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Strategies to Help You Engage and

Interact with Your Child

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Dedicated to
All children, parents
and their families
May each day bring joy and shared moments
that deepen and enrich your relationship

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Table of Contents
Our heartfelt Thanks ...........................................................................................................................................pg 4

Profectum Parent Toolbox Faculty Presenters ........................................................................................ pg 5

Welcome..................................................................................................................................................................pg 8

Introduction: Webcast 1 ................................................................................................................................... pg 14

Introduction: Webcast 2 .................................................................................................................................. pg 18

Step 1...................................................................................................................................................................... pg 24

Step 1: Webcast 3 ......................................................................................................................................... pg 25

Step 1: Webcast 4 ......................................................................................................................................... pg 28

Step 1: Webcast 5 ......................................................................................................................................... pg 36

Step 1: Webcast 6 ......................................................................................................................................... pg 43

Step 1: Webcast 7 ......................................................................................................................................... pg 52

Step 1: Webcast 8 .........................................................................................................................................pg 60

Step 1: Webcast 9 ......................................................................................................................................... pg 67

Acknowledgments ............................................................................................................................................ pg 76

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Our heartfelt Thanks...
This webcast series is based on the work of

Stanley I. Greenspan, MD and Serena Wieder, PhD


And, has been made possible by a Grant from the

John & Marcia Goldman Foundation

Special appreciation to...

Celebrate the Children School and Exceptional Minds Studio


for their contributions to this series

Laura Baldwin
for her support and editorial expertise

Profectum faculty and staff

...and to each and every family who allowed us to enter their lives,
join their journey and videotape their progress and who then went
the extra mile to allow us to share these moments with you.

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FACULTY PRESENTERS

Sherri Cawn, MA, CCC-SLP


Clinical Director of Cawn-Krantz and Associates Developmental Therapies
Sherri Cawn,M.A.,CCC-SLP, clinical director of Cawn-Krantz and Associates
Developmental Therapies ( with locations in Chicago and Northbrook,Il) , has over 40
years of clinical pediatric experience specializing in the assessment and treatment of
infants, toddlers, and school-age children. She is a leading practitioner of the DIR/
Floortime® model in speech and language development and conducts trainings other
professionals throughout the US and overseas on the concepts of this model.

Sherri is the author of the self study DVD/Manual on the Assessment and Intervention
of DIR/Floortime produced by the American Speech and Hearing Association in 2011
and the self study DVD on the Assessment/Intervention of Developmental Language(2013). In addition, she is
a co-author of Language Disorders chapter in the Diagnostic Manual for Infancy and Early Childhood.

Sherri is a senior faculty member of the ICDL DIR FT; the Profectum(DIR/FT) Academy Online Training
Program and adjunct faculty at the Erikson Institute. She received her graduate and undergraduate degrees
from the University of Illinois.

Monica G. Osgood
Executive Director
Celebrate the Children’s founder, Monica G. Osgood, is an experienced behavioral
consultant and therapist who specializes in using developmental approaches to support
children with autism and other differences in relating and communicating. She is also
Founder and Director of the Developmental Center for Children and Families and
Executive Director and a founding member of the Profectum Foundation. Monica
has worked in homes, therapy centers, and private and public school settings for over
20 years. Some of her experience has included assessment and the development of
intervention programs, curriculum and IEP development, and parent and professional
training.

In 1998 Monica created the first public school program with the Developmental Individual Relationship-based
(DIR model) approach as the core philosophy. In 2000 she was the first educator to join the Senior Faculty
of the Interdisciplinary Council on Development and Learning(ICDL) to provide interdisciplinary training in
the DIR Model. During her time with ICDL Monica served as Faculty for all of their yearly training institutes,
spoke at many of their conferences and had the opportunity to work closely and collaborate with Drs.
Greenspan and Wieder to further develop the DIR Model in school settings. In 2004, she collaborated with
Lauren Blaszak to open a state-approved, DIR Model school for children ages 3-21 in Denville New Jersey now
serving over 70 school districts and 130 families.

Additional accomplishments include many speaking engagements at conferences and participation in


television, radio and newspaper interviews across the USA, Wales, Ireland and Amsterdam. Monica has
appeared on Welsh Channel 4 and BBC1 documentaries, sharing the DIR model approach with British parents
and professionals. Monica and the Celebrate the Children school were featured in a TIME Magazine cover
story in May of 2006. She serves on the Advisory Board for 3LPlace and the National Advisory Council for
The Centers for Exceptional Children. Monica also serves on the Economic Development Advisory Council
and the Sustainable Economic Development Plan Steering Committee for her local Town Council. Finally, she
collaborated with twice Grammy nominated children’s artists Dan Myers and Brady Rymer on an album and
music video celebrating diversity in children with all abilities released April 2011.

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Ricki G. Robinson, M.D., M.P.H.
Ricki Robinson, M.D., M.P.H. is co-director of Descanso Medical Center for Development
and Learning in La Canada, California and a Clinical Professor of Pediatrics at the Keck
School Medicine of USC. She has been in private pediatric practice for nearly forty
years, specializing in children with autism and developmental delays for over twenty-
five years.

Dr. Robinson received her M.D. degree in 1973 from the University of Southern
California. She trained in pediatrics at Childrens Hospital Los Angeles, having served as
Chief Pediatric Resident for CHLA in 1976. She is Board Certified in Pediatrics. In 1988
she received her MPH from the University at Berkeley School of Public Health.

She has been actively involved in the field of autism since 1990, developing multidisciplinary educational
and medical programs for children with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) and devoting endless hours in
education, legislation and research efforts on a national level. Dr. Robinson has been at the forefront of
leading grassroots Autism organizations. She was a founding board member of Cure Autism Now (now
Autism Speaks), The Floortime Foundation, and Profectum Foundation. She also co-chaired the annual
ICDL Conferences (Interdisciplinary Council on Developmental and Learning Disorders) and since 2013
has co-chaired the Profectum International Conference in Pasadena CA. She was a member of the Autism
Speaks Scientific Review Panel for over eight years. Dr. Robinson organized and chaired the first nationally
recognized task force to define the standard of care for clinical trials in autism. The results of this outstanding
effort were published in CNS Spectrums (January 2004, Vol. 9, #1).

“Dr. Ricki” (as her patients fondly call her) brings her extensive experience to Profectum Foundation serving
as Medical Director and devoting her efforts to providing multi-disciplinary education and training for
parents, families and professionals working with individuals with ASD and other developmental delays across
the lifespan.

A nationally sought-after expert, she has appeared on the Today Show, The Talk, Larry King Live and Good
Morning America Health in support of the needs of children and families with Autism Spectrum Disorders.
She is an internationally recognized speaker addressing the needs of children with autism and other
developmental delays to parent, professional and lay audiences worldwide for the past two decades. She is
also the author of the acclaimed book Autism Solutions – How to Create a Healthy and Meaningful Life for
Your Child (see www.DrRickiRobinson.com).

Rosemary White, OTR


Occupational Therapist
Rosemary White has been an Occupational Therapist since 1972 and brings a wealth of
clinical experience to every workshop she teaches throughout the United States and
internationally in Canada, Europe, South Africa, Uganda and Australia. Rosemary is a
true clinician’s clinician! Rosemary received her Neurodevelopmental Therapy training in
London with the Bobaths, her Sensory Integrative Therapy training in Los Angeles with
Dr. A Jean Ayres and her training in the DIR/Floortime model with Stanley Greenspan
and Serena Wieder, Ph.D. and the Faculty of ICDL. She currently owns and operates
Pediatric Physical and Occupational Therapy Services in Seattle, Washington. Rosemary
has her Certificate in the DIR model and has been Senior Faculty on the Interdisciplinary Council on
Developmental and Learning Disabilities (ICDL) chaired by Stanley Greenspan, M.D. and Serena Wieder, Ph.D.,
since 2002. Rosemary is on the Clinical Faculty at the University of Washington in the School of Nursing
Infant Mental Health Certificate Program. Rosemary is also Faculty in the ICDL Graduate School in the Ph.D.
in Infant and Early Childhood Mental Health and Developmental Disorders. This is an on-line Ph.D. program
providing education to professionals throughout the world. Rosemary is also Profectum Foundation Faculty.

