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MANGALAR
OR
BLESSINGS
BY
DR KYAW TINT
MB.BS.YANGON, MYANMAR.
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CONTENTS Page
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS 5
FOREWORD 6
INTRODUCTION 9
OF HONOUR 20
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13. TO BE ENGAGE IN WORK THAT DOES
23. TO BE HUMBLE 94
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27. TO BE PATIENT 111
30 DISCUSSING DHAMMA
EPILOGUE 164
GLOSSARY 165
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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
Without the support of so many others, this book would
not have been possible.
First I would like to thank my family for encouraging
me to write this book.
Thanks to U Hla Maung, a geologist , and U Aung
Khin, a senior auditor, for taking care of editing in making
this book look good.
Thanks to Daw Nyo Nyo Aye, for typing, editing, proof-
reading and finally making it into CDs.
Thanks to U Bayda, graphic designer, for his beautiful
pictures.
Thanks to Dr Tin Hla Ngwe, Ph D. Los Angeles U.S.A.
for writing an Epilogue on Mangala Sutta.
Thanks to my parents, who brought me into this world
and raised me to think for myself and be all that I can be. I am
grateful to my Buddhist teachers, Waybu Sayadaw, Mahasi
Sayadaw,Ye Oo Sayadaw , Maygawaddy Sayadaw,U Thuzata
Sayadaw for helping me to dream big and achieve.
Finally and most importantly, I am profoundly grateful
to The Buddha for his teachings (38 blessings) which I have
learned and imparted by writing this book.
The author allow everybody to print this book and copy
the attached DVD-ROM and distribute to others, provided it
is not for financial gain.
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FOREWORD
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FOREWORD
Way of life in Buddhist countries is mainly influenced
by the Buddha’s teaching. In other words, for the Buddhist
the way they act, speak and think are mainly in accordance
with what the Buddha thaught. His teachings are the model
for them.
Lord Buddha’s teachings are preserved in ‘the Three
Baskets of Buddhist Text (Ti-pitaka), commonly known as the
Buddhist Bible’. Since He taught for forty-five years, His doc
trines, in a book form, are voluminous, altogether 48 in the
Sixth Buddhist Council’s version (They are just primary texts,
not included their commentaries and sub-commentaries).
The Blessing Discourses (Mangalar) is in the ‘Basket
of Discourse ( Suttanta)’, one of the three divisions (Ti-pitaka)
of the Buddhist Scriptures. Compared to the ‘Basket of Dis-
ciplines (Vinaya)’ and the ‘Basket of Ultimate Things(Abhi-
dhamma)’, it holds more volumes and is widely used and more
influential among Buddhists.The reason is that: the ‘Basket
of Discipline (Vinaya)’ is primarily for the monks and nuns,
the Basket of Ultimate Things (Abhi-dhamma) is for scholar,
while the Basket of Discourse (Suttanta) is for everybody, and
lay-person alike.
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It was written in old Burmese at the time of Burmese kings.In
modern time, U Thukha, a well-known writter and a film-di-
rector, wrote a book on this subject in plain Burmese. It is
called (Mangala Thote), meaning the Blessing Discourse.
The last one of it’s kind, as far as I know, is ‘Thirty
Eight Mangalar or Blessings’ by Dr Kyaw Tint. I am very
glad to write a foreword for that book. It is a book of ‘direct to
the point’, so to speak. The pictures in the book are very help-
ful to understand the theme of it. They also are painted in
purely Burmese style.
Further more, to understand each blessing properly,
these include stories at the end of each blessing’s remark. The
stories that illustrate each blessing are pleasing. They make
you understood well. They may be meaningful for those who
are familiar with Burmese culture.
Thanks to Dr. Kyaw Tint who make such a book pos-
sible.
May you be well, happy and peaceful.
Much Metta
Dr.Nyanawara
Sasana-dhaja Dhamma-cariya
Sasana-dhaja Siripavara Dhamma-cariya
Majjhima Bhanaka
Majjhima Nikaya Kovida.
Azusa Kyaung, Los Angeles,
California.USA.
Full -moon day of Second Waazo,1374.
August 2, 2012(Thursday)
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INTRODUCTION
MANGALA SUTTA
(THIRTY EIGHT BLESSINGS)
DEFINITION
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Three months after The Buddha passed away (Pari-
nibbana), all arahats gathered at a great meeting to compile
all the Buddha’s Teachings. At that time, Ashin Maha Kassapa
asked Ashin Ananda ,where and why Buddha preached
Mangala Sutta. Ashin Ananda answered as follows: “One
midnight, a deva, a celestial being, came to Jetavana monastery
and asked Buddha to preach Mangala sutta.’’ That is how the
Mingala Sutta became one of the teachings of Dhamma to all
beings. Mangala Sutta consists of thirty eight blessings.
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THE FOLLOWERS OF WISE LEADER WERE
SAVED BUT THOSE OF THE FOOL LEADER WERE
DROWN IN THE OCEAN.
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Disadvantages of associating with the fools
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The man on the island, after his breakfast with a sugar
cane drink, was singing happily ,“People living in large South
Island have to do cultivation, trading, and other professions;
but it differs from those living on this little island, which is
much better than the large South Island’’.When the
investigaters heard a human voice they tried to find out what
it is. As they saw a figure which looked like a monster, they
were much frightened and aimed at him with weapons
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After living on the island for quite a long time, the
foolish leader and his followers made alcohol out of cane-
suger. They drank and danced on the island. They passed fe-
ces and urine without any self-control. They never covered
with sand at all. The whole island became dirty with excreta.
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we must build a strong big boat; if the words of the angel of
the south are true, this boat will be for future diasaster; we
will not leave the island; if the words of the first guarding
angel are true and there is rising of water, we will leave with
the boat; if the words of the second guarding angel are true,
we will keep our boat in a suitable place and we will continue
staying on this island”.
The foolish leader did not agree and said “Well friends!
You are doing un-necessary work; the first guarding angel gave
his advice because he hates us; the second one gave his advice
because he loves us; where shall we go; why should we leave
this pleasant island?; we do not need to build a boat”.
The wise leader and his followers built a big boat and
loaded it with all provisions and stayed on the boat.
On the fifteenth day, the ocean level rose gradually.
When the water level was about waist-line, the wise leader
and his followers left the island for good.
The foolish leader and his followers did not care and
stayed quite easily and enjoying. The ocean level rose from
waist-line to shoulder, from shoulder to head; from head to
the top of the pole. The foolish leader and his five hundred
followers were drowned in the ocean.
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(2) He can judge between right and wrong.
(3) He knows truth and untruth; he knows moral and
immoral.
(4) He thinks wise thoughts, makes wise speeches and does
wise deeds.
(5) He is not selfish, and ready to sacrifice his life for the
welfare of others.
Seven qualities of a wise man.
(1) Good character.
(2) Excellent moral qualities.
(3) Capable of solving difficult problems.
(4) Generosity.
(5) Good mind, speech, action.
(6) Good desire to help others.
(7) Keep others to the same level with himself
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Story 2 Satti-Gonba zat
Then the King, with his chariot, drove after the deer.The
deer was so frightened that it ran over the bushes and down
hill and uphill. The King tried very hard, but could not catch
the deer. Then the King’s chariot reached a little village near a
stream, where the the robbers were residing. The King was
very tired that he fell asleep.
When the robbers saw the King and charoit driver, they
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hid in the forest. The persons left in the village were the
. robber’s cook and the parrot, Satti-Gonba.
At that time, Satti-Gonba parrot saw the King fast
asleep. He noticed the King’s valuable dress, ruby earings and
a golden sling.
The parrot was shouting to the robber’s cook “Let us
take the King’s dress, his ruby earings and golden sling; kill
both of them and cover them with branches”.When the King
was awaken by the loud voices of the parrot, he knew that the
place was dangerous. Both of them departed from the place.
Then the parrot shouted ,“Oh robbers! The King has
ran away; try to catch them with arrows and spears”. The King
ordered the charoit driver to drive faster. Later they reached
the monastery where the five hundred hermits were residing.
When Poppa-ka parrot saw the the King, he said, “Oh
your Honourable King! Your visit is a pleasant one; please be
free to ask anything; we have various sweet fruits; water from
the creek is cool and nice; please have water from the water
pot”.
When the King heard the kind words of Poppa-ka
parrot, he thought of the cruel Satti-Gonba parrot. The King
said, “This parrot is kind, the other one is cruel; why do they
have differant manners”?
The parrot said ,“ Oh your Honourable King! The par-
rot you have seen is my younger brother; because of the harsh
gale, we are separated from each other; my young brother was
blown and fell into a place where weapons were stored by the
robbers , thus named Satti-Gonba and brought up by the rob-
bers; I was thrown into the flower bushes, thus named Poppa-
ka and brought up by the hermits; when you wrap the rotten
fish with Thaman-grass, the grass will have a rotten smell ;
so also Satti-Gonba has cruel and dirty manners as robbers;
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A KIND AND GOOD HEARTED PARROT
WAS TALKING TO THE KING
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but when you wrap a leave with Toung- salat flower (Rhodo-
dendron), the leaf will have a sweet smell; since I was brought
up by the hermits, I have good qualities of the hermits; the
behavior, the manner, the way of thinking, are reflected with
whom a person is associated”.Thus the parrot gave a Dhamma
talk to the King, who was very happy and pleased.
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Parents and others
Their love is boundless to children and they give best
education for the good of future welfare.
Two ways of giving respect
(a) By donating robes, food, medicine, flowers,
bedding, candles etc to the monks at the monasteries.
(b) By following rules laid down by Dhamma and by
meditating. This is better than the former.
Five rewards to a person who pay respect to honour those
worthy of honour
(1) Long life.
(2) Beauty.
(3) Happiness.
(4) Good health and strength.
(5) Intelligence at the present as well as hereafter.
The Story
During Pagan Dynasty King Anawrathar paid respect
to Shin Arahan and found out the real truth Dhamma , Sangha
(monks).
From those days onwards, Theravada Buddhism has
spread throughout Myanmar and people have a good chance
to follow the Dhamma .
The Fifth Buddhist World Council.
In 1847AD or 2414 years after the Buddha, the Fifth
Buddhist World Council was held in Mandalay, Myanmar,
under the patronage of King Mindon. The Council was pre-
sided by Jagara Maha Thera and twenty-four hundred learned
monks participated.
After recitation of Tri-pitaka, canonical Pali text in Pali
recordings, were recorded in Myanmar- Pali character on seven
hundred twenty nine marble slabs. For the people of Myanmar,
Shin Arahan and Jagara Maha Thera are the persons to be
honoured.
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IN 93 B,C,THE FOURTH BUDDHIST WORLD COUN-
CIL WAS HELD IN ALUKA CAVE , MATALA, SRI-
LANKA.
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4 TO RESIDE IN A SUITABLE LOCALITY (PATIRUPA
DESAVASO CA)
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TO LIVE IN A SUITABLE LOCALITY IS MANGALA
(A BLESSING.)
