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Cross-Cultural Comparison
How Social Networks Frame Intergenerational
Relations Between Mothers and Grandmothers
in Japan, Korea, China, Indonesia, Israel,
Germany, and Turkey
Bernhard Nauck
Jana Suckow
Chemnitz University of Technology, Germany
Authors’ Note: This article is related to the research project “Values of Children in Six
Cultures. A Replication and Extension of the ‘Values of Children-Studies’ Concerning
Generative Behavior and Parent–Child Relationships” funded by the German Research
Council (principal investigators: Bernhard Nauck, Chemnitz University of Technology, and
Gisela Trommsdorff, University of Konstanz). This analysis builds on previously published
results (Nauck & Suckow, 2002). Please send correspondence regarding this article to Jana
Suckow; e-mail: jana.suckow@phil.tu-chemnitz.de.
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Korea, Indonesia, and Turkey than in cultures with (bilinear) affinal kinship
systems such as Israel and Germany. Moreover, intergenerational relations
are expected to show a greater multiplexity in cultures with descent kinship
systems.
It is still unclear whether the organization of intergenerational relation-
ships has an influence on the perceived quality of the relation. We cannot
judge whether societies with an affinal kinship system have a lower perceived
quality of intergenerational relations, which are often replaced by the conju-
gal relation, than societies with a descent kinship system, in which the prior-
ity is on intergenerational relations. And we still do not know if the perceived
quality only depends on the emotional exchange relations or if instrumental
help is of importance. In this article, we examine whether there is an interac-
tion between the sociocultural context and the importance of instrumental
help for the perceived quality of the relation. If the risks of life are mainly
covered by intergenerational relations, instrumental help should have a
greater importance for perceived quality than in those societies with an insti-
tutional covering. Finally, it is to be tested whether there is a connection
between the quality of the relation and the direction of instrumental and emo-
tional exchange relations (i.e., whether the respondents mainly give help or
get help and whether this is connected to the institutionalization of the “flow
of wealth” between the generations).
Table 1 provides an overview of the different institutional rules within
the societies in the study and their effects on intergenerational relationships.
Conjugal relations in Israel and Germany are assumed to be prior to inter-
generational relations and a bilinear lineage is practiced in those two soci-
eties, whereas in the other cases, a patrilinear descent kinship regime is
institutionalized.
Of special importance is the relative degree of intimization and social exclu-
sivity of the conjugal family (i.e., how far intrafamilial processes are subject to
social control and intervention by the family of origin, kinship, and neighbor-
hood residents). It is typical of descent kinship systems that the family of ori-
gin influences mate selection. A high rate of arranged and institutional
mediated marriages is reported for Japan, China, and Turkey (Kagitcibasi &
Ataca, 2005; Kagitcibasi, Ataca, & Diri, 2005; Nauck, 2002; Nauck & Klaus,
2005; Trommsdorff, 1997; Yi & Hsiung, 1997; Zheng, Shi, & Tang, 2005). The
possibility of increasing status (among women) through parenthood is greater
in societies with strict descent kinship systems than in affinal kinship systems
such as Israel (Suckow, 2005) or Germany (Klein & Nauck, 2005). Finally,
societies vary according to the availability of institutional alternatives for
covering the risks of life such as illness, unemployment, and catastrophes, but
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especially old age. Germany and Israel are welfare states, and in Japan, life
risks are widely covered by private insurance. In the other societies, however,
life risks are covered by strong family and kinship ties, especially through inter-
generational relationships. Thus, in these societies, such relationships acquire
great importance not only because of their socioemotional qualities but because
of their irreplaceable instrumental qualities as well. Even the intergenerational
wealth flow is influenced by this—it is ascending when intergenerational rela-
tionships are responsible for covering the risks of life (Caldwell, 1982). The
opportunity costs of intergenerational relations are closely related to whether
mothers can and/or must participate in the paid labor force (Becker, 1991).
Opportunity costs are low if household production is optimized by a gender-
specific complementary allocation of tasks, whereby mothers specialize on
extrafamiliar tasks. If the employment of mothers is closely connected to
intrafamilial tasks, such as in agrarian or craft production, opportunity costs are
low as well. The greater the separation between family and employment, and
the greater the optimization of household production by de-differentiation of
tasks, the greater are opportunity and transaction costs of intergenerational rela-
tionships. On average, those costs are higher in Germany and Israel than in the
other societies, but it seems that there is a perceived polarization of society into
family and nonfamily sectors only in Germany (among the cases investigated).
In Germany, the proportion of women who have never had children is much
higher (Strohmeier & Huinink, 2003; Strohmeier & Schulze, 1995).