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Serena Wieder, PhD
Clinical Psychology
Dr. Serena Wieder is the Clinical Director, Profectum and Founder and past Associate
Chair, of the Interdisciplinary Council on Developmental and Learning Disorders (ICDL).
She founded and directed the DIR model Institute, a case based competency training
program for multidisciplinary professionals, from 1999-2010. Dr. Wieder also serves on
the Board of Zero to Three – the National Center for Infants, Toddlers and Families.

Currently she conducts a clinical and consulting practice in New York for infants,
children, adolescent and adults with complex developmental and mental health
challenges. Programs she consults to include the New York Center for Child
Development; Celebrate the Children; Treatment and Learning Center, Rockville, MD; Imagine Academy;
the former Bridges Program at Texas Children’s Hospital, Houston, TX and other clinical and educational
programs in the United States and abroad.

Dr. Wieder conducts national and international training on the DIR/Floortime model. She served on the
faculties of the Infant-Parent Study Center, the ICDL Graduate School and has just joined the faculty of the
Adelphi University Parent Child Institute. She also serves on the Scientific Advisory Boards of First Signs. Her
research has focused on diagnostic Classification and the long term follow up of children treated with the DIR
model. In addition to serving on the editorial boards of the Journal of Developmental Processes and the ICDL
Journal.

Dr. Wieder publishes numerous articles on the DIR model, diagnostic classification, emotional and symbolic
development and training. She also co-authored Engaging Autism, The Child with Special Needs, and Infant
and Early Childhood Mental Health, with Stanley Greenspan, Visual/Spatial Portals to Thinking, Feeling and
Movement with Harry Wachs, OD; co-chaired the ICDL Diagnostic Manual for Infants and Young Children and
the first edition of the Zero to Three Diagnostic Classification of Mental Health and Developmental Disorders
of Infancy.

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Welcome to the Profectum Parent Toolbox™ (PPT) Workbook! The goal of the
PPT is to encourage and empower you to build a strong relationship with your
child while fostering his or her development. The PPT will guide you in your
discovery of your child’s unique sensory and motor differences that are the
foundation of how he or she experiences the world and ultimately interacts
with you. With a new understanding of your child’s individual strengths and
challenges the PPT will help you match Profectum Toolbox Strategies to your
child’s needs to support his or her engaging, playing and interacting, thinking
and communicating with you. Your Profectum Parent Toolbox™ authors have
been working together collaboratively for 20+ years and this program is a
culmination of their experiences with families they would like to share with you!

The PPT Workbook complements the PPT “How to” webcast series. It is designed
to enhance your experience by allowing you to record your observations, thoughts
and new knowledge throughout the program. In our PPT each webcast presents
simple ideas and strategies to support your child’s engagement, thinking and
communicating with you. Video demonstrations within the webcasts will show
how these strategies can be used during everyday interactions and play. As you
view the webcasts you will have the opportunity to use the Toolbox strategies
demonstrated in the videos. As you determine what works and what doesn’t
you will be designing your own Personal Toolbox in the workbook filled with
ideas and strategies to support your relationship with your child.

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4 Steps
There are 4 steps in the Profectum Parent Toolbox™. Steps 1 and 2 introduce all key
strategies for interaction - one or two at a time. In Steps 3 and 4 all the strategies
are used together to help you keep your interactions going!

16 Key PPT Strategies


Throughout the series 16 Key PPT Strategies help you support your child’s relating,
communicating, thinking and creativity. These strategies are presented sequentially,
one or two at a time. You will see several strategies noted at the beginning of each
webcast following the goals of the webcast.

Your Profectum Parent Toolbox™ Strategies


1. Set the Stage
2. Be Present and Flexible
3. Position
4. Follow Your Child’s Interest
5. Go for the Gleam
6. Emotional Expression
7. Nurture Intent
8. Build Circles
9. Persist
10. Tailor to Individual Differences
11. Match Rhythm and Timing
12. Enhance Non- Verbal Communication
13. Extend Circles
14. Use Glitches
15. Encourage Problem Solving
16. Nurture Ideas

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Icons
Each Webcast has a similar format and has a corresponding page identified in
the Workbook. Each PPT Workbook page is designed to match the content
and order of each Webcast. Whether you decide to download and print the
Workbook page or answer directly online you can let our Icons LEAD the way
and keep you oriented as you are watching the Webcast itself. The same Icons
will be used in the Workbook to help you follow along and document your
insights. The Icons are fully described in Webcast 2.

We encourage you to stop the webcasts as you watch and jot down notes,
especially as you think about questions presented for you to consider and/or
think about after video demonstrations are shown. Many ways to implement
each of the strategies are demonstrated so you can try different approaches
to determine what works best for your child. Some strategies will help, some
may not.

To get the most out of the PPT don’t forget to record your own observations and check off which
strategies work best to support and encourage your interactions with your child both at the end of
each Webcast and again in Your Personal Toolbox.

Your Personal Toolbox


Your Personal Toolbox has two components:
1. Your Master Strategy List of what works and what doesn’t to support your child’s engaging,
interacting, thinking and creating (Appendix 1)
2. Your child’s Individual Profile (Appendix 2)

Your Master Strategy List is the document that allows you to record what
strategies work best for you and your child. In Steps 1-4 you will have the
opportunity to record the strategies that work as you build your personal Toolbox.
As you view the webcasts moving through each Step your favorite Toolbox Master
Strategy list will grow.

In Step 2 of the PPT you will determine your child’s sensory and motor differences that
might be influencing his or her experience and understanding of the world, and ultimately
interactions and play with you. This information will build your child’s Individual Profile
that will further guide you in how best to nurture interactions. Specifically, you will learn
additional Toolbox strategies that help you support his or her unique sensory and motor
strengths and challenges. By the end of Step 2 you will have completed your child’s Individual Profile
that will give you a deeper understanding of how to think about and use your Toolbox strategies as
you continue through Steps 3 and 4.

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Together your Master Strategy List and child’s Individual Profile make up your Personal Toolbox
tailored to your child providing you the roadmap for building a strong relationship with your child
while fostering his or her development.

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How  to  use  this  resource:  
Start  by  creating  your  very  own  P rofectum  P arent  Toolbox™  account  

Go  to  the  website  www.profectum.org  


Don’t  have  a  website  account  yet?  
Click  on  “NEW  PARENT?"  
Follow  the  prompts  to  create  an  account  
You’ll  be  taken  to  the  PPT  Introduction  page  

Already  have  a  website  account?  


•   Click  o n  “RETURNING  P ARENT"
OR  if  you  are  logged  in  
•   Click  on  the  menu  option  “Parent  Toolbox”  at  the  top  of  the  page.  

You  may  decide  to  print  out  this  workbook  or  use  it  on  your  computer  
•   From  wherever  you  are,  you  can  click  on  the  workbooks  for  each  step  in  the  
“Downloads”  section  at  the  bottom  of  the  page.  
•   Click  on  the  workbook  you  want  to  view,  a  PDF  file  will  open.  
•   To  print:  Click  on  the  print  option  or  icon  
•   To  use  on  your  computer:  Click  on  the  file  and  the  workbook  will  download.  Find  
and  open  the  downloaded  file.  
You  m ay  also  decide  to  print  out  each  W ebcast  P owerPoint  as  an  extra  reference,  but  remember  that  m ost  
of  the  information  in  the  PowerPoints  is  already  organized  in  the  workbooks  for  you.  
•   Click  on  the  link  below  the  w ebcast  
•   Click  on  print  or  download  to  print  or  download  the  file  to  your  computer  
Finally,  you  m ay  also  choose  to  c reate  y our  P ersonal  Toolbox  (Toolbox  Strategy  Summary  and  Individual  
Profile)  online  or  p rint  it  o ut  to  fill  in  as  you  go.  W hen  you  are  done  w ith  this  program,  you  w ill  w ant  to  s hare  
copies  of  your  child’s  P ersonal  Toolbox  w ith  family  and  team  m embers.  
•   In  the  “Downloads”  section,  click  on  the  “Toolbox  Strategy  S ummary”  or  “Individual  P rofile  
Form”.  
•   Click  on  print  or  download  to  print  or  download  the  file  to  your  computer.  
You  m ay  w ant  to  v iew  the  W ebcasts  individually,  as  a  family  and/or  together  w ith  team  m embers.  We  also  
suggest  you  share  the  resource  and  your  insights  w ith  other  clinicians  and  educators.  