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They stay the whole day, counting beads or meditat-
ing under the guidance of a master. They come back home in
the evening.
In a foreign land, if you are not fortunate enough to
live in a suitable place, you can create such a place by living
according to Mangala Sutta.
Now, in many parts of the world, people have created
such suitable places. For example, I would like to mention a
monastery in Los Angeles , U.S.A.. The name of the monas-
tery is Azusa Monastery.
The area of the monastery is about ten acres and situ-
ated near a big mountain. The Buddhist people have built the
monastery .
People provide alms (foods for monks) daily to the
monastery and five Theravada Myanmar monks are residing
in it. Up in the middle of the mountain is a Pagoda with a Bo-
tree (a kind of banyan tree.) . A Buddha image can be seen in
the meditation hall (Dhammar-yone). There is a separate build-
ing for people (Zeyat) where food is served to the monks and
lay people. There is a car parking place. Sanitary rest-rooms
are well kept.
People cerebrate Buddhist ceremonies, such as tem-
porary ordination of monks and young novices; and donating
alms to the monks on important Buddhist days such Warso
(the begining of Buddhist Lent period) , and Thatin-kyut (the
end of Buddhist Lent period).
I am very happy to see such a suitable place. People
told me that there are about ten Buddhist monasteries in Los
Angeles area.
Comment:- You can create suitable places where ever you like.
Source:- Our visit to Los Angeles in 2012.
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5. TO HAVE DONE GOOD DEEDS IN THE PAST.
(PUBBE- CA -KATA- PUNNATA)
Buddhists believe in Past, Present and Future existence.
Why are some babies born to rich parents and why are some
babies born in poor families?. Why do some people live to an
old age and some die young?. Why are some people healthy
and some unhealthy? Why are some people beautiful and some
ugly? Why do some people have a lot of servants and some
have none? Why are some people intelligent and some not
intelligent? There are causes and effects. These happened due
to good and bad Kamma (deeds) done in the previous lives.
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(5) If a person helped and donated to others in previ-
ous life, he will be rich and prosperous in this life. If he was
stingy and did not donate to others in previous life, he will be
poor poor in this life.
Story 5-Thin-ka
Once, Mawluni country(in Benares, India) was ruled
by King Brahmadat. In that country there lived a rich-man
whose name was Thin-ka. He built six big buildings in vari-
ous parts of the country and spent sixty thousands rupees a
day to feed the people. One day Thin-ka thought about his
wealth. If it ran out, he might be unable to feed the people any
more. So he decided to make trade to Suwanna-bumi (Thaton
in Myanmar) with a big ship to earn money . He loaded the
ship with goods and told his family to continue the donation
as usual until he came back. He went to the Pathana jetty at
mid-day, wearing a pair of slippers and holding an umbrella.
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A Silent Buddha, who was residing at Ganda-mardana
mountain, foresaw that Thin-ka would meet danger when his
ship would sink in the ocean. He thought himself ‘‘If I go now
and meet him, he will donate an umbrella and a pair of slip-
pers; and because of the good deeds, he will be saved in the
ocean’’. The Silent Buddha then went to see Thin-ka at the
hotest time of the day without umbrella and slippers.
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At that time the Four Great Lokapala devas (Four
Celestiel beings who look after the world) had assigned Mani-
makalar Devi to save those persons who earnestly observe
the Three Gems, who keep the precepts and who look after the
parents, when they meet danger on the seas.
Mani-maykalar Devi was enjoying living in deva plane,
and forget her duty to look at the ocean. On the seventh day,
when she looked at the ocean Thin-ka was swimming together
with his servant. She knew that Thin-ka Brahmina was a pi-
ous person who kept the precepts. The ship-wreck had taken
place seven days ago and if he died, she would be blamed for
her negligence.
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MANI-MAYKALAR DEVI CARRIED THIN-KA TO
THE SHIP
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Thin-ka asked the Deva , “Oh Deva! You are looking
at me with lovely eyes, and offering food, are you a Deva or a
woman with supreme power?’’.
Deva told Thin-ka, “Oh Thin-ka Brahmana! I am a
Deva with supreme power, a person with a kind heart, and
without ill-feeling; I come to the middle of the ocean for your
own benefit; I have food, bedding, elephant- carriage, horse-
carriage; I will give you what ever you want’’.
Thin-ka wanted to know why the Deva wanted to ful-
fil his desire; is it due his donation or his power?. Then he
asked Deva “Oh beautiful Deva! I have donated all my prop-
erties to people; which is a good deed. I have donated an um-
brella and a pair slippers to the Silent Buddha on my way to
the jetty”.
Thin-ka told the Deva that he had sent the merit to all
the people; the servant had happily accepted the merit.Then
only the Deva carried the servant and put him on the ship.With
her power she send the ship to Mawrini country and provided
Thin-ka’s home with all the jewelleries. Then she left to her
place.
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With all the jewelleries, Thin-ka made donations , kept
precepts, and did good deeds till the end of his life.
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AN OLD MONK AT THE AGE OF 60 , STARTED TO
EDUCATE HIMSELF AND BECAME THE KING’S
ADVISOR
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The Story 6
During Pagan era, there lived a monk who was 60 years
old. He had never been to school. One day he saw a pile of
wooden tooth brushes he had used before. He realized his past
days were without education. He decided to learn. He tried
very hard and finally he became a very learned and famous
scholar. Eventually he became the king’s advisor. Thus, if a
person changes his life style to become better, he can be a
good person; even if he has no good kamma (deed) in his pre-
vious life. To start oneself in the right course is one of the
blessings.
Source:-Myanmar History
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The Story 7
. Once, there was King Min-gyi-swar-saw-kee who ruled
Ain-wa country in Myanmar. Seven-two mile away from the
capital was a big lake, called Meik-thilar Lake. Near the lake
was Wun-zin village. There was a young boy, Maung Nyo,
who was very much interested in literature. When he became
of age, he married the village head-man’s daughter.
The village head-man told his daughter ,“Oh my
daughter! Your husband is only interested in literature; he will
not work hard for a living; I don’t like him; if you love him,
go far away from us and take a pair of bulls and lead a living”.
Then the couple went to far away place and lived as farmers.
At that time, the bank of the Meik-thilar lake was
damaged, so King Min-gyi-saw-kee visited the lake with
his troops.
The King saw a small building with a female statue
inside. The King asked if anybody knew the story of the
building, but nobody could answer properly. The King was
not satisfied with the answers given by the people. The King
asked the villagers whether there was anyone who could tell
about the statue. The villagers told the King that the village
headman’s son-in-law was interested in literature. Then the
King told the village head man to bring his son-in-law.The
village head-man told his daughter that the King asked Mg
Nyo to come to him. The daughter was much frightened and
told her husband about the matter.
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MAUNG NYO EXPLAINED THAT THE STATUE
WAS THE BELOVED LADY OF KING
ANAWRATTHA.
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Maung Nyo then told his wife ,“ Well my beloved lady!
You don’t need to worry; I am going to get the value of my
education”. Then he went to the King with great aspiration.
The King asked about the statue on the bank of the Lake.
Maung Nyo told the story of the building, a female
statue as follows , “Your Honourable King! When your great
great grand father, King Anawratha built the bank of the Meik-
thilar Lake, one Sawbwar (a regional chief) presented his
beautiful daughter to King Anawratha. As he loved the lady
very much, he gave her the position of a Lesser Queen. During
that time she died suddenly of a disease. As the King loved
her very much he could not abandon the dead body of the
lady. He was looking at the dead body every day. Then the
ministers arranged to make the replica of the Lesser Queen
with gold and presented to the King. Then only the King
allowed the body of the lady to be cremated. When the King
wanted to take the golden replica to the Royal Palace, the
ministers requested the King not to do so , as it was not suitable
with traditional custom. The King put the golden replica in a
stone case and buried it on the bank of the Meik-thilar Lake
and built a wooden statue near the replica. As time past on,
people regarded the wooden statue as a Devi (a female angel)
and donated food to her”.
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8. TO BE POSSESSED OF VAST SKILL (SIPPAN CA)
After high school education, a person should study pro-
fessional skills, such as agriculture, carpentry, architecture,
constructions, engineering, teaching, trading, medicine, com-
puter science, tailoring, electronics etc. A person needs pro-
fessional skills to become successful in life.There are many
who are distinguished in academic field, but often they find it
difficult to earn their livelihood for want of knowledge of other
arts, science and handicrafts.
The Story
Long long ago, there lived a millionaire in Benares,
India. He had a son whom the parents loved so much that they
wished their son to lead a luxurious life. In the first stage,
they never gave education and in the second stage they never
led him to earn properties. Since he was a millionaire he
thought his son was well provided with a lot of money and
could live his whole life without doing any work. In the same
town there lived another millionaire who had a daughter. He
treated his daughter the same way without given any educa-
tion thinking she could live a wealthy life without doing any-
thing.
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BUDDHA WAS TELLING ANANDA ABOUT THE SON AND
DAUGHTER OF MILLIONAIRS WERE BEGGARS NOW..
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Eventually the son and the daughter of the two mil-
lionaires got married. Years later, when the two millionaires
passed away they were left with all the wealth. At that time
the drunkards of Benares thought of making the millionaire’s
son to be a drunkard so that they would become properous.
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9. A WELL TRAINED DISCIPLINE (VINAYO CA
SUSIKKHITO)
Discipline is of great importance in the homes,
monasteries, schools, and every society that works for the
common good and welfare of the people as a whole.
There are two broad kinds of displine, eg:- lay displine
and monastic displine.
The least holy code of conduct which lay man should
follow is the five precepts. The main holy code of conducts
that should be followed by monks are (227) codes of conducts.
Moreover, there are many good manners which a human should
follow as good citizens.
Parents should teach discipline to their children at
home. In the same way , teachers should impart good discipline
in school.
Duties of Children.
In five ways a child should minister to the parents:-
(1) by supporting them,
(2) by performing his or her duties owing to them,
(3) by preserving the family system,
(4) by being worthy of his or her inheritance,
(5) by offering alms in honour of their departed
relatives.
Duties of Parents
In five way, the parents show their compassion towards
their children:-
(1) they prevent them from evil,
(2) they persuade them to do good,
(3) they instruct them in the art and science.
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(4) they arrange them in marriage to a suitable wife or
husband,
Duties of Teachers.
In five way teachers show their compassion to their pupils:-
(1) they train them in the best discipline,
(2) they impart instruction which is respected and
admired by them,
(3) they teach them suitable art and science,
(4) they introduce them to their friends and
associates,
(5) they provide for their safety in every
respect.
The Story
Once, there lived King Tharidina in Meikthilar province in
Myanmar . He ruled the country in accordance with the ten rules of
conduct, which a king should abide by. Moreover, he followed five
precepts very firmly. He also taught his country men to follow five
precepts very seriously. As a result the country was peaceful
and prosperous. There were no thieves, robbers or insurgents.
So the country was in peace with good cultivation.
