SS Dodging The F Bomb

Dodging The "F" Bomb!
The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out

Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It
In The First Place!
NEW Special Report

From the desk of
Ross Jeffries
The “Guru of
Getting Some”
www.seduction.com
For the smart guy who refuses to resort to bullying, begging,

buying, bs or booze, in his pursuit of happiness.
Copyright © 1988-2010, Ross Jeffries. All Rights Reserved.

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who are looking to avoid from "real-hate-shun-ships by default" and instead claim the
happiness that they deserve.
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
WHAT DOES IT REALLY MEAN WHEN SHE DROPS THE “F” BOMB? 1
WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER BE "NICE" TO WOMEN! 4
WHY SHE DOESN'T APPRECIATE YOUR "KINDNESS" 9
WHY YOU SHOULD KISS HER IN THE FIRST 20 MINUTES OF TALKING WITH
HER! 12
THE GIRL HE WANTED FOR SEVEN YEARS! 16
HOW TO TURN THAT "FRIEND" INTO YOUR DEVOTED LOVER! 20
HOW HE NAILED THAT GIRL WHO SAID, "LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS" 25
HOW I CAN HELP YOU, STARTING RIGHT NOW! 29

What Does It REALLY Mean When She
Drops The “F” Bomb?
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
There’s one word I REALLY hate. The “F” word.
No, I don’t mean “flirting,” “f@@%ing,” or

“Facebook.” I teach smart guys like you how to
do the first effectively so you can experience more
of the second with women you meet in all walks of
life as well as online on places like the third
(Facebook).
The “F” word I can’t stand is “friends” – as in,

when a guy Sarges on a chick and his game gets
shot down when she says “Let’s just be friends.”
Man, it hurts my ears! In fact, learning how to

effectively dodge and encounter this “F-bomb” is
one of the most timeless challenges faced by my
students. Case in point:
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Ross, what can I do to overcome resistance from a girl who says she just wants
to be friends?
Things between me and her started out pretty fast, but it’s almost like she’s a bit
scared now and is saying she just wants to be my friend. I mentioned that I didn’t
want to play or abuse her mind and that I was looking for a truer relationship
involving more than either “just sex” or “just hanging out.” I told her that maybe I
didn’t want to be just her “friend” that way.
She said, then I would be like just another one of those assholes who never
“understood” or “respected” her. So I said, “maybe we should discuss things.”
She came over to talk. I tried many patterns on her, including touching and
kissing. She said she loves to be with me as I’m fun and I allow her to just “be
herself.” But man, it’s tough to get the “follow through” (beyond just being
“friends”) when she shows resistance.

The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You
Avoid It In The First Place!
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I, of course, will move on from her, but I’m looking for some strategies for
overcoming when the woman says “I just want to be friends.” Any good
suggestions? I’m up for them.
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Many times I have taught and said: Never take her first response as written in
stone. It’s just a reflection of how and what she is thinking, feeling and believing
IN THAT MOMENT and it is always subject to change.
There are all sorts of REAL meanings to: “I just want to be friends.”
The worst case (which doesn’t seem like your situation, if you were touching and
kissing her and didn’t get slapped) is that she isn’t attracted, fascinated or
aroused by you … and just feels some comfort (you help her “be herself”). If this
is the case, though, you are in trouble.
However, sometimes the “F” word means, “I feel deep feelings; if I have sex with
you, my vulnerability will REALLY come out and you might be a person who will
use that to crush me.” In other words, she has both desire (for you, for sex, for
intimate contact) AND she also has fear. Could be she’s had some bad
experiences and is looking at you through the lens of those bad experiences.
I encounter the same kind of resistance you are talking about. Yes, I, Ross
Jeffries, get the “F” bomb dropped on me! When this happens I hold my
ground and make no apologies. This might sound like BS, but staying
powerfully congruent will get you far.

