A Sermon Charge to High School Graduates (PT 1)

Posted June 9, 2006 by Paul Lamey in Sermon notes. 4 Comments

I am giving a brief sermon charge to our High School graduates this Sunday. Actually, this year we will
only be honoring one student (last year it was four).
We are gathered here tonight to praise God for the infinite grace that has been displayed in your life!
We want to congratulate you on all your accomplishments; We want to thank you for your faithfulness to
this Church and to our youth group in particular; & tonight as your teen pastor, I’d like to briefly
encourage you from Holy Scripture as you prepare to leave home and begin an exciting journey at Grace
College.
I think the best way I can accomplish this goal is by looking at the various roles you have (or will soon
have) and discover what God’s Word has to say about each of these important responsibilities:
This is my personal charge to you that I trust will reflect God’s priorities (not merely my opinions)….
I. First and foremost you are a child of God:
You are a Christian, a disciple of Christ’s.“For by grace you have been saved through faith and that not
of yourself lest anyone should boast.” (Eph 2:8) God graciously saved you and I know you’ve dedicated
your life to His service!
It has been a privilege to see you “grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.” You’ve been
blessed with a remarkable memory and a sharp mind. Your passion for reading books and learning is
exemplary; Your creative use of your imagination is a wonderful endowment…
–>Continue to use these gifts for God’s glory! (1 Peter 4:10ff)
With that said:
1) Never allow yourself to think you’ve somehow arrived.
Philippians 3:12 says, “Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make
it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own.” Keep on pressing on!
2) Avoid comparing your spiritual walk with others; Rather focus your attention on the
Author and the Perfecter of your faith.
Christ-likeness is the standard and our objective (1 Peter 1:14-16). Also remember the inspired words of
Paul in 1 Thess 4:10, “But we urge you, brethren, to excel still more…”
“Excel still more” in your faith
From my own personal experience, I know that Christian college students are especially vulnerable to
spiritual pride… After all the Apostle Paul said, “that knowledge (alone) puffeth up.”
3) Continue then to grow in humility, gentleness, and grace as you no doubt will grow in
knowledge, understanding, and theological wit… (See C.J. Mahaney’s book Humility: True Greatness)
4) I encourage you to seek wise counsel from godly dorm friends, your RD, and your
parents; BUT ONLY after you’ve 1st asked God for wisdom and direction.
Proverbs 3:5-6 remind us to, Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And do not lean on your own
understanding. 6 In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight.
If, and when problems arise in your life, make sure that first you take everything to the Lord.
It’s a great blessing being able to attend a solid Christian college. I encourage you to take full advantage of
this wonderful opportunity. Learn all you can from your new Christian friends, your Christian professors,
and your RAs.
5) Constantly remind yourself though that with great privilege, comes great stewardship.
Jesus said to “whom much is given, much is required” (Luke 12:48)
6) As a child of God don’t forget how important daily bible devotions are to your spiritual
growth.
It’s easy to dry up even when you’re in the right place-
Don’t neglect the Bible! For it was the Word of God that made you wise unto salvation and it is the sacred
Scriptures that will sanctify your very soul (2 Timothy 3:15-17).
1 Peter 2:2 says, “like new born infants LONG for the pure milk of the Word that by It, you may grow in
respect to your salvation.”
Pray that your love for Jesus Christ will deepen as a result of these times!!
7) One last thing: Don’t let anyone tell you that Bible classes, chapel, dorm devotions, and
parachurch ministries can usurp the central role of the local Church!
The Scriptures are clear that Christ’s bride has a unique place in God’s Kingdom program. The local
church is the visible representation of the body of Christ! Make it a priority to plug yourself into a biblical
church! One where you can be feed, discipled, and cared for; One where you can use your spiritual gifts &
talents for the edification of the local church and the glory of God!
If you do these things I truly believe you will grow into the Proverbs 31 women that all of us desire you to
become!
 Never forget, you are first and foremost a child of God! 
II. Second, you still are your parent’s daughter:
Like most Christian college students I’m guessing you are still very much financially dependent on your
parents?!?
That of course means that you’re still obligated to obey and honor them as Ephesians 6:1-3 says; Children,
obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 Honor your father and mother (which is the first
commandment with a promise), that it may be well with you, and that you may live long on the earth.
When you’re up at night eating ice-cream, painting toe nails, or maybe just cramming for a chemistry
quiz take a moment to stop and thank God for giving you Christian parents. Try and find a free moment
every week (or so) to call your mom. Take a minute or two to send your dad a post-card reminding him
how much you love and miss him; & if you have any free time don’t forget to send an email to your
lonely siblings, esp. your older brother!

