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Response from Judy McLashan
You mention that your daughter is about to marry in a climate where there is a
less than 50% chance that the relationship will last. At the same time, you
are positive about the possibilities of successful online dating. My own
daughter got married last year having met her husband on her first and only
attempt at an online date. Their eyes did not meet across a crowded room,
but they did impress each other on the first encounter. I like to think their
relationship will last because they may observe some ground rules that seem
to me to be evolving, from my observation of couple’s behaviour over twenty
years’ practice as a marriage counsellor and relationship therapist. I think
these ground rules might look something like this:
4) Do not expect ever to feel that your relationship is perfect, just that
you would rather be in it than out of it.
Romantic notions of the perfect partner, and the relationship where there is no
discord are outdated. People are more realistic about how much harmony
they can reasonably expect.
5) If you really want to leave and you have tried everything you can
think of, go for an amicable separation or divorce.
It is easier than it has ever been to have a non-adversarial divorce, if
circumstances are straightforward. If you do not have children it is up to you
whether you continue to be friends.
Following the above does not necessarily mean you staying in a relationship
for life, but it does create some damage limitation. Apparently, despite the
divorce statistics, people are staying together for longer than ever in the
history of relationships, because in the past they were more likely to end
through death. Nonetheless, people change throughout a lifetime, and
sometimes the relationship does not evolve accordingly.
I personally believe the ideal for everyone is a relationship for life that works,
and enduring family structures. But this is not easy, and you have to
experience a certain amount of luck, because the people we are attracted to
are not always the people that are good for us, and we ourselves are not
perfect. So, I agree with Timothy that “a number of successful relationships
in a lifetime” might not be a bad thing, providing some of the above rules are
respected. Also, that our capacity to enjoy them can improve as we ourselves
mature.
By Timothy St Ather
In their book Nudge authors Richard Thaler and Cass Sunstein argue against
the absurdity of a state backed marriage contract and suggest that the system
should be privatised. “If we were starting from scratch, no sane person could
possibly devise the existing system” they say. Indeed, people are increasingly
voting with their feet and not doing it.
Elsewhere I have argued that marriage, which was invented when people
lived to an age of about seventeen and never ventured more than two miles
from where they were born, is long past its sell by date.
Unless you want to buy an indentured servant (and some of you might!) is not
everything anyone could wish to do covered by mutually agreed contract?
My grandfather who worked for two companies in his entire life found it almost
impossible to get a better job because he was considered to be an unstable
employee.
Many people work for one firm for life and some stay with one relationship for
life but that is a matter of choice. Others may have lifetime employment with
the London Borough of Greenwich but may have many relationships
throughout their life and some may have a number of jobs but one lifetime
partner.
First relationships are entered into with little experience and absurd
expectations. Yet increasingly people are divorcing or uncoupling relatively
amicable and having a contractual relationship where everyone knows what to
expect makes this much more likely. Can it not be expected that each
subsequent relationship will be better than the last one? This is not
necessarily because we have managed to find someone “better” but more
because as in every other aspect of life, we get better at it with experience.
As most people aspire to upgrade the houses we live in over our lifetime, why
not upgrade the relationships that live in them as well.
The question about which I would now be interested to solicit your opinion is
should there be an etiquette for ending a contracted relationship? Should
there be a cafeteria of etiquettes and if so, what would they involve?
I feel I should put on record that I received a response from Sergio A. Silverio,
objecting strongly to some of Tim Bazely’s comments in the last issue of
Cognito. Sergio felt that Tim’s comments expressed hostility and intolerance
towards people who are homosexual or experiencing gender dysphoria.
Whilst I don’t read Tim’s words in the same way as Sergio, I do agree that
such an attitude is out of place. However I did not feel able to publish Sergio’s
response in the form that he sent it to me.
I do think it is worth mentioning some of the other points that Sergio made in
his response:
There is a distinction to be made between sex and gender: the first
being biological and the second being social.
