1. The document provides 10 rules for parents of defiant children with ADHD. The rules include staying positive by rewarding good behavior, treating any ADHD symptoms before punishing bad behaviors, using calm words instead of overreacting, avoiding meltdowns by planning escape strategies, and acting calmly like a police officer when disciplining.
2. Other rules are being clear about rules and consequences and enforcing them consistently, playing with the child to strengthen your bond before punishing, understanding your child's patterns and triggers, determining if other conditions are contributing to behaviors, and considering if the parent may have undiagnosed ADHD as well.
3. Following these 10 rules can help parents better discipline and interact with
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1. The document provides 10 rules for parents of defiant children with ADHD. The rules include staying positive by rewarding good behavior, treating any ADHD symptoms before punishing bad behaviors, using calm words instead of overreacting, avoiding meltdowns by planning escape strategies, and acting calmly like a police officer when disciplining.
2. Other rules are being clear about rules and consequences and enforcing them consistently, playing with the child to strengthen your bond before punishing, understanding your child's patterns and triggers, determining if other conditions are contributing to behaviors, and considering if the parent may have undiagnosed ADHD as well.
3. Following these 10 rules can help parents better discipline and interact with
1. The document provides 10 rules for parents of defiant children with ADHD. The rules include staying positive by rewarding good behavior, treating any ADHD symptoms before punishing bad behaviors, using calm words instead of overreacting, avoiding meltdowns by planning escape strategies, and acting calmly like a police officer when disciplining.
2. Other rules are being clear about rules and consequences and enforcing them consistently, playing with the child to strengthen your bond before punishing, understanding your child's patterns and triggers, determining if other conditions are contributing to behaviors, and considering if the parent may have undiagnosed ADHD as well.
3. Following these 10 rules can help parents better discipline and interact with
Your child is blatantly defiant and confrontational, and standard discipline doesn’t work. So what’s next? Follow this action plan.
1. Stay postive: 6. BE CLEAR ABOUT RULES AND
Rewarding good behavior works better than pun- CONSEQUENCES: ishing bad behavior. Boost your child’s self-esteem Explain what behavior is not allowed, and exactly by “catching” him behaving well and doling out what consequences are at risk. Then, consistently praise. Higher self-esteem and fewer transgres- enforce the rules. sions will follow. 7. PLAY BEFORE PUNISHING: 2. TREAT BEFORE YOU PUNISH: Make time to have fun with your child, and Never discipline your child for behaviors that are strengthen your bond in a positive way by com- symptoms of ADHD. Once your treatment plan pleting creative projects together, for example. has symptoms under control, you will know which behaviors are punishable. 8. KNOW YOUR CHILD’S PATTERNS: Probe your child’s quirks and hypersensitivities. 3. USE YOUR WORDS: True understanding will help you differentiate Instead of overreacting — and teaching your child willful defiance from emotional overwhelm. Know to fear mom or dad — be a model of how to behave his triggers, and have a plan for potentially explo- when you’re upset. sive situations.
4. AVOID MELTDOWNS: 9. DETERMINE THE TRUE CAUSE:
Plot an escape strategy for tough events like fam- Comorbid conditions — like oppositional defiant ily parties in order to ensure a quiet, tantrum-free disorder — may cause behavior problems. See a goodbye. Conspire with your child, and say, “It’s specialist if you think your child might have more time to be a magician and become invisible.” Then, than ADHD. stage your exit. 10. ASK YOURSELF IF YOU’RE 5. ACT LIKE A COP: CONTRIBUTING: When you’re pulled over for speeding, the police Could you have ADHD, too? It’s commonly genet- officer doesn’t yell. He asks what you did, and then ic, so an undiagnosed parent might have a temper doles out punishment. Channel this approach to that flares more often, or impulsivity that under- stay cool-headed and under control. mines discipline efforts. Take our self-test, then seek a diagnosis and treatment.
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