Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 29

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 29

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-08-6

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: agc.arad@yahoo.com

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) Those who are willing to try new ways have more and greater chances to achieve more outstanding performances. 2) Those who have the sense of objectivity have contributed a lot in achieving the greater good. 3) Those who have the sense of objectivity must be supported. 4) Those who have the sense of objectivity have more and greater chances to achieve efficient co-developments. 5) Those who have the sense of objectivity become more efficient. 6) People who are full of life and active have greater and more chances to achieve a more beautiful life. 7) People who are full of life and active have more chances to achieve their
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desired future. 8) People with prejudices may not maintain a mature love because of prejudices. 9) People with prejudices may not be able to maintain mature love because of some prejudices. 10) Wrong ideas must not be rewarded. 11) Some people with wrong ideas can not participate in global humanization because of some wrong ideas. 12) Some people with wrong ideas have many failures because of some wrong ideas. 13) Some people with wrong ideas cannot trust the future because of some wrong ideas. 14) Some people with wrong ideas have fewer chances to meet favorable situations because of some wrong ideas. 15) Some people with wrong ideas
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cannot become more credible because of some wrong ideas. 16) People who inspire trust must be rewarded. 17) People who inspire trust have a great capacity to achieve efficient co operations. 18) People who inspire trust have a greater ability to achieve a happy marriage. 19) People who inspire trust have a greater ability to become more performing. 20) People who inspire trust have a greater ability to achieve efficient codevelopments. 21) People with the sense of discipline have a greater ability to achieve a happy marriage. 22) People with the sense of discipline have a greater capacity to become more
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effective. 23) People with the sense of discipline have a greater potential to achieve a happy life. 24) People with the sense of discipline have a greater ability to become more credible. 25) People who are not careful with others are not appreciated. 26) People who are not careful with others have lowered chances to maintain true friendships. 27) People who are not careful with others achieve a beautiful life a lot harder. 28) People who are not careful with others succeed a lot harder. 29) The state of uncertainty stops the making of decisions very much. 30) The state of political uncertainty pushes investors away from the country in which it exists.
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31) Those who solve their problems only through constructive methods have greater chances to succeed in life. 32) Those who solve their problems only through constructive methods must be promoted. 33) Those who solve their problems only through constructive methods have greater chances to achieve efficient codevelopments. 34) Those who solve their problems only through constructive methods have chances to achieve outstanding performances. 35) The state of nervosity stops us from becoming more efficient in life. 36) The state of nervosity makes it harder to maintain efficient codevelopments. 37) The state of nervosity must not be promoted.
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38) The state of nervosity makes it a lot harder to achieve social relations. 39) Not assuring personal freedom is a great abuse. 40) Not assuring personal freedom makes it very hard to achieve efficient global co operations. 41) Assuring personal freedom contributes a lot to global humanization. 42) A positive conception of life helps us achieve more social relations. 43) A positive conception of life helps us achieve more and greater successes. 44) The uncertainty of incomes makes it very hard for our imagination. 45) The uncertainty of incomes shakes our trust in ourselves. 46) Those who discover unique ways to work efficiently for a better life will contribute more to achieving the greater good.
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47) Those who discover unique ways to work efficiently for a better life must be supported. 48) Those who discover unique ways to work efficiently for a better life become more performing. 49) Those who know how to take advantage of the opportunity to create increase their chances of self achievement. 50) Those who know how to take advantage of the opportunity to create have more chances to prevent more failures. 51) Those who know how to take advantage of the opportunity to create have a greater capacity to achieve a happy life. 52) Those who control circumstances have a greater ability to maintain true friendships. 53) Those who control circumstances
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continuously develop their trust in the future. 54) Those who know that discipline is the key to our dreams have the necessary abilities to maintain the desired efficient global co operations. 55) Those who know that discipline is one of the keys of our dreams have a greater ability to achieve more and greater successes. 56) Those who have had better economical and social conditions during their evolution have a greater ability to achieve themselves. 57) Those who have had better economical and social conditions during their evolution achieve the desired efficient co operations. 58) Those who have had better economical and social conditions during their evolution have a greater capacity to
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achieve more and greater successes. 59) Those who have had better economical and social conditions during their evolution usually have trust in the future. 60) Those who have had better economical and social conditions during their evolution mostly have the ability to become more efficient. 61) Those who live their life passionately and not at random have a greater ability to maintain their participation in efficient global co operations. 62) Those who live their life passionately and not at random mostly have a great ability to achieve a happy marriage. 63) Those who have the opportunities to develop contribute more to achieving the greater good.
