Professional Documents
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ASSOCIATE MINISTER: Michael Peach 5 Burns Way, East Grinstead, West Sussex RH19 1SA Tel: 01342 312406 michaelstevenpeach@gmail.com Michaels day off: Friday
I WAS disappointed not to be able to include any book reviews in this edition of the Felbridge Parish News. Please do let me .know of any books you have read, which you would like to recommend. They dont have to be Christian books. We often listen to audio CDs on long journeys in the car, which weve borrowed from the library. Weve just finished listening to Cosmic by Frank Cottrell Boyce. Its really a childrens story, but I found it both funny and gripping. I would find myself sitting in the car and listening to it when I was by myself, then Id have to rewind it to the place where the boys had been listening to it. Its also actually quite a good parenting guide in an odd sense. It makes you reflect on your own motives and actions as a parent and shows you in a comic way some of the traps that parents can easily fall into. Also by the same author: Framed definitely worth listening to if you are going on holiday to Wales! We listened to it two years ago on our holidays and would often just sit in the car at the end of the journey to continue listening - it was that good! So, I look forward to hearing your recommendations. Im looking forward to the Felbridge Country Show next month. There are lots of competitions to enter, so youd better get started now! See page 9 for details.
Lindsey Saunders
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Irises at Wisley By Malcolm Francis
JUNE: Articles for this Issue to be handed in by SUNDAY 13th May. Publication: 27th May
Please e-mail your articles to parishmagstjohns@gmail.com, put them in the editors pigeon hole in the south porch, or post them to Lindsey Saunders at The Bungalow, Saint Hill Farm, Saint Hill Green, East Grinstead, RH19 4NG.
all that God has called them to do, both locally and further afield, and to provide a relaxed environment to introduce friends and family who have little or no experience of church. Tim Jupp, formerly of Delirious, heads up the BigChurchDayOut team. Our partners include the Wiston Estate, other numerous organizations and local churches and supporters from across the UK and beyond, who share a common desire to serve the church. Individuals, church leaders, whole churches and other Christian communities give their time and expertise to bring the BigChurchDayOut alive. We are not a money making event, and are blessed with donations from generous donors who have invested heavily in the vision of the BigChurchDayOut. That vision sees us reaching out to as many of Gods people as we can, which is why ticket prices are heavily discounted. See www.bigchurchdayout.com/ tickets for prices.
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THE BigChurchDayOut is all about us coming together to celebrate our faith, no matter what our church or background. The BigChurchDayOut is about people and faith, music and worship, activities, families, and just being together. Theres something for everybody, from a nice cup of tea with a Chamber Orchestra, to high energy worship, and some of the best Christian music the world has to offerits all about being church together. Our aim is to encourage and inspire people to press in for
FELBRIDGE WILDLIFE
Gathering Gnats in May
OUR BAT has emerged from the torpor that enabled it to survive the Winter and has flown a couple of sorties over the garden, snatching the small flies that dance at dusk. It is a pipistrelle and came from the direction of The Glebe. The lengthening days have encouraged those easily identifiable butterflies, the orange tip and the holly blue, to Felbridge gardens and hedgerows and also a remarkable bee fly which hovers in front of our grape hyacinths, sucking nectar through its long proboscis. Among the hairy woodrush which infests our lawn, some dog violets have surprisingly appeared, with tiny heart-shaped leaves and blue flowers, paler than those of the scented sweet violet. Indoors, creatures that are apt to attack the fabric of our society are heading outdoors. One member of our home group brought along several larvae of the case-bearing clothes moth. This insect cunningly camouflaged itself with particles of the carpet which was its flavour of 3 the month. We took as our text Matthew Chapter 6 verse 19, Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy. A walk on Ashdown Forest has revealed a new information panel explaining the 'pillow mounds' that are relics of the time when rabbits, introduced for food and fur by the Normans, were strictly the property of the Lord of the Manor and poaching was rigorously discouraged. Seven such warrens are still identifiable and the one appealing most to this punster is headed WARREN PEACE. On Palm Sunday, the waters of Beaver Lakes were covered by silver-grey catkins blown from the bordering pussy willows. These had been boarded by shiny silver water beetles indulging in a frenetic aquatic game of Bumper Cars. This month, the delicate blue damselflies will appear and the larger, faster-flying dragonflies climb out of their nymphal larval skins to take to the air, as they have done for the past 300 million years. Makes me feel quite young.
Peter Bateman.