Clinicians  a nd  E ducators  can  use  the  P PT  as  complimentary  “homework”  lessons  for  parents  to  support  
and  advance  parent  and  child  interactions.   In  addition,  this  series  can  also  be  an  added  training  tool  for  
professionals  w orking  w ith  families  in  the  community,  schools  and  clinics.  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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Now it’s your turn to get started!
Set up your play area and find the time. Prepare to tape your interactions. Review your tapes, perhaps
including family/team members. Remember that every door that confronts you presents a new opportunity.
Sometimes you can learn more when things don’t go as planned. Just try your best and observe what
happens! As you gain confidence continue to practice, practice, practice! Over time these Toolbox
strategies will become so natural they will happen automatically!

The main idea is this:


Keep your RELATIONSHIP central to your interactions. It’s all about the interaction! Experiment to find
what works and what doesn’t. Remember that when it comes to strategies, there is no “right” or “wrong”.
We can always learn from each interaction, wherever it takes us!

All of us at Profectum, especially the Profectum faculty, hope that the Profectum Parent Toolbox webcast
series will help you capture the “gleam” in your child’s eyes when connecting and interacting! We know that
you will be encouraged and inspired as you help your child reach his or her full potential!

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Profectum Parent Toolbox
Program at a Glance
INTRODUCTION
1. Introduction to the Toolbox
2. Nuts and Bolts-How to use this Toolbox

21. Introduction to ‘Build


29. Introduction to ‘Practice,
3. Introduction to ‘Become 10. Introduction to ‘Discover  and Extend Circles of
 Practice, Practice! Keep
your child’s play partner’  Individual Differences’  Interaction Moment to
 Interactions Flowing’
 Moment’
11. Explore Sensory 22. Tailor Your Interactions 30. Extend the
4. Be present...Be together Preferences and  to Engage Your Child’s  Conversation with
Challenges  Attention  Shared Problem Solving
5. Tune into my child’s 12. Explore Your Child’s 23. How Big? How Loud?
31. Discover Pretend Play
interests  Sensory Responsivity  How Close
6. The magic of emotional
13. Touch... The First Sense!! 24. Moment to Moment 32. Expand Pretend Play
expression
25. Give Movements 33. Pretend Play with
14. Explore Using Sound to
7. Build first circles  meaning Through  Adolescents (and Young
 Nurture Engagement
 Emotional Expression  Adults)

34. Interact All Day Long:


15. Discover your Child’s
8. Persist 26. Regulate Emotions  Daily Routines Set the
 “Visual Box” Of Attention
 Stage

35. Playing Outside with


9. Now that we’re 16. Movement: The Body In 27. Engaged, Happy and  Your Child and Family:
connected...Let’s expand!  Motion  Flexible!!!  Feeling, Moving and
 Relating
36. Profectum Parent
17. Ideas Become Plans, 28. Let’s Solve This  Toolbox Review and
 Then Actions  Problem- Together  Inspiration from Parents
 Like You
18. The Dance of Play...
 Tapping Into Your Child’s
 Rhythm and Timing
19. “Talking” Starts with
 Gestures
20. Putting it All Together

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Webcast 1
Strategies to Help You Engage and
Interact with Your Child
Serena Wieder, PhD

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Welcome to the Profectum Parent Toolbox
Webcast Series!
It is with great pleasure that I welcome you to this exceptional series of webcasts to help you
understand how your child learns and interacts with you and the surrounding world!

This Series is for you if…


• You want to learn more ways to interact and have fun with your child
• You want to feel more engaged and related to your child who is at risk for developmental challenges, to
interact and play with him or her better and to bring your family closer

Your child has developmental challenges such as


• Autism
• Sensory processing concerns
• Attention deficit
• Motor, language, health, or emotional and mental health challenges and….
• You want to engage, relate and communicate more with him/her

We can help!
• In recent years science has gained a better understanding of the factors that contribute to developmental
challenges in some children
• Based on this understanding, we at Profectum and others have devised intervention strategies to help
these children, and now we want to share them with you!
• We also know all children are unique, with different ways of taking things in and relating to others and their
environments
• We will address these differences as we work together to build your child’s unique profile through our
Profectum Parent Toolbox webcast series

Let’s start!
Developmental milestones don’t hold all the answers...
• Over the years in our work with children, we realized we had to start thinking of the various categories of
development…
• Sensory
• Motor
• Cognitive
• Emotional
... as parts of a whole, and to identify the function that they serve together

• We grew to really appreciate that each person is unique and functions in his/her own way
• We realized more than ever that we do not develop alone but within human relationships that help us feel
secure and ready to learn

So, we reimagined development as an interactive process

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What is Development?
Take a moment to think of how you function every day, using all your individual capacities:

* Keeping calm and self-disciplined so you can pay attention


* Staying engaged and related, no matter how you feel
* Being communicative and engaging in back-and-forth conversations
* Solving problems, on your own and with others
* Using common sense day in and day out
* Being imaginative and creating ideas and images that elevate your thoughts into abstract thinking

These are lifelong functions for all of us. This is development!


* Development isn’t something that can be taught like guitar or swimming
* It comes through experience and interactions
* Development builds on what you know and go on to discover through joy of learning

The Developmental Ladder


* The Profectum Parent Toolbox series of webcasts will help you learn to interact with your child in ways
that will help him or her climb the “developmental ladder”
* As you respond to your child’s individual differences your interactions will create the texture of a unique
relationship between you and your child, a relationship in which your child will grow and thrive

Play isn’t automatic!


* Interaction and play must be learned
* We’re bringing you these webcasts to provide strategies for you to interact better and play better with
your child, so your child can reach his/her potential
* These strategies will consider the unique characteristics of your child and how to ensure he/she
understands and communicates with you
* Over the course of this series, you will learn to tap into your child’s strengths through play, movement,
games, fantasy and everyday tasks and functions
* Remember: It’s not about right or wrong...it’s development!

Thank you for joining us!


We don’t know the plot of our children’s lives ahead of time, but we can provide the foundation for them to
learn and enjoy the gift of your relationship to support them

This will be a journey of discovery with your child. Like all journeys there will be twists and turns. Just
remember development happens over a lifetime

So let’s get started together!

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Part 2 of this Introduction will describe how this series is organized and
how to use the accompanying Workbook to reflect on how you play with
your child

To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• Welcome to Profectum’s Parent Education Program
Serena Wieder, PhD, Gilbert Foley, Ed D, Cindy Harrison, MScReg, CASLPO, Rosemary White, OTR/L
Webcast- Under Introduction
• Introduction to the DIR - FCD Model
Serena Wieder, PhD
Webcast- Under Floortime
• Getting Back to the Joy- Parts 1 & 2
Beth Osten, MS, OTR/L; Diane Selinger, PhD
Webcast- Under Family

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Webcast 2
Strategies to Help You Engage and
Interact with Your Child
Using the Webcasts
The “Nuts and Bolts”
Ricki G. Robinson, MD MPH

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Goals of this Webcast
• In this webcast you will learn how to use the Profectum Parent Toolbox (PPT) webcast series to help you
engage and interact with your child
• You will get an idea of the organization of each webcast and how you can apply what you learn to your
own child and your own situation
• You will also learn how to record your observations and progress in your interactive PPT Workbook

Let’s explore how YOU can use the PPT to…


• Learn strategies to help you and your child interact
• Watch videos that show families learning these strategies
• Help you practice using these strategies
• Develop your own personalized Toolbox filled with ideas and strategies for you to use as you play and
interact with your child

Profectum Parent Toolbox: The Four Steps


The webcast series is divided into four “Steps”
• Step 1: Become Your Child’s Play Partner
• Step 2: Discover Individual Differences
• Step 3: Build and Extend Circles of Interaction Moment to
Moment
• Step 4: Practice, Practice, Practice! - Keep Your Interactions
“Flowing”

The Four Steps


• Each Step consists of 8 to 11 webcasts
• Each webcast is about 30 minutes long
• Steps 1 and 2 - Introduce all key strategies for interaction
• In Steps 3 and 4 you’ll learn how to use all the strategies together to keep your interactions going!