Sociostructural Indicators in
Cross-Cultural Comparison
Table 2
Sociostructural Indicators
China Japan Korea Indonesia Turkey Israel Germany
lower in Indonesia and Turkey than in the other societies. Finally, total fertil-
ity rates are listed in an interval of 30 years. They show that within one inter-
val, which indicates the difference in age of the examined mothers and
grandmothers, total fertility rates decreased in Turkey (by about 3.7 births),
China (about 3), and Korea and Indonesia (about 2.5). In Japan and Germany,
the fertility level was low already in 1970 but has continued to go down. It is
interesting to note that these developments cannot be fully explained by mod-
ernization theories—Israel, for instance, shows the highest fertility rate but the
highest rate of urban population.
For describing the persons named in the network generator, we use sex
and relation to the respondent. Of all 2,945 named persons, 1,490 are of the
mothers’ generation and 1,455 of the grandmothers’. They are identified in
varying functional connections. The descriptive findings make use of mea-
sures common in ego-centered network analyses (Bien, 2000).
The relationships of the respondent to the named network members are
used to quantify the number and proportion of kinship members within the
ego-centered network. In regard to kinship relations, we differentiate
between sons and daughters of the grandmother’s generation on one hand
and mothers and mothers-in-law and fathers and fathers-in-law of the
mother’s generation on the other hand.
Possible expressive activities with the named persons specifically include
“talking about important personal matters,” “having meals together,” “keeping
up a close emotional relationship,” and “spending leisure time together.” As
examples of instrumental activities, we used “giving help in everyday activi-
ties,” “getting help in everyday activities,” “talking about children’s upbring-
ing” (mothers), and “discussing problems with daughter” (grandmothers).
Multiplexity of relations occurs when expressive and instrumental activ-
ities are practiced under the following conditions: The contact frequency
must be high (at least once a week), the network member should live close
to the respondent (in the immediate neighborhood at the farthest), and the
network member should have a kinship relation with the respondent.
Having a kinship relation increases the probability of having relations to
other named persons. High multiplexity is highly correlated to social
homogamy and social control. Low multiplexity is an indicator for weak
ties; or in other words, low redundancy in social relations is connected with
higher strategic scope in social context and higher efficiency in gaining
information (Granovetter, 1973).
This type of network analysis is distinct from analyses of formal relations,
which focus on rules of descendence, residence, and inheritance, or on con-
trol rights, which are commonly found in classical ethnology and social
anthropology. Moreover, the instrument of network analysis allows an explo-
ration of how intergenerational relations vary according to the sociocultural
context and the institutional kinship system. An empirically open question is
the extent to which actual generational relations follow generally inferred
rules of behavior governing specific life events. The terms matrilinearity or
patrilinearity are used when female or male kinship lineages dominate, as
measured by the frequency of contact, the direction of exchanged goods, and
the actual preference in residential proximity to members of the female (or
male) kinship system.
Results
Table 3
Sample Characteristics and Living Arrangements
of Dyads of Grandmothers and Young Mothers
China Japan Korea Indonesia Turkey Israel Germany
(N = 31) (N = 33) (N = 30) (N = 40) (N = 30) (N = 30) (N = 55) Eta
Average age
G 59.1 62.6 61.5 52.7 53.8 54.3 55.7 .49
M 31.5 34.4 33.1 28.0 28.0 28.9 30.1 .51
Average years
of schooling
G 9.5 11.5 5.9 7.9 5.3 16.7 9.9 .68
M 14.4 14.5 13.4 13.0 9.7 16.6 12.6 .49
Number of
siblings
G 4.8 5.7 4.4 5.7 5.2 3.8 3.3 .37
M 2.5 2.4 4.7 6.1 3.1 3.5 2.4 .68
Dwells with
children (%)
G 81 55 67 93 53 70 16 .53
Dwells with parents
and/or parents
in law (%)
M 68 36 27 40 7 3 0 .52
Reciprocity of Help
Furthermore, the descent organization of kinship systems also finds
expression in the expectations of mothers and daughters regarding giving
and receiving help. The results concerning daughters are reported (expecta-
tions to sons are similar and vary in the same way between society and gen-
eration). An index was created using eight different kinds of expectations
(Figure 1). Instrumental expectations toward one’s own offspring are low-
est in Germany and Israel, and in these countries also, the anticipated
expectations of young mothers are higher than the real expectations of
grandmothers. The opposite is the case in societies with high instrumental
intergenerative expectations. In China, Indonesia, and Korea, instrumental
expectations are higher within the generation of grandmothers than of
young mothers. A high co-orientation regarding expectations exists among
mothers and grandmothers in Japan and Turkey, where the intensity of
expectations takes on a middle-range value.