A well trained discipline is Mangala.
Source:- Myanmar History.
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THE COUNTRY WAS PEACEFUL WITH GOOD
CULTIVATION.
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10. PLEASANT SPEECH (SUBHASITACAYA VACA)
Every pleasant word has its value and power. A pleas-
ant word has influence over other people. It is necessary for
us to choose the right, fruitful, fine, sincere, polite, clear and
sweet words in the right place. One who does this is loved,
respected and admired by all where ever he goes.
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THE PLEASANT RICH-MAN SON WITH GOOD
SPEECH APPROACHED THE HUNTER.
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The third young-man asked the second young man.
“How did you address the hunter”. He replied “I called him
my brother”.
The third young man approached the hunter and said
“Well father! Give me meat’’.
The hunter said , “ Your way of calling me father like
a son seems to tremble the heart of a father, so I will give you
the heart.’’
The fourth young man asked the third young man “How
did you address the hunter?”.The third young man said “I called
him,father.”
The fourth young man approached the hunter and
asked, “Well friend! Give me meet”.
The hunter was very pleased and said “A village with-
out a friend is like a jungle; your words fulfil everything, so I
will give all the meat.
The fourth young man requested the hunter to bring
the cart loaded with meat to his home. He told the hunter to
give up his profession as a hunter and to bring the whole fam-
ily and stay in his estate. From that time onwards, they lived
as friends to the end of their lives.
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After birth, the mother has to breast feed the baby and
later give nutritious food which the child needs. During illness,
she has to take care of the child. The father has to take the
child to the doctor for treatment, if he is sick.
During schooling period, they send their child to school
to get a good education. They train him to be physically fit.
They send him to religious teachers to get religious teachings
for his future life.
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MARTU-PAWTAKA-PITU-PAWTAKA SOLEMLY
SAYING THE TRUTH.
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The Story 11
Once upon a time, there lived a young man in Benares.
He loved his parents very much. He treated them as devas.
That was why, his name was known as Martu-paw-taka-Pitu-
paw-taka.
The ministers told the King about the event. The King
said “Bring the man to say solemnly the words of Absolute
Truth”. The ministers went to the man and told him that they
were in great trouble. To relieve them from the disaster, they
requested the man to help them.
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Then, Martu-pawtaka-Pitu-pawtaka went to the front
of the boat and solemnly said, “Since I have been of age, I
have honoured the gratitude of my parents; I love them very
much; I have looked after them with great care as Household
devas, as Sakka (King of Devas) and as King of Brahmas. If
these solemn words are true, may the sand storm stop
suddenly; may all country men, the King, ministers, rich men,
poor men, traders, farmers, and all beings find peace and
prosperity.”
Soon after, the sand storm stopped, and all beings found
peace and tranquility.
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(4) Looking after their welfare and social dealings as you would
have done if it were in your own interest.
(1) Advise them not to do evil deeds. Parents are actually first
hand teachers. Parents need to advise children not to be-
have badly and not to use harsh words.
(2) Teach them to be polite both in manners and speech.
(3) When a child gets old it is the responsibility of parents to
give him or her a good education for his or her livelihood
in future.
(4) Parents must provide money and provisions for the chil-
dren to start their life.
(5) Parents need to arrange marriage with suitable persons with
equal personal status such as age, education, and financial
status.
Story 12 Udaya-Badda Zat.
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At long last, he told the sculptors to make a beautiful
statue of a princess made of gold. He told his father that he
would accept the throne if he could find a lady as beautiful as
the golden statue.
The King and the Queen arranged wth the ministers to
find a lady as beautiful as the statue. When they could not find
such a lady, they dressed up his cousin sister Udaya-Baddar
with all the ornaments. When she was compared with the statue,
she looked more beautiful than the golden statue.
The parents arranged the Coronation of their son with
his cousin sister as the Queen.
As they were reborn from brahmar plane, they were
not interested in sexual desire. They lived together as brother
and sister They promised each other, who died first, must re-
veal his or her place of rebirth.
After seven hundred years of reign, the King
passed away and was reborn in Tavatinsa (a celestial realm)
as Sakka, King of devas. The Queen took his place and ruled
the country.
King Sakka was enjoying in the celestial realm for
seven days.( equavalent to seven hundred years in human
plane; because lifespan of human plan at that time was 10,000
years). He then remembered his promise made to the Queen
Udaya-Baddar. He thought of persuading the Queen with gifts
and giving a Dhamma talk.
The queen was living alone, keeping precepts, on the
seventh floor of the palace, well guarded by soldiers. King
Sakka entered her room and said “ Oh Princess! You are stay-
ing alone; we should stay together.” The Queen was very much
surprised when she heard the voices.
The Queen was thinking, “This Thura-Nandara city
has three canals surrounding it and is well guarded by sol-
diers; who else could come and ask me to live together”.
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KING SAKKA WAS
GIVING DHAMMA TALK TO HIS OLD WIFE.
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King Sakka said “ Oh Princess! I am a deva, if you
love me, please accept my golden pot”.
The Queen answered, “Oh powerful deva! A part from
Udaya-Badda King, I am not interested in other deva. mon-
ster, or human beings. Please go away and never come back
again”. King Sakka disappeared.
Next night, King Sakka came back to persuade the
Queen, “Oh Princess! Sexual pleasure is the best of all the
worldly pleasures; all beings practice this immoral action;
please accept my silver pot”.
Now the Queen was thinking, if she talked to him, he
would be coming again. So she kept silent. King Sakka disap-
peared.
Next night, King Sakka came again with a brass pot
filled with coins and said, “Oh Sister! Will you accept my
request for sexual pleasure?”.
The Queen said, “Oh man! When a man woos a
woman, he should honour her by giving increasing gifts; you
are doing just the opposite; you come this time with very little
gift”.
King Sakka said , “Oh Princess! The age and appear-
ance of human beings are fading every day; you are now get-
ting old; that is why I come to you with small gifts; your ap-
pearance is fading ; please do good deeds; you will get good
benefits”.
The Queen asked King Sakka, about the pleasures in
the deva plane. “Oh powerful deva! Do the deva get old; do
the skin of deva wrinkle?”.
King Sakka replied ,“Oh Princess! Deva do not get
old; there is no wrinkle in the skin; worldly pleasures are in-
creasing”.
The Queen asked, “Oh powerful deva! Which human
beings are not afraid of next existence; which good
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Kamma(deeds) could attain the deva plane; who and how can
attain it?”.
King Sakka replied, “Oh Princess! You should avoid
evil deeds; you should do donation and share merits to others;
you should be aware of four Singaha Dhamma,(metta=loving
kindness,karuna=compassion,mudita=joy,uppekha=equanimity);
a person who has done these good deeds, will not be afraid of
next existence”
The Queen asked “Oh honourable deva! You are giv-
ing Dhamma talk to me as my parents; I would like to know
who you are?”.
King Sakka replied, “Oh Princess! I was your beloved
husband, Udaya-Badda in previous life; I come to you as I want
to fulfil my promise; I would like you to be in deva plane in next
existence”.The Queen was very pleased to hear the whole story.
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13.TO BE ENGAGE IN WORK THAT DOES NOT HURT
OR HARM ANYONE (ANAKULA CA KAMMANTA)
Work is of great importance to people. Every person
must work to earn his own living. A man who has work will
have happiness, health and success in life, as his mind will not
turn towards bad thoughts and because he will be interested in
his work and is fully occupied with it.
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At that town, there lived a grand-mother and a grand-
daughter. They were descended from a rich family; but they
were poor at the moment and worked as servants. In their
house, there was a golden pot, used by their fore-fathers. The
pot was very dirty, as they never used and could not even
recognised a golden pot.
The greedy coloured hollow glass-ball seller was shout-
ing to sell his coloured hollow glass-balls and reached infront
of the old lady’s house. When the grand-daughter saw the seller
she asked her grand-mother to buy a coloured hollow glass
ball for her.
The grand-mother said “Well my grand-daughter! How
can we buy as we are poor?”. Then the grand-daughter re-
plied, “Well Grandma! We can buy it by giving this pot”.
The old lady called the seller and said “Please take
this pot and give some of your coloured hollow glass-balls to
your sister”. The greedy seller scratched the pot with a needle
and knew that the pot was a golden pot. As he wanted to take
the golden pot without giving anything, he said “This pot is
not worth a penny”; so he threw down the pot to the ground.
The honest coloured hollow glass-ball seller came to
the old lady’s house.The grand-daughter asked her grand-
mother to buy a coloured hollow glass-ball. The old lady said,
“The previous seller had already told us that the pot is not
worth a penny and threw down the pot to the ground and went
off”.Then the grand-daughter said ,“Well Grandma! This seller
seems to be kind and good hearted, he might take the pot”.
The young girl called the seller and gave the pot and
asked to give some coloured hollow glass-balls. The honest
seller looked at the pot and said ,“This pot is a golden pot and
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THE HONEST COLOURED HOLLOW GLASS BALL SELLER
GAVE FIVE HUNDRED RUPEES AND FIVE HUNDRED
WORTH OF PROPERTIES TO THE OLD LADY AND HER
GRAND-DAUGHTER.
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and worth one hundred thousand rupees which I don’t have’’.
Then the old lady said ,“Well My son! The previous coloured
hollow glass-ball seller said, this pot is not worth a penny;
although this pot is a golden pot, you deserve it; please take
the golden pot and give some thing for us”. The honest seller
gave five hundred rupees and five hundred worth of proper-
ties to the old lady and her grand-daughter. He just asked the
weighing balance and eight pyas for the boat fair . He went to
the Nilawata river to cross with a boat and return home .
The greedy coloured hollow glass-ball seller returned
to the lady and said ,“Bring that pot, I will give a few glass-
balls”. The grand-daughter scold the coloured hollow glass-
ball seller ,“You have said that the pot which is worth one
hundred thousand rupees, is not worth half a penny; the hon-
est coloured hollow glass-ball seller has taken it away already”.
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14 GIVING ALMS (DANANCA )
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Many people have their own motive for giving char-
ity. Some want to donate schools, monastery. Some want to
donate the requirements of the monks. Some think it is better
to donate hospital, clinic, tube well, bridges, etc.
(1) The donor must have good conduct and must donate to a
person without any craving for materials or services.
(2) The person who receives the charity must have good
conduct, concentration and wisdom. The gift must be
desired by the person at the right time.
(3) The gift must be earned lawfully by the donor and not by
unlawful means.
Result of charity
Those who give charity to others live happily with love
and goodwill of others. Fear and anxiety, envy and jealousy,
bad intention and evil thoughts are not known to such donors.
Those who give charity in good faith enter into social
gatherings fearlessly and gracefully. They will attain the highest
purity of mind, the supreme peace known as Nibbana.
The Story
Motivation of Thi-tha.
Long ago there lived a poor man named Thi-tha. He
lived in a village with his wife and a daughter. One day the
villagers discussed about the donation to Sangha (monks) in
turn. Thi-hta, being poor, could not donate good food. He could
donate only the fermented bean juice.