WHATS HAPPENING
Sunday Services
6th May 10am Family Service, 6pm Evening Service 13th May Holy Communion at 8am, Morning Service at 10am & Evening Service at 6pm 20th May Confirmation Service with Holy Communion at 10am, Raise the Roof at 6pm 27th May Morning Services at 8am & 10am, Evening Service at 6pm
Connections 2-4pm on 14th May in the Church Hall WI 1st May at 1.30pm in the village Hall Watercolour on Wednesdays in the Church Hall at 2pm 1st Felbridge ( St Johns) Brownies Prayer on Wednesday (non-homegroup weeks) at 8pm Afternoon Prayer meeting on at the home of Di Giles at 2.30pm, 4th Wednesday of the month WIGS at the Old Pheasantry, Woodcock Hill at 10.30am (home of June Clark) Girls Bible Study in the Church Hall at 4pm JAFFA Plus in the Church hall on 5th April at 5pm - 7pm 1st Felbridge 1st Felbridge (St Johns) Rainbows (St Johns) Guides
Tuesdays Wednesdays
Thursdays
Fridays
Saturdays
Mens breakfast on 26th May at 5 Burns Way from 8.3010am Felbridge and District Horticultural Society 17th May Plant and produce sale and demonstration of how to plant up your hanging baskets.
Beyond our borders, water scarcity affects more than 2.7 billion people.
In several regions, poverty, drought, and war prevent access to safe water. Mostly women and children spend a good part of their day hauling water. Contaminated drinking water is a daily health threat for millions of children. Water is described as the oil of the future and it is likely that wars will be fought over it. So beyond environmental, health and social factors there is a moral and political dimension. Water provision in much of the world is a matter of justice. The scarcity of water asks questions about our individual and communal stewardship. Professor Arjen Hoekstra created the idea of the water footprint, an indicator of both direct and indirect water use of a consumer or producer. For example, the water
been an invaluable source. However, he speaks of the living water that will become a spring of water welling up to eternal life (John 4:4-26). The prophet Jeremiah refers to God as the spring of living water. Yet, the people have forsaken him and have dug their own broken cisterns that cannot hold water. The effects of such brokenness are all around us. In this season of drought and leakage, we see a call for the living water of God to flow into conversations across boundaries and borders. Gods promise that He will pour water on the thirsty land and streams on the dry ground is reflected in Jesus
encounter with this woman. As their conversation progresses, he describes the true worshipers who will worship the Father in Spirit and in truth. The well of life in Christ affects all aspects of life, restoring the individual and communal cisterns. Beyond the spiritual life, it will address hosepipebans, consumption, global markets, boycotting of products and effective international diplomacy. It causes justice to roll down like a river, righteousness like a never-ending stream. As we follow in His footsteps may we leave an alternative water footprint and see a well of salvation spring up.
Friday night Theology
VILLAGE ISSUES
Felbridge W.I.
SEVERAL of our members went to hear auditions from prospective speakers and were very entertained by them, so we, hopefully, will have a really wide range of interests covered for our next year. Some of our members enjoyed the day taster at Denman and are already planning which course they would like to go on. Our competition was an unusual eggcup and it was amazing the variety of entries that were on display a hard task for the judge who was also the speaker for the afternoon. Mr. Carrington explained how fingerprints can be easily recognised and that even though one criminal had his fingerprints removed by surgery they, in fact, came back after four years as the growth comes from the bone. We heard stories of individual burglars who were well known and whose jail terms were noted so they would know who and when they were likely to re-offend. Our next meeting will be a Resolution debate with a fish and chip lunch and followed by a Beetle Drive. We meet on the first Tuesday of the month in Felbridge Village Hall at l.30pm. For more details ring 322302.
Daphne Ayerst
16th June
Felbridge Village Store new opening times: Mondays-Saturdays 8am to 7:30pm Sundays 8am to 4pm.
IN THE GARDEN
Let no man boast himself that he has got through the perils of winter till at least the 7th May.
