THINK STRAIGHT: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life
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I know something about you without knowing you. I bet you spend A LOT of time in your head. You know, thinking, worrying, stressing, freaking out -- call it whatever you want. I call it a preoccupied mind. And with what?99% of your thoughts are useless.
Darius Foroux
Darius Foroux is the author of 7 books, including the best-sellers 'Think Straight' and 'What It Takes To Be Free.' Since 2015, he's been sharing his thoughts about life, business, and productivity on his blog. His ideas and work have been featured in TIME, NBC, Fast Company, Inc., Observer, and many more publications. 500K+ people read his blog every month. Join his free newsletter: http://dariusforoux.com/
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THINK STRAIGHT - Darius Foroux
Table of Contents
Table of Contents
About The Author (That’s Me)
You Become What You Think
Why Do We Need A Book On Practical Thinking?
Use What Works
Clear Thinking Requires Training
From Chaos To Clarity
A (Very) Brief History Of Thinking
Life Is Not Linear
Connect The Dots
Filter Your Thoughts
Stop Thinking
Inside Your Control vs Outside Your Control
Don’t Trust Your Mind
Look At Facts
True Vs UNTRUE
Take Your Time To Think
No More Quick Decisions
Release Your Mind
Draw Your Thoughts
Be Yourself (Not What You Should Be)
Take Time To Reflect
My Money Rules
Don’t Try To Think Your Way Out Of Everything
Be Unconventional
Don’t Ask Why
Think About The Details Even More
Take Thinking Out of The Equation
Don’t Live With Regrets
Never Look Back
Spend Your Time Well
Inner Calm
Think Beyond Yourself
Thank You: A Gift
Further Reading
About The Author (That’s Me)
I self-published this book, so it doesn’t make sense to write this part in third person. To be honest, I did write an ego enhancing bio at first. I thought it looked more professional. But after I gave it more thought, I decided to do it differently and introduce myself the same way I do at an informal event.
Anyway, I’m an entrepreneur, blogger, and podcaster. For the past two and a half years, I’ve been sharing my thoughts about life, business, and productivity on my blog. Until now, more than 3 million people have read my articles. I also co-founded Vartex, a laundry technology company, with my dad, while I was finishing my master’s degree in Marketing in 2010. For my podcast, The Darius Foroux Show, I’ve interviewed thought leaders like Ryan Holiday, Robert Sutton, Jimmy Soni, and more.
If you can change your mind, you can change your life.
― William James
You Become What You Think
In 1869, a 27-year-old man, who had just graduated as a doctor of medicine from Harvard, was going through a crisis of meaning.
This was not the first time he dealt with adversity. Throughout his six years in medical school, his education was interrupted by different illnesses and bouts of depression. But this time, it was worse. He even contemplated suicide for months.
The young man’s name was William James, who later became the leading psychologist in America and one of the founders of the philosophical school of pragmatism. It took James three years to overcome depression. Something he did by himself. To be clear, James wasn’t just feeling down. John McDermott, editor of The Writings of William James, wrote about the severity of his mental state: James spent a good part of life rationalizing his decision not to commit suicide.
During this time, James also had panic attacks and hallucinations. This wasn’t new to him. His father faced the same agonizing things, years before him. This feat made James believe that his condition was biological, and therefore something he couldn’t overcome. But in 1870, James made a psychological breakthrough after reading an essay by Charles Renouvier, a French philosopher. In his journal, he wrote: I think that yesterday was a crisis in my life. I finished the first part of Renouvier's second Essais and see no reason why his definition of free will — 'the sustaining of a thought because I choose to when I might have other thoughts' — need be the definition of an illusion. At any rate, I will assume for the present — until next year — that it is no illusion. My first act of free will shall be to believe in free will.
This realization is at the core of pragmatism, the school of philosophy that James and Charles Sanders Peirce founded, years later. James realized that we have the ability to choose one thought over the other. In other words, we can control what we think.
However, James doesn’t say we can control our consciousness. When we sit down and observe our thoughts for a few minutes, we will notice that a lot of things flow through our mind. The thoughts are just there.
Nothing we can change about that. But since we have free will, we can decide which thoughts we focus on. Hence, we can influence the direction of consciousness. This realization is critical to the way we live. It’s the difference between I can’t help but feel this way
and "I feel this way because I decided to feel this way."
The emphasis is on deciding. And that’s what this book