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Track 1 Gentlemen and womanizers from around the world, my name is Ranko Magami, and this is Attract and Date, where we will teach you how to get the most beautiful girls with ease, and live life to its fullest, fully confident without any fear. You will learn our philosophy of enjoying hot woman, which has nothing to do with being good-looking, well-built or rich. After going through this course you will finally be able to find a beautiful girlfriend, and lots of them if you choose. The power of choice with woman will be in your hands, so you can choose life full of beauties like I did. At attractanddate.com we have taught many men with unprecedented great success in the art of attracting and dating hot woman, and we are the first of our kind. We also help our students achieve success and respect in all aspects of life. For the next few hours I will be your coach leading you to your success with woman, and because of that, to success in general. A life in which he can choose gorgeous woman is every mans biggest fantasy, and once that is taken care of, all things begin to fit into place easily. To begin with first, I will tell you a bit about my views of the world and how we are by situation forced to mate with unattractive woman, and later I will teach you the actual techniques that youll be using. To understand the techniques it is crucial to get my point of view, cause a good mindset and techniques combined make a guy who will get laid. They both must be present. My point of view is totally different from Average Joes point of view, and that is why I get all the hotties and stunning woman, and they get just a night with their hand. On our workshops students have witnessed us attract and seduce beauties at will, and later theyve managed to do the same, and so will you, if we ever meet. But now, lets explore why things are the way they are and how you will change them. Track 2 We all live in this huge society. Society is getting more and more the same wherever you go, whatever country you visit. We are born, go to school, learn all kinds of skills, get Ph.D.s, become chief executive officers, and champion athletes. We spend most of our lives working and trying to get more value for ourselves, and in the process of doing that we benefit the whole society and nation, but more often than not neglect our own needs and desires. Let me ask you something: on the day you die, will you ask yourself Why didnt I work more? or will you ask yourself Why didnt I enjoy more? But then it will be too late, so you better start making some changes right now. What makes us work so hard and spend all our energy on things we dont genuinely enjoy? Why do we do that? Cause society is structured in a way that work equals sex. Remember when you have nice clothes, how suddenly you give yourself approval to meet woman, but when you look bad you feel shitty and cant meet no-one. Thats the sorry truth for men. The only way for them to get what they naturally desire is to work like madmen. By doing that they move the whole society in which they live, yes the whole society,

forward. So only after big accomplishments they will reward themselves with confidence and inner strength to actually get what they desire deep inside: a beautiful woman. A good example of that is countless young people fighting for success everywhere you look, searching for their dream. Only a few will ever make it to the top, and the rest will be happy if they still have a job. And people cannot be controlled from the outside, they must be controlled from the inside, and suddenly a shy guy whose mind sabotaged himself for years, when he becomes rich, or successful, or famous, like for example a rockstar, he will give himself permission to go around and be confident. To stand proud and be respected by everybody, so it leads us to a conclusion: by giving to society and benefiting the whole, your mind allows you to mix your genes with the genes of a gorgeous girl. After going through Attract and Date, you will break that rule with ease. Lets now fly above the race, and leave the competition breathing each others dust. Track 3 When a beautys eyes shine for you, youll happily look back to his moment when you discovered Attract and Date. The most important source of all problems with woman is guess what? The childhood. I will now describe a typical moment from my childhood, which each of us has experienced many times. Events like that and similar have happened to everyone of us countless times, and they can turn people into wimps, but I was lucky to always have guidance of my older wise buddies, and defeat any fear. So Ill start with one funny occasion that probably happened to all of you. Maybe not the same, but similar. It is very important to go back in time with me now, cause negative behavior patterns grip us hard from early age, and try to turn us into working machines, and to cut us pleasure. I cant remember how old I was. I was in kindergarten and about 6 years old. We were all running around breaking things, competing who will make a bigger robot or a bigger castle. We have formed gangs and were shooting plastic pistols and were playing total war. And then I saw this beautiful girl. I can still remember her like it was yesterday: she had blue round eyes and long, straight shiny black hair. She walked proud, sensing that shes having all the attention. Hot girls start getting attention from everyone when they are just little kids. Each day after I got back home my mom asked me: Did you get to know some sweet girl? You know the tone of voice that is meant to make fun of you just a little bit? Did you get to know some sweet girl? I always said no, cause all the other girls were ugly, one word ugly. Little boys are not stupid, so that day I said sincerely, like every little boy is sincere, There is this new girl, the most beautiful in kindergarten, with gorgeous black hair, and big shiny eyes. Tall and slim. Her name is Ivana G. And my friend, guess what happened? Parents are supposed to support their boy to become a real man and spread their genetic material, but you know what happened to me? They laughed at me, whole day. Not only did they laughed at me once, but each time a guest came to our house, they told that super-normal story like it was the funniest thing in the world, and guests laughed at me and teased me all evening. But that was nothing. The worst came on those boring family reunions on holidays where they talked about that event for years, yes years. Fortunately for me, and for all the beauties that I will please when I get older, they didnt manage to depress me at all. They seemed like freaks to me, so when my tennis coach of that time asked me, Is there some hot chick in kindergarten? I told him the same: Yes, there is one. She is beautiful girl with nice long hair and big eyes. I like her.

Track 4 Her name is Ivana G. My tennis coach and I talked, and he got to know how freaks are surrounding me everywhere. The coach knew my family and supposed they were a little screwed up, and their friends were screwed up. One of those guests I can clearly remember today. He was a man in his forties, drinking excessive amounts of alcohol, and always talking the loudest and making jokes. He proclaimed himself expert on getting laid, only to reveal after a few drinks that his wife nickname is the Jaws. They were frequent visitors in our house, and I leave to your imagination to guess how the Jaws looked like. One word: he was frustrated cause then, and even today, he didnt get any from his wife, the Jaws. But interesting phenomenon is that frustrated people will try to put everyone else down, especially ones that can not defend themselves: kids. So that frustrated guy used every occasion to ridicule me until I was older, and he saw me coming home with magnificent girls. Take a look around you, and if you see a group of friends, there will always be one guy who likes to attract attention to himself excessively. He is overcompensating for a failed sexual life, or his wifes fat ass. Now lets get back to my coach. He was just an old guy, but he gave me advice that was very good to hear back then, and maybe helped me become what I am now. Coach told me something like Never care what those losers who laugh at you are thinking. If they knew anything, they would be with hot girls, and wouldnt have time to laugh at you. Track 5 It only shows their frustration. Then he proceeded: Go to the girl and give her a compliment that she has a nice interesting dress, and ask her to play cards with you. I did just that the following day, and when I told my family about it they all laughed like mad, but then I knew that frustrated people, which have no better business, will laugh at any sign of achieving something good. Pathetic, dont they have a life of their own? But luckily, coach was a great guy, and instead of playing tennis he advised me once again. Im absolutely sure it was something great, but I cant remember now of course. Anyway, when I came back to kindergarten, to defeat society customs, the girl had just moved to Canada, so Ill never know could I have had her. Just joking you. Maybe we meet one day. Those people closest to you , that will influence you most, and that will make you a person that unconsciously try to diminish your chances of having woman: your parents, brothers, sisters, your best friend, I will call society zombies. Sad, but true. Consciously, they wish you best in life, and give you love, and will try to make things, or will try to influence you to make a decision what they assume best for you, but what they dont understand, is that they have been programmed by society to make themselves and you servants of the society. They are under influence of what I call: society program, and if they cannot help themselves, how will they guide you? So instead of satisfying their natural desire, like having sex with hot woman, they will only work like mad, accomplish great stuff, scale new peaks, and only if they are successful, they will give themselves permission to go out and get a girlfriend. Each man must move the society forward with his accomplishments, and influence all others to do so. The whole is more important than the one. For a better understanding on why things are the way they are, here is an explanation: long before in the Stone Age, all societies were consisting of cavemen, savage people. Physical power was the only way to mate with a woman, and the stronger you were, the more woman you could have, and the more competitors you could defeat. Humans were like animals, never thinking what will

happen tomorrow, and only looking to get fed and mate with an attractive member of the opposite sex. There were countless tribes like that, and neither one prevailed. Every tribe was just too weak to conquer its neighbor, and that situation lasted for hundreds of thousands of years. One member of the society didnt have a woman, so he turned his whole male brain on. His thinking was like this: I have to get a woman, damn it! But Im worthless, so I have to do something that will make me the best member in the cave. Oh, look at that hot cavewoman in the leather mini! I must have something, or do something spectacular so she would jump me. So after many nights spent thinking and analyzing our caveman invented bow and arrow. He devoted his whole life to it, but made a great contribution to the tribe. Evolutionarily, the tribe with such members advanced, so that is why his mind suddenly gave him permission to go to that cavewoman with leather mini. So instead of mating with cavewomans, they started telling themselves: First I must invent bow and arrow, and master the skill of pottery, and then I will have enough value in my own eyes so I can have a woman. Track 6 When they saw one member shooting arrows, the buddies from his tribe had to master it to, to keep the pace of advancement, and before you know it they invented fire, and who knows what. Our tribe became totally superior to all others, and when they launched an attack they won with ease, and took all the woman. When other tribes witnessed what happened, they realized that in order not to get extinct they must now learn all the technological achievements of the first tribe. There was alert in on the tribes. And how will you make your boys stay at home and invent new weapons, when cavewoman are parading in leather minis? Well, whats the most efficient way? By teaching them, from father to son, that the only way to get sex is by moving the society forward. Yes, move it forward. And that is why little caveman felt bad if they didnt contribute and felt confident and powerful when they contribute. Lets fast forward a bit to 15th century Medieval Europe. After a million years every man on Earth was more or less conditioned that if they contribute enough to society they will be able to spread their genes. So in 15th century Europe they already had iron cannons, big complicated ships, and one man, Columbus, decided that he will move the society forward, and benefiting his nation Spain the most, by proving that the world is round, finding new ship-routes. So he managed to find best sailors, and best ships, and to go into courageous expedition. He and his crew endured huge suffering, and were happy to end up alive. But tell me something: would Columbus discover America if he had only one beautiful woman willing to please him? ~I don't agree with this part~ Track 7 Would he bother to risk his own life to go where no man has been before, if he could have a super lovelife? In one popular show they make zombies out of TV-viewers when they repeat: Go where no man has gone before. How come you never hear on TV: Go get the girl. I guess that wouldnt produce a society of working men. And then the Europeans conquered the New World. By taking a look at history, it can be seen that society where work equals sex equation prevails most is the society which prevails. The Europeans had metal weapons, almost imperioble[???] armor, and huge cannons, so they were unstoppable to the Natives, even though the Natives outnumbered them a thousand to one. Every culture has the work equals sex equation of course, so when two societies clash, the only way for the less advanced to survive is to make the work equals

sex stronger, and more present. The more male members with analytical skills sit at their desk, the greater the power of society. So as the whole world became connected everyone had the dilemma: either adapt or be in a big disadvantage. In those Renaissance, the advantage of men working in order to get sex are clear. The advantages for the society, but not for the man himelf. It is like a self-fulfilling prophecy, and as the humankind evolves, the society program is stronger and stronger. I think that is the main reason for making men depressed and unhappy. Let me tell you one more event from my childhood. Everyone has had countless events like that. But we usually take them for granted. We seldom stop to think about them, and assume its just the way things are. After we analyze some of them and see the presence of society program well be able to identify the real cause of problems with woman. Then we can proceed to fixing the problem. One thing I remember from grade school is us boys playing with action figures of space robots, or even better, do you remember that fiction war veteran that can defeat whole army himself? What are those? What is their purpose? Why do we have toys, cartoons, computer games that all feature unreal heroes? Those are the role-models that are fed into a little boys head each day, every day, and after some time, boys can feel good only if they can be just a little bit like their role-model. Track 8 They start dreaming of becoming a superhero. They want to be like their role-model, and guess what happens? Its a perfect example of society program. After years of brainwashing its no wonder a lot of guys consider running head-on into a hundred ton communist tank more natural than stopping and seducing hotties on the street. Guess which one I prefer? In grade school, boys play war-games and sports so they get accustomed to all the pain and suffering so one day, they will be able to take care of society, and protect it if a danger would arise. They also do crazy stunts in order to hopefully somehow attract attention to themselves, so a hottie would give them a glance, or a smile. At the same time, girls are near playing feminine games that will prepare them for their role in the society. Even though boys are secretly admiring the little cuties, there is no way somebody would ever go to them. Boys would rather spend their time, performing like clowns, hoping to impress the girls. Society program makes them work in order to get the girl. In the next example I will describe how it actually was when I was young, but its the same everywhere. When I was a kid there was one TV-series starring about 12 actors. Track 9 They were convicted prisoners chosen to fight in World War II for the Allies, and if they survive their freedom will be granted. The only thing they had to do of course, is accomplish impossible tasks. Me and my boys from class copy that all the time and whatever was on TV in that episode we would act it out again and again, and we always competed who will be our leader of the Heroic Team. Only later will I realize that boys play such games in order to attract beautiful girls that are near watching and in order to make themselves ready for the protector role they will have when they get older. Today protector means provider who pays the bills. They will be needed for policemen, firemen, soldiers, doctors, managers, programmers that will sacrifice themselves, their time and energy, for progress of the whole. Society will often fool you into thinking that you actually work for yourself. Yeah right. If a guy works for himself then hes getting sex for himself. Ill repeat that: if a guy works for himself then hes

getting sex for himself. Only later did I realize, boys play such games for the reason of attracting girls that were near watching. The game must prepare future men to exhaust themselves and suffer if they want to give themselves permission to have an attractive woman. Luckily for me, Ive managed to escape the grip of society, and so will you. One day I killed hundreds of enemy soldiers, and have been shot a dozen times, I found out I can not relax for special operations, and go enjoy girls company. So we were in a middle of conquering enemys greatest bunker when I saw this young blond hottie. So I abandoned my buddies in the battle and went to her. I realized that if I want to make contact with a hottie I could as well change my physical position, and instead of being in the heat of battle, go to her. Now, that seems pretty obvious and natural to me, but when I was a kid, abandoning the boys during a war-game, in order to go talk with a girl, was literally total betrayal. Army court would sentence you to death, and it was a betrayal, a betrayal of society zombies. My buddies were insulted of course, but later I will learn even more that usually in order to do the right thing for yourself, you will have to make some people unhappy and ruin their expectations. Track 10 You cannot please all. First be good to yourself, and that means, getting a woman for yourself. It is a huge difference being a mamas boy, like one of those weirdos who play girl-games with girls and being a normal boy who leaves his duties and suddenly approaches the most beautiful girl in sight. It was very pleasurable time talking with her. I can still remember. Just like we judge from early age a womans beauty, they can judge who is Mr. Right. When I started flirting and kissing with girls, interesting things happened. I was showing disrespect for all society values, like Wait until the school is over. Play soccer instead of being with girls that are near anyway, or suffer pain and strain to make yourself feel good about yourself. The teacher thought there must be something wrong with me. People under heavy influence under society program, whose job is preaching it to others, I will call society agents. The teacher is a classic example of society agent. What is her mission? Besides giving you knowledge, she must turn you into a good member of society. That makes her an agent. She must turn you into the one who will not be able to have woman unless hes successful in life. She will tolerate what society wants. What does it want? She will tolerate those feminist guys, who actually want to play with cute dolls. She will also tolerate normal boys who are playing girl-games just to be near girls. That is better than doing nothing, and much better than sincerely wanting to play with dolls. But pretending to have interest in [BAD SOUND: jump-rope] just to be with woman is still excusing yourself for your desires. Both of them dont have bad intentions, and they will serve the society well, but she must destroy guys like me. It is her job to do that. Thats what shes paid to do. So at the first signs that one day I may not drive myself to become famous, to have money, or big muscles in order to get the woman, at the first sign of that, what will she do? Guess what happened. The teacher called my parents on the phone to come over. Instead of telling them how great I am at least I thought so she called them over to discuss me not fitting in. Their conclusion was and of course they are all society zombies that I should play more sports, in order to become a better man. A classic conclusion. You are a better man, the more you work hard. Something like no pain, no gain. And that I should go camping with boy scouts in the swamp. Hah. Track 11

Me camping in the swamp? Ill only go if I need to teach them a lesson. Thats what I told them. When I was young I played more than enough sports. I played great tennis. I was already competing in skiing, and spear-feart [???]. I caught octopus and little fish. What was I supposed to learn in boy scouts? To be modest and give respect? To tidy up my bed, to clean my uniform, and to prepare our unit for an outside attack!? Today I translate that into become a good worker and provider. Let me tell you just two events that happened to me last year on the ski slope, and then I will continue with my childhood and in 10 minutes give you your first exercise. I competed in skiing for fun, but never had any significant results, and now as a tourist, usually Im the fastest on the slope. So one day, as I was enjoying the new snow, I meet the guys from the national team. I know some of the guys, or Ive seen them before somewhere. They were all pumped up and ready to rice down on the icy, terrifying slope. They stop me and say, Hello Ranko. I bet we can race down a minute faster than you can any time. And I say, Really? In all these years, Ive never met a beauty that could escape me. Have a nice day excusers! Or another time, we were going off-pist on 3,000 meters. It was the beautiful day, but a storm was approaching, and I meet a guy Ive seen before climbing uphill, exhausted. Ranko Hey, come down with us! We are about to get frozen! Do you want your remains to be studied by future generations? Excuser! Oh, its you Ranko, you dont understand this, Im training for Everest. I must not stop to talk with you! It would ruin my whole training plan. The spring glacier storm is high winds with -30 degrees Celsius and zero visibility. He survived, cause those guys are dressed like astronauts, but did he get laid? I doubt so. Lets leave the beautiful powder snow and get back to my teacher calling my parents because of me expressing concrete interest in girls. Now I see they wanted to make me run into a tank, and not after woman. I dont blame them. The society program is stronger than their conscious mind. When those society agents couldnt figure out the problem, teacher combined powers with school psychologist and they called my tennis coach for a discussion. The psychologist was one mean, smart-ass chick. She was young and ambitious, and had the hot body and a bitchy, tanning-salon, mean face. Track 12 She was an artificial blonde. She often visit our class and gave us boring speeches of how we should be humble and polite and serve others, and how we are supposed to fit in, and know our place, and work hard all day. Translated: You can get a girl that matches your income, and if you are not satisfied, work more. But the more time you waste on serving often ridiculous wishes of others, the less you will get laid. It was her first working year in school. Once I saw her husband. He was a total wimp, satisfying her every wish. He probably got beaten up by her every day. So I concluded, that an excuser husband must be the reason for her frustration. The two society agents called my tennis coach, who showed up in dirty sneakers and old outfit with holes. Not to mention that he was unshaved and unshowered. They took my coach inside the cabinet. It was him against two society agents and feminists. It was long ago and I was young, so I have no clue what happened behind closed doors, but I remember my coach saying that hell kick their ass. A year later at the tennis court we say there is some action in the trailer, and then he came out with a woman, and it was guess who? The young psychologist. She smiled happily, and there were no traces of frustration on her face any more. She looked at least five years younger. I guess coach pumbed [???] the society crap out of her. He has success with woman. It took me some time until I beat him, however, he can still beat me in tennis, I guess. You see, society influence is so

powerful and overwhelming that its impossible to defeat it yourself alone. The teacher never never interrupted me. She was neutralized. Track 13 Most of the time you can neutralize a society agent by just ignoring him, or laughing at him if you want. Cause when you grow up they cannot physically control you, they can just influence your mind. But shes just one society agent eliminated, and there are countless others lurking in the shadows to destroy you. I prefer to begin with the childhood, cause that is when the program starts. That is when society program inputs its tentacles to control you for the rest of your life. Behavior patterns that are bad for us are installed in our minds. They can mask themselves inside the mind, so deep and stealthy that people usually dont recognize its there. And its not their fault. Nobody can stand up for himself and resist when hes a child. The stronger the program is that makes men work in order to get sex, the stronger the nation will become, and prevail in a battle with any other nation. Acknowledging and recognizing its existence is the first step on your journey. Ive designed exercises for you that you will follow. Lets see one example of society program masking itself in mind and controlling a mans behavior. Later in life, when a boy becomes teenager, extreme fear will be a way of blocking him to get girls, and the fear gets bigger and bigger as the man ages, until they are totally without woman in their lives. If you manage to achieve something society approves, like get stylish sunglasses, new suit, and a trendy watch, suddenly, you will block yourself less. How can that be? Its so illogical. Of course its illogical, cause society program has nothing to do with logic, cause then it will be easy to figure it out. It controls a man emotionally. Or imagine you are walking in the middle of city, in sneakers and cheap old clothes, and you meet a girl you know, beautiful and in brand new clothes. Track 14 It takes a good amount of freedom, from those negative patterns installed in our mind during childhood, to not to feel like a failure, and even going to seducing her, there and then. If a shy, timid guy achieves something, like becoming a celebrity, his mind will stop blocking him, and he will be free to choose a girl. Illogical, but good for the society and the nation. Think about it. A guy can train some sport a few hours a day and become a champion. Why do they do that? Would all sportsmen be training so hard if they could have woman? In the extreme case, somebody becomes chief executive officer, or invents a revolutionary computer program, and changes the world, but still works like mad each day, unable to have a girlfriend or a wife. He still feels inadequate about himself, which is great for the benefit of the whole. If you want to get yourself a fabulous woman, work on improving your life in all aspects, but only until the law of diminishing returns hits you, and that always happens. Then its time to take off with Attract and Date, and fly above the race. We all had to go through the education system. Even if it was long ago, it doesnt matter. It is never too late for improvement. Better to win now, than never! The education system is probably the biggest single society zombie producer. You come in normal, but its extremely hard to leave normal. The knowledge that you receive in school is good for you, but that is not the only thing they feed into our heads. The other thing they teach you is how to be a good, humble society member, who will not respect himself, and who will not think he is good-looking or just not good enough for attractive woman. They will try to break your spirit at all costs.

Lets explore how they force you to be with woman you dont really like. Very rarely, somebody escapes that grip. Do you remember when you started going to parties, and girls and boys danced with each other for the first time? I already ignored all social courtesy, and talked only with the girl I fancied, and ate the best food, and did what I wanted to do. However, that year I ended up in class full of ugly and conceited girls. They are the worst. Me and my buddies never went to parties without hot girls. Track 15 So I just ignored the girls from my class, cause I had better business to do. Life is short, my friend, and you know what? Cause they were ugly, thats why. I was perfectly aware of the fact that there were only dozen attractive girls in school, and not all of them I fancied as a person, so that narrowed my options. I knew, as I know today, that most of men will end up with average woman, but Im not most of men! I didnt care for the statistics. Why would I have to fit in? I was not born for that! I could never settle for an average, dull girl. I believe that the same desire is in every man, but the most of them spend their lives persuading themselves that they actually are happy with an average, dull girlfriend. Our new teacher she was fat like barrel, and proud of it called us all boys for a big talk. She explained how the girls are nice, and how we should devote our time and energy to them. She said we should hang out with them, and start to make parties together, and all kinds of other social events. There wasnt any purpose explaining the truth to her. After teacher said her emotional speech, about respect or whatever, I was shocked to find my buddies agreeing. To my surprise, one by one, my buddies started admitting how they had mistaken, and how they had been rude and impolite, and how they will change, and you know what? They sincerely meant it. They started organizing parties, and class trips as away to get to know each other and hang out, and invited those very unattractive, lazy girls that never left the couch, and that was a total disaster. The society assimilated my buddies, but that was just the beginning. They started thinking, how lazy fatties, can actually be a good company, and interesting as person, and the unconscious message they have sent to themselves is that they are not worth of attractive girls. They started thinking they are worthless, and could get a good girl, only if they had something to offer. Before that, we had the company of really good girls hanging out with us. They were frustrated to find my buddies investing a lot of efforts elsewhere, and very quick found new guys that considered themselves worthy enough. Why woman get a fat ass? I will now solve the biggest riddle of the Western world. Why woman get a fat ass? Nobel Prize, here I come! Track 16 Its cause men are excusers. A man must have a successful career to be somebody. A woman is not under pressure, cause the system cares for her, and most important, the excusers settle with a woman that does not care for herself. So a woman starts reasoning, This excuser will be my slave, no matter my ass-size. I can freely eat all the donuts. Im fat, and Im proud of it! So many fat woman and men are that way, cause of their laziness. Well, there can be no excuse for your woman or for you, to work on yourself and be the best you can be. Maybe youll never look like Tarzan, or Jane, whatever you do, but even one pound lost is a huge victory, and the soul of a person, either man or woman, should never be judged by what he is, cause we are all born with certain advantages and disadvantages, but what he achieves with what was given to him. And my friends started considering dull woman that didnt care for themselves a good

choice. Cause of them I visit a few of those parties. Imagine this: sitting the whole evening at a party, hoping that no girl will come to talk to you. You really have to bite the bullet for even coming here. Of course, with time, my buddies found out that some alcoholic encouragement is enough to start seeing cute girls everywhere. It is amazing to be at a party and you cannot see any girl that you would even want to talk to. Track 17 Soon I realized, that there is no hope for salvation, of my friends, cause back then I still didnt have enough power to fight for myself and for a dozen buddies. Later I will know that they have fallen victims of society program, and now return to pursuit of joy in life. Now they are married. I will talk about their horror stories later on. Later a few of them wanted to listen and I managed to save them. You, with your new skills, should consider helping your friends. They are not to be blamed that they do not have the philosophy you do, cause negative behavior patterns are so powerful it is even a blessing to be aware of their existence. Take care of your friends. There are too few of them. So back then I remained alone in my pursuit, which is a good and motivating thing, cause then you do much more. Me against the wrong stuff they tried to install in your mind. And when you do what you want, and dont let nobody, even your mind sabotage you, thats life, my friend. The moment has come for me to give you your very first mission. This mission is for you to feel the presence of a blocker. To feel its power, which will later grow exponentially. Please do all the missions, cause that is the only way to success. The is the Attract & Date eye-contact mission. Find a narrow path, or a hall, where a lot of people will pass you by, but not too much. A nice way in a park will also do, if people pass now and then. When you meet a person, there should be no-one in the line of sight. Now notice this weird influence. Lets suppose that first person and second person are in a hall. They are strangers, and their sex doesnt matter. They are walking toward each other, and will pass each other. We can list the actions that happen like this: action number one is that one of them suddenly looks at the eyes of the other person. Lets suppose first person looks at the eyes of the second person. It doesnt matter who is the first person or second person, male female, young or old. After the brief look of the first person, immediately follows second action, and that is second person looking at the eyes of the first person. Now in a fraction of a second the first person does, action number three. First person looks away. And now come action number four: second person looks away. And finally action number five: they pass each other and continue. If they see another person, the cycle continues. And so it goes forever. Strange, isnt it? Well, its not tragedy, or a big waste of time, but its our first example for the later, much more destructive, self-destruct society-influence behavior patterns. That exchange of looks is societys way of giving respect and acknowledging totally unimportant people. Track 18 It occupies your brain when you could be thinking about something useful for yourself, and if you pass by hundreds of persons a day like that, you are expected to do the same and waste a lot of effort on nothing, to give them all respect, even though you have other things to do. And maybe, you dont have other things to do, but are interested only in hot woman. Why is this exercise so important? When approaching, talking and socializing with a woman, many men tend to be pressured with what will the other people around think about that? What will they think if you get rejected? Has it ever

happened to you, that you wanted to make a move on a girl, but didnt do anything cause other people were near watching, and now you are mad about it? Well, this exercise will guide you through solving that problem, since the problem What will others think? blocks guys and is so common we teach how to neglect people that dont matter in the situation. Do you know when teenagers call girls, how they usually feel pressure, What will parent think? You know what I did? I called from the living room, and my parents turned red each time I phoned a girl. Just imagine how society program was affecting them. They turned red, but Im the one whos doing the calling. So thats why this is an important mission. Lets assume the person is about to pass you by on your left side. You will look straight ahead in the distance, and walk relaxed. Later, Ill talk about bodylanguage. Now its not so important. The society program in your head will try to turn your head, or your eyes, but resist it, even if it means deliberately starting at a distance object. After you passed twenty people like that, switch to walking around and looking at only things that interest you. Track 19 If you see a dazzling woman, feel free to check her out. If you see nothing but unimportant people, dont waste energy on looking at them. Do you feel the pressure which is trying to force you to be an always losing nice guy, and give respect to a person you never met? Can you feel the pressure in your head trying to turn your eyes? Can you feel becoming uneasy? Can you feel the pressure trying to make you an excuser? Practice this exercise wherever you can. When you get a handle of it, you will start to ignore all those people that mean nothing to you, and are probably society zombies anyway. You can start to ignore them all, and it will automatically save you time, and precious brainpower. This mission becomes your main, no-excuse asset. Later, when you need to focus on a woman, and not bother what your friends friend, who is there also, is thinking. Track 20 It will feel great you mastered, Attract and Date eye contact mission. Feel free to ignore them all and free your mind of thinking, Will I be decent to people I dont even know? Will I give respect to anyone that passes me by? After it, you will be able to give attention only to people you are interested in, and whose actions matter to you, and you will free your mind and focus it on her. And free your mind of thinking, What does this passerby in an elevator think of me? This mission is easy. Go out and do it to twenty people. You should be paying attention to the ones that matter to you, like a beautiful woman passing by. You will look at her. Or a guy running fast on his bike towards you. Him you must look, but ignore all the others, whose actions and existence mean nothing to you. Its simple. Now go out and do it, go! The feeling of not being good enough is a usual blocker for men. It will prevent a man to meet a woman. Later it will make it hard for him to call her, ask on a date, or do any kind of sexual advance. So let me tell you more about it. Why is it there? Whats its purpose? It is there to make a man work hard, to earn a better salary, to have bigger muscles, so in the end he could afford the symbols of wealth, like sports car, or a yacht. That way only a guy who has managed to achieve a lot in his life, will mate with the most attractive girl, so genes of a guy who benefits his society or nation will then be mixed with the genes of a beautiful, and genetically that means healthy, woman. Cause beauty is a reflection of health, and that way the tribe, society, and today the nation, where work equals sex equation is most

dominant, will become the most dominant. And this is exactly what he have today. In those parts of the world where work equals sex isnt strong, people dont even bother to learn how to read, and that group of people is in a big disadvantage, compared to the technological advanced one. But of course, we dont want to work too hard, so I advise you to work until the law of diminishing returns hits you. What is the law of diminishing returns? If your salary is X dollars and you work 8 hours a day, you can afford to decent lifestyle, but nothing spectacular, and you still have time to socialize with woman. If you choose to buy yourself a sports car, lets suppose you must work 12 hours a day, for a whole year. It is nice to have a red sports car, but youll be so exhausted, that you will not have time to spend with woman. That is what I call the law of diminishing returns. Or a man can choose to work more for nice clothes. Track 21 Girls find well-dressed guys more interesting, and well means different, not necessary expensive. Later I will tell you how to dress to be attractive. Look around. These days, everybody goes out in shades of gray, green and brown. When you go out, you will see a sea of guys dressed the same. All of them want to fit in, and be similar. The fashion will change, but men will always desperately want to fit in and stay in their box. Now the time has come to stop being an excuser, and dress different. Why is that so important? Why is it important to stand out? Soon I will explain how being similar to everyone else, triggers a that could be my brother genetical response in woman. So by blending in, and having zero noticability, that is exactly how much attraction you get zero. You have to stand out. In the beginning it will not be easy, cause your mind will generate all kinds of excuses why it is good to fit in. When that happens, remember that it is just the society program trying to sabotage you in very sneaky ways, and your coach Magami will help you. When I was in eight grade, a big victory happened for me. My family didnt have much money, to buy me trendy clothes. Those days sneakers with air pumps were a blast, and I could never have them. Imagine that society nonsense sneakers, with air pumps. And there was one redhead girl I really wanted. My main competition in school he always lost was a big boy, who had stinking rich parents, and of course, had the stupid sneakers. And parent even bought him a Ferrari Oldtimer, even though he was too young to drive. It just stood in his garage. On top of that, he was the best-looking guy in school, and much stronger than me. But of course, he lost, every time! I was a bit lazy, and didnt approach that girl, so even though I had chances to meet the beautiful redhead, I still couldnt make myself to do that effort. One day, the last day before winter holidays, the rich guy comes in with a new designer shirt, and his sneakers, and starts boasting around Track 22 that she will be his girlfriend, that it has all been settled through other friends. That time I realized the following rule of the philosophy: the most beautiful, smart and charming girl will end up with a moron if you dont even try to get her. Let me repeat that: the most beautiful, smart and charming girl will end up with a moron, if you dont even try to get her. But I had just enough time left for a splendid comeback. You just made a big mistake, my rich boy. Then he went on talking how his dad just bought a Mercedes, and a ski-boat. I cant remember what else, but he went on blabbering about some trip to the Tropics. For him it would be better, if he only didnt annoy me. Maybe he would have had a chance. But at the age of fourteen, I was starting to slowly see the

unlogic and injustice around us. Suddenly the professor walks in with some surprise, surprise test. I just tell him with a super serious face: Ranko: Professor, I just found out that there is a lady waiting for me, and its urgent, about my future. Professor: Oh, its for scholarship for great students. Go right now. Thats why you are here, to get ready for tomorrow. I knew he was a society zombie. Hmm, I never applied for scholarship. Maybe I deserve one. I just managed to send an evil grin to my competition. Then I went to her class, and principal was inside, doing a speech about, you know, all principals blabber the same all the time. Remember, we never talked before. Oh, this is one of the moment I live for. I burst into her class and say: Ranko: Excuse me to distract you, but one serious gentleman wants to see Marina, and says its urgent. They let her go, of course, and when we were walking down the hall she asks me: Marina: Who is that gentleman, and what does he want? Ranko: Hes right here standing in front of you, and would be flattered to get to know such a lady. So after fifteen minute talk, I ended up arranging a date, and another one, and another one right to my bed, and we were a couple.

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Track 1 You guessed it right. I laughed at the rich sucker, but not immediately. First I congratulated him how hes such a ladies man, and complimented his sneakers. His smile was full of fear, like he was expecting something bad for me. Enjoy the victory over excusers. Only after did I laugh, at his face, when he asked me, how can I be with a girl that was arranged for him? So much for his sneakers with pumps. Men are brought up to feel bad about themselves, if their clothes is cheap. If you are wearing old clothes with holes, and walk near a woman you like, your mind will sabotage you with feelings of insecurity. Or if your car starts breaking down, and everyone sees black smoke coming out of engine, you will feel embarrassed, but if you are driving a brand new shiny car, and come out in fashionable Italian clothes, you are the one whose genes need to be spread, cause it will benefit the human race. But we dont want to benefit the human race. We want to benefit ourselves. Thats what we want! So when a man comes

out of a shiny car, his fear will be lowered. Woman will sense insecurity, and will not want to mate with an insecure man, but insecurity will usually be so big, that many dont even manage to talk to a girl they fancy. To find out how to fell totally confident, what no money can buy, listen on and follow my advice. Its time for your second mission. In it will be incorporated bodylanguage. If you are in a room at your workplace or a club, and a girl walks in, she will get a lot of info about you, just looking at the way you sit. When men look at a woman, they instantly judge her qualities. Will she give birth to a healthy child, by her bodylook? When woman look at man, they instantly judge our qualities. So if she walks in a room and sees a guy who is sitting like hes full of phobias, she wont feel much attraction, and has already dismissed him as a potential boyfriend. For example, if she walks in a room, and on a big comfortable sofa, sees a man who is crouching like he has osteoporosis Track 2 who is barely able to breathe cause his mother tied his tie like that, and who looks at her with fear, she will not get aroused. Combine that with high-tech wireless gadget on his ear, and super-computer in his palm, sweating and typing like a madman, it will be obvious to her that this man has likely not seen a naked woman in real life. And she does not want to mix her genes with his. Have you ever noticed the following pattern: if there are ten seats in a row, and they are empty, the first person to come will usually sit in the end. Also, if there is a park bench, the first person who comes, will sit on the end. Notice the following rule: when second person comes, he must balance between not intruding the personal space of the first person, and not being to rude to sit as far away as possible from the first person. Personal space is like a bubble around us, a two feet distance, in which, we let only friends and family people. Sometimes it must be obstructed, like in a subway jam. And if two unknown people are touching, their bodies will be tense. With a lover or a close friend, in our personal space, bodies are relaxed. Track 3 So when two unknown people are forced to touch with their bodies, they hold stiff, and that means: Im sorry to intrude your personal space, but there is nothing I can do about it. They hold stiff to demonstrate, they really dont want to be with that person. Remember that. If you hold stiff near a girl, she will have the same attraction for you as for the people in the subway: zero. Did you get it? If you hold stiff near a girl she will have the same attraction for you as for the people in the subway: zero. That is easily visible if you happen to be in any waiting room. You are a member of Attract and Date customer support forum. Go see videos of good and bad excuse bodylanguage. Send us your own and well comment, and tell you what to change. The mind-body link goes two ways, and fixing your body will help your mind. Bodylanguage is a key point on a workshop. I want you to find a nice park bench, or a bench at a restaurant, at your work, or a sofa in a crowded cocktail bar. If you choose a park bench, find a nice park, cause later youll be taking your dates there for a walk. The second person must not insult the first person by sitting as far away as possible from the first person, cause if the second person sits on opposite end of the seats, or diametrically opposite across the room, the first person will feel insulted by that decision. So the second person must always choose to balance between two behavioral patterns, and will choose the middle between first person and end of seats. That will mean the second persons respects the first person personal space, but also doesnt dislike him.