Anthony Trollope (Dr. Thorne) I WAS always taught that our gardens are not safe until at least the 17th May, but the 7th would be a start. I get cross every year when I see Garden Centres tempting their customers with tender bedding plants weeks before it is safe to plant them out. Do resist! It is so disheartening to go to all that expense and put in all that hard work, only to lose them all to a sudden frost. What we can be getting on with is planting up summer baskets and containers, which can be moved into shelter if a frost threatens. Permanently planted containers need some TLC now too; theyve survived all winter but are getting hungry now and need top dressing. Just remove the top two or three inches of compost, loosen up the compacted layers beneath and top up with new potting compost. This year I am determined to stake the tall perennials before they need it but then I am determined every year and still I leave it too late! There always seems to something that needs to be done first. 10 Not only our gardens, but our ponds are really coming to life now. We built a new one last autumn possibly the heaviest task I have ever undertaken! Most of the plants rescued from the old pond have made it and even the frogs, which I had feared might desert us, came back, so we have been overrun with tadpoles. Unfortunately, and despite all our best efforts, the blanket weed seems to have also survived the move to new premises. Like all weeds, it is growing faster than anything else! The gardening highlight of the year, Chelsea, is approaching fast; it will be from 22nd 26th May. This year there are Chelsea Fringe events across London from 19th May to 10th June just Google it for details; it sounds like an exciting development, run entirely by volunteers. The Felbridge highlight of the year, the Country Show is also on its way, with plenty of opportunities for everyone to enter the various horticultural competitions, so have a look at the classes you dont have to be an expert for this show. Why not give it a try and join in our fastest growing leisure activity, Grow Your Own?
Rosemary Archer
TELL ME WHY?
The Bible says Judge not so why do Christians go on so much about right and wrong?
EVEN AMONG those outside the church, one very well known snippet of a Bible verse is the instruction Judge not. This is taken by many to mean that Christians should not say anything or anyone is wrong, particularly in the realm of personal relationships and morality. So are Christians who speak about right and wrong disobeying the Bible? As always when thinking about a Bible verse, the context of what is said is very important. Here is what it says: Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. (Matthew 7:1-2 NIV) The phrase Judge not or Do not judge is an instruction against being judgemental. It is warning us that the same standard we use with others will be used against us. This verse is a warning to Christians against a self-righteous or judgemental attitude. However, it is not a command against exercising judgement in the sense of speaking about right and wrong. These verses come in part of Matthews account of Jesus life, in a talk Jesus gave which is often called The Sermon on the Mount. In it Jesus speaks of what is right and wrong in many areas of life: in our relationships with others, in our relationship with God, and even in our inner thoughts and attitudes. Jesus clearly says some things are right and others wrong. Sometimes Christians can come across as judgemental or self-righteous but we should never be like this! Reading this part of Matthews Gospel makes us all realise how far short we fall of living Gods way. Every Christian must recognise that we have frequently failed to live as God would have us do. However, we must still speak of right and wrong, as the Bible says these things really matter. In particular our attitude to Jesus is crucial. A few verses after the ones we have been looking at, Jesus says this: Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it. (Matthew 7:13-14 NIV) Jesus says that there are two paths: one is right and one is wrong. One path leads to eternal death, but the other to life forever through trusting Jesus. You can judge for yourself which is best!
Michael Peach
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Connections is a new series of events for Seniors. We will meet monthly for tea, coffee and cake, a short informal talk from the Bible about things that matter, and lots of different activities and games. Theres even a newspaper corner! Hand massage is available too! Or you can simply spend time sitting and chatting. A great opportunity to meet old friends and make new ones all welcome! Our next meeting will be on
WHATS COOKING.?
Plans for a bigger kitchen
AT THE APCM Andy Brown reported that the church centre project while scaled back was still in progress. Following consultation with the congregation, the feeling was that our urgent need is to improve the toilets and the kitchen. With this in mind the PCC have reviewed where we are and how we might immediately address these issues. Wardens Phil Tadman and Andy Brown reported that they had met on site with the church architect and a builder who thought that the work could be done in the school summer holidays, thus minimising disruption to groups using the hall. The kitchen and toilets can be addressed within the existing footprint of the building though this will reduce the size of the hall. The solution is to extend the hall to the South. The PCC felt the time required for obtaining local authority planning permission plus approval from the DAC would delay the work at the north end, but the rest of the work could hopefully be completed without delay. The first phase of the work will involve a new entrance, kitchen, toilets and remedial work in the crche and vestry (approx. 130,000 if a new roof is included). The PCC felt that we should probably still continue with plans to extend at the north end in a second phase. It is important to keep up the momentum as there have been a lot of delays. The main decisions involve the layout and design of the new kitchen; Lis Woolley will lead a group consisting of Cecilia Bliss and Carole Grainger to decide on the layout of the new kitchen. Richard Poole and others will be consulted for specialist advice. With this specific plan we will go to tender. Now is the time for your suggestions as we paint in the details. Please talk with Lis and her team about how you wish to use the new kitchen. Please talk with the Wardens on any other issues.