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The monks did not want the fermented juice. So they
threw it away at the edge of the village. When Thi-tha knew
about it, he was very sad. He told his wife, “Our donated food
is not good, so the monks will not eat.” Then he told his daugh-
ter, “Well My daughter! Please go to the rich man’s house and
work as a servant temporarily and get five hundred rupees.
With that money we will buy a milking cow, and we will do-
nate rice porridge with milk to the monks. That will bring
benefits.”
The daughter willingly accepted her father’s advice
and said “Yes, father! That is a good idea” Thi-tha took his
daughter to the rich man and let her work as a servant. He
invested her temporarily with five hundred rupees. Then he
bought a milking cow and brought it to his house. He told his
wife, “ Well my beloved wife! Please get milk from the cow
and donate the milk daily to the monks; I am going to another
place to work and make some money to get back our daugh-
ter.’’
Then he went to another town to find a job. Luckily he
got a job and could make money. Within six months, he could
save five hundred rupees. He went back to his village.
On his way back, he met a monk who had meditated
day and night. They came back together. They were talking
and the time was almost noon. Thi-tha asked the monk “ Well
Reverend Sir! Do you have lunch to eat?” The monk replied
“There is no lunch for me. ’’ Thi-tha said “Reverend Sir! Please
wait here for a while I will go and find food to donate to you.’’
He met a man who was carrying a lunch box on his back. Thi-
tha said “Well friend, please sell your lunch.” The man re-
plied “How much are you going to pay for the lunch.” Thi-tha
said “I will give you one rupee for that.” The man said, “I
can’t sell it for this money.”
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Thi-tha bargained the price bit by bit. At long last, he
put down five hundred rupees in front of him and begged him
“Well friend! I have no more money, please sell your lunch.”
In the end, the man sold his lunch box to Thi-tha for five hun-
dred rupees.
Thi-tha ran to the monk and offered the lunch. After
lunch the monk and Thi-tha started the journey together. On
the way, the monk asked Thi-tha, how he got the lunch. Thi-
tha told the monk, how he had to work six months to get back
his daughter, how he had to pay five hundred rupees for the
lunch, how he was happy to offer the lunch.
The monk looked at Thi-tha with surprise, he was
thinking “What a good man to do such a wonderful and pre-
cious donation; I must do a good deed in return for this man.”
He then asked the names of Thi-tha, his wife and his daughter
and the village. Thi-tha gave the information and asked the
monk to come to his place when he had a chance. At the junc-
tion of the road they parted their ways, Thi-tha to his village
and the monk to the capital.
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THI-THA COULD CARRY HIS MASTER’S COFFIN
LIKE A DRIED LEAVE.
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The King’s master monk told the King that the Arahat
had passed away. The King came to the monastery with all his
ministers and rich people. They made a bench like a lotus
flower and tried to put the body of the Arahat on the bench.
They neither could lift the body nor carry it, because it looked
like a solid stone pillar stucked under. Then the King’s master
monk recalled the words spoken by the Arahat before he passed
away. “If you call Thi-tha, everything will be fulfilled”. The
King sent a messenger to summon Thi-tha. When Thi-tha ar-
rived the King told him to look and see if the the monk was
his master. When Thitha saw his master he cried and said,
“This is my master.”
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15. TO LIVE THE RIGHTEOUS LIFE ( DHAMMA
CARIYACA)
If a person lives in a righteous way, he or she will en-
joy long live, happy, and free from diseases .
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5. Looking after the above mentioned persons.
6. Giving or sharing the merits of what you have done like
charity to others.
7. Being happy when other people have done charitable deeds.
8. Listening to Dhamma talks, and study religious literature.
9. Giving lectures on Dhamma without expecting honour, fame
or gifts.
10. Following the Dhamma which has been laid down by the
Buddha.
The Story
Once King Brahmadat ruled Benares, in India. At that
time , in Kathi Province, there was a village called Dhamma-
Pala. The villagers were very pious; even the servants kept
precepts, and did meditation.
In that village, there was an old Brahmin by the name
of Maha-Dhamma-Pala. He had a son, whose name was
Dhamma-Pala. When the boy got older, the father sent him to
a University for better education. The old man told his son,
“Dear son!, you better go to the great professor and donate
one thousand rupees to him and get the education.” When the
boy, Dhamma-Pala arrived at the University, he donated ten
thousand rupees to the professor and studied very hard so that
he become the master of five hundred students.
One day, the son of the professor passed away and sent
the body to cemetery for burial. The Professor and students cried
except Dhamma-Pala. When they came back from the cemetery
everybody was saying “The professor’ son died although he was
young and had a good character.” Dhamma-Pala could not
understand the fact so he asked his friends as follows:- “Well
friends! Why did the young boy die , he did not deserve to die
young.” His friends said, “ Dhamma-Pala, don’t you know
that every being has to die.” Then Dhamma-Pala replied,
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“Yes, friends, I know, but in my village and in my ancestry,
people don’t die young; they die only when they get very old.”
When the professor heard the conversation, he called
Dhamma-Pala and said, “Is that true that young people don’t
die, they die only when they are very old in your ancestry and
in your village?” Dhamma-Pala replied, “Yes sir, I am telling
the truth.” The professor was astonished by Dhamma-Pala
words so he decided to go to Dhamma-Pala’s father to inquire
about the matter. If that was true he would ask the advice from
the father on how to live long. The professor told Dhamma-
Pala,“I will go to your father for enquiry. In my absence, you
better teach the students on behalf of me.” Then he left for
Dhamma-Pala’s village with an assistant. The professor put
the bones of a goat into his bag and took it to the village.
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MAHA DHARMA-PALA AND NEIGHBOURS WERE
LAUGHING AT THE PROFESSOR WHEN HE SHOW
THE BONES.
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“We live according to the Dhamma; we donate and keep pre-
cepts; we do not lie and avoid evil deeds. That is why no body
dies at young age in our family; as we do not want to oppose
any one,we listen to all the people; and we only accept lec-
tures given by the wise, and we comply with them; we enjoy
every moment of our donation, before, during and after our
donation; we never regret about the donations; we treat well
the monks, old people, travellers, poor people, even the home-
less and beggars. We firmly keep our five precepts. All our
family as well as our servants are afraid of going to hell in
next existence; we follows Dhamma diligently. Therefore we
do not die at young age. We only die at old age”.
The professor was very pleased ; paid respect to the
old Brahmin and went back to his University town.
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There are four ways of helping relatives.
1. By giving charity to them.
2. By talking kindly.
3. By helping in their work or business.
4. By considering them as one of your kins and treating them
like one.
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The King with it’s troops travelled up to the tip of the
Gangi river. The hunters led the way to the mango tree; rested
under it and enjoyed the taste of the mangoes. At night they
lighted burners and guarded the mango tree.
When the guards were sleeping, monkeys climbed the
mango tree and ate the mangoes. When the King woke up, he
saw the monkeys on the tree. He ordered the hunters to guard
the tree and not to let the monkeys from the tree.
The monkeys were very frightened when they saw the
hunters with bows and arrows. They reported to their King
monkey about the situation. The King monkey told them that
he would give his life to save them.
He climbed the tree to the top and jumped to the other
side of the river. He fell on a bush and took a creeper, tied one
end to a tree and the other end to his waist. He jump to the
mango tree on the other side of the Gangi river. Unluckily he
could catch only a branch of the mango tree with both hands.
He told the monkeys to run over his body and with the help of
the creeper to the other side of the river.
The monkeys paid respect to their King monkey and
escaped to the other side of the river. But the future Devada
monkey thought that he got the chance to destroy the King
monkey. He climbed to a higher branch and jumbed on the
chest of the King monkey and escaped. The King monkey
had a severe chest injury and left alone.
King Brahmadat was watching how the King mon-
key was trying to save his followers at the risk of his life.
In the morning, with great regards, King Brahmadat told
his ministers to make a raft and brought the King monkey
on it. He treated the King monkey with hot fermentation to
the chest; gave a cup of cold water and rubbed the chest
with medicine. He made the King monkey lie down on the
wool skin.The King sit in a lower place and said,
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THE KING MONKEY WAS HELPING HIS RELATIVES TO
CROSS THE OTHER SIDE OF THE RIVER
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“Oh King monkey! You made yourself like a bridge and let
the monkeys cross over you; how are you related to the mon-
keys, and how the monkeys are related to you?”
The King monkey replied ,“Oh honourable King! I am
the King of all the monkeys; to save them, I jumped to the
other side of the river, tied one end of the creeper to a tree and
another end to my waist and jumped back to this side. Unfor-
tunately I could not reach the mango tree properly; so I had to
hold the branches; thus all the monkeys escaped to a safe place
by stepping on my body; after all, I saved my kins; I am not
sorry to meet death”.
“Oh Honourable King! I have told you this example;
please treat your people for their prosperity and happiness; a
King must be wise and kind”. Thus he gave a lecture to the
King and passed away”.
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17. IMMORAL LIVELIHOOD (ANA VAJJANI KAMMANI)
Any kind of work or profession, however humble in
its nature, which is neither criminally nor morally offensive is
called a blameless work. Even in such works , as commercial
trading, cultivating farms, service in civil departments of the
State, working in business firms and factories and in one’s
own profession, one should be sincere, true and honest and
do blameless action.
For example:
(1) Building roads, bridges, ponds, tube wells, schools,
hospitals, health centers, playgrounds, shelters, water
drinking spots.
(2) Building gardens for people to relax.
(3) Doing social works for the benefit of the people and
voluntary work in time of peace or during natural
disasters.
The Story 17
Once there lived a young man in Masala village,
Maghada Province in Yarsajoo country. His name was
Magha. He was pious; observed five precepts and fond
of Dana. (Donations to others.) He did good deeds and
meritorious works for the villagers.
Also there were thirty three young men living in
Masala village. They were good hearted as Magha. They
worked together for the benefit of the villagers. They
constructed and repaired roads for the bullock carts. They built
bridges, wells, ponds, and rest houses.
Because they observed precepts and were doing
donations, villagers also lived peacefully and tried to observe
precepts. The village became peaceful and prosperous. Before,
Masala village was not peaceful. Villagers used to drink
alcohol and did evil deeds. Crimes and bribery were common.
Now there were no crimes and became peaceful because of
good deeds done.
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Village revenue collector under the royal grant of the
King had lost bribes because there was no crime in the village.
So that man was thinking about how to eliminate Magha and
his friends. He then approached the King and told him, “Well
your honour! Magha and his thirty three friends are destroying
the welfare of the village.”
Without inquiring, the cruel King ordered Magha and
his thirty three friends to be killed by an elephant stamping on
them. Just before they were about to be killed by the elephant,
Magha told his friends not to be frightened, or angry, and told
them to send Metta ( loving-kindness) to the King, the elephant
and the guards.
He told his friends to think about their Sila and Dana,
and say solemn truth about their meritorious deed. All the
friends did what Magha advised them to do.