Track 4 Now, notice this phenomenon: as other people come in, they will do the same automatical calculation, but with more variables, taking into account all the others in the room, and finding an optimal space for themselves. That pattern is very important, cause many guys are afraid to enter a girls personal space, and miss to choose the right moment to do so. A girl will not jump into your personal space. If you are afraid to come into hers, you are not a man worthy of her anyway. Lets burn that into your mind: A girl will not jump into your personal space. If you are afraid to come into hers, you are not a man worthy of her anyway. peanut.dl.am should have a lot of people, but not crowded, so you still manage to find an empty bench, or a sofa. It must be in a place where people are likely to come, and will need to sit down. I instruct you to sit exactly in the middle. Remember a guy who is afraid of many phobias. He will always sit on the end, to leave place for others, cause other people will feel uneasy, and embarrassed, asking him to move, and he will feel uneasy, cause of them feeling uneasy. As you advance, these basic exercises will not be necessary any more. As a rule of thumb, if you feel discomfort while doing en exercise, then, keep on doing it. HAHA! First, use the look you already know, to totally ignore the people around you. Dont pay attention to the ones that dont matter. Hopefully, there will be some attractive woman. Look at them, and check them out. That isnt so hard, is it? Now you must position yourself comfortably. You must not be ashamed to sit comfortable. Spread your legs, and extend them. Put your arms, at the back of the sofa. Behave like you own peanut.dl.am. Lose any tension in your body. If you are a younger guy, so your back wont hurt, put one leg on the table in front of you. Show you are comfortable in your own skin. Now take a moment and look at all those tense people around you. Fools, arent they? If you are in a nightclub, you may take a look at all those guys wearing excuser-colors, being shy and afraid of their own shadow, embarrassed that they exist. Track 5 By sitting like an alpha, girls will start to feel unseen attraction, no matter your income, and that is not good for the whole, its only good for you, not the society and nation. To not be such a powerful feeling for now, cause you are still not talking to her, so it hits you with weak power, but the closer a man is, to having a gorgeous girl without having society value, the blocker in his head will be more and more powerful. Your important goal is to defeat the negative behavioral patterns in your mind, and install a new philosophy. Make no mistake, you cannot just sit at home, and do nothing, then go out, and expect girls to run after you. Getting rid of society program means that you go after woman whenever you please, and that you say and do, just the right things in order to make her want you. Understanding society program is just the first step, but defeating it is harder, cause it is wired in a mans unconscious. That is why I give you missions that have proved to be the best thing there is for a man who wants to attract and date beautiful woman. Let me tell you why girls are very attracted to a man that can erase the society program from his head. Why the girl lusts to have sex with a man who is free to think outside the box? Why do they feel huge unstoppable urge for a man who sets free from the average, and understands the Attract and Date philosophy? On the logical level, I will explain, what you must change in your mindset if you want to be the one who chooses woman, and not the other way around. In order to do that, you must understand her. Many men fail to understand woman, even though they invest a lot of

energy and time in it. Usually, men just cant get it. What the Hell do woman want, and why are they the way they are? Woman seem like a black box, and you can never be sure what the box will do. Look around, and you will see many marriages where woman shouts: You just dont understand me! and the husband is totally frustrated, with her and with himself. Get out from your referential system, and put yourself in her place. Start looking at the world and relationships from her perspective, not yours. You are a man, and your way of looking at things is totally different from hers. Track 6 [Duplicate of track 5] Track 7 So if the male has good eyesight, and the female has good abstract thinking, their child will be able to see very well, and to think abstractly. But if both partners have bad eyesight, the child will definitely have it bad also, and will be in a huge disadvantage. This is the simplest example, but it goes the same for all characteristics of parents, like health of every organ in the body. So the child of relatives may end up very unhealthy, and since a woman can have only one child at a time, she will discard every man that could be a relative. Even a small chance of being a relative, and she doesnt want him. Only a woman that had sex with non-relatives gives birth to a healthy child, cause their different genepools combine, to give a child the best of both. If a woman gives birth to a daughter, the daughter will inherit man-choosing criteria from her mother, and she will also want different man than the ones that surround her each day. The woman that had sex with a relative had the baby that died. So after many generations, woman became attracted to different, and at the same moment, repelled from similar. How could the woman judge, is the future father of a child relative or not? Remember, its only up to a woman to judge that, the man just wants to have sex with whatever hot girl he sees, and has so much trouble with it that he doesnt take into account the subtle details. Of course, today men care about all the health aspects, but who knew of genetic theory long ago? What was the only way for a woman to know, that his genes are not from a distant family, and that the two of them are not related? How could she make a decision that its ok for her to have a baby with him? Most of those decisions are powered by genes. She needed a criteria that takes only a second and lets her choose the best man fast. In this highly competitive environment, his looks and behavior. Track 8 All of the related people in the tribe were very similar. They had similar features, similar hair, similar bodybuild, similar skin color and similar manners and similar behavior. Cause of the scientifically discovered laws of genetic selection, woman have become attracted to a man, that doesnt look similar, and more important, that doesnt behave like the men she knows. The children of a woman that wanted something different, woman, that wanted a man that was unlike any other in his behavior, thinking and appearance, survived best. Cause of natural selection, woman became programmed not to like what they see every day, and to seek different, and outstanding males. Today, the whole Western world is practically the same, and all men are the same, they literally look, dress, talk, behave and smell the same. Even though today those men are totally not related, they all trigger the same, unconscious response: He could be my brother.

Since people everywhere watch the same movies, read the same books, drive the same cars, and live the same lives, a womans unconscious genetic response tells her, that all of them are not really attractive, and they arent. A woman will travel across the Atlantic Ocean, and discover, that she feels repelled to all the men, even though there is zero chance that they are actually her relatives. So that is why woman who can choose, the beautiful woman, will always choose different man, that stick out from her daily routine. An attractive woman is approached constantly, shes bombarded from grade school, high school, university to the workplace. She got approached thousands of times in her life. Who were those guys? They were all excusers. They would lurk somewhere in the shadow for days, month, or even years, and then they would take all their courage, run to her and blurt out, Would you like a drink? Look around you and you will see many hot woman looking mean and frustrated. Of course they are! Imagine yourself after ten boring fatties have approached you that night. Genetically, a boring and dull fattie is not good for your offspring. The same way, an excuser is not good for a womans child, but they dont teach you that in school. Track 9 When you start behaving differently, she will start to get attracted, like you give yourself permission to actually approach those three woman standing near BAM! you are different, and shes attracted. Or you give yourself permission to talk what she wants to hear, and not about your boring job BAM! you are different. That is also the reason why you should dress different, to visually be different from all the others. Since today the whole Western world is the same, with a mixture of people of all races and clothing styles, being visually different is good, but not your most powerful, invincible weapon. But being different in your mindset, and in your behavior, is your greatest advantage, and that means not being an excuser. It may make her want you. She may get aroused, just by you being in her presence. Shell dream about you, just like you dream about the hot naked woman. It is by far the simplest way of getting irresistible attraction. There are other society-favorable ways, like working whole life and buying huge yacht, but tell me, what do you consider easier? There is one big problem men have with woman, which you should be aware of. It starts when theyre young, and becomes a habit of behavior, and that way gets masked so it is not perceived as a problem. It is hard to figure it out, and most men are never aware of it. When a boy first starts talking with girls in an attempt to seduce her, there is a slim chance of success. Chances are very slim, cause of all the bad excuser thoughts that have been forced into his head, and cause it is a very first seduction attempt in his life, he wont have success, and he wont have success a few times more he tries to get a girl to like him. He has been fed by ideas, that any attempt of getting a girl better than he deserves is a futile attempt, as I already explained, and his mind will sabotage him, and he will fail. Track 10 He is doomed to fail after years of brainwashing by his parents, teachers and friends. Only thing they will teach him is how to work hard. They will not teach him how to get a woman, which is more important. They force a boy to work hard, and when a man is old, he will look back and see all the chances he wasted to be with beautiful woman, so he could get himself a good pension fund, and expensive pills to take care of depression. If however he enjoyed a life full of beauties, he would be very healthy now, and could

just flush the pills down the toilet. Its amazing how they force you to be unhappy in mind, and then offer a solution by giving you pills for anxiety. But now I must continue where we were. So after a few failed attempt at socializing with girls at early age, and total lack of encouragement at home, or it could be that the boy gets blown off from a group of friends, either boys or girls, a boy will not find any encouragement among the society zombies that are all around him, and so what can a little boy that is too weak to fight for himself do? He can just explain to him that getting rejected is normal, and thats the way life should be. There is no other way in life, but a life full of rejection from woman, he may think. Getting rejected becomes familiar reality. One day, however, a man may be going really well with a woman, but then he sabotages himself. Did it happen to you? Now listen carefully: its extremely important. All people may fail at their first childhood attempt to socialize with other people, since everyone around is just ignorant society zombies. Nobody to show you the way. The process of failing to socialize, or get a woman to like you, becomes a familiar reality, and since it is deep in human nature to stick with the familiar, the man will start to sabotage himself, and keep things the way they are. Familiar is then a bad choice, but cause of human nature to avoid the unknown and stick with familiar, he may be reluctant to change anything. The unknown is more frightening than the bad reality. Track 11 Even though a victory is in sight, many men will start blocking themselves. Have you ever sabotaged yourself without apparent reason? Has your mind ever generated an excuse, which seemed very valid back then, but now sounds funny? After that, self-pity becomes a way of life. Yes, self-pity. The human instinct to go with familiar is a double-edged sword. In most cases, it helps us, like if we fall when we run across the stairs as children, next time well walk slower. But with woman, and any kind of socializing with people, and even business, it may make a life difficult, and can make a man block himself, all his life. Usually, people cant see that themselves, and if you mention it to them they will say: Well, but what if a woman I approach will be mean, or everyone laughs? Now that excuse sounds so laughable, but it may block you also next time you are with your friends and you see an attractive woman. If it happens to you, dont worry, its a usual manifestation of society program and control, and well erase it, never to appear again. From societys point of view, its a good outcome, since a guy who is not successful, and who didnt work enough, must not spread his genes anymore. He must never be allowed, to mix his genes with the best female genes a beautiful womans genes no matter the expense, no matter the cost for his mind. When we were doing seminars, we had many men coming to us with a problem of sabotaging themselves in the middle of a successful seduction. Once you know what stands behind it, full recovery may start to take place. It will take some time, but you will make it. Years of bad influences cannot be reprogrammed in a second. So a guy who is not successful must not spread his genes with high-quality woman, and what is the best way to do that? What is the best and most efficient way to enforce that necessary rule for the survival of society, or the nation? Make a man, block himself. Yes, thats right, make a man, block himself. A common problem that blocks men all the time is, that even though they are in their twenties, thirties or even older, they still are under influence of their parents. Remember, parents are often, when it comes to woman, or living a happy life, just society zombies. They will tell you: Study, study! You must finish grade school, high school, university with good marks, and then you can do whatever you want! But my friend, that often is not possible. If a man neglects his desire to be with

woman until the age of twentyfive, when he has all the education his parent want him to have, a big damage has been done. He comes out of college with diploma in his hand, but has no clue how to talk with woman. Clueless and lost, he can only be a slave in the system, hoping that one day he may earn for a Ferrari, and find a girl. When you start investing your time into meeting woman, you may feel guilty, cause you will destroy your parents expectations of a good boy, so now you have two options: you can stop doing what makes you feel guilty and be a mamas boy, or do like me: give up the guilt! Guilt is one way we make ourselves problems. Guilt comes when people close to us put us in an emotional blackmail. Track 12 Emotional blackmail is stronger the closer the people are to us. Feeling guilty can destroy a man totally, so when next time your parents try to force you to be an excuser, or feel guilty, you will know what is your only option. Give up the guilt and go, attract and date. I bet you have all noticed the following situation back in school. It is interesting to analyze, cause the same pattern of behavior continues later in life, and is considered normal. Boys in class will compete who will attract the most attention, who wills ay the best jokes, or pull off a daring and crazy stunt that proves he is fearless. They jump through window, have gang fights, class against class, or try to hit the busdriver with snowball, or ring all doorbells on the way home. All these activities are fun to do, but all of those boys would rather hang out with the class hottie, but of course, they are totally blocked by fear, when she is near, and can only blurt something out, or try to show off like monkeys in a jungle. The same behavior will continue later in life. We of course will not behave like that, and next time the guys start fighting in a bar, you will be happy cause you can run, and take their woman. Boys in grade school, often fight each other, and most times the cause is that they want to be admired by girls, but none of them admits that, even to themselves, and the most interesting thing is, that even after years of fighting, screaming, throwing flying objects, and showing their middle finger, even after many years it happens, that nobody makes a move for the girl. Nobody ever came to her without excusing himself. Then the girl gets frustrated, and unhappy with life, cause shes naturally programmed to be happy only if she finds her prince, and prince must not be afraid of a woman. But unhappiness of a woman is good for the society, and for the economy, cause the unhappy woman, when they see that they live in a big, black sea of excusers, know that they can only go out an spend, spend, spend to at least have some happiness in their life. They will pay for a nice house with view, for a brand new SUV, new shoes, Italian bags and accessories, just so they can forget for a moment, the emotional misery in which they live. Woman are the biggest consumers, and if you want a woman to buy, the more unhappy she is the better. On the other hand, you must convince the man, that if they dont work and spend money, they are nobodies. You must give men fear of even fantasizing about the woman, unless hes successful in life, and in spending. You see, that way corporations will make even more and more money, and in the end sell everybody pills, so they can forget their misery. Lets get back to our boys competing for attention. All of them are attracted to girls, so boys get conditioned that they must pull outrageous stunts, so when they are playing soccer, everybody will give his best is a hottie is near watching. Each one of them secretly dreams of scoring a goal, so the girls would like him, but nobody dreams to stop being an excuser, and going to talk to the girls, cause society functions in that way.

Track 13 From early age, boys are conditioned to suffer pain if they want girls. Has it ever happened to you that you wasted your time, showing off at a match, until the girl you fancied just went away, and all you got was bruises? Well now well put an end on that. Come and fly above the race. Youll never waste your precious time again, doing nonsense, instead of taking what you want. You were not born to behave like everybody else, and have unattractive and dull woman, like everybody else. So even though all the boys have been seeing the hottie countless times, every day, five days week, even though they sit with her at school, and then come home and fantasize about her all day, but in school, they dont do anything. They still hope desperately that she will show up when they perform some crazy stunt, or achieve a victory, or buy new clothes, and all childhood passes like that. A boy goes through the same class with a girl he admires, and fantasize about her, and does nothing. Now, you are not in school, but woman are still around you. They are everywhere. But dont let your internal program stop you. The same as you were surrounded by girls in school, and did nothing, then you thought it was impossible to do anything. The same your society-imposed program is trying to block you now, by telling you that now it is not possible. The program must hold you in control, unless you achieve something, then it will lower your fear. If you are not supersuccessful guy you must never make a hot woman pregnant. That would ruin humankind. But who cares for humankind? When you look at all the chances you had, but done nothing, doesnt it seem unexplainable? When you remember your past, you may wonder, what was stopping me from approaching and getting to know a girl I liked all those years? And now, shes not younger, or prettier. You may start to ask yourself, What made me wait for such a long time? Was I blind? No. Did they put steel bars between us? No. Would she bite me if I expressed interest? No. Would I be on candid camera if she blows me off? Well, who knows, but who cares? I will tell you what: the society program in your head generates blockers for you, and the most common blocker is: I will not do it now, I will do it later, when I have a better chance. I am sure that blocker has given you more nights with your hand than anything else. But the problem in that statement is that later you usually dont have a better chance. Usually later you dont have a chance at all, and if you wait too long, the object of your desire will get wrinkles, and get old. If you have just fallen in a garbage dump, and you see a beautiful fancy woman walking around, then its ok to approach later, but you may also approach now. But if everything is as it has always been, and suddenly, you come up with a seemingly logical explanation to postpone your desire, then youre under control, and have to get rid of it. You have to get rid of it if you ever want to get the girl you want, and in order to destroy the society crap inside your head, you must first be able to detect it. I have just described something, that you have to bury inside your mind so deep, and if somebody wakes you up in the middle of the night, you must be able to repeat this: Attract and Date society program detector: Whenever your mind tells you, that later you will have greater chance with a woman, you may be under control. Let me repeat this, if someone has just see hottie walk by, and did not pay attention. If you have seen a hottie walk by, and are now talking to her, I forgive you. Attract and Date society program detector: Whenever your mind tells you, that later you will have a greater chance with a woman, you may be under control. Track 14 Why does our mind tell us stuff which are not good for us? Shouldnt the mind serve us

best? You see, very often our own mind sabotages us in many areas of life, not only woman. The actions of the mind will benefit those that programmed it: the society as whole. Recall an event, when you wanted to get to know a cute girl, but your mind was telling you something like this: Wait. Dont go know. She will see you perform on the football match, and then you can get to know her, or I can meet girls only during my lunch break, even though they are very unattractive at my work-place, cause later I dont have time, I have to work for my pension fund. My mother told me, that I should get a low-risk pension fund. So instead of having sex with woman, a man ends up practicing football, but that is not so bad. The worst is living by your parents expectations all your life. If you feel you may have trouble with the second one, listen to me: Are you afraid that your parents will know that you have a woman and sleep with her? Listen to me again: Are you afraid that your parents will know that you have a woman and sleep with her? Dont be an excuser. So our football player originally wanted to have a girlfriend, but he was blocked, and he started playing football. Every sport is good, if it is not overdone, but if you want to be the champion, you better be prepared to break some bones, literally. After all the injuries, possibly brain-damage, and artificial joints, it was a better idea to approach that girl. Every training session is full of pain, and often broken bones. The more pain you can handle, the better player you become. All time is devoted to master the sport, and everything including health is sacrificed for the result on the scoreboard. Since Ive been training with elite sportsmen for years, but not with the same intensity, I know that each one of them knows deep inside, that hes doing it to get the girls. None of them will admit it, but when you leave the practice to hang out with a date, you can see it in their eyes how sorrow they are, and how they consider themselves uncapable of doing the same. Instead of handling their fear they went on the society way to solve their problems, and of course, didnt succeed. From early age, they will install a feeling of inadequacy if you dont have what society wants from you. Has it ever happened, when you were a child, that your mother tells you: You can not go out like that! Your shirt is dirty, or Dress nice. You look like a beggar, or maybe Oh my God, trim those nails! They are so dirty! And after a million such remarks, you start thinking that you really are inadequate, and not good enough, and each time you take a walk, in old clothes, you are hoping not to meet someone, cause they could look at you in funny way. Or when you are a child they may force you to have good manners, and pay attention to everybody, and to be good and nice to everybody. When I walk around my city, I pay attention only to attractive woman, but I am frequently stopped by some excusers I know. You know those kind of people that dress best all day, and then go out just to be seen, and then they look around if there is somebody they know. And when they ask you, Where are you going? and if you answer Im meeting a wonderful girl, they will get red and embarrassed. Unimaginable! They are ashamed cause you are about to get laid. Track 15 Now thats what I call a society program in their head. When a boy is small, they force all kinds of crap inside his head, so when he grows up, only thing he will do is think, Are my nails trimmed? Is my hair decent? Do I have a breath freshener? In high school, all the boys from school had pockets full of mints, to make their breath nice. But they either had no girls, or they were in an endless process of excusing to get the girl. Many of them never kissed a girl, but they had a bunch of mints, just in case. So after years of brainwashing, the parents have done their role. They made a helpless son a good member of society, which will have pockets full of breath fresheners, even though

he has never kissed a woman and doesnt plan to soon. What parents are blind to see, is that the boy will have big trouble to get a girlfriend, and if they brainwash him harder, a boy will have trouble socializing with people in general. First he will think, Oh, my shirt is messy, and my nails arent trimmed, and later Oh, my head is bald, and I dont have the new super-duper-blaster audio system! or maybe I must finish my Ph.D. first. That means, no sex for three more years. Do you know which excuse I like most? Oh, now I must work. But in the summer, I will be the sex machine! Then I think, What kind of machine is that, if it rusts for eleven month? Parents, family and friends dont do what is best for you. They wish you best, they will do whats best for you, from their perspective. But they are all society zombies, so what they think is best for you is you actually being a servant of society, instead of serving yourself. You start to serve the society, and feel bad about yourself. For example, I know a guy who is thirty, and he is half bald, and is losing hair quickly. He is good-looking, and an elite sportsman, and an Olympic medal winner. He has a wonderful, exotic-looking twenty year old girl. Hes totally depressed now, and every few days his mother visits them, to give him a new hair remedy, made of herbs, but nothing helps. Hes in so much stress that him and the exotic girlfriend, dont have sex often anymore. But guess what? His girl actually has a secret fantasy about being with a bald, strong man, and when they are not together, she meets them out all the time, and sometimes, they drive her to her home after leaving the club. You will find out that driving a woman home does not necessary mean that something will happen, so I estimate that she still didnt cheat on him, but she will soon. Track 16 You see how that guy sabotages himself, but out of no reason. Im sure that if his hair suddenly grew he would find some other reason to shoot himself in leg. Can you imagine what disgust the exotic girl feels? When every three days mother comes with remedy for hair, for the little son, and puts in on his head. She must be thinking, Why am I living with such an excuser? She loses all sexual attraction for him. You see, an attractive man does not mean good-looking. For a girl it is important to be goodlooking, to be attractive for us, cause the baby is in her body. For a man to be attractive you must stop being an excuser. Once he asked me, what to do: Excuser: Hey Ranko! Ive been losing my hair, and Ive tried all the remedies, but they didnt work. Gee, what should I do now? And I see his hot, stunning girl being bored to death with him. Ranko: Put on some cow dung. I hear it helps. By the way, this is not a joke. They say it really helps. You see, when he was a successful sportsman, and good-looking, with hair, he had exactly what society wanted him to have. Since he is now losing hair, his confidence will drop, and he will make himself lose a girlfriend. Even if his girl admired only long-haired men, it would still not make a difference. You must always remember that girls dont judge us as we judge them. If his girlfriend wanted a man with a ponytail and my friend behaved like Im bald, and Im proud to live in my own skin, the girl would think, Oh my God, what a man! I want his baby! The act of being comfortable in your own skin will make you superior to all the people around you, and girls will catch the vibe. Has it happened to

you that instead of serving yourself, you start to serve the society? It is hard to break that habit by our self, because everywhere you look, you will see society zombies, and everything functions to just reinforce that situation, forever. When you turn around, and see people behaving like that, dont become discouraged. To the horizon, and everywhere the eye can see, you will see men moving the society forward, in order to get sex, when they could just get sex, and then, if they want, benefit the society. Living in such a world is actually a huge advantage for me, and it will be a huge advantage for you, after you study the Attract and Date. The most girls you can meet on a party, or a social gathering, or a club. Let me tell you what mistakes to avoid. If you recall your first party as a child, you will see a pattern that stays for the whole life. For example, boys and girls start dancing with each other. I was not too eager to dance, since dancing and performing never takes you anywhere. Talking is the most important, and dancing you do just for fun. You can not rely on the dance too much. But I recall it was fun to watch that first dance-process taking place. Only later did I realize, how I was lucky, not to be with the crowd. Boys are in a pack on one side of the room, trembling. Those same boys find it very easy to steal cigarettes from shops, or to throw water balloons into passersby on the street, so they are not cowards. Some of them, a few days before, had caused a city traffic breakdown by throwing a newspaper stand onto tram-track, where it was hit by a tram. So they are not cowards for sure. One of them has managed to get a dance, and he is now a hero. He encourages the others, even though he is still afraid himself, and girls are in a pack on the other side of the room. The good-looking ones are beginning to enjoy the attention boys are giving them. They begin to realize how they have control over men, and are enjoying it more and more. Watch an attractive woman in a club, how she feels confident and powerful, cause she knows how all men are literally afraid of her. It is playing something like, I will always love you The guys want to score the most dances with the hottest girl. The more dances they have, the more they can try to make her laugh, and hope that by some miracle, shell fall in love with them. One by one, they go on girls side of the room, and ask for a dance. The lucky ones get the dance, and the unlucky ones get rejected in front of everybody to see. But all of them are excusers. Girls are genetically programmed for a man who will not care, has the music just started, or is it the end of a song. Girls are genetically programmed to find a man who will at least have enough courage to not lurk in the shadows until she is alone, and then jump her and ask for a dance. During millions years of evolution, women wanted men who were not afraid of a lion, and now they are on their first dance, and guys can barely talk cause of fear. What is a girl thinking unconsciously? Well, look at the guy whos afraid of me! If hes afraid of me, how the Hell will he defeat a lion!? or Look at the guy who is afraid of my friends, and has bee standing around like a tulip, waiting for spring, in order to catch me alone. She doesnt want that guy to be a father of her child. If she doesnt find anything else, cause all of men are like that, he must at least spend a lot of money on her, but she will still be on the lookout if suddenly, the prince appears. Track 17 If the boy doesnt get rejected, they start to dance. What does the boy talk about when dancing with a girl? Usually he makes the mistake of telling her that his friends are funny, crazy, or something similar, and then he boasts that he is the man. They can also put each other down by shouting lame jokes. If you happen to hang out with a group of losers, and are talking with a girl, dont make the self-destruct action that is implemented into childhood. Dont tell her that they are funny and ridiculous, cause

youre hanging out with them, and if you make fun of them, you are also a loser. From childhood, boys practice who will be a better entertainer for a girl. That is what I call supplication. Supplication starts early. Actually, all negative behavior starts early. And that is why at Attract and Date, we begin by analyzing the childhood, cause later the society program is so strong that it is difficult to notice it. So bravest guy came across the room and asks the girl for a dance. Then his friends follow. Now they are all dancing. Guys are blurting out something in a girls ear, and girls are forcefully laughing. Those girls have been dreaming for a prince to come, but all they ever get is excusers. Later that will be great for big companies, that can sell many stupid items to an unhappy woman. They will even choose to buy a see-through iron. Who the Hell is happy buying a see-through iron!? Only an unhappy woman, frustrated with life. Excusers are men under influence of society program. Girls must get used to excusers from the moment of their first dance, to the end of their life. Consumer-society is made in a way that turns men into excusers, so they would work more. Cause of men being excusers, woman are unhappy, and also work more, so they could spend more money on things that make them happy. But luckily, those rules do not apply to you at all. Track 18 Then the music ends, and in order to dance again with the girl he likes, a boy must ask several he doesnt like for a dance, so his intentions are not obvious. But you know whats obvious to me? That hell never get laid. The first dance-process really sounds ridiculous, and you may wonder, Why was Ranko describing something that happened long ago? I need help now! But now, seeing society program take over on the first dance, it will be much easier to understand the situation in a club today. Soon I will give you your first mission in a club, so listen carefully. You know whats funny? When boys get old, the same stupid pattern just carries on. Look at your competition in club today. Has anything changed? Not much. Instead of asking for a dance, like back in grade school, now they ask for drink. The only thing your competition knows, is how to run to a girl and ask for a drink, and hope that by some miracle, she will accept it. Since all guys, are the same excusers, she has nothing to differentiate them except the status symbols they are wearing. So choosing between an excuser with a Citizen, and an excuser with a Rolex, she will choose the one with the Rolex, and from there comes the misconception that you need to spend huge to get a woman. If you are playing by society rules, then of course you need money, and lady luck to help you, and then you may get a woman. Its funny to me, when I come to a club, and see my competition for tonight excusing themselves for their existence, and there I come with a totally different philosophy, and just charge for the one I want. That is life.

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Each male, as he gets older, gets a set of rules. For example, if he wants to meet a woman anywhere outside of the society permitted meeting place, like a club, his confidence will disappear, or if a girl sees him in cheap clothes, a man will rush to take out his new expensive mobile device, to show that he has some money. You see, those are all rules. In a club, if you want to approach a group of girls, fear will hit you. A man who confidently approaches a group of girls will get the woman, even though he is not successful enough in life, and that must be stopped. Soon I realized that talking to an unknown group of hot woman will increase my chances of being happy. Instead of following the program, which will trigger feeling of uneasiness and discomfort, I went to the girls. Of course, as you get older, it is harder and harder to resist those rules, cause the more times you apply them, the more they reinforce in your mind. On any single gathering, a party, in a nightclub, on a meeting, people will try to fit in. To fit in with their behavior, attitude and clothes. Usually they are so visually similar that they seem all the same. To our male eyes, it is really not important, how much are all the men the same or not, but to a womans eye, its the only thing thats important. Fitting in, means following the statement, The male that stands out gets hammered. With woman, that doesnt work so. If you were a woman, would you rather be average dull woman, or a charming beauty? Which one has better genetic material? If you were a man, would you rather be a modest shy guy, who is afraid of woman, or a man who is very different, and approaches and talks to woman with ease? To do that, you have to stand out. Its your choice. You cannot be an excuser and have a wonderful woman at the same time. Boys and then men are conditioned to fit in all the time. That means, for example, laugh, when everyones laughing. Let me tell you something about telling jokes, which is extremely important. We must use jokes from time to time, when talking with woman or men. When you say a joke, the more you wait to laugh at your own joke, the funnier it will seem to other people. Now I give you your next mission, which you must do. Track 2 When you talk to the next five people to whom you would say a joke anyway, try saying your usual joke and then immediately, start laughing. You will notice that they are not laughing too much. Then, when you say your next joke a few minutes after that, or when you talk to somebody else, say the usual joke you would tell to that person but wait a few moments before starting to laugh at your own joke, or wait until that person starts laughing. If you have a good joke, you will notice, that in the first case the listener will not consider it funny, but in the second case it will be hilarious. That is an important skill to have, because laughter in a woman automatically destroys a lot of resistance to being more intimate, and also, you become a leader of a group, if everybody laughs at your jokes. So your mission, to do that to five people. You have three days to accomplish this mission. It can be done over phone too. So just talk the same like you did before, but give attention to the moment when you start laughing. If you dont complete Attract and Date joke mission, I will consider you, an excuser. No joking. Also, when trying to fit in, guys will go to the clubs where everyone else is going, have hobbies that everyone else is having, and so on. So whenever you see yourself fitting in, think about it. If you conclude that it is society programs way of keeping woman far from you, change that at one and stand out. What sex means to a man, relationship means to a woman. You will get sex if you give her relationship. Relationship does not mean getting married to a woman that will bulldoze all over you,

and being the bill-payer. When I say relationship, I mean the exact behavior that the woman wants from her man. Of course, society will try to fool you into thinking that relationship with woman means you being her slave, and working while she spend all the money. I will now tell you, what woman fantasizes about, when thinking about the relationship. We all know, what men fantasize about, and we dont call it relationship. A horny, beautiful woman, jumping them. Why do men fantasize that? Cause it is best thing that can happen to the genes. What does a woman fantasize about? She fantasizes about an alpha guy who genuinely cares for her, cause that is the best thing that happen to her genes. Horny beautiful woman are nowhere to be found, and men would do anything to have a woman like that. Track 3 An alpha guy who cares for her is nowhere to be found, and woman would do anything to get him. I will coach you to become her prince, and then she will be anything you desire, like a horny, beautiful woman. First, you must be able to approach a lone woman in a society-approved meeting place, like a club. Then, you must be able to approach a bunch of woman, standing together, in a society-approved meeting place. When you are able to do that, you will start to get phone numbers of those lone woman you approached. When you are able to approach anyone in a club, or a bar, you will get dates from time to time. After you can defeat society enough to approach beautiful woman outside clubs, youll be good enough to get dates all the time when going out to a social event or a club. That is approximately how your evolution will be. After you master that, you will learn how to get one night stands with hottest woman around, but you cannot jump 10 steps at a time. You must do it step-by-step, cause society influence is so strong, that it cannot be defeated all at once. If you havent done the first three missions, now its time to do them. Before I teach you how to approach a solo girl in a club, or any place you wish, I will give you a long speech about woman and how they see the world around us. Some of you have trouble even approaching a woman, so you may think, Lets handle that first. But if you dont know the basics about how woman think, you will get shut down soon after approaching, so it will be a waste of time to approach for the sake of approaching. This is our plan: first, I will explain you the Attract and Date philosophy about woman, and how they think. Then I will guide you through destroying fear of approaching, and then I will teach you how to say the right stuff to woman, after you have successfully approached, and Ill guide you through destroying society blockers in your head, that scream to you: Saying the right stuff is not for men! So remember this, its very important: first society will try to block you on the approach itself. If you succeed, society program in your head will make you say stuff to her, that will make her go away. You may not realize it at the moment you are talking to her, but if you manage to approach nicely, many times, and it leads to nothing, it is cause the program in your mind makes you say the wrong sentences, cause the program must make you self-destruct. So first we will handle fears of approaching, and techniques of approaching. Then well handle fear of talking, what she wants to hear, and talking exactly what she wants to hear. But before we do all that, I will now explain how woman really are. Dont worry if you cant understand immediately. Later, when you start socializing with woman more, you may come back to this section and see how your understanding of what a woman really wants is uncomparable to how you were ignorant before. I will repeat that: Many facts I tell you now, about woman, will seem alien to you, but when you get to know woman better, and start talking to them, you must be prepared, and instead of learning from your own

mistakes, try memorizing this philosophy, and your progress will be ten times faster! Sit back and relax. Knowing this info will give you a huge edge when you start approaching and talking to woman. You can go out today and apply to take over her soul, and her body, literally. Track 4 Men try to study woman through the mans referential system, and sooner or later get frustrated, cause whatever they do, no matter how much time they invest, they still dont understand. A woman cannot be explained, they all conclude, and give up and only thing they have is lady luck. Only luck can help them get he woman they desire. We will not do it that way. For us, luck is of secondary importance. In order to understand woman, you must look at the world through their perspective. You must look at things from her angle. It is way easier doing nothing, and giving up, but if you want to get what you want, you must get into her mind. Imagine how it feels, to be a woman. From early age, everyone judges you based on your looks. If you are not attractive, kindergarten nannies will neglect you, teachers and everybody. Thats a scientifically proven fact. If you are an attractive girl, everyone will do as you please, and after some time, start annoying you, cause if all men are afraid of you, you will never find a man that has a stronger frame of mind than you, and that is what she genetically desires. If you are unattractive girl, you will have to hang out with a hottie, cause she will attract lots of men, so someone, maybe, notice you. Beautiful woman have huge power, but as they age, all power disappears. That I why, not only beautiful, but all woman, are hysterically afraid of aging, and will do anything to stop it! Being a woman brings also frustrations as being a man. Has it ever happened to you that you think a girl is behaving funny, and you have no clue what to do? The same is with woman. They are confused as much as men are, and cannot understand men, the same as men cannot understand woman. Remember this rule: Attract and Date rule: Talk to her what she wants to hear. If you dont tell her what she wants, its over. If you tell her what she wants, you may be her prince. Track 5 Of course, society program will always make you lose your gift of speech, and you will have no clue what to say. That way, you will not get laid, and society program wins, you lose. So once again: Attract and Date rule: Talk to her what she wants to hear. If you dont tell her what she wants, its over. If you tell her what she wants, you may be her prince. Once you get understanding of what a woman thinks, dont do beginners mistake and try to show off by saying that you understand what shes telling you. Once you understand woman, its time to show them that with your actions. Also, if there is a girl that already considers you a loser, dont come to her and boast that now you have a perfect understanding of woman. Just come to her, and be her prince. Let the girl think that you were born as an ideal man. If a hot super girl told you, that she was a fattie with phobias, and weird habits before meeting you, you wouldnt like her more, for sure. First thing you must know is that woman dont have the logical problem-solving mind of a man. Culture teaches us that men and woman are equal in everything, but that is wrong. For millions of years, men were running around and hunting. Their brain had to calculate how to throw a rock that will hit a running lion, or how to make traps and bring food home. That is why men have superior analytical skills. Woman were in the cave, watching the baby. In order to understand their babys needs, woman are far better

