Title: Spirit of Rejection

Goal: Deliverance from the Spirit of Rejection

Introduction:

Demon of Rejection – is a door opener , a door keeper for many demons to come in to person’s life

So many individuals in the bible suffered from Rejection.

1. The first person who suffered from Rejection was adam, he was put out of the garden and was
rejected by God because of his disobedience ( Gen 3:23)

2. Cain, his offering was rejected by God and because cain felt rejected even though God told him if
you’ll do right, I’ll accept you and because he felt so rejected and he became so angry until he murdered
his brother Abel, ( Genesis 4:6)

3. Ishmael was rejected by God, God told Abraham I cannot allow Ishmael to inherit the promise,

You must put him out. Even though God loved him and God promised Ishmael his descendants great
blessing, Because of Abraham’s unbelief he slept with his handmaid instead of waiting on God for Isaac
(Gene 21;11-14)

4. Absalom, how he suffered rejection and he ended up manifesting of Rebellion, Revolt , and pride
against his father. (2 Samuel 13:15)

5. Through out the bible you’ll find different manifestation of demon of rejection and the many

demons that operate in the spirit of Rejection .

6. Saul – Then when he was anointed as the king of Israel, he ends up operating in disobedience,
rebellion,, He was rejected as king by God, and then gets into paranoia, suspicion, he tried to kill David,
He ends up getting into a witchcraft and he ends up dying by Suicide. This man’s life is a picture how
demon can destroy a person through Rejection.

7. Today, we are going to deal with an area with many people may not aware of and that’s rejection that
comes to a person’s life, because they refuse the knowledge God.

8. There are many people that was said that God does not rejects anyone, God is a God of Love,
Anyone who repents and comes to God in Faith, God will never reject. He says come unto me all you
who are heavily laden and I will give you rest, and he encourages his people, God is not a respector of
person, he doesn’t reject people based on their color, their culture, their gender , our God is Love and
he that comes unto me I will no way cast it out.(John 6:37)
9. God will never reject a person who comes to him in FAITH, HUMILITY AND REPENTANCE.(Luke 18:9-
14)

II. WHY DOES REJECTION WOUND A PERSON SO DEEPLY?

a). Rejection – is a big cause of demonic Bondage. We all affected by Rejection to some degree. It is

vital to understand how it works and how to be set free or be healed from the spirit of Rejection

b). The reason Rejection wound us so deeply because, it attacks you, us.

* the very person that we are

* it destroys our self esteem, and attacks who we are, and our purpose in llife

* It destroy our pride, dignity, our abilities, self respect, your personality trains,

(Ang BUONG PAGKATAO MO)

c.) Proverbsn18:16, The spirit of Man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear

GODD’S WORD SAID, WE ARE THAT WE’RE LOVED, ADOPTED, ACCEPTED, BUT REJECTION, BECAUSE WE
ARE BORN WITH AN INNATE LONGING FOR LOVE AND ACCEPTTANCE. THE EFFECTS OF AGREEING WITH
REJECTION CAN BE PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY DEVATATING.

III. THE FRUIT OF REJECTION:

1. Many people who have face Rejection and abuse as a child , grow up with unresolved emotional
wounds. Rejection causes emotional wounds, which if not cleansed, and release will grow and fester
into Spiritual wounds.

a). SPIRITUAL WOUNDS: unforgiveness, envy, jealousy, bitterness, anger, and pride. Those spiritual
wounds opens up to the evil spirits which love to take advantage of this opportunity to invade us.

COMMON SYMPTOMS OF REJECTION:

1. Rebellion in both children and adults

2. Fabricated Personality (Being somebody you aren’t in order to be accepted)

3. The tendency to Reject others, so that you aren’t the first one to be Rejected

4. A tendency to always wonder, if a person rejects you or accept you

5. The need to fit in or be accepted by others and be part of everything

6. Self Pity – Where a person feels bad for themselves being alone

7. Inability to be corrected or receive constructive criticism.

8. Rejection creates an environment where you are starve for love or just don’t fit in

9. A Sense of Pride and say “How Dare Reject me”

10. Feeling worthlessness, insecurity, or hopelessness

11. Seeking parents approval is a sign that your basing your identity upon what they think of you

12. Envy, jelousy, and even hate can be rooted in rejection

13. Opinionated personality and Fixers Identity – Who are always there to tell you about something,
even if they have little or no understanding , they wanted to be right about things. (magbiyasa biyasa ),
mahilig magturo kung ano dapat gawin

14. Stubborness – can also be rooted in rejection, they have to be right or they feel, that’s who they are,
‘THEIR IDENTITY IS BASED UPON THEM BEING RIGHT”