You are already powerful, and from what I can tell you have a great heart and
are willing to learn whatever you can about a woman to help the two of you
experience happiness together.
I hereby proclaim that you are LIGHT YEARS AHEAD of the clueless AFCs
and Joe Schmucks out there who refuse to claim their power, results, and
success with women.
Remember, the power is in you. And as you work your way past the woman’s
resistance, say to yourself inside:
My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.
Peace and piece,
Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction
P.S. Forget about ever again being confused by a woman’s

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until now deeply frustrating and seemingly irrational actions.
With what I teach you throughout my Speed Seduction®

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Why You Should Never Be "Nice" To Women!
Before we get into the mechanics of avoiding the

bear-trap of being told "let's be friends" I need
to introduce a Speed Seduction® principle that will
influence this entire topic.
Plain and simple: the reason why so many guys end

up in the "friend" trap is because they're too worried
about being a "nice guy." A "nice guy" is someone
anyone - including a succulent, gorgeous hottie -
wants as a friend. But you don't want to be her
friend. You want to be her LOVER.
Many years ago, when I was first making my TV talk

show rounds, someone asked me, "What do
women want?"
I said something that nearly caused a riot in the

studio audience.
"Only an idiot would care what a woman WANTS."
I paused dramatically to deliver the rest of it over the shouting that erupted.
"... A smart guy only cares about what a woman RESPONDS TO!"
You know, I wasn't kidding about that. I meant it then and I mean it to this day.
Remember:
• There is what women SAY they want.
• There is what women THINK they want.
• Then there is what women ACTUALLY RESPOND TO!
Only that last one counts.
Now, in that regard, one of the more frequent questions I get is, "Does Speed
Seduction® require me to be "nice" to women? Your patterns sound a lot like old-
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fashioned romantic "sweet talk" and I don't want to be pegged as a sweet, "nice"
romantic guy."
Let me say this right now: I have NEVER said you should be "nice" to women.
In fact, most "nice" guys are boring as bat-shit, self-pitying whiners who are too
out of touch with reality to see that what they are doing just doesn't work.
And rather than change, they blame the women.
So let me draw an important distinction here:
There is "nice" which women do NOT favorably respond to.
And then there is "pleasant" which the sane, self-respecting women LOVE.
(I won't get into the women who want to be hurt, abused or punished. I do not
personally use nor will I teach how to use the language of abuse. You can go to
my competitors to learn that. That's not what I teach here.)
A "nice" man only knows how to be agreeable. He doesn't know how to

challenge women and he can't or won't set the lead. And he filters everything
he says through the belief that women are fragile little flowers who need to
handled with OH so much care lest they be broken. YUUCH.
One more thing: women don't trust his communication because he just won't
dare say anything that might offend them.

Now a pleasant man is something quite different.
Pleasant is power, held in proper restraint and exercised with precision and
elegance. A pleasant man will speak his mind, set the lead, but he also knows
how to listen and show the proper degree of interest and respect.
He may put himself first, but he also

genuinely cares for and cares about his
woman (or women). They are of great
importance to him as long as they treat him
right and work within the rules that he
has made very clear.
Most important: his world is his own. He

never, NEVER makes the WOMAN his
world, around which he orbits. He does
allow her to come into his world and
occasionally even be at the center WITH
him.
When you get these distinctions you will

move into a powerful life with women.
You will never be "nice" again.
But you will also never have to bully, beg or

buy.
But now I'm sure, you're asking...
... What Does Being "Pleasant" Instead of "Nice"

Have To Do With Avoiding The "F" Bomb???
As we work through the rest of this e-book, I'm going to give you all of the
practical knowledge you need to avoid the "friend" trap and be the intriguing,
interesting, fascinating male she tells all her "guy friends" about... while they wish
THEY were banging her... and they wish they were you.
I'm going to show you:

• Why, if you ARE trying to be "nice" to her, she just doesn't appreciate
your kindness - so you shouldn't even bother
• Why you should kiss a woman within the first 20 minutes of talking with
her - because this sets aside any notion that you just want to be friends
• The story of my student who wanted a "female friend" of his for seven
years... and how he used my teachings to get her to dump her
"borefriend" and come over to him!
• The foolproof, play-by-play pattern that turns that female "friend" into
your devoted lover, effortlessly and seamlessly
• How my student nailed the girl who tried to drop the "F-bomb" on him by
saying oh-so-sweetly, "Let's Just Be Friends"
Ready to get started? Not a moment to wait... let's do this thing, buddy!
Peace and piece,
Ross Jeffries
(next page, please...)