taking care of children, expressing emotions, and understanding them. That is how things are. Nobody is better or worse. Men and woman are just different. Woman dont understand that they have less analytical, or problem-solving skills, so when she gives you advise that sounds hilarious, dont laugh. Shes doing her best, and even though it is wrong, appreciate her cause of it. Imagine that somebody gave you a baby to care for. You would be very confused, and the last thing you need is people laughing at you. If a woman advises you on which stocks to buy, dont listen. But if she tells you, that your friend is a liar, it is probably true, cause they can read peoples intentions a lot better than a man can. They can see beyond the logical and into persons emotions to figure out hidden intentions. Did it ever happen to you that a girl talks and talks all over you, and you just stand there as a clueless chump? You would fall into depression if she laughed at you and said Haha, you chump! Did you bit off your tongue? Woman have superior talking skills, and thats how things are, and we have superior analytical skills, and thats how things are. So next time when trying to solve a complex problem, or plan events in the future, remember that shes feeling inadequate, the same way as you feel when woman talk all over you, and be gentle to her. Whatever job a man does during the day, or whatever assignment he is doing, his consciousness is usually thinking about sex, or about doing another achievement, another small victory. When a man sees some woman passing him on the street, he never thinks What would relationship with her be like? A man always thinks about, What would sex with her be like? When hes not thinking about sex, a man thinks about assignments and projects that he will do. Many men make a huge mistake by assuming that womans mind is the same. But a womans mind is totally different. Woman think about love. A woman considers alien and weird to think about sex and victory all the time, and needs effort to do that, the same way a man needs to invest mental energy to think about love and relating. When a couple has children, the father will teach them sports, and mother will concentrate her love on them, taking care of them more than the father. Father will fight for family income outside the home. So the same as men seek new goals, woman seek new opportunities to share their love. A male mind will effortlessly think about achievements and sex, and the female mind will effortlessly, by itself, think about love and relating. If you are watching TV with a girl, she will look at soap operas like hypnotized, or know everything about stars of the reality show, or she will rent a movie about three woman who talk about their relationships. Sounds boring. It is, cause youre a man. The same way you consider her soap opera boring, she looks at the movie you rented starring two intellectually challenged losers that want to get laid. You will die laughing at the movie like that, and she will fall asleep. You probably enjoy watching a top-league basketball match, or any other sports, or you enjoy watching movies where a lone hero brings justice. Of course you know that such a hero could never exist, but you enjoy it anyway, cause it corresponds to your instincts as a man. The same as a woman who watches a soap opera. Shes not retarded. Shes perfectly aware that stuff like that could never happen, but it hits her instincts, and she likes to watch it. The next time a woman you are dating starts focusing so much on talking with you, or relating with you, and wants attention, she didnt go wacko. Track 6 Dont get mad then. She admires you, but wants to make an even better relationship, and that is why she cares about every little detail. Has it ever happened to you that you are with a woman, enjoying a moment of silence, and that you are totally satisfied, and want to do nothing, just enjoy the present moment, and she asks you: Honey, whats

the problem? You havent spoken whole evening. I know, I know, you will feel the pressure to just tell her: Whats wrong with you? But instead of doing that, and getting no more sex, just say: It is nice to see that you care. Im a little bit tired this evening, but everything is perfectly ok. The society program in your head will try to force you to give her a logical answer, but dont do it. It will destroy you. From time t o time your woman will give you suggestions and opinions on stuff she knows nothing about. For example, if you just had an argument with your parents, and even though she never met them, she will offer all kinds of advice. Lets say you go out on a date, and she asks you, How was you day? and then you say, Blab la bla, and then they started to treat me like a moron, and I got mad cause of that. So you actually express logically to your woman that you dont like when somebody treats you like a moron, but then she will say, Really? Please tell me the whole interaction! I will help you out! And you wanted to enjoy the evening with her and now she asks you to repeat the whole, dreadful, useless convo. And funny thing is, realistically, she cant help you at all. But she thinks she can, and has an instinct to always approve everything and everybody around her, so after some time, you may get frustrated, and tell her to stop torturing you, and you ruin the pleasant date. So remember, if you decide to mention some problem to a woman, be prepared to listen to useless advise, or even better, dont mention the problem to her, and save your sanity! There is no use rationalizing and explaining that she cant help you with your parents or with your work. She will just feel hurt, and incompetent, and when she feels like that, she will leave you. When you start dating more with a woman, dont make a newbie mistake to show false confidence with always choosing where the two of you will go. Men often make that mistake, and try to choose peanut.dl.ams themselves. That you must do in the beginning, to show that you are not an excuser. For example, when youll be calling a woman out on a date, make it later, like at 7 oclock in the evening, so she knows, what your intentions are. Dont excuse yourself, and feel free to take her to the most romantic place. Track 7 [Repeat of Track 6] Track 8 [BAD SOUND-QUALITY] But when you start seeing her regularly, you have already passed the first test, and now dont blow it. Show her how confident and relaxed you are, by asking her, where does she want to go, or to think about, where you will take her, and that you will call her tomorrow. Dont think that you are letting her control you. Sincerely, do you really care, where the two of you go? All places are the same anyway, but she will get a chance to channel all her creative energy, and will feel more like a woman, and if she feels more like a woman, she will like you more. So next time a woman suggests the two of you go see a romantic comedy, or a long theater show, dont resist it. All of the guys she met before you laughed at it, and got blown off, and are now lonely and sad. That is not more fun. Now listen to this: when you come to the movies, you will basically have two options. You two can choose between watching a normal movie, or something romantic and feminine. If you two have an argument, and you win, and you watch a normal movie, you may find, that deep inside you there is a master jedi, and the Force is with you, but in the night, only your hand will be with you. However, if you say that you want to see, the romantic and feminine movie cause she wants it, you may

get reward very soon, maybe during the movie itself. Remember your mission now is just to sit back and relax, and listen to get to know basics, of the Attract and Date philosophy about woman, so you dont get blown off when she says something, that doesnt make sense, and you laugh at it, or show you dont understand. After you memorize these basic facts, well go to approaching, and talking to woman. Once when you start dating a woman, after the first kiss, things will change, and here is the way how to be ahead of your competition. Each night, send her a romantic-sounding text message like, Good night. I will meet you in my dreams. I am sending you a kiss and a hug for the end of the day. God night. Sleep well, I cant wait to see you soon. In the beginning you can send one message after the first kiss. Shell be very surprised, because woman usually need to pressure even long-term boyfriends to do that. You may feel uneasy, or you may not feel like a man if you send a message like that. Why is that so? The society program in your mind knows, that you will get her soon if you continue like that, so it must make some excuse to stop you. A good excuse is that your mind tells you, Well, real men dont send stuff like this, or Oh my God, its too exhausting to send a pre-memorized, generic message in the evening. You see society program will find sneaky ways to block you, and one of the best ways to do so is telling you that real men dont talk such stuff or write such stuff. Defeat the program in your head, and send a good night message. Track 9 When the relationship gets serious, you can send it every night. It is unlogical, you may think. What does she get if I send her a message? But you are a man. If you receive a message, or a nice card with something written on it, it doesnt mean much to you, but it means the world to her. Once in a while, send a good morning message, Good morning! Let my kisses take you through this beautiful day! Most men are excusers, and get phobias just thinking that they have to write or say something like that, but you will fly above the race and let them make problems for themselves. I know that at this moment you may have huge fear of even phoning the girl to say hi, but I am describing what is your goal that you must try to achieve. Understanding the philosophy comes first, and then you must move off the couch and take what has become yours. As you start getting to know more and more woman, you will see how they all want to feel protected. In the past a woman was helpless. She could be attacked by an animal, or be raped by an intruder. She was particularly helpless when pregnant, so woman learned to choose men who could protect them, and even more important, woman learned to choose men who wanted to protect them. Today, there are no lions walking on the street, so you dont have to be Conan the Warrior Prince, but it is still important to her, that she feels that you want to protect her. You may think, that is nonsense. It is for you, cause youre a man. But listen to this: in caveman times, a woman had to have big breasts to feed the baby. Today, that isnt necessary, but you still want a woman with big breasts, and not the one with small breasts. The same way, a woman is expecting her man, to make her feel he wants her to be protected, even though in modern world, that isnt so important. You are a man, nobody can throw you out of the cave, but if a woman in ancient times failed to meet her mans expectations, she could have been literally thrown out of the cave, so that is why every woman has a powerful detector, that is always on the look-out. The moment she senses, that her man, is not into her, BAM! She goes to another cave, and you are left alone in your cave, and only thing you can do is hit yourself in a head with your bat. You see, a woman will leave you on the first signs that you are not Mr. Right, and the more beautiful a woman is, the more

options she has, and you have less margin for error. Track 10 A woman must do that. It is in her genes. She is programmed to discard, all males until she finds the one who makes her feel protected. Dont blame woman cause of that. We are programmed to mate with every woman possible, but we prefer hot ones. Maybe that isnt so noble either, but that is how things are, and since you didnt become a priest, you must accept that. Sooner or later, even if you two just met, a woman will ask you this: Question: Why are you so silent? What are you thinking about? Has it ever happened to you? That she starts annoying you like that? Now, you must go against all your instincts, and not look at her like an alien. I know, it is hard, but stay calm and remember, that shes genetically programmed to do so. Shes not asking you to report your thoughts in attempt to destroy a perfect, peaceful evening. She considers your thoughts very important, cause shes a woman. Instead of telling her, About nothing, or even worse, Why the Hell are you torturing me!? If you say something like that, you have just sabotaged yourself. Her alarm will turn on, like shes a cavewoman about to be thrown out from the cave, and she will soon find another caveman, and leave you. So just say: Im very pleased with you. I just like to be silent and enjoy the moment. Sometimes a woman can imagine things, and she will imagine that there is something bothering you. That you are unhappy. When she asks you: Darling, you dont seem happy. Is everything ok? Dont say: No. I want more sex, but do say Im happy, when I see you. Track 11 That will make her shine, and result in you getting more sex. Do you get it? Just to let you know, today the feminist movement overcompensated for the injustice done to woman in the past, and it is way easier to throw a man out of his house, than to throw out a woman, and take his income. But thats another story. When youll be expressing that you are dissatisfied with your woman, be very careful what you say. If she has a great figure, but has out of laziness, gained a little fat, be sure to tell her that. I would. But if you are not satisfied with something that she cannot change, keep your mouth shut, cause she will not feel protected, if you say it, and will start looking for another man, the one who likes her. A basic difference between a man and a woman is that her mission is to make herself pretty, and then she waits and waits until a good enough man comes. Woman are very passive. They put on their best clothes and makeup, go out, and stand in one place. Most of them will pretend that they came to have a good time, and to dance, but the real reason for coming is to attract men so they could see themselves as being successful females. If they fail to do so, they will just say after a night with girls, We went out, and didnt meet anyone interesting. It means they were unsuccessful in attracting attention of a man they admire. It is not easy being a woman. When you are young and attractive, you get annoyed by all the attention they give you, and when you get old, nobody gives you a second glance. On the other hand, a man must fight for himself. If you go out and stand in one place all evening, what are chances of a hot woman approaching you? They are almost zero. No woman will approach you. If you happen to be good-looking, maybe some drunk, desperate girl will approach you, but

not the kind you desire. That is how girls filter out excusers. If you cant approach her, she has more power than you, and she doesnt want you. Period. A man comes to a social gathering, a reunion or a nightclub, and he must take the initiative. He must take the leap, and risk getting rejected. You may think that getting rejected is embarrassing. You may think how hard it is to be a man. You can change yourself and stop being an excuser, but an unattractive girl, what can she do? Nothing. So be happy that you were born as a man! Track 12 When a woman asks you, What are you thinking about? if you say Nothing, she will often assume the worst, like Oh my God! He has found another woman! If a man asks you What are you thinking about? and you say Nothing, it would be perfectly ok, and nobody would get hurt, but a woman become very unhappy. To fully understand what I am saying, you must socialize with woman, like Ill describe later. If you have a hard time relating, and cannot understand, it is cause you did not spend enough time in womans company. If that is so, memorize all this, and the more you get to know woman, the more you will get to understand what Im talking about. Lets imagine your woman starts feeling unprotected, out of some reason. Not a real reason, but a fictional one, for us men, and only way to make her feel protected, is by you being with her. She will call you in the middle of something, and ask you to come. I know you will think shes a controlling lunatic, but dont tell her that! If you tell her, Stop controlling me, bla bla bla! she will then start to feel very unprotected, and not loved, and will start seeing other men instantly. However, if you dont have time now, then just say, My dear girlfriend, I would like to be with you so much, but I cant come now. Ill be there in the evening. You have wasted the same amount of words, but shes happy, and will wait for you with your favorite dinner. Dont let your internal, self-destruct mechanism force you to say the first sentence. Whenever the woman gets this absolute text [???] of feeling unprotected, just hug her and talk sweet things in her ear. You must reassure her of her love very often. It is not a hard task. Just a few sentences here and there, but society program in your head will try hard to sabotage you. So remember, if they feel unprotected, cause living in a rough neighborhood, thats another story, and only way is to move out, but for you its important what she feels shes getting from you. If you offer her symbols of protection, like kisses, hugs, holding hands, deep eye-gazing, if you make her feel special, like, when you meet your woman you stare into here eyes a little bit longer, and smile and say, You just made my day, and if you whisper sweet things in her ear, you offer her symbols of protection, and she will be happy. Not logical, but true. However, if you dont offer any symbols of protection, cause those symbols dont matter to you, if you dont give any of them to her, she will quickly find a man who will. It is just symbolic and emotional, so it has no logical meaning, but men are logical and woman are emotional. If a man is upset or unhappy, it is cause of real logical reasons, so only a real, logical solution to the problem will satisfy a man, but a woman gets upset and changes her feelings, cause of details totally unimportant to us men. So a sentence that is totally unimportant to a man, can have a huge impact on a woman. That is the stuff that is called sweet nothingness. Track 13 Remember, it is nothing to us men, cause we just have to say it convincingly, but it means everything to a woman. The need to feel protected is very strong in all woman,

but remember, they want to feel protected. They are governed by emotions. Men do not need to be protected, and no man thinks it is important for him to feel protected. It is cause we are men, but to have success with woman you must understand them. The other important thing besides feeling protected is that a woman feels you two understand each other. If you havent been out dating much, you will have no clue what does it mean. When you see a woman, you will analyze her body first, and if shes hot enough, you will not care do you two understand each other, or not. Well, with woman, it just doesnt work that way. Dont get scared. What is important is that you make her feel that the two of you understand each other. Genuine understanding of woman is not crucial, but for starters, it is a must that you make her feel that she understands you, and to make her feel that you understand her. When she starts feeling this new connection between the two of you, shell be more and more ready to get intimate with you. So you need only to look at a woman to get aroused. Well, woman need more than that. They want to feel the connection taking place between the two of you. Why is that so? A simple explanation is, cause if she gets pregnant with a man that has no connection with her other than plain sex, he will leave her at first chance, and she and baby will starve. Thats genetically wired in her brain. Well talk more about that later, so even if you have no clue about what the Hell shes saying, and even if the phrase to understand each other, is a mystery to you, you must still pretend that you really understand her. Of course, the society blocker will try to stop you here. Voices in your head will tell you: Oh my God, that is so crap! Battle the excuses in your mind, by thinking this: Whole my life I went the society way, and how many woman did I get? Not enough, thats for sure! So now its time to erase that bad programming from my head, and start behaving in a way that she has always been dreaming of. A woman will behave unlogical and not understandable to men all the time. That is because woman have this huge need that she and her partner understand each other. That she and her partner share intimate thoughts and emotions. So, when you are talking with a woman, she may ask you: Honey, do you like my new dres, and shoes? See how they match. Cause you are a healthy male, you will have no clue about matching dress and shoes, but important thing for you to remember is, do not respond to a seemingly stupid question of a woman, with laughter. The question is stupid in your male world, but in her womans world, it is a completely normal thing to ask, and talk about all day. So you have to defeat the program and say: Oh, that is nice. I think a shorter dress would be even better. Track 14 Dont misinterpret a womans questions as stupidity. Imagine when you comment a football match. That is just the same. When you go out on a date, a woman may tell you about a conversation she had with somebody, lets say her best friend. Then she will talk for an hour about her conversation with the best friend, and tell you what she felt, what her friend felt. I know it is boring as Hell, but she is doing it cause she actually likes you, and cause she likes you, she wants to share thoughts and experiences with you. Dont mistake a womans blabber about a convo she had as ignoring you. She likes you, and is trying to give you a view of her inner world, of her thoughts and feelings, and only if you appear interested in her inner world, and her thoughts and feelings, she will consider having sex with you. Cause your male mind is programmed for problemsolving, a womans blabber may be irritating, but remember that your logical problemsolving is annoying to her the same as her talking about what happened that day. That is why all men are totally horrified of a girl telling them: You just dont understand me!

I will translate it to you: According to little signs of touch, eye-gazing and according to what you have said to me, the chance of your mating with me and running away are so big that I am now searching for another man. So when you get that line, it is time for alert. If you dont do something good quick, you will lose her. You must communicate to her that you are interested in her as a person. Of course, if you say: Im not only interested in sex. I admire you as a person, she will see right through your plans, and dump you. But if you say: Im trying to understand you so much. Something just tells me, that you are the special one. If you say that, she will get momentarily better, and move towards making you her lover. It is the same as if a girl had her breasts get bigger in a second. You would instantly feel attracted to her more. So when you say the right thing, she will instantly like you more. Of course, you must not be blocked by our enemy, society program, in order to say what is right. And youll be free of it when you go through Attract and Date. Track 15 Every man is like a self-sufficient fighter. Im exaggerating a bit, of course. And every woman needs to talk and exchange emotions. She is not self-sufficient. Back in the past, the males were out in the forest hunting, or fighting each other. Woman were together in a village, and in order to survive, they had to communicate and socialize with other woman. They exchanged stories and emotions freely. On the other hand, men were out there fighting a bear. Men had no time or energy to exchange feelings. They had to communicate logical information to one another, so they could eventually succeed and all family could have something to eat. That is a huge difference between men and woman. In order to survive, men had to handle as much logical information as possible, to waste as little energy, to gain as much food as possible. But woman were in the village or a cave all day. They had to read emotions and real intentions of other woman very accurately. If a woman were to go away for a moment, she left the baby to somebody else to take care of. A woman had to choose, very wisely, to whom she will leave the baby. If it was a wrong baby-sitter, the baby will die. That is why woman are able to read emotions fantastically, and use that skill to judge us men. A man out in the field had no such problems. When a wild bear was charging towards him, he needed to calculate how to throw the spear to hit him in heart, and he had only one chance. And that is the reason why emotions of a woman make men frustrated, and logical thinking of a man, makes a woman frustrated. Woman want to make bonds all the time. They are doing it cause of their genes, not to annoy you. While the men were out in the field hunting, woman were back at home, and the best way to ensure their and their childrens well-being, was to make strong bonds with other females. And so today, because of the laws of natural selection, woman want to connect and bond all the time. For example, two woman strangers that go into a womans toilet, will chat and may come out as good friends. Also, woman call their girlfriends to go with them to the toilet all the time. A woman toilet in trendy clubs is like a little sanctuary, with nice big mirrors, and with best marble stone. The woman socialize inside, and use it as a retreat from deadly boring logical world of men. However, men that come into a toilet and dont know each other, will never come out as friends. Check it out next time you are in a social event. Check out the basic difference between the sexes. A woman must have good relations with many other woman. If she doesnt have them, she will feel inadequate, and she will feel that shes a failure. Track 16

She must experience intimate conversations with other females to feel fulfilled. That is her instinct driving her, and you must never make the mistake of not letting a woman do that, cause she will stop any relationship with you. Unlike a man who is self-sufficient and needs only a beautiful woman, a woman needs also girlfriends to support her, and to talk to her. You need your male friends to accomplish new tasks with you, to make a barbecue, to play pool, or to do business. A woman needs her female friends to talk to her, and to give her support. When talking to a woman you want to attract and seduce, you must understand that the only way to do it is that she senses there is a special bond between the two of you. Why is that so? If a woman is hot, countless men will approach her, hoping to get lucky, and she must choose only one. Who will she choose? A man would choose the best-looking woman, cause it gives his genes the best chance. Now, you must mirror that into a womans world. Who will give a womans genes best chance of survival? It will be a guy who is interested enough in her to notice both her external beauty, and how she feels on the inside, and that is you. But such men are so rare, that even if you dont care, or dont know what is happening inside her mind, just by making an educated guess and saying it to her, you will leave all your competition in your dust. Let your competition strive to drive Ferraris, and to dream about huge yachts, but the moment a woman senses that you see into her inner world, shes yours, cause during evolution, a guy like that was much more valuable than any other guy, and their children had the best possible chance to live. You goal is to make a woman feel that the two of you understand each other, that you see into each others inner world. Sharing feelings with a woman is often ridiculed by the society, cause a man who will know how to share his feelings, or knows how to pretend that he has feelings, and shares them a man who knows that will get a woman, even though he is not admired by society, and he must be stopped. That is why, if you had to open up to a woman, and share your hidden desires and emotions, you would start feeling discomfort. That is society program, trying to block you in your victory. Track 17 A man has been taught all his life by role-models, like movie hero Superman, that he must handle all pain, and that a woman will be heavily attracted to him, if he shows emotions as a piece of rock, and if he does huge tasks. In Superman example its saving the world. That will make great workers when they grow up, and society or nation will benefit heavily, and have new technology that will make it possible to defeat other nations. And so, all men are culturally programmed, to block any emotions, when they watch examples that show it will make a girl attracted to them. And they are programmed to strive to achieve financial success, or be a hero, and only if they do that the blocker in their mind will let go, and they may now have a woman. Just look around you. Once when you get into relationship it will happen that a woman expresses you her need to engage yourself more in the relationship. It may happen that she complains that she is not your priority, or she will ask to spend more time with you. If a woman ever complains that you dont spend enough time with her, dont immediately presume that she wants to lock your freedom away, and dont immediately presume that you are such a cool guy that she cant get enough of you. Shes actually secretly hoping that by spending more time with you there is a bigger probability that you will show her that she is valued and significant to you. I emphasize here that you need to give her a feeling that she is valued and significant . An ordinary guy usually gets strangled in a relationship. Dont let it happen to you. Why is that so? Lets imagine an excuser in a

relationship. He is usually full of phobias, and under influence of all those role-models from action films of his youth. What phobias did society install into his mind? Track 18 Now listen carefully: this one is very common. Every time an excuser starts talking emotional stuff with a woman, his throat will start jamming his air-supply, and he will have a funny voice. If it happen to you, that every time you try talking about emotions to a woman, that your voice sounds funny, it is society program trying to sabotage you. Have no fear, you will defeat it: just listen on. So a woman will unconsciously recognize, that the guy is an excuser, and be unhappy with him. But several times he expresses that she is valuable to him, is like one expression without excusing in a normal, or even romantic voice. So woman will want to spend more time with him, to squeeze something out of her excuser, just like squeezing water out of the stone, and the only way to do that is to force him to commit, like they say. However, if you express that shes valuable to you in a way thats free from any excuses, she will adore you, but now the power is in your hands. The excuser has no options. He will either devote all his time to his woman, or he will get dumped. But youll have the option of seeing her as much and as often as you wish. The excuser is behaving just as society role-models behave in every film. There is some hero who pulls off daring and outrageous stunts. He is stronger than anything and has no fear. He also shows no emotion at all. Track 19 He sincerely thinks that by behaving like that, woman will like him. That is the problem. An average mans mind is so much society-conditioned, that he sincerely thinks that showing emotions is not for a man. Well of course its not for a man, cause not everybody can get a beautiful woman. Only the ones that accomplish something. So whole society is built up in a way that makes men conditioned not to express emotions, and so our excuser is stuck with a fat wife, if he is lucky, and they really did have sex, but only once, on their wedding night. That is often a cause of huge relationship problems, and biggest cause of divorces. The woman complains all the time, and the husband thinks she must have gone mad, and that she wants to suck his blood. But the truth is that the husband is an excuser, and is ashamed to show a woman that he values her. The truth is that 99% of men are such excusers, that they are all ashamed when walking with a bunch of flowers. You can see them carrying some excusers silly little flowers under their coat, and being full of fear, will somebody from the gray mass recognize them. When I buy a girl roses, I choose the most beautiful, and I carry them around without paper. Then when I see an attractive women passing by, I may stop her, and start seducing her, even though I have roses in my hand. You see, I just dont have time to think about, what will somebody think about me. I know a guy who is real excuser, and somehow, by help from above, he managed to get a beautiful woman on a date. He blew it of course, but he persisted calling her, and he arranged another date. I guess she was very lonely. So my excuser friend came to the date with a bunch of red, shiny roses, and she was dazzled. But in few sentences, he destroyed himself. Excuser: I brought you these roses. You know, I was going to meet you and remembered it was Christmas this week, and accidentally I saw these roses, so this is my present. Dont worry, its without any obligation.

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Track 1 He just blew himself up so fast that in a minute she went to a toilet, never to return. You see, an average man, that not mix genes with a beautiful woman, and hell keep on pushing the society forward. First, you will have to free yourself from blockers that prevent you from expressing that a woman is valuable to you, and then youll have to say it in a convincing manner. A girl may not be valuable to you, then you will have to get rid of yet another blocker, that prevents you from telling her what you dont sincerely mean. On a date with a woman, you will have to tell her stuff, that she wants to hear. I know, I know, it may be a pain to you to talk about something else other than what interests you, and you may feel that is such a huge effort. Believe me, its not. Your mind just makes it a huge effort so you wouldnt get a woman. Experienced instructors you may find at attractanddate.com to teach you more details and secrets of the womans mind. And now, its action time for us. We are going to meet woman now. Be sure to know everything I told you like a song in order to optimally move on. In your desire to change your life dramatically, and be able to attract and date beautiful woman, you will find yourself alone. Everybody around you take their life for granted, and are satisfied with dull, unattractive woman. You may feel like a black sheep when you see your friends drinking and singing, and waiting until summer to meet a woman. All of them rely on lady luck and their success in the eyes of society to attract a woman. From time to time, somebody will pull off something good, something outside of the society box, but soon all his friends will pull him inside back to average. When they try to put you down, or when they start talking to you under the influence of society program, you must have understanding: they are not aware of it. Dont get mad at them, since they are not trying to stop you on purpose. It is just their role as typical citizens. Try to explain, one by one, how things really are. It wont be easy. Sometimes they will be so blocked that they will be ashamed to just look at you when you approach a woman. Imagine that. Speaking of which, the time has come now, that you start approaching woman, that you finally start getting what you desire. If you are twenty or seventy, attracting and dating is the same. The same as men of all ages like universal qualities of a woman, the woman like universal qualities of man. It is most convenient to meet woman from your social circle, but feel free to go anywhere you please, and remember, whenever your mind starts generating excuses, that you are too old, or too young, or too poor or too rich, to get the kind of woman you lust for, just think how beautiful woman is desirable everywhere you go. The same way the student of Attract and Date is flocked by woman no matter where peanut.dl.am is, and so you will be. First thing you must know in order to meet woman you like is their physical position. You must know where they hang out. Even if you already know exactly where you can find loads of woman you like, you will do the following mission. Your next mission will be to find out where the woman you like actually hang out. Now, its easy to go like an excuser to the first attractive shopping assistant in a fancy shoe store, but that is not our mission. [SCmission1] Our mission is to approach a woman confidently, without excuses in your voice,

bodylanguage, gestures and talk. Our mission is to get a positive response from a woman, that you sensed she liked you, and cause of that she will sincerely tell you where the best place to go out is. If you approach some hottie like an excuser, and ask her where does she hang out, she will be frightened that you are some kind of stalker, and believe me, my girls told me that excusers often try to approach them with that line, hoping that somehow, theyll get lucky. Your missions is to make her feel happy that shes talking to you. To literally make her day. Remember, their lives are pretty dull. They just stand there as stones. If you can, feel free to take it further, but its not necessary at this moment. So when you see a girl that matches age, looks or whatever other preferences you may have, you will have to approach her and find out, where do girls like that hang out. If you immediately ask her where does she go out, you may be classified as an excuser or a stalker, so ask her where the good places are. If she sends you to an island of beautiful woman, you did a splendid approach congratulations! If she sends you to a gay bar, then you blew your approach, and run for your life! (chuckling) Remember, if you like her, you may go into seducing her right then and there, but it is not your primary objective for now. Now you will work on your bodylanguage and erasing excuses in your mind. So, one step at a time. So you have no idea where to find good woman? Go to a shopping mall. The woman from shopping mall will tell you in what clubs, bars or wherever, it is good to go. Later, when you learn the basics of attracting and dating woman in an easy environment, like a party, you may return to the shopping mall, and get woman there also. So you are now alone by yourself in a big shopping mall. Everywhere you turn you will see loads of woman buying clothes and other accessories. The same way men are conditioned to gain material wealth and status symbols, woman are also condition to spend, spend, spend, in order to look more beautiful. Woman are conditioned to buy tons of make-up, which will ruin their sometimes beautiful, natural skin. So after they do that irreparable damage, they must buy new, even better make-up to cover that up. And so the vicious circle begins. It is only important that they spend, spend, spend. If you take just any cream, or make-up, you will see hundreds of chemically synthesized ingredients. Just imagine what they can do to a young skin. Of course the industry claims it is safe to use. If that is so, why do woman who wear complete make-up when its washed down have skin like a moonscape? I wouldnt put any of that on my face, thats for sure. Once, you may run into a beauty that wears no make-up. Never. And her beauty is stunning, unreal. Treasure that woman like the biggest jewel, cause she is not only breathtaking when you see her, but she is smart and doesnt care what society thinks about her. Do everything that you can to have her, but she is free of society program, and you will have to be also. Dont waste such a chance, cause you may never find another one like her. In many ways, such a woman are similar to us, cause she has managed to get rid of customs, they try to force into us. In the shopping mall, you will also see woman try out clothes in all colors and style. Notice that the shopping assistant will always be a nicelooking girl dressed good, that is there to make female customers unhappy about themselves. Track 2 So they would compensate with spending. Everything is there for a reason. So later I will tell you how to approach moving woman, so for now just concentrate on stationary ones that are looking at clothes, or talking to their girlfriends. But before you do that, look at yourself. How are you dressed? Do you look like your mother just bought all your clothes? If you look like that, all woman will know that you are definitely, not

their prince. So your chances are slim. Do you have some geek communication device that looks like it just came out of another dimension? Hopefully not, but if you do, please put it away. Great, that was easy. Now comes the hard part. You walk around for half an hour, and then suddenly you see her. Thats her! Shes wearing high heels, tight jeans that show her hard butt, and other body parts are defying the laws of gravity. As she turns her head, long, shiny hair just flies through the air in a dazzling motion. Look at her walk, like on a cushion of air, a real Goddess. Hahaha! I bet you just froze, didnt you? At this moment, the society program, put in your mind by social conditioning, deep in your mind, must do everything to stop you. Since you are just an ordinary citizen, and you are not very successful, rich or handsome, you must be stopped. Strange pain will begin in your stomach, going all the way to your throat, making you lose your state of speech. You are close to her, and there is nobody between you and her. Shes picking through clothes, and doesnt even notice you. But your body is overtaken by society, and there is nothing you can do. You see, in this most important moments in life, definitely the most important, you may find, that you are just a slave to the system a good citizen. Retreat for a while, but dont lose her. Beautiful woman are too few to be wasted, so keep an eye on her, but dont go far away. Stay close, but not close enough that she notices you. You must not be noticed, cause then, you are a stalker, and you lose. So now, what will you do, what will you do? Youve been stuck in a parking jam. You came to the shopping mall, or any other place with woman. You walked around, lost time, saw nothing, and now finally, when you saw her, society program has taken over, and you are stuck. Believe me, at this moment, you are far better than almost all men. You are trying to do the best and smartest thing there is meet a woman you like, while they are wasting their time on things that are of zero importance compared to her. Just the act of going out to do it makes you special, so, congratulations! But now, lets get back to battle. So, she is now in shoes district. Shes making herself pretty for her prince, and even though you dont really care about her shoes, she wants to be beautiful for the man of her dreams, that she would think about all the details there are. You try to go for it now, but as you come to ten feet distance, you feel you are about to lose your gift of speech. If you are able to go without sweating, and to speak normal, and she sees you, then go. Its now or never! But if you feel you are under total society control, and that you just cant kill that excuser guy inside yourself, its time for Attract and Date fear destroyer. This fear destroyer is so powerful, that if you use it, in the peace of your own home before seeing a woman, your life will never be the same, and soon you will end up surrounded and flocked by stunning woman. So move away a bit so she doesnt notice that you are having a battle inside your mind. She must not see that, cause she will not be attracted. Let her think you are a genuine prince of hers. Now, think about events when you were blocked in the same way that you are now. Try to remember as many of them you can, and where has it taken you? Remember all the occasions when you were blocked, and how life would be different if only once you managed to break that pattern inside your mind. Track 3 Do it until you start to feel rage building up inside you. Rage against bad thought patterns inside your own mind. It will take some time, but you must do it. When you start feeling the rage build up inside you, look at her. Enjoy checking her body from tip to toe, and repeat after me: I will not be blocked by my mind. Now, its time for victory! Once more: I will not be blocked by my mind. Now, its time for victory! Then proceed to approach her. From the moment you start approaching a woman, she

starts taking in all the info about you that she can get. Excusers will always approach from her side, or her back. If you ask them why, they will not know. It is cause their bad programming inside their minds makes them do exactly the wrong moves, that will make the woman blow them off, and the program in their minds is so strong, that they arent even aware of it. So, you will not approach from the back, or from the side. See where the woman is facing. Draw an imaginary line on the floor in the direction that she is facing. Now your job is to position yourself about ten yards away from her on that line, and that moment must be the first moment she notices you. If there is no way you can come to that spot without her seeing you, dont go. It is better to approach at a harder angle, than for her to see you running to the spot, and then approaching her. But usually, you will be able to walk to a spot at least ten yards away from her in the direction she is facing. For your first approaches, be sure to do that. So this if the first time she is seeing you in her life. You are in front of her, and she is looking at your direction. Repeat once more in your head: I will not be blocked by my mind. Now its time for victory! Your clothes dont have to be spectacular, just dont look like a mamas boy, or a beggar. Look at her, but dont stare at her eyes like a psycho. In a relaxed way, start walking towards her. What does that mean? You stand tall, you expose your chest, you dont have fast unconscious movements that would communicate to her that you are insecure. Practice that at home in front of mirror until you make it. Your posture, and how you handle yourself, are the key here, cause woman can see a lot about a man in the way he walks. Walk in front of mirror until you see that in the mirror, there is a confident man, relaxed. One more thing: it will happen that your mind will start screaming: Oh! What will other people think? If they see me, I will feel ashamed! Dont look around with your eyes, checking out other people. If you are her prince, the other people dont matter at all to you. You are not there to seek others people approval. When you start feeling that everybody is spying on you, watching your every move, listen to this: I give you order to go. Now go! Who will you listen to? Those other peoples, hopeless excuser looks, or me. Start walking towards her, and keep your eyes only on her. After a few steps, she will realize that you are coming to her. Can you feel the tension in the air? Can you feel her heart beat fast? If you can, then you are doing it right. When youll be on half of your way, cycle once more through the following in your mind: do I look relaxed? Do I look confident? Do I have stiffness in any parts of my body? If so, relax that body part. Am I thinking that somebody is watching me? If so, thats society program. Block that thought! Track 4 Is my throat relaxed and not jammed? So, when I start to talk, my voice will not be high-pitched. When you come at about six feet distance from her, start to smile. The smile should be genuine. If the woman is hot, you will smile, and be happy that you are talking to her. When you are about four feet away from her, gesture with one arm, that you would like to talk to her. So both arms are relaxed at the sides, but at about four feet one arm goes from the side to the front, and palm upwards, slightly towards her. You are doing all that while continuously walking to her. By opening your palm towards her, in a circular gesture of the hand, and at the same time bending your spine just a bit forward, you will hit her most desired wish to meet Prince Charming. In order to be Prince Charming, your whole body must be relaxed, and not stiff. When you open up one palm that now faces upwards, you signal subconsciously to her that you dont carry a bat. Its all a caveman instinct. Dont do it stiff, this is not karate. Remember, first handle your fear inside your mind, and then the movement will come to you very easy.

