Professional Documents
Culture Documents
www.freetoolbox.org www.profectum.org
Dedicated to
All children, parents
and their families
May each day bring joy and shared moments
that deepen and enrich your relationship
Welcome..................................................................................................................................................................pg 8
Step 1...................................................................................................................................................................... pg 24
Acknowledgments ............................................................................................................................................ pg 76
Laura Baldwin
for her support and editorial expertise
...and to each and every family who allowed us to enter their lives,
join their journey and videotape their progress and who then went
the extra mile to allow us to share these moments with you.
Sherri is the author of the self study DVD/Manual on the Assessment and Intervention
of DIR/Floortime produced by the American Speech and Hearing Association in 2011
and the self study DVD on the Assessment/Intervention of Developmental Language(2013). In addition, she is
a co-author of Language Disorders chapter in the Diagnostic Manual for Infancy and Early Childhood.
Sherri is a senior faculty member of the ICDL DIR FT; the Profectum(DIR/FT) Academy Online Training
Program and adjunct faculty at the Erikson Institute. She received her graduate and undergraduate degrees
from the University of Illinois.
Monica G. Osgood
Executive Director
Celebrate the Children’s founder, Monica G. Osgood, is an experienced behavioral
consultant and therapist who specializes in using developmental approaches to support
children with autism and other differences in relating and communicating. She is also
Founder and Director of the Developmental Center for Children and Families and
Executive Director and a founding member of the Profectum Foundation. Monica
has worked in homes, therapy centers, and private and public school settings for over
20 years. Some of her experience has included assessment and the development of
intervention programs, curriculum and IEP development, and parent and professional
training.
In 1998 Monica created the first public school program with the Developmental Individual Relationship-based
(DIR model) approach as the core philosophy. In 2000 she was the first educator to join the Senior Faculty
of the Interdisciplinary Council on Development and Learning(ICDL) to provide interdisciplinary training in
the DIR Model. During her time with ICDL Monica served as Faculty for all of their yearly training institutes,
spoke at many of their conferences and had the opportunity to work closely and collaborate with Drs.
Greenspan and Wieder to further develop the DIR Model in school settings. In 2004, she collaborated with
Lauren Blaszak to open a state-approved, DIR Model school for children ages 3-21 in Denville New Jersey now
serving over 70 school districts and 130 families.
Dr. Robinson received her M.D. degree in 1973 from the University of Southern
California. She trained in pediatrics at Childrens Hospital Los Angeles, having served as
Chief Pediatric Resident for CHLA in 1976. She is Board Certified in Pediatrics. In 1988
she received her MPH from the University at Berkeley School of Public Health.
She has been actively involved in the field of autism since 1990, developing multidisciplinary educational
and medical programs for children with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) and devoting endless hours in
education, legislation and research efforts on a national level. Dr. Robinson has been at the forefront of
leading grassroots Autism organizations. She was a founding board member of Cure Autism Now (now
Autism Speaks), The Floortime Foundation, and Profectum Foundation. She also co-chaired the annual
ICDL Conferences (Interdisciplinary Council on Developmental and Learning Disorders) and since 2013
has co-chaired the Profectum International Conference in Pasadena CA. She was a member of the Autism
Speaks Scientific Review Panel for over eight years. Dr. Robinson organized and chaired the first nationally
recognized task force to define the standard of care for clinical trials in autism. The results of this outstanding
effort were published in CNS Spectrums (January 2004, Vol. 9, #1).
“Dr. Ricki” (as her patients fondly call her) brings her extensive experience to Profectum Foundation serving
as Medical Director and devoting her efforts to providing multi-disciplinary education and training for
parents, families and professionals working with individuals with ASD and other developmental delays across
the lifespan.
A nationally sought-after expert, she has appeared on the Today Show, The Talk, Larry King Live and Good
Morning America Health in support of the needs of children and families with Autism Spectrum Disorders.
She is an internationally recognized speaker addressing the needs of children with autism and other
developmental delays to parent, professional and lay audiences worldwide for the past two decades. She is
also the author of the acclaimed book Autism Solutions – How to Create a Healthy and Meaningful Life for
Your Child (see www.DrRickiRobinson.com).
Currently she conducts a clinical and consulting practice in New York for infants,
children, adolescent and adults with complex developmental and mental health
challenges. Programs she consults to include the New York Center for Child
Development; Celebrate the Children; Treatment and Learning Center, Rockville, MD; Imagine Academy;
the former Bridges Program at Texas Children’s Hospital, Houston, TX and other clinical and educational
programs in the United States and abroad.