Sexuality (preference regarding the sex or gender of one’s partner) is not
to be confused with gender identity (whether or not one identifies as
being of the sex that one has been identified as at birth)
Sergio argues that questioning of sexuality or gender identity is not a
modern construct. It has, he says, been recorded as far back as from
the Ancient Egyptians, Greeks, Romans, Indians, and most Native
populations across the Americas and Australasia. In support of this
Sergio cites the works of Bem (1993), Chodorow (1994), and de
Beauvoir (1949/2011) amongst others (see Patiño, 2018; and Scobey-
Thal, 2014 for more accessible texts).
It is not correct to say that homosexuality affords a lifestyle advantage. It
is however psychologically healthy to live a life that is consistent with
one’s true gender and sexual identity.
Before a person can access any sex reassignment surgery (certainly on
the National Health Service), they must be monitored by healthcare
staff for a minimum of 1-2 years.
Once again, for further information you are referred to the Androgyny
SIG, or to Sergio A. Silverio on: S.A.Silverio@outlook.com.
Into my sixth decade, I will have to admit that my brain will have been skewed
along the route into certain ways of thinking which have to lie in the category
of either Right or Wrong. I have to confess I’m afraid that little Tommy in a
skirt fits into the Wrong column – unless it was a kilt of course. Yet as a
woman (whose understanding of fashion is not short of comprehending the
Theory of Everything), I live in trousers and jeans. Lots of us ladies do and
are very happy with it (unlike all the Paris fashion models who parade down
the catwalk looking as though there is someone at the end of it who they want
to punch on the nose). What is the difference between women in trousers and
men in skirts, you may well justifiably ask? So I now have to don my Hat of
Objectivity and start rethinking the whole gamut.
Coincidentally, as I was pondering the subject (yet again for the umpteenth
time), the latest edition of New Scientist featured an article on the bias of
many societies towards the patriarchal (The Ascent of Man by Anil
Ananthaswary and Kate Douglas). In consideration of nature versus nurture,
they maintain – as research has shown – that culture plays an indisputable
and crucial role in shaping our brains and therefore logically, our behaviour.
While from a biological point of view, pre-natal testosterone levels particularly
in girls may well tip the balance into later behaviours reflected in their varying
degrees of stereotypical female behaviour: as Davis and Risman1 claim,
“Bodies themselves may trigger socialisation that sticks.”
1 Shannon Davis of George Mason University in Virginia and Barbara Risman at the University of Illinois
at Chicago, in an analysis of 50 year of data collected by the Child Health and Development Studies in
California
With this in mind, let’s return to little Tommy in his skirt. Culture is an innate
consequence of human existence: moreover of any living species. For a
society to function, rules have to be made and sometimes get adapted or
broken altogether. Thankfully, some of the more social practices of culture
are being brought into question and challenged such as the subjugation of
women and of certain races – as indeed are barbaric practices such as female
genital mutilation (FGM). But what of gender definition?
Whatever our race (and whatever the species), male and female constitute
the two paramount divisions. Combine this with our most dominant sense –
the visual – and we immediately know – or almost always know – whether
another human being is male or female, physiology having always preceded
psychology. It is this overriding visual sense which I believe, has led to men
traditionally to hold positions of power in society. On average, men are larger,
stronger, hairier and have deeper voices – all seen as symbolic of physical
strength and consequently – by assumption – intelligence, mental strength
and therefore the ability for significant decision-making. Culture has therefore
assigned certain defining properties to each gender – not least of all
behaviour and attire; again a global human trait. Today, we are rightly
questioning the concept of women as not being suited to executive roles in
their careers or male-equivalent remuneration for it (though interestingly, we
are not seeing men being encouraged into the caring or stereotypically
‘female’ professions).
The more recent science of psychology has taught us more about what may
be going on in the male or female brain – previously invisible other than post
mortem and about which little of its active functioning was known until the
advent of MRI. It turns out that bar a few physical differences (which could be
the result of brain-shaping through culture anyway), a study has shown that
brains tend to display a unique mosaic of features without gender specificity2.