If you leave your fear, no matter how methodically talented you are, you will not move right. So, that was all one fluid movement, and you stop a bit more than at arms length from her. Spread your feet at least half a foot, to stand stable. By spreading your feet, and exposing your throat, you stand as if you have nothing to fear. Since mind and body are linked, you will start to feel confident also. If you go in an unconfident bodylanguage pose, your state of mind will also be full of fear, and the woman will sense it, and she will not like you. You are standing a bit more than an arms length from her. Smile like to a little child. Now you may think, why should I smile? You must smile to make her fear go away. Youre a stranger, imagine if a stranger approached you. You would not feel so comfortable if he looked deadly serious. It is good to get a friend to watch you cause you cannot think about all this info in the beginning. Now, start your talk. Remember, you are not an excuser, or supplicator. You are her prince. Excuse me for interrupting you like this. Ive been traveling lately a lot, and have not been around. Could you please tell me what are the best clubs to go this Saturday? While saying Excuse me for interrupting you like this, let her see in your eyes that you admire her. Dont hide that. You are not talking to a tree. You must say that you have been away, because if you admit in the first sentence that you are anti-social, and have no clue where to go out, she will not like you at all. While interrupting woman in places they dont expect go get approached, youll often say Excuse me, in the beginning. Notice that you say that to satisfy her social programming, and it in no way makes you an excuser. You say Excuse me, but never wait for approval, and you dont stare at her waiting for approval, cause that would make you an excuser. You just continue what you wanted to tell her. That way, she will not feel like a slut, and will be free to enjoy the time with this new, interesting stranger. Let her finish her talk. A girl will always hang out in a place where there are similar girls, so choose your type of girl. Ask her questions, but dont disqualify yourself with questions like: Can you get there without a car? How much is the entrance fee? If you have no money, or a shitty car, once youre in a club only your mind matters. Woman choose who she will leave with then and there, and when she sees your ride, its too late my miss. Track 5 When you get everything you want to know out of her you can now go away, or stay. It depends on you. If you executed everything as I told you, you just had a brilliant start, and it is a waste if you just go away. But if you choose to go approach someone else, just say: Thank you miss. Now I must go, in a polite way, almost romantic. Never just leave without saying that. You may meet her one day. Even if shes not a woman you like, she may have nice friends. Approach five woman that you find attractive. Remember, if some excuses start flocking your mind, keep an eye on the woman, and handle them like I told you. Do not approach from the sides, or from the back, cause a typical excuser is standing still, and when an attractive woman passes him by he blurts something out from her side, like: Nice legs, sugarpants! To differentiate yourself as much as you can from those excusers, you must approach from her front. Draw an imaginary line in the direction shes facing. Approach on that line. You must get on that line far away from the woman. Any approach that comes from the direction other than her front is from an excuser angle. If you are in an excuser angle, and then jump her at three feet, and step on the line, it will be even worse than approaching from the excuser angle. Any awkward moves will be classified as insecurity, cause thats what they really are: insecurity. Attractive woman get hit on whole day, but nobody dares to approach her from the front, and I emphasize, once more, that you must literally go and

stand on the line, and then slowly and confidently walk towards her. Your mind will try to force you to look around, and study the wall, but you must not do that. Stay focused on her. It has never happened to her. When you are asking her what are the best places to go out, your primary mission is to find out best places to go out, and not to seduce her. That is the first step. Approaching an unknown woman with a question. When you do that several times, you will be ready to express some interest in your approaching her. But if youve never approached woman in your life, you must handle this first. There are many places you can go. A lunch-break at your work will do, providing there are woman over there, or a fitness club is a great place. Their fitness instructors can be good-looking. If you are in a shopping mall, in some sections there will be hot shopping assistants being bored to death cause there arent any customers. If you see an empty shop, and a nice shopping assistant inside, doing nothing, you must not come in, pretend that you are looking at the merchandise, and then approach her. Dont be an excuser. Track 6 Walk in and say what you have to say. Only after you do that, you may proceed to check the merchandise, in case it really interests you. You may start feeling that you are the only man inside the department store, and that you are an intruder. That all eyes are resting upon you. That is just your mind trying to sabotage you. Woman are so obsessed with shopping that they wouldnt care even if you rode a horse in the shopping mall. Nobody cares what you do. Shopping is their most desired activity, after being in love, and since theyve met only excusers, they feel no love, and only thing they can do is shop, shop, shop. If a girl asks you any questions about yourself, or what are you shopping for, that means that you are doing great, and that she is starting to like you. It means you approached her good. If she just shuts up, it is cause shes shocked, and after meeting loads of excusers, finally someone who may be her prince appears! The opening line you are using now is one more step on your journey. Dont be impatient and rush to seducing woman immediately. Take care of your body language, voice and gestures while you are still just asking a question. All at once would be too much, and you would blow it, but couldnt pinpoint the cause, since there is too much new info involved. Just one more thing you should know: if you find a good-looking shoe saleswoman, approach her, and stay to chat with her and get to know her. Avoid asking her whats her favorite pastime, cause they will usually say buying shoes. Then, it may happen, that you burst into laugher, and self-destruct yourself. But if you prefer sophisticated crowd, join me in trendy clubs, full of light, where beautiful woman can show themselves for others to admire. I will now take you to the clubs. Clubs are a good place to learn how to attract and date good-looking woman, cause there are so many of them. Most of our students choose not to go to clubs at all. Now, they have the power to seduce woman in everyday occasions. Once you get good enough, seeing and approaching just one woman you like will be enough. But you will need to approach many woman in order to get good, so that is why you should go to any place where there are many woman. Since clubs are the easiest, I will take you there now. So, you found out in which club there are good woman. If you are young, it can be a party place. If you are older, it can be an after-work party. Anyway, it is most important to know where woman are, cause, if there are no woman you want, you waste a night for nothing. Now is time to get off the couch, and visit them. If you have a friend who decided, just like you, that he will change his life for better, take him with you. However, if you have a friend who is obviously under influence of society, and doesnt want to change himself, maybe it is not a good idea to go with him. Maybe, if you dont

have any friends that sincerely want to be better at attracting and dating woman, you should go alone. Yes, alone. Can you feel the society pressure giving you fear? Track 7 Imagine that you are a beginner in swimming, and have trouble keeping yourself afloat. What is the purpose of dragging a rock with you? You will both sink to the bottom. Once you become a good swimmer, you may take weight with you. Its up to you to decide when the time has come to do that. Lets suppose that all your friends are excusers, and that there is nobody who wants to go out and meet charming, dressed-up ladies that have put on make-up all day, just to be beautiful for you. Lets suppose they are all excusers waiting for summer, or for the exams to pass, or to finish a project at work in three months, and then they can get a girlfriend. Now youre on your own. Being outside alone realistically maximizes your chances of getting woman, cause you have nothing else to do than to meet woman. But, if you are with a buddy, your minds will generate excuses that the two of you start talking about something, even though woman in miniskirts are everywhere around you. It is interesting that even though you had all day to talk with your buddy, now when youre finally surrounded by woman, you two start talking the most and theorizing about nonsense. Why does that happen? The unconscious programs deep inside both of your minds know that if you two get into a conversation, all those woman will end up going home alone, and since you two are not rich or famous, thats the best outcome for the society and nation to function perfectly. Imagine if the most beautiful woman had children of average man. That would be a waste of their great genes, and it would hurt the humankind as a whole. That is why they install a program in our mind, that gives us confidence only after we achieve something, or have something of value. But of course, we are not here to care about the future of the human race. We are here to care about ourselves. So, lets get back to action. If you decide to go out alone, excuses in your mind will try to sabotage you any way they can. Your mind will tell you: What if other people find out, that I go out alone? What if I meet my friends, and they find out Im out alone? What if somebody sees me hanging out in club, all by myself? I will look like a loser! You see, your mind will try to generate excuses to stop you from taking what you want, and getting girl. There are many men who would like to meet woman, but they cant talk their friends to go out with them. They waste days, or even years, trying to talk their friends into going out with them. That way, the society wins. It I true that if you are out alone, and if you meet a bunch of excusers, and they see you alone, that they will be shocked. But remember, when waves are big, it is much better to swim by yourself than with an anchor tied to your neck. Also, if you still have second thought about going out alone, listen to this: Are you afraid that other people will know that you will soon have sex? Listen to me again: Are you afraid that other people will know you will soon have sex? Or we can change that a bit for the younger crowd, but you may be older and it could still apply to you. Think about it. Track 8 Are you afraid that your parents will know that you will soon have sex? What kind of fear is that? Total society blocker, especially the last one. Listen to it again: Are you afraid that your parents will know that you will soon have sex? Your parents may be thousands of miles away from you at the moment, but they are agent of society, and they had to control you when you were still living with them. Many guys are still under

that influence, and it ruins their sex-life totally. If you suppose that you may be one of them, just follow your coach, and all the missions I give you, to destroy that negative influence in your mind. Great, so now you are going out. Please, dont make me check on you. If I see you at home on Saturday night, I will kick you out of your couch. Its Saturday evening. Take a look at your wardrobe. Oh no! Its only shades of gray, brown or dark green. All excuser-fitting colors. But, dont worry. You can still go out now like that and succeed, but be sure to buy some different than usual shirt next week. And remember, different, no necessary expensive. When I was young, I had no money, zero money. So I took my fathers shitty old car, and environmental hazard. It was 7 meters long. I bet you dont have a car like that. Its 4 meters of car, and 3 meters of smoke. Since I had no money, I always had a bottle of water in my car. I would park the car in front of club, and take a big sip of water. Inside club I would make girls buy me drinks all the time. If Im with my friend, he was also without any cash, so then I carried two bottles in my car. But I always had the best woman out there. Now, I have money, and guess what? I still have the best woman out there. So, if you are still excusing that you are poor, and dont have money to go out, please stop excusing to me, cause Im not listening. In the car you must have the following things: condoms. Buy the best ones. Dont be a cheap bastard and save money on condoms. Come on! A blanket. It depends on type of car. Hopefully, you wont be needing one. A bottle of water. I know, you have cash to buy drinks in the club, but after doing nasty things in the car, you will need a drink, and girl will need a sip also. Thats about it. Of course, it is much more convenient to take the girl to your place, but it is easier to make her horny in the car than to make her come to your place. If you are going out with a buddy, each one should come in his car. Countless times it has happened to me, that I had to leave my friends in the club while taking the girl I met with me, but as a real sportsman I would encourage them in that situation by saying: Track 9 Walking is healthy. If you dont want to do that, come separately. By now you know where the woman are. Let me give you a short, objective analysis of clubs and type of woman you will meet there. First, an after-work party. Those are the easiest. Plenty of woman in their thirties and forties. The woman have a lot of money, and buy themselves enough alcohol to get heavily drunk. Woman are desperately hoping for their prince to come, but he is nowhere to be seen, and fit the same age-group, this is peanut.dl.am for you to start. Remember, you dont need to have anything with any of those woman, but they will be good for breaking the fear of approaching and talking with woman, or groups of woman. They are tired of a day at work, aware that they are getting old, and as they say, When breasts go down, wisdom goes up. A typical male-to-male joke. If woman hears that, she will hate you. So, if you are looking for woman that will make it easy for you to get what you want, go there. What else do we have? We have bars. Atmosphere is relaxed in the bars. Woman are not so bad, although many can drink a lot more beers than you can. Friends, both male and female, come together to a bar, and there may be lot of them in one group, and believe me, youll always want one beautiful woman from one group, and everybody else will act as her guardian, and try to block you. Now, you must get comfortable with approaching and talking one or two woman. Music in bars is not too loud, so you can speak to her, and its not too silent, and thats good, cause in beginning you will run out of things to say, and the program in your mind will make you feel embarrassed, but since there is music it is socially acceptable not to talk, so your program will not fire. A good place to meet woman are parties. To

get to a party, you must first know somebody who is throwing a party. If you dont know anybody whos throwing a party, who cares? City is full of woman. Remember one thing: all blockers are in your mind. When you are on a party, and both you and the woman you fancy are friends of the host, it is not easier to approach her, but the program in your mind makes it easier for you, cause it is socially acceptable to talk to a friend of a friend. So if you cant get into a party, it really doesnt matter. Trust me. Sooner or later, you will charm a woman, only to find out, you dont really like her. Instead of blowing her off immediately, stay in touch with her, and meet her girlfriends. If you are an excuser she will introduce you only to the less attractive ones, but if you are really good, she will set you up with her gorgeous friend. Then you are a sure winner. Enjoy your prize! Track 10 I wouldnt suggest throwing a party, if you want to find a girlfriend, cause it is just too much work. Since you are the host, you will have to talk to everyone, and help everyone out, and in the meantime somebody else may get her. And remember, I will not repeat it more, but any place you go, woman are desperately hoping for their prince to come, but he is nowhere to be seen. Track 11 Then, especially if you are a fan of na ve, young girls, that usually believe in the superior force, or a New Age supernatural, you can go to techno party, or rave party, or house party. I consider all of those woman intellectually challenged, and dont bother to waste time on them. But there may be some extremely hot ones in places like that, if you choose to go there. Actually, Im amazed how people go there and fall into trance, and they consider that fun. I dont have time for that. On weekends I go to ski to a beautiful mountain, and relax in female company after that. I believe that those people in trance have such huge sexual and life frustration, that only thing they can do is connect and unite in the spirit of music. Also, if you choose to go there, you will have to compete on the dance-floor, by dancing like a monkey, and who wants to compete? Your competition does not know how to talk, they can only dance. Track 12 I dont know about you, but I lose my temper pretty quick, and dont listen to a woman who talks about going to a rave, not to mention, that some of them take drugs. I advise you to discard all those party chicks. You dont need a frustrated woman in your life, do you? Have you ever been to a rave? You know how does it feel to me? Like a group of trolls, celebrating their misery underground. Also, many woman like to wear sunglasses down there. It is cause of two reasons. First reason is that the pupils are dilated from the pills they took, and second reason is that they are not good-looking, and beware, sunglasses may make you think she is breathtaking, but when she takes them off you are disappointed. Those party girls are annoying to talk to, even if you meet them during the day. They usually have some weird fantasies, like peace on Earth, or age of Aquarius has come, or they will tell you they love all people, that we are all children of a sun. I advise you to waste time on a girl like that only if there are no normal woman to be found. Then we have nightclubs. Now we are talking. Nightclubs are peanut.dl.am to go to learn to attract and date woman. You will find dazzling and

beautiful and very interesting woman in there. Dont be intimidated when you get there. It is dark. The lights are flashing. Attractive woman have a mean look. It seems that they are pissed, ready to bite you! But nothing could be further from the truth. After meeting hundreds of excusers, only thing she can do to protect herself is pull a nasty face. Its not her fault. It will scare excusers and they will call her a bitch, and under that shield there may be a beautiful personality, waiting just for you. Why do you think she is there, all dressed up? Why do you think shes standing there all evening? Did she come to dance? I dont think so. Dancing in high heels is not enjoyable. Did she come to talk with her girlfriends? They can also talk in every coffee shop. She came there to meet you, to see are you an excuser or a prince, to see what are you made of, and your mission is to prove that not all men are the same, that not all men are excusers, and to make her eyes shine bright. And last, but definitely the best, are trendy cocktail bars, with fancy and tastefully arranged outdoor drinking areas. The superb woman hang out there, and thats where I like to go. Later, we will talk about all these places, but now Ill describe how to approach a woman when youre out. Lets suppose you find yourself in a nightclub. You managed to defeat all the excuses. You didnt find anyone who wants to attract and date beautiful woman, and are now on the nightclub entrance all alone. Dont be afraid now. If you choose a place with good woman, it will not be a dangerous place. Some of the guys I know, always go out in big groups, and end up in a fight each weekend. You did not come there to fight. Only fools fight. You came there to get yourself a woman you like. I never ended up in a fight. I dont go out to stir trouble. Going out with many friends in order to be stronger in a fight is wrong way of looking at the situation. If a fight breaks off, dont run towards it. All men will do that, but see which woman are left alone and run to get them. Fool those society excusers that are trying to give themselves value by fighting each other. Give yourself value by the act of being above all of that, and approach a girl you desire. Track 13 Dont go to dangerous places, but if you choose to go, always make friends with the bouncers. Leave them a tip, or buy them a drink when they are not working. But making friends with bouncers will just move you away from your primary objective, and that is woman. So stay away from suspicious places. Woman inside there are not worth it anyway. When you find yourself in a club, dont go approaching immediately. Take a walk around, and see where are the girls you like. Remember that. If you are still a beginner in Attract and Date, and never did approaches in a club, its best that you find a woman you like, or two woman you like, standing alone, and approach them in order to break your fear. Is your fear too strong even on not the best woman? If it is, so remember the Attract and Date fear destroyer, and do it. For your first-ever approach in a club, after you stop being an excuser, and you did, didnt you? Choose a good-looking girl, standing alone. If you cant find her, just choose a girl that may be in a big company, but is standing on the side of the group, looking away from them, and probably, gently moving to the music. You will find a lot of woman like that. Now stand far away from her, so she cant notice you, then tell to yourself: This is it! The beginning of the end of my excusing! Tell to yourself one more time: This is it! The beginning of the end of my excusing! From the time she notices you, it is important what you do. Until that moment, you can use your time to kick any excuses you may have out of your mind. Track 14

Observe her, and her relation to the group. You see, she is with boyfriend. Now, that is too big challenge for your first approach. Move on to the next girl. Observe her from a distance. Until you get some experience, dont run in assuming you know the situation. Ok, shes with a group of male and female friends, but is not engaged in the convo too much. It is recommended that you find a girl that is just looking around, not talking, cause you may still have excuses in your head that will make you ashamed if everyone from the group looks at you. So you found an ideal woman for your first approach. Try to maneuver yourself any way you can, so when she first sees you you will be in front of her. Then, walk slowly to her, but dont pretend you are looking around, and that you happen to run into her, cause she will see right through your excuses. Check her out in a nice way and smile. You dont have to smile like you did at the shopping mall, cause in a club, woman are accustomed to men approaching them, so they will not be afraid of your approach. So just smile slightly. Dont overdo it. Now comes the moment when every guy makes a huge mistake. Excuses in his head tell him that her friends will be offended. That he has to pay respect, and get approval from them. So beginner in Attract and Date will always look at her friends with fast eye movement, searching for approval to talk with her. But deep inside her the woman knows that her man does not seek approval from anyone, and she wants to be the only one you are interested in. She doesnt want a man who seeks approval. Dont get mad if those excuser eye-movements happen to you, cause it is your unconscious reaction, but she will like you a lot less if you seek approval from her group, cause then you are a weak man, an excuser. Track 15 It happens to you now, it doesnt matter. You will fix that later. But once you approached, and showed, who is in charge, feel free to look at her company. Even feel free to check out her girlfriends, if they are attractive. As you approach her, slightly smile, and if the music is loud, even come to hear ear, but with gentle, delicate movements and gestures, so she is not afraid, and then tell her: Do you know what was written in my horoscope today? That I will meet new people. Remember the joke mission. Use it now, by having a slight pause, and she will laugh. Then extend your hand and say: Im Ranko. If you followed through all the missions and instructions, shell extend her hand and say: Im Adrienne. Nice to meet you. Now stay concentrated on her. Look at her friends only if it is absolutely necessary. If you look at them cause you seek their approval, you just shot yourself in leg. Congratulations! You just made your first approach in club. Do it several times. After you did it several times, stop and think, did I show the girl Im interested in her, or did I leave an impression of a devoted horoscope-fanatic? Horoscope is really not important. What is important is that she automatically knows that you are interested in her, and that is the reason why you approached her. From your eyes, from your smile, and from your gestures, there can be no mistake. You like her, and you want her, and I gave you the horoscope joke to make it easier for you, cause she will laugh at it, and laughing breaks down all kinds of resistance. So after you did a few approaches, and amused woman with the horoscope joke, you must go and do it a few more times, but pay attention that with your eyes you communicate to a woman that you find her attractive, and that is the actual reason for coming, not horoscope. Track 16

Dont excuse yourself under some silly horoscope story. The purpose of your talk must be clearly visible to woman. Of course, it is much more easier to go around and pretend that you are actually horoscope fan, but there is no way you will win her over with such excuses. It is not easy to go to her, and express interest in your looks and gestures, cause then you would be the alpha man that cares for her, and that is what every woman wants, so the program in your mind will try to stop you doing that. Now, approach several woman with the same line, but take care to express that you are there cause of her. Dont excuse yourself. When you accomplish that, listen on. First youve approached woman asking for a club. I hope your mind didnt force you to be a lost tourist, cause you know what? Lost tourists dont get laid. Now, you used the horoscope joke to approach woman. Remember the line is just a joke to make her laugh. It must be obvious that you are not a weirdo who believes in the supernatural, cause if you pretend that, once you try to seduce her, she will know that you faked everything, and youll be just an excuser, and get one more night with your hand. If we are moving at too fast pace, it is ok to stop listening now. Go out and do everything I told you now once more. At this moment you are doing huge steps in the right direction, so dont skip any missions. Student from many nations have been trained by us in the clubs, and in any other place. Us, students and woman, and it is necessary to do the missions to advance step by step. I can not check on you now, but will be mad if I find out you did not get out of the couch. You will advance by just listening to Attract and Date, but doing all the missions it the only way if you want to be the best. Now, I have two excuse-busters for you: you can do them today when you go into town. First is the condom excuse-buster. I want you to go to the nearest big crowded store, with a bunch of woman choosing make-up and glittering nail polish, and buy a pack of condoms. Dont spare money on condoms. Take a basket or a trolley and put only a pack of condoms inside it. Now, walk around with the condoms in the basket. Dont choose a far-away store. Choose a store somewhere, where your neighbors can see you. Somewhere where you go all the time. Can you feel the pressure in your head? Can you feel all the unnecessary excusing multiplying? What if this person sees me? What if that person sees me? Go to the store when it is crowded. Usually only woman hang out in stores like that, where they choose make-up and other accessories. Take a walk around so each and everyone of them sees what you bought. If shes attractive, dont hesitate to approach her, cause you already know two ways how. Can you sense how program in your mind is trying to destroy you? Resist it. You have been its slave for too long. You will not die as its servant. Listen to me: Are you afraid that everybody will know that you have sex? Are you afraid that everybody will know that you have sex? Take a few walks through the store, so everybody sees you are not an excuser. Check out beautiful woman, and talk to them. And then go stand in a line, and watch the horrified looks of all male excusers standing around. This mission is a must if you want to improve. I repeat: a must. All these missions are meant to take you in the same direction. You must not de-personalize from them, or do it as a chore. You must genuinely want to improve, and do it from your heart, as they say. So you must genuinely want to improve and do it from your heart. Your next mission is: pornographic magazine excuse-buster. Somewhere, you must have a porn magazine. If you dont have it, a book about sex will be good also. Dress your best and most expensive clothes, so you look like a respected member of society, and successful one. Go to a nice place with a bench that you used to accomplish one of your first missions. Sit on the bench and do everything as you did back then. Track 17

Now, take out the magazine or the book, and read whatever interests you. Can you feel all the excusers looking at you, horrified? Good. Read some more. After about ten minutes, you have completed your mission. It is very simple, yet extremely powerful. This mission you may do only once, but the condom mission you can do each time you go to buy yourself condoms. Now, lets get back to meeting woman. You already know where to go to find the woman you want. I suppose its a club, but you can do the same everywhere else, even the break at your work-place. There it should be even easier than in the clubs. One important detail to remember is, that you cant just appear out of nowhere and jump the girl with your line. You must give her a few seconds to get accustomed to meeting a new man. You must let her know what you are about to do. You do that by walking in her line of sight, and in the end, gently smiling to her. Never forget, that it makes it very natural for her to continue talking to you that way. If you really surprise her, you will have to tell her something before the horoscope line, for example: Let me explain how to stop a walking woman in a club. Woman have this custom to walk around all night, to show themselves and to check who else is there. If you wait for her to stop, you can lose all night, or she will be approached by someone else, or even worse, she will notice you following her, and you become a lurker, and she hates lurkers. So imagine you see a stunning, dazzling woman walking. Beautiful woman are never alone, cause their girlfriends want to hang out with them, since their beauty will attract a parade of men, and cause of that maybe she can meet a man also, and men always try to impress or talk to a beauty, so she has more attention than she can handle, and approaching her when shes walking alone is much easier than approaching her when shes surrounded by girlfriends and a few male admirers that are buying them drinks.

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Track 1 The same as we can judge a womans qualities in a second, she has to judge us in a second, so it is very important how you are going to stop her. The first moments of approaching a woman, and a few seconds before that, are always the most important. So suppose shes walking, and you can almost sense an aura around her. She knows she has all the attention, and enjoys it. She has total power, and everybody, both her girlfriends and her male friends, and her boyfriend, supplicates to her, cause they are all afraid of losing her, so they will do anything to please her. But, since she is a woman, she is genetically programmed to seek a male that is at least stronger than herself, and a boyfriend who turns into a puppy is not what she is lusting for. If all men turn into puppies when she sees them, then of course she will choose the richest one, or the bestlooking one, but she remains unhappy all her life. Now, you come to change that! Shes walking on a line. Find the shortest path to the line, and position yourself on the line.

Start walking directly towards her. Dont be an excuser! Dont be an excuser! When you look at her, smile like Prince Charming coming to take what belongs to him. Make it obvious that shes about to be stopped. Only thing important is that you must not seem desperate. You must seem like a man that takes what he wants and desires, even if you are desperate at the moment. It doesnt really matter. As long as you fake it for a few minutes, she will begin to like you. Then she will start smiling at you, and touching you. She will start to play with hair, and flirt with you, and then, even if you are desperate to start with, she will pull you out of your depression. So, how is your walk? Track 2 It should be slow, confident. Relax your arms on your side. Dont put them in your pockets like some lame drug-dealer. You must not wait for the last moment, cause you will seem like a drug-dealer or a beggar to her, hiding something. At about a meter distance, gently raise your hand and stop her. The bad society program in your mind will try to keep your hand low. It will pull it down. If you are doing it with a friend, watch him. He will not let himself to raise his hand. The hand must sometimes come to the level of her shoulder, and if she doesnt stop, gently touch her shoulder. It must be a slow, obvious gesture. Do not wait for the last moment, and then do something in panic. Also smile to break her fears. Memorize all this and do it with your friend watching. You must be the one who stops her. Dont raise your arm like a traffic cop and blurt something out and expect that she will stop and listen. Your duty is to stop her. If its needed, touch her. We stop roller-girls all the time. Imagine how you need to apply force then. Stopping her will be a surprise, so instead of going into the horoscope line immediately, say Excuse me for stopping you like this. Say it from a position of power at the same time you are saying it, and stopping her. Do not say it and wait for her approval. She doesnt want a man who seeks approval in the first second of interaction. What kind of a man is that? An excuser. Say gently, almost romantic, and after a slight pause, continue to Do you know what was written in my horoscope today? That Ill meet new people. If you did everything as I told you, she will be dazzled. Yes, dazzled, and you just had wonderful start. Track 3 Sometimes her friends are waiting for her, and she must go to them in order not to appear as a slut, even though she likes you a lot. Dont let your excuses stop you now. If she seems happy and surprised, but says that she has to go to her friends, just say: Ok. I will go with you. A girl just likes it more when her friends are nearby, and shes talking to you. Even though shes feeling attracted to you, shes still a girl, and is afraid of unknown men. You dont mind are your friends watching you, but girls do mind are her friends close. If you did everything well, you will have a chat, and when she mentions her friends, dont run away. Feel free to join them. Once you are with them, dont excuse saying You know, I met her cause I read the horoscope, bla bla bla As far as they are concerned, you two know each other from before. Remember that is one of your strongest weapons. Excusers thinking that since shes so happy talking to you, it must be that you two know each other from before. Dont waste your time on getting to know her friends. Just give them a polite hello and continue talking to her. Stopping is an essential skill to master, which you must know. It is totally against the social programming, cause it will get you a lot of woman, which otherwise you could never meet. Woman have the tendency to continue walking where they were heading,

after she had a chit-chat with you. It is not that she doesnt like you. She likes you, and you are totally different than all the men she met, but her social programming tells her, that she must not appear as a slut. What does that mean? She must not show obvious signs of liking an unknown man in front of other people. I will repeat it again: She must not show obvious signs of liking an unknown man in front of other people. Remember that. Track 4 Shes very limited in showing her affection for you after a stop. Even though those people around are complete strangers to both of you, a woman has big pressure inside her mind cause of them. It is inevitable to cause that on stopping, but as soon as possible, move closer to her, even tell her something in her ear, like a little secret of yours. She will know that now other people around you think you two are friends from before, and will not think of her as a slut. Also, if you are still under influence of bad social programming it will be way easier for you, if you know that others think the two of you are friends from before. The pressure in your mind may break you. The pressure that somebody is watching you, and judging you, but as you listen to this, you will defeat it, never to appear again. If a friend of yours is tagging along, he must never be near at the moment that you stop a walking woman. It will make her feel fear. It is felt by her like wolf-pack attack. Also, when you see a good-looking woman walking, you cant go to your friend and say Now lose yourself, cause she will see that he just ran away and will be suspicious. If you take some guy with you, and didnt let him listen to this, it will be a disaster for sure. You will easily defeat all excuses and stop a woman and approach her. He will stare from point-blank distance, or even worse, he will apologize for your behavior and tell her: Im sorry for his behavior. Hes not usually like this. Usually, hes an excuser. That will destroy you both, and you can go home, sleep alone. So beware if you are out with an old friend, to whom you did not explain, what you are up to do. If you are both just starting, and both of you are listening to Attract and Date, I suggest you take turns in who will approach the hottie. Before going in club, just make a deal, who goes first to approach a woman. After the approach, if it is a lone woman, the other guy has no reason to be there, but can go approach alone, or offer feedback to the first guy. Just Dont stand somewhere near, so its not obvious you are watching, cause if a woman is being watched, all kinds of alarms turn on inside her. Track 5 Well master all kinds of approaches first, and I mean first, then well handle what should I talk about problem. It is no use knowing how to succeed in talking, if you freeze when woman you want is surrounded by her friends. You may never get the chance to talk to her that way. Approaching a solo girl in a club is easy, and thats why you must do it first. It is easy, cause it is acceptable action for the manners they install into a mans head, but just approaching a group of girls will be a lot harder. Many men can easily approach a lone girl, and will spend the whole evening searching for an attractive woman that is alone. They will walk and walk for hours. Most of them will not realize that if there is no hot woman that are alone, they should approach hot woman that are not alone. The excuses have taken over. Most of men will not realize that, cause their program inside the mind does not let them realize that. Others will realize that it would be logical to approach a group of girls, if the girl they want is there, but

will still be blocked by conscious, or unconscious, excuses. I will now kick those excuses out of your mind. So even thinking about going into a group of unknown woman may give you goosebumps. Why is that so? Why mens minds wired in a way that totally ruin their lovelife? A man who as able to approach with ease, and start talking to a group of five attractive woman, even though his co-workers are nearby lurking and spying on him, has a huge chance of getting laid. But if he is not a successful society member, he must be stopped. It must never happen that an average guy does that. An average guy with average income, success and status, deserves an average woman, and that has been keeping society advancing. And the best blocker is the one installed in your mind. Track 6 It is your personal blocker that goes with you everywhere, and you cannot see it, cause it is in your head, hidden from the conscious mind. But, Attract and Date is here for the rescue! So your mind will try to stop you when you try to approach several woman standing in a group. Your mind will try to sabotage you, and many men go out hundreds of times, never to manage being sober and approach a bunch of good-looking woman. They spend their time searching for a woman that is alone, and that precise moment, since that is extremely time-consuming, they are blocked, and society order is preserved. Work equals sex. Lets suppose that now you are aiming for more sophisticated woman. You can use the horoscope line also, but now I will teach you Cocktail Tropico line. Learn and try both. They are excellent for practice. They are missions for you to accomplish, and every mission has a specific purpose for you to master. Every mission is a step to free your mind. When you decide to approach woman for the very first time, you may find yourself totally blocked, and having no experience in talking to woman, and having your mind full of society junk, you may find yourself stuck and unable to do anything. Then it is good to have a pre-memorized line, and an idea where the conversation will go. One of the biggest blockers you will encounter is the fear of not knowing what to say. In order to defeat that fear, you must somehow talk to a woman to replace the false imagined image of a woman that you have in your consciousness, with a real one. But how will you talk to them, if you have a big fear of not knowing what to say in the first place? You will use a memorized line. The huge blocker of I dont know what to talk about happens out of two reasons. The first is society program in the mind, which triggers the feeling of not being good enough. Soon, you have no idea what to say, and at the same time, it makes you speechless, cause of fear. Track 7 Do you have a problem of talking to your best friend? No, you have no trouble talking to him. How come you have trouble in talking to a woman then? You may say, It is true that I can talk with my best friend. Thats easy. But woman, nobody understands them. Your mind is generating pressure that you are not good enough to talk to a woman, and then you get blocked. Could you talk to a man if he had a gun pointed in your head? I dont think so. That is the same kind of blocker in your mind, that makes a gorgeous woman the same as a gun being pointed in your head, so you lose your gift of speech in both occasions. The other reason guys dont know what to say is sheer inexperience. They dont know anything about woman, so they seem alien to him, and the guy just has no idea what to say. He may be going well, but he will have no clue

what to say, and leave a pleasant conversation. So I will now give you directions for you to follow. The Cocktail Tropico line is best used on a group of woman. Take a walk around the club. Now youll approach two woman standing together by the bar. Its a classic situation. What can your competition, the excusers, do? They will approach the better-looking one from the side, and in their first sentence offer them to buy them drinks. Those woman have heard it a thousand times in their life, and about ten times already that night. If the woman get desperate enough, and realize that good men just dont exist, they will let someone buy them drinks, and maybe even proceed to having some kind of frustrated relationship with him, which may one day result in marriage. Basically, shell be unhappy all her life, cause she didnt succeed in her role as a woman. If you look at them, you may see frustration in their eyes. After a few years of meeting only excusers, they will start drinking, cause when they are drunk, even excusers seem like good men to them. Its the same with men. If they cant find a woman they want, they will get drunk, and suddenly, all woman will seem beautiful as a spring-red rose. So two woman are standing by the bar, having a drink, and an army of excusers is approaching from their sides, begging them: Could I buy you a drink? The excusers dont have much of a chance, cause the society program runs their minds. Even if they get lucky, and the woman they approach, cause of statistical probability, decides that she wants to get to know him, sooner or later her friend will drag her away to the toilet, and then, an excuser stays alone, and pays off all the drinks, and that is how it goes forever. But not for you. Track 8 For your first approach at two woman standing at the bar, this is how youll do it. This is the best way for you to start crashing your old programs. Imagine there is a line going at right angle from the bar, and finishing between the two woman. You will position yourself on that line, the farther the better, and ideally, that should be the first time woman notice you. They can notice you before, but it is best that they see you for the first time once you are standing on that imaginary line, facing them. Stand with your legs and hips wide. Dont be ashamed that everybody is watching you. Kick out any excuse from your head, and dont pretend that you are looking at the floor. Look at your woman! Start walking towards them and check them both out, in a nice way. Dont stare like a madman, cause she will see that you have a bad case of sexual neurosis. A sexual neurosis is a lack of sex, caused by excuses, and the only way to cure it is to kick out those excuses holding you down. Walk relaxed in a stable position. If you run into people, dont go running around them and excuse for your existence. If there are some men around, dont look at them. They are only a bunch of excusers. You dont need their approval. Take the hands out of your pockets. Now, men make a fatal mistake. They start talking, and expect, that the woman will turn around by themselves, and face him. But woman will not turn around to face an unknown guy, cause they must not appear as sluts. So even if they like you, they will not turn around by themselves. A woman doesnt like to take the initiative. That is how she filters out stronger than herself men. If you are afraid to touch her, and turn her a bit, then what kind of a man are you? Not the one she wants to mate with. When you come to them, you must gently but firmly tug their shoulders, and if they were facing the bar, turn their shoulders about forty-five degrees, in your direction, so they can start talking to you. You must give them that slight push, theyre expecting it. You must take the lead all the time. You either take the lead, or spend a night with your hand. There is no third option. Dont turn them totally towards you. That would be too much for starting of a conversation.

