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The World’s

Most Effective
Way to Melt
Away Stress

by Dr. Frank Shallenberger


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The World’s Most Effective


Way to Melt Away Stress
ou probably already know that stress is a Attachment refers to the difference between
Y killer. Just about every major disease has
stress as one of its contributing factors.
wanting something and believing that we
need it. When we believe that we need some-
Whether it’s heart disease, cancer, or memory thing, we’re “attached” to it. For example, I
loss, stress can cause it or make it worse. want to be loved. That’s just a simple want or
Well, here’s great news. Today I’m going desire. However, if I start to believe that I
to let you in on a little secret that not only need to be loved in order to be happy or
relieves stress but can actually banish stress secure, then I’m now attached to the idea of
from your life! being loved.
First, let’s get one thing clear. Stress Attachment is a lose-lose situation.
doesn’t come from “out there.” We make it Why? Because if you don’t get what you’re
all ourselves — 100% percent of it. If my attached to, you lose. And if you do get what
wife is stressing me out, it’s really me stress- you’re attached to, you still lose!
ing myself out over what she’s doing or say- For example, let’s say I’m attached to
ing. If my boss is stressing me out, it’s really the idea of being loved. When I find someone
me stressing out over what he’s doing or say- to love me, I start to stress over the possibili-
ing. And if world events are stressing me ty of losing that love. Perhaps I become jeal-
out, it’s really a case of me stressing myself ous when my love talks to members of the
out over the condition of the world. opposite sex. Or perhaps I become easily
Look: if you believe that your stress is offended at any remark other than “I love
caused by factors outside you, you’re limited you, you’re the best.” Indeed, I may go
to two responses. The first response is hope- through any number of gyrations to make
lessness. After all, if external factors are sure that this person loves me, because I need
causing your stress and you’re unable to con- the love. The likelihood is pretty good that
trol those factors, then it’s quite hopeless. this need of mine may cause me to behave in
The second response is to control your a way that ironically leads to the person no
environment. You become a controlling per- longer loving me.
son. So if your wife stresses you, then you try By the way, the same problems happen
to get her to change. If your kids stress you if instead of attaching yourself to the idea
out, you try to get them to change. If your co- that you need something, you attach yourself
workers stress you out, you try to get them to to the idea that you need to get rid of some-
change. thing. “I need to get rid of my debts to be
The problem with this approach is that happy.” “I need to get rid of my husband to
people can be quite stubborn. No matter be happy.” And so forth.
what you do, they just won’t see the light in One of my favorite attachments is the
the same way that you do! And they won’t need to have everything go right. I don’t
change to be more like you. know where or when I decided that I needed
The bottom line is that we don’t often this. But somewhere along the line, I bought
have the power to change the stressors in our it — hook, line, and sinker. So when my
life. But we always have the power to change computer crashes and I lose the article I was
the way we respond to those stressors! working on, I go crazy because “I took all
the precautions and this wasn’t supposed
Dealing With Attachment to happen.”
I believe that the major reason for stress How much better it would be for me to
is what the psychologists call “attachment.” just accept that my computer crashed and to

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accept that sometimes things go right and So next time you’re feeling stressed, try
sometimes they don’t. Sure, I’d like it if to figure out what it is you believe you need
things went right all the time. But I don’t so much that you can’t be happy without it.
need them to go right in order to be happy. Once you examine that belief, you may very
The key to avoiding attachment is to well find that, although you want it, you real-
realize that you don’t really need things to be ly don’t need it. That’s when your stress level
different. You may want them to be differ- will very quickly dissipate. And you’ll have
ent, but you don’t need them to be. done a lot to improve both your health and
the overall quality of your life.