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• How to use this principle beyond the initial walk-up to
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• Three new and different ways to use this in the
initial walkup to open and access the most
hyper-erotically responsive aspects of her
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• How to use this when you get physical to create
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• How to use this to precisely vary any attention you give her to make
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• And a hell of a lot more insights and practical applications of this
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Why She Doesn't Appreciate Your "Kindness"
Recently, I got into a big argument /

debate on whether you can ever be
"kind" or "nice" to women.
Since this is a major sore spot for

most men, I thought I'd share the
discussion.
The following was posted by Mr. X

who is a professional soldier who
has traveled the world and Sarged
on more women than most men will
ever meet... and a long time Speed
Seduction® student.
Mr. X had this to say:
I can say from personal experience that women

of Russian origin are similar to Asian women in
that they view niceness and acts of kindness as
indicators of strength, whereas American women
view niceness and acts kindness as indicators
of weakness.
Here is MY answer:
Uh uh uh...depends Depends. Depends.
If it reeks of need or pressure, they don't want it.
If it's freely given or given from a place of abundance AND you have
established authority and respect, it's usually a-ok.
Most unappreciated "kindness" is unappreciated because:
1. You didn't establish respect/authority or get any investment from her in

the interaction/transaction BEFORE the kindness.

2. She's a twist and just doesn't trust any kindness. Ok. They are out there.
Best to run away or play the villain only a VERY short while.
But be aware, please: if you stare into the abyss to get your cues and
clues on how to respond and behave, the abyss also stares long and hard
into you. And what it gazes at it molds and shapes. So don't look long.
3. It wasn't really kindness but "need" or pressure.
4. She's a super-twist and not only doesn't trust kindness, she WANTS to be
punished. Run, RUN, R-U-N away.
5. She doesn't like the psychological pressure of having to live up to the ideal
you think of her as; putting her on a pedestal gives her cramps, a nose
bleed and a nasty migraine, so she kicks you in the face as she steps off
to be human.
6. You are giving her the kindness you THINK she wants or that YOU
enjoy giving and not what the kindness she really needs. If she craves
physical affection and you buy her gifts, it isn't her fault that you aren't
paying attention.
Given the right context and a reasonably ok psyche (and it isn't that rare) most
women will soak up appropriate, NON NEEDY, NON PUSHY kindness.
Some are twists. Some just crave excitement and drama and dominance more
than the cuddlies, wuddlies and warm fuzzies. The most confusing ones crave
one over the other depending on their mood of the day or time of the month.
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Bottom line:
1. Screen your women as you Sarge on them.
2. Establish boundaries, self-respect/authority in her world.
3. Those who require punishment, or who never trust kindness, need to be

left behind. After some experiences (some painful ones probably)you will
develop the intuition to quickly tell who's who in this regard
4. Get a good initial read, if you can, on whether they more strongly prefer
excitement, drama and being dominated to being cared for and looked
after, or in what proportion they want each. I prefer a woman who is a
good mix of both; if she doesn't like excitement, she's probably a lousy
f@@k. If she can't take kindness, then I can't open my heart to her and
the sex becomes nothing more than an energy dump; fun, but numbing
and draining.
Hint: Learn to read the chakra at the hara or t'an t'ien. which relates to power
and will issues and you will get an idea of where they are at. And EXPECT the
unexpected because with women, it IS going to happen.
OK, now that we have that established, let's move on fellas. In our next
segment, I will give you a critical, must-do and easy-to-do-by-you technique that
gets her finger off the "FIRE" button for her "F-bomb" and puts you on the
path to a long, exciting ride on the carnal carousel.
Peace and piece,
Ross Jeffries
P.S. The door to success and power with women, without

begging, buying or bullying is right here, one click away:
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Why You Should Kiss Her In The First 20 Minutes
Of Talking With Her!
My new rule for women is: I don't go out with a

woman (even for coffee) until AFTER I have
kissed her.
Listen: the last 2 days, I've met and picked up

women and wound up kissing them within the
first 20 minutes of meeting them.
No, I'm not kidding.
How as I able to do this?
You know, I'm not totally sure myself, except this:

when I sensed or "felt" down the center line of my
body that they were ready to be kissed, I
INSTANTLY obeyed my instinct and without
hesitation, did so.
Now, I'm not talking about a passionate, locked