Just turn them enough that they cannot ignore your talk. Of course, you must smile, almost romantically, and seem like you are delighted to talk to them. I hope you are delighted. I hope you didnt choose ugly ones. When you come, you will say, Excuse me for disturbing you, in an alpha way. Do not wait for any approval, cause the one, who doesnt wait for an approval, sometimes gets the approval cause of that. Remember that: the one, who doesnt wait for an approval, sometimes gets the approval cause of that. You just asked for approval by saying Excuse me, to disable their society programming, which is on and running. That is the trick: just ask for approval. But physically, you do just as you would without asking for approval. Continue to talk. Dont be an excuser. The sole act of waiting for their approval will make you an excuser. If they notice you as you walk to them, and theyve seen you checking them out, they are already ready for your approach, especially if you established eye contact while walking to them. That is the best, cause you give them time to get ready for an approach. Dont make a mistake of addressing your line only to the better-looking girl. Talk with them both. Later I will teach you how to go directly to the beautiful woman, neglecting everybody else. So talk to both of them. If the music is too loud, which will often happen, repeat it in their ear. You will say: Hello girls. I was wondering, did you try these cocktails that they make here? Thats a great line to start out, but dont be surprised if you get a flat out No, and they start to ignore you after that. Track 9 Now it is probably too late to do anything with those woman, but you must get back to what I told you, and find out what was your mistake. You will fix it for the next woman you approach. If you get a flat out No, and they turn away, it means that you blew it heavily somewhere. Was it your excuser-looking clothes? Did you approach in an arc? Did you wait for them to finish their convo? Did you look fast left and right, asking for approval? Or, did you maybe laugh at yourself when approaching, and so they laughed at you too? One of the most common mistakes is the excuser fake smile? What is a fake smile men have when approaching or talking with woman? If you are walking and hit something with your foot, you will make a forced smile that shows others its hurting you a bit, but that everything is ok. When you play sports and something starts to hurt you, you will make that forced smile, that will signal just the right message to your team: it is hurting me, but I can carry on. Or it may mean: Yes, I was stupid to hit my leg, but now Im ok. Men will have the excuser fake smile all the time when they approach woman. Look around. It is a reflection of their internal insecurity, and if a woman sees you with a fake smile, she will get rid of you immediately. So when things go wrong, analyze what went wrong, and do another approach. It is best to fix it for the second approach, cause if you blew it on the first line, chances are slim that you will manage anything. Remember this Attract and Date rule: When a woman blows you off, dont think What I can do to recover now? but think What I have to change in order to succeed with the next woman? and very fast you will forget how it feels to be blown away. I will repeat that important rule: When a woman blows you off, dont think What I can do to recover now? but think What I have to change in order to succeed with the next woman? Do that, and soon, youll be flocked with woman. If she said a normal no, just continue. It means that they really didnt try any cocktails. Ask them about what they think would be a good cocktail at this lounge, and after that, even if they said yes, at the beginning, or no, it doesnt matter. Continue with the following story. Dont memorize it word-for-word. Say almost anything you want. The mission is to exercise your spontaneity, which has been destroyed by society. Say that you just met

the champion cocktail man of your state, who was leaving for cocktail world championship. Make up everything, each time, saying more and more details, and say that his favorite of all cocktails is Cocktail Tropico. Then proceed to describe the excellent Tropico. Make up its colors based on the colors woman are wearing. For example, It has sky-blue color, and make up all juicy pieces of fruit that you put in the cocktail. Sooner or later, you will have to talk to a woman about something, that means nothing to you, but means the world to her, and refrain from laughing. Practice your spontaneity by Cocktail Tropico story. Youll need it. And then say that youre tried to find Cocktail Tropico everywhere in this city, but they have them only in the trendiest of all places, so you didnt find it. After that speech, ask the woman, did they ever try Cocktail Tropico? Track 10 Of course, Cocktail Tropico doesnt exist. It is made up. But very often, you will hear woman say, that they drank the Tropico. Interesting phenomenon, I might say. When two woman are standing at the bar, after you start talking to them, stand in the way that you make a same-side triangle with them. After you talk more you can position yourself between them, and order yourself a drink. Dont be a cheap bastard when it comes to buying a woman a drink. If they have been talking to you for some time, offer to buy them drinks. Not only cause of courtesy, but its easier to talk if you drink in a hot, crowded club. Sometimes a drink is all you will buy her before you take her home. Remember, its more comfortable to have sex if youre not thirsty. Dont make the mistake of trying to bribe her with your drink. Many excusers do exactly that. She must like you cause of who you are, and you are the man, not cause of drinks you bought her. If you sense you are going nowhere with the woman, dont buy them anything. They cant deserve a favor from you just by existing. Almost all woman like to sucker men for drinks. They go out to get an ego boost, cause the more guys offer to buy her drinks, the more valuable she is. If it happens to you, that you buy her a drink, but she just goes away, dont do it again. Better buy me a drink. Just follow my advice and missions, and before you know it, beautiful woman will jump you. To achieve supremacy over your competition, and get the beautiful girl you want, you must first win the battle in your mind. If we are under society influence, our minds tend to go into negative, instead into positive. That must be fixed. First, you win the battle in your mind, and then all things come easy, effortlessly. If you approach without resolving the fear first, chances are slim, cause the girl will sense that you have some problems, or issues, and will not be attracted to you. That is the reason why woman hate excusers. Excusers make problems for themselves. They create phobias out of nothing, and find many ways how to fail. Excusers spend all their day thinking about what somebody else is thinking. So, let me ask you: are those genes attractive? Are those the genes of the father of a womans child? When a woman meets an excuser, she unconsciously knows, that if hes messed up, the children will be also, so she loses any kind of sexual attraction to him. It is not easy for men to realize that, since we judge woman in a totally different way. When a man sees a woman, hes interested only in her looks, cause that is the most important thing she will give to the baby: health. A beautiful young woman is attractive to us, cause her child will be the healthiest, and be fed with the best milk. When a woman looks at a man, she will be interested in what good characteristics can the baby get from the man. If a man is still thinking how to be a good boy and please his parents, and everybody else, if hes still thinking, about what everybody else is thinking, and wastes his time on excusing, he has only the worst

possible characteristics for the baby to inherit, and woman will feel repelled by him. So, more phobias or insecurities you kick out of your head, the more you will succeed. Track 11 Here is a mission for you, that will strengthen your willpower, the Attract and Date music mission: the majority of people let bad events during the day ruin their mood. They surrender, and give up, and let negativity flood their minds. They let inevitable events, which can not sometimes be stopped or predicted, ruin their most precious belonging: their good state of mind, their spirit. This is an exercise which will teach you how to stay focused, and how to repel away all negativities, no matter what they may throw into you. You will practice it at home, and when you go out, and see a woman, the nothing will stand in your way. Take some music CDs. The more famous songs, the better. Whole humankind lets ordinary, daily events depress them. For example, seemingly innocent things as music is like a drug. Music has this powerful influence on the conscious mind, and when you go out clubbing, and just about everywhere else, youll be hit by loads of songs. You must not let those songs influence your state of mind. I guess you are stronger than some silly song. Dont be an excuser. Find greatest hits or any other song filled with emotional crap. Have at least ten songs. Let them play, and now the battle begins. Those songs were made especially to target your emotional center in your mind, to give you all kinds of feelings you have missed, to make out of you a silly excuser, that uses his music player to escape the misery of his life. Dont let them do that. Stay calm. Sit down, and using all the knowledge you have about society control, and all the power youve found out inside you, that you never knew you had, stay at the present moment, and dont let the song drag you into its emotional space. So listen to ten top hits, and be proud how that society emotions-making machine can not influence you any more. Why is that so important? After all, they are just songs, you may say. When you are out meeting woman, loud music will be playing, and when you concentrate on the woman, the music may make you move out of the present moment, and you will not do best to attract her. When you will be able to stop any emotion that is being pumped into your mind, you will think with unprecedented clarity, and that will be your advantage over all those excusers blurting something out to woman. When youll be doing that mission, think about your future, when youll be getting all the music you want from the sounds of a womans satisfaction. And now, lets charm more stunning woman. Track 12 When you see a beautiful woman standing near, the excuser generator in your mind will turn on, cause you are not rich or successful enough, so you must be stopped. I have nothing to say, is one of the most common excuses it will use to fool you and trick you, and BAM, you spend a night with your hand. Youve come to the moment to permanently delete all blockers, and then you will talk to woman as easily as effortlessly you talk to your best buddy. You must target the blockers in your mind, and destroy them. That way, you will be set free, to finally start meeting and talking to any woman you like, and when the time comes, kiss her and take her home. So whatever story I tell you to talk about, or the lines itself, use it as a way to finally talk and interact with woman. After seeing how woman are indeed wonderful and friendly that is, if you are not an excuser your conscious mind will have enough power to get you rid of I have nothing to say-blocker, and in the process, you will find out the real nature.

Then, you will talk to her, like you talk to your best friend. Most guys are blocked by the I have nothing to say excuse, and are stuck cause the only way to get rid of the excuse is to socialize with woman, but they cant do that, cause they have nothing to say. Its like a vicious cycle, that we are about to stop forever. So, for your approaches, I will give you a few stories that are great, especially because they teach you to improvise. Your mind will one day be empty of excuses, but if you can do what you wish, and if you can say what you wish, that still doesnt mean you will say the right thing. Thats why you will learn to improvise, and make conversation out of nothing, so you dont shut up when your woman wants you most. Many times it will happen that the woman you want will be sitting down and having a drink. Woman like to hang out in pairs and chit-chat. That situation happens very often, and I bet that you found yourself stuck many times and didnt know what to do, when you saw two beauties talking in the caf . What will you do? What will you do? One solution is to do nothing, and wait until you meet a similar woman alone. That is not our solution. Or suppose you see two woman having a drink in a coffee shop in the city, in the middle of the day. What will you do? One solution is to do nothing, and wait until you meet woman like that in a club. That is not our solution. You must do something then and there. Life does not give you many chances. When a chance is presented to you, you must use it well. That is why you should approach a lot, and master all the exercises, cause once you will meet a woman you really desire, and then you must make no mistake. Men often go out, and all the time they find a situation like this, and they think: They are few dazzling beauties, but they are talking to their friends, so I will not interrupt. Then, there are some nice woman, but they are not beautiful, so I will not approach them. So they excuse themselves and accomplish nothing whole evening. If you cant remember when was the last time you had sex, dont hesitate to approach nice woman that may not be beautiful, cause if you have zero contact with woman, big frustration will radiate from you, and cause beautiful woman get hit on all the time, they will know to judge exactly which man is frustrated, and which man is not. Track 13 Men rely on their eyes to estimate the quality of a woman. Woman dont rely on their eyes like men do. They need to know what a man is like, and how does he behave, and what other girls think of him. Since woman are looking for different characteristics than men are, they will use different ways to get to know them. One of the most common ways is to rely on judgment of other woman. Men dont care for judgment of other men, but since woman can not get all the info they want by just one glance, they rely on the behavior of other female which know that man. So if you tell her that you havent been in a relationship for two years, the woman will automatically think that you should be discarded. Or if you come to a club and hang out with men all night, and suppose you have a twin brother, who is there hanging out with three woman. Even though the two of you are totally the same, all woman will automatically desire your brother more. That is why it is good to hang out with attractive woman somewhere where other woman can see you. It is even better to be romantically involved with attractive woman, but if its your first date, and the inevitable has not just happened, feel free to take her out where other woman you are interested in are. You may not be together, but when a woman gives you her time, it will raise your value in other womans eyes enormously. Trust me. A man judges in a millisecond, does he want a woman or not, and his decision is final. But a woman takes much more to figure out, does she want a man or not, and that is why woman are so reluctant to have sex. She will test you, and get to know you,

before she sleeps with you, and you were ready for sex the moment you saw her, almost then and there. Woman know that all other woman think like she does, so when she sees you in the company of another attractive woman, the first woman will like you much much more. The first woman knows that the second woman is, guess what? A woman. So the first woman knows, that the second woman will only hang out with a man that meets her tough female criteria, and the more beautiful the woman you are with, the more your value will grow in the eyes of all other woman. Cause every woman knows, consciously and unconsciously, that the more attractive she is, the better man she will have. So when you start, even if you dont manage to seduce the woman you like instantly, stay talking with them, and make sure another girl you want notices you. When you leave the first group of girls, and approach the second one, your value will be extraordinary. Often, men have a blocker in their head that tells them: Oh, Im talking here with these girls, and those girls over there are super, but I cant approach them, cause theyve seen me talk with these girls. That is a total society blocker. Track 14 The society program in your unconscious mind knows, that if a girl sees you socializing with other girls, she will automatically find you more attractive, and the society program in your mind knows, that it will be easier for you to have sex with woman that know other woman want you, so it blocks you by telling you: You can not go to that girl. She was you talk with the girl before. That way, you are stuck, and spend the night alone, and society wins. So listen to me. Listen to me carefully. Attract and Date rule: If the woman you want sees you talking with other attractive woman, she will want you a lot more, not less. So dont let excuses take over. Most men come to a club, or any social event, have some alcoholic encouragement, make a prayer and a sacrifice for Lady Luck, approach a woman with: Hey sugarpants! Would you like a beer? get blown off, of course, and then spend the all night feeling embarrassed, and turn red like tulips, ashamed of their own existence. After they got blown off, they instantly threw on a fake smile, and looked at everybody else around them, and they tried to express their excuse for doing what they desire. Dont be one of them, cause after a night of excusing, and feeling pain in stomach and throat, and after thinking about what some observers are thinking, after a night like that, you will spend a night with your hand. Track 15 When approaching, you will have a feeling that all eyes are on you. That you are being watched by excusers, lurking in the shadows around you. Everywhere you go, you will have a feeling that you are being watched. That is partially true. First, overwhelming majority of people go out. Why the Hell they go out? To excuse themselves. They dont go out to get woman, thats for sure. They go out and do nothing except stare in their glass, so when somebody, who is not an excuser, shows up, and approaches the woman everybody is staring at, they will all be shocked. Remember, they will even assume that you know her from before, cause their excuser brains could not handle the truth. And the other reason you will feel that you are being watched, is cause the blocker part of your brain is trying to stop you any way it can by telling you funny excuses that you are being watched. You must be stopped, cause you are not a successful enough citizen. It is funny how most people go through life thinking about what others are thinking if I do this, and what others are thinking if I do that. They never stop to listen to their own needs and desires. The society forces people to obey. If you dont do that, you get

punished. It forces you to think that displaying your natural desire is embarrassing. Then, when teenage boys start phoning girls to go on dates, they will hide deep in basement, so nobody hears them, and as time goes by, excuses just multiply and multiply. The society and nation is happy: it gets good workers who will think more and produce more, than if they spend their time with woman. Your life is about to change dramatically. You will make a huge positive shift in your life, and you may find yourself amazed at all the power you have gained, and you may find yourself amazed at all the power you had, but you never used it. Many negative thoughts and ideas have been put in your mind by your closest friends and family, when they raised you. They did the best they could, but you cannot expect help and good advice from somebody who doesnt know how to help himself. Using everything you learn in Attract and Date, and having a desire to live the best possible life, you will get all the beautiful woman you need, and achieve other things also. Often, you will find yourself alone in attracting and dating beautiful woman. Overwhelming majority of men are excusers, especially when it comes to woman, and that is good for you, cause you will take the girl you want, and they will just continue excusing, to the end of time. Track 16 When you go out to the clubs, it is best to start with friends who also want to change. We are not there with you, and can not see your mistakes, so take someone with you who is equally devoted as you are, and go to a club, a shopping mall or any other place there is where the woman you want may hang out. Out there you may see men which are far more relaxed than you, and are having fun and success with girls. Dont get bothered cause of that. They are satisfying the society program, and they arent getting blocked much, so they let themselves have confidence, for socializing. You are taking off to fly above the race, and your power will be on a bigger order of magnitude. Leave them all breathing each others dust, and take what is yours. Attract and Date gives you the power. The time for change is now. Take their woman! Whats your excuse? Crush your competition. Track 17 While doing the exercises and missions, you will overtake all competition, since now you know what to do. It is only a question of your devotion to the goal, so I ask you: Whats your excuse? You and your friend take turns with approaching, so he can observe you, cause it may happen that you forget to think about everything in the beginning. Later youll be able to walk around alone, having absolutely no fear, and approach and seduce any woman you want. But for your first approaches, when excuses are still blocking you, do it like this. If its your turn to approach, let your friend walk a few meters in front of you, and you will follow him. Your friend is searching for hot woman, so it better be someone who has taste. While hes searching, you are following him, but not close. Then a friend may notice a hot woman, and can stand there and observe the situation. After that he comes to you, and he can even show you from the distance, where they are. And now, the program in your head, installed by your parents, friends and education system, will start to destroy you. You will fight it like I told you, and sometimes it will take ten minutes or more, but in the end you will be free of all the crap that was put in your mind, and you will go to her to successfully charm her. The advantage of this approach is that from her point of view, you are a very powerful man, definitely not an excuser. You walk around the club, and when you see her, the girl you

desire, you approach her and her friends. From her point of view, it will seem that you are indeed a special man, her prince. All woman, especially the beautiful ones, have a built-in system for detecting excuses and lurkers, so dont make the mistake of passing her by and then approaching her. It is ok to chase other woman, and then come to her. You dont need to seduce other woman. You just need to successfully approach them, so their eyes are shiny and they are laughing, and all woman in the room will notice that. That is ok. You have a valid reason for not approaching her immediately, and that is: other woman. But lurking around, and walking by her, and looking at her, and then looking away, will let her know that you are an excuser, trying to find courage to approach her, and the more you wait, check her out, walk by, or try to attract attention by laughing with your friends, the more you do that, the bigger excuser you will be. So, handle all your excuses somewhere where she cant see you. Track 18 Now your mind will try to stop you. Dont be upset about it, cause it was programmed by other people to do that. There was nothing you could have done about that. But now you can take control of your own mind now, and your destiny. Whats your excuse? Dont tell me, Im not listening. One of the most common excuses, that is stopping men from having sex, is I have to see somebody like me succeed with a woman to know that it is possible. This is a perfect excuse, guaranteed to make one of your arms a lot stronger than the other one. Why is it such a marvelous excuse, among all the excuses a man can have? It is impossible to see it, cause everywhere you go, everywhere you turn, you will see only excusers, and how are they supposed to be your role-model, when they are not even aware that they are excusing themselves? But in February, they will boast, how they will get chicks in summer. Its obvious how whole life may pass, and you will never see one of your friends have the love-life which you want, and you may assume that it just isnt possible. The program in your mind has done its role, and stopped you from even trying, and you cannot be stopped better than that. Time passes quick, days and years fly by, there is no time to lose. If you are still sitting in a couch, watching TV, I may get mad. I will come there and kick you I the ass. Dont make me do that. I dont listen to any excuses. Whats your excuse, huh!? Whats your excuse? Simultaneously by starting to approach woman, you must start to work on your health, and good shape, muscles, cause what will you do with a beautiful woman, if you dont have the stamina? Now, that will be a waste, wouldnt it? So, soon the day will come when you will need stamina to enjoy all the woman. Now, dont excuse yourself. The day will come. Dont laugh at yourself for starting to behave normal. In order to have good stamina, you must first eat good and exercise good. Let me tell you something about exercise: first, dont make an excuse and tell yourself: Well, I dont need to exercise, cause getting woman is all in the mind anyway. That is true, but the mind must care for the body, and it does that through exercise. Track 19 The role of the mind is to protect its physical counterpart, and it does that by making it exercise in a good way. First, you must find a sport for yourself. Choose anything you like to do. Each one of us has a favorite sport, and you must make up your mind yourself. Everywhere you look it will be written: When you start training, seek the advice of educated, certified personnel. What the Hell does that mean? Does it mean that the guy that runs the local gym has sucked up all the wisdom on Earth? People like

to give away responsibility for their own well-being into the hands of so-called experts. When you run into an expert, first think: If hes such an expert, why is he training couch potatoes? Why isnt he training elite sportsman? That will show you who is an expert. If you dont do any sport, and have moderate ambitions, you dont need an elite trainer. Training with bad trainer is better than nothing. But what many people mistake is that they look at those coaches in their local gym as all-knowing saints. You must think for yourself. My swimming coach is one of the most talented. I am a lousy swimmer compared to all the competitive swimmers, and how I managed to stay in club is a story in its own, but my coach always tries to push me to the limit, and I dont go for the limits, and he gets mad, but I dont care. And so it goes for years. You have think for yourself. My goal is to be in great shape, but not competitive shape, cause that would require work each day, and I train two or three times each week. So I stick to my goal, no matter what. You should also make a goal, and stick to it. Dont let the others influence you. My swimming buddies, some of them champions, asked me a hundred times, why dont I swim more. Track 20 My other buddies asks me why I dont swim less. But I dont have the time to argue with them. I dont have the time to think: What will they think? When you start training, dont make a newbie mistake of training too much, and then quitting after a month with pain in your joints. That is the usual mistake people make, and then they get injured and quit. In the gym, there are some really idiotic exercise devices, which force you to make unnatural body movements, like elliptical bicycle riding. Dont do that just cause everybody is doing it. Also, if you are not a professional sportsman, you dont need any of the steroids shots that enhances muscle growth. Leave that for excusers. I hear it can make you impotent. What sportsmen do wrong, is that they spend all youth competing and training every day, and then they stop and get fat like pigs. And they can only watch dust fall on their trophies. That is not your goal. Your goal is to be in good shape, now and many years later, without any chronic injury. That is your goal. Lets continue with our missions. It is essential to follow the missions, cause the purpose of each missions will become clear only after you have done it. So you found out peanut.dl.am where woman you want will be. Is it a club, a coffee shop or a fitness club? Whatever place you choose you will all the time run into two or three woman sitting at a table and drinking. For an average man, this is en extremely difficult situation. It is difficult in the club already, and it is socially acceptable to meet woman in clubs. But approaching woman sitting down, and drinking coffee in the middle of the day, confidently, is not for everyone. Its not for excusers, but it is, for you! Attractive woman know that they have all the attention wherever they go. That all men will want to supplicate to them, and that all men want to take them to bed. So attractive woman get fed up, with all the excusers hitting on them, and instead of standing and smiling in the middle of club, and cause of that, having dozens of admirers boost her ego, they choose to put on a serious face, and sit down to talk with their girlfriends.

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Track 1 Remember, even though shes all dressed-up, and looks like a queen, shes just a woman. Woman dont want much. They want only a prince to come for them, and thats it. But he never comes, thats the problem. Especially if a woman is stunningly beautiful. All men will compete to be her slaves, but to fulfill her role as a woman, she must find a man that is not below her. He must not be an excuser. If she gets on the dance-floor, everyone and his father will approach her, but if they are sitting down, a lot of excusers will be filtered out. That is why the most attractive woman like to take up places in club which are a problem for men to approach. She is just making it harder for excusers. Lets suppose you see two woman drinking coffee and talking. Usually, one will be hot, and the other average or ugly. The hot ones blabbering nonsense, and the other one has to agree all the time. Its so good to be a man. Imagine if you were born as an ugly girl. The only way for you to meet men would be to hang around attractive girlfriends, since they will attract hordes of men, that come with other men, you may end up meeting somebody also. Thats a depressive life. Men dont have that problem. Its so good to be a man. The ugly girl will listen to any crap the hottie is talking about. Its interesting that beauties will always dress nice, in most expensive clothes, to show off their beauty, and the ugly ones will claim clothing is not important, and seek intellectual challenges instead. Now, you will have to approach them. Dont go near them to sit down, order a drink, and then approach them. Only excusers do that. They will see right through your excuse. Stand somewhere far away, and handle all fears and chaos inside your head, that may arise, when you are about to break old bad habits. Once when you get power you will go for the most beautiful one, neglecting all her friends. That is not easy to accomplish. First you must master the whole Attract and Date. You may choose to go that way, and you can learn about it in Advanced Series, or ask your instructor. You will approach them both at the same time. They must not see you lurking and watching them, cause then you will be a stalker. If you go directly to the hottie, the ugly one will pull her to the toilet, or you will get shut down any other way. It happens to all the men, all the time. You will learn to do it in Attract and Date Advanced. If you go and approach the ugly one, you will accomplish nothing, cause you are not interested in the ugly one, I guess. So you must approach them both, at the same time, and engage them both in the conversation. To them, it must seem that you just walked in the room, saw them, and chose to approach. Any hesitation you may have will destroy you, so handle all fears somewhere, where they cannot see you. You must not run in like you are about to dismantle a bomb, cause they will sense the insecurity, and you lose. How are you dressed? I hope you are not wearing blend-in-witheverybody-else-colors, cause they have already met everybody else, and will automatically presume you are an excuser if you dress in blend-in-with-everybody-elsecolors. You could defeat all the excuses in your head, and erase all the limiting beliefs that were installed in your head by society or by you, but, if you are still wearing the same clothes your mother likes you to wear, you will automatically trigger in her, auto-

pilot response for an excuser. Or, you may even charm her, but her friends will think that an excuser is annoying her, and they will come to save her. When you finally dress different in eye-catching colors, feel the power. Feel everybody look at you amazed, terrified that you decided to stand out. Like in every approach, your body language is crucial. Here, it is even more important than before, cause once you start going towards them, they will know you are about to approach them for sure. If woman are blowing you off out of no reason, it is probably cause of your body language, and tonality. You must be relaxed, comfortable in your own skin. Track 2 Body language is the most important things you have to fix after excuses in your mind. You may defeat the excuses in your mind, but your body can still carry itself in an old way, cause it has been doing so for so many years. So, have a buddy watch you, if you can. Your hands must be out of your pockets. It is not freezing in there, so take them out of your pockets. Have a stable posture, with legs apart at about hips-wide, or even more, to demonstrate your feeling of confidence. You must take up space. So, dont have your legs together. When you start walking, dont wiggle your arms around unarticulated, and dont stare at the floor, cause there is nothing interesting at the floor. Stare at the woman, or slightly above them, to demonstrate extra confidence. You must show your lungs, and not cover your throat with chin. The instinct to conceal your throat is from ancient times, when wild animals attacked a mans throat first, so humans still have an instinct to shield their throat in frightening situations. If a girl sees you shielding your throat by looking down, she will unconsciously assume that you must be afraid of something, or afraid of her, and she will not like you. Show your lungs, and when you are walking, do it in big, secure steps. When youll be talking to a woman, sitting at the table, dont make an excuser mistake and remain in an uncomfortable excuser position of standing by the table, and flexing your whole upper body inward. It is an uncomfortable position to assume, and woman will instantly feel that you are not the woman of her dreams, if you remain in a position that is uncomfortable for you. A prince is not afraid to be comfortable. I will repeat that: A prince is not afraid to be comfortable. We are taught manners that we should not get into a personal space of other people, but let me ask you something: Would you be offended if a stunning woman came into your personal space? I think not. So a woman will not be bothered if a man, who is not an excuser, comes into her personal space. And also, coming into her personal space demonstrates that you are not an excuser. It goes both ways. So personal space was invented by excusers. If you dont care, it doesnt exist. Track 3 Now you are ready to start the approach. Pull a line on the floor that is at right angle to the line connecting the two woman. Try to get on the first line first, as far as you can from the woman. Walking on it, you will end up between them. That is not crucial. Do it only if they will not think you are making some weird moves. If you estimate, they will see you do that, go directly to them. Its a lot better to approach from a slightly harder angle, than to risk girls seeing you doing weird movements around them. If they see you, you will instantly be classified as an excuser. Now you will walk in a slow, confident way. When you come to them, you must not start talking fast, like you are reciting a script. In order to appear like a desirable man, both your speech and your body language must be at the same tempo.

Track 4 If you walk slowly and confident, but speak fast, you will not be congruent, and they will sense there is something wrong with you. Men who are into field of computers speak fast to transfer as much facts as possible in a unit of time, as they say. But information for woman is not the same as information for men. Men look at the mere facts, but woman look much deeper than that. So, speaking slowly confident and with many pauses will communicate a lot more than you could think of to her. When youll be talking to her, use this: before saying the words that are most important ones, make a big pause. That way, you will stress whats important in the convo, and even add some mystique and intrigue to the discussion. So, try to position yourself as best you can. Everything begins before you make the actual approach. Everything begins when they first notice you. Then you will walk towards them. Many men could be around them, but at the moment you approach, she will call back all memories she has of you from the moment she has seen you, and shell remember them clearly. If you walk towards them, and then evaded, and chose not to approach, she will forget that, and recall it only if you approach her later. Since woman dont care for looks like men do, but have other criteria, they must be much more aware of what you did before approaching them. If you did something wrong, they will brush you off immediately after you say your opening line. If that happens, think about it. Maybe you lurked around like a stalker. Maybe you looked nervous, or talked too fast, and they could sense the insecurity. When you come to the table, the action starts. If there is a chair that is in your way, dont be afraid to move it to the side. What kind of man are you if you are afraid of a chair? Move it! Come to the table. Smile. Have a genuine smile that you get by observing attractive woman. Dont smile like you do on those boring family reunions. Lean in over the table so the can both hear you. And now, the most important things is, to put the palms of your hands on the table. Spread your hands and put them on the table. You must take up space, and be comfortable. Leaning in, standing only on your legs, is very uncomfortable, but gripping the table it gets comfortable. Be sure to spread your arms. Grip the table. The table is jut a table. It wont bite you. As you are walking towards them, start talking about a meter away from the table, and dont, dont wait for any approval. Go to the table, and put your palms on it. Do it with a smile on your face. The woman must know that you are attracted to them. They must sense that you are there cause of them, not really cause of what you will say. They must know that they are being hit on. It gives them pleas[cut off] Track 5 Now you will talk about another topic, and it will be great to improve your conversational and improvisation skills. You will be using the G-string line to break through the fear, and to make you improvise. If they saw you approach, and are ready to start talking to you, go into the line immediately. However, if they were in the middle of the conversation, say: Excuse me. Not in a supplicating way. You must say it from a position of power. Like, Excuse me for disturbing you. I see you are in the middle of convo, but I would like to ask you something. If you go into the line without that, you will seem like you are saying a script, and it will not sound natural. You must always give woman a few seconds to mentally get ready for your approach. The less perfect you execute the approach, the more time you need to give her. If your approach is flawless, and perfect, it will work, even though, you took them by surprise. So continue

saying after your intro: I really need you to give me one advice. Make it seem like its important to you. That will be a good exercise for future conversation with woman. So learn to say something convincingly now. Continue saying: I have a friend who totally blew up his relationship with his girlfriend. If you are there with your buddy, make a hint that it is him, but dont make it too obvious. They are still together, and love each other very much, but its all going the wrong way. Now make a slight pause. You will see mystery being built in their eyes. Now talk. Every time you do it, improvise, and exercise your spontaneity. Last month, he cheated his long-term girlfriend. Theyve been together for over three years. He cheated her with a woman from work. She came to his place to finish a project, and then got drunk and it happened. It was destiny. What can you do? By the way, woman love destiny. He wanted to keep that secret, and when his girlfriend arrived, he decided never to talk about that. But his girl went in the toilet, and found a pink G-string in there. Then she exploded, and started beating him with a pan, and while being beaten, he invented a great explanation. This is what he told her: You know, I thought I would never tell you this, but from when I was a child, I had a fetish to dress into a womans underwear, and its getting worse and worse. Girlfriend suddenly stopped beating him, and admitted, that it was her fantasy, and a total turn-on to see a naked man in girls underwear, and she was so happy cause of it, full of bliss, and now she requests of him, every night, to dress in her underwear. To put her panties and bra, and to parade around the house. She forces him, to eat dinner like that, and watch TV with her. My friend if your friend is there, make a wink feels really stupid walking in his girls underwear for the last nine weeks. He thinks he will shoot himself in head. Girls, tell me, what do you think he should do now? They are engaged and to marry next spring. If he doesnt talk, he will have to do it his whole life, but if he tells her, she may leave him. Now listen to each womans opinion. If one starts to turn away, engage her in the conversation. If shes looking away, dont be afraid to gently touch her to signal, that you are still there. Shes expecting you to touch her, and turn her towards you. It is like a test. If you are afraid of it, you are not her future man. Stay in the conversation, talking with each girl. After a minute of talk, it is time for you to sit down. If there is a chair nearby, grab the chair and sit in a relaxed, confident way. That was one of your first missions. Notice the magic when you lean back, and sit comfortable. The woman will lean into you. Now, that is alpha body language. All men, try to lean into them all the time, and woman lean back. But you lean back, and they lean into you. Subconsciously, they will assume that they like you a lot, cause they are leaning into you, and will like you more consciously. If you are in a loud place, dont overdo it, cause they will not hear you speak. If there is no chair, just sit on the table. Track 6 Wherever you choose to sit, you must be comfortable, cause only an insecure guy will sit in a way that does not make him comfortable. There is a powerful mind-body link, and if you are still having trouble with excuses, standing or sitting in a confident, relaxed alpha man position that takes up a lot of space will not only make you look secure, but automatically destroy the excuses in your head. So, if you are still having trouble with excuses, exaggerate a bit, and go into extremes, and relax like you are at home. That will help to push excuses out of your system. If you are there, sitting comfortable and relaxed, the woman will also feel like that, cause the presence of a man that is not afraid makes them comfortable. The same way you are comfortable if a beauty is near you, giving you attention, and talking to you. After some time, hint, that you are actually talking about yourself, that you may be the G-string man. Pretend that

you are not comfortable talking about that, or even shy. They will be dazzled. How macho guy like you could be such a metrosexual, and excuser. Make fun of them. The mission will teach you to express emotions. Do that, if your friend is not there. However, if he is there, call him in. You take the beauty, cause you made the approach, and let him take the average one. If you are there alone, wait for them to ask you, or make them guess, and ask you: Youre actually asking for yourself, arent you? and then you say: Yes, you know, Im too shy to say it. What kind of panties are you wearing? How do they look? I love pink ones so much. Now, make some other story. They must always know, that you like them, and that you admire them. Otherwise, you will not succeed, and for this story, like it is other with woman, they must not guess, are you serious, or are you joking. If you leave them guessing, you will be their topic of conversation for the whole day. The most interesting thing that happened to them in a long time. When you are talking to them, try to find something you could compliment the ugly one for. There must be something, like her earrings. Just tell her: Wow, these earrings look nice. It has never happened to an ugly woman that she gets a compliment, and she will like you now, and will not try to drag the hottie away. If you are alone, after some talk, it will be hard for you to get the hotties phone number, or to isolate her. If it is one of your first approaches, follow these guidelines, and it will be easy. Just say how it was talking to them, and that you would like to meet them again, and that you would like to take their number. That is an outline you should remember, but dont just say, It was nice talking to you. Excusers say that. Say: Ive enjoyed this talk so much. You are very interesting girls. I would like to take your number, and meet you again. Say, I would like to take your number, and dont specify which number you are aiming for. Track 7 Now look down, and go for your mobile phone, and pretend you are opening the phonebook. Now interesting things will start to happen. As you will be looking down, the girls will quickly exchange glances to decide, which one will give you her number. If they are both hot, it is better for you to get the number of the one that is desperately searching for boyfriend, than the one who is married with children. So let them choose by themselves. If you get the number of the ugly one, especially if the hot one orders the ugly one to give you her number, you are still ok. The hottie gets calls whole day, probably, from many excusers, and doesnt want some other guy calling her and bothering her. But you are not some other guy. You will insist on saying that it was great talking with both of them, and when you call, you will arrange the date with both of them together. I will talk about the date later, but the hottie will take the initiative, and talk talk talk with you, while the ugly, shuts up, cause she low self-esteem, and then you will make up that it was so wonderful talking with the hottie, and that you would like her number. Then, when youll be calling the hottie, pretend that you are surprised that the ugly one didnt like you, and talk to you, when in fact she did not talk, cause she was intimidated by her hot friend. But lets leave that for now. I will talk about it later. So if you get a number of an ugly one, just say it was a pleasant and great experience to chit-chat with both of them, and that they are such cute girls, and that the three of you must meet again. You see, we just jumped over one step. I told you how to handle two woman, but I didnt tell you how to take the number of a solo girl. Who cares? The more the merrier, as they say. But dont worry. I will tell you how to take the number of a solo girl also. It is a question of how long you should stay with the girls. In the beginning, and I emphasize in the beginning, dont stay for more than half an hour,