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64) Those who have the opportunity to develop have more trust in the future. 65) Those who willingly expand their positive experience have more chances to achieve their own happiness. 66) Those who willingly spend their positive experience increase their trust in themselves. 67) The need to succeed increases peoples chances to achieve their desired future. 68) The need to succeed must be supported. 69) The need to succeed of many people gives them the ability to achieve more useful and greater outstanding performances. 70) The majority of those who wonder without a purpose in life do not participate in efficient co-developments. 71) The ability to consciously choose
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makes us contribute more to achieving the greater good. 72) Most of those who have the ability to consciously choose have a great capacity to achieve efficient codevelopments. 73) Most of those who have the ability to choose have a greater contribution to global humanization. 74) A positive enterprising spirit makes each of us more creative. 75) A positive enterprising spirit must be promoted. 76) A positive enterprising spirit creates more possibilities to achieve a happy life. 77) Efficient people in positive actions have more chances to maintain their desired positive social relations. 78) People who are efficient in positive actions have more chances to achieve a happy marriage.
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79) The sense of quality increases our chances to achieve efficient global co operations. 80) The sense of quality helps us a lot to make true friends. 81) The sense of quality increases our needs to achieve a more beautiful life. 82) Constructive thinking makes us have zero tolerance towards abuse. 83) Constructive thinking is a necessity. 84) Constructive thinking helps us a lot to achieve our own happiness. 85) Constructive thinking increases our chances to achieve the desired social relations. 86) Constructive thinking helps us achieve efficient co operations. 87) Constructive thinking must be rewarded. 88) The sense of fairness increases our chances to achieve a mature love.
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89) The sense of fairness increases our credibility. 90) The sense of fairness helps us become more effective. 91) The sense of fairness helps us achieve positive performances. 92) The sense of fairness increases our chances to achieve a more beautiful life. 93) The majority of those who have the ability to react with understanding must be sustained. 94) The majority of those who have the ability to react with understanding have a greater capacity to participate in achieving a positive global future. 95) The majority of those who have the ability to react with understanding have more and greater chances to achieve true friendships. 96) The majority of those who have the ability to react with understanding have
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the necessary capacity to maintain mature love. 97) People who know how to motivate other people have trust in themselves. 98) People who know how to motivate other people have more chances to achieve a mature love. 99) Humanist ideas are a necessity for society. 100) Humanist ideas have a great contribution in achieving the future desired by many people. 101) Humanist ideas help a lot of people succeed in life. 102) Positive thinking helps us a lot to continuously be preventive. 103) Preventive thinking is a necessity. 104) Preventive thinking has a great contribution in achieving the desired future. 105) Using preventive thinking is an
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obligation. 106) The use of preventive thinking is an engine of development in all areas of activity. 107) Using preventive thinking makes us more credible. 108) Using preventive thinking makes us commit fewer mistakes. 109) Preventive thinking must be rewarded. 110) People who respect their collaborators have greater chances to maintain efficient co operations. 111) People who respect their collaborators have a greater ability to maintain a mature love. 112) People who respect their collaborators have greater trust in themselves. 113) People who respect their collaborators have a greater potential to
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maintain a happy marriage. 114) People who respect their collaborators have greater chances to achieve efficient co-developments. 115) Respecting ones collaborator is a necessity. 116) Most of those involved in many projects make fewer mistakes. 117) Participating in projects is a necessity for each of us. 118) The greater good is not achieved by itself but only through our larger participation. 119) The majority of those involved in projects have a greater ability to achieve personal goals. 120) The majority of those involved in more projects have the ability to become more efficient. 121) Controlling peoples emotions is a necessity.
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122) Loving gestures contribute to maintaining happy marriages. 123) Loving gestures contribute to maintaining true loves. 124) Loving gestures contribute to forming true loves. 125) Small attentions create true loves. 126) Small attentions contribute to maintaining marriages. 127) Small attentions contribute to maintaining true loves. 128) Small attentions contribute to maintaining true friendships. 129) Hugs contribute to achieving true loves. 130) Hugs contribute to maintaining true loves. 131) Hugs contribute to maintaining marriages. 132) Hugs contribute to maintaining friendships.
