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Like Freud, she believed in the importance of unconscious motivation, of sexual matters, but she believed that Freud overstressed biology Her view of human beings is more optimistic
was seen more in terms of the social interaction within the family, the conflicts, patterns of dominance etc It involves clinging, jealousy etc like Freud, but for different reasons: the child is negotiating his/her place in the family
Gender Envy
Karen Horney denied the importance of penis envy (girls wishing they had a penis as Freud proposed) --when it occurs, it is more a matter of social comparison. Horney introduces (perhaps somewhat tongue in cheek), the concept of womb envy -males wishing they could give birth to a child. Sees the fact that one gender might envy some feature of the other, as cultural rather than biological.
Karen Horney thought the main source of neurosis lied in the experience of betrayal, of not being loved, and being helpless to bring about that love, and not in the dynamics of the Oedipal conflict.
Basic evil is a lack of genuine warmth and affection for the child. The parent is not so much abusive as indifferent, and unaware of the effect of his/her behavior on the child. This translates into behaviors like unjust reproaches, unpredictable changes between overindulgence and scornful rejection, unfulfilled promises, ridiculing independent thinking, disturbing friendships, spoiling the child's interest in his/her own pursuits.
The first reaction is hostility But, as the child needs the parent, and hostility threatens that bond, hostility is repressed. The repression of basic hostility results in basic anxiety: feeling lonely and helpless in a hostile world.
The "despised real self" says: I am truly a disgraceful creature, a bad person, someone no one can truly love
But I Should
The ideal self says: people would love you if you were kinder, more athletic, more outgoing, more unselfish, a better friend, parent, mate. They would love you if you were more courageous, more disciplined, achieved more This is a neurotic solution to the conflict --as no one can be such a person.
A person can be driven by these demands of the ideal self. As these demands are impossible, the attempts to satisfy the "shoulds" is bound to fail. Thus self hate and feelings of false guilt increase, as well as despair and helplessness.
Hate themselves, not want to really know themselves, want to run from themselves Loose their own creativity as they strive to please Despair, and feel helpless in the face of their own behavior.
The actual self: the person you actually are -regardless of anyone's perceptions The real self: the core of your being, your potential, the need to be who you are truly (the subjective view of the actual self). The despised real self: negative view of the self, based on the lack of love and acceptance by others The ideal self: the perfect self you think you should be, so you can be loved.
I'll be so nice helpful, conforming, selfeffacing solution, moving toward people I'll control things, manipulate, exploit, attack if needed: the expansive solution of moving against people I'll grow my own protective shell, be independent, rebellious, or not look at painful things: the resignation solution: moving away from people
Moving away from people lead to a DETACHED personality with these traits:
Externalization: other people become the center of the neurotic's life. Hence, feeling of inner emptiness. Creation of blind spots: inability to see how different one is from one's ideal image Compartmentalization between various areas of life ex: business, family, church
Rationalization:ex: I did this to make them happy (no--to make them like you) Excessive self-control: don't want to be caught in any emotion, vulnerability Arbitrary rightness: seemingly impulsive decisions (to avoid the pain of real decision making) that are then rationalized. Elusiveness: constant clouding of issues Cynicism: assuming that self-interest is the only motivation in operation, and therefore behaving that way oneself.
Karen and her brother Brendt called their father the "Bible-thrower" because he would literally throw the Bible at his wife on occasion. Karen's father --though being a seacaptain-- had a rigid form of religion and was very strict. Karen's mother was more flexible.
Karen Horney wrote in her diary: "Confirmation was no blessing for me. On the contrary, it was a great piece of hypocrisy, for I professed belief in the teachings of Christ, the doctrine of love, while carrying hatred in my heart (and for my nearest at that [her father]). I felt too weak to follow Christ. Yet I long for the faith, firm as a rock, that makes oneself and others happy."
Family Dynamics
Karen had on-going conflicts with their father -- though she ended up marrying someone that shared some of these same authoritarian qualities. Brendt, her older brother was the preferred one. Karen felt that she had been unwanted. Karen was very attached to Brendt.
Depression
Karen Horney struggled much with depression. Her own struggles and difficulties helped her understand the dynamics of neurosis. Her analysis of neurosis has been recognized as most insightful, and her theories are enjoying a renewal of interest.
Neurotic Needs
Definition: Irrational defenses against anxiety that become a permanent part of personality and that affect behavior Encompass the 4 ways of protecting ourselves against anxiety
10 Neurotic Needs
Affection and approval (gaining affection) A dominant partner (submissive) Power (attaining power) Exploitation (attaining power) Prestige (attaining power) Admiration (attaining power) Achievement or ambition (attaining power) Self-sufficiency (withdrawing) Perfection (withdrawing) Narrow limits to life (withdrawing)
Neurotic Trends
3 categories of behaviors and attitudes toward oneself and others that express a persons needs Neurotic persons are compelled to act based on one of the neurotic trends
Movement toward others (compliant personality) Movement against others (aggressive personality) Movement away from others (detached personality)
Neurotic Trends
Affection and approval (mvmt. toward) A dominant partner (mvmt. toward) Power (mvmt against) Exploitation (mvmt. against) Prestige (mvmt against) Admiration (mvmt. against) Achievement or ambition (mvmt against) Self-sufficiency (mvmt away) Perfection (mvmt away) Narrow limits to life (mvmt away)
Move toward others Intense need for affection and approval Urge to be loved, wanted Manipulate others to achieve goals Think of self as helpless Suppress desires to control, exploit others
Move against people Survival of the fittest See self as superior Driven to succeed to compensate for feelings of insecurity, anxiety
Move away from others Strive to become self-sufficient Desire for privacy Maintain emotional distance
Criticisms of Horney
Theory of personality not as well constructed as Freudian theory Ignores roles of sociology and anthropology in influencing personality Observations too influenced by middle class America
Contributions of Horney
Contribution to feminist psychology Influence on Erikson and Maslow More optimistic view of personality than Freud Accounts for social factors in shaping personality
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