The King’s guards tried again and again to step on
them with the elephant but after the elephant approached them,
it ran away making a loud noise. When the King heard about
the matter he thought the elephant might be afraid when he
saw human beings. He told his guards to cover them with mats
and tried to step on by the elephant. Even then the elephant
ran away as before.
When the King heard the news, he thought there must
be something extraordinary. He told the ministers to bring them
to his palace and asked them ,“Well country-men!, are you
going to form as insurgents and loot the people?” They re-
plied ,“Your honourable King! As we want to become celes-
tial beings in next rebirth, we are repairing roads, building
bridges; the revenue collector got angry with us when we
refused his advise to do bad deeds”
The King said ,“The elephant knows the gratitude of
your people; I, as a human being, do not know it; please for-
give me”.
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THE ELEPHANT REFUSED TO STEP ON MARGA
AND HIS FRIENDS.
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When the King knew the truth, he removed the revenue
collector from his post and punished him for his crimes. He
appointed Magha in his place as village revenue collector. He
gave Magha the elephant as a prize. He asked Marga and his
friends to continue their good work as before. When they
passed away Magha was reborn as Sakka (Deva King) in
Tavatimisa Deva plane. His friends were reborn as Deva near
Sakka.
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The advice of the Buddha, is accepted as the essence of His
Teaching:-
“Cease from evil
Do good
Develop your mind”
(1) Killing
(2) Stealing
(b) The (3)
fourSexual transgression
evil deeds of speech are:-
(1) Lying
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THE YOUNG BROTHER RELEASED THE RABBIT.
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So the elder son told the younger brother to catch a
rabbit and bring its meat. The younger brother went to the
nearby forest. He saw a rabbit eating leaves. When the rabbit
saw him it became afraid and ran away. The rabbit was caught
in a bush so he could not run away anymore. The younger
brother caught the rabbit easily. The rabbit was so afraid that
its body was trembling with fear.
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19. TO ABSTAIN FROM PHYSICAL EVIL (VIRATI PAPA)
To avoid evil deeds with speech and action is one of
the good qualities of those who want to have happiness and
wealth.
The Story
Once there was King Brahmadat who ruled Benares.
During that time there lived a professor who was very learned
and pious. There were five hundred students learning under
the guidance of the professor. He had a beautiful and cultured
daughter. One day he thought to himself, “I would like to find
out a student who is good in morality and will give him her
hand in marriage.”
One day, he called all his students and said, “Well
students! My daughter has come of age to marry. Please bring
jewelleries and clothing for her to wear without the knowledge
of your parents or relatives; I will not accept the jewellies that
you show to your parents and relatives”.
The students went back to their homes and brought
the best jewelleries and clothing without their parents’or
relative’s knowledge. They gave the properties to the profes-
sor and he kept them systematically. Only one student did not
bring anything from his home, and he could not give anything
to the professor.
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THE PROFESSOR TAUGHT THE STUDENTS NOT
TO DO EVIL DEEDS.
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The professor asked the young student why he did not
bring any property, he replied,“ Your Honourable Professor! I
don’t want to bring any thing without the knowledge of anyone;
there is no place for bad deeds; that is why I do not bring
anything”.
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The habit of taking intoxicants is the most dangerous
in the world. Quarrelling, fighting and disputing may result.
Under the influence of an intoxicant, he forgets to do good
things and is induced to do wrong to his parents, teachers,
elders. holy persons, etc.
To refrain from intoxicants is one of the blessings.
The Story
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THE SON WISHED FOR ALCOHOL AND GOT
DRUNK.
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From that time on, the rich man’s son became very
poor again and his father could not help him anymore. He
became a beggar and died homeless
Comment:-To refraim from intoxicants is a blessing.
Source:- 550 Nipada, Sura-ga-te Zat.
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Story 21:- Eku-dana Monk
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BUDDHA HONOURED THE MONK WHO KNEW
THE FOUR NOBLE TRUTHS PRACTICALLY
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would like to listen the Dhamma talk?”. Eku-dana replied,
“There are Devas who listen to Dhamma talk and they will
happily exclaim Sadhu! with loud voices”.
One of the learned monks gave a Dhamma talk. Not a
single Deva said Sadhu. Then the monks argued, “ You told us
that the Devas would exclaim Sadhu after the Dhamma talk;
but we cannot hear any voice; why is that?”.
Eku-dana replied, “On other sabbath days Devas used
to exclaim Sadhu, but I could not understand why they do not
exclaim on this day?”.
The monks told Eku-dana to give a Dhamma talk. Eku-
dana gave a Dhamma teachings and spoke out the usual verse.
Devas exclaimed “Sadhu!, Sadhu!, Sadhu!.”
Then the followers of the learned monks said, “Devas
were not fair and they did not say Sadhu. The learned monk
has given a long course of Dhamma. Not a single Deva has
appreciated and honoured it; they exclaimed Sadhu to a short
verse given by an old monk who became a monk at old age”.
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22. PAYING RESPECT AND HONOUR TO ELDERS AND
SUPERIORS. (GARAVO CA)
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3. You will be promoted to a better position in your job.
The story
Once there lived in Himalaya, a partridge, a monkey
and an elephant near a big banyan tree. As they had different
nature , they did not know how to respect each other.
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AT LAST THEY ALL AGREED TO FIND OUT WHO
WAS THE OLDEST AMONG THEM.
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The partridge accepted their words. He gave advice to
them and also asked to do good deeds every day He himself
stood as a respectable person to his friends. Thus there was
harmony in their living. They stayed in peace and lived to old
age happily.
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(4) The take pride when they have many followers
or servants.
The Story 23
The King had two sons, the elder known as Bala and
the younger one known as Thaw-ma. The elder son Bala was
very proud and he treated the ministers and countrymen with
pride. Therefore the ministers and the countrymen didn’t like
him. The younger son Thawma was different. He had a good
heart and was not proud like his brother. He was humble to
the ministers and countrymen, so they all loved him.
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One day Bala went to the royal ceremony on horseback
wearing good clothes. While he was riding, he saw an old man
walking in front of him. The old man was carrying a bag and
was travelling to a distant place.
The old man replied, “Well son! with all the good
clothes that you are wearing, and going to the royal ceremony,
you won’t look nice walking instead of riding a horse.” Thawma
said, “Don’t worry about me; I can travel on foot. Please take
my horse as you have pain in your legs”
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THAWMA JUMP DOWN FROM THE HORSE
AND OFFERED HIS HORSE TO THE OLD MAN
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Thawma received the book of doctrine happily. The
old man went off on the horse. Thawma humbly went to the
royal ceremony walking. All the princes and ministers came
to the royal ceremony riding horses or in royal carriages. The
ministers were surprised to see Thawma come walking to the
royal ceremony.
After six months, a royal mission from a neighbouring
country paid visit to the King and said, “Well Your honour!,
we heard that you are very wise and you also have many wise
ministers; our King, consulted by his ministers wants to ask
three questions to test your county’s learning”.
They offered three questions written on a gold plate to
the King.
They were:
The elder son, Bala said he would capture the royal mission
and killed them because they came to ask difficult questions. The
King didn’t agree with his idea but Bala didn’t give up. So in
the end the King had to deport him from the country
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Then the young son Thawma approached his father and
said that he could answer the three questions. Thawma said,
“Well Father!, don’t worry; after I have studied the book of
doctrines given by the poor old man, I can answer the three
questions very well.” He told his father the story of how he
met the old man and got the doctrines from him. The King and
the ministers were very pleased with what he said.
Then the day came for the answers. They prepared to
perform a ceremony. The King, Queen, Royal family, ministers
and Royal mission attended the ceremony. The younger son,
Thawma, sat bravely in front of the audience and answered
the three questions.
(1) The bird whose wings and tail are made of bones is a
beetle.
(2) The bird whose wings and tail are made of flesh is a
flying squirrel.
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24. TO BE CONTENT (SAMTUTTI CA)
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The Story
The traders were not satisfied and they didn’t obey the
leader and continued digging. The old well was not an ordinary
well. It was the place where the King dragon lived. The traders
dug the well so deep that they destroyed the dragon’s cave.
The King dragon was so angry that he blew poisonous gas
from his nose.
All the traders except the leader were killed. Later the
King dragon transformed into a human being and came out of
the well. He didn’t harm the leader. He put all the jewelleries
onto a cart and accompanied the leader and brought all the
properties to his home. Then the King dragon went back to his
dragon country.
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THE KING DRAGON WAS SO ANGRY THAT HE
BLEW POISONOUS GAS FROM HIS NOSE.
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The leader donated all the jewelleries to the people. He
was contented and kept the precepts. When he died he was reborn
in celestial plane.
Source:- 550 Nipada Jarrudapana Zat.
25 GRATITUDE (KATINNUTA)
Gratitute means the awareness of one’s duty to another
person who has previously done some act of kindness towards
one. In this world, people who are always ready to help are
rarely found; but rarer still are those who remember and are
grateful to those who have help them.
Parents are the first persons who care for their children
in many ways. They treat their children by giving birth,
clothing, food and taking care of them when they are sick.
They give advice to their children on how to live in childhood
and later life.
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We should never forget the help of many other who
give us shelter, food and advice. If a person is not grateful to
the above persons,we have to repay in suffering in many ways.
The Story
Once in Benares, there lived a King who was kind
hearted. He ruled the country with good intention, kept precepts
and gave donation to the monks and people. One day
insurrection arose in the far frontier. The King and the army
went out to the place to fight and bring peace. Unfortunaly he
and his army were defeated
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He gave the King good food and a bed to sleep. He
said, “Please stay here and take a rest; I will take care of you
in all respects.” The King slept and the man washed the King’s
horse, rubbed with oil and fed him with grass. Thus, he treated
the King as an ordinary King’s servant. After 3-4 days, the
King prepared to leave the village. Before the King left, he
invited the man to visit the royal city. “Well friend!, I am known
as the superior horse rider; my home is in the middle of the
town; please tell the guard of the southern city gate to bring
you to the house of the superior horse rider; he will send you
to that place; please go back now”.
After that the King waited for the villager but he did
not show up. Then the King had an idea. He ordered to collect
tax on the village where the villager lived. Even then the
villager did not show up. Then the King ordered to submit the
tax to the villagers two to three times. At that time all the
villagers made a meeting and approached the villager saying
that, “Well friend! we have to pay more taxes after your friend,
superior horse rider came to our village; now we are getting
poor because of the taxes, please be kind enough to go to the
superior horse rider and tell him to arrange for a free tax.
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Since the good villager could not refuse their request,
he went to the royal city. He brought some clothing and food
as present for his friend and family. When he reached the city
gate he told the guard to take him to the superior horse rider’s
house . The guard took him happily to the King. Only then, he
knew that his friend, the superior horse rider was not an
ordinary man, but the King himself.
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A BRAVE AND GOOD VILLAGER WELCOMED THE
KING AND TOOK HIM TO HIS HOUSE.