An index of reciprocity of exchanged help among grandmothers and
mothers is intended to measure the predominant direction of given help.
Because the reported statements are for both mothers and grandmothers,
differences in perception were accounted for and one index for both gener-
ations was derived (Figure 2). Daughters in China, Korea, and Indonesia
feel more obligated to their mothers. In Israel, Turkey, Germany, and Japan,
mothers feel more obligated to their daughters, and the intergenerative
transfer of services accordingly favors the young mothers in these coun-
tries. Expected and actual intergenerative help show intercultural differ-
ences. In societies characterized by affinal kinship systems, instrumental
intergenerative expectations are low, and the younger generation receives
help more often than the older generation. Societies with descent kinship
systems vary by the degree of expected help. In societies such as Japan and
Turkey, grandmothers give more than they get, and their own help expecta-
tions are comparatively low. In contrast, daughters are highly obligated to
Figure 1
Expected Help From an Adult Daughter (Index)
0
China Japan Korea Indonesia Turkey Israel Germany
Figure 2
Reciprocity of Given Help and Emotional Exchange
1.5
1
0.5
0
−0.5
−1
−1.5
−2
−2.5
−3
China Japan Korea Indonesia Turkey Israel Germany
Note: The value of the index is 0 if both generations give help to the same extent to one
another. The index takes on a value greater than 0 to the extent that the grandmothers receive
more help from the mothers than they give. If the mothers are in advantage, the index takes on
negative values.
Table 4
Network Characteristics of Grandmothers and Young Mothers
China Japan Korea Indonesia Turkey Israel Germany Eta
Average
network size
G 7.6 5.0 4.6 6.1 6.0 6.5 5.5 .29
M 7.4 5.5 5.4 4.9 5.3 6.4 6.8 .34
Average
multiplexity
of network
G 2.36 2.29 2.37 2.98 2.65 2.48 2.32 .20
M 2.90 2.53 2.40 2.62 2.75 2.82 2.37 .33
Proportion of
kinship in the
network (%)
G 88 74 74 91 85 76 83 .29
M 74 75 77 95 91 100 77 .46
Proportion of
named
daughters/sons (%)
G 93/88 63/45 55/35 69/48 88/74 75/68 87/63 .36/.35
Proportion of named
mothers/fathers (%)
M 100/81 79/9 63/23 83/38 83/40 87/60 87/45 .26/.41
Proportion of named
mothers/fathers-
in-law (%)
M 13/9 33/18 40/10 15/2 20/6 43/10 21/13 .25/.10
surprising (Bien & Marbach, 1991; Nauck & Kohlmann, 1999). This ten-
dency is high in Indonesia and low in Japan and Korea.
In identifying networks, the proportion of daughters and sons named by
grandmothers (within the group of all of the grandmothers’ daughters and
sons) and, likewise, the proportion of parents or parents-in-law identified by
the daughters provide insight into the question of how important intergener-
ative relationships are within the networks of grandmothers and mothers,
respectively.
Some empirical regularity can be found. First, grandmothers do not tend
to identify all of their own children as part of their individual networks. This
indicates a selective perception of intergenerational relations on the part of
grandmothers. Second, in every case, grandmothers identify daughters in
greater proportion to their sons. Comparatively high proportions of sons are
Figure 3
Expressivity of Network Relations
Expressivity (grandmothers)
China
Korea
Japan
Indonesia
Turkey
Israel
Germany
0 50 100
with husband with daughter
Expressivity (mothers)
China
Korea
Japan
Indonesia
Turkey
Israel
Germany
0 50 100
Figure 4
Instrumentality of Network Relations
Instrumentality (grandmothers)
China
Korea
Japan
Indonesia
Turkey
Israel
Germany
0 50 100
with husband with daughter
Instrumentality (mothers)
China
Korea
Japan
Indonesia
Turkey
Israel
Germany
0 50 100
with husband with mother
Germany, mothers and grandmothers also mostly get help from their husbands,
but they give help in most cases to their own daughter or mother, respectively.
Respondents in both countries report that the older generation gives more help
to the younger generation. In descent kinship systems, more help is given
between the generations than within the conjugal relation, with the exception
that Chinese and Korean grandmothers report receiving more help from their
husbands than from their daughters. However, even in these societies, the
younger generation receives more help than the older generation (i.e., network
relationships are asymmetric in favor of the younger generation).