2
Study of 1400 human brains, Joel et al. Published in PNAS November 30, 2015
In the same way, please let’s begin with ‘Male’ and ‘Female.’ OK – so today,
some children have Mummy and Mummy while some have Daddy and Daddy.
For a young child in that particular family set-up, that is the only explanation
necessary at that stage. The rest can wait until the child has accumulated a
little more of life’s experiences.
Secondly, focus can act for good or for evil. If we focus on a task in hand, we
will complete it more quickly and efficiently. Similarly, if we focus too much on
whether or not a child wants to use the toilet; on whether or not he or she is
feeling ill – or to what degree he or she feels like a boy or girl, the jobs again
will be executed more quickly and efficiently – respectively those of toilet,
health and gender identity anxieties.
Thirdly, children have little concept of the future. For them, the ‘future’
consists of who they might be playing with at break time and what they might
be playing. The promise of a “nice doctor who can give you some medicine to
stop your body from changing until you decide whether you would like to be a
man or a woman” means little to an nine year old – that is unless he or she
has been brainwashed on a daily basis into acting in terms of the particular
adult-assigned gender.
Somehow however, I’m afraid I will have to say that I can’t help but feel that
the term ‘mixed-up kid’ may well come to mean far more than we had ever
anticipated.
By Jim Emerton
Many people hide sadness and depression under a cloak of good nature,
feeling and humour. This can be role play, acting, con with people who are
not true to themselves. This type of ambivalence and duplicity is frequent with
humans who do not accept themselves, are fronting it out in pursuit of fame,
acceptance, recognition or other reward-seeking behaviours. Often the result
may be alcoholism, drug dependence and or breakdown and suicide. I
understand the spiritual/emotional aspects of this inward state, yet the brain
function complexities are nebulous to me. A perceptive person can probe
beyond the mask and penetrate some of the interior, as many folk harbour
demons. The battlefields of celebrity are full of troubled souls ,hooked on
psychotropic drugs.
Seriously though, I knew that the lecture would prove to be of far more interest
and value than a mere excuse to get out of something else. The Psychology
of Music is a relatively new field but one which has the potential for
discovering so much about how the brain works and indeed widening and
corroborating what we already know. For me, what is so sad is that music is
increasingly being removed from school curricula along with instrumental
teaching, the latter now gradually slipping back into the private domain. What
has been an integral part of all walks of society for thousands of years is now
in danger of being removed through reasons dubbed as ‘elitism.’ Ironically as
a consequence, music is now once again becoming the preserve of the elite.
Enough of my rant and on to the lecturer for the evening, Professor Lauren
Stewart.
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In Western culture, music tends to be performed by the few for the many. In
many other parts of the world however, music has a highly participatory role.
The Verdean people of Cape Verde in South Africa both perform and listen to
music, constantly swapping between roles of audience member and
performer. We are all performers.
For both adult and baby groups, a tune was played in a simple meter (a
persistent, strong and regular 3 or 4 beats per bar-something we are all highly
familiar with in Western culture). A rhythmic irregularity was then introduced,
disrupting the metrical structure. Both groups were able to detect this
irregularity. However, when a tune with a complex meter was played (e.g. 7
beats in a bar: culturally awkward for Westerners to follow as there feels to be
a superfluous beat at the end) and moreover which was then further
compounded by an introduced metrical irregularity, adults failed miserably at
this test while the babies’ attention spans again, changed at the point of
irregularity. I found this quite astonishing, particularly as a trained musician, I
too failed miserably at this latter test!
We listen to music largely for pleasure of course. Brain scans have been
conducted on subjects while they listen to a piece of music and at any point
where the music has the familiar effect of ‘sending a shiver down the spine,’
the same areas of the brain are activated as those connected with sex, drugs
and rock and roll!