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KALA WAS SO ABSORBED IN THE BUDDHA’S
TEACHING THAT HE BECAME SOTAPANA
(STREAM-WINNER)
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During Buddha’s life time, many persons including
human and celestial beings attained Nibbana. He has left 5000
years of Sasana (Buddha’s teachings) during which time many
beings can attain Nibbana.
That is why we should listen to Buddha’s teachings
and take the opportunity of learning his doctrine. At the same
time we should go to meditation centers or to a quiet place
and practice meditation under the guidance of a good teacher.
Hearing Buddha’s teachings is one of the blessings.
The Story
During Buddha’s life time, there lived a rich man by
the name of Anathapindika who was the donor of the great
monastery to the Buddha. He had a son named Kala. Kala
never gave respect to Buddha and never listened to his teach-
ings. The rich man was not happy with his son.
One day, the rich man told his son “Well son! if you
keep eight precepts and listen to Buddha’s Dhamma, I will
give you one hundred rupees.” As he wanted the money, he
went to the monastery and kept the eight precepts but did not
listen to Dhamma.
He went to one corner and slept there and came back
in the morning. He did not eat his breakfast unless he got his
money. Next time the father said to his son, “Well son! you
better stay in front of Buddha and try to memorize one
paragraph of Dhamma; I will give you one thousand rupees
this time.” Then he went to the monastery thinking he would
run away after he got one paragraph of Dhamma. As he listened
to Dhamma, he was so absorbed in the Buddha’s teachings
that he became Sotapanna (Stream winner.)
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27 TO BE PATIENT (KANTICA)
Patience is another virtue taught by Buddha. In his life
time, he had shown his patience to many oppositions. In this
way he had won many difficulties. For a layman, even at the
early stage of life, we have to be patient during our studies.
There are many difficulties during our school days. We finally
gain our professional degrees or diplomas by showing our
patience. Also in our jobs, we used to face with difficult prob-
lems and also meet many odd personals. With patience, we
gain our jobs and get success.
During meditation we can find a lot of sufferings but
with great patience we gain ultimate goal. There is a saying in
Myanmar “Only with patience we gain Nibbana.” (Ultimate
end of suffering.)
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house. When the General saw the hermit, he was very much
impressed by the hermit’s personality that he invited the her-
mit to enter his house and fed him with food which was pre-
pared for him.Then he requested the hermit to stay in the King’s
garden.
At that time, King Kalabu went to the royal garden
with all the dancers. He laid down in the bosom of his beloved
lady and enjoyed the dancing. He felt asleep within a short
time. While the King was sleeping, all the dancers went inside
the garden to see the sceen. They met the hermit under the
sala tree and asked for the Dhamma talk. The hermit gave a
Dhamma teaching to them.
At that time, the lady woke the King. The King asked
for the dancers and noticed that they went to the hermit and
were listening the Dhamma talk. The King became very wild
and went to the hermit with a big dagger in his hand trying to
kill him. The rest of the women consoled him not to get angry.
When the King saw the hermit, he asked the hermit
what kind of concept the hermit practiced. The hermit replied,
“Oh Honourable King!, I have the concept of patience”
The King asked the hermit ,“What is patience?”.The hermit
replied ,“Oh Honourable King!, a person with patience will
not get angry when he is abused or hurt physically by another
person”. As the King wanted to know whether the hermit had
the patience or not, he ordered the professional killer to tie
down the hermit and beat him two thousand strokes with a
cane that contained spikes. The professional killer did as the
King ordered him. The skin of the hermit got torn and bled
from the wounds.
The King asked the hermit again ,“Oh hermit!, what
concept you have?”.The hermit replied, “Oh Honourable
King!, you think my patience lay in my skin; you cannot see
my patience; because it lies in my mind”..
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KING KALABU WAS TRYING TO KILL THE HER-
MIT
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Then the King ordered the professional killer to cut
both the hermit’s hands and legs; bleeding came out from the
cut ends. The King asked the hermit again, “What concept
you have?”. The hermit replied ,“Oh Honourable King!, I have
the concept of patience”. Then the King ordered the profes-
sional killer to cut the hermit’s ears and nose; bleeding came
out from all the wounds. Then the King asked the hermit again,
“What kind of concept you have?”. The hermit replied ,“Oh
Honourable King!, I have the concept of patience”. Then the
King told the hermit “ You better think of the concept of pa-
tience”. The King kicked the chest of the hermit with great
force and left.
When the King was away, the General cleaned all the
wounds and kept all the limbs and the nose in a bag. He propped
up the hermit in a sitting position. The General requested the
hermit ,“Oh Vernerable Sir! , please get angry to the King; but
please save the country”. The hermit replied “Oh My Gen-
eral!, the King has already cut my limbs and nose; I prayed
the King live for many years; a wise-man like me does not get
angry”.
When the King arrived at the gate of the Royal gar-
den, the great earth opened up and the fire from Apaya (Hell)
wrapped the King and took him to Hell.
The hermit expired in the garden. All the countrymen
cremated the hermit with scents and flowers
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28 OBEDIENCE(SOVACASSATA)
Obedience means to accept good advice given by oth-
ers with love and good faith. We need good advice to improve
our way of life. We should not hesitate to take good advice
given in good faith and with good intention by parents, teach-
ers and friends who are superior in age, intellect or character.
Some people are very stubborn. They do not want to listen to
the advice given by teachers during our school days.
Therefore they suffer needlessly in life. In many cases,
we need to take other people’s good opinion from the early
life. We must know how to behave in community.
One should not hesitate to follow resonable instruc-
tions which are given in good faith and with good intention,
by those who are superior in age, intellect and character.
The story
Once upon a time, King Bramadat ruled Benares. His
country was big, properous and strong in military might.
Kosala country was ruled by King Digitti. Kosala country was
small; the army was not strong and not properous. King
Bramadat invaded Kosala. As his army was not strong enough
to fight back, King Digitti ran away with his Queen. At the
outskirts of the country they disguised as ordinary people and
lived in a potter’s house.
Since King Digitti and the Queen ran away,King
Bramadat took over the country including the army and wealth
of the Kosala country.
SoonI the Queen got pregnant and gave birth to a son
sss
who was named Prince Digarvu. King Digitti was pondering
as such “King Bramadat might find us living here although
disguised. If he kills us, our son will also be killed. So he sent
his son to a safer place for better education.” To his expectation,
King Bramadat found them although they were disguised.
Immediatelythey were caught and sent to a place where people
were executed.
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After finishing his education, Prince Digarvu came
back to the village to see his parents. On the way he found his
parents being brought for execution. All the people were
looking at the King and Queen, Prince Digarvu could not do
anything but look at them as they passed by.
When the King Digitti saw his son among the people,
he spoke out an advice . “Retaliation to enmity will not bring
peace; only without retaliation can there be peace.” At that
time people said, “The King has gone mad; He is just rattling
out of confusion.” The King replied, “Well folks, I am not
mad and rattling with confusion; only the wise person will
understand it”.
When they arrived at the place of execution, both the
King and the Queen were killed. Prince Digarvu gave alcohol
to the guards until they were totally drunk. Then he cremated
both parents. He was so sad that he cried to the utmost. Then
he wiped his tears and went to work as an assistant to King
Bramadat elephant’s trainer. Every morning he sang a song
while playing his harp.
When the King heard his music he was so pleased that
he brought the Prince to his side to play the harp. Prince
Digarwu did all his work efficiently. The King was so pleased
that he appointed him as his personal assistance.
One day the King asked Prince Digarvu to drive his
royal carriage and went to his deer garden. Then the Prince
persuaded the King and took him to a place where there were
no King’s guards.
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THE PRINCE TOOK OUT THE DAGGER TO KILL
THE KING.
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When the King was fast asleep, the Prince thought,
“Now I have got a chance to kill the person who took over my
country, my wealth and executed my parents.” He took out a
long dagger from the case. Then he remembered the words
spoken by his father on the way to the execution place. So he
put back the dagger into the case without killing the King. He
tried to kill the King three times but he could not do it. He
remembered his father’s words, so he put back dagger into the
case.
When the King woke up, the King was much
frightened. The Prince asked the King what made him
frightened.The King answered that, “I dreamed that King
Digitti’s son Digarvu had killed me with a sword , that is why
I was so frightened” Then the Prince pulled the King’s hair
with his left hand and held the dagger with his right hand and
said, “ I am King Digitti’s son, Prince Digarvu; you have
taken our country and our wealth and have killed my parents;
now it is the time for my revenge; can you escape from my
hand?”. The King replied “There is no chance of escape from
your hand”. The Prince said, “Well King!, I have listened to
the advice of my father; retaliation will not bring peace to
enimity, without retaliation can only bring peace, I will not
take revenge; if you want to retaliate, you can kill me.” He
gave the dagger to the King.
The King replied, “Well Prince!, I am not going to
retaliate any more.” So he brought the Prince to the palace.
The King gave his daughter’s hand in marriage to the Prince.
He returned Kosala country and palace to the Prince. From
that time onwards, there was peace between the two kingdoms.
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29 TO SEE HOLY PERSONS( SAMANANACA ANAM)
There are two types of monks. Some live in villages
and towns; they learn the holy scriptures and teach and preach
to the young monks and lay people.
Some monks live apart from the people in certain deep
forests; they lead a life of simplicity, purity, and holiness.
Holy persons are the ones who are meditating to get
rid of greed, hatred, ignorance, pride and wrong beliefs. Bud-
dha had said that if a person goes and see those holy persons
or monks, he will gain many benefits.
How to see them?
(1) By visiting the monks in their dwellings or monasteries.
(2) By inviting the monks to your home, giving alms and
offering good food. At the same time the monk will give
back good advice.
What benefits you will gain?.
As soon as you see the pious monk, your pride will go
away. Monks have given up defilements to a certain stage, so
their mind is clear and calm. Their faces show stability and
peace. If you see them your mind also becomes calm and peace-
ful. They can give you good advice and teaching especially
when you are sad and depressed. That is why you should go
and see the holy persons.
The Story (Meritorious deeds of a clever dog)
Once there was an outbreak of infectious disease in
Alamkarpa Province. The disease spread from one person to
another, one house to another, one village to another and then
from one town to another. Many people died of the disease. At
that time a man vacated with his wife and son to another
province. They crossed a barren land. They met a lot of
difficulties on the way. Ultimately they crossed the barren land.
In the evening they reached a little hut owned by a cowhand.
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On that day people in the little hut were cooking rice
with pure milk. So they offered food to the three persons. As
the three were very hungry, they fed them a pot-full of rice
porridge. The wife ate only sufficient amount although she
was very hungry. The man ate quite a big amount without any
consideration. He died on that night because of indigestion.
Before his death, he was so attached to the little hut. Because
of this attachment, he was reborn as a male dog. The cowhand
loved the little dog so much that he fed him nicely and took
along with him wherever he went.
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THE COWHAND TOOK AWAY THE DOG
WHEREVER HE WENT.