Profectum Parent Toolbox Webcasts


• These webcasts are hands-on -“how to” sessions
• Each webcast presents simple ideas and strategies to support play and interactions with your child
• Video demonstrations within the webcasts will show you how these strategies can be used during play
• Presenters will guide you through the videos to reflect on what works and what doesn’t
• When you watch the videos and practice with your child, you will then have the opportunity to record your
observations in the PPT Workbook

Webcast Format
• Each webcast follows a similar format
• He, she and he/she (he or she) are used during presentations to refer to your child
• Icons - will help you know where you are in each presentation
• Each webcast has a corresponding page identified in the Workbook
• Icons will also be used in the Workbook to help you follow along and document your insights

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Webcast Format: ICONS
Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Chapter

Webcast Goals...
• These slides introduce the main goals of each webcast
• Will orient you as to what’s coming next in the webcast

Meanings…
• Here important terms used in each webcast are explained. You can find the same terms in the Workbook
glossary

Questions to Consider…
• These questions are presented twice in each webcast:
• Once to start you thinking about how you can use the ideas in that webcast and
• Again near the end of the webcast so you can review what you’ve learned

Idea…
• Each webcast contains two or three key ideas to help you and your child…
• Engage
• Connect
• Mobilize
• Expand play and interactions
...all related to the theme of that webcast

Toolbox Strategies...
• The strategies presented during each webcast are the tools you will take away from the presentations that
help support your interactions
• You’ll find these strategies presented again in the Strategy Summary in the Workbook

• There are 16 strategy categories:


1. Set the Stage 9. Persist
2. Be Present and Flexible 10. Tailor to Individual Differences
3. Position 11. Match Rhythm and Timing
4. Follow Your Child’s Interest 12. Enhance Non- Verbal Communication
5. Go for the Gleam 13. Extend Circles
6. Emotional Expression 14. Use Glitches
7. Nurture Intent 15. Encourage Problem Solving
8. Build Circles 16. Nurture Ideas

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Your Personal Toolbox
• We’ll show you many ways to implement each of the strategies so that you can select the best approach
for your child
• Some strategies will help, some may not. You will note those that work for you in the Strategy Summary in
your Workbook
• As you go through the entire webcast series you will build your own personalized Toolbox of preferred
strategies that best supports your child

Record Your Child’s Individual Differences…


Step 2 Individual Profile...
• This icon is your cue to fill out the Individual Profile pages in the Workbook
• Use these profiles to record what you’ve learned about your own child’s sensory and motor preferences
and challenges and the strategies that support his/her interactions

+
Together these provide your roadmap for engaging and interacting with
your child that is tailored to your child’s individual differences

Video…
• Short videos included in the webcasts show children interacting with parent(s), teachers, aides and
clinicians in various settings (home, clinic, school, outside)
• The videos demonstrate how each strategy can be used
• The videos present a range of ages, but the strategies demonstrated will apply to all ages and abilities

Pause and Reflect Video...


• A chance to stop and think about the video you’ve just seen. Key questions will guide your thinking
• You may wish to stop the webcast and rewind to view the video again
• This is also a good time to record your thoughts in your Workbook
• The presenter will review the video with you during the webcast

It’s Your Turn…


• Your cue to try the strategies out with your child!

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Workbook…
• An opportunity for you to record your experiences with your child
• You have the option to either download forms or use them online

When It’s Not Working…


• More suggestions to consider when you’re having difficulty using strategies

Summary of Strategies…
• A checklist of the strategies you’ll find in each webcast and the corresponding portion of the Workbook.
You can personalize them in the Strategy Summary for your child/family and share them

Learn More!
• More Profectum resources on the webcast topic

Watching and Learning from the PPT Webcasts!


• You can view the webcasts on your computer, tablet or mobile device
• It’s best to view the webcasts from the beginning and then watch them in the order in which they’re
presented
• Use the Webcast Menu to select your webcast. You may decide to watch more than one webcast in a
sitting
• Watch alone, or watch with your family or team, or even as you interact with your child starting and
stopping as necessary
• Use the webcasts as a reference to return to again and again as your child progresses

Putting the Strategies into Practice


• Set up your play area and find the time
• Prepare to tape your interactions
• Review your tapes, perhaps including family/team members
• Remember that every door that confronts you presents a new opportunity. Sometimes you can learn more
when things don’t go as planned. Just try your best and observe what happens!
• Practice, practice, practice!
• If you wish to hear from the real experts - parents like you who who have used the Toolbox strategies
shown in these webcasts who have experienced challenges, but have kept practicing with their child and
have achieved meaningful interactions
• We suggest you view Webcast 37 to be inspired and encouraged by their stories and insights!

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Now it’s your turn to get started!
The main idea is this:
• Keep your RELATIONSHIP central to your interactions. It’s all about the interaction!
• Experiment to find what works and what doesn’t. Remember that when it comes to strategies, there is no
“right” or “wrong”
• We can always learn from each interaction, wherever it takes us

Most of all…
We hope the Profectum Parent Toolbox webcast series
will help you capture the “gleam” in your child’s eyes when
connecting and interacting!

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Webcasts 3-9

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Step 1: Webcast 3
Become Your Child’s Play Partner:
Explore ways to mobilize attention,
engagement and circles of interaction
Ricki G. Robinson, MD MPH

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Webcast 3
Become Your Child’s Play Partner: Explore ways to mobilize attention,
engagement and circles of interaction

Goals of Step One


• Discover yourself as a player
• Tune into your child’s interests
• Learn to use and read emotional expressions to connect and engage with your child
• Feel enabled to help your child
• Capture your child’s attention and engagement
• Explore building circles of interaction
• Stay tuned in, pursue and persist
• Experience the joy of your relationship

Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Chapter

Meanings
• Profectum Parent Toolbox Strategies: Ways to support your child’s development through emotionally-
based interactions that build Attention, Engagement, Back-and-forth circles, Problem-solving, Thinking
and Creativity

Step 1 Toolbox Strategies


• Set the Stage
• Be Present and Flexible
• Position
• Follow Your Child’s Interest
• Go for the Gleam
• Emotional Expression
• Nurture Intent
• Build Circles
• Persist

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Step 1 Webcast Overview

4. Being Present… Being Together


• Set the stage for play
• Learn to be playful and in the moment
• Use the power of position

5. Tuning Into My Child’s Interests!


• Discover and Join your child in his interests to go for the “gleam”

6. The Magic of Emotional Expression


• Learn to use and read emotional cues to engage with your child

7. Building First Circles


• Practice engaging in back- and- forth interactions based on your child’s
interests

8. Persist!
• Learn to re- engage even when your child appears aimless, becomes
distracted or protests

9. Now that we’re connected, Let’s Expand!


• Support your child to become more intentional and to experience pride in
his new accomplishments

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Step 1: Webcast 4
Get your play cooking in Step 1

Be Present… Be Together
Serena Wieder, PHD

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Webcast 4
Be Present… Be Together
Goals of Webcast 4
• Discover yourself as a player
• Discover your child in his play
• Learn to be present when you play
• Discover the best position for interactions
• Feel enabled to help your child
• Experience the intimacy of your relationship
• Explore ways to set up for play

Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Webcast

Webcast 4 Toolbox Strategies


• Set the Stage
• Be Present and Flexible
• Position

Meanings
• Discover your child: Learn what your child’s interests and behaviors mean to him
• Discover yourself: Reflect on your feelings while playing with your child not only when it “works” but also
when it doesn’t
• Shared Attention: Your child’s ability to stay calm and focused with you when interacting

Questions to Consider?
• What do I need to learn about my child?
• What gets in my way of being present?
• worries, guilt, anxiety, fear, anger?
• How long will this take?
• How do I set priorities?
• Who will help?
• What is the best play space for us?
• What position best captures my child’s attention?

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Idea 1
• Let’s set the stage for play!

Toolbox Strategies
• Get started today – it’s never too late!
• Select the best times to be one-on-one with your child
• Set up an area that helps your child attend and be responsive
• Try different settings for different kinds of play
• Place items that may interest your child throughout the play area
• Find the best position to capture your child’s attention
• Consider recording a video to review later

Pause and Reflect Video 1- Peek A Boo


Did it seem like they were in a good location for interacting? Why or why not?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did you see and hear the “magic” of “peek-a-boo”? When?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

What was interesting to the baby? Handkerchief? Mom?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did Mom and baby stay engaged for so long?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

At what point in the interaction did you feel the joy between Mom and the baby?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Idea 2
• Be present for your child, physically and emotionally… and enjoy!