Dr. Wieder conducts national and international training on the DIR/Floortime model. She served on the
faculties of the Infant-Parent Study Center, the ICDL Graduate School and has just joined the faculty of the
Adelphi University Parent Child Institute. She also serves on the Scientific Advisory Boards of First Signs. Her
research has focused on diagnostic Classification and the long term follow up of children treated with the DIR
model. In addition to serving on the editorial boards of the Journal of Developmental Processes and the ICDL
Journal.
Dr. Wieder publishes numerous articles on the DIR model, diagnostic classification, emotional and symbolic
development and training. She also co-authored Engaging Autism, The Child with Special Needs, and Infant
and Early Childhood Mental Health, with Stanley Greenspan, Visual/Spatial Portals to Thinking, Feeling and
Movement with Harry Wachs, OD; co-chaired the ICDL Diagnostic Manual for Infants and Young Children and
the first edition of the Zero to Three Diagnostic Classification of Mental Health and Developmental Disorders
of Infancy.
The PPT Workbook complements the PPT “How to” webcast series. It is designed
to enhance your experience by allowing you to record your observations, thoughts
and new knowledge throughout the program. In our PPT each webcast presents
simple ideas and strategies to support your child’s engagement, thinking and
communicating with you. Video demonstrations within the webcasts will show
how these strategies can be used during everyday interactions and play. As you
view the webcasts you will have the opportunity to use the Toolbox strategies
demonstrated in the videos. As you determine what works and what doesn’t
you will be designing your own Personal Toolbox in the workbook filled with
ideas and strategies to support your relationship with your child.
We encourage you to stop the webcasts as you watch and jot down notes,
especially as you think about questions presented for you to consider and/or
think about after video demonstrations are shown. Many ways to implement
each of the strategies are demonstrated so you can try different approaches
to determine what works best for your child. Some strategies will help, some
may not.
To get the most out of the PPT don’t forget to record your own observations and check off which
strategies work best to support and encourage your interactions with your child both at the end of
each Webcast and again in Your Personal Toolbox.
Your Master Strategy List is the document that allows you to record what
strategies work best for you and your child. In Steps 1-4 you will have the
opportunity to record the strategies that work as you build your personal Toolbox.
As you view the webcasts moving through each Step your favorite Toolbox Master
Strategy list will grow.
In Step 2 of the PPT you will determine your child’s sensory and motor differences that
might be influencing his or her experience and understanding of the world, and ultimately
interactions and play with you. This information will build your child’s Individual Profile
that will further guide you in how best to nurture interactions. Specifically, you will learn
additional Toolbox strategies that help you support his or her unique sensory and motor
strengths and challenges. By the end of Step 2 you will have completed your child’s Individual Profile
that will give you a deeper understanding of how to think about and use your Toolbox strategies as
you continue through Steps 3 and 4.
+
Together your Master Strategy List and child’s Individual Profile make up your Personal Toolbox
tailored to your child providing you the roadmap for building a strong relationship with your child
while fostering his or her development.
You may decide to print out this workbook or use it on your computer
• From wherever you are, you can click on the workbooks for each step in the
“Downloads” section at the bottom of the page.
• Click on the workbook you want to view, a PDF file will open.
• To print: Click on the print option or icon
• To use on your computer: Click on the file and the workbook will download. Find
and open the downloaded file.
You m ay also decide to print out each W ebcast P owerPoint as an extra reference, but remember that m ost
of the information in the PowerPoints is already organized in the workbooks for you.
• Click on the link below the w ebcast
• Click on print or download to print or download the file to your computer
Finally, you m ay also choose to c reate y our P ersonal Toolbox (Toolbox Strategy Summary and Individual
Profile) online or p rint it o ut to fill in as you go. W hen you are done w ith this program, you w ill w ant to s hare
copies of your child’s P ersonal Toolbox w ith family and team m embers.
• In the “Downloads” section, click on the “Toolbox Strategy S ummary” or “Individual P rofile
Form”.
• Click on print or download to print or download the file to your computer.
You m ay w ant to v iew the W ebcasts individually, as a family and/or together w ith team m embers. We also
suggest you share the resource and your insights w ith other clinicians and educators.
