries of origin. They may be deeply distrustful of government in general and of law enforcement in particular.
Domestic violence agencies/organizations may not have staff or volunteers who are able to connect with a person whose first language is other than English and whose first culture is other than North American.
Abuse is a momentary loss of control. Abuse rarely results in serious injury. Abuse in an intimate relationship is a private matter and others should not interfere.
Leaving is a process
There must be penetration. There must be force or the threat of force. The act must be against the will of the victim.
Sexual assault is one of the ways in which perpetrators abuse
their partnersit is not separate from domestic violence. the perpetrator means that sexual assault is a common component of intimate partner violence.
The fact that the vast majority of sexual assault survivors know
raped.
Once a man is sexually aroused, he is
These myths are part of the complex dynamics contributing to a victim's belief that reporting rape is a fruitless undertaking.
They have fear of being battered again. Economic dependence keeps victims in abusive relationships. Battering is the single major cause of injury to women, more significant that auto accidents, rapes, or muggings. Psychological harms include: Low self-esteem Depression Post traumatic stress syndrome (PTSD)
PTSD is caused by an overwhelming life experience that is not digestiblephysically, emotionally, or spirituallyand that impacts the body, the mind, and the spirit.
palpitations, panic)
Hyper vigilancealways being on edge
Feeling emotionally detached and withdrawn Inability to concentrate
members.
May avoid activities, places, and people
of seeking distractions that enable them to avoid thinking about the traumatic event.
Numbing is a common strategy for avoiding the
FLASHBACKS
Imagine experiencing the most terrifying horror movie youve ever seen playing over and over in your mind. You cant make the images go away..
Gently remind the person that this is a flashback, that the actual event is over, and that she or he has survived. Encourage slow breathing, focusing on the inhalation and the exhalation. (When there is panic, the body takes short, shallow breaths, leading to a decrease in oxygen and heightened anxiety. Increasing the oxygen in our system by slow breathing helps reduce anxiety.) Gently urge the person to return to the present by looking around and taking note of the colors in the room, listening to the sounds that arise and pass away.
Depression
Depression is NOT the result of laziness, weakness, personal failure, or lack of will power.
Symptoms of depression
Prolonged sadness or unexplained crying spells. Loss of energy or persistent fatigue or lethargy. Significant change in sleep patterns (insomnia, sleeping
Suicide
Suicide is neither an illness nor a condition. It is a complex set of behaviors that exists on a continuum, from ideas to actions.
do it?
Do you know when you would do it?
Do you have the means to do it?
Complex PTSD
Victims are often diagnosed as having bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, or other mental illnesses. Addictive substances provide an escape from the pain.
the same harm and display the same symptoms as children who are actually abused.
If untreated, trauma of this degree may thread its way into
adulthood, appearing as emotional instability; the formation of volatile relationships; lagging work productivity; substance abuse; and inconsistent, if not abusive, parenting styles.
The majority of studies of abusive men find that a high
percentage of them come from homes in which there was abuse of a spouse, a child, or both.
A tendency to be easily offended and an explosive temper, with the result that relatively minor disagreements can rapidly escalate
Generally low self-esteem
Batterer intervention:
Is designed to focus on
pattern of behavior that uses violence to achieve control over one person by another.
Focuses ultimately on
Perpetrators as parents
There is a high correlation between
programs.
Understand the callers level of crisis and help to clarify the situation so that the caller can make action decisions.
The ability to support action
Support the callers effort to examine alternatives and settle on one or more action steps.
SafeLink (at Casa Myrna Vazquez) Statewide, toll-free, domestic violence hotline
(877) 785-2020. Confidential response 24/7/365. In English, Spanish, and Portuguese with access to
TTY and translation services through on-call specialists at the ATT Language Line.
Safety planning Direct linkage to emergency shelter Resource linkage to supportive services such as counseling and legal advocacy
It includes a 20-item instrument that uses a weighted scoring system to count yes/no responses of risk factors associated with intimate partner homicide.
The Danger Assessment is available as a free download at http://www.dangerassessment.org
Advocacy
Empowerment
Empowerment is a process that supports a survivors
intrinsic inner awareness, strength, and capacity to gain the skills and knowledge needed to exercise positive power in her or his life.
The empowerment model assumes that every
survivor has personal and community strengths that can be summoned in support of safety and recovery from the effects of domestic violence.
responding to survivors that takes into account the likelihood that those who seek services will have experienced (or will still be struggling with) a depth of intimate partner violence that causes trauma.
Trauma informed services respond to the
Empowerment counseling
Empowerment counseling invests survivors with self-confidence and authority to act by offering support, resources, advocacy, information, and education. The goal ... is to equalize power between a survivor and a counselor thereby enabling shared growth.
Susan Schecter