cause the excuses will get you, and you will shoot yourself in the leg with some stupid sentence. Later, as you get more experience, it will not matter how long you stay and talk with them, but that requires a lot of approaches. After you sit down, and they accept you it can be in ten seconds, or in five minutes you can buy them a drink. Dont make a mistake to buy them a drink before they accepted you. Dont buy your way with drink. But when you have sit down with them, and the waiter comes, buy a drink for all three of you. Dont be a cheap bastard. Track 8 Sometimes one drink is all what youll be buying her before you go to bed with her. You will see, when you approach following our instructions, the woman will often tell you, Wow, you are the first confident and normal guy in a long time. Dont make a mistake and say Really? What do the other guys say on approach? I bet its something lame! If you say that she will know that you are still an excuser, and her attraction towards you will drop rapidly. Just behave you heard it a million times, and that is nothing new to you. Or, if you decided to get free of excuses, reply with I know. And now Ill seduce you both. Say it as a joke, but make them guess. The more you do the missions and the more you learn, it will get more for real. Trust me! Once you get a phone number, it is proof that you have destroyed many excuses in your head. When you have the number, dont run away like a chicken, and then proceed to talk about that number for a week. The woman leaves you her number cause she likes you. If you run away the moment she gives you the number, she will see that you are in fact an excuser. Stay talking with her, and finish your drink. If everything is going well, dont leave, cause she will assume that you dont want her. Go away immediately only if you have something important to do, and I mean important, like meeting another woman, not watch Aliens attack Planet Earth. Do the last mission at least five times. Please dont tell me that you cant, cause I dont listen to excuses. Dont be an excuser. By now, after all the missions you accomplished, you should be well away from all the excuses, and starting to become every womans fantasy. If you cant complete a mission flawlessly, listen to it again, or ask a buddy to watch you, cause your brain may be too involved in the conversation to notice what you are doing, and how are the woman reacting. You have to lead all the time. When the time comes to ask for a phone number, dont analyze her and wait, if shes ready, cause excuser analyzing and testing ruin the subject being tested. Ask for it like I told you, and the mere act of doing it confidently, will get you the number. It is similar later with kissing and taking her home, but lets now talk about the society, and the way all Western world nations are run. Somewhere in the middle of 20th century it was all a mans world. Woman stayed at home to cook, and men went to work. Then the feminist movement happened, and turned men into even bigger excusers. Before, men were more or less masters in their own home. Then came the feminist movement, which gave woman rights, so woman started working also, and since they had their own money, they got their freedom to choose also. But unfortunately, the feminist movement overcompensated, and instead of creating things equal, like it was made to do, it totally took over mens freedom, and even made todays society a man-hating one. It is so omni-present, that it may be difficult to notice. When you turn on the TV, and look at all media, what do you see? You see only men. Men are Presidents. Men are Chief Executive Officers. Men run the country. Its only men. Successful men. So somebody may be fooled to think, it is really men who have it all, and that woman are neglected. But you know what I think when I look at the world? Mens success is defined by how much his wife can spend. Just look at your own dad,

and everything will become clear. Is your dad the one who so much enjoys the male dominant position in society? I doubt so. My dad has always been working a lot more than my mom, and so are most of dads. When they come home late they are criticized for not caring, even though dad must bring home the money. That is his duty. The woman must care for children, so dad sees a lot less of his children, but he sees his boss instead, and works more, and in the end, dies much sooner than the woman. That is the paradox in society. Track 9 Everywhere you look, they fight for womans rights, but woman work less, spend more quality time with the children, usually get more enjoying jobs, and even though they earn less, it doesnt matter, when they spend their husbands money. Being a hardworking man, today, actually makes you depressed one, while everybody else tries to jump on you for a free ride. For example, when you look at the newspapers, you will find headlines, that expose only injustice towards woman, but never injustice towards men. Since everywhere you look, you will see only injustice towards woman, you may start thinking that men have everything made just for them, and that woman suffer cause of it. You may start to think that men never get beaten, stabbed, or terrorized by a woman, and even men start to think of themselves as enemies of woman. Society will convince you that men are born evil, and that its a shame to be a man. Since being a man is a shame, lets make men more similar to woman. Lets turn them into metrosexuals, that will spend on their image and looks as much as or even more than the woman. Men start buying fancy accessories with designer signature, but of course, society must give them huge fear of woman, so the only way they will ever get a girl is by spending money. If an alien from outer space was simultaneously watching all media, he may get the impression, that men are oppressors, and that woman are victims all the time, but how come then, when I was a child I noticed that my dad absolutely never complained, and mother always complained? How come that my dad was finally able to enjoy peaceful evening, and that my mother didnt have anything else to do, but complain about something? If a family goes on a trip, it is dads job to organize the trip, take into account everybodys schedule, to drive the car, day and night, to listen to a womans blabber if he gets lost, and in the end, to pay for it, while the woman complains. Has it ever happened to you that you are taking a woman out on a date, and you wanted to drive somewhere special, but you got lost, cause of bad traffic signs. She will start complaining and complaining, but you are driving your own car. You pay the gas. You are under stress, while shes listening to her favorite songs that you bought for her, and youll be paying for a special dinner, and you are doing it all cause of her. But shes still not happy. From the news, you may get an image, that woman are victims in the household. Everybody thinks that men hit woman and try to physically hurt them. There are some sick-minded men, who hit their woman, but everybodys forgetting that men get beaten up, stabbed or shot by their wives six times more often. But those scientific facts are blocked in the media, and police, and by men themselves. So when you see your mother torturing your day with orders like Drive me there, drive me here, buy me this, buy me that, you may think it is an exception, but in fact, it is a rule. Media will tell you, countless times, that woman do all the house work. So, they wash clothes, sweep the dust, and cook. Those are all boring, time-consuming jobs. But lets assume a roof is leaking, and somebody has to climb up there and fix it. Who will do that? Or even better, lets assume a new expensive lamp has to be put on the ceiling in the living room. I think it is obvious which sex wants the new lamp, even though, old

one gives the same light, and I think its obvious, which sex is paying for the lamp. But even more important, is the dilemma: who will climb up the ladder, and screw the damn lamp to the ceiling. You guessed right its husband, of course. Even though, it may be an old ladder, and he may not be skillful, hell have to climb up, and fix it to the ceiling. To make things worse, he didnt even want the new lamp, but he had to pay for it, and it may happen that he falls down, and breaks his back for the stupid lamp. Things like that happen all the time, but we are teached to take them for granted. If there is a power-loss, who will go to the switchboard and risk being electrocuted? Track 10 Father, of course! And statistics shows, that men are not doing any housework. Why? Cause theyre made by man-haters, thats why. Can you get killed by waiting in the house, or by cooking? Not really, unless youre a horrible cook. So men are raised to neglect, what they do, and woman are raised to emphasize, what they do, cause they are victims of a mans world. Tell me, how many times do you pick up a girl with a car, and how many times did some girl pick you up? Wouldnt it be nicer, that you could enjoy the comfort and better safety of a passenger seat, and talk when somebody else has to drive, and get stressed? Most men never think about that, but if you want to be appreciated by others, you must first appreciate yourself. So be aware of how much you are doing for other people. If you want your relationship with a woman to go well, both of you will sometimes have to do what the other one wants or likes, and not as you please. If you want to enjoy being with your woman, both of you have to make compromises from time to time. It is no use trying to figure out the problems of your woman, and then encouraging her by saying that you understand all her problems. No woman will want to be yours, cause of her problems, but cause of her. Never make a mistake of telling her that you precisely know and understand the reasons for her silly behavior. That will make her feel very stupid, and she wont enjoy it. So in order for a relationship to function, you must understand her, and she must understand you. If you still cant understand her, just pretend you do, until you get it. If you study Attract and Date, and invest effort, you will understand woman superbly, but in order for her to understand you, you must communicate what you think and want to her. If society program in your head is stopping you from expressing your feelings, and what you want or need, and what you think, from expressing it to a woman or anybody else, dont blame that person for consequences. Its not his fault. Destroy the society program in your head with the exercises we give you, and communicate what you think. Only after you do that, you will give your girl a chance to do as you wish. If you dont even tell her, or express what you think, she cannot possibly guess what you are thinking. But society has put powerful blockers in mens mind, and so it is hard for a man to express what he feels to a woman. That way, the woman will never know what her man really wants, and since shes a woman, she cant know, he doesnt tell her. So they live all their life together, never quite understanding each other. That happens to majority of couples, and instead of solving their primary problem, men just try to get more material wealth, to compensate somehow, for the missing part in their relationship. Track 11 When dating a girl, and when you get serious, woman will always be on a lookout for your emotions. They will always concentrate to guess, what you are feeling. If you have some problem in your life, like a problem at work, or any other difficult situation, it will

subtly reflect on you, and the woman you are with will see it, even though she may still not know you yet. Men are doers. If they are having a difficult situation, or if they need to do something exhausting and challenging, they will do it, and try to isolate their woman from knowing about it. But if you are under stress, and cannot get rid of it at the moment, dont be afraid to mention that to your woman, cause they will always assume the worst. It is much better for a woman to know that your day at work has exhausted you, than to think she is the reason for your change of behavior. Men dont consider such things important, so at first, it will be hard for you to talk about how youre feeling to a woman, but a woman always needs reassurance that you are happy with her, and if you are not showing it at the moment, cause of some difficulties that have nothing to do with her, if you fail to communicate that, she will not want to get involved with you, for sure. You, cause youre a man, will always be alert to check: did your woman gain some fat? Or, is she still slender and beautiful? The same way as you check her body all the time, cause her body is important for your genes survival, the same way she will check your emotional state all the time. So Im sure its a pain for you to check your womans emotional state all the time, cause instinctively you check off her looks all the time. But dont be mistaken. The same way you scan her butt every few seconds, she scans how you are feeling, cause that is what is genetically important for her genes survival. Thats the reason, why you must take care, to leave an impression of good feeling inside you. Even if you are feeling miserable, you must appear to feel great while being with her. And cause of her happiness, you will soon feel great. Think about it. When you meet a new woman, sooner or later, she will say something you really disagree with, or she will do something you really disagree with. Here, overwhelming majority of men blows it up, losing the woman. It can be ten minutes after meeting her, or ten years after marrying her, but it happens all the time to men. When you argue or disagree with your male buddies, you do it like men do: you look at only the logical facts, and not much else, and neither of you cares about each others feelings. If you buddy told you, that you dont understand something, you couldnt be hurt at all. If your buddy starts to criticize you to something he knows nothing about, you still wouldnt mind, and after years of talking with men, and outsmarting each other in a way that woman can never understand, and after years of telling your friends silly jokes and putting them down, a man will instinctively talk like that to a woman, and she will hate when you treat her like a man. Track 12 Has it ever happened to you that you were doing very well with a woman, and everything seemed fine, and suddenly, you say a joke, or just a fact, that would make each and every one of your friends burst into laughter, but it totally ruins the mood of the evening for the two of you? Do as I say, and it will never happen to you again. You will know, what none of your competition knows, and you will get the best woman effortlessly. First, I want you to remember, your mom and dad in an argument. Now tell me, who was the one who initiated the argument? It was much more often the mom. But let me ask you something: did she really initiate the argument, or did she just say a sentence, or a question, that your dad answered like it was a male buddy asking him something obvious, almost stupid? So mom did not really initiate the argument, but men not being able to talk to a woman in a way woman has to be talked to, leads to an argument, which may cool down the hottest possible relationship. When getting to know a woman, sooner or later, you will have to disagree with something shes doing, and judge her with disapproval. That is inevitable, if you dont want to be her puppydog

that runs at her every command, and she can not like a puppydog, cause hes weaker than she. You cannot disagree with a woman as you would with a man, by just spitting the facts in his face, and calling him stupid. That is also, not the best way to disagree with a man, but who cares what other men think of us? We are already concerned enough about woman. Woman will only have logically unexplainable, and they will have ideas funny to us men, but remember, the same way we find their thinking funny, they find our reasoning unexplainable and funny. Woman and men are not better or worse, just different. At one point you will have to tell her a negative judgment that you made of her. Dont follow your instincts, and talk like you would talk to a man. You can try it and it will lead you nowhere, cause even if you win logically in your argument, you still lose, cause now her feelings for you are not that good, and are not so strong, and isnt it better to have a woman that is into you, than to have a woman that is fed up with you, but you managed to outsmart her? Sometimes it will be hard to bite the bullet and stay out of an argument that you would win logically. You must be strong enough to not care, will you prove smarter to your woman. Will you prove her, that you were right. Anyway, what is the purpose of being right, if you spent a night with your hand? No purpose. When a woman disapproves of something you do, or complains about something you are, never strike back immediately with counter-complaint. Every gut instinct in your body, will make you do that. Just wait for her to finish, and appear to be listening, whatever she has to say, and then acknowledge you have listened and understand her point. The act of doing so, and not shooting back immediately, will dissipate many arguments. So she has to feel that you listened her to the end of her statement, and she will be pleasantly surprised at your reaction. When you want to point out her wrong behavior that is making you feel bad, be sure to take care about the actual way you say it. Being a man, you may not notice the tone of voice as crucial to communication, but woman have this sometimes weird need to insist on the tone of voice, and they like to interpret the wrong tone of voice as a disaster. The most disagreements and quarrels in your relationship come from the woman hearing something else than a man meant. It is cause woman, when they talk between themselves, are more concerned with the way they say, and get more info about the person and his emotions, listening to how fact was communicated, and men when talking between themselves dont really care about the tone of voice, and if your friend complained about your tone of voice, you would consider him weird gay-man. Track 13 Has it ever happened to you that you get stuck in an argument with a woman, and both of you just keep on repeating yourself, but it leads to nowhere, and as time goes by, it destroys everything? If you want to avoid that, you must stop being an excuser, and go against your society-imposed limitations. Lets assume you and your woman strongly disagree over some important topic. It could be anything, anything at all, even some detail that is not important by itself, but will wreak havoc and the first thing that happens when you go into an argument is that you get no more, or less, sex. So it will happen sooner or later. Lets suppose that your woman decides something that you consider hilariously stupid, and can not believe your ears. So what will you do? You would like to scream out loud, This is so stupid! But you try not to smile, and you hold your posture, and you calm down, and logically try to explain your, and I mean your, perspective. Does it work? No! Well, how come it doesnt work? First, you must make your woman feel that you have listened to all, and I mean all, she has to say about a certain topic. So dont be an excuser, and listen a few minutes to whatever silly things

she tells you, cause if you start immediately with a counter-argument, she will think you are not taking into account her reason and conclusions, that mean a lot to her, and if you are not taking into account her reasons and conclusions, she will not want you, and she will feel bad. When a woman feels that you dont take into account her opinion, she will explode with all kinds of complaints, cause you are no longer a guy who cares. So a woman must feel heard. Its up to you will you really adjust your opinion cause of what she said, but if shes not feeling heard, you are toast for sure. Dont be an excuser. A minute of listening would bring you a lot of joy. Just wait for her to finish, and show that you are listening. Dont get into a trap, of discussing her imagined problems with her. Leave that for excusers. Just stand there and listen. Discussing her imaginary problems will not help. You know why? Because theyre imagined. No amount of logical reasoning can solve that. By listening through whatever she wants to say, and not making the huge mistake of listening only to get some kind of ammunition for your next complaint, you will make your life a lot easier. So make a first step, and hear what shes talking about. Dont laugh. After you do that, she will sincerely listen to you, cause people can only sincerely take into account conflicting opinions, when they feel that their opinion has been heard first. Remember your parents. Im sure they repeated the same sentences over and over to each other, with no results, and just kept arguing more and more cause of it. If you want to be seeing many woman, imagine what the strain it would be to argue with every one of them like your parents did. So dont make that mistake, and following this philosophy, youll be able to handle as many as you want. Notice the paradox: the more something is important to you, the more you will argue, and there is a less chance you will get it. Imagine you just me a fabulous girl, and have been on a few dates, and now you want to take her home. A classic situation. We all know that taking her home is what you want, and when you suggest it, and she starts her bla bla bla of reasons why she cant come home with you, dont immediately start with counter-reasons, cause she will not feel heard, and your counter-reasons sincere or lie, doesnt matter will never be taken into account, and everything will be postponed for a month. Make her feel valued and appreciated, and do as you have planned. Until she feels you have heard her perspective, there is no way she will listen to whatever thing you decided to pull off this time. She can trust only somebody who hears, and then says her strongest arguments back to her. It has never happened to her, and just the act of doing that may make her feel that she has finally found a soulmate. Track 14 Say it like this: I know what you just meant. Its obvious that we are moving too fast, and that we still dont know each other very well, and continue kissing her and touching her. You just made it clear that you understand her deepest insecurity. When you say it, focus on her real words. Never say: I know youre a shy person, cause if you make the mistake of moving away from the actual cause, she will get even more uncomfortable, and suppose that you take her for granted. Having this philosophy, it will be very easy for you to fly over arguments with a woman you just met, or have seen only a few times, but the longer you are with a woman, the more skill it takes to go without a fight that could leave you alone. So lets suppose you find yourself in a more complicated situation. Lets suppose, that youve been dating her for a while, like three months, and you are now an established couple, and see each other three times a week, so sooner or later, it will happen, that you fall into a misunderstanding, cause men as well as woman are programmed by the society to sabotage themselves while theyre happy, cause if theyre happy and dont need anything, the less money they will spend

in shopping malls, so they are programmed to sabotage themselves, and will use many chances to shoot themselves, or their relationship, in the leg. If you stop being an excuser, there is no reason for the girl not to like you, so if it occurs to you that shes doing something you dont like, dont yell at her immediately. First think, could it be your internal self-destruct program making a plot against your best interest? Remember, when you are not an excuser you seem rare to her like a beautiful woman seems rare to you, but the bad programming in your mind never sleeps, and is always on the lookout to use your any weakness, to turn you back into an unhappy guy. So when you cannot be sure is there a real problem, with a girlfriend, or the imaginary problem now in your mind, just try searching for the good intention inside her decisions. What does that mean? Imagine you have been with a girl for almost half a year, and that you see her all the time, and imagine that shes throwing a birthday party, and invites only girls and says: Men are not invited. Now it could be that she has invited some mysterious lover from her past to her birthday, and doesnt want you around, or that they are having male strippers coming to party. That could happen, but it could also happen that she doesnt want you to get bored with her ten frustrated loser girlfriends who will always be unhappy and will never find a man, or shes ashamed how her friends are a pathetic display of drunk excusers, and unhappy solo woman, so she doesnt want you there. Track 15 Whenever you are in doubt that your mind wants to destroy you, think if she may be doing for the two of you to be happy. Now lets continue with missions. When you start having more and more success with woman, you may find yourself totally satisfied with the woman you have. Then enjoy your woman, and repeat the things youve learned in order not to get rusty, and to prevent bad society influence sucking you back. If you want to attract and date even more woman, you have to do the exercises until you are comfortable doing them, and they become natural to you. All these exercises have been specifically designed to bring out the best in you, and to make you a winner. Track 16 Now I have an exercise, which is especially suitable if you are a guy who enjoys to joke a lot. Clubs tend to be very noisy and exhausting, but outside the clubs you will often find hot woman hanging around, and doing nothing, or just having a chit-chat, or in the lobby of a sport club, you may find many of them. Now you can approach as you already know, but if you like to joke a lot, here is what you do: find a lobby, or any space which has a phone-booth, or just a simple desk phone, and some woman standing around. A barbecue with your friends is great, actually any place. If you go anywhere, where there may be woman, you will find a phone there, and if a beautiful girl is nearby, here is the chance for an excellent joke. I like to do that sometimes. Stand near, like youre waiting for someone, but take a glance to the phone, and on it you will find its number. You cannot miss. It is always on a big bright plate in front of it. If its your friend you already know the number, then leave your cell in your pocket, and dial the number of that phone. It will start ringing. Pretend that you are amazed that the phone is ringing. Notice that any other people standing around will look at each other when the phone start ringing. They will almost turn red, cause the phone on the wall is ringing. They will all feel the society pressure, and waste energy on nothing. If somebody goes to pick up, stop the call. Make sure the girl you want is somewhere near. Now its up to you. You can either approach her, and start talking about the weird ringing phone, or

wait, then ring the phone again, and go pick it up. I suggest you dont talk to the girl before pick up the phone, if you want to have a blast. So when you pick up the phone, say loud, so she can hear you: Who do you want? Then stop to create mystery, and intrigue. Aha. You are calling from Weightwatch Anonymous, cause of a shy nice girl that missed her meeting. Then describe her, so she can hear it. Or make up some angry feminist organization that is calling. Turn to her and gesture to come to the phone. If she picks up the joke, she will know youre making a fool of her, and if shes really shy, she will laugh, but want to leave. Then leave the phone, and go to her, and you already know how to follow up. If she actually take the phone, she will know its a joke, but if youre really witty, your buddy that is nearby can do the calling, and he may continue with some funny lines. Anyway, whatever happens, she will know that you just pulled a joke on her, but she will like it, and here you go, ice is broken. Of course, when she asks you, pretend that you made it up on the spot, just for the goal of meeting her. Dont admit, that shes the fifth girl you met at that exact phone. Do it to as many girls as you want, and each time, make it seem that you have done it the first time in your life, just for her. You will fly above all the excusers who know nothing better than saying: Would you like a drink, sugarpants? Usually it will happen that some other people are standing around the phone. Now, dont excuse yourself, cause if you excuse, you may as well turn into an eunuch no joking. If you start feeling some excuses building up when that phone starts ringing, listen to me: Are you afraid that all these excusers will know that you will soon have sex with that beauty? Let me say that again: Are you afraid that all these excusers will know that you will soon have sex with that beauty? You cant be afraid of that. Shes yours, and if they dont like it, they can just make themselves into eunuchs. Choose the missions you like most, and keep on doing them, but you may find that you are getting more woman than your stamina allows much before completing all the missions. It is normal, cause we, the instructors at attractanddate.com , have visited dozens of countries, and all sorts of places, virtually any place you can imagine. We demonstrated how to seduce beautiful woman, and our students followed. That makes us, one of a kind. And you can join events with our instructors, or he may come to your city, to coach you to solve problems you may have. Track 17 [mission]When you go on a business trip to a foreign country, or you go traveling, the local woman will like you much more than those at home, cause of their genetic programming to seek out different genes. At this point, talking to unknown woman is easy for you, so you will just find one, and ask her to do you a favor. Take out your cellphone, and ask her, to type in a message like this: Hi Ranko. Ive had a beautiful evening yesterday with you. First time in my life I had an orgasm, and Im still trembling. It was an earthquake. Sweet kisses for you. I think Im in love. Armed with that message in your phone, you will go out to meet new woman. Remember, the message is written in the native language in the country you are in, and of course, you dont know the language, so when you approach to meet a woman, using anything you already know, during the convo you can ask that you got this message, and are curious what does it mean, or even better, you can approach a woman or a group of woman, and say that you just got this text, but you cant understand what it is, and that you would like them to translate it to you. Do it in a fun way, but leave just small doubt that you actually did get that message. They will never know for sure, and not only you will be a foreigner, but the most interesting one theyve ever met, and with a sense of humor. A woman that reads the message will consider you special for two reasons.

Track 18 The first reason is that only a confident guy, comfortable in his own skin, would write something like that and show it around to unknown woman. Also, a man who does that, is fun to be with. The other reason she will want to get to know you is that there is a small chance that it is for real, and if you can give an out-of-this-world orgasm to some woman, and if you can make some woman desperately adore you, maybe then you are the right man for her. It will bug her: Is it true? Since you are a man, you can easily judge do you want a woman with one fast glance. A woman is looking for qualities that can not be judged as fast as looks, so in order to find the right guy, woman will always rely on the decisions of other woman. Actually, the statements of other woman are equally important as her own decisions, so if you make an illusion, in this case only with a small text, that other woman adore you, your desirability will grow enormously. Track 19 Have you ever wondered, why when rock bands film a music clip, they only show woman in the audience, shouting and adoring them, even though there are many more fanatical male fans? They do it, cause the presence of male fan would not make the woman like the rock band, and buy tickets for the concert. Also, the presence of a male fan would definitely not make the man do anything. But when they show hot, dazzling woman shouting madly at a rock band, or romantic Latin singer, who would be a real wimp otherwise, all woman who watch the clip will want to listen to that singer. Many will even fall in love with him. That is the power of over woman a beautiful woman can give, and if it works over the TV, imagine how it works in real life. Track 20 Teenage girls all fantasize about actors, that get attractive woman on film, or about singers, that feature stunning woman in their clips. Even though, they all know consciously that you can get any woman to be in a music clip if you pay, the unconscious effect of just seeing James Bond surrounded by hot woman on the screen makes real life woman adore the actor in real life, then the actor gets a hot girlfriend for real, and shows off with her in the press, and millions of woman will see that, automatically adore him, and will fantasize of seducing him. That is how a womans genetic programming functions, and I will tell you now how to use it in your advantage. Track 21 If you go anywhere the woman you want will be, come either alone, with male buddies, or in the company of attractive woman. If you come alone that gives you most freedom of movement and action, and there is nobody to block you with excuses. If you come with male buddies you can meet woman together all evening.

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Track 1 If he is too big excuser to do that, and did not start the Attract and Date, just leave him in the company of his peer, and go with a beautiful girl. Have you ever felt bad cause of leaving your buddy? You can hang out with your male friends all week, but if you get just one chance to meet the woman of your dreams, leave them and go for her. Whats the point of spending the moment with them, and then going home, all of you frustrated that you didnt accomplish anything at all. There is no point in that. If your buddies have no clue about Attract and Date, they will be stunned by blockers, so you better inform them, cause otherwise, they will not only block themselves, but you also. Self-destruct patterns in the mind are often so destructive that after you approach and start talking, your buddy may come to the two of you and say: My apologies. He never behaves like that. I dont know what has gotten into him. Now, he has just shot you out of the sky, and you have no chance with that girl. Sometimes, guys are so full of society crap, that they are ashamed of watching you meet new woman. Lets repeat that: young, healthy males are ashamed that their friend is meeting a new woman, and they will be ashamed and turn red cause of it. Turn red! When that happens, dont get upset. Just take care that your excuser buddy doesnt come near and stare like a psycho. Next time teach him some basics. Maybe you have a woman friend that is attractive. Taking woman friends out with you is a double-edged sword. I prefer not to have any woman friends around me when I go out with a goal to seduce a beautiful woman, cause I know that just a few minutes after enter the club, Ill be talking with a hottie, and that I will not see my woman friend that night any more, so whats the point of going out with her, or many of them, when I will ditch them the moment I see what I came for. Track 2 All woman, your friends or the most beautiful in club, are woman, and they all live to get attention from a guy they like. You must understand that all woman that will want to be your friends are not doing it cause they want your friendship so much. They want you to take care of them and to pamper them. They secretly hope about becoming your princess. Imagine that the computer breaks down to an ugly woman from office. You wouldnt be too eager to run and fix it as soon as possible, of course. Imagine that the computer breaks down to a stunning example of youth and beauty. What will you do? A typical excuser would rush to fix it, and to clean up all the viruses, and to install new wireless gadgets. Now, you know better. You would rush off, to meet her, and to take off her panties that night, at the same time the excuser kills the very last virus. But lets look at what the typical man would do, an excuser. He would rush to help her, and he would try to somehow, artificially, create some bond of friendship between them. Cause an excuser thinks, that is his way to a lay. By being a boring friend and a shoulder for her to cry on. So when a woman wants to be your friend, just think of how an excuser would want to seduce a beauty. He would carry her books in school. He

would explain her math. He would listen to her boring blabber. He would listen to her problems and offer solutions. He would spend his time listening about how she ended up in bed with you, Prince Charming, that swept her away, and how she is now in love with him. You see, an excuser knows nothing else, so hes trying to be friends with her, hoping that he will score somehow. As you practice, girls will like you more and more. Now, you are free to let yourself be a little mean. After all, woman have been mean to you all the time. They used you to buy them drinks, to drive them around, to spend money on them, and if you are married, to spend all money you ever had on them. They rejected you and gave fake numbers on the phone. So now its time for payback. Enjoy yourself. When you start behaving like an alpha, and start dressing different, and standing out, you will attract a lot of woman. Some of them, you will not like, and you will not want them, but did you ever want somebody who will patiently listen to some idea of yours, that even your best friend laughs at? Now is your chance! Track 3 Those woman will behave just like as the excusers behave towards hot woman. You can use your admirers now to help you at work, to do stuff for you, to choose you clothes so you dont have to, and to listen to some nonsense nobody else wants to listen to. Now, things are changing. You have the potential to enjoy totally different lifestyle, and instead of you pampering woman, and getting nothing in return, but a ray of hope, woman will start pampering you, and get nothing in return. The rules have changed. Well, you may give them something, after all. I leave that up to listeners imagination. If you happen to have attractive girls for friends, and you are not really interested in them, you can use them to help you get some other woman. First way of using them is to say: You see that friends of yours standing over there? Could you please find out if shes single and if shes interested in hooking up with me? Do NOT do it like that! First, you will publicly admit that you are a loser, and must ask your friends around to get you dates. The friend of your friend would think you are a real wimp, and an excuser, cause you did not have at least minimum courage to express your interest and admiration to her, but you have to ask somebody else to do it for you. If you are asking your friends to make a date for you with whoever is available, to make a date for you with any woman they know is free, thats even worse, cause the woman you may, by some help of a blessing, get on a date, will know that you have such low criteria, to accept meeting of woman out of the blue. So dont force your friend to introduce you to new woman. Also, every, and I mean every woman , is jealous about you admiring and wanting to meet other woman. So, she may be your best friend, but if you constantly fancy other girls in front of her, one day you will lose your friendship. You should never ask directly your friend to introduce you some other woman. It is of course better than nothing, but the better way to do it is to make your friend help you without even knowing it. Let her and your future girlfriend think it was destiny for you two to meet. Woman of all ages are totally into believing in destiny, and some force from above that governs everything. They are so much interested in horoscopes, and believe, some things are just meant to be. Why woman like to be swept off their feet? Cause genetically, they are programmed to find a strong male, and a strong male is the one who sweeps them off their feet, and carries her away on his white horse into the moonlit castle. And I mean it. For a million years, woman were menstruating, bleeding, for unknown reasons, and they could get pregnant, or they could get not pregnant, after having sex. Cause it was such a huge responsibility to get pregnant, and cause it was totally random, will they get pregnant or not, after all the evolution, woman started to

believe into destiny, and that all things are just meant to be. That way, it was a lot easier for woman to cope with life. Since the most important event in their life was random, and there was no way of guessing the outcome, the only way to live with it was to start believing in the supernatural. Of course, we men, dont buy the idea of supernatural, invisible force. I hope you dont buy it. But woman have a tendency to believe in it, so much, that she may hate you just for questioning the existence of destiny. So when a woman you are about to undress tells you, it was meant to be, that the two of you meet, she is doing it, cause having sex with a man is both consciously and unconsciously huge responsibility for her, and to dissipate that responsibility, she must think, that it was destiny. Track 4 When youll be undressing her, she may say: No no! all the time, but be totally turned on, and push her breasts into your face, and it could be dripping from her panties, but she will still yell: No no! It is cause she must filter a strong enough man, and for a man to be strong, he must overpower her gently. In todays society, run by troubled mutation of originally good feminist movement, the fact that woman dream of being swept away is a big no-no. So today woman are encouraged to get more income if they are divorced than if they stay married. Government becomes new husband. And in the same way they are encouraged to report sexual assaults that were not always sexual assaults, cause of that, a Western man should get a written statement in front of public notary, that a woman is letting him have sex with her, if he does not want to get sued. Notice the problem. The only way to make a woman happy is to proceed even though he did not yell a flat-out: Yes yes, take me, take me now! Thats the only way to make her happy, and fulfilled, for her to live up to her role of a woman. But if you do that, you may get in jail. Why are jails overcrowded? And you may lose all your money, so you must wait, and be an excuser. If you are an excuser, you can only get a woman, you dont really like, cause a hot woman will at least choose a rich, famous excuser, and not a poor excuser. And every ugly or beautiful woman will be very unhappy living with an excuser, and since nobody is happy, unhappy people make the best consumers, and the economy grows. You see, society makes you become an excuser, so the corporations would make profit. As simple as that. Lets get back to woman helping you out. Since asking for help is self-destruction, use your friend without her knowing it. Find out if shes going to a party, then pretend that you have nothing to do and so on, and try to go with her. If your life is boring and dull, dont mention that to woman, even your friends. Much better say: I traveled so much lately, and met exotic people and extreme sports fanatics. Ive had enough of that, and would like to hang out with normal people these days. She will buy it. If shes smart, play it down a bit, and change it, but you get the purpose. That way she will assume, that you will not be a social retard, and embarrass her. Hopefully, her assumptions were right. If not, who cares? So you came to a party with your friends, and now its a double-edged sword. You got invited cause of them, and other woman assume you are a good catch cause of them, but you must spend the most time with them, and make sure they have a nice time. Consider them being your first-stage rockets. They pushed you up, but only first part of way, and now its time to throw them back into the sea, and the time for you to fly away. Remember your female friends are just members of the society, and dont shock them too much, cause you need them. If you didnt need them, then you wouldnt be out with them in the first place. So dont just ditch them and approach some other woman and stay with her.