Clinicians a nd E ducators can use the P PT as complimentary “homework” lessons for parents to support
and advance parent and child interactions. In addition, this series can also be an added training tool for
professionals w orking w ith families in the community, schools and clinics.
Strategies to Help You Engage and Interact with Your Child 11
Now it’s your turn to get started!
Set up your play area and find the time. Prepare to tape your interactions. Review your tapes, perhaps
including family/team members. Remember that every door that confronts you presents a new opportunity.
Sometimes you can learn more when things don’t go as planned. Just try your best and observe what
happens! As you gain confidence continue to practice, practice, practice! Over time these Toolbox
strategies will become so natural they will happen automatically!
All of us at Profectum, especially the Profectum faculty, hope that the Profectum Parent Toolbox webcast
series will help you capture the “gleam” in your child’s eyes when connecting and interacting! We know that
you will be encouraged and inspired as you help your child reach his or her full potential!
www.freetoolbox.org
www.profectum.org
www.freetoolbox.org www.profectum.org
Strategies to Help You Engage and Interact with Your Child 13
Webcast 1
Strategies to Help You Engage and
Interact with Your Child
Serena Wieder, PhD
We can help!
• In recent years science has gained a better understanding of the factors that contribute to developmental
challenges in some children
• Based on this understanding, we at Profectum and others have devised intervention strategies to help
these children, and now we want to share them with you!
• We also know all children are unique, with different ways of taking things in and relating to others and their
environments
• We will address these differences as we work together to build your child’s unique profile through our
Profectum Parent Toolbox webcast series
Let’s start!
Developmental milestones don’t hold all the answers...
• Over the years in our work with children, we realized we had to start thinking of the various categories of
development…
• Sensory
• Motor
• Cognitive
• Emotional
... as parts of a whole, and to identify the function that they serve together
• We grew to really appreciate that each person is unique and functions in his/her own way
• We realized more than ever that we do not develop alone but within human relationships that help us feel
secure and ready to learn
This will be a journey of discovery with your child. Like all journeys there will be twists and turns. Just
remember development happens over a lifetime
To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• Welcome to Profectum’s Parent Education Program
Serena Wieder, PhD, Gilbert Foley, Ed D, Cindy Harrison, MScReg, CASLPO, Rosemary White, OTR/L
Webcast- Under Introduction
• Introduction to the DIR - FCD Model
Serena Wieder, PhD
Webcast- Under Floortime
• Getting Back to the Joy- Parts 1 & 2
Beth Osten, MS, OTR/L; Diane Selinger, PhD
Webcast- Under Family
Webcast Format
• Each webcast follows a similar format
• He, she and he/she (he or she) are used during presentations to refer to your child
• Icons - will help you know where you are in each presentation
• Each webcast has a corresponding page identified in the Workbook
• Icons will also be used in the Workbook to help you follow along and document your insights
Webcast Goals...
• These slides introduce the main goals of each webcast
• Will orient you as to what’s coming next in the webcast
Meanings…
• Here important terms used in each webcast are explained. You can find the same terms in the Workbook
glossary
Questions to Consider…
• These questions are presented twice in each webcast:
• Once to start you thinking about how you can use the ideas in that webcast and
• Again near the end of the webcast so you can review what you’ve learned
Idea…
• Each webcast contains two or three key ideas to help you and your child…
• Engage
• Connect
• Mobilize
• Expand play and interactions
...all related to the theme of that webcast
Toolbox Strategies...
• The strategies presented during each webcast are the tools you will take away from the presentations that
help support your interactions
• You’ll find these strategies presented again in the Strategy Summary in the Workbook
+
Together these provide your roadmap for engaging and interacting with
your child that is tailored to your child’s individual differences
Video…
• Short videos included in the webcasts show children interacting with parent(s), teachers, aides and
clinicians in various settings (home, clinic, school, outside)
• The videos demonstrate how each strategy can be used
• The videos present a range of ages, but the strategies demonstrated will apply to all ages and abilities
Summary of Strategies…
• A checklist of the strategies you’ll find in each webcast and the corresponding portion of the Workbook.
You can personalize them in the Strategy Summary for your child/family and share them
Learn More!
• More Profectum resources on the webcast topic
Most of all…
We hope the Profectum Parent Toolbox webcast series
will help you capture the “gleam” in your child’s eyes when
connecting and interacting!
Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Chapter
Meanings
• Profectum Parent Toolbox Strategies: Ways to support your child’s development through emotionally-
based interactions that build Attention, Engagement, Back-and-forth circles, Problem-solving, Thinking
and Creativity
8. Persist!
• Learn to re- engage even when your child appears aimless, becomes
distracted or protests
Be Present… Be Together
Serena Wieder, PHD
Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Webcast
Meanings
• Discover your child: Learn what your child’s interests and behaviors mean to him
• Discover yourself: Reflect on your feelings while playing with your child not only when it “works” but also
when it doesn’t
• Shared Attention: Your child’s ability to stay calm and focused with you when interacting
Questions to Consider?
• What do I need to learn about my child?
• What gets in my way of being present?
• worries, guilt, anxiety, fear, anger?
• How long will this take?
• How do I set priorities?
• Who will help?
• What is the best play space for us?
• What position best captures my child’s attention?
Toolbox Strategies
• Get started today – it’s never too late!
• Select the best times to be one-on-one with your child
• Set up an area that helps your child attend and be responsive
• Try different settings for different kinds of play
• Place items that may interest your child throughout the play area
• Find the best position to capture your child’s attention
• Consider recording a video to review later
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
At what point in the interaction did you feel the joy between Mom and the baby?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Toolbox Strategies
• Select times you can set aside everything else (no phones, texting, magazines, etc.)
• Relax - there is no wrong way to play with your child
• Be playful … Connect with your own “inner child” - remember what you enjoyed
• Pay attention to your feelings
• Don’t teach – Let your child explore and discover
• Keep focused on the interaction
• Be confident - this grows as you connect!
• Convey confidence in your child – “You can do this. You are amazing. Now I understand you.”
• Find joyful moments you can share
• Relationships Matter- Feel Connected - Feel close
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Were his parents teaching or being playful with Peter? What is the difference?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Though he could not be vocal, how does Peter show his excitement?
_____________________________________________________________________________________
_____________________________________________________________________________________
Toolbox Strategies
• Get down on the floor
• Position yourself in front of your child, so the two of you can easily see each other
• Join in and enjoy what your child loves to do
• Follow your child’s interest - the activity isn’t important
• Match your child’s level of play
• Monitor your attention to one another
• Get in touch with how you feel as you play
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
How did the element of surprise create the connection between Graham and his father?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Could something else be distracting (for example, “Is my child hungry or tired”)?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Am I in the right position and right frame of mind to hold my child’s attention?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Am I trying to “teach” or “direct” too much rather than allowing myself to simply enjoy the engagement?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
✔ Strategy Notes
Get started today… it’s never too late!
✔ Strategy Notes
Select times you can set aside everything else
(no phones, texting, magazines, etc.)
Relax- there is no wrong way to play with your
child
3. Position
✔ Strategy Notes
Find the best position to capture your child’s
attention
To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• Get Back to the Joy- Parts 1 & 2
Beth Osten, MS, OTR/L; Diane Selinger, PhD
Webcast- Under Family
• Introduction to the DIR model- FCD Model
Serena Wieder, PhD
Webcast- Under Floortime
• Floortime: All day long and all life long
Ruby Salazar, LCSW
Webcast- Under Family
Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Webcast
Meanings
• Following your child’s “lead”: Being sensitive to where your child’s interest takes him, so you can join in the
play.
• “Gleam in the Eye”: A look and feeling of shared pleasure, emotion or excitement.
Questions to Consider?
• What is my child most interested in?
• Do I join my child?
• Do I follow my child’s interests or do I change the play?
• Do I feel the joy when my child connects with me in play?
• Does my child get that “gleam in the eye”?
Toolbox Strategies
• Observe your child - What is it she likes to do?
• Don’t worry about the activity - This is your child’s interest not yours!!
• Begin the interaction: Go where your child goes
• Find the best position to share your child’s interest
• Be present and be playful!
• Read subtle cues
• Treat everything your child does as intentional and make it purposeful
• Take that first step and join your child in what she is doing
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
At one point Dad was going to change the interaction - Do you remember what the clinician said to him?