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When the Silent Buddha saw the clever little dog, he
knew that he came to fetch him; he went to the little hut to
receive alms. Just to test the intelligence of the little dog, the
Silent Buddha went the wrong way. At that time, the little
dog blocked the way of the Silent Buddha; only when He chose
the right path, the little dog removed his blockage. When the
little dog reached a place where his master used to strike the
trees and bushes, he started barking with a loud noise. Because
of the loud noise of the dog the wild animals ran away.
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30. DISCUSSING DHAMMA AT APPROPRAIT TIMES
(KALENA DHAMMA SAKACCHA)
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The Story (The two wise men)
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THE TWO WISE MEN CONVERSED IN GOOD
ATMOSPHERE.
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Poyarzar replied, “Well, Sihapati! , I just consume the
cane according to a natural rule to get increasing taste.”
Source:- Mani-radana-pon
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31. LEADING A SELF DISCIPLINED LIFE (TAPO CA)
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THE KING WAS DONATING AN UMBRELLA AND
A PAIR OF SLIPPERS TO THE HERMIT.
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The King told his ministers to leave. Even then, the
hermit could not ask what he wanted and told the King that he
would tell later.
The next day, the same thing happened again. It took
twelve years before he could not say his desire.
The King thought the hermit was getting bored of his
life; he might want to be a King. With that idea in his mind, he
went to the hermit and said, “Your Venerable Sir!, please be
free and tell me what you want; I can give you everything,
even my throne”.
The hermit said, “ Well My Noble King!, are you sure
that you are going to give me what I want?”. The King replied
“Yes Your Vernerable Sir!”.
The hermit said ,“I want an umbrella made of leaves
and a pair of slippers for my journey”.
The King was very much surprised and replied, “Your
Venerable Sir!,“Why can’t you ask for such a small thing with-
out waiting for twelve years?”.
The hermit replied ,“Well My Noble King!, wise-man
think, asking a thing to another is unpleasant; and refusing
your request by others feels the same; therefore I make a re-
quest to see you in a private place.
“Oh Noble King!, I do not want worldly things, give
me an unbrella and a pair of slippers for my journey”.The
King donated what the hermit needed.
The hermit preached the King, to be mindful; to do-
nate to others and to keep precepts. He then left to Himalaya
and practiced higher psychic power and when died, he was
reborn in Brahmar plane.
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The parents did not like what their son told them.
They just wanted their son to get married. Vippali thought
of preventing further advice from the parents. So he
requested a goldsmith to made a beautiful statue with pure
gold and dressed up with pretty dress. He showed the statue
to the parents and said “Well Mother and Father! I will marry
if I can get a lady similar to this beautiful statue”.
The parents sent eight ponnars to search for a beauti-
ful lady similar to the statue.They put the statue on a wagon
and with all the gifts, went from town to town, in search of the
beautiful lady. When they reached Targala town they found a
lady as beautiful as the statue. She was the daughter of a Bramin
from Kawliya Clan. Her name was Bahda-Karpiliarni.
The ponnars presented the statue and all the gifts to
the lady’s parents; told about their visit and asked for their
daughter to marry Vippali. Bahda- Karpilarni’s parents agreed
happily. When Vippali heard the news, he sent a message on a
golden plate, relating that he did not want to get married; he
had determined to become a monk soon.
So also Bahda-Karpilarni sent a message to Vippali
relating that she did not want to get married. The two messen-
gers met on the way and agreed to open the letters.They re-
wrote the letters saying that they would accept as lovers and
sent the letters to Vippali and Bahda-Karpilarni Thus the two
persons got married without their consents. Even though they
got married, they stayed as brothers and sisters .
Thus they lived together and when the parents passed
away they got huge amount of properties.They consulted each
other and agreed to donate all their wealth to the people.
Then after, they cut their hairs ; wore yellow robes
and departed from the village. At the junction of the road, they
decided to take separate paths.
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THE EIGHT PONNARS WENT AROUND THE
TARGALA TOWN TO FIND A LADY AS BEAUTIFUL
AS THE GOLDEN STATUE.
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Vippali arrived at the Buddha and became a monk. He
meditated vigourously and on the eight day, he attained Arahat
and well known as Ashin Maha Kassapa.
Bahda-Kappilini , at last, became a Bikkuni (a female
monk). She meditated with great effort and later became a
female Arahat. She was well known as Bahda Kippilini Theri.
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(3) Nirodha Sacca (the truth of extinction of
sufferings)
The third is that of the end of sufferings which
is Nibbana, the ultimate goal of the Buddhist.
It is achieved by a total eradication of all forms
of craving. This Nibbana is to be understood
by the mind by renouncing all internal
attachments to the external world.
(4) Magga Sacca ( the truth of the path leading to
extinction of sufferings)
This is the path that leads to cessation of pain and
sorrow. They are right view, right intension, right
speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort,
right mindfulness and right concentration.
The Story (Kisa-gotami)
Once, there lived a rich man’s daughter in Savithi town
in India. Her name was Kisa-gotami. When she became a
young adult, her father became very poor.
However, she got married to a rich man’s son and went
to live in the rich man’s house. After living for a few years, a
son was born. Unfortunately the son died at the age of walking.
She had not seen a dead person; she thought there must be a
medicine which could cure her child.
Kisa-gotami became very sad that she almost went out
of her mind. She carried her dead son in her bosom and asked
everybody to treat her son to become alive again. A very kind
wise man said, “Well My daughter!, I don’t know the medicine
to treat your son to become alive; but please go to Gautama
Buddha, he knows the medicine.”
Kisa-gotami went straight to Buddha. She asked for
medicine to get her son alive. Buddha said, “Please bring a
handful of mustard seeds from a house where they have never
experienced death, to make medicine for your son.”
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KISA-GOTAMI CARRIED HER DEAD SON IN HER
BOSOM AND ASKED EVERY BODY TO TREAT HER
DEAD SON TO BECOME ALIVE
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She could not find a house wherer there had been no death.
Then she realised that nobody could avoid death. She
buried her son in the forest and went back to Buddha.
Buddha asked Kisa-gotami “Did you bring the mus-
tard seeds”. She replied ,“Oh Buddha!, I could not get it”.
Buddha said, “My dear Kisa-gotami! , do you think
that death occurs only to your son , it is common to all beings.
As a big wave sweeps away the sleeping villagers, the king of
death takes away those who are forgetting Dhamma and
always thirsty with cravings’’
She did not wear good yellow robes. She used to wear
yellow robe made from cloth which wrapped the dead bodies.
That is why Buddha praised her as the best female monk who
wore the rarest yellow robe not owned by any person. She
was honoured as Lunka-Siwara-Darana outstanding candidate.
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34 THE REALISATION OF NIBBANA(NIBBANA
SACCHIKIRIYACA)
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When she could not get his permission, she left the
house when her husband went for firewood. When he learnt
about Padasari from his neighbours, he followed her
immediately. They met on the way and he asked her to come
back. She refused to return; so they continued their journey to
her parents. Before reaching her parent’s home, she delivered
a son in the forest. Padar-Sarye returned to their home without
going to her parent’s place.
After some time, she got pregnant again. She then
prepared to go back to her parents for the delivery. The husband
requested her not to go back. She moved out from the house
as on previous occasion. When the husband knew, he ran after
her and met in the forest. They could not proceed on the journey
as the baby was due to be born. There was heavy rain with
gust of wind blowing. The husband cut down the bushes to
get shelter from the rain. As he was trying to clear a bush, a
cobra struck him and he fell down dead.
While waiting for her husband with her elder son, she
delivered another son. Both the children were crying as they
were afraid of the stormy weather. Padasari held both the
children in her arms the whole night.
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A GIANT HAWK CAME DOWN FROM THE SKY
AND SNATCHED THE BABY THINKING THAT IT
WAS A PIECE OF MEAT.
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She carried the newborn baby and crossed the river.
When she got to the other bank she rocked the baby to sleep
and left him on the leaves. Then she again crossed the river to
bring her elder son.
The
. man replied “Well my young sister!, both your
parents and your younger brother died when their house
collapsed due to last night’s thunder storm; you can see the
smoke coming out of their cremation.”
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One person threw a cloak to Padasari. She put the cloak
to cover her body and worshipped Buddha and said, “Oh
Buddha!, my young son was carried away by a hawk, the elder
son drowned in the river, I lost my husband in the forest; my
parents and younger brother died when the house collapsed
by the storm; please save me.”
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While she was realizing the truth of life, The Buddha
sent the six coloured rays in front of her and preached as fol-
lows:- “Oh Padar-Sari!, it is better to live one moment or one
morning or one day, realizing the rising and vanishing of the
five Khandas than to live one hundred year without realizing
them”. At the end of the preaching she became a Female
Arahat.
They are gain and loss; success and defeat; praise and
blame; pleasure and pain. Everybody has to experience these
ups and downs of life at one time or another in life. When they
meet good ones - gain, success, praise and pleasure -,they are
very happy with themselves.
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Whether poor or rich, small or big, uneducated or
educated, foolish or wise, ups and downs of life will come to
all living creatures without exception. People are bound to
meet with them at some time, because nobody can avoid them.
You must train your mind to stand up against the impact of
these conditions whether they are good or bad. Only the trained
mind can stand up to the difficulties of life.
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Sotappana
Sakadagami
Anagami
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Arahatta
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“I DON’T WANT YOU ANY MORE” THEN SHE
ELELVATED HER BODY INTO THE SKY AND
WENT OFF.
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One day, the Prince met a fairy in the forest. He was
attracted by the fairy so he left the Princess and followed her.
As the Princess knew all about worldly conditions, she did
not feel sorry even when her husband left her. She went to the
hermit and started meditation. In a short time, she gained Jhana
Abhinna (Higher spiritual powers such as levitation attained
through the manifestation of mental absorption.)
Prince Brahmadat could not catch hold of the fairy.
He lost sight of her in the forest so he returned to the Princess.
When the Princess saw the Prince, she just elevated her body
into the sky with her Jhana Abhinna - Higher spiritual powers.
“Well Prince!, because of you, I now possess these Higher
spiritual powers; I don’t want you any more; I have no more
attachment to you and cut my love as a saw cut the elephant
task”. Then she elevated her body into the sky and went off.
The Prince was left alone in sorrow and said “I have lost
Princess Asitabu, it is all because of my greed and pride”. He
lived all alone in the forest and when his father died, he became (1) L
king.
Source:- 550 Nipada Asitabu Zat.
Thus the Buddha taught:- Not to be shaken by ups an
downs of life is a blessing.
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What are the causes of sorrow?
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(4) Deterioration of Morality
A person’s morality can be deteriorated by friends or
by himself. He may enjoy drinking, gambling or other immoral
pleasures. For that he will lose his good friends as they stay
away from him. He cannot get into the community as he feels
ashamed to associate with people.