Lauren cites two possible reasons why music can be said to be adaptive:
Notable changes were seen in brain structure and brain activity was also
specialised according to whether the subject was decoding for pitch or for
rhythm. After the training programme had been completed, activation could
be seen in the motor planning area of the brain when the subject was
preparing to play the tune, without having as yet played a note.
*(The following is an extract from the site demonstrating this type of test,
which I found at: http://www.psy.mq.edu.au/me2/index.php/tests/ - RG).
This 20-minute on-line test includes three blocks:
1. Block 1: listen to pairs of tunes and decide whether they are the same or
different. This test is from MBEA (Montreal Battery of Evaluation of Amusia)
developed by Peretz, Champod and Hyde (2003).
2. Block 2: listen to some melodies and detect whether there is an out-of-
key note in each melody.
3. Block 3: fill-in a checklist about your reading ability. This checklist is
developed by Ian Smythe and John Everatt (2001).
In the original MBEA test, 152,117 people responded. Most people did well,
achieving around 27-28 out of a possible 30. For those who achieved 21 or
less, it was considered that they may well be predisposed to congenital
amusia and so were invited to the laboratory for further tests which
substantiated the hereditary aspect of this condition.
One example of the hereditary aspect of amusia can be seen in the O’Neill
family in Northern Ireland. Though they ran a family business selling
traditional Irish instruments e.g. accordions, a substantial proportion of them
showed traits of amusia. Lauren met all 33 of the family and subsequently
plotted an ‘amusia family tree.’ Both parents were affected, plus half of their
children’s generation. As there was nothing odd about their environment
which could have precipitated this, it was therefore clearly a genetic condition.
In fact, it appears to be a disorder of many genes, all having a small effect,
rather than the result of a single faulty gene having a large effect.
John O’Neill ran a music shop in Gortin, County Tyrone. Though it seems an
unlikely occupation for an amusic, he had great musical aspirations for his
children, having struggled with music himself and so purchased instruments
for them.
This had an influence on the local neighbourhood and so many friends and
neighbours similarly began buying instruments for their children, resulting in a
considerable boom for John’s business. While his son Sean flourished in his
musical ability, daughter Anne and many of her siblings struggled even though
they had participated in accordion lessons and Irish dancing lessons. Anne
was upset at being deterred from joining the local church choir by the local
choirmaster and despite a suggestion that she could try the tambourine, this
too proved difficult as she was unable to keep in time.
However, this did not prevent Anne from enjoying being surrounded by music
as the emphasis lay in involvement rather than achievement.
Pitch change detection. Could the participants tell if a pitch had changed?
In this respect, the amusics were able to do so.
Pitch direction detection. Could the participants tell which direction the pitch
had changed to?
Here, the amusics were shown to be significantly limited compared to the
control group.
As pitch contour is one of the most salient features of a piece, the amusics
would therefore be unable to build up a representation of the pitch contour (or
rise and fall) of a piece.
What about prosody: the music of speech? For most people, it is perfectly
possible to distinguish between the prosody of a statement and a question –
the vocal pitch descending at the end for the former and rising at the end for
the latter. First of all, a sentence was read using normal prosody and with
Can amusics detect emotion in the voice? Can they detect any combinations
of emotions such as happiness, tenderness, fear, irritation, sadness or even
no emotion within the same sentence? Again they fared worse in this respect
than non amusics which is not surprising given that music and speech share
resources in the brain to detect emotion.
Results showed that those with amusia tend to incorporate music into their
everyday lives to a lesser extent than the controls and also felt fewer changes
in psychological states when listening to music than the controls did. They
also felt more negative emotions about music which was imposed on them
than the control group did. However, significantly more amusic subjects
scored within the control range on the ‘attention and liking’ part of the
questionnaire showing that having perceptual difficulties in listening to music
is no bar to enjoying it. The genetic components for amusia still await
discovery.
(The participant’s name, town or city and Email address were also requested).
The text data was then analysed to see what the trends were in triggering
earworms. A number of factors proved to be a common thread:
It would appear therefore that earworms are not caused solely by constant
exposure to the same piece of music (as one might imagine), but rather that
regular exposure to a piece is merely one of a number of possible triggers for
an earworm to form. Are earworms therefore an interesting by-product of the
brain at rest or are they something more useful – more adaptive?