tongue to tongue, tonsil-hockey session.
But once I sensed sufficient comfort and INTRIGUE on her part, I just leaned in
and kissed her.
Here is the larger point: a huge part of success with women is to do things that
feel right TO YOU, outside of the traditional time tables and frame works.
If you are being strong, open, courageous, and grounded with women, and a
bit playful and funny too, you'd be surprised at the comfort and emotional
openness this creates. And once that is there, all sorts of things can become
possible.
Here is one thing I would urge you to do: everyday, stretch yourself just a little
bit further than what you are used to doing.
Learn to follow your instinctive "go for it" voice instead of your second
guessing and your fear.
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For example, if you see a super-hot woman sunning herself in a bikini (hey, I
live in So Cal and can be VERY sunny and hot in the winter!), why not test
yourself? Just walk up and say, "Hi, I wanted to see what happened if I just
walked up and started talking and how you would respond. I've only got 3
1/2 minutes…..I'm Butchnik (or whatever name you want to make up)"
Then just stand there, breath deep into your belly, feel your feet on the ground
and watch what she does.
Start pushing yourself to stay present and stretch. Pretty soon the habit will
become addictive and you will be off to the races.
This sense of life as an adventure to be lived-being willing to go out on a limb is

VERY attractive. See if you can get to the point where you really, honestly
don't care how she responds, one way or the other.
So when you are talking to a woman for about 30 minutes and you sense her
interest, intrigue and comfort, just lean in and kiss her. Don't make any
comment about it before or afterward. Just do it.
... So What Does Kissing Her Have To Do

With Avoiding The "Friend" Trap?
It's pretty elementary. A "friend" would be asking her how her day went, what her
interests are, what movies she likes, and what her favorite sports team is.
A master of Speed Seduction® creates excitement.
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He takes risks.
He approaches life as an adventure, not as a process.
He "goes for it" and powerfully claims his success with women.
He lives by this mantra:
My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.
Peace and piece,
Ross Jeffries
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risks, approaching life as an adventure, "going for it," and powerfully
claiming your success with women:
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day of the way
I used to be!"
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The Girl He Wanted For Seven Years!
People get involved with Speed Seduction® for a variety of reasons.
Many times, a guy has just gotten divorced

or otherwise just gotten out of a long term
"real-hate-shun-ship" and is looking to get
back in the game.
Often, a guy who has done "ok" with

women really sees his time to be single
running out and wants to get really good
at it and enjoy variety, selection and
choice.
And then we get guys who have always

wanted ONE special girl, and use Speed
Seduction® to get that job done.
Personally, I don't recommend the "help me

get this one girl" routine.
I have found that putting too much

importance on any one person can take
away from mastery of the skills and it is
the skills that really count.
However, not everyone agrees with me and it is not up to me to decide how a

student uses the material, as long as he uses it with success and does no
harm.
Now, here is an email from a student who is also a member of the Speed
Seduction® Coaching Program. He, along with a lot of other guys like you,
participates in our online forum, participates in our twice-monthly Ask Me
Anything Calls, and gets first-peek access to five brand-spanking-new video girl-
getting lessons each month. (For your exclusive trial membership - just $1 for
the first 30 days - sign up now at http://www.RJcoaching.com)
Anyway, this student got the woman he had been after for seven years
(WOW..now, that to me is NUTS, but God bless him) and along the way, got
some other women too!
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Dear Ross,
I just wanted to send you an email to update you on

the success of you Speed Seduction® Techniques over
the last few weeks. Before I start I will tell you
that the content of this email is 100% truthful. I
say this because it seems hard to believe even writing
it.
Now, to be honest, the only reason I purchased the

deluxe package was because there was a girl I had
wanted for literally eleven years! Yes, now that's a
long time to like someone and them not show the
slightest bit of interest in you! Besides this girl
(who has been a friend of mine for a long time) had
been in a long term relationship with her boyfriend
for years.
I did what we discussed in our phone call during our

"office hours" and decided to put it into action. My
first attempt was in a bar, a cute slim brunette with
an amazing body.
The first time I did I was so nervous I felt like a

complete dork running the "blammo" pattern on her.
What I noticed was that as I did it she just went

silent and I was thinking, this is how Ross said a
girl would go on these patterns so I carried on. By
the end of the pattern I started talking about how
some guys are so crude and how one person I knew
walked up to a girl and said 'I want to spend the
whole night between your legs, giving you the most
deep incredible pleasure".
By this time it was clear she was turned on and her

breathing was going haywire. To cut a long story
short I ran some more of this and I had her in bed
within one hour and she was wild. I have never
experienced anything like that.
Now, this was unbelievable to me - I could never in a

million years have guessed that this could have
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happened and it made me feel invincible. The
following Saturday night I went out and did 10
approaches and I did it with the idea that no matter
what happens I will make this woman feel good about
herself.
I didn't get one negative response. Ross, that night

