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Taylor Haggerson
English 1104
experiment for a school project at their local high school. Their detox included giving up all
social media and instant messaging, except for methods of contacting their parents. According to
the article “An Anti-Social Experiment” posted by BBC news, students went the whole week
from Wednesday to Wednesday without using their phones for social media, and texting/instant
messaging. This included apps like Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, and even YouTube.
Students were wary about making it through the weekend without their phones for
support. As the author of the article Rory Cellan-Jones states, “…if your primary means of
communication is taken away that is bound to cause problems. Twenty-five years ago, teenagers
would have been furious if they had been told they could not use the home telephone.” (BBC
News). However, the students and teachers around them were interested to see what they would
learn.
One student found that without her phone she talked more with her family, rather than
using her parents as what she calls a ‘taxi service’. Without their phones, students resorted back
to landline phone calls, and emailing as means of communication. The librarian at their school
was happy to finally see people checking out books to read. One student even began reading
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newspapers and magazines. Jones states that overall, “…what this experiment has shown so far is
just how central to the lives of teenagers social networks and messaging tools have become”.
(BBC News)
One teacher before the experiment stated that, “The thought of having real conversations
and maybe even reading a book seems to be way too much to handle.” (BBC News). That has
become something many teenagers do not participate in. The digital age has changed the way
people interact with each other. Much like when the student began talking more to her parents
which two or more people are connected. A relationship can consist of a significant other, but
also of a mother and daughter, a best friend, or a sibling. However, relationships are now
becoming virtual based, friends online, and ‘followers’. The term relationship is constantly
advancing to more platforms. So, how is and how has social media changed relationships?
Before the digital age, teenagers used their landlines to call their friends to make plans for
the weekend. If they didn’t pick up, then they would drive to one of the three common hang-out
spots in their area and see who they ran into. If they wanted to contact a distant friend or relative,
they sent them a letter via snail mail (that was before email). If someone wanted to stay up to
date on the news, they read the paper, or watched the morning and/or evening news on
television. There was no Twitter or Facebook to rely on for current events and long-lost mutual
friends.
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Social media didn’t come into fruition until 1997 when a website called Six Degrees gave
users the ability to friend other users. This was the start of networking through the digital world.
“From Six Degrees, the internet moved into the era of blogging and instant messaging. Although
blogging may not seem like social media precisely, the term fits because people were suddenly
able to communicate [their thoughts] instantly [and to] other readers.” (Historycooperative.org).
From Six Degrees to Snapchat, with each changing media interface, people are conforming to
these changes.
There is a term ‘ontological design’ that best described the way in which society has
become more reliant on technology. Think of the Drawing Hands drawing by M.C. Escher, each
So, what was life like before social media? In an article posted by Social Media Week
written by Tereza Litsa, Litsa explains how the memories of her life before technology are
strange to think about, even though the memories are still there. “If I had to describe in one word
the first memory I have about life before the internet, I would choose ‘silence’. Silence was not
literal, but rather metaphorical, since we didn’t have to deal with all the social media buzz and
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the noise that may turn distracting from time to time.” Much like Litsa, people who remember
twenty-five years ago have a good understanding of how they and the people around them have
A coffee house, named HotBlack Coffee Cafe in Toronto, has recently declined to offer
free Wi-Fi to its customers. The owner Jimson Bienenstock explains that, “his aim is to get
customers to talk with one another instead of being buried in their portable devices.” His
reasonings for this change derives from the correlation of health and longevity to social
interactions. Positive social interaction will lead to a longer, healthier, more fulfilled life.
Obviously, humans need relationships. This is evident in the movie Cast Away starring
Tom Hanks as Chuck Noland who becomes stranded alone on an island and develops a
relationship with a Wilson volleyball. Because there was no one else around him, the human
relationship he needed was instead compensated by the volleyball he named Wilson. As much as
humans need this connection to other people, this movie shows that humans are capable of
replacing people to whatever they think will make them happier. This is evident in more ways
than just social media. For example, people replaced their families with work. But in majority
cases, society is becoming consumed by social media. People are becoming replaced by the
superficial portrayal of themselves online. Rather than a one real friend, a person can have 560
In contrast to the movie Cast Away, societies usage of social media can soon become next
to exactly like the society portrayed in Wall-E. This is a movie that portrays a society in which
everyone knew everyone, yet nobody knew anyone. This cartoon movie about one robot being
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the only thing left on Earth, portrays how dirty humans have left their world. But in another less
portrayed lens, yet a still very relevant aspect of the movie, Wall-E shows how society has
conformed to floating around in a chair all day on social media and talking online with their
friends. It isn’t until two people bump into each other that they start to authentically notice one
With a more specific focus into human interactions and why relationships are important,
there are two examples provided in an article posted by Psychology Today titled, “Why We
[Example 1] John lives alone but is very social. He has many friends with whom he
spends a lot of time and sees frequently. However, he feels sad and disappointed because
his friendships don’t seem to meet his needs. He doesn’t derive a sense of connection to
others and a feeling of satisfaction. Despite his busy social life, he feels alone and
[Example 2] Albert lives alone and has two close friends whom he sees
occasionally. When he meets with them, he has a good time talking about current events
and sports as well as each other’s thoughts and feelings regarding their lives. When he
is not at work or in the company of others, Albert does not feel lonely because he spends
time engaging in activities that interest and energize him. (Psychology Today)
John and Albert both seem to live alone and have friends, Albert is fulfilled with the
minimal friends he has. According to the article, “how much social connectedness a person needs
influences how much aloneness they can tolerate.” (Psychology Today). John is not receiving
enough ‘social connectedness’ with the friends he has. Rather, his relationships, compared to
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Albert’s relationships are superficial. “Humans, because of necessity, evolved into social
beings.” Despite people thinking that they only need themselves, the nature of our desires to
affiliate with others will leave a void if not fulfilled. (Psychology Today).
Authentic relationships are the few friendships that fill the social connectedness. Social
media becomes many surface level relationships used to keep a person busy, that is until they are
The simplest solution would not be to remove social media all together. Social media
plays too large of a part in society to be suddenly taken away. Like the ontological design,
Instead, people and especially young teens should be more aware of their actions on
social media. Teenagers specifically are an impressionable kind to work with. Their growing and
development will be influenced by the way in which they are introduced to the world. Parents,
adults and the teens themselves should be aware of their behavioral changes, and the amount of
virtual to authentic relationships they have. They should regularly practice the art of conversation
and make eye-contact. Most importantly, families and friends should take at least an hour out of
their day to turn off all technology and social media accounts. The more this action is done, the
more it becomes habitual. People should sit down with the ones they love, ask them about their
Works Cited
Brody, Jane E. “Social Interaction Is Critical for Mental and Physical Health.” The New York
www.nytimes.com/2017/06/12/well/live/having-friends-is-good-for-you.html.
Cellan-Jones, Rory. “An Anti-Social Experiment.” BBC News, BBC, 8 Mar. 2016,
www.bbc.com/news/technology-35752625.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drawing_Hands.
Keith. “The History of Social Media: Social Networking Evolution!” History Cooperative,
Litsa, Tereza. “Do You Remember Life Before The Internet?” Social Media Week, 25 June 2015,
socialmediaweek.org/blog/2015/06/life-before-internet/.
Tardanico, Susan. “Is Social Media Sabotaging Real Communication?” Forbes, Forbes