What did the clinician say?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did you notice how Dad followed Nathan’s interest? What did Dad do?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Toolbox Strategies
• Use the toys your child “loves” - or be the “toy” yourself
• Help your child do what she wants to do
• Stick with your child’s interest
* If your child is motivated...don’t change the activity
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did Mark’s emotional expression let her know that he wanted her to go on? How?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
How did Mark share his interest with his mom- a smile, a gesture, words?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Do I join my child?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Am I really putting my own agenda aside and following my child’s lead? Or am I trying to change the play?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• Introduction to the DIR model- FCD Model
Serena Wieder, PhD
Webcast- Under Floortime
• Get Back to the Joy- Parts 1 & 2
Beth Osten, MS, OTR/L; Diane Selinger, PhD
Webcast- Under Family
• Floortime: All day long and all life long
Ruby Salazar, LCSW
Webcast- Under Family
• DIR-FCD/Floortime Model Principles of Interaction
Monica G. Osgood, Rosemary White, OTR/L
Webcast- Under Floortime
Goals of Webcast 6
• Discover how to use your emotional expressions to attract your child’s attention and keep him engaged
• Learn to “read” your child’s subtle emotional cues
• Explore the joy of mutual emotional connection
Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Webcast
Toolbox Strategies
• Emotional Expression
• Nurture Intent
Meanings
• Interaction: The back-and-forth actions, gestures and words that people communicate with
• Emotional Expression (affect): Expression of emotions in various ways, including mutual gaze, facial
expressions, vocalizations and tone of voice, and coordinated head, hand and other body movements.
• Emotional Cues (affect cues): Hints or gestures you use - such as “uh, oh” or “uh uh uh”; smiles, frowns,
opening your arms, waving your finger - to alert your child to your feelings of pleasure, anticipation,
approval, pride, etc.
• Connecting through emotional cues (affect cues): Stirring another’s emotions to experience the ties that
build relationships.
• Engagement: The feelings of warmth, trust, and intimacy gained through positive experiences and kept
going even through negative emotions.
• Relating: Using awareness of emotions to engage and stay connected and interactive.
Idea 1
• Explore using your emotional expression to engage with your child
Toolbox Strategies
• Show you understand or share what your child is feeling in these ways:
• Physical closeness and affectionate touch - your position is key!
• Looks and mutual gaze
• Vocalizations and tone of voice
• Gestures and other body movements
• Display of heightened interest and emotions
• Use your emotional expression – gestures, tone of voice, and body language - to highlight the meaning and
emotion in what you say and do...
• Pair your words with emotional expressions to show what they mean
• Use your tone of voice and words to provide context (“Uh-oh”)
• Use your vocalizations and body movements to create anticipation or to predict the next step
• Observe how your emotional expression sustains your child’s attention and engagement with you
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Facial expressions?
___________________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________________
Movements?
___________________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________________
Did these emotional cues help Benny stay focused on Mom? How?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did they prolong his engagement with her? How could you tell?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Idea 2
• Learn to read your child’s (often) subtle emotional expression
Toolbox Strategies
• Watch your child’s gaze and his facial expressions to get a sense of what he is thinking
• Listen for any words or sounds that open a door to a response from you
• Follow your child’s movements - anything he may be expressing, even unintentionally, provides an
opportunity to follow his “lead”
• Give meaning to everything your child does through your response!
• Catch the Moment – Use what you know about your child’s interests to keep him attentive and engaged
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
How did Dad catch the moment to keep him attentive and engaged?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did we see how Dad used emotional expression to get the “gleam in Ned’s eyes”? What did Dad do?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Which emotional signals and cues did they gave each other as they shared attention and interacted?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
How did their emotional expressions heighten their joy and connection?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
How did Mom use her emotional expression to allow Benny to work through his feelings about fighting?
Gaze? Tone of voice? Pauses? Movement?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Was Mom able to reassure Benny that it was “ok” to explore his impulse
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
How can I use these emotional cues even more to communicate with my child?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Are my cues too subtle? Do I need to be more of an “actor on the stage to convey what I mean?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
6. Emotional Expression
✔ Strategy Notes
Show you understand or share what your child
is feeling in these ways:
• Physical closeness and affectionate touch
- your position is key!
• Looks and mutual gaze
• Vocalizations and tone of voice
• Gestures and other body movements
• Display of heightened interest and
emotions
Use your emotional expression – gestures, tone
of voice, and body language - to highlight the
meaning and emotion in what you say and do...
• Pair your words with emotional
expressions to show what they mean
• Use your tone of voice and words to
provide context (“Uh-oh”)
• Use your vocalizations and body
movements to create anticipation or to
predict the next step
Observe how your emotional expression
sustains your child’s attention and engagement
with you
7. Nurture Intent
✔ Strategy Notes
Watch your child’s gaze and his facial
expressions to get a sense of what he is thinking
Listen for any words or sounds that open a door
to a response from you
Give meaning to everything your child does
through your response!