I felt like a celebrity - I made women feel good, and
they flocked around. I got 4 telephone numbers.
Now this may sound good but wait for this. I spotted
this amazing girl with incredible breasts and a
beautiful body and after an initial approach using
(you have the most incredible hair!)
I ran the instant connection pattern and then the

"blammo" pattern. She was all over me and I got her
number.
Over the last 2 weeks I have used a combination of

patterns on the girl of my life - the girl I talked
about in the first paragraph. Within 2 weeks, this
girl has left her boyfriend and is texting me everyday
asking me when I am going to make love to her. She
responded to the patterns better than anybody.
Your teaching has changed my life and I will never be

the same again. The work that you do changes lives -
but then you know that already.
Wow, What can I say. Congrats on your success right out of the box!
Now, note the key here. He turned this "friend" into a woman who wants him to
f@@k him silly by making her feel WONDERFUL.
He didn't have to bully.
He certainly didn't have to beg or buy his way in.
When you capture and lead a woman's imagination and emotions YOU are
truly the one in charge.
And that is the way it really should be.
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In the next section, I will show the "exactly-how-to" that, when you follow it, turns
that "friend" into your devoted lover.
Get ready for this!
Peace and piece,
Ross Jeffries
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How To Turn That "Friend" Into Your
Devoted Lover!
My girl-getting teaching goes around the world

and reaches guys from every walk of life, from
every kind of culture, in every age range. You'd
think guys have different problems with women.
But when it comes to women, I've learned, we are

pretty much the same.
We all face pretty much the same challenges.
We are all pretty much trying to figure out the

same puzzles.
And one of those puzzles is: "How Do I Turn My

'Friend' Into My Devoted Lover?"
Now, here is a question I have seen many times.
I'll let the student speak in his own voice:
Hi Ross: My name is XXX. I think your material is

absolutely fantastic and it has thought me so many
little things in which you should never, ever do with
women! And for that I thank you most grateful. I don't
know where you learned all of this but it really is
great.
I have a problem though. I am completely falling for

one of my friends. I feel a very strong sexual
attraction towards her, perhaps stronger than I have
ever felt before. I have never been closer to a girl.
We talk for hours, we are very physically close when
we are with each other but I think she may be afraid
of abandoning friendship. This is a serious gripe in
my side.
Is there anything I could do effectively to bring out

her true feelings and desires without blatantly asking
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her? I suppose I want to know how do you tell when a
girl gets close to you whether she is a friend or
something more.
Ok, Mr. X.
The first thing to realize is, even if this girl is totally attracted to you, to the point
where she is having nightly fantasies about you and her doing the nasty
"grown-up" thang, there is just about zero chance that she is going to make
the first physical move.
Sorry, but that just isn't the way it works.
I really wish it weren't the case that we guys almost always have to go first.
But that is how it works.
So if you were hoping for her to make a move, or tell you herself, it's unlikely to
happen.
Now, even if she is afraid of "losing the friendship" that doesn't mean you have to
let her fears dictate where you or her are going to go.
As I have said before, one of the key aspects of being a leader with women, is
to see where they are at, without having to go there for yourself.
That is, you can understand her emotions, without having to take them on for
yourself.
Her fear is just that; H-E-R-S.
Stand your ground, and set the lead.
Does that make sense?
Now, having said that, there are some things you can do to accelerate this
sexually and see just where you really stand.
First of all, let me tell you what I do NOT recommend.
I do NOT recommend suddenly grabbing and kissing her.
Why?
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It's too rough a jump.
To go from zero contact to erotic contact (like kissing) is just too abrupt.
So I would recommend you do some testing of her physical boundaries first.
Now, it just so happens, women have 3

"erotic hot spots" that seem like totally
innocent places to touch.
These are:
1. The back of the neck

2. The small of the back
3. The palm (and thumb)
(By the way, to see free video clips of me

demonstrating the first two spots on a very
hot female subject, just go to:
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Anyway, here is what you can do:
1) When you are talking to her, get up to go

