Stop Being Insecure -

Confidence and Clarity

Christina Sponias
 Stop Being Insecure – Confidence and Clarity

Stop Being Insecure -

Confidence and Clarity

by
Christina Sponias

Copyright © 2008 Christina Sponias. All rights reserved; no part of this

publication may be reproduced or transmitted in any form, or by any means
(electronic, photocopying, recording, or otherwise) without the prior written
permission of the publisher.

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Table of Contents

INTRODUCTION......................................................... 4

CHAPTER ONE ............................................................ 7

HOW TO BUILD YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE................. 7

1. Acquire The Necessary Knowledge............................................ 7
a. Your Attitude .......................................................................11
b. How to Read Quickly and Absorb Information.........................19

2. Define Your Personality...........................................................21

a. Be calm ..............................................................................22
b. Be Honest and Sincere .........................................................23
c. Be a Real Friend ..................................................................24

CHAPTER TWO ......................................................... 27

HOW TO BE FUNNY AND BRING HUMOR TO YOUR

DAILY LIFE............................................................... 27
a. Humor Therapy Against Sadness and Weakness .....................29
b. Humor is a Magnet that Attracts Admirers ..............................34
c. Eliminating Anger With Humor...............................................36

CHAPTER FOUR........................................................ 41

BEING COURAGEOUS AND STAYING POSITIVE....... 41

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Stop Being Insecure – Confidence and Clarity

Introduction

Are you shy or afraid to speak up in crowd? Do you think you

are ugly? Are you worried that you don’t know how to talk or
how to behave or that you will not be accepted in social
settings? If so, then you need the guidance provided in this
eBook.

Do you think you are ugly? So what if you are?

Do you think only beautiful and handsome people are popular

and successful in love?

You are wrong if you think so, because the most intelligent and
sympathetic people are the ones that are not quite so perfect.
Take a look around you and you will see that some of the best
people have a nose that is a little bigger than it needs to be, or
they wear glasses, or they are too short, too fat, too thin or
whatever. You meet people who can be considered ugly but are
not…. Because they have a great personality.

This is a fundamental point: your personality counts.

If you have a great personality, you become physically beautiful

or handsome. You attract the opposite sex, because you have a
magical charm.

So, you don’t need to be beautiful or handsome in order to be

successful in love or in order to have plenty of friends and be
admired by everyone.

Be careful about good hygiene and wear clean clothes, and you
will do just fine with your external appearance.

Your fantastic personality is going to conquer everyone!

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I can tell you that some of the most handsome men and
beautiful women of this world are quite silly. They don’t know
how to talk, they are too vain, and they are not intelligent at all.

There are exceptions, but most often they are boring because
their words are empty.

So, don’t envy them.

Now, how can you build a strong personality and be self-

confident?

First of all, you have to look at the mirror and say to yourself “I
accept myself.”

Accept yourself the way you are.

Say to yourself in the mirror:

“I accept myself even on days when I feel stupid, even on days

when I feel ugly… I accept myself because I am a human being
and I have the right to be imperfect.”

Like everyone in this world, you might not be perfect. Because

perfection is complex and anyway it is not as important to be
perfect on the outside as it is when we examine what is on the
inside. If you are not perfect on the outside, it does not matter.

You have the right to be an imperfect human being. All humans

are animals that can think and draw conclusions. So allow
yourself to think that it is okay to be imperfect and simply
accept yourself with all your natural flaws.

Now stop looking at the mirror and say to yourself that your
appearance does not really matter.

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You are going to build a strong personality right now and start
being accepted and admired by everyone, because you are a
very special person!

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Chapter One
How to Build Your Self-Confidence

1. Acquire The Necessary Knowledge

Start reading everything you can about all the interesting

subjects you can think of.

What do people usually talk about? What does the person you
love care about? These subjects should become your favorite
subjects too.

We are lucky to live in modern times because we have the

internet. You can lookup a multitude of subjects and learn about
them for free. You can find free eBooks that authors are giving
away to promote their site or their products. Some of these
eBooks are well written and informative. Take advantage of
these opportunities and read as much as you can about
everything you can.

The more you read and learn, the better. However, don’t waste
your time reading things that will not further your progress
towards your primary goal.

For purposes of building your self confidence, your goal in

reading is to learn things that are of interest to your friends and
the special person you care about.

Don’t think that you have no time for it, or that you don’t like to
read, or that you will not remember what you have read in
order to talk about it later.

You are going to use a system that will help you develop your
intelligence and increase the power of your memory.