Track 5 Your best bet is to find some losers who will make them company. Hopefully, when you move away, some lurkers will crawl from the shadow and engage your friends. If they do it, thats great. Dont come near, cause they may run away, and resist the temptation to blow them out of the sky with competition destroyers that I will teach you later. Just approach the woman you want, and now you will have an added advantage, that they have seen you coming in in the company of a nice woman, so it will be much easier for you to seduce her. After you finish your talk, and take a number, or arrange a date, get back to your friends, and destroy the men gathered around them. Even if they seem to like the men, destroy them anyway, cause if they get boyfriends, who will take you out to parties? Just joking you. If things are going well, and you will spend the rest of the night with the woman you just met, you must check out on your friends if they are ok. If no man wants to engage your friends, which will happen more and more, cause everybody will see, that you are the chief, then just spend some time with them. Talk with them, and so on, and then say that you see a girl you would like to meet, and that you will catch them later. Remember not to excuse yourself, cause if you cant even say it, how in the world will you pull it off? No chance. If you are with a male guy, who has listened Attract and Date, you can have a signal of going through your hair gently. Thats the signal of Come in, and take the ugly ones. But you can never do that with your woman friends, cause they fanatically resist anything that is not destiny. So take into account that they are just passive, like stones, the same as the new woman you are meeting. If you go out to a club, or a nightclub, with your woman friends, let them be your statement of how super you are to the other woman. Dance with your friend for a while, and then tell her that you just saw a girl you want, and that you will go meet her. Track 6 You see, dont tell her that you are going to the club to meet new woman. She will never go, cause of her ego, and cause she thinks that it is very bad to meet people on purpose. She thinks that one day you will meet girl cause of destiny. Yeah right. Pretend that you are taking her, or a group of her woman friends, just to have a good time. Excusers do that all the time, and stay with them all night, hoping for a miracle. You just approach the woman you like, and thats it. Destiny. When you go out with a buddy of yours, you can say: Lets get some chicks! But do not say that to your woman friends at the beginning, cause when you get strong enough you wont be needing them anyway, so dance with her, and talk with her or your group, and then go to meet the group you want. But remember, this is just a crutch for beginning. Later you will easily handle everything on your own, and the woman friends will just be in the way. Its better that your woman friends genuinely think that you are not a needy guy, and that you have loads of woman flocking you all the time. If you didnt get laid in ages, dont tell them that. Listen to your coach Ranko: Never tell a woman something, you dont want the whole world to know about. If you tell her, sooner or later everybody will know. Woman just cant resist talking gossip, and if the girls youre out with, think that youre a great guy, just one glance of approval from them, may make the woman you just met may make the woman you just met, fall for you instantly. Once again: dont tell a woman that you are going out to meet woman. All woman will permit meeting other woman in society-approved ways, and if you tell her that rules have not

been made for you, it will be such a huge shock for her society destiny-loving brain, that she will have no other option, than to consider you a wacko, and she will not take you anywhere. Track 7 Remember, once you get good enough to meet woman anywhere, anytime, and to instantly take them for a drink, you will have your hands full, literally, and you will have no time to boast about that to your female friends. So if youre going out with female friends, just say that you are going out to have a good time, even though I and you know, very well, why are you going out. Tell them that you go out to dance, and to have fun, but if it was meant to be to meet someone, it was meant to be. You see, woman tend to explain everything that happens to them as an act of fate. You will notice that all the time, from meet, to sex, and woman like and want to be swept off their feet. They dont want to assume responsibility for anything. They will stare at you, and never approach. They will like you, but will not give you her number. They will want to have sex with you, but will not want to take off her jeans. You must do it all to give her a feeling, or at least an illusion, that you are such a powerful man, and youll be one, so every time you make a physical advancement, and shes into you, with all her body language, but she says: No no no! remember your coach, Ranko Magamis rule: If you try to do something, but she says No, or any other walk sentence, but she is still there, and all her body is totally into you, just proceed. Its so important I will repeat it: If you try to do something, but she says No, or any other walk sentence, but she is still there, and all her body is totally into you, just proceed. After accomplishing most missions, you will get good enough that the girls that are there with their boyfriend, or girls that like you, but still not enough to get serious with you, those girls will start introducing their friends to you, without you asking. Now, that is a whole different story, and you may meet some really, really hot ones in the process, even better than the first girl, but well talk more about that later. Excusers often have no other way than to ask their friends to introduce them to someone, and all the time they get introduced to girls, not as good-looking as the girl they asked to do them a favor. Now, that is not much fun. Think about it. Why it happens? Before we advance, to more difficult situations, lets make sure you already internalized everything we talked about. To make your approaches even better, here is an exercise we have for you. Im sure it has happened to you many times that you see a beautiful woman, and want to approach her, cause that is the only way to her panties, as we all know. But suddenly, some mysterious force starts itching you in your stomach, and your throat flexes, and you can barely breathe. That is the society program, doing everything it can to make you, not get laid. Track 8 Follow us, and kick all that crap from your head. Make your mind free. Lets suppose that you want to go to the woman, but you sense that you are under control, and can not do a thing, or you can go in, but they will sense your insecurity, and you will accomplish nothing. Now, to the simple exercise. Leave the girls for a moment. Do not worry. Other guys are such excusers that they will not come to them, but even if they do, your power is huge once you replace the negative philosophy in your mind with positive one. At Attract and Date, we know the best possible exercises, cause all of them are from our experience as coaches and seducers of stunning beauties. We are able

to give you the best for any situation, and people get laid with it, all the time. Setting your mind free, is the most important lesson in this course, and it can be the most important thing in life. Now, go find a mirror. In trendy clubs, you have a mirror everywhere you go, but if you cant find any, just go to the toilet. When you start feeling fear, your body will go into closed posture, and your face-muscles and jaws will be tense, and cause of the tension and uncomfortable and not confident body posture, you will start to feel even more fear, and then your body language will be even worse. You must stop this vicious cycle, the vicious cycle that has stopped you from getting laid more times than you can imagine. The vicious cycle is called anxietyreinforcement, and you will use the mirror as your bio-feedback device and stop the cycle. Notice your jaw, all your face-muscles that you never pay attention, but are tense, and your neck. Notice the position of your shoulders, breath in, count of four, and in, count of six. The exhaustion should be longer than inhalation. When you are exhaling, that will be a signal to relax, the many muscles of face, neck and jaws, so take care to notice the muscles and to relax them. People usually dont notice those muscles, and they remain unnecessarily tense. Tension in muscles wastes your energy. Then proceed to shoulders. If you hadnt assumed it before, go to an upright body posture with your legs stable spread out at the floor, and most important, move your chin, just slightly upwards, slightly. If you were really crunched, in an excusers position, staring at the floor, you may need to move your chin maybe an inch upwards, but if you were not so crunched, just move it very little. Track 9 Imagine you are looking at the horizon, and now, just move your chin a third of an inch, to the most comfortable position. Humans have an instinct to protect their throat when they feel danger. Before it protected them from wild beasts that always jumped to the throat, so if your head is crunched down, the girl will unconsciously feel, that you are afraid of her, as a lion, and that will not give you any points, Im sure. Then again, breathe in, breathe out longer, and relax the face-muscles. Face-muscles can be tense all day, so it will be a new feeling. When your head is relaxed, do the same to the arms, torso and so on. Remember this: You cannot have anxiety if your muscles are relaxed. In the beginning, you will use the mirror, and later you will be able to do it alone. Great. So now you know how to kick out anxiety from your head. Do it any time you feel anxious. Now, we do the more advanced approaches, then I will teach you how to talk fluently, and how to be very interesting when talking to a girl. After that I will show you, how to arrange date, and what a woman secretly expects on a date, and how you will give her the time of her life on a date. And then we shall discuss how to make making love to a woman as unforgettable as it sounds, so she keeps coming back and back for more. [Mission] Now you are ready for taking the hottest woman out of a male-female group, and taking her home. The beautiful woman is never alone. Shes either in a company of other woman, who know she will attract loads of men, so they hope to meet somebody that way too, or shes in a company of men, or possibly both, shes in the company of woman, and some men who are desperately trying to pull something off. When you first start approaching male-female groups, this is how youll do it. Later, as you advance, you will do it like me, and go straight to her and take her. But for now, you must master this approach. So lets assume the classic situation: a guy with three woman. The guy is one of the lucky excusers who managed to take the woman out, as they say. Hes dragged them around, buying them drinks, talking with each one of them, and listening to their stupid girl-talk and to their problems.

Track 10 The woman dont like a man who discusses with them, in-depth, their problems, cause a womans problem, is not of logical nature, so discussing it is the same as if your house is on fire, and you call woman to help you, and she said: How do you feel about the fire? Do you get it? So the guy is being nice to all of them, but we of course know that he wants to lay the hottie, but will settle for one of the two average woman also. Hes not going to get any this night, thats for sure, especially now when Attract and Date student has them in sight. What will you do? What will you do? Approaching three woman is not permitted by society rules, but approach three woman and a man, oh, thats totally out of this world! But since you practiced at home the Attract and Date excuse destroyer, you will be perfectly aware, that society limitations are only for chronic masturbators. Remember, both the guy, and the three woman, are typical excuses, and will not be aware of what you are doing. If you go to approach the woman first, the guy will want to stop you, and the woman will feel like sluts for talking with you, even if they like you, so for that your approach must be perfect. You will do it the easier way, and the first thing you will do is, approach the guy. You heard me right: approach the guy. If you are there with your buddy, leave him waiting until you send him a signal, and go in alone. Your goal is to make the guy think, that you are his friend. Nothing could be further away from the truth. And at the same time, make him look lame in front of the woman, so he doesnt stand a chance any more, and they are yours for the taking. Track 11 You will approach a guy with stupid logical question. Hey, could you please tell me where Club Inferno is? Bla bla bla Then do a short conversation with him. Ask him about the Club Inferno, and what people go there. Be sure not to talk for too long, cause the girls may start to think that you are his excuser buddy, and the guy is definitely an excuser, cause otherwise he would be doing pleasurable things with a woman, and not stand around like a coat-hanger. Now comes the critical part. Ask him: How come you get to go out with so many girls? Make it seem sincere. The excuser must think that you genuinely admire him. Those guys are so excited about taking out three girls, that they will believe that you are sincerely admiring him. He will answer all kinds of hilarious stuff, ranging from: I drive a new SUV, to I have a big penis. Now you got everything what you need. In a friendly way, put an arm on his shoulder, like football players from the same team do when they score. You must be standing at his side, looking at the same direction. Do it very friendly. Smile, and talk to the girls. Girls, do you know what he just told me? That all of you like him, cause of his big penis. Is that for real? Ha ha ha, he he he! At this moment the guy is totally destroyed. Now he is not a blocker any more, cause he considers you his friend, and the process of you turning to the woman, and starting a convo with them, looks very natural, and unplanned. On the woman you can use the horoscope, Cocktail Tropico, or G-string. You already know how to do them. Now hes destroyed, and you transition to the girls like we practiced. He will not block, and girls will feel like talking to you. Later while talking to the girls, just casually, in an innocent voice, mention What do you like about him? Or even better, move closer to the hottie, and say it in a way that others cant really hear anything. How come hes with all of you? Does any of you have a crush on him or [sound cut off]

Track 12 Say it with a straight face, like you are genuinely concerned about that, but of course you couldnt care less. Now the hottie must say no, she must say that shes not the one who has a crush on him, cause shes the hottie and shes proud. She will likely say: No, are you kidding? Hes our friend. We could never be with him. Come on! When she says that, hes destroyed. Or even better, she says No, I would never want him, but my friend (who is ugly by the way), wants him. That way you can just take your hottie for a drink, in order to leave them alone. Warning: this tactic will totally destroy the guy. Remember your primary goal is to get the woman, not to destroy the men, but it is fun, thats for sure. It will be easy to do that, cause he, the proud driver, is already depressed, cause he can not interrupt your convo, cause it was such destiny. He is so under influences of excuses, that he doesnt even understand your intentions. If a buddy is nearby, now its time for him to come to you, like it was unplanned, and he will say: Hey man! Are these your friends? You will say: Oh yes, I just met them. Not introduce your buddy to the group, and you can introduce yourself, if you didnt. It will be very natural to do it now. The buddy will then take the excuser and an ugly girl, or anyone who seems like he could block you, and you can continue talking to the hottie. If you dont have a buddy, dont bother. Just have a convo with the ugly ones first, like you already did before. Then just ask the hottie: Why are you so silent? Tell me, what you think about the G-string? You see, all of them cannot imagine in their minds that it is all set up, that you are in full control, so they will all think it was some kind of destiny. After talking with the hottie for a while, use a sentence that your coach, Ranko uses. You seem like a very interesting girl. Join me for a drink. At the same time, gently, with a slight touch, push her towards the bar, or take her hand, if there are too many people. Give a reassuring smile to her group, that the two of you will be back in a minute, and let her say whatever she has to say to her friends. And now you have it. The stunning woman is having a drink with you, and it all seemed as destiny, and it was. Track 13 The key is to lose any fear, and to do it confidently, like her prince, cause she wants to be swept away, and the hotter the woman, the less responsibility she wants to have. That is why only ugly woman approach men, cause they may settle even for a man that is not so strong. That they have to get themselves. Dont worry about the guy sabotaging you. He would do it if he was not an excuser, but if he was not an excuser, he would be in bed with female company, and not stand around like a puppy dog. When you approach a guy with your question, the woman will hear also, and even if the guy suspects you are about to do something, he must tolerate you in order not to appear rude to the woman. Social pressure blocking him. When you ask him: How come you get to go out with so many nice woman? ask him in a friendly, man-to-man way, and move a bit closer, so the woman dont really hear it all. If he says something, you cant use, like We are friends from work, you know that he is an excuser, who even doesnt think high of his achievement, so it will be even easier. Then just transition to the girls with any line. The girls are always so bored with admirers that buy them drinks, and take them around, that they will accept you with joy. Also, they didnt meet anyone that night, cause all of the men have no clue how to approach and handle that situation. You will get fast success doing it, but never mention to the girl that it was all planned. Keep your weapons and skills a secret, my friend. It is very important that you destroy the

guy if he has enough value to compete with you for the girls. He may be a confident guy, but nobody can survive a destroyer, if done well, cause he sincerely thinks that you admire him, but only the girls sense that you are above him. If you judge that he may be a candidate to get the girls, just talk with him until you get some info that you will use for destruction. Then just say to the girls with a smile, but a slightly weird look in your face, which only they will notice, then transition to talk with the girls. Soon well do the spontaneity exercises, which will make talking to anybody, male or female, a piece of cake, cause that is the usual problem for most guys. Approaching a group with a man inside is a big, big victory over those negative pattern in your mind that have been stopping you for so long. [sound fades out too quickly] Track 14 Since it is such a huge victory, the society program in your mind will shoot everything it has to stop you, to stop your genes from replicating, cause you are not super successful. Cause you are not a star. But you dont have to be a star, what you have to do is to defeat the bad wiring in your own mind and give yourself permission to succeed. If you can, take a buddy with you who is also a student of Attract and Date, cause society program may block you so much, that you dont even notice it by yourself. Yes, it can get so strong. So when you see several woman that you would like to meet standing there with a guy, the excuse generator will tell you: Do not go. He may get mad, and beat you up. The truth is, that he may beat you up, if he senses you are weak, and you blatantly hit on the woman. Any other reason is just an excuse in your mind. Now you must defeat the excuse by rationalizing. Always calm rationalizing. He cant beat me up, cause he wants to make good impression on the woman, so chances of him beating him up are far less than if I ask a solo man for the directions to the Club Inferno, and I have no trouble asking a man for directions. So, it must be an excuse. You of course can change the name of the club to some that really exists in your city, and do that on your first approaches. But later, as you get better, you will see that you can pull it off with Club Inferno also, even though it doesnt exist. After a dozen approaches, and have a laugh how people never get it, that you are there for the girls. All people are programmed to always respond the same way, so that you will use all the time. I know it may sound mean and unfair that you take woman from the guy who genuinely tries to help you find the club, but it is only you and him, and only one of you can have the hottie, and you are the one. Yes, you! So its time to stop excusing and to finally take what you lust for, and leave all your competitors breathing your dust. Track 15 You see, by doing this specifically made exercises, and using what we teach you, you are getting better and better, and you know how they say sky is the limit. You will soon discover that actually, your stamina is the limit. Now you know how to handle a group with a guy inside. Go out and practice it, and if you can, have a buddy watch you. Let me now instruct you, how to be a winner in the most annoying situation of all. [Mission] Have you ever experienced that you talk with woman, you are doing good, and who knows where it would have taken you, but suddenly, some guy appears out of nowhere, starts talking to them, and you feel left out. You have no clue what to do. You have no clue what to say. You may even start to feel embarrassed and turn red in the face. Oh, thats not good. They guys just an excuser, but he is now leading the talk, and you dont know what to do, and you just go away, and you can feel the girls really dont

care, will you stay or not. Now its time to forget about that. After you study what we have to tell you, you will actually start looking forward to other men trying to block you, so you can bury them deep in the mud. It starts being joyful, thats for sure. I will give you two destroyers to make your competition regret they ever wanted to mess with an Attract and Date student. They will not know what got them. Lets suppose you are talking to a dazzling woman, or to a group of them, and then some bozo excuser comes along. cause he knows them from before, he will let himself do the approach. The excuser can be a guy they know from work, a cousin of one of the girls, a friend who actually wants to lay the hottie. All friends are like that, by the way. Or anyone else who knows them from before, and cause of that, will give himself permission to go talk to them. Attractive woman get to know a lot of men, so if you spend enough time talking to one of them, chances are somebody will come to block you. What a girl feels about you, or about him, is note really relevant in this case. As I said, woman are like stones, how you put them, they will stand. So she could like you a lot more, but you still have to do all the job of blowing him off. Dont expect the woman to do it for you. Society program in your head may try to sabotage you by telling you: You must behave, and be decent. Let the woman choose who she wants. That way, its hundred percent chance her attraction towards you will drop dramatically. She may still stay with you that time, but after a couple times she will both consciously and unconsciously realize that you are a wimp, and eventually, she will get rid of you. Track 16 If you see that your woman is showing signs that she may be into some other guy, dont make a classic mistake of feeling too proud to do anything about it. Destroy the negative pattern in your head, and blow him out of the sky. Society wants you to do nothing smart. Society wants you too to compete like horny roosters in front of a chicken, cause that way the whole human race will benefit the most, cause if both men dont even try to take the woman, but only show off, and if they let the woman choose, she will choose the better-looking one, the rich one, or the more successful one, and the human race will benefit, cause good genes of that man, good for the whole, will mix with good genes of woman, of a beauty. But you are not some rooster. You have evolved much above that. You are a student of Attract and Date, thats what you are. You have two huge weapons at your disposal. The first one, is no society program in your mind. Society program in your mind is like toxic waste infecting you from the inside. And your second equally powerful weapon is a society program fully functioning in your competitors mind. Combining the two, the battle has already been won, before it started. Lets suppose that youre talking with a woman. She may be a wife, or, you may have met her five minutes ago. Everything is going smooth, and then some guy appears, that knows your woman, and starts talking to the two of you. He could be her cousin. He could be her co-worker. But, he could also be her ex-boyfriend, and she could forget all bad stuff about him, and remember only the good. He could be a guy that approached her somewhere a year ago, but they still have each others phone, and he could give her a call tomorrow. They could meet for an innocent cup of tea, but they may drink wine, and things start happening, and he ends up in bed with your woman. Your job is to stop all those scenarios from happening. Your job is to take what is yours, and if you dont do anything about it, your coach, Ranko Magami, or another instructor we do the same , will come and personally kick you in the ass. Just joking you or maybe not. So, what happens first when he comes? If she introduces the two of you, he will extend his hand, like it is done in society. You are standing there, fully

confident. You already mastered body language of an alpha. Legs spread, upright posture, exposed chin and chest, totally different clothing. For instructions on how to intimidate with your looks alone, without actually doing anything, check the forum on Attract and Date. You will wait a second, just to make him feel insecure, and then you will extend your hand slowly, and use the alpha handshake. Track 17 You will catch him by surprise, and take his hand from upwards, so your hand is not vertical, but your thumb is at about ten oclock. Its totally unnoticeable to anyone consciously. But a woman will unconsciously register you as being much more dominant, no matter what your actually physical strength. You can also use the enhanced alpha handshake, when you take his whole arm in your hand, from elbow to fist, is at almost horizontal position, and you gently touch him with an elbow to his chest. See the forum for an explanation. Now, that he didnt expect. Since youve destroyed excuse in your head, you can start talking whatever you want. Just dont let him take the lead. That is the most important. The woman is always attracted to the leader, and you are the leader. At this moment, you will start to feel him getting feelings of inadequacy, and less worth, so just touch the woman to demonstrate to both of them that shes yours, and nobody elses, and continue talking. Dont let him take a lead of the conversation. When you get experience, you let him talk and talk, go in whenever you choose, and destroy him, but until then, take the lead in the convo as soon as you can. Your parents did not teach you that. They teach you to always politely listen to whatever the other people were saying, and to wait, wait, wait wait Now its time to change that, cause waiting for the guy to finish may mean many more nights with your hand for you. That guy may never get your woman, but she will know that better guys than you exist, and she will not be so horny for you. If the guy needs any further annihilation, continue with the following. Your goal is to destroy him as much as possible, avoiding any signs of aggression, cause it could not only get you in trouble, but it will be a sign of weakness for the girl. You are so confident, that you do not need to use any aggression. An aggression and making sarcastic comments is the only way excusers compete between each other. But that way they both lose, cause they leave for the girl to choose. She will choose one, but will know that both of them are excusers, and her heart will desire deeply a better man. So, say it like you really mean it, if you are in a club: Hey man! I think I saw you dancing! You are such a wonderful dancer! Chances are, that hes a bad dancer, like overwhelming majority of men, and that the woman will laugh, and he is shot down. You see, if you have just met a woman, five minutes ago, that guy may be her best friend, or somebody who she values, so you will say such a seemingly innocent line. The more you know the woman, and the better you get that means, the more excuses you manage to kick from your head, and the more alpha body language you have you will be able to stop competition obviously. When I and the other instructors go out, we intimidate everyone with looks alone, cause we are dressed in an eye-catching way, and sit like we own peanut.dl.am. Every instructor has great experience in training, so going out with him is always a chance for me, to pick up new moves, and learn something from him, hell learn something from me, and we have fun. Then when we talk to woman, and some excuser dressed in blend-in colors jumps in from the shadows, and says Hi! to her, I just smile at that, and the woman laughs at him also, and the excuser, has then even more trouble with his feelings of low selfesteem, that he usually, turns red. You see, there are just a few beautiful girls, and if you show respect to your competition, youve just lost. So by asking him: Hey man, I think

I saw you dancing. You are such a wonderful dancer, you overtake the convo, and now he has to react to you. His response really doesnt matter. What matters is that all attention is now on the interaction between the two of you, and if you remember yourself, how you felt before, long ago, under the influence of society program, how you felt social anxiety and pressure what everybody else is thinking, and phobias. So by doing all the exercises we give you, you have defeated that, but your competition still feels it, and this is your best weapon. Engage into convo with him with joy, cause you couldnt care less, and hes all self-conscious, blocked by his own fears, and after some time, just turn to the girl, push her gently towards you, and continue. If you have done all the missions, this one will be easy for you. Track 18 If you happen to anywhere else, and youre talking with woman, and a guy comes in with the intent to destroy you, you can ask him in a way, that everyone hears well: Oh, what a great designer shirt! Does it get you a lot of woman? Do they like it? Now hes six feet underground, cause if he says no, he just admitted of being a loser, and if he says yes, you just got even better ammunition to make fun of him, but it all started as an innocent question, and he got laughed at, by sheer coincidence. You see, feel free to use this as a model, and make up your own destruction lines in the situation. Like everything else in this course, this lines are not designed to be memorized, but to make you go against the negative patterns in your mind, to strengthen your philosophy, cause by doing all the missions, you must go against them, and once your mind is free from the grip the society, your parents, teachers put in you, it will be very easy to talk as the situation evolves. One thing you must let yourself do is let yourself think good about yourself, and let yourself laugh at the system. Remember those guys that go to clubs hundreds of times and then stand in big groups, dressed in the same clothes, while on the other end of the club, hot woman are desperately waiting. Those guys are excusers. They dont deserve your respect. One misconception of any civilization, is to respect everything and everybody, and to always say: Oh, I admire your opinion, but what I say next, is my opinion only, bla bla bla Well you see, the team of Attract and Date does not give respect to excusers, and their endless excusing, and that is why, we have the best woman, and live free of self-imposed limitations. If you choose to be like us, it is not an easy way, and going against the flow is hard. The choice is only up to you. Now you mastered the approach phase. If you still have some difficulties, just listen once more, and you will see much more clearly. Youve killed the excuses in your head, and managed to approach, and to start the conversation, but battle is not over, cause this society, that we all live in, has set traps for you everywhere, and the unconscious program in a mans head will act like this. Since a man managed to shut down the negative program in his head, and approach, he is now very close to getting laid, and since hes not what society wants for a hot woman to mate with, since hes not goodlooking, successful or famous enough, he must be stopped. He must be stopped at all costs, and now the program in your head hits you much stronger, and what happens? You lose your gift of speech. Thats right. Parts of your brain that tell you what to say, are just literally shut down, and you stand there, with the woman of your dreams, speechless and unable to say something reasonable. Not to mention, that you lose your sense of humor. You just stand there, and the conversation dies. Track 19

Do you have trouble talking to your best friend? Do you have trouble talking to males in general? Not really. With a man, you can talk, and in a male company you can be the most amusing and cool guy. Why then do you often stand there speechless after you met a girl? Where is your humor then? Every man has to be under control. One of the main means of society control is stress, cause when under stress, you can not think by your own mind, but you wander around blind, and do what everybody else is doing. Well talk about how to eliminate stress later on, but now lets study the process that happens in the mind. You managed to suppress the society program when you say the line on approach, but if you still didnt cleanse your mind fully of it, it will lurk, and get stronger, and stronger, and after some initial talk it will hit you back so hard that you just lose your gift of thinking and speech. The program put there by everyone that surrounds you, knows that you must be stopped at all costs, so do you know what it does? It just shuts down the blood-supply to as many parts of the brain as it can. That is why mean, who are otherwise very fluent in speech, have a hard time talking with woman, and they can think of only the most primitive things to say, like: What do you do? How do you like the music? Do you come here very often? Those sentences are ok in the beginning, but if your convo starts getting more and more simple, and it should be more complicated and complicated, then it is an obvious signal, that parts of your brain are being shut down, so you lose. That is why talking to an attractive woman, for many men, is like talking to a man that has a gun pointed into them. In both scenarios, fear is so high, that there is no blood-supply for advanced thoughts, cause all of it is in the fight-or-flight organs. Track 20 Imagine how hard it would be to figure out a smart and witty thing to say if somebody had a gun pointed into your head. You wouldnt sound very original, would you? By approaching many woman, you will, bit by bit, regain control over your own mind, and after you approach and talk to a lot of woman, you will have no trouble talking effortlessly, interesting stuff to her. So you must first identify the cause of your problem. Dont make a mistake that you dont know what to say, and dont think that you can not talk very interesting to a woman. Actually you can, but your mind is blocked. You must first release the blockers. That is now your main objective. After you release the blocker, then and only then you should concern yourself with the topics of the conversation, which although important, mean nothing if your brain gets shut down. The process of releasing the blocker from your mind, by just talking and talking to woman, takes a lot of time, and that is why Attract and Date has exercises that will shrink months of approaching and talking to woman into hours, or even minutes. Those exercises will make you as spontaneous as you ever wanted to be, and they will solve the frightening problem for a lot of men, and that is, talking to woman. The exercises are done extensively in workshops, and here I bring you a brief overview of a few of them. You will be needing a few friends to help you out, cause they are done in a group. Why are they done in a group of guys? Verbal skills are actually very easy acquired, but since that is not society acceptable, nobody practices them this way. They are so easily learned, that if you get a group of your buddies to help you out, you will all soon be overwhelmed with stunning girls, so take the same buddies that meet woman with you the ones that have chosen not to be excusers, just like you have and take an afternoon off. Then you can go out and see who will charm the most woman. So lets suppose that five of you are sitting in a circle, and you start. The purpose of the exercise is to make a story. You start with a word, then the guy next to you starts with another

word, then the guy next to him says another. It can go like this: you say Once, then the guy next to you says upon, then it goes, a, time, we, decided, to, get, the, horny, and so it goes This was one example. On this first exercise, the important thing is to move as fast as possible. Talk like that for a few minutes. By doing this exercise, you will get spontaneity, and not just spontaneity, but super spontaneity. In the second exercise, you will learn how to express emotions. Be sure that everybody is watching you, so you break the excuses in your head that are stopping you to say to woman. In the beginning, you will laugh at yourself. Why comes the laughing? Society program in your thoughts makes any expression of emotion, very funny to you, cause society program knows, that it attracts woman so much, that you must be stopped, and the best way to stop you is for you to laugh at yourself. Track 21 You must break that blocker, so be sure that all your buddies are watching you. Can you feel the program making you feel stupid now, HAHA! I guess you can. And just proceed with the exercise. One of your friends must say a statement, and the other one must say an emotion. Your job is to say the sentence in the tone of that emotion. For example, if a sentence is Today Im broke, and the emotion is happiness, you must say Today Im broke! Today, Im broke! So you come in the center and one guy says a simple statement, and another one says an emotion. You must as quickly as possible say that sentence in the tone of your emotion. In the color of your emotion. After twenty combinations, of statements and emotions, they judge, was it convincing enough. If it was not, you are the talker again. If it was, somebody else does it. Track 22 You will have no trouble saying logical statements, but Im sure that you cant name a lot of emotions. Why is that so? In order to stop the average man from having good woman, they have been taught to be a man, and not care about emotions, and if you display an emotion, then you are not a good enough man, and you are ridiculed. How will a man concerned about emotions be a powerful provider or warrior? But while other men are still busy serving the society, Attract and Date students are living their life. Here is a list of these extra-terrestrial stuff called emotions: happy and sad. No no, Im just joking you. There are more: happy, excited, serene, enthusiastic, sad, pessimistic, hopeless, depressed, heartbroken, hurt, annoyed, frustrated, provoked, offended, cautious, concerned, alarmed, anxious, passionate, loving, tender, intrigued, excited, secure, calm, respected, confident, hesitant, skeptical, ashamed, humiliated, embarrassed, shocked, cruel. Believe it or not, there are more. But this will be enough to complete the second exercise. It will kill the geek inside you, and bring out a romantic hero. After this second exercise, you are ready for the more advanced third exercise. Remember, they may be funny, but the most things we consider important are funny to woman. Those exercises can not go without huge laughter, but be aware, its better to laugh now, then when a woman asks you: What do you feel for me? If you laugh then, youve just sent your career as a ladies-man through the window. So, you are holding an imaginary bag, and out of the bag you pull out imaginary objects. What isnt imaginary is this exercise will make you a seducer. You choose a guy, who must act out a story about that imaginary object. For example, a friend pulls out something out from the bag, and he says its a newspaper. Then you start: Today I was reading the newspaper full of very interesting articles. A man was hit by lightning in Spain. Then

there was an article about diabetes. Anyone can have that disease. Go check out yourself immediately. Certified medical personnel is guaranteed to find at least one disease you may have, and youll be ok only when they say so. Blessing for the medical system. I will now run, and buy more pills. Continue through the story. The listeners are not forced to pay attention. If you make your story interesting enough, they will listen. If not, you will quickly see it in their faces. That way you can fail a lot of times. You can fail under the influence of society program, and look very stupid to yourself. Everything can happen, but eventually, youll be able to say a nice story, and in the evening, when you meet a woman of your dreams, you will not blow it. Imagine how many woman you will have wasted, and how many months you would have lost, if you practiced only among the woman you want and desire. Track 23 In the fourth exercise, you do the same as in the first exercise, but instead of saying one word at a time, you say a few words, or a whole sentence. Then the guy next to you continues with his sentence, and so you go in circle. Do it for five minutes, and try to keep it as fast as possible, and then you will do the fifth exercise, in which one guy is not participating, but he gives a sign when the story is passed to the next guy in circle. So you start talking, and when the friend standing in the circle raises his arm, then the guy next to you continues. Of course, you can say whatever you want. By doing these exercises, it is amazing how spontaneous a man can become in just one afternoon, cause when you go through a fear of talking about anything in front of a group of men many times, you will be able to effortlessly do it with a woman. For some of you, it will be hard to relax, and do these exercises, but remember, its just society program making you feel stupid so you wouldnt get the girl. Master all these five exercises first, before you move on. Take the time you need. After all of you have mastered it, lets do the free-association exercise. Remember the first exercise. In it the words were logically connected. In this exercise, you must say the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear a particular word. For example, you say chair. The first thing that comes up to a guy to your right is sit, then the first thing that comes up to a guy on his right is down, so it will go like this fast. Chair, sit, down, up, ceiling, and so on. By letting yourself say the first thing that comes to your mind, you will sound very interesting, and never be boring to girls. And now weve come to our final exercise. All of you are standing in one big circle. In the middle of the room. First guy comes into the circle, and describes an environment. It must be the weirdest environment possible. The less logical, the better. The first guy can say It is a treehouse located on the moon. Then guys come in, one by one, and every one of them has to put an object inside, that fills the space. The object has to be as much weird as possible. For example: It is a treehouse located on the moon. Then the other guy comes into the circle and says: A flying shark passes by in his quest to have only the most beautiful woman. So it must make as less sense as possible. The next guy can say: A medieval sheep is flying above the house.