to the bathroom, but as you do, reach out,
and with the palm of your hand, gently rub
the back of her neck (as I illustrate on the
free video on the website).
Notice her response. If she inhales sharply, moans with pleasure, melts under
your touch, then you are on your way!
2) Another thing you can do is to offer to read her palm. Don't ask me how to do
palm reading; go to the library and get a book on it.
Anyway, you can mostly make it up. Tell her her palm shows she is lonely.
Trace your finger on her palm and tell her that her love line is very strong, that
she has strong desires. Explain also that the palm is a strong energy center,
then take your thumb and rub her palm with your thumb.
If you see her get the "doggy dinner bowl" look; the look that says, "kiss me
now" then lean in and kiss her!
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If she pulls back, don't apologize! Just look at her and say, "hmmm…it just
seemed like you needed it"!
Another thing to do (also illustrated on the website) is to put your palm briefly
on the small of her back when you are walking somewhere. Don't keep it there.
Just use it to guide her briefly and then take it away. The small of the back is a
strong sexual energy center.
The best advice is: learn from this. Don't be too attached to this outcome with this
girl. Remember this belief;
I either get what I want, or learn what I need to in order to get

what I want or even BETER, next time.
If you see all of this through the filter of THAT belief, you will do way better with
this girl than if you HAVE to "win."
Sounds like pretty "stealth" stuff? It's proven, and it works. And, if it turns out
that she really isn't going to want to be more than "just friends" you can easily
"Exit, Stage Left" from the Sarge without jeopardizing anything.
In the next segment, we're going to hear from a student who had the "F-bomb"
lobbed at him... then not only dodged it, but nailed the chick who threw it at
him!
Peace and piece,
Ross Jeffries
P.S. Now, let me ask you... (turn to next page)...
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How He Nailed That Girl Who Said,
"Let's Just Be Friends"
A very brilliant science fiction writer once said,

"Any sufficiently developed technology would be
indistinguishable from magic".
Sometimes the things you can do with Speed

Seduction® SEEM like magic. Like an old, ugly,
skinny guy getting beautiful women
scandalously younger than him (I won't name
any names..ahemm, ahemm). Or a guy getting
a girl to dump her boyfriend for him.
But perhaps the most "magic" of all is when a

guy turns it all around and gets a girl who told
him, "I just want to be friends" and uses Speed
Seduction® to have her riding his one-eyed
trouser hog!
There really is something SOOOO fulfilling

about having the person who formerly rejected
you now giving you the ultimate in embraces;
the good old "cootchie handshaking."
Here is how one student of mine made it happen. I'll let him tell you in his own
words. Note how he applies the teachings in a way that apply to HIS situation
and doesn't get phased when things don't quite go his way (at first):
Dear Ross,
In this post I will detail how I managed to seduce a

woman who flaked, stood me up and eventually f@@ked
me.
Understandably this hot babe gutted my self esteem and

played a large role in me reaching the stage where I
was willing to invest in the BHSC and give SS a shot.
Previously before I started SS I had gotten along very

well with this HB on an at times frustrating platonic
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level; she enjoyed my company and we hadn't met since
she went on holidays 3 months ago.
We organized to go for drinks at a bar and I started

with some small talk about her holiday, encouraging
her to vividly describe events with positive
responses. After lifting her mood significantly she
asked me how my job was going. Fortunately my job
affords me some exciting stories to relate to people
when they ask and I concentrated on emphasizing the
excitement and spontaneous-ness of events.
By this stage I had drank a lot more than this HB and

I began losing control of the rhythm and direction of
the conversation as she started talking about her
family.
Once I realized what was happening I decided to retake

control and use what she said so far to bring the
conversation in the direction of people and
relationships. Leaving her with that thought I left to
get a drink and returned to start a peak experience
pattern that worked pleasingly well.
She then started talking about sex with women quite

spontaneously that entered a discussion about
homosexuality that I wasn't thrilled about because it
seemed like things were getting derailed again.
I proceeded to ask her about men she admired and she

asked me what I admired about her. I felt this was on
the right track and told her she was an intelligent,
career minded, goal orientated person and that I
really admired that. She then asked me if that was all
so I dug a little deeper and talked about how people
appreciate her depth, genuine feelings and how when we
talk rather than hear, we listen.
This went down well and I proceeded to ask her what

she admired about me. The bartender made last call and
I suddenly felt the pressure to make my move or walk
away empty handed.
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I regret to say I almost failed to act because at this
stage I wasn't completely satisfied with my Sarge so
far, feeling as though I should have patterned more
and almost lost things when the conversation got
derailed twice. I thought quickly about an opener for
a kiss and came up with "you know we haven't ever
kissed before."
My hesitation was relieved by the confidence that

throughout my Sarge so far I have built a very open
rapport and that if she denied my advance I would be
able to amend matters.
She responded with surprise and said "where did that