15. Performance Orientation and Driveness 0 a certain variance of OCD, where a person is basing their
identity and who they’re upon, how well they perform at something in life, approval addiction

DYNAMICS OF REJECTION”

1. The Closer a person is to you, the deeper their rejection can wound you. Authority figures are also
able to deeply wound you, your father, your mother because you look up to them and rely upon them

2. Father and Mother often pass rejection on their children when they say things such as I’ll love when
you get good grades

3. Conditional Love causes feelings of Rejection, and bondages such as performance orientation and
driveness. You are only doing it because you want them to be happy, and sometimes our parents would
hurt us by saying you are not good, when we made mistakes they will look us a bad person,.

4. I know parents di nila kinausap iyong anak nila ng 2 taon until namatay yong anak nila, now their son
is in deep trouble, 3 beses na nagka asawa, palagi siyang may kaso, nadedemanda, and worst di siya
marunong gumalang ng matanda.. he is in deep trouble. He has anger, bitterness, now he become a
womanizer, he got a new girlfriend, napakarami niyang mga utang, palagi siyang naaalis sa trabaho,
kahit anong gawin niya di siya umaangat, dahil lahat ng big company’s sa manila nagkaisa na hindi siya I
hi hire. Ngayon he is working in a small company, compare mo sa mga company na hinawakan niya.
Why? Because of his Rejection, then it invites more demons to him, to destroy him. I feel sorry to him.

WHAT MAKES REJECTION A SIN?

1. We were created to be loved, accepted, appreciated,

In Ephesians 1:4-5 For He Chose Us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in
his sight. In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ in accordance with his
pleasure and will.

2. Don’t base your identity upon what they think of you, their approval. Because your approval will not
give meaning into your life.

3. Remember the love that we are looking or seeking for cannot be found in people, places and things
but only God

A). Get your true Identity from God’s Word

"Know who you are in Christ"

Some dynamics of rejection

The closer a person is to you, the deeper their rejection can wound you. Authority figures are also able
to deeply wound you, because you look upto them and rely upon them. Parents often pass rejection on
to their children when they say things such as, "I'll love you when you get good grades." Conditional love
causes feelings of rejection and bondages such as performance orientation and drivenness.

Whether you love or hate a person doesn't immune anybody from rejection. You can literally want to kill
somebody, but still be affected by their rejection. The question is, are you looking to them for approval?
Are you basing your identity upon what they think of you? Does their approval of you give your life
meaning and purpose?

A person's age also has a lot to do with their vulnerability to rejection. Children are especially vulnerable
to the damage of rejection, because they are still developing their identity and learning about who they
are. A lot of damage is done by peers in school. Either your too short, too tall, too fat, too skinny, you
have brown eyes when you should have blue eyes... you name it, and kids will pick on it! Insecure
children can be very cruel and damage other children through rejection. Why? Because their own
identity is not based on the right things. They do not know who they really are, or who they are called to
be, so they go around putting other kids down to make themselves feel better. If they knew who they
were in Christ, it would be an entirely different story! They would seek to edify other kids, and help
them find their identity and calling as well.

Is it possible to receive rejection from a child or even grandchild? Yes! Nobody is immune, providing that
they are basing their identity on what that other person thinks of them. You can be 100 years old, and
be damaged by the rejection of a caretaker.

Get your identity from God's Word!

As I mentioned earlier, it is vital that we base our identity, who we are, upon what God's Word says
about us. When we do, we become virtually immune from the devastating and hurtful effects of
rejection. God promises never to leave or forsake us, so when our identity is based upon what He says of
us, we can be assured that we're not going to face rejection coming from Him.

Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath
said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.

Hebrews 13:5

So what exactly does God's Word tell us about who we are in Christ?

•Because of God's great love for us, we are adopted into His family [1 John 3:1], and made joint heirs
with Christ [Romans 8:17]

•We are made to sit in heavenly places (of authority over all demons, sickness, etc.) with Christ
[Ephesians 2:6]

•We are blessed with all spiritual blessings in Christ [Ephesians 1:3]

•We are the righteousness of Christ through faith, thus being made right before God [Romans 3:22]

•We are entitled to a clean conscience before God because of the Blood and can have full assurance of
faith when we go before Him [Hebrews 10:22]

•Our sins have been removed from us as far as the east is from the west [Psalms 103:12], and God
Himself has chosen not to remember our failures [Hebrews 8:12]

•We are loved with the same love that the Father has for Jesus Himself! [John 17:23]

REFERENCE: John Eckhardt