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133) Hugs contribute to achieving happy marriages. 134) Kindness contributes to achieving friendships. 135) Kindness contributes to achieving true loves. 136) Kindness contributes to maintaining happy marriages. 137) Kindness contributes to achieving happy marriages. 138) Kindness contributes to maintaining true loves. 139) Kindness contributes to maintaining true friendships. 140) Love is not maintained by itself but it must be maintained. 141) Friendships are not maintained by themselves but they must be maintained. 142) Marriages are not maintained by themselves but they must be maintained. 143) Co operations are not maintained by
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themselves but they must be maintained. 144) Womens hopes must be recognized. 145) Womens thoughts must be respected. 146) Womens thoughts must be considered. 147) Womens thoughts must be appreciated. 148) Womens hopes must be respected. 149) Womens hopes must be supported. 150) Womens hopes make them optimistic. 151) Womens hopes make them more confident in the future. 152) Womens hopes give them trust in the future. 153) Womens hopes make them more confident in themselves. 154) Womens hopes make them feel alive.
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155) Women must be supported to continuously be emancipated. 156) Women must be encouraged continuously to perfect themselves. 157) We must always be smiling except in situations when it is not normal to smile. 158) We must never argue. 159) We must never lie. 160) A life without arguments is a lot more beautiful. 161) Continuous arguments are bad for our health. 162) Continuous annoyances are bad for our health. 163) Continuous conflicts are bad for our health. 164) Fury must be avoided. 165) People who smile continuously more easily achieve true friendships. 166) Arguments can always be avoided.
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167) Annoyances can always be avoided. 168) Conflicts can be avoided most of the times. 169) A life in harmony is a lot more beautiful. 170) A life in understanding is a lot more beautiful. 171) A life in understanding makes us feel that we are truly alive. 172) A life lived in a marriage makes us feel alive. 173) Successes make us live life more intensely. 174) True friendships make us feel truly alive. 175) True friendships make our lives a lot more beautiful. 176) True friendships bring us many pleasant surprises. 177) People who are perceived as open achieve more easily interpersonal
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relations. 178) Altruistic people more quickly achieve true friendships. 179) Altruistic people are more trustworthy. 180) Affectionate manifestations contribute a lot to achieving a true love. 181) Affectionate manifestations contribute a lot to achieving a long lasting marriage. 182) Affectionate manifestations contribute a lot to maintaining a true love. 183) Affectionate manifestations contribute a lot to maintaining a long lasting marriage. 184) Affectionate manifestations make the lives of lovers a lot more beautiful. 185) Affectionate manifestations make the lives of spouses a lot more beautiful. 186) Affectionate manifestations make the lives of lovers a lot more pleasant.
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187) Affectionate manifestations make the lives of spouses a lot more pleasant. 188) Affectionate manifestations bring lovers closer. 189) Affectionate manifestations bring spouses closer. 190) Affectionate manifestations must be encouraged by lovers. 191) Affectionate manifestations must be appreciated by lovers. 192) Affectionate manifestations must be rewarded by lovers. 193) Affectionate manifestations must be supported by lovers. 194) Affectionate manifestations must be encouraged by spouses. 195) Affectionate manifestations must be appreciated by spouses. 196) Affectionate manifestations must be rewarded by spouses. 197) Affectionate manifestations must be
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supported by spouses. 198) Affectionate manifestations help develop love. 199) Affectionate manifestations contribute to maintaining our health. 200) Lovers must speak of their own emotions. 201) Spouses must talk about their own emotions. 202) Lovers who talk about their own emotions grow closer together. 203) Spouses by talking of their own emotions grow closer to one another. 204) Lovers must encourage each other to speak about their own emotions. 205) Spouses must encourage each other to talk about their own emotions. 206) Lovers must appreciate each other when they talk about their own emotions. 207) Spouses must appreciate each other when they talk about their own emotions.