Toolbox Strategies
• Select times you can set aside everything else (no phones, texting, magazines, etc.)
• Relax - there is no wrong way to play with your child
• Be playful … Connect with your own “inner child” - remember what you enjoyed
• Pay attention to your feelings
• Don’t teach – Let your child explore and discover
• Keep focused on the interaction
• Be confident - this grows as you connect!
• Convey confidence in your child – “You can do this. You are amazing. Now I understand you.”
• Find joyful moments you can share
• Relationships Matter- Feel Connected - Feel close

Pause and Reflect Video 2- Peter Hats


Were both parents “present for their child” in this interaction? Can you give examples?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did they seem relaxed? How could you tell?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did Peter respond to Mom and Dad?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did Peter’s response energize his parents?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Were his parents teaching or being playful with Peter? What is the difference?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Though he could not be vocal, how does Peter show his excitement?

_____________________________________________________________________________________

_____________________________________________________________________________________

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Idea 3
Find the best position to hold your child’s attention

Toolbox Strategies
• Get down on the floor
• Position yourself in front of your child, so the two of you can easily see each other
• Join in and enjoy what your child loves to do
• Follow your child’s interest - the activity isn’t important
• Match your child’s level of play
• Monitor your attention to one another
• Get in touch with how you feel as you play

Pause and Reflect Video 3- Graham Connection


What role did position play in allowing Graham and his Dad to re-discover their relationship?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did the element of surprise create the connection between Graham and his father?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did the joyful interaction enhance the relationship?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Now it’s Your Turn


… To know yourself and be close to your child

What do I need to learn about my child?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

What gets in my way of being present?


• worries, guilt, anxiety, fear, anger?
__________________________________________________________________________________________

____________________________________________________________________________________

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How long will this take?
__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How do I set priorities?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Who will help?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

What is my most important role?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

What is the best play space for us?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

What position best captures my child’s attention?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

When It’s Not Working?


Do I need to step back and observe?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Is the play area/environment too distracting?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Could something else be distracting (for example, “Is my child hungry or tired”)?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I in the right position and right frame of mind to hold my child’s attention?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

____________________________________________________________________________________

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Am I too worried and not present?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I trying to “teach” or “direct” too much rather than allowing myself to simply enjoy the engagement?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Is the interaction joyful? If not, what else can I try?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Summary of Strategies for Be Present… Be Together


What strategies worked best for my child and I to expand the play?

See Appendix 1 for even more tools to implement Strategies 1, 2 & 3

1. Set the Stage

✔ Strategy Notes
Get started today… it’s never too late!

Select the best times to be one-on-one with


your child
Set up an area that helps your child attend and
be responsive

Try different settings for different kinds of play

Place items that may interest your child


throughout the play area
Be playful… connect with your own”inner child”-
remember what you enjoyed

Consider recording a video to review later

2. Be Present and Flexible

✔ Strategy Notes
Select times you can set aside everything else
(no phones, texting, magazines, etc.)
Relax- there is no wrong way to play with your
child

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Join in and enjoy what your child loves to do

Follow your child’s interest - the activity isn’t


important

Match your child’s level of play

Pay attention to your feelings

Don’t teach – Let your child explore and


discover

Keep focused on the interaction

Be confident - this grows as you connect!

Convey confidence in your child – “You can do


this. You are amazing. Now I understand you.”

Find joyful moments you can share

Relationships Matter- Feel Connected - Feel


close

Monitor your attention to one another

Get in touch with how you feel as you play

3. Position

✔ Strategy Notes
Find the best position to capture your child’s
attention

Get down on the floor

Position yourself in front of your child, so the


two of you can easily see each other

To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• Get Back to the Joy- Parts 1 & 2
Beth Osten, MS, OTR/L; Diane Selinger, PhD
Webcast- Under Family
• Introduction to the DIR model- FCD Model
Serena Wieder, PhD
Webcast- Under Floortime
• Floortime: All day long and all life long
Ruby Salazar, LCSW
Webcast- Under Family

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Step 1: Webcast 5
Tune in to My Child’s Interests!
Sherri Cawn, MA, CCC-SLP

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Webcast 5
Tune in to My Child’s Interests!
Goals of Webcast 5
• Learn how to tune into your child’s interests
• Discover how using these interests help you connect with your child in play

Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Webcast

Webcast 5 Toolbox Strategies


• Follow Your Child’s Interest
• Go for the Gleam

Meanings
• Following your child’s “lead”: Being sensitive to where your child’s interest takes him, so you can join in the
play.
• “Gleam in the Eye”: A look and feeling of shared pleasure, emotion or excitement.

Questions to Consider?
• What is my child most interested in?
• Do I join my child?
• Do I follow my child’s interests or do I change the play?
• Do I feel the joy when my child connects with me in play?
• Does my child get that “gleam in the eye”?

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Idea 1
• Explore and discover what interests your child

Toolbox Strategies
• Observe your child - What is it she likes to do?
• Don’t worry about the activity - This is your child’s interest not yours!!
• Begin the interaction: Go where your child goes
• Find the best position to share your child’s interest
• Be present and be playful!
• Read subtle cues
• Treat everything your child does as intentional and make it purposeful
• Take that first step and join your child in what she is doing

Pause and Reflect Video 1- Nate Dad Footsies


Did you notice what interests Nathan had? What were these interests?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did Dad know that Nathan likes this game?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

At one point Dad was going to change the interaction - Do you remember what the clinician said to him?
What did the clinician say?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did you notice how Dad followed Nathan’s interest? What did Dad do?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did he use his body, voice or words? Why is this important?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Idea 2
Go for the “Gleam”!

Toolbox Strategies
• Use the toys your child “loves” - or be the “toy” yourself
• Help your child do what she wants to do
• Stick with your child’s interest
* If your child is motivated...don’t change the activity

Pause and Reflect Video 2- Mark Mom Hats


Did you see the gleam in the eye in Mom and Mark? When?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did Mom follow that interest?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did Mark’s emotional expression let her know that he wanted her to go on? How?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did Mark share his interest with his mom- a smile, a gesture, words?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Pause and Reflect Video 3- Dad Tyler ball big-small


In the beginning was Dad successful in tuning in to his son’s interests? Why or why not?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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How did he get the gleam in his eye?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

What happened when he didn’t stick to his child’s interests?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did he get the interaction going again?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

… to explore and join your child’s interests!


What is my child most interested in?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Do I join my child?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Do I follow my child’s interests or do I change the play?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Do I feel the joy when my child connects with me in play?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Does my child get that “gleam in the eye”?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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When It’s Not Working?
When my child doesn’t seem interested in anything, is there something subtle I’m missing that could be a
clue (such as movement patterns)?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I trying to find my child’s interests in a range of activities and environments?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I really putting my own agenda aside and following my child’s lead? Or am I trying to change the play?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Summary of Strategies for Tune into My Child’s Interests!


What strategies worked best for my child and I to expand the play?

4. Follow Your Child’s Interest


✔ Strategy Notes
Observe your child - What is it she likes to do?

Don’t worry about the activity - This is your


child’s interest not yours!!

Begin the interaction: Go where your child goes

Take that first step and join your child in what


she is doing

Help your child do what she wants to do

Stick with your child’s interest

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5. Go for the Gleam
✔ Strategy Notes
Use the toys your child “loves” - or be the “toy”
yourself
If your child is motivated...don’t change the
activity

Review/ Other Strategies


✔ Strategy Notes
Find the best position to share your child’s
interest

Be present and be playful!