Malcolm Francis
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CURRENT ISSUES:CORRUPTION
Fraud, embezzlement, bribery how it affects the poor
WITHIN the past month, you may have read about cricketers Danish Kaneria and Mervyn Westfield being charged with corruption and Hong Kong property owners Raymond and Thomas Kwok being arrested on suspicion of corrupt activities. Corruption appears to be everywhere. The 2011 Corruption Perceptions Index from Transparency Intl. shows that no region in the world is immune to the damages of corruption. The majority of the 183 countries and territories assessed had a score below five on a scale of 0 (highly corrupt) to 10 (very clean.) New Zealand, Denmark and Finland were at the top of the list, while North Korea and Somalia were at the bottom. In Russia, president Dmitry Medvedev is crusading against endemic corruption. Kickbacks from state contracts are estimated to cost the country 2% of its GDP. Despite the financial crisis in Greece, hospitals, tax offices and construction licence bodies still rank top for petty bribery. At public hospitals, patients or relatives are expected to pay from 30 and 20,000 to ensure faster treatment than normal. In his Tearfund report, The Cost of Corruption, Bryan Evans says that in South Korea officials take bribes to help the sons of influential people avoid military service. In Haiti, Finance 19 Ministry inspectors found that 23% of names on the government payroll were bogus. In Nigeria, the family of the former military ruler General Sani Abacha is alleged to have stolen over $5 billion from the treasury. It is usually the poorest people in the world that suffer when aid money is siphoned into private bank accounts, or bribes distort public spending priorities. It is the poor who are most dependent on good public services, for they have few alternatives. Where endemic corruption sparks civil unrest it is the poor that suffer. And when environmental rules are breached, it is societys poorest that are most affected by climate change. Our magazine designer Jon Toogood mentioned to me The Mo Ibrahim Prize, awarded annually to a former African head of state who has demonstrated excellence in leadership to develop their country, lift people out of poverty and pave the way for prosperity. Its to be hoped that this kind of approachacknowledging and rewarding good governancewill help make a difference. The Bible is clear on the matter (Proverbs 17:23): A wicked man accepts a bribe in secret to pervert the course of justice.
Gordon Wilkinson
Celebrating Spring
You are invited to join us for a walk and worship Come and go as you please join us for the whole day or for any part of the walk
Bank Holiday Monday 7 May 2012 10 am 5 pm Starting at St Stephen, South Godstone visiting St George, Crowhurst, St John Blindley Heath, and St Marks Chapel, South Park Prayers in the churches we visit throughout the day (some with royal connections in the Diamond Jubilee year, and ending with tea at the home of HM Lord-Lieutenant of Surrey) Lunch and refreshments provided
This years walk is through rolling countryside with some stiles but no steep hills. For more information and additional booking forms, contact Ann Wright. 11 Parkhurst Road, Horley, Surrey RG6 8EU
Sunday 6th May 2012 at 7pm At the Church of St. John the Evangelist,
High Street, Dormansland, RH7 6RA Tickets: 12.50 available from Mrs Wendy Rose: 01342 870681
Please make cheques payable to Friends of the College of St. Barnabas. Refreshments Available
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BUTCHER
ARTHUR FRY, Lingfield Road, East Grinstead 01342 323225
CHIMNEY SWEEP
MILBORROW CHIMNEY SWEEPS, The Flueologists All Flues and Appliances Swept and Serviced. Pots, Cowls, Caps, Birdguards, Fireplace Repairs, Stacks Repointed 01342 717900
FUNERAL DIRECTORS
R MEDHURST, Vine House, Hartfield Caring family firm; home visits; 24 hour service. Memorials arranged: Golden Charter pre-paid Funeral Plans 01892 770253 01342 315880
KOINONIA COUNSELLING
Marriage problems, bereavement, depression, eating disorders etc Jackie Lake 01342 718948
USEFUL CONTACTS
Churchwardens: Phil Tadman 01342 322825 e-mail: philandrosemary@sky.com Andy Brown 01342 314267 e-mail: brownemail@btinternet.com Treasurer: PCC Secretary: Magazine Editor: Cleaning Rota: Ministry of Flowers: Church Hall Bookings: Village Hall Bookings: Chris Saunders 01342 325662 e-mail: treasurerstjohns@gmail.com Sheila Drury 01342 323865 e-mail: sheila.drury1@hotmail.co.uk Lindsey Saunders 01342 325662 e-mail: parishmagstjohns@gmail.com Carole Grainger 01342 325482
Ann Morley 01342 714645 e-mail: annmorley@aol.com Sally Hobbs 01342 410929 e-mail: hobbsfamilysja@gmail.com Lynda Railton 01342 322205
Rainbows, Brownies & Guides Ann Tucker 01342 317283 e-mail: ann_tucker@btinternet.com
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