...Somehow, with this “music,” it felt much less like a grim anxious struggle. ..
...It was only after chanting the song in a resonant and resounding bass for
some time that I suddenly realized that I had forgotten the bull. Or, more
accurately, I had forgotten my fear—partly seeing that it was no longer
appropriate, partly that it had been absurd in the first place. I had no room
now for this fear, or for any other fear, because I was filled to the brim with
music. And even when it was not literally (audibly) music, there was the
music of my muscle orchestra playing—“the silent music of the body,” in
Harvey’s lovely phrase. With this playing, the musicality of my motion, I
myself became the music—“You are the music, while the music lasts.” A
creature of muscle, motion, and music, all inseparable and in unison with each
other—except for that unstrung part of me, that poor broken instrument which
could not join in and lay motionless and mute without tone or tune.
Similarly, in 1985, Joe Simpson set out to climb the 21,000-foot Siula Grande
in the Peruvian Andes. On the way down, he suffered a bad fall shattering his
leg. Assuming Joe was probably dead as he was hanging in the void, his
climbing partner who was roped to him, had to make the terrible decision to
cut the rope in order to save his own life. Joe in fact was not dead, instead
falling into a large crevasse and spending the next four days inching his way
back to the base camp in unimaginable pain. He later reported that during
this agonising process, his head was filled with the sound of a Boney M song
and resolved there and then that there was no way was he going to die to
Boney M!
Lauren postulates that perhaps the brain needs a certain optimum level of
stimulus and therefore when consciousness decreases to too low a level, the
brain seeks out additional stimuli, one of which may be the earworm effect.
Tempo: Although few people possess ‘perfect’ or ‘absolute’ pitch (the ability to
identify a tone without the need to relate it to another named tone), the vast
majority of people possess a form of ‘absolute’ tempo, i.e. they can identify
whether or not a piece is being played at the correct tempo. That is to say
that we readily encode music at its precise speed. To illustrate this point,
Further to the earworm study, 17 volunteer subjects were tested over a period
of 4 days to see if we capture the correct tempo of an earworm in the stream
of everyday life . The volunteers were all male, comprising both musically
trained and untrained participants and recruited on the basis that they
reported experiencing earworms several times a day. They were also
screened in advance to exclude any participant who exhibited difficulties in
tapping to the beat of an earworm. Recording the tapping of the beat of an
earworm was done by means of their wearing of an accelerometer that
recorded their movements. Alongside this, they were asked to record
information about their earworms in a diary during their daily lives over a
period of 4 days.
The results showed that the subjects displayed significant precision in tempo
reproduction of their earworms, the tapping deviating less than 10% from the
original tempo. There was also a direct relationship shown with the self-
reported physiological arousal. Rather than hearing an earworm of mid-tempo
speeded up or slowed down in order to reflect the state of physiological
arousal, the subject would experience an earworm in its original tempo which
would suitably reflect the arousal state.
There is also a link between music and movement. Many previous studies
have revealed a link between musical tempo and arousal. Listening to fast
tempo music can increase subjective arousal. Those participating in vigorous
exercise for example, prefer to feel this state of arousal reflected in fast music.
(Husain et al., 20024 ).
Music as Therapy: Goldsmiths MSc Music, Mind and Brain student Pedro
Kirk has been awarded the ACM Chi student research award for his
undergraduate project which involved tangible musical interfaces to assist
stroke patients in rehabilitation therapy. Some examples of this include the
use of soft tennis balls pitched (when squeezed), to the first 5 notes of the
diatonic scale, used in the tune ‘Frere Jacques.’ The patient has to squeeze
the tennis balls in the right order, to play Frere Jacques correctly.
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3 http://mp.ucpress.edu/content/6/2/193
4 http://mp.ucpress.edu/content/20/2/151
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