Read subtle cues

Treat everything your child does as intentional


and make it purposeful

To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• Introduction to the DIR model- FCD Model
Serena Wieder, PhD
Webcast- Under Floortime
• Get Back to the Joy- Parts 1 & 2
Beth Osten, MS, OTR/L; Diane Selinger, PhD
Webcast- Under Family
• Floortime: All day long and all life long
Ruby Salazar, LCSW
Webcast- Under Family
• DIR-FCD/Floortime Model Principles of Interaction
Monica G. Osgood, Rosemary White, OTR/L
Webcast- Under Floortime

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Step 1: Webcast 6
The Magic of Emotional Expression
Attend, Engage & Relate
Serena Wieder, PhD

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Webcast 6
The Magic of Emotional Expression
Attend, Engage & Relate

Goals of Webcast 6
• Discover how to use your emotional expressions to attract your child’s attention and keep him engaged
• Learn to “read” your child’s subtle emotional cues
• Explore the joy of mutual emotional connection

Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Webcast

Toolbox Strategies
• Emotional Expression
• Nurture Intent

Meanings
• Interaction: The back-and-forth actions, gestures and words that people communicate with
• Emotional Expression (affect): Expression of emotions in various ways, including mutual gaze, facial
expressions, vocalizations and tone of voice, and coordinated head, hand and other body movements.
• Emotional Cues (affect cues): Hints or gestures you use - such as “uh, oh” or “uh uh uh”; smiles, frowns,
opening your arms, waving your finger - to alert your child to your feelings of pleasure, anticipation,
approval, pride, etc.
• Connecting through emotional cues (affect cues): Stirring another’s emotions to experience the ties that
build relationships.
• Engagement: The feelings of warmth, trust, and intimacy gained through positive experiences and kept
going even through negative emotions.
• Relating: Using awareness of emotions to engage and stay connected and interactive.

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Questions to Consider?
• How am I using my eyes, facial expressions, tone of voice, and movements to interact with my child?
• How can I use these emotional cues even more to communicate with my child?
• Can I “read” my child’s emotional cues - even the subtle ones?
• Do I need to pay more attention to these so I can respond appropriately?
• When I do, what happens to my child’s attention and engagement?

Idea 1
• Explore using your emotional expression to engage with your child

Toolbox Strategies
• Show you understand or share what your child is feeling in these ways:
• Physical closeness and affectionate touch - your position is key!
• Looks and mutual gaze
• Vocalizations and tone of voice
• Gestures and other body movements
• Display of heightened interest and emotions
• Use your emotional expression – gestures, tone of voice, and body language - to highlight the meaning and
emotion in what you say and do...
• Pair your words with emotional expressions to show what they mean
• Use your tone of voice and words to provide context (“Uh-oh”)
• Use your vocalizations and body movements to create anticipation or to predict the next step
• Observe how your emotional expression sustains your child’s attention and engagement with you

Pause and Reflect Video 1- Blake coming for kisses


What emotional expressions did Benny’s mother use in this vignette?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Facial expressions?

___________________________________________________________________________________

___________________________________________________________________________________

Tone of her voice?

___________________________________________________________________________________

___________________________________________________________________________________

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Her gaze?

___________________________________________________________________________________

___________________________________________________________________________________

Movements?

___________________________________________________________________________________

___________________________________________________________________________________

Did these emotional cues help Benny stay focused on Mom? How?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did they prolong his engagement with her? How could you tell?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

What might have happened if Mom hadn’t used these cues?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Idea 2
• Learn to read your child’s (often) subtle emotional expression

Toolbox Strategies
• Watch your child’s gaze and his facial expressions to get a sense of what he is thinking
• Listen for any words or sounds that open a door to a response from you
• Follow your child’s movements - anything he may be expressing, even unintentionally, provides an
opportunity to follow his “lead”
• Give meaning to everything your child does through your response!
• Catch the Moment – Use what you know about your child’s interests to keep him attentive and engaged

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Pause and Reflect Video 2- Noah Train and Book
How did Mom and Dad use Ned’s emotional expression to get a sense of what he was thinking?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did Dad use Ned’s interests to playfully engage?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did Dad catch the moment to keep him attentive and engaged?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did we see how Dad used emotional expression to get the “gleam in Ned’s eyes”? What did Dad do?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Pause and Reflect Video 3- Noah 2nd Session- Bus


Was there a difference in their interaction? If so, why?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Which emotional signals and cues did they gave each other as they shared attention and interacted?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did their emotional expressions heighten their joy and connection?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Pause and Reflect Video 4- 2BG First Fight
Did mom stay in the moment with Benny letting him act out his interest? If so, how did mom support Benny?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did Mom use her emotional expression to allow Benny to work through his feelings about fighting?
Gaze? Tone of voice? Pauses? Movement?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Was Mom able to reassure Benny that it was “ok” to explore his impulse

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

… to discover the magic of emotional expressions!


How am I using my eyes, facial expressions, tone of voice, and movements to interact with my child?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How can I use these emotional cues even more to communicate with my child?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Can I “read” my child’s emotional cues - even the subtle ones?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Do I need to pay more attention to these so I can respond appropriately?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

When I do, what happens to my child’s attention and engagement?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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When It’s Not Working?
Am I missing some of my child’s subtle emotional displays? Would more observation help?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I giving clear cues to my child?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Do I need to get back in touch with my own playfulness?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Have I given myself time to experiment with different emotional cues?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I overwhelming my child with too many cues?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Should I relax some?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Are my cues too subtle? Do I need to be more of an “actor on the stage to convey what I mean?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Summary of Strategies for The Magic of Emotional Expression
What strategies worked best for my child and I to expand the play?

6. Emotional Expression
✔ Strategy Notes
Show you understand or share what your child
is feeling in these ways:
• Physical closeness and affectionate touch
- your position is key!
• Looks and mutual gaze
• Vocalizations and tone of voice
• Gestures and other body movements
• Display of heightened interest and
emotions
Use your emotional expression – gestures, tone
of voice, and body language - to highlight the
meaning and emotion in what you say and do...
• Pair your words with emotional
expressions to show what they mean
• Use your tone of voice and words to
provide context (“Uh-oh”)
• Use your vocalizations and body
movements to create anticipation or to
predict the next step
Observe how your emotional expression
sustains your child’s attention and engagement
with you

7. Nurture Intent
✔ Strategy Notes
Watch your child’s gaze and his facial
expressions to get a sense of what he is thinking
Listen for any words or sounds that open a door
to a response from you
Give meaning to everything your child does
through your response!
Follow your child’s movements - anything
he may be expressing, even unintentionally,
provides an opportunity to follow his “lead”

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Review / Other Strategies
✔ Strategy Notes
Catch the Moment – Use what you know about
your child’s interests to keep him attentive and
engaged

To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• Introduction to the DIR model- FCD Model
Serena Wieder, PhD
Webcast- Under Floortime
• Get Back to the Joy- Parts 1 & 2
Beth Osten, MS, OTR/L; Diane Selinger, PhD
Webcast- Under Family
• Floortime: All day long and all life long
Ruby Salazar, LCSW
Webcast- Under Family
• DIR-FCD/Floortime Model Principles of Interaction
Monica G. Osgood, Rosemary White, OTR/L
Webcast- Under Floortime

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Step 1: Webcast 7
Build First Circles
Sherri Cawn, MA, CCC-SLP

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Webcast 7
Build First Circles
Goals of Webcast 7
• Learn to open and close circles of interaction with your child
• Explore using your child’s interests and your emotional expression (affect display and cues) to keep the
interaction going
• Support your child’s intent through play

Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Webcast

Toolbox Strategies
• Nurture Intent
• Build Circles

Meanings
• Circles of communication: The back-and-forth interactions through which you and your child respond to
each other
• Opening and closing circles of communication: Starting and finishing an interaction. For instance, you
build on your child’s interest to inspire your child (opening the circle), and your child responds to what
you’ve done or said (closing the circle)
• Emotional tone: Our way of sharing meaning by using our affect cues (expressions, gestures, gaze, voice,
posture, nearness, movement)
• Your child’s intent: Your child’s thoughts about what he wants or is trying to communicate
• Playing Dumb: Pretending you don’t know what your child wants

Questions to Consider?
• Am I able to stay playful and follow my child’s interest?
• Am I finding ways to sustain my child’s engagement?
• Am I picking up on my child’s intent and building circles from it?
• Am I providing opportunities for my child to respond to me?

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Idea 1
• Let’s open and close circles of communication

Toolbox Strategies
• Be present, positioned, playful
• Join your child’s interest
• Use emotional cues to woo and engage your child
• Become the “toy”
• Find opportunities for your child to respond to you in play
• Use simple actions to entice your child
• Change the play in a small way to help your child respond
• Do the unexpected - use novelty or surprise
• Play dumb

Pause and Reflect Video 1- JB Scarf


How did Mom use her body to help the interaction continue?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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How did JB convey that he was having fun?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Did you notice how Mom used her voice, movements and a prop to keep the interaction going? What did
that do for the interaction?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did she bring JB back into the interaction when he got distracted?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Toolbox Strategies
• Respond to your child’s actions
• Make your child’s random actions purposeful
• Follow your child’s eyes, small gestures or vocalizations
• Help your child do what she wants to do
• Go for the Gleam in the Eye!