5) Deterioration of Right View
Most Buddhists are interested in donation (Dana),
morality (Sila) and meditation (Bhavana). But some do not
believe in Dana, Sila and Bhavana. So they will never be
interested to follow the Right view to be liberated from Samsara
(cycle of rebirth)
This is the result of not studying the religious lessons
during their younger days. Atfer death they will go to “Apaya”
(plane of miserable existence). So it is very important that
parents should teach their children religious lessons while they
are young. Therefore, we must try to learn Dhamma to get rid
of sorrow.
The Story
Once there was King Bramadat who ruled Benares.
Just on the outskirts of Benares town, there was a Brahmana
family. They were farmers, the parents, the son, daughter, the
daughter-in-law and a servant lived together. The whole family
worked in the fields.
The father, the head of the family, was very pious and
did a lot of meritorious deeds. That is why he used to say to
his family members. “Do charity, observe precepts (abstaining
from evil actions both physical and mental); don’t forget that
death can overtake you anytime; nothing is permanent; all
living beings are impermanent; be aware of this always.” The
whole family followed as he advised them.
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One day the old man went out with his son to the field
for farming. The son gathered all the dried plants and set fire.
The smoke got into the eyes of a snake sleeping in a bush. The
snake got angry and struck the son who fell down and died.
The old man ran to his son but it was too late. He carried his
son carefully and laid it down under a tree. He did not cry and
continued farming.
Soon, he saw a neighbour passing by. He requested
the man “Well friend!, Please go to my house and tell my wife
to send food not for two, but just for one. Please tell also that
the family should all come wearing good clothes, bringing
flowers and incense.
The neighbour went to his house and told his wife
everything that he was asked to do. The lady asked the
neighbour, “Dear young man!, who tell these words?” The
young man replied ,“ Oh mother!, the old man tell to do so”.The
mother took for granted that her son was dead and took all the
family to the field. When they arrived there they saw their son
was dead. Since everybody knew the Dhamma so nobody cried.
The father put the body of his son under a tree and ate
his meal After that they searched for wood for cremation. They
gathered the wood and made a stack. They put the corpse on
the stack and cremated with it flowers and incenses. Nobody
shed tears as they kept aware of death and suffering.
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“WHAT BENEFIT WILL WE GET AS HE COMES
AND GOES ACCORDING TO HIS KAMMA.
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you son?” The old man replied,“We loved our son a
lot”. “Why don’t you cry if you love your son?”.The old man
replied “My son has left his body as a snake has left its skin;
he cannot know our sorrow; he has left to next existence;
therefore we don’t worry for him; so we don’t cry at all.”
Then King Sakka asked the old lady, “Well mother!,
the father doesn’t cry because he’s a man and can control his
mind. Your mind is soft and yet why do you not cry?”
The mother replied ,“Well, our son comes to us without
invitation, he goes from us without our permission; what
benefit will we get as he comes and goes automatically. He
will not know even if we cry, so we dont worry and we don’t
cry”.
Then King Sakka asked his sister. “Well sister, don’t
you love your brother, why don’t you cry?”
The sister replied,” Well! our brother has died and been
cremated already; he will not know if we cry; he has gone for
another rebirth. That is why we do not cry.”
King Sakka asked the widow. “Your husband has died
and you are now a widow; you have no one to depend on; why
don’t you cry for that?”
“Well! A person who cries for a dead person is like a
child asking the moon to give him something: that is why I
don’t cry.”
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King Sakka very much appreciated the words spoken
by all those five persons and said, “Please continue to be aware
of death; from this day onwards do not work with great effort;
I will take care of all of you to have all kinds of seven
jewelleries in your home; be peaceful and do donation; ob-
serve precepts” Then he left for his celestial realm.
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37. A STATE OF PURITY(VIRAJAM)
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He worked in a rich man’s house for his living. The
rich man didn’t know that he was a prince. Later they found
out that he was the prince. The rich man said, “Please do not
work; we will take care of you, stay as you wish; but please
request your younger brother not to levy tax.”
The elder son did what the rich man told him. The
younger brother who was the King exempted the rich man
from taxation. When the villagers heard the news, they ap-
proached the elder brother and requested, “Well Prince!, please
do something for us to be exempted from taxation. They gave
the tax to the elder brother. He took the tax given by the vil-
lagers and arranged tax exemption from his younger brother.
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Although the elder brother got the throne back, he was
not satisfied . He wanted to possess at least two or three coun-
tries. The Sakka, the Deva King knew about it. He transformed
himself into a young man and said , “I must give a lesson to
this foolish man.” He went to the elder brother and said pri-
vately, “I have seen three properous and well guarded coun-
tries; I can occupy these countries and offer you in a short
time; please wait.” Then he went back to his deva plane.
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THE ELDER BROTHER ORGANIZED AN ARMY
AND MARCHED TOWARDS THE CAPITAL.
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At that time a brilliant man came back to his family
after graduating from a University. After he heard the news
about the King, he went to see the King to treat him. He said,
“Oh Honourable King!, please do not be afraid of the disease,
just tell me the cause of your illness”.The the King said,”You
better treat my illness; there will be no benefit of telling the
cause of my illness”.Then the young man said, “For a
physician, he can treat the disease only when the cause is
known”. The King revealed the whole story and the cause of
his illnss.
The physician said ,“Oh Your Honarable King!, can
you possess the three countries with your sorrow?; you
definately cannot get them.”
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38. TO REMAIN FREE FROM INSECURITY (KHEMAM)
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Mental diseases are hard to cure. Prevention is better
than cure. If you start learning the Dhamma, especially the
Noble Blessings, you will be strong enough to withstand these
mental diseases. You can tolerate these worldly problems with
this Dhamma.
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BUDDHA SENT DHAMMA TEACHING FROM
QUITE FAR AWAY
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The acrobat master said, “I cannot send my daughter
to the rich man’s house; if Okka-Htayna comes along with
our troupe, I will give her hand in marriage.
But the parents didn’t agree to his proposal. Okka-
Htayna . disregarded his parent’s wish and married the girl,
following the dance troupe. Since he had no knowledge of
acrobatic acts, he could only do things like look after the
bullock carts, feed the bullocks, and carry the money bags
which the troupe earned.
Soon the dancer gave birth to a son. To tease Okka-
Htayna, the mother used to please her son by saying, “Oh!
you son of the bullock cart caretaker, you son of carriers of
goods, you son of a good-for-nothing man.” He was ashamed
of his condition so he learnt acrobatic art from his father-in-
law, the acrobatic master. He tried so hard that within a year,
he became an expert in acrobatics.
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Okka-Htayna was very encouraged and he performed
a variety of acrobatic dances. After performing fourteen times,
the Buddha sent Dhamma teaching from quite far away. Since
Okka-Htayna was a man with perfect virtue, he realized the
Dhamma even though he was on top of the bamboo pole. He
obtained peace of mind and became Arahatta.
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EPILOGUE
Mangala Sutta in a Nutshell
The defining words of Mangala Sutta are as follows.
Those who blessed (1) do not associate with the fools;
but (2) with the wise; and they (3) honour those worthy of
honour. It is Auspicious (4) to live in a suitable locality; and
(5) have done good deeds in the past (accrued merits) and (6)
state one-self in the right course. In order to have Mangala (7)
he must have vast learning and (8) possess vast skill and (9)
and train in discipline; and (10) he must have pleasant good
speech. He must also (11) support mother and father and (12)
cherishing wife and children; and (13) be peaceful in one’s
action. In order to have good fortune he must (14) donate gen-
erously and (15) live the righteous life and (16) help one’s
relatives and (17) abstains from immoral livelihood. An Aus-
picious person (18) abstains from evil (mental) and (19) (physi-
cal) and (20) refrains from intoxicants and (21) practise
Dhamma deligently. A man with good heart (22) pays honour
to respectable person; and (23) is humble and (24) content
with his lot and (25) is grateful towards his benefactor; and
(26) listens to Dhamma at appropriate time. He (27) is toler-
ant and (28) obedient and (29) see holy people and (30) dis-
cuss Dhamma at appropriate time. He should lead (31) a self
disciplined life and (32) holy life. He must always (33) try to
realize the Noble Truth and (34) Nibbana. His mind (35) must
not be shaken by ups and down of life and (36) should remain
free from sorrow; and (37) impurities and(38) insecurity.Those
who practised these 38 Mangala will remain happy and will
always be successful.
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GLOSSARY
Abidhamma
absolute theorization; Book of Higher doctrines
(beings one of the three repositories of Buddhist scriptures.)
Anata
Non-self. Something beyond one’s control. All
phenomena that arise in all three spheres of existence
are not-self, not “I”, but are mere strangers, empty,
void, unsatisfactory and beyond one’s control. Hence
they are non-self, anatta.
Anicca:
Impermanence. Subject to change.
Anagami
The Non Returner( so called because he has reached
the third out of the four stages of purity and will
never be reborn in the realms of sensual pleasure.
Arahat, Arahanta, Arahatta
The pure one,who has destroyed the defilements
Arziwattanmoka sila: The eight precepts, incorporating right
livelihood and consisting of the following factors.
(1) abstaining from killing any living being.
(2) abstaining from taking what is not given.
(3) abstaining from unlawful sexual misconduct.
(4) abstaining from telling lies.
(5) abstaining from frivolous or worthless speech.
(6) abstaining from harsh and unbeneficial speech.
(7) abstaining from speech that will cause discord or
disagreement or hatred between two persons or
groups of people.
(8) abstaining from leading of livelihood by unfair or
harmful means, which includes: -
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(a) selling arms and fish nets.
(b) trading in slaves or prostitution or human
trafficking by persuasion.
(c) selling animals to butchers or selling meat
and fish, fresh or dried.
(d) selling wine, liquor and narcotics, opium.
(e) selling harmful drugs and poisons.
Bo tree
tree under which a Buddha attains enlightenment.
Brahma
Higher celestial being.
Brahmana
The priest class.
Bodhisatta
Before His Enlightenment He was called Bodhisatta
which means one who is aspiring to attain Buddhahood
Dana Charity; giving; alms giving
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Kamma Action; deed
Khandha
Aggregates; mass; heap
The five aggregates consist of corporeality (rupa),
sensation(vedana), perception(sanna),volational
action(cetana) and consiousness(vinnana).
Lobha Greed
Magga Path
Magga sacca
Truth of Ariya Path
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Nibbana Liberation from craving; total cessation of craving is
called Nibbana
Pacceka Buddha
Silent Buddha
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Sila Observance of the precepts (of which there are sets
five, eight, nine, ten etc.) Moral conduct; restraint in
physical and verbal actions. Morality denotes being
virtuous and abstaining from evil actions both physi-
cal and verbal. It also prescribes virtuous conduct
(caritta sila)
Sotapanna “Stream-enterer”, One who enters the stream of
Ariya Path, or Nobel Path. He is enriched with the
following five qualities -
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Sutta Discourse; Division of the discourse of the
Buddha
Tavatimsa The second lowest celetial realm where the 33
volunteers in the previous human existence led
by Marga were reborn. Marga became Sakka,
King of the devas.
Vipassana Insight.
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