The greatest differences are to be seen in the extent of given help (Figures 5
and 6). In Israel, 3% of grandmothers report getting help from their daughters,
and 8% of mothers report giving help to the older generation. In Germany,
16% of grandmothers report receiving help from their daughters, whereas
27% of mothers report giving help. This discrepancy in the help that grand-
mothers report to receive and the help that mothers report to give is evident in
all participating societies (Japan: 25% and 38%, respectively; Turkey: 33%
and 40%, respectively; Korea: 24% and 50%, respectively; Indonesia: 43%
and 52%, respectively; China: 50% and 77%, respectively). Within network
relations, an order of priority is seen that affirms theoretical assumptions and
corroborates the results in Table 3.
With a few exceptions, husbands are the most important partners in com-
municative activities. In China, Japan, Indonesia, Israel, and Germany, personal
matters and the children’s upbringing is most frequently discussed with the
spouse. In Korea, however, grandmothers talk about personal matters most fre-
quently with both daughters and nonrelative female friends. In Turkey, inter-
generational relations are more important for the discussion of personal matters
as well. It must be kept in mind, however, that responses to questions concern-
ing discussion of problems cannot be compared easily because they refer to
different kinds of activities. Grandmothers, in particular, were asked about
“discussing problems with your daughter” (in which case, the mother does not
come into question as a potential communication partner). It is significant that
in this case, female friends are a more important communication partner than
one’s own husband. All in all, the pattern of communicative activities is similar
to that of help given. The concentration on communication with one’s husband
is greatest in affinal kinship systems, as is the divergence in relations between
mother and daughter. In descent kinship systems, divergence is either generally
lower or intergenerative relations are stronger than the conjugal relation.
With regard to the research questions about the importance of intergenera-
tive relations within the overall network and the specific relations of exchange,
this explorative analysis reveals a consistent pattern (even taking the limitations
Figure 5
Exchange of Help (Grandmothers)
0.8
0.6
0.4
0.2
0
China Korea Japan Indonesia Turkey Israel Germany
Figure 6
Exchange of Help (Mothers)
0.8
0.6
0.4
0.2
0
China Korea Japan Indonesia Turkey Israel Germany
of the data into consideration). The prevailing institutional rules for family and
kinship relations have a great influence on intergenerative relations between
young mothers and grandmothers. The exclusivity of the conjugal family is
much greater in bilinear-affinal kinship systems such as Germany and Israel
(among the population sampled) and results in a primacy of conjugal relations
in both generations. In the descent kinship systems of China, Korea, Japan,
Indonesia, and Turkey, the effects of intergenerative relations on the life course
are much greater, and in some cases, they are stronger than the exchange rela-
tions between spouses. This finding is remarkable because the relations
between mother and daughter in patrilinear societies are still strong even after
the daughters marry. The differences between the two types of kinship systems
are especially evident in instrumental intergenerative relations (i.e., the
exchange of goods and help). In descent kinship systems, instrumental relations
determine the character of intergenerative and kinship relationships and are
their main constitutive element. Although the participating countries vary in
terms of their respective levels of modernization and the available alternatives
for covering life risks, it is astonishing that these variables do not systematically
contribute to the explanation of the variation in network relationships.
Figure 7
Emotional Exchange Relation
1
0.5
0
−0.5
−1
−1.5
−2
−2.5
−3
China Korea Japan Indonesia Turkey Israel Germany
Note: The value of the index is 0 if both generations give emotional support to the same extent
to one another. The index takes on a value greater than 0 to the extent that the grandmothers
receive more emotional support from the mothers than they give. If the mothers are in advan-
tage, the index takes on negative values.
*p < .05. **p < .01.
giving and getting support. All in all, the perception of the social–emotional
relationship between the generations shows very low reciprocity.
Significant differences among the societies exist regarding social–
emotional exchanges (Figure 8) between the generations (eta = .37). The
exchanges are very intensive in Indonesia, Israel, and Turkey—the coun-
tries with the smallest discrepancies in the perception of the intergenera-
tional relationship. The exchange relations are especially small in those
societies where one generation perceives itself as mainly giving, such as in
Korea, Japan, and China.
Although there are differences in the balances of instrumental help and
social–emotional support, the perceived quality of the intergenerational
relationship does not significantly differ within the grandmothers’ or the
mothers’ generation. The perceived quality of the relationship is highest
among Turkish and Chinese grandmothers and lowest among German and
Figure 8
Extent of Emotional Exchange and Perception
of the Quality of the Relations
0
China Korea Japan Indonesia Turkey Israel Germany
Discussion
In regard to the factors examined, the results are clear for both genera-
tions. Instrumental activities are of no importance for the perception of the
Note
1. In this study, only Israeli families having their origin in Christian-majority, European
countries are participating.
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