Follow your child’s movements - anything
he may be expressing, even unintentionally,
provides an opportunity to follow his “lead”
To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• Introduction to the DIR model- FCD Model
Serena Wieder, PhD
Webcast- Under Floortime
• Get Back to the Joy- Parts 1 & 2
Beth Osten, MS, OTR/L; Diane Selinger, PhD
Webcast- Under Family
• Floortime: All day long and all life long
Ruby Salazar, LCSW
Webcast- Under Family
• DIR-FCD/Floortime Model Principles of Interaction
Monica G. Osgood, Rosemary White, OTR/L
Webcast- Under Floortime
Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Webcast
Toolbox Strategies
• Nurture Intent
• Build Circles
Meanings
• Circles of communication: The back-and-forth interactions through which you and your child respond to
each other
• Opening and closing circles of communication: Starting and finishing an interaction. For instance, you
build on your child’s interest to inspire your child (opening the circle), and your child responds to what
you’ve done or said (closing the circle)
• Emotional tone: Our way of sharing meaning by using our affect cues (expressions, gestures, gaze, voice,
posture, nearness, movement)
• Your child’s intent: Your child’s thoughts about what he wants or is trying to communicate
• Playing Dumb: Pretending you don’t know what your child wants
Questions to Consider?
• Am I able to stay playful and follow my child’s interest?
• Am I finding ways to sustain my child’s engagement?
• Am I picking up on my child’s intent and building circles from it?
• Am I providing opportunities for my child to respond to me?
Toolbox Strategies
• Be present, positioned, playful
• Join your child’s interest
• Use emotional cues to woo and engage your child
• Become the “toy”
• Find opportunities for your child to respond to you in play
• Use simple actions to entice your child
• Change the play in a small way to help your child respond
• Do the unexpected - use novelty or surprise
• Play dumb
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did you notice how Mom used her voice, movements and a prop to keep the interaction going? What did
that do for the interaction?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
How did she bring JB back into the interaction when he got distracted?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
How did you know when Kyle was connected to his Mom?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did I understand and use my child’s subtle cues to build circles of interaction?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
7. Nurture Intent
✔ Strategy Notes
Make your child’s random actions purposeful
8. Build Circles
✔ Strategy Notes
Find opportunities for your child to respond to
you in play
Play dumb
Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Webcast
Toolbox Strategies
• Persist
Meanings
• Close every circle of communication: If you think your child is still interested in the play, even though he
has moved away or isn’t responding, persist in your pursuit until you get a response!
• Subtle Action: Eye gaze, slight gesture or movement towards you, a place, a toy, or a slight facial
expression
• Anxiety: Distress that children sometimes feel when they are encouraged to interact in new ways (or when
we enter their world)
Questions to Consider?
• How do I feel when my child isn’t responding to me, and what am I thinking?
• Is it me? Is it the activity?
• Is he distracted? over-excited? overwhelmed?
• Or is it simply that my child doesn’t know what to do?
• How can I persist using what I know my child likes?
• Am I OK with my child’s range of emotions in our interactions?
• Am I able to close most circles?
• Is it a lot of work?
Toolbox Strategies
• Position yourself in front of your child
• Follow your child’s interest (the activity isn’t important)
• Use your emotional expression to draw your child in
• Treat subtle cues as intentional and build on them!
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did Dana read this as “being all done” or as a rejection of the activity? How could you tell the difference?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
What strategies did she use to re-engage and keep the interaction going?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Idea 2
• Persist and use what you know to re-engage and keep the interaction going
Toolbox Strategies
• Use your child’s interests and passions
• Watch for subtle cues - is he really done?
• Stick with it! Be persistent
• Don’t give up!
• Be playful!
• Don’t change the idea or the play!
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
How did her positioning, playfulness and emotional expression help Rahul?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did it feel like a long time? What strategies was Kelly using during this time?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Idea 3
• Stay playful even when your child isn’t happy at first! “Don’t take NO for an answer!”
Toolbox Strategies
• Be accepting of your child’s range of emotions
• Don’t let your child use negative emotions to shut you out or control the play
• Stay calm, playful and positive
• Your position and facial expressions should say “You can do it!”
• Minimize your language and maximize your emotional expression!