come from?" and with a warm smile I responded "hmmm, I
dunno but how about it?" She replied "I don't know if
I should" without much hesitation and without thinking
I replied "well maybe you shouldn't" and leaned in to
kiss her. We started furiously making out and left the
bar just before it shut.
She then asked me how I was getting home and I replied

that I didn't know because the last bus service has
ended and suggested that I just walk home. She said
she considered it herself but would rather take a taxi
and asked me what I would do. I replied smiling "well
I could go home with you in the taxi or I could walk
home."
She smiled and slapped my arm saying "oooh, you're

naughty I have never seen this side of you before".
She was right - before this night I was a complete AFC
supplicator to her. She continued "You're more than
welcome to stay at my place if you like" and we caught
a taxi back to her place.
When we arrived at her place I followed her into her

room, took my shoes off, and sat on her bed. She sat
on a swivel chair with wheels close to the bed and
said "I don't know if we should sleep together."
I smiled at her and dragged her chair to the edge of

the bed until she was close to me and kissed her
passionately, as she yielded I picked her up and
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leaned backwards as she fell on top of me and we threw
in each other's caress on the bed. Let's just say the
rest was satisfying.
I hope this post inspires some of you who are

experiencing difficulties to try things with a renewed
enthusiasm and any
comments or suggestions on how I could have done
things better are more than welcome.
Lastly to everybody who feels that once a girl flakes

or burns you that things are over I say shame on you
and your lack of faith in SS. Commit to practicing at
every opportunity and study your materials and
virtually anything is possible.
Nice going, brother!
I think what really made this work is regaining control of your state when you
felt it was slipping and moving in a strong direction to stay in control of yourself
and of the situation.
Nice use also of getting her to talk about her holiday: the theme of vacations
is a good one to get women into the part of their mind that dwells on fantasy,
excitement, fulfillment of repressed desires, indulgence, etc.
Peace and piece,
Ross Jeffries
(turn to the next page, please...)
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The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out

NEW Special Report

For the smart guy who refuses to resort to bullying, begging,

Copyright © 1988-2010, Ross Jeffries. All Rights Reserved.

WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER BE "NICE" TO WOMEN! 4

WHY SHE DOESN'T APPRECIATE YOUR "KINDNESS" 9

THE GIRL HE WANTED FOR SEVEN YEARS! 16

HOW TO TURN THAT "FRIEND" INTO YOUR DEVOTED LOVER! 20

HOW HE NAILED THAT GIRL WHO SAID, "LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS" 25

HOW I CAN HELP YOU, STARTING RIGHT NOW! 29

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

There’s one word I REALLY hate. The “F” word.

No, I don’t mean “flirting,” “f@@%ing,” or

The “F” word I can’t stand is “friends” – as in,

Man, it hurts my ears! In fact, learning how to

Dodging The "F" Bomb!

Dodging The "F" Bomb!

My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

Peace and piece,

P.S. Forget about ever again being confused by a woman’s

With what I teach you throughout my Speed Seduction®

Dodging The "F" Bomb!

Before we get into the mechanics of avoiding the

Plain and simple: the reason why so many guys end

Many years ago, when I was first making my TV talk

I said something that nearly caused a riot in the

"Only an idiot would care what a woman WANTS."

• There is what women SAY they want.

• There is what women THINK they want.

• Then there is what women ACTUALLY RESPOND TO!

Only that last one counts.

Dodging The "F" Bomb!

And rather than change, they blame the women.

So let me draw an important distinction here:

There is "nice" which women do NOT favorably respond to.

A "nice" man only knows how to be agreeable. He doesn't know how to

Dodging The "F" Bomb!

He may put himself first, but he also

Most important: his world is his own. He

When you get these distinctions you will

You will never be "nice" again.

But you will also never have to bully, beg or

But now I'm sure, you're asking...

... What Does Being "Pleasant" Instead of "Nice"

I'm going to show you:

Dodging The "F" Bomb!

Peace and piece,

(next page, please...)

Dodging The "F" Bomb!

• How to create irresistible POSITIVE challenge,

Claim your copy now:

Dodging The "F" Bomb!

Recently, I got into a big argument /

Since this is a major sore spot for

The following was posted by Mr. X

Mr. X had this to say:

I can say from personal experience that women

Uh uh uh...depends Depends. Depends.

If it reeks of need or pressure, they don't want it.

Most unappreciated "kindness" is unappreciated because:

1. You didn't establish respect/authority or get any investment from her in