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208) Lovers must support each other when they talk about their own emotions. 209) Spouses must support each other when they talk about their own emotions. 210) By talking about our own emotions we create a state of psychical comfort. 211) We must always avoid argumentative talks. 212) Spouses must always avoid conflicting talks. 213) Lovers must always avoid argumentative talks. 214) Friends must always avoid argumentative talks. 215) Repeated argumentative talks can be bad for our health. 216) Argumentative talks can be prevented. 217) Spouses can prevent argumentative talks. 218) Lovers can prevent argumentative
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talks. 219) Friends can avoid argumentative talks. 220) Argumentative talks complicate solving problems. 221) Argumentative talks are very bad for marriages. 222) Argumentative talks are very bad for love. 223) Argumentative talks are very bad for a friendship. 224) Argumentative talks harm interhuman relations. 225) Argumentative talks can create new problems. 226) Argumentative talks create psychical discomfort. 227) Loyalty creates psychical comfort. 228) Spouses must avoid the apparition of new problems. 229) Spouses can avoid the apparition of
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new problems. 230) The exteriorization of our discontents contributes a lot to achieving a long lasting marriage. 231) The exteriorization of our discontents contributes a lot to achieving a long lasting love. 232) The exteriorization of our discontents contributes a lot to maintaining a durable marriage. 233) The exteriorization of our discontents contributes a lot to maintaining a durable love. 234) The exteriorization of our discontents contributes a lot to achieving a durable friendship. 235) The exteriorization of our discontents contributes a lot to maintaining a long lasting love. 236) The exteriorization of our discontents contributes a lot to
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maintaining our health. 237) The exteriorization of our discontents in inter-human relations contributes to maintaining those relations. 238) The exteriorization of our discontents is the first step towards solving them. 239) Spouses must understand each other. 240) Lovers must understand each other. 241) Friends must understand each other. 242) Those who cooperate must understand each other. 243) Spouses, even if they have different opinions, must understand each other. 244) Lovers, even if they have different opinions, must understand each other. 245) Friends, even if they have different opinions, must understand each other. 246) Those who cooperate, even if they have different opinions, must understand
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each other. 247) People, even if they have different opinions, must understand each other. 248) It is normal that spouses are sometimes in a bad mood. 249) It is normal that friends are sometimes in a bad mood. 250) It is normal that lovers are sometimes in a bad mood. 251) It is normal that people are sometimes in a bad mood. 252) Spouses must sense one another. 253) Friends must sense one another. 254) Lovers must sense each other. 255) When spouses sense each other they have more chances to achieve a durable marriage. 256) When lovers sense each other they have more chances to achieve a true love. 257) When friends sense each other they have more chances to achieve a true
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friendship. 258) When people sense each other they have more chances to get along better. 259) When spouses sense each other they have more chances to understand one another. 260) When lovers sense each other they have more chances to understand one another. 261) When friends sense each other they have more chances to understand each other. 262) When friends sense each other they have more chances to maintain their true friendship. 263) When lovers sense each other they have more chances to maintain their true love. 264) When spouses sense each other they have more chances to maintain their happy marriage.
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265) When people sense each other they have more chances to achieve harmonious relations. 266) When lovers sense each other they have more chances to achieve harmonious relations. 267) When spouses sense each other they have more chances to achieve harmonious relations. 268) When friends sense each other they have more chances to achieve harmonious relations. 269) When one of the spouses is upset by the others behavior he or she must tell the other spouse. 270) Spouses must reveal their feelings mutually. 271) When spouses reveal their feelings mutually they contributes a lot to maintaining a happy marriage. 272) When lovers reveal their feelings
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mutually they contribute a lot to maintaining true love. 273) When friends reveal their feelings mutually they contribute a lot to maintaining a true friendship. 274) When people reveal their feelings mutually they contribute a lot to maintaining inter-human relations. 275) Spouses must know each others needs. 276) Lovers must know each others needs. 277) Friends must know each others needs. 278) When spouses know each others needs they contribute a lot to maintaining the marriage. 279) When lovers know each others needs they contribute a lot to maintaining true love. 280) Love gestures must be appreciated
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by spouses. 281) Lovers must reward one anothers love gestures. 282) Spouses must appreciate one anothers love gestures. 283) Spouses must encourage one anothers love gestures. 284) Spouses must support one anothers love gestures. 285) Love gestures must be rewarded. 286) Love gestures must be supported. 287) Love gestures must be encouraged. 288) Love gestures must be appreciated. 289) Lovers must reward each others love gestures. 290) Lovers must appreciate each others love gestures. 291) Lovers must encourage each others love gestures. 292) Lovers must support each others love gestures.
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293) Lovers must reward each others hugs with hugs. 294) Lovers must reward each others kisses with kisses. 295) Lovers must reward each others tenderness with tenderness.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: agc.arad@yahoo.com www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-08-6

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