Pause and Reflect Video 2-Ryan Balloon


How did Dana try to get Ryan to interact with her?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Was Ryan able to open and close circles of communication? How?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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How did Dana persist in keeping the interaction going?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did you know when Ryan was connected to Dana?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Pause and Reflect Video 3-Kyle mom laughing bubbles


How did Mom try to get Kyle to interact with her?

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Was Kyle able to open and close circles of communication? How?

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How did Mom persist in keeping the interaction going?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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How did you know when Kyle was connected to his Mom?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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… to open and close circles with your child


Am I able to stay playful and follow my child’s interest?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I finding ways to sustain my child’s engagement?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I picking up on my child’s intent and building circles from it?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I providing opportunities for my child to respond to me?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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When It’s Not Working?
Did I wait long enough for my child to respond to me?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I talking too much?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Am I moving too fast?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Am I using my emotional display and gestural cues to support engagement?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did I understand and use my child’s subtle cues to build circles of interaction?

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Did I really follow up on my child’s interests?

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Summary of Strategies for Build First Circles
What strategies worked best for my child and I to expand the play?

7. Nurture Intent
✔ Strategy Notes
Make your child’s random actions purposeful

Follow your child’s eyes, small gestures or


vocalizations

Help your child do what she wants to do

8. Build Circles
✔ Strategy Notes
Find opportunities for your child to respond to
you in play

Use simple actions to entice your child

Change the play in a small way to help your


child respond

Do the unexpected - use novelty or surprise

Play dumb

Respond to your child’s actions

Review/ Other Strategies


✔ Strategy Notes
Be present, positioned, playful

Join your child’s interest

Use emotional cues to woo and engage your


child

Become the “toy”

Go for the Gleam in the Eye!

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To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• DIR-FCD/Floortime Model Principles of Interaction
Monica G. Osgood, Rosemary White, OTR/L
Webcast- Under Floortime
• Functional Emotional Developmental Levels (FEDL’S) Part 1 Early Levels (1-4)
Lisa deFaria, LCSW, Griff Doyle, PhD, Monica G. Osgood
Webcast- Under Floortime
• Where to begin? How Language Develops and How to Decide Where to Start with your Child?
Sima Gerber, PhD, CCC– SLP
Webcast- Under Intervention

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Step 1: Webcast 8
Persist
Monica G. Osgood

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Webcast 8
Persist
Goals of Webcast 8
• Understand that if your child disengages from you, it doesn’t always mean that she doesn’t want to interact
• Learn to re-engage your child to keep the interaction going
• Become comfortable with a wider range of emotions in play

Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Webcast

Toolbox Strategies
• Persist

Meanings
• Close every circle of communication: If you think your child is still interested in the play, even though he
has moved away or isn’t responding, persist in your pursuit until you get a response!
• Subtle Action: Eye gaze, slight gesture or movement towards you, a place, a toy, or a slight facial
expression
• Anxiety: Distress that children sometimes feel when they are encouraged to interact in new ways (or when
we enter their world)

Questions to Consider?
• How do I feel when my child isn’t responding to me, and what am I thinking?
• Is it me? Is it the activity?
• Is he distracted? over-excited? overwhelmed?
• Or is it simply that my child doesn’t know what to do?
• How can I persist using what I know my child likes?
• Am I OK with my child’s range of emotions in our interactions?
• Am I able to close most circles?
• Is it a lot of work?

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Idea 1
• When your child disengages from you, it doesn’t always mean he doesn’t want to play!

Toolbox Strategies
• Position yourself in front of your child
• Follow your child’s interest (the activity isn’t important)
• Use your emotional expression to draw your child in
• Treat subtle cues as intentional and build on them!

Pause and Reflect Video 1- Ryan and Dana Balloon Persist


Why do you think Ryan moved away from the interaction?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did Dana read this as “being all done” or as a rejection of the activity? How could you tell the difference?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

What strategies did she use to re-engage and keep the interaction going?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Idea 2
• Persist and use what you know to re-engage and keep the interaction going

Toolbox Strategies
• Use your child’s interests and passions
• Watch for subtle cues - is he really done?
• Stick with it! Be persistent
• Don’t give up!
• Be playful!
• Don’t change the idea or the play!

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Pause and Reflect Video 2- Rahul toss hard to engage
How did Kelly know to keep trying?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did her positioning, playfulness and emotional expression help Rahul?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did it feel like a long time? What strategies was Kelly using during this time?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did Kelly’s patience and persistence pay off ? Why?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Idea 3
• Stay playful even when your child isn’t happy at first! “Don’t take NO for an answer!”

Toolbox Strategies
• Be accepting of your child’s range of emotions
• Don’t let your child use negative emotions to shut you out or control the play
• Stay calm, playful and positive
• Your position and facial expressions should say “You can do it!”
• Minimize your language and maximize your emotional expression!
• Use repetition to help your child anticipate what comes next and find success

Pause and Reflect Video 3- Zach and JZ Blocks, Zach accepting ideas
Did Zach initially welcome Mary into his play? What was Zach trying to do?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did Mary provide support while not accepting Zach’s protest? How?

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How did the repetition of the activity help Zach calm down and anticipate what would come next?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Once Zach’s anxiety calmed down, did he enjoy the play? How could you tell?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

What would have happened if Mary had accepted “No” in the beginning?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

… to persist!
How do I feel when my child isn’t responding to me, and what am I thinking?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Is it me? Is it the activity?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Is he distracted? over-excited? overwhelmed?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Or is it simply that my child doesn’t know what to do?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How can I persist using what I know my child likes?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Am I OK with my child’s range of emotions in our interactions?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I able to close most circles?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Is it a lot of work?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

When It’s Not Working?


Do I need to check my anxiety?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I getting into position?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I staying playful?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I sticking to what is motivating for my child, even if he doesn’t seem interested?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I being respectfully persistent?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Summary of Strategies for Persist
What strategies worked best for my child and I to expand the play?

9. Persist
✔ Strategy Notes
Be playful!

Don’t change the idea or the play!

Be accepting of your child’s range of emotions


• Don’t let your child use negative emotions
to shut you out or control the play
Stay calm, playful and positive
• Your position and facial expressions should
say “You can do it!”
Use repetition to help your child anticipate what
comes next and find success

Review/ Other Strategies


✔ Strategy Notes
Position yourself in front of your child

Follow your child’s interest (the activity isn’t


important)
Use your emotional expression to draw your
child in
Treat subtle cues as intentional and build on
them!

Use your child's interests and passions

Watch for subtle cues - is he really done?

Minimize your language and maximize your


emotional expression!

To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• DIR-FCD/Floortime Model Principles of Interaction
Monica G. Osgood, Rosemary White, OTR/L
Webcast- Under Floortime

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Step 1: Webcast 9
Now That We’re Connected…
Let’s Expand!
Monica G. Osgood

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Webcast 9
Now That We’re Connected… Let’s Expand!

Goals of Webcast 9
• Now that we are engaged, let’s get the play COOKING!
• We are going to strengthen the back-and-forth circles of communication as your child becomes more
intentional in play
• With this new level of accomplishment within interactions, we may even see your child begin to show
some pride as she shares her new sense of power with you!

Link to Powerpoint
Link to Printable Version of this Webcast

Toolbox Strategies
• Build Circles

Meanings
• Cooking - When you’ve really got that back-and-forth rhythm going and the interaction has a life of it’s
own
• Continuous Flow of Interaction - When the two of you are having many more circles of communication
beyond just a few minutes
• Being Intentional - Your child’s ability to initiate the next step or to keep the play going. You encourage
this when you pause and provide opportunities
• Sense of Self/Power-This is the “I did it!” feeling children get when they experience the feeling of being
separate people and making things happen on their own

Questions to Consider?
• Do I really have him? Can I keep him engaged consistently now in familiar and undemanding interactions?
• Do I know how to get the “gleam” and keep it going?
• Now that I can do this, how can I provide opportunities for my child to be more purposeful and
intentional?
• How can slight expansions of the play provide my child with new opportunities for moving, thinking,
communicating?
• Does this strategy give my child the feeling of being a force on the world around him?
• If my expanding loses my child’s attention, how do I go back to basics to re-engage with him?

