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A workshop toolbox for tackling dominant masculinity, sexism and heteronormativity with young people.
Introduction
'As far as I'm concerned, being any gender is a drag.' Patti Smith
Working with young people, especially those who are in the process of traversing the gap between 'child' and 'adult', often means encountering a multitude of disruptive and damaging ideas of gender, femininity and masculinity. Behaviour which can be homophobic, violent, competitive, sexist or otherwise nasty is too often shrugged off with a phrase like 'boys will be boys', or at worse, actively encouraged as an embodiment of what being 'manly' means. As peers, educators and youth workers it can be difficult to counteract this extremely pervasive and dominating view. Tackling issues surrounding gender and sexuality often becomes a taboo, something marginalised in favour of more 'pressing' issues, or is left unnoticed. This small pack is a starting point aimed at stopping that. Young people regularly seem extremely concerned with amplifying and assuming particular roles based around gender, I know I was, but this is because they are at a key moment in equating themselves with the (resoundingly problematic) cultural norms of our time. It is our responsibility to show that another world is possible, one where patriarchy and sexism are not force fed to children from birth, where capitalism is not allowed to thrive on the oppressive structures of homophobic and genderprescribing hierarchies which it then regenerates, where boys 'being boys' is never an excuse for behaviour none of us would wish to see. These workshops were originally formulated as part of a creative working group at Queer Easter 2011, a seminar held by the IFM at Jugendbildungsttte Kurt Lwenstein, Berlin, with over 100 young people from around the world. They are intended not as one coherent session, but as a starting point and a springboard from which you can plan and organise workshops that would fit with your groups and your young people. We hope to collate such ideas for a more general resource as time passes, please send new activities, feedback and resources of your own in to us!
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Some Definitions
An opening exercise.
What does Age 13-21 years Masculinity Duration 20 minutes Group size 5-30 mean Objectives To come up with some initial ideas and to you? debate about the concept of 'masculinity'.
To challenge gendered stereotypes Materials Paper and pens Breakdown: Each participant writes silently on a piece of paper. The notes are then folded, collected and randomly redistributed - so that each participant has a new note to read aloud around the circle. Discuss recurring words, ideas and themes - negative or positive? neither? How do these relate to femininity? Focus on physicality and bodies? Or on skills and roles? Other?
1. Draw two stick people on two large bits of paper and label one man and one woman. 2. Get them to fill it in with all the things, stereotypes included, that they associate with masculinity and femininity. 3. How do the different qualities compare in terms of positive and negative values? How do you think these expectations affect what men and women do in life? How do you think they affect how we interact with each other? Or our relationships?
A closing activity
'Boys wont be boys', or; You dont need Gender to be nice, You shouldnt use Gender to be nasty.
1. Either by looking back at the 'Dummies' from the previous activity, or simply through a discussion, talk about what character traits the participants feel are valuable, or make up the kind of human being they would want to be. 2. Write these into a new, non-gendered dummy. 3.Discuss: Do these character traits, these concepts, seem like the kinds of things that should be attached or limited to either 'male' or 'female'? How do we make sure that we dont allow gender stereotypes to dictate our lives? How do we all strive to work towards these positive principles in a way that is not defined or limited by our gender or sexuality?
Further resources
1.Two great workshop in the Compasito, more to follow! 'Once upon a time' http://eycb.coe.int/compasito/chapter_4/4_19.asp 'Boys Dont Cry' http://eycb.coe.int/compasito/chapter_4/4_7.asp 2. Gender Matters http://www.eycb.coe.int/gendermatters/chapter_2/1.html 3. Sheryl Plant 'Deconstructing Masculinity' http://www.thefword.org.uk/features/2006/02/deconstructing_masculinity 4. Queer Easter http://www.queereaster.net/ http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=9560766508 The text was edited by Joel White with the help of the wonderful Martha Julings. Clipart from http://etc.usf.edu/clipart/