• Use repetition to help your child anticipate what comes next and find success
Pause and Reflect Video 3- Zach and JZ Blocks, Zach accepting ideas
Did Zach initially welcome Mary into his play? What was Zach trying to do?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did Mary provide support while not accepting Zach’s protest? How?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Once Zach’s anxiety calmed down, did he enjoy the play? How could you tell?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
What would have happened if Mary had accepted “No” in the beginning?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
… to persist!
How do I feel when my child isn’t responding to me, and what am I thinking?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Is it a lot of work?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Am I staying playful?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
9. Persist
✔ Strategy Notes
Be playful!
To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• DIR-FCD/Floortime Model Principles of Interaction
Monica G. Osgood, Rosemary White, OTR/L
Webcast- Under Floortime
Goals of Webcast 9
• Now that we are engaged, let’s get the play COOKING!
• We are going to strengthen the back-and-forth circles of communication as your child becomes more
intentional in play
• With this new level of accomplishment within interactions, we may even see your child begin to show
some pride as she shares her new sense of power with you!
Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Webcast
Toolbox Strategies
• Build Circles
Meanings
• Cooking - When you’ve really got that back-and-forth rhythm going and the interaction has a life of it’s
own
• Continuous Flow of Interaction - When the two of you are having many more circles of communication
beyond just a few minutes
• Being Intentional - Your child’s ability to initiate the next step or to keep the play going. You encourage
this when you pause and provide opportunities
• Sense of Self/Power-This is the “I did it!” feeling children get when they experience the feeling of being
separate people and making things happen on their own
Questions to Consider?
• Do I really have him? Can I keep him engaged consistently now in familiar and undemanding interactions?
• Do I know how to get the “gleam” and keep it going?
• Now that I can do this, how can I provide opportunities for my child to be more purposeful and
intentional?
• How can slight expansions of the play provide my child with new opportunities for moving, thinking,
communicating?
• Does this strategy give my child the feeling of being a force on the world around him?
• If my expanding loses my child’s attention, how do I go back to basics to re-engage with him?
Toolbox Strategies
• Position yourself in front of your child
• Follow your child’s interest - the activity isn’t important
• Read your child’s cues and treat his subtle actions as intentional
• Use your emotional expressions and gestures to give meaning to your interaction
• Now expand the play - give him opportunities to initiate…to be intentional!
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
How did the repetition and Tracy’s emotional cues support this?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did Emmanuel show enough of a connection to allow Tracy to expand the play? What did this look like?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did Tracy expand just enough to allow him to reach up to the challenge or did she expand too much and
lose him? Can you give examples from the interaction?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________________
Toolbox Strategies
• Use position, affect and gestures to give meaning to your play and reinforce your child’s intent
• Go for the “gleam in the eye”!
• Repetition helps your child be more successful
• Expand circles of interaction!
• Read your child’s cues and treat her actions as intentional
• Provide opportunities for your child to initiate…be intentional!
• Expand the play in a continuous flow…keep it going as long as you can!
• Persist even if your child is avoiding you at first!
• Playfully stick with it until you get a response!
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did Lisa expand just enough to allow Mia to reach up to the challenge or did she expand too much and lose her?
How could you tell?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Idea 3
• Make it HIS Idea!!!
Toolbox Strategies
• Join in your child’s passions and interests
• Position yourself in front of your child
• Use affect and gestures to give meaning to your play and to reinforce your child’s intent
• Challenge your child to close circles of communication
• Work on a continuous flow of interaction…keep the play going!
• Expand on the play by providing choices
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
How important were position and emotional cues to keeping the flow going?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Did Dr. Ricki expand just enough to allow him to reach up to the challenge or did she expand too much and
lose him? How could you tell?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
Now that I can do this, how can I provide opportunities for my child to be more purposeful and intentional?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
How can slight expansions of the play provide my child with new opportunities for moving, thinking,
communicating?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
If my expanding loses my child’s attention, how do I go back to basics to re-engage with him?
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________________________
8. Build Circles
✔ Strategy Notes
Give him opportunities to initiate…to be
intentional!
To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• DIR-FCD/Floortime Model Principles of Interaction
Monica G. Osgood, Rosemary White, OTR/L
Webcast- Under Floortime
Ricki, Monica, Serena, Sherri, Rosemary and all your Profectum Faculty
Acknowledgements
Based on the work of
Stanley Greenspan, MD and Serena Wieder, PhD
Profectum Foundation Faculty and Staff