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Idea 1
• We’re cooking in play - now try expanding just a little!

Toolbox Strategies
• Position yourself in front of your child
• Follow your child’s interest - the activity isn’t important
• Read your child’s cues and treat his subtle actions as intentional
• Use your emotional expressions and gestures to give meaning to your interaction
• Now expand the play - give him opportunities to initiate…to be intentional!

Pause and Reflect Video 2- Emanuel Ball


Was Emmanuel engaged in the interaction? How could you tell?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Was he expressing his intentions? What was he trying to communicate?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did the repetition and Tracy’s emotional cues support this?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did Tracy encourage him to show what he wanted?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did Emmanuel show enough of a connection to allow Tracy to expand the play? What did this look like?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did Tracy expand just enough to allow him to reach up to the challenge or did she expand too much and
lose him? Can you give examples from the interaction?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did she find the “Sweet Spot”? How do you know?

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Idea 2
• Find the Sweet Spot!
• As I stretched out the interaction, was my child an equal contributor, or did I do too much?

Toolbox Strategies
• Use position, affect and gestures to give meaning to your play and reinforce your child’s intent
• Go for the “gleam in the eye”!
• Repetition helps your child be more successful
• Expand circles of interaction!
• Read your child’s cues and treat her actions as intentional
• Provide opportunities for your child to initiate…be intentional!
• Expand the play in a continuous flow…keep it going as long as you can!
• Persist even if your child is avoiding you at first!
• Playfully stick with it until you get a response!

Pause and Reflect Video 3- Mia Bubbles Expand


Why was she so engaged?
Position, motivation, sensations, affect, relationship...?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Was Mia expressing her intentions? How?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did the repetition, affect and fun support this?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How did Lisa encourage her ideas? Persistence?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

“The MAGIC happens when they do to you!!!”

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When did Mia show enough of a connection and enjoyment to allow Lisa to expand the play and persist with
new ideas (such as “Where do you want the bubbles?”)?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did Lisa expand just enough to allow Mia to reach up to the challenge or did she expand too much and lose her?
How could you tell?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Was that the “Sweet Spot”?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Idea 3
• Make it HIS Idea!!!

Toolbox Strategies
• Join in your child’s passions and interests
• Position yourself in front of your child
• Use affect and gestures to give meaning to your play and to reinforce your child’s intent
• Challenge your child to close circles of communication
• Work on a continuous flow of interaction…keep the play going!
• Expand on the play by providing choices

Pause and Reflect Video 4- Graham


How did following his interest in trucks allow us to challenge him to expand the play?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How important were position and emotional cues to keeping the flow going?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How were circles opened? Closed?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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What strategies were used?

___________________________________________________________________________________

___________________________________________________________________________________

When do you feel he hit the “sweet spot”?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did Dr. Ricki expand just enough to allow him to reach up to the challenge or did she expand too much and
lose him? How could you tell?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

When or how do you think she could have lost him?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

… to expand the play with your child!


Do I really have him? Can I keep him engaged consistently now in familiar and undemanding interactions?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Do I know how to get the “gleam” and keep it going?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Now that I can do this, how can I provide opportunities for my child to be more purposeful and intentional?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How can slight expansions of the play provide my child with new opportunities for moving, thinking,
communicating?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Does this strategy give my child the feeling of being a force on the world around him?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

If my expanding loses my child’s attention, how do I go back to basics to re-engage with him?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

When It’s Not Working?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I expanding too quickly?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Did I change the play too much?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Is the interaction still meaningful and motivating?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I persisting and helping my child reach up to this new level of interaction?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

Am I using all the basic strategies?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

__________________________________________________________________________________________

How am I re-engaging before going back to expanding?

__________________________________________________________________________________________

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Summary of Strategies for Now That We’re Connected… Let’s Expand!
What strategies worked best for my child and I to expand the play?

8. Build Circles
✔ Strategy Notes
Give him opportunities to initiate…to be
intentional!

Expand circles of interaction!

Expand the play in a continuous flow…keep it


going as long as you can!
Challenge your child to close circles of
communication
Work on a continuous flow of interaction…keep
the play going!

Expand on the play by providing choices

Review / Other Strategies


✔ Strategy Notes
Position yourself in front of your child

Follow your child’s interest - the activity isn’t


important
Read your child’s cues and treat his subtle
actions as intentional
Use your emotional expressions and gestures to
give meaning to your interaction
Use position, affect and gestures to give
meaning to your play and reinforce your child’s
intent

Go for the “gleam in the eye”!

Repetition helps your child be more successful

Read your child’s cues and treat her actions as


intentional
Provide opportunities for your child to initiate…
be intentional!

Persist even if your child is avoiding you at first!

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Playfully stick with it until you get a response!

Join in your child’s passions and interests

Use affect and gestures to give meaning to your


play and to reinforce your child’s intent

To Learn More…
https://profectum.org/training-programs/parent-educational-program-2/
• DIR-FCD/Floortime Model Principles of Interaction
Monica G. Osgood, Rosemary White, OTR/L
Webcast- Under Floortime

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Congratulations!
You have made it to the end of Step 1! We hope you enjoyed the time you spent with us and that our Toolbox
strategies enriched many special moments with your child. We would also like to sincerely thank you for
embarking on, and sharing this important journey with us. Now it’s time to move onto Step 2 and continue
up the ladder of development with your child! We’ll be right there with you!

Ricki, Monica, Serena, Sherri, Rosemary and all your Profectum Faculty

Acknowledgements
Based on the work of
Stanley Greenspan, MD and Serena Wieder, PhD
Profectum Foundation Faculty and Staff

Written by Music Icon Animators


Ricki G. Robinson MD, MPH, Medical Director from the album Steven Asidilla • Annie Leffe
Monica G. Osgood, Executive Director Love Me for Who I am Liam McClure • Michael Shiu
Sherri Cawn, MA, CCC-SLP, Senior Faculty Songs Celebrating Children of All Abilities
Serena Wieder, PhD, Clinical Director Step 1: “Bein’ with You” 3D Modeling, Rendering & Animation
Rosemary White, OTR/L, Senior Faculty Step 2: “Squish Me, Squeeze Me” Randi Derakhshani, Instructor
Step 3: “So Many Ideas” Jessica Jerome, Instructor
Produced by Step 4: “Love Me for Who I Am”
Ricki G. Robinson MD, MPH, Medical Director Written and Performed by Brady Rymer Celebrate the Children School Faculty
Monica G. Osgood, Executive Director Courtesy of Bumblin’ Bee Records Monica G. Osgood,
www.bradyrymer.com Executive Director/Co-Founder
Directed by Immy Moustafa, MS, OTR/L
Ricki G. Robinson MD, MPH, Medical Director Professional Consultants Michele Parkins, MS, OTR
Monica G. Osgood, Executive Director Michele Parkins, MS, OTR Danielle Dieckmann, PT, DPT
Lucy Miller, PhD, OTR/L and the STAR Center Lisa Bruno, OTD, OTR;
John & Marcia Goldman Foundation Related Service Coordinator
for generous grant support Janean Mancini, Teacher
Exceptional Minds
Editorial Supervisor Tiffany Martino, Teacher
Editorial Team
Making Words Work/Martin Townsend Jon Clark, Instructor Karen McDowell, BA, Lead Teacher
Carole Swemline Laura Baldwin, Lead Paraprofessional
Editorial Leads Demond Lloyd, L3 Paraprofessional
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Laura Robinson, Instructor Aretha Hurt, L3 Paraprofessional
Celebrate the Children
Eddie Sotomayor, Instructor Antoinette Price, L3 Paraprofessional
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Editors
Technology Team Lisa Hodgins, L2 Paraprofessional
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Celebrate the Children Ernie Merlan, Program Director Dedicated to each and every family
who allowed us to enter their lives, join
Icon Animation Supervisor their journey, videotape their progress
Josh Dagg, Instructor and then went the extra mile to allow
us to share these moments with you
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