Congratulations, graduates. In just a few short days, you’ll step onto a stage and receive your diploma,
and while doing that two big things will be happening for you - 1) You’ll be making a significant
accomplishment on 13 years of work and dedication, and 2) you’ll be closing one chapter of your life
and opening a whole new one.

On a personal note, this Class of 2014 is a very special one to me. This is the first group that I saw as
Freshmen. I remember walking into class that Sunday morning in January 3 ½ years ago, terrified at how
such a large group of freshmen were going to react to my teaching. Since then, we’ve had a lot of great
times to share at activities, sporting events, and here in worship.

Safe to say that I, personally, have some pretty good memories from you all.

So the main question I have for you tonight is:

What memories will you make from here on out? And what path will they take you on?

Tonight we’ll be talking about God’s path: how to stay on it, where it might lead you, all those things.

If we’re moving forward on this path, we can’t dwell on the past. We can’t relive memories from high
school. After you walk across that stage in a few weeks and get your diploma, high school is over. High
school, and all the tests, grades, drama, and sometimes, the relationships are over. So where does your
path go from here?

If you’re not a Christian, there’s a lot of uncertainty with that question. You can’t move forward on
God’s path if you’re not first a Christian! If you are, then your path is actually very clear. This evening,
very quickly, we’re going to talk about your path that you should walk with God and how to seek out
God’s direction.

1. Steps are ordered.

You’ve always heard “A journey of 1000 miles begins with a single step,” but what does that actually
mean? It means that in life there are lots of steps.

High School is a big step that you’ve just completed. But that’s all it is, is a step in your life. The next
step may be college. It may be going out to work. It may be both. But the next step for you, whatever
that may be, comes after the last. Like we said before, dwelling on the past doesn’t do you a lot of good
when going to your next step.

Our steps have to be ordered, just like we order our food. One of the best parts about graduation is all
the eating out. I must have ate out with parents and grandparents for like 4 days straight when I
graduated high school. It was great. But when you go out to eat and your order food, you expect the food
that you ordered to be what they bring out. If you ordered something small and they bring out a 7 -course
meal for you, that’s going to be too much. We usually only order what we can eat, and when we don’t,
when we eat too much, our stomachs let us know fairly quickly.

In the same way, God orders our steps and steps that we are able to take. Psalm 37.23 says The steps of
a good man are ordered by the Lord, and He delights in his way.

If our steps are ordered, then we must assume that there is some planning involved as well. Think about
it - you don’t ever do anything without a plan. Whether it’s deciding and going to eat Mexican or
Chinese after Sunday morning worship this morning or making plans for where to go to college, your
steps in life are ordered and your plans don’t just happen, they are put in place and planned
carefully. Proverbs 16.9 says, A man's heart plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps. Notice the
word ‘step’ again. Our God directs our steps.

2. Paths are directed.

Proverbs 3.5 says Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all
your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your paths. The key to unlocking God's direction is by
acknowledging Him in all our ways.

Going to college, you probably feel like (or will feel like) you’re on top of the world. You’re finally out
of your parents house. You’re at a place where no one is going to badger you with rules. You have a lot
more freedom than you might have had at home. And most of us will look at our lives and say “I’ve got
this.”