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Track 1 So when all these unusual objects have been put inside that space, the last guy will come. He does not put any object. And he must explain the situation, and who he is, and why hes in the space, and what all those objects are doing there. The last guy can start to talk: Im a real estate agent, and user car salesman. I bought this nice house on the moon, cause it has a nice view of the planet Earth. I locked myself in the house, cause Im an excuser, and Shark does not like excusers, bla bla bla You see, the last guy has to adapt, and improvise, and tell a story and have a straight face in the process. These exercises are easy, yet extremely powerful way to be able to handle a conversation with a woman. While your competition gets to talk to woman on Saturday night, that is, if they even dare to approach and come to the talking phase. You will train as much as you want, so when the crucial moment comes, talking to a woman will be a piece of cake. You will behave like youve met hundreds of them. These exercises will make it easy for you to talk yourself out of any situation, and to touch the woman in their soul with your words. Print out this Attract and Date rule into your mind: Woman are aroused a lot more by what you tell her than what you show her, while men are totally opposite. At this point you are flying well above the race, and have knowledge about woman unimaginable to ordinary guys. Are you feeling that you are ready for real-life action with an expert, and considering taking an Attract and Date individualized workshop, where one of us can come to visit you in your city, or you may be thinking of joining a group workshop, and meeting like-minded guys. All of us instructors often practice together, and weve all had great success with clients. Book soon, cause there are not many of us. Becoming an instructor is only for the best, and in the process of learning how to seduce beautiful woman, you will also meet many men just like you, who want to take control over their destiny, and create friendships that last a lifetime. At this moment it is time to go meet some woman. What did I hear? You are tired? Did I hear that it is raining? Did I hear that youll go next week? Listen, kick those excuses out of your mind immediately! Stop excusing for your desires as a man, and go find yourself a girl. If you excuse today, you will excuse tomorrow, and please dont tell me your exc[sound cut off early] Track 2 Great. I hope you went out and gotten a woman. If you did just that, you are on your way to becoming a success! If not, what are you planning? To become a symbiosis with your chair, a new life-form? Let me tell you more about woman and how they think. In order to understand that, you should have done all the missions I gave you. It will be way easier that way. First, you must often look the world from her perspective. You must see with her eyes, and get into her shoes, if you want to always say the right thing, and do the right stuff. Exactly when should you look the world from her perspective? Trying to figure out the world from her perspective all the time is a bit time-consuming,

and unnecessary, and you have much better stuff to do, like admire her dazzling beauty. But in some critical moments, you must see with her eyes, and that is when a woman asks you a question. When she asks you a question you must first think of what she wants to hear, and then tell it to her in a convincing way. If you do that right, she will translate that into This man understands me, and so hes Mr. Right. I know that you are very happy by being Mr. Right-Now also, but womans first priority is finding Mr. Right. You on the other hand want Miss Right Now-Now-Now. When a woman thinks shes being understood, shes much more likely to get horny for you. So try it out the next time she asks you a question. Dont say something that only you will laugh at, but say something she wants. The whole purpose of your communication with her is not to find someone to listen to your views of the world, but to find a woman that wants to go to bed with you, and the rest of things usually cancel each other out. The society is always lurking in the shadows around you, to try to take you back, to assimilate you back. Did you turn the volume low, so other people in the house wouldnt hear? Did you put the CDs deep inside your drawer, so nobody from the society can see? Are you, day by day, concerned that somebody will check on you and how you are spending your time, so you plan your day activities in a way other people would approve of that? Well, the time has come for you to stop being a slave, and to admit what you are: a man that likes and admires woman, and wants freedom in his life. If you cant even say it out loud, how will you do it? The society teaches you, that it is bad to be rejected, and that it is bad to try hard to get any girl, that you will lose face if you do it, but think about it. Do you really have to try hard, or is all the weight just in your head? Of course, the only way for an excuser is to get a woman is to try hard, and hard, but hes just make it hard for himself in his mind. Track 3 Talking for an hour with your friend is not hard at all, so how can then talking with an attractive woman, and getting to a position to talk to her, how can that be such a huge burden? Cause men make it a huge burden. Have you ever felt pressure, when in high school the hottest girl ask you something? Did you feel your heart beat? Well, that pressure gets stronger and stronger as you grow older, and even if there is an excuser who is the best among excusers, and he tries get the hottie, even under that huge pressure, the society will ridicule him. We teach you to fly literally above the race. When me and my friend and family were skiing this winter, I saw a beautiful girl, expertly handling the icy slope. I dont mind to spend my time with my family, and ski slowly with them, but immediately I left them, intercepted the girl, skid with her, went out with her, and seduced her. When I came back next day in the morning, they all turned red. Imagine that. It seems they will never learn. Ah, what excusers. You see, they turn red, cause of me doing what Im supposed to do. Do not ever ever let those society zombies pull you down. You just dont live in their reality. You live in your own reality, and you live by your own rules. If they dont like it, they can do you know what? Turn red, thats what they can do! Anyone can get into a particularly dangerous self-destruct pattern that you must learn to identify, and stop at all costs. When a man is young and starts trying to get girls for the first time, all odds are against him. Everyone will try to sabotage you, but even if there wasnt any negative society influence, cause a boy is still inexperienced, he will fail at first attempts of getting girl. So first attempts would be futile, even if somehow we managed to erase the bad society program that is put into a boys mind, and the boy will try to get the girl, and he will fail, cause he has no guidance from anybody. Very often, the only way to make a situation is bearable to

himself, a boy will imagine that the girl is now feeling bad cause she rejected him, to make things easier for himself, and to not feel like a failure, a boy will fantasize, that secretly, she feels regret, and that deep inside she will be sorry for rejecting him. Track 4 That is a protective mechanism for a boy not to feel like a born loser. So it took him a lot of courage to approach her. She sensed he was an excuser and she dumped him. It is very hard to admit your own mistakes, but that is the first step to perfection, so instead of making themselves better, many men choose to fantasize that actually, shes now sorry. Soon they dont do it consciously, but almost unconsciously. They dont tell it to their friends, but it can become an automatic response to getting rejected by the girl. If a guy has been on a date with a girl, and everything seemed ok, everything seemed going well, and suddenly, shes not answering his phone calls, its rejection. Logically of course, the guy will not think that somewhere deep inside, she will feel sorry, but almost unconsciously, after the initial frustration, he will think that she must regret it deep inside, or at least later, shell be sorry, cause the guy is very sad now, and frustrated, and he would look stupid to himself if he admitted that the girl couldnt care less for him, so instead of doing something to fix his behavior, that led to rejection, so next time he would do better, it is much easier for majority of men to imagine that shes also feeling bad and sorrow. And so he lives and gets rejected by woman. Some reject him on the first line, and others find nothing else, marry, and then divorce him. But the older he gets, the more he gets into a dangerous, self-destruct pattern. He starts thinking that every relationship, date, or even every interaction with woman, must end like an unhappy romantic story, that it will definitely end like that. So, he meets a woman, and arranges a date. Before the date, he will start telling himself, that it will end up like a sorrow romantic novel. Sometimes, guys are so determined, in their decision to make a woman feel sad, that they are actually looking forward to it as a proof of their being macho men. But they just postpone getting laid, and postpone and postpone And they really like, that the girl feels sorry, almost as if she has to pay for all the rejection they had to go through life. So when men stop being excusers, and woman wants them, and there is nothing stopping them to have a love-life they always dreamed of, they will start doing things that will initiate their own destruction, so the new experience can blend into old, negative experiences. They will start seeing non-existing signs that they have no chance, that its all about to end, and they will secretly fantasize about breaking up with the woman, and her feeling sorry. It is cause, their frustration is so big, that what they want even more than to get laid, is for the woman to feel the pain they felt countless times. Track 5 That is a classic example of society program taking control over your own mind. If it starts happening to you, take measures immediately, and do the exercises for society program destruction. Beware! The ways of society control, in stopping any guy to get the good woman, are very sneaky, but you are about to win. Your journey has started, and there is no turning back. Let me tell you what things to avoid. Once you get your first initial boost of confidence, and start feeling the power is with you, and not the woman, to celebrate their newfound little bit of confidence, many men like to pull off stupid jokes on woman, that are meant not to be funny, but to put woman down. They think that by ball-busting woman, they will show their higher value. They think that

even though they are still excusers, they will pull themselves out of misery by busting on her. Well, it just doesnt go that way. If you find huge satisfaction in making fun of a woman, it wont take you to the bed. After some initial laugh, cause it is a big surprise coming from an otherwise excuser-person, she will conclude, that the man must be sexually frustrated, and that hes not for her. It will work better than being only an excuser, cause at least there is some conversation, not silence. So treat woman nicely. If you are above her, if your frame of mind is stronger, and you are confident in yourself, that makes you an alpha man, and every woman dreams of being taken away and swept off her feet by an alpha man. Initially, when men get their first dose of confidence, some of them want to take revenge on woman. They want to show them. But they forget, it was not a womans fault for their misery. It was their own fault. So they go around, with an intention of approaching and ridiculing woman that never did them any harm, and their focus turns away from meeting a girl, to making fun of her. Of course, if men is still an excuser, full of phobias, pulling a nasty joke on a woman will raise his value. But if he is not, excessive ball-busting of woman will expose to shining light that in fact, he didnt get laid in ages. Unfortunately, in the whole Western world, you can be sued for almost anything. You can be sued for coming to a woman closer than half a meter. You can be sued for looking at a woman, even though it is a statement about her beauty. I guess some fat-ass woman that you offended by running away, will be able to sue you for psychological damage. Those fat feminists, they are everywhere. They jump out of my TV-set! First it was gays ok, now it is fatties ok. Tomorrow it will be, it is ok to cut off your balls. <laughter> My friends, being a man has become an endangered species. Do you know one of the reasons why I dont watch much TV? You pay for cable TV, and what you get? You get woman, ugly or beautiful, talking about their rights, and about their new self-discovery. Track 6 They can discover themselves as much as they want. Just dont terrorize me with your problems. I have better stuff to do, than to watch a woman celebrate her womanhood. Media is full of them. Theyre victims. They are celebrated as saints. Now listen to this society rule: When a hard-working leader of a nation, a great leader, one of the best in many years, has a young mistress they terrorize both of them: Did you have sex? Did you have sex? Was it oral sex? Was it real sex? Ahhh When a princess, whose only job is raising charity, and smiling to the cameras has a lover, they idolize her. But then, why the Hell are they eating so many donuts? Get out of my sight, you loud feminists! I have no time to waste looking at you. And I discovered why a womans ass gets fatter and fatter. As I already told you, as men become bigger and bigger excusers, the woman can get away with more and more. If men werent excusers, a woman would reason like this: Ok, if I eat this bag full of donuts and muffins, I will get dumped. So I must eat a healthy diet, not junk. But since all men are excusers, a woman knows that she will get cared for, and pampered, even if she turn huge, and those donut are looking so good and tasty, yum-yum. And so the bigger excusers men become, the bigger the woman will be. The men are to blame. It must be like that, cause it makes everyone unhappy, and unhappy people spend money on things they dont need. Remember, feminist movement was with good intentions originally, but cause of men never speaking up, and cause of large companies interest in selling stuff to unhappy people, it mutated into what it is today. Its main purpose today is to blame men for being men, and to make both man and woman miserable, so people will spend more, pills included. Girls are brainwashed even more than boys. Every woman is genetically searching for a man

more powerful than herself. So, especially in a relationship, a woman will often pull out silly tricks, just to get some kind of reaction from her man. Just to get proof that hes not an excuser. Track 7 If you are on a date, the woman may start looking around, and openly admire some other men. It will go something like this: Woman: Oh, look at that tall football player. He has a fabulous chest! What will happen then? Feelings of inadequacy will flock our excuser, and he will feel bad about himself. He may say: Excuser: Honey, where are we planning a vacation this year? This is a usual response of a married man. If they are just dating, and are still getting to know each other, he may just turn red. His throat may stiffen, and he will say: Excuser: Yes, sure. So tell me more about your day at work, and all your problems. The woman just wanted to get a response from her man. She knows that men assume shes attracted to looks alone, like men are, and shes hoping for a reaction, to have proof that blood is running in his veins, to have proof that his heart is made of flesh, not silicone. But she got nothing, cause his mind is poisoned by society, which makes him feel miserable, and only thing he can do about it is to go to the gym, and one day have a great chest. Our excuser may think that we will show her, and start a counter-attack. That is, he thinks he must go into counter-attack. Excuser: What, are you attracted to some bozo playing football? Whats your problem, are you frustrated? Do you know what happens now? Maybe she was not sexually frustrated before. Maybe, if they are together, the two of them had a good sex life, but she just found out, that she has been sleeping with an excuser, and she feels bad, very bad. Now she knows, that her looking at other males, has created such big feelings of inadequacy, that the only thing her date can do, is start busting on her. In both cases, her sexual desire towards her date will drop dramatically. Society is here to blame, cause it has trained our excuser. If situation like that happens to you, you dont need to react every time. You dont need to show youre an alpha on every occasion. Once is sometimes enough. But do it from time to time. Show your woman that you are not an excuser, and that shes yours, only yours. Are you afraid to show the woman that shes your? Are you afraid to do what you must do? Well, you can either do it, or have your balls cut off. I hope you choose what I want you to choose. Woman: Oh, look at that football player. He has a fabulous chest! Come to her, and gently but firmly take her in your hands, and turn her towards you. Do it smooth, but firm. Have a slight smile. What you say, she may take it as a joke, but leave a seed of doubt that you meant it, and the more she thinks and replays the event in

her head, the more she will be sure that you meant it, and the more she will be happy that she has you. Track 8 Ranko: Look at me, miss. The only chest you will be seeing is my own, unless of course, you like to, turn off the lights. Is tonight ok? She will be stunned and dazzled. You must do it in an alpha confident way, but very gentle and caring. Her eyes will start shining, and if she told you, what shes thinking, she would say: Oh my God! This guy is my prince! Gentle but persistent, and has no fear. I want his genes. Oh please, take me! Take me soon! You see, you must combine your words, with your touch. All woman, not only want to be touched, but it is a must. If you fail to touch her, you are an excuser, and she doesnt want to, but society teaches woman: If you are touched, that is red meat, and you can sue sue sue, and get thousands of dollars! You see, in order to have its members unhappy, the society will try to remove something as natural as touching. A man will not be able to behave strong and confident. A woman will not be able to behave like a woman, and be swept off her feet, and corporations will sell luxury gadgets, that are the only way a man can have his woman happy. Isnt it a paradox that a woman will earn more if she gets divorced? Isnt it a paradox that a woman can kick a man out of the house, and even get government help for doing that? The government becomes the substitute father, and little boys, having no father, and going to usually female-dominated educational system, have no male role-model to identify with, and it can only do harm to a young mind. The main reason for joining a gang, is just to get a male identity. Maybe that is the reason for overcrowded prisons. You will be approaching and talking to a lot of woman. Your fear of meeting them will get smaller and smaller, until it diminishes totally. It is absolutely necessary, that you do meet new woman, and talk to them, in order to understand the philosophy. After some time, you will enjoy your newfound freedom, and be talking to any woman anywhere, and for other men, the society zombies, it is unthinkable to be able to do so. But you will move even further, until you physically cannot handle so much interested woman. After you master the approach phase, it is time to go dating. The outcome of asking her on a date is pretty much determined by what you did before you asked her. Track 9 Do you remember how the outcome of the first line is strongly influenced by what you did in seconds before you said it? If you sneaked around like an excuser, and came in sweating of fear. If it worked, it worked for the wrong reason, cause if you really look like a clown, they will keep you in their company, just to study you more. But that is not what you are aiming for. Youre aiming for displaying that youre alpha, confident and charming, and that is the reason girls want to keep you. So some men choose to go the excuser way, and make funny clowns out of themselves, and dress like weirdos. That is just transferring the responsibility of meeting a woman, to a funny act. And transferring your responsibility to something else, is not the way to go. The same as your success on the initial line is influenced by what you did before, the same way your success when you ask for her number, or for a date, is influenced by what you did before. I want you to have Attract and Date rule in your mind always: Be sure to free your mind of society program, before asking a woman her number, or for a date, cause a small society

program influence then could ruin hours of good job you did before. When you are asking for her number, this is the first fact shell consider: have you showed enough value until that moment so she wants to get to know you? There is one secret, and instead of letting you fail until you realize it, you will learn it now. But if you still didnt do the exercises, I advise you, to stop the CD and to them all, cause youll have a harder time understanding. This exercises are specifically designed to be done one after the other, and to lead you to great success. Ok, I assume that you have done everything I told you. If not, I may get very mad, my friend. You better not make us mad, cause an instructor will come, and make you meet woman, no matter your excuses. Track 10 You may have done a wonderful approach, and you may have had a wonderful conversation, and then you will say: It was such a nice time talking to you. You seem like a very interesting girl. Give me your number. I would like to see you again. That is how you should ask for a number. I know I know, you are interested only in her body, and cant get your eyes off her breasts, that look like they will wreck the bra, with their sheer power, but keep that for yourself, and even if you dont care about her personality, you must kill the excuses in your head that will try to sabotage you. And, you must make it seem like you are genuinely interested in her. However, one in a million, you will meet a beautiful girl, that has a special mind, and that you actually enjoy her talk. Those girls are so rare, that you should treasure them like a diamond. But now, lets get back to sometimes cruel reality. A hot chick wearing designer clothes in a nightclub. Some call her bar whore. Of course, shes not a whore, but has a bitchy image. Shes the best you could find that night. Lets see: youve approached a hottie, but she was too stupid for you. Then you approached a woman that seemed hot, but actually, she was flat as a board. And then, after a long search and seeing only ugly woman, you find a beautiful one and approach her, and start talking to her. You are already very skilled at the beginning of the convo, but now she has to go. Her friends are driving her, and you have to take the number. Now you are thinking: Well, shes hot, but very boring. But shes better than spending a night with my hand. So I will take her number. Remember that normal society zombies, that can only fantasize of approaching her, would die for her number, and she knows it, so when taking her number, dont do it as a routine. Do it like you really mean [sound cut off] Track 11 How many times has a woman lied to you? Countless, I guess. So dont make her internal society-induced mechanism block you, and say that you really admire her character. Say it in a convincing way. She already knows that everyone, and his father, want her cause of her looks. Its obvious you want her also, cause of her looks, but communicate to her, that she has intrigued you on a deeper level also. Now, that is going to catch her attention, cause it never happens, that she runs into a guy, that may care for her personality. And say it in a way that you really mean it: It was such a nice time talking to you. You seem like a very interesting girl. Give me your number. I would like to see you again. Lets suppose you are talking to the hottest and most desirable female youve seen in month. Those girls have seen it all, heard it all, and out of sheer boredom they like to play with guys. Also, they have a hard time finding a man that is their match, and their match is a man with an even stronger frame of mind than their own. They must find a man stronger than themselves, otherwise, their role as a

woman has not been fulfilled, and they will stay unhappy, and frustrated, the same as a man must find an attractive woman. Maybe the girl is not sure that you are good enough for her, so she will just say No no, I have a boyfriend. Now comes the crucial part of philosophy. You will just continue as before. I dont want you to continue as if nothing happened. That is wrong way of looking at the situation. Dont mask what happened. Excusers do that. They get red in face, their throat stiffens, they start feeling ashamed and blabber about the weather, like nothing happened. You must continue like it was just a small rock, on your road, and it aint stopping you. That is, how you must continue. Now your value in her eyes will rise gigantically, cause here stands a man that does not excuse for his desires. The girl will use the boyfriend excuse many time. Track 12 She may not even have a boyfriend. Shes just telling you that to save face, cause it would be a shame for such a hottie to be alone, or to test your strength, or to get rid of you, cause you messed it up somewhere. Or, she may like you, but doesnt want to be called a slut by her friends standing there. Whatever the reason, you must consider it as just a small rock on your road to her panties. Dont tell her that! And continue with the conversation. After five or ten minutes, ask again. When you go for the number, automatically take your cell phone out of your pocket, and give it to her, to type it in. That is a move, you must internalize. You must never let her choose, cause if you do that, you are a weak guy, wimp. So, when you ask for the number, take out your cell or whatever device you are carrying with you. If you wait for her approval, like you should if youre a decent society member that listens to mommy and daddy, the mere act of waiting for approval will lower your value in her eyes significantly, and she may refuse to type it in, just cause of that. You see, woman are mysterious, but thats how it goes. When you have the number, dont run away and call all your friends immediately. Remember, shes important, not the number. Stay with her. As much as it is natural to stay, dont make her think that you are such an excuser that you ran away at the moment you got the number. When youll be calling her, you may find out, that it is a fake number. Then you blew it seriously somewhere. Go listen to Attract and Date again carefully. Here you have everything you need to get her. If you are seriously determined, to be a real romantic hero, here is a way for you to get phone numbers. The girls love it. Instead of giving her a cell phone like everyone else, carry an invitation made for you for some important occasion. Of course, youve printed it out at your home, if you dont have real on, or a ski card, or any piece of paper that will demonstrate your lifestyle. Also carry a pen in the pocket. But dont have a bunch of those cards in the same place, so she doesnt see you made it all up, and when you ask for a number, take out your piece of paper, which is not an ordinary piece of paper, but it tells her something about you, and after the first sentence, continue with.: Well, I have only this paper in my pocket. I will tear it in half, and we can write each others phones. Then, shell have something that is yours, an actually physical representation of you in your handwriting. Track 13 Imagine her giggling and talking about you to her friends, and then showing the half of Himalaya Avalanche Rescue paper, with Ranko and his number written beside it. Imagine that. You are the team of the day, and she cant stop thinking about you. That is always good. She will get warmed up for meeting you by herself. Shell almost arouse

her by herself, and you will see it by her big smile and shiny eyes, when you meet her. You can always see when she was fantasizing about you all day. Of course, Ive never been to Himalaya, and would freeze there pretty fat, but, that is not important. What is important is your philosophy of having no excuse, and that you will take what you desire, and that you will not let your internal blockers stop you any more. When you meet a woman, the excuses will attack you on the moment of coming to her, while taking her number, and when going for a kiss. The excuses will try to sabotage you all the time, but their force is strongest at these three moments. You may decide to go for a kiss very fast after you met her. It can be minutes, or on the first or second date. If you wait for more than the second date, its almost hundred percent accurate sign that excuses have taken over, and the girl knows it. Excuses may block so much, that they strangle you in the throat, so your talk sounds funny and nervous, before the kiss. When a girl sees that, she will lose her desire fast. Also, if your mind finds reasons all the time, to postpone the kiss, if you hear voices in your head, telling you that later is better, that now everybody is watching, and that shes not ready, if you hear those voices all the time, you must defeat that society-imposed limitation. Shes standing there, beautiful, and her eyes are shining like two stars. Shes smiling at you, and waiting to see, are you an excuser or not? But you are blocked. If you are actually aware that you are blocked, it is a huge step away from being a society zombie. Track 14 There are many exercises that you could have practiced before meeting her, but if you were a bit lazy, the battle is not over yet. You can still pull it off. The real solution would be for you to practice all the exercises that you had to practice at home. But, have no fear. In our philosophy, there are ways for lazy men to get laid also. So after some talk you will sense that the time has come for a kiss. At this moment, you may be asking: How will I know when to go for a kiss? By doing the previous missions, and talking to woman, soon you will gain knowledge that will make it easy for you to judge, when the exact moment has come. You will touch her on shoulder, or anywhere else, and turn her towards you. Here is what your coach, likes to say to woman after a pleasant talk: Miss I think that weve been talking, for a bit, too long Wait a second so she gets warmed up for what is about to come, and then, kiss her. It is absolutely necessary that when you say the sentence, and look at her, you dont hide your desire like an excuser. She must know exactly what is about to happen. Even if you were under the influences of excuses before that, and managed to talk only about each others work, and brothers, and sisters, and dogs. Even if you had a dull conversation, this one sentence, done without any excuses, can make her fall for you, and into the bed you go. The excuse machine in our head is our biggest enemy. It has a rebound effect. What is that? If the society program is currently not active, it will let you do a smooth good approach, and the first few minutes you will do very well, then the program in your head installed from early age gets aware, that if you continue you will soon seduce a woman that is out of your league in the eyes of society that made you the way you are. So it will hit you much harder, and destroy you. When society program realizes that you are already talking to a girl, it knows that everything must be done in order to stop you from having sex with her. So it will start shutting down your brain, and give it less blood. In times of crisis, the crucial and absolutely necessary parts of your brain get the blood first, so the more advanced functions of your mind will stop, and youll be able to talk only about the most basic things and lead a boring conversation.

Track 15 So usually, talking with a woman is not a problem of choosing the right topic, or choosing the right story, cause you may know a perfect story, but it doesnt matter if your brain gets shut down. That is why you must focus the most of your efforts, not on learning a sequence of words that you will tell her, but on destroying excuses in your head. The mere act of saying Miss, I think that weve been talking for a bit too long, and going for the kiss, I repeat, going for the kiss after that is a huge excuse destroyer. Excuses may make you wait endlessly for certain signs that a woman is ready to be kissed, but guess what? You didnt kiss her, and you still stay an excuser, so leave the complicated signs to your excuser competition, and go for the kiss. Erase the excuses from your mind, and then think: Would now be the right moment for a kiss? If the answer is maybe, you go for a kiss. Excusers have obscure list of signals to check, is a woman ready or not for a kiss. They are just blocking themselves in their search for a perfect signal. What does that mean? A woman may move away if you still didnt satisfy her genetic response of searching for a strong enough man who will like her. She may move away, thats right, but what really happened when she moved away from the kiss? You gained value in her eyes, cause you showed that you are a strong who wants to take what he wants, and you showed that you want her. The more you show that you adore her, the more she will want you. If you have no excuses and phobias in your head, she may turn her head from you a few times, but will smile and point to the cheek. Then, just give her a kiss in the cheek, and continue the conversation. Often a girl will turn her head around when you go for a kiss, and still smile to you, an enjoy it. Track 16 Just stay talking to her. Dont let your internal self-destruct mechanism stop you now. Dont excuse for your desires. After some time, try to kiss her again. Even if she still didnt kiss you, can you see her joy cause she thinks Wow! Maybe this is my prince! I will see. In the club it will happen, that youll be talking to a girl, and shell smile and giggle, and you will know its time to kiss her, but you will see a girl you approached before looking at you, with her friends. You will see her friends from work drinking beer, clueless in the dark, and they will also stare at you. Now your mind will race to find all possible excuses, and if she is there with her friends, it will be a super excuse to postpone a kiss. To make the right decision, your mind must be free from excuses as best as possible. If she is very young, and with a huge company of guardians, her girlfriends waiting for you at the exit of the club, just go for a dance-floor kiss. It takes a lot of experience to tunnel through those guardians anyway. Then, dont do a mistake of making out with her like you have been twenty years in prison. It will just show how desperate you are. Hide your frustration, and make it obvious that you are very pleased with her, but not overwhelmed with joy that it finally happened. Then take her for a drink. Have a chit-chat with her friends, and so on. Dont take desperate. If you do, she will assume something is wrong with you, and will not answer the phone when you call her. Unlike men, a woman is heavily attracted to a man, that has had a lot of woman, and will want him. If an ugly man, walks into a bar, with a splendid, dazzling woman, all woman will automatically have an urge, a genetic urge, to try to take him away from his woman, and make him their man. Men see themselves trying to have sex with as many attractive woman as possible. Woman see themselves competing with other woman, for the affection of the best man around. From there comes womans huge

jealousy of each other, which we men do not understand. Track 17 A woman is like a store, she must attract the best man in the room to come to her. If another, more beautiful woman manages to do that, all other woman can do only one thing: hate her. If men are in a club, and one of them gets to drive off with a beautiful girl, other men do not hate him, they just say: One day, I will get an even better hottie! Cause men are the active sex. They approach. They go into action, and they know they can outrun other males, if they try hard enough. But a woman can not do that. In order for her to feel happy, she must be taken. Or make an illusion for herself that she has been taken. That is why you will seem only the most desperate, and that means unattractive, woman approach you openly. The better you get, the better able you will be to construct a destiny for the woman. If you are in a club, try taking the girl outside, and then kissing her for the very first time. It will be destiny. It is a bit difficult to do in the middle of winter in a cloudy city, but in the summer, when you can see the stars, just say that youve had enough of music, and want to go out for a walk, which is true. Then if you can, go somewhere with a beautiful sight, and then kiss her. So if you are good enough, just postpone the first kiss, until you get to a place which is more beautiful than a crowded, sweating nightclub. That way, youve just done yourself a huge favor. If you two kissed in the club, she will think like this: I just met him, and we kissed on the dance-floor. That is not destiny. Its what teenagers do. And when it was not destiny, there is a high chance of not answering the telephone. You dont believe it? Check it out for yourself. But if she thinks like this: I met the most interesting guy. We had a drink, danced, and then he kissed me underneath the stars. It must be meant to be. Hes Mr. Right. And underneath the starts can be an average parking lot. If you move yourself just a bit from the ordinary, boring life that shes used to, huge awards are awaiting you. That is why, you should never approach with: Hey honeys. Would you like a drink? They heard it a zillion times, and is it destiny? No way! Track 18 The big mistake average excusers do in a club is trying to make a girl horny while making out. The girl can be drunk, but, if shes young and beautiful, the ones we want, making her horny on the dance-floor will not help at all. If an excuser under alcoholic encouragement, manages to make out with a woman, he will start groping her while trying to make her horny. But beware: a woman is not a man, and the way to make her drag you to her bed is through her mind, and then through her body, and with men, its only our bodies. Of course, the less attractive the woman, the less she will settle with. A beauty, actually any woman, goes to clubs in desperate search for her prince, and after a hundred excusers approach her, she will get drunk, and make out with hundred and first excuser, the lucky one. The same way, men go out in search for a hottie, but when they dont succeed, they get drunk, and make out with a fattie. So dont think a guy that is make out with a hottie has some skill. He hasnt. A hottie is a human being, and likes to be touched and kissed also. But if only excusers approach her, what can she do? She must choose one of them. Dont let that happen. If a hottie you know is with the most sleazy, annoying guy, dont be mad at him, be mad at yourself for not doing anything. If you dont do anything at all, you deserve to see the woman you want, with a dumb-ass. You deserve that. Whats your excuse? Now go change that immediately. Dont excuse

to me. Im not listening to any excuses. When take a woman out on a date, you must stand out of the crowd, and avoid the mistakes of excusers. If an excuser, proposes a date, hell block himself from the beginning. They even block themselves on the sentence of asking a woman out, like this: Would you like to go out for a drink? You know, just like friends. What the Hell is that? Now the woman senses, that the guy must have very low-quality genes, and she wont like it. She doesnt want kids that will be afraid as he is. It is a womans unconscious response, the same as a man doesnt look at ugly woman. Shes waiting for her prince. Shes not waiting for a man whos afraid of expressing his interest. What kind of a man is that? Track 19 If she mates with him, the children will be full of phobias also, so in order to succeed with woman, and to be attractive to them, all negative society-imposed limitations you must kick out from your mind. Dont be afraid to buy a womans flowers. Defeat the society. Go to the florist, and ask for the most beautiful roses. Then immediately throw away the paper, and walk proud with your bunch of roses. Can you feel the society pressure trying to make you fail? Can you see the looks of excuser society zombies? When you walk to the date, feel free to check out beautiful woman, or even approach them. The time is now to throw away all those blockers in your mind. Dont buy flowers on the first date, or you can if you want to, but buy them from time to time. Buying the flowers is also an excellent exercise for overcoming the society pressure in your mind, especially if you happen to meet somebody you know. And dont forget to walk proud with the flowers. Dont waste your time on hiding them like an excuser. If shes attractive, shes already been on a million coffee dates, and talked about the same stuff over and over again. Since shes coming to a date with you, she obviously isnt satisfied with her life, and is hoping that you will give her what shes lusting for. I will now describe you a date I had yesterday. What you must do is understand the philosophy. Once when you start understanding the philosophy, youll make a date that best suits you. You dont have to copy exactly what I did on the date, but you must understand the philosophy of having no excuses, and taking what you want. So I send the message to the girl I met last weekend in a club: Lets go out tomorrow, 4 PM, bring sneakers and sport clothes. Is it ok? Now shes shocked, cause it never happens to her, to get a straightforward when you think of it, normal invitation, and in the middle of the day. Guys spend hours, thinking what will they type in their cell phones, and then they beat around the bush, with sentences like: How are you? How was your day? You know, I was today at work, and, uh bla bla bla, bla bla bla. Remember, coffee shops in the evening are an attractive womans playground. She knows it like her home. She controls the game. Now Im taking her to whatever playground I choose. Track 20 She says Ok. Shes puzzled and comes to a date, and here comes your coach, with a real Australian boomerang. I come in sneakers and in sport clothes. Imagine the best girl in club, on the date. She has a French manicure, and high heels, and super-trendy clothes like she came out from the fashion show on your TV. Shes used to guys trying to show off with fake designer clothes, and I dont even try to impress her with my wealth. It is a total frame-reversal. Guess what? Your reality is the reality where you live. You dont live in her reality, and you do whatever you want to do. So to make a long story short, the important part of the date is when I told her: You know this

boomerang? I just got it today as a present. I have no clue how to throw it, but I will try. You know what? If it comes back, then we are meant to be together. So when we came to the meadow in the park, near big forest, I throw it, and it ends up on the ground, at our feet, and shes so dazzled. Its the most interesting date shes ever had. Im giving you just an outline, so you catch the philosophy, on purpose. I dont want to give details, cause the details are not so important, but the philosophy is. Did I mention that in reality Im an expert boomerang thrower? But she doesnt know that! Now, do not rush to buy boomerang at this very moment. I did it yesterday, cause Im an expert thrower, and cause I wanted to get some fresh air and sun. Tomorrow, I will have some other desire, and then I will change my date plan. What is important? That you dont get sucked into the society dating frame, which limits you heavily. Society dating frame is basically about spending money on a woman, and when you spend enough money, you get what you want. That is ok if you want a girl that likes your money, and not you, and if you have money to burn. Also, men are forced to impress the woman. They do the impressing, and woman do the choosing. Track 21 If you impress her enough, you will get her. That is how society functions, and men do everything they can to excel in sports, business, entertainment industry. Some of them are getting ready to fly to Mars, I hear. Let me ask you something: would a man, that has power to choose beautiful woman, fly to Mars, frozen in a refrigerator? No no. They will not be frozen, but theyll be living in a can, and drink their own urine. Would a man, that can get woman, sacrifice himself like that? That is just an extreme example, but everybody is infected with that society virus, and we must fight to get it out of our minds, to make ourselves free from the chains they put on us. The society installs a big feeling of inadequacy, and worthlessness, and a low self-esteem in people. It does that to everybody, and children cannot escape. That way it gets obedient workers that will pay the mortgage, move the society forward, and make their boss rich. So it will have an advantage in the clash with some other society. The low self-esteem of its members is required for the overall supremacy over somebody else. You must fight against that, and then you will succeed with woman, and with any other issue you may have in life. On the date, you will have to tell her, what she wants to hear. You will tell her what she lusts to her. For men, it is extremely difficult to figure out what woman want to hear, cause men are men, so whole life, they may try to figure it out unsuccessfully. For men, woman are like a black box that they know nothing about, and it has an unpredictable reaction. This is how you will overcome that, and become the man of her dreams. Listen to me now very carefully: do you have a typical mens magazine? Any magazine will do. Take a look. What are the two main parts of the magazine? Think. Think some more. The two main parts, what are they? The first part is pictures of hot, horny naked woman. What does it represent? It represents what men want, what men live for. It represents the main purpose of everything they do. Now take a look and tell me, what is the second main part of the magazine? So the first part is what men want. The second part is society instructions to get what you want. Muscles, cars, watches, yacht, lifestyle. It tells you, what you have to do to get the first part. Sometimes it literally tells you, but the unconscious message is much more powerful. The magazine is just a reflection of society, but it is much easier to notice the pattern when seen on paper. So, take a look, notice society program. The magazine is just a reflection of the society that reads it, so by reading it you can get a very accurate picture of how men live.

Track 22 If you have item X, you will have the lady, even though you are still an excuser in your heart. If an alien suddenly landed from outer space, and you gave him a mens magazine, he would not understand. Why? Cause the society program is coded. When they show you a dazzling blonde beauty, they dont say: Here you are, masturbator! You will never have a girl like this, so enjoy! They dont say that. They say: We took a photo of her while she enjoying a nude walk on a beautiful sunset beach. But any man has no problem understanding through this code, cause hes a man, but remember, an alien would have big trouble. Now, take a look at any womans magazine. You feel like an alien, and you are lost in all that mumbo-jumbo, and you dont understand a thing. Now, take a look at your mens magazine. What will you do with it? You will use it as your Attract and Date code breaker. You will reflect the knowledge you have about the mens magazine into a womans magazine, and then youll be able to understand the womans magazine, which is a blueprint of how their minds function, and knowing that, youll be a very rare man, the most special she ever met. Now, dont try to understand a womans magazine, without having a mens magazine as your code breaker. Remember an alien reading a mens magazine. He would really think that the photographer just likes to take pictures of naked woman on sunset. He would never guess the real purpose. An alien would never understand that the naked woman in the magazine is there as a substitute for what is missing in a mans life. Use your mens magazine as a code breaker, and go check out the womans magazine. What two main parts do you see? Think about it. So tell me, what is a womans sports car, or muscles? What is a womans adventurous lifestyle? Its her beauty. A womans beauty is a means for her to get what she desires, so one part of a womans magazine gives beauty tips. How to lose weight, which skirt to wear, how to get longer eyelashes. That was easy to notice. Now comes the hard part. Tell me, what do woman really want? Where is the part in a womans magazine, that is a substitute for not having a man that they desire in their lives? Track 23 If you look at the mens magazine you will see a hot, horny girl. Now make a reflection, and what will you see in a womans magazine? What is the part all woman will read, no matter what? But remember, it is difficult to see, cause it will never say: Here you are, loser female. You will never have a man that will tell you this! So heres the substitute. Are you thinking? I will help you out. Its the stories and the horoscopes, that tell a woman about herself. All woman are missing a man, that cares for them so much, that he notices such things. They are all missing it, and that is why they read the magazines and their romantic novels. Check it out, but be sure to use your mens magazine as a guide, in order not to get lost in this still alien world. By studying a womans magazine with this new light that is shining on the otherwise totally dark tunnel, you will know exactly what to tell her when you want her to feel a special woman. The girls are dying for it, the same as men are dying for a hottie to come naked to them. Dont try to study womans magazine without this code breaker. It is impossible to understand. One thing is understanding it, the second thing is telling it to her in a convincing way, and you will have no problem doing it after all those excuse-busting exercises. Now you are totally flying above your competition. Enjoy! Thank you for purchasing this one-of-a-kind course. More CDs are available to give you the power previously undreamt of, both in

relationships and other challenges life may throw at you. When you finish learning theory of how to ride a bike, you must get on the bike and ride it. Workshop is the best place to do that. We make sure our instructors are the best in the world, and can handle anything. Robert Torrey, Cameron Teone, Seth Parker and me are founders of a company Fidentia. That is Latin for boldness, confidence. Each one of us overcame the particular difficulties surrounding him, to be able to achieve success with woman. Chief Attract and Date instructor is Robert Torrey, running workshops across the U.S.A., a superb devoted instructor, he has changed many lives for the better. Also, Cameron, Seth and others are highly trained instructors. Robert manages to be on the guest list of some of the most popular nightclubs, even though, he is far from being a celebrity. He understands the nightclub social dynamics, and how to make friends with club manager and bouncers. If you have trouble getting into nightclubs, check out Roberts book Nightclub VIP, where he describes how an average man can get into all nightclubs, enter the social circles, and get invited to the best parties, without burning money. Cameron Teone has spent years interacting with thousands of woman in bars, clubs and different places. He can meet and charm a woman in just about any place. Furthermore, he has spent time going out to nightspots with other men who were exceptional seducers. Cameron discovered that every man who is successful with woman has certain, very similar, characteristics. All men, who attract woman, share some of those traits, regardless of where they live, how old they are, and what their culture background is. He discusses these traits, in a dating book, The Attributes, with exercises and straight advice about proper body language, tonality, storytelling, belief system, and conversational skills. The Attributes is written in a very clear instructional manner, which makes it easy to follow, and even easier to read again to review specific points. Why I recommend The Attributes in a jungle of dating books being out there, is cause Cameron is a normal guy, just like you and me, and he proves his book charming beauties just about every weekend on a workshop. Cause of that, his book is crystal clear, and easy to follow. Now, that is why I recommend The Attributes to each listener of Attract and Date. Enjoy! We take you out, and show you exactly what you are doing right, and what you are doing wrong, and if you think you are a hard case, have no fear, cause we seen it all, and nobody left the workshop totally unchanged. Your coach Robert Torrey and me make sure every instructor is trained in detail, and is up to any challenge. There are certified instructors across the world, and you are entitled to workshop discount. That is our way of motivating you, cause you choose to change, and erase the excuses. Track 24 It has been an honor helping you out on your journey, and now it is time to fly above the race. The Attract and Date team of Fidentia wishes you a life full of happiness, with a magnificent woman, the woman you deserve. For the final word of Attract and Date, lets look at our ancestor monkeys in the zoo. They are put in the zoo, and bars are around them. Can they really understand that they have been put there in custody? The bars limit their movement. Inside the bars they get a fixed number of bananas, and if they are lucky, an average female monkey to mate with. And so they live until death. People cannot be limited by steel bars. We would just destroy any physical barrier in our way. Humans cannot be forced by physical force without them rebelling, and planning how to destroy their oppressor, and find freedom, real freedom. But only some of us can see, and it takes huge courage and wisdom to see, that the bars are in our minds.