Misconceptions About Attraction

It’s ALL looks

Supplication

The Resume

Friends First

Commonalities/Compatibility
So What’s Right?
The Evolutionary Paradox

-Grandchildren Are The Definition Of Success

-The Three Strategies

What Women Want
The guy who they don’t deserve who they somehow won over.

Reason:

Solving the Evolutionary Paradox

But remember that’s not the ONLY viable solution!

What Women Hate
NICE GUY TRAITS

Neediness

Nice Guy Agenda

Social Stupidity

ASSHOLE TRAITS

Untrustworthiness

Asshole Agenda
How Does This Happen In A Practical
Sense?
Women, like all people, make decisions emotionally then rationalize them logically.

The reptile brain makes a decision based on survival criteria of thousands of years
ago. Then the mammal brain rationalizes it.

This is why women sometimes do things that seem crazy.

Their genes are not designed to give them happy or comfortable lives. They are
designed to CREATE GRANDCHILDREN
How Do Women Choose?
Honest Signals
-That which is hard to fake is “honest”

-That which is unintentional (with regards to her) is “honest”

-That which is negative is “honest”

-That which is costly is “honest”

Subcommunication Over Communication
Because it’s less intentional

Because it’s more likely to be negative

Because it’s costly (difficult) to change

Also remember, WOMEN DO NOT HAVE TO BE CONSCIOUS OF THEIR

DECISION MAKING PROCESS FOR IT TO BE EFFECTIVE IN ACHIEVING THEIR
GENES’ ENDS

This is why you can’t know what women want simply by asking them. THEY DON’T
LOGICALLY KNOW!
Quick Note
As humans are the top of the food chain… most of the selection is SEXUAL selection
and the evolutionary environment is a man-made environment.

… meaning selection in comparison to other humans

… meaning selection within the context of the human tribe

So a lot of it comes down to your interactions with others!

Attraction Switches
Social Proof
Implied Social Proof - Volume, Confidence, Unreactivity, Entitlement Etc.
Social Pressure
Competence
Frame Control
Escalation Skill
Iconography - Style, Story, Resume
Inverse Of Behavior - Commitment/Consistency
Health - Physical and Manner
Power/Force
Recklessness/Resilience
Outer Game Tactics
Push Pull

Disqualifiers

Frame Control - Reframes/Stories/Pacing + Leading etc.

Qualification

Back Turns and Takeaways

Silence/Space

Shit Test Passing - Special Case Of Frame Control

Infield Examples
French Blowoff # → Implied Social Proof (Various Channels)

Boston Street → Escalation Skill

Skateboard Set → Power/Recklessness/Social Pressure

Pizza Instant Pull → Confidence/Frame Control/Escalation

Izzys Pull → Frame Control

Bathroom Sex → Social Proof + Commitment/Consistency

Becoming The Irresistible Man
Two Apparent Methods and Two Fallacies

Fake it Or Become It - Inner Game vs Outer Game

The Natural Fallacy - Leveling and Counter-Intuitive Behaviors

The 25 Points Story - Subcommunication is an “Involuntary Function”

The Solution?
It has to be both.

Neither “Inner Game” Nor “Outer Game”

Can Get You Good Alone
Your weakest area will be the limiting factor.
The Life of A “Hot Girl”
-Given the world at an early age

-Never learn to make money proactively

-Treated as commodities rather than people

-Terrified of aging

-“Chasing the dragon”... want at least the level of guy they turned down when they
were younger

-Nowadays… have to constantly invest money to maintain their appearance