Like me. Even with the rules and structure of the Marines Corps, I thought to myself, “This is great. I’m
finally off on my own. I can do whatever I want. I’ve got this.”

One of the worst mistakes I ever made in my entire life was not seeking God when I probably needed
him the most. After two combat tours in Afghanistan and Iraq, I was completely depressed and burnt out.
I didn’t go to church. I didn’t seek out Godly things. I didn’t seek out God’s people to help me on my
path.

If we are Christians, God directs our paths. Not activities, or degrees, or careers, or others, or boyfriends
and girlfriends - GOD DOES. And if we let God direct our feet to walk His path, we will be taken care
of.

Those two years without the church in my life were probably the darkest my life had ever been. Don’t
forget about God when you’re off on your own. Don’t forget how He has taken care of you so far. If you
trust in him, He will take care of you. Just as the verse Kyle mentioned last Sunday night - Romans
8.28 - For we know that all things work together for good.

Ah, wait a second, that’s wrong. If we look at the verse carefully, and we see the parts we
sometimes glaze over:

And we know that for those that love the Lord all things work together for good, for those who are called
according to His purpose.

Speaking from personal experience - it was the times that I did not let God direct my steps and was not
active in his church that I had the hardest and darkest times of my life. Le t your path be directed by God,
and nothing else.

So as we close this evening, I want to offer you four ways that you can find (and stay on) God’s path.

1. Follow the instructions. We follow instructions in everything else in life, yet sometimes we put God
on the back burner. Know God’s Word. Read it, study it, just as you would civil engineering or nursing.
Because there will be a test later, and you need to be prepared.

2. Seek the narrow path. You are not the first person to struggle with sex, drugs, alcohol, or any of the
other various temptations and things that would seek to take you away from God’s path. Stick with those
who are struggling the same way you are. Seek out fellow Christians. Seek out churches nearby. No one
has promised that the Christian life will be easy, and that’s especially true in your years to come, when
you really find out who you are and what you will do with your life. So ask yourself the question that
stems from Matthew chapter 7: will your path be wide and easy and lead you away from God, or will it
be narrow and difficult and lead you to God?

3. Don’t seek wide ways or strange Gods. Idols can come in many forms. Maybe your idol is yourself -
you’ve finally gotten away from parents and you now choose to do what you maybe couldn’t at home.
Or maybe that idol is schoolwork. Or money. Or a boyfriend or girlfriend. Whatever form that idol takes,
if it prevents you from following God in any way, it should not be a part of your path in life.
4. Always plan with God in mind. As I told you earlier, my life did not go as I’d planned. I had hoped
to be married by age 23. That didn’t happen for me until age 27. When I joined the military in 2000, it
was a totally different world come September 11, 2001. I didn’t plan on that. My life did not turn out as
I thought it would, but it turned out exactly as God thought it would.

Jeremiah 29.11 says I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord. I know the plans I have for you,
Austin. I know the plans I have for you, Grayson, He says.

In the scripture that was read earlier, Psalm 16.11, David says You have made know to me the path of
life. We know what God’s plans are - it’s in His Word.

I love the phrase that Kyle has said in some past sermons recently, and that is to ask the question, “What
is God up to?”

What is God up to and how is He working in my life when I arrive at UT Knoxville in August? Or at
MTSU? Or Cumberland University? What is God up to when He gave me THIS roommate? What is He
up to when my Christian morals are challenged in my classes? What is God doing right now in my life?”

We should always plan with God in mind. God should not fit in our plans, He should be the most
integral part of the plan. And we should always be asking what God is up to in our lives, b ecause He
always is.

Tonight, this lesson has mainly been for our graduates, but the message applies to us all. Have you been
true to God’s path? Do you need to get back on God’s path? Maybe you need to start your journey on
God’s path by becoming a Christian and being baptized tonight. If you have any spiritual needs this
evening, come while we stand and sing.