Are You Exercising Too


Hard to Be Healthy?
If you’re over the age of 40, exercise is research on exercise, you’ve probably seen
absolutely essential. But if you follow the rec- these formulas in exercise books or maga-
ommendations of most doctors and fitness zines. If you have consulted a trainer, odds
gurus, you’re probably exercising too hard. are that he has used these very same formu-
That’s right! You don’t need to exercise as las to advise you. I’ve seen some that are so
hard as you’ve been told. complicated, they require a spreadsheet to
I’ve heard doctors say that you should figure them out.
get as much exercise as you can — up to one Not too long ago, I conducted a study to
hour of intense exercise per day. For most determine the optimum exercise levels for a
people, that’s ridiculous! This is definitely a random group of 20 people. I used my oxygen
case where you can get too much of a good uptake technology (which I call Bio-Energy
thing. Testing) to measure the effectiveness of their
In fact, I’m convinced that most people exercise. What I learned was shocking!
despise exercise because they’re trying to fol- I learned that these exercise formulas
low this kind of advice. Their bodies intu- are useless at best. But most of the time, they
itively know that they shouldn’t work that are actually dangerous!
hard. Of the 20 patients I studied, following
Unfortunately, if these people don’t lis- the conventional exercise formulas was harm-
ten to their bodies, an overly intensive exer- ful for 18 of them. That means the exercise
cise program could seriously harm them or formulas will damage the health of 90% of
even kill them. the population!
Most people who exercise, especially On the other hand, the exercise formu-
those who find it hard to control their las had the other two patients exercising at
weight, are actually exercising too hard for levels that were too low for them. Although
their level of fitness and genetics. Often they the exercise wouldn’t hurt them, they were
rely on calculated heart rate formulas that wasting their valuable exercise time.
are not only inaccurate for thin people, but
are particularly way off when it comes to How Can You Exercise Smart?
those who are overweight. If you use these So how can you make sure that you’re
formulas to calculate where your exercise getting enough exercise without going too far
level should be, you’re either hurting yourself and hurting yourself? It’s really very simple.
or wasting much if not all of your effort.
All you have to do is listen to your body.
The reason? These formulas are all It will give you signals that you’re going too
based solely on age, and fail to take your far. A good clue is to not exercise beyond the
genetics, sex, body build, and level of fitness level of exertion that you’re at when you
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start becoming noticeably breathless. Simply up to your upper limit, and leave it there for
exercise at a rate just lower than that. For about one minute.
example, let’s say you’re on the treadmill. After one minute at the upper end of
You start gradually increasing your speed. At your zone, go as hard as you can for 30 sec-
some point, you will start huffing and puff- onds. At the end of that 30 seconds, your
ing. At this point, determine your heart rate. heart will be pounding and you will be very
The best way to do this is to buy a heart rate breathless. Then, after this “anaerobic
monitor, which you can find for less than $50 burst,” dramatically decrease the intensity of
(some treadmills have them built in). But you exercise so that your heart rate comes down
can also just count your pulse. to your lower limit again.
This heart rate will serve as the high- Continue repeating the cycle of four
end limit of your exercise. Then multiply that minutes of lower limit exercise followed by
number by .6 to determine the heart rate one minute of upper limit exercise and 30
that will serve as the low-end limit of your seconds of maximum effort for a 20 to 30
exercise. So if your maximum heart rate is minute exercise period. Plan your schedule
150, your minimum heart rate is 90. Once so that you do this about three to four times
you have this figured out, you’re now ready a week.
to exercise right.
Harder Is Not Better!
Your Optimal Exercise
Regimen — It’s Easy! Many people erroneously think that the
only good form of exercise is hard and fast.
The best form of exercise is to alternate That may be a great way to win a race, but
intervals of exercise between your high heart it’s not the best way to stay healthy. Unless
rate and your low heart rate. Fitness experts you’re a competitive athlete, it’s very impor-
call this interval training. A typical interval tant to always alternate between heart rates.
training session begins by exercising hard Of course, as you begin to get healthier, you
enough to raise your heart rate up to your will find that your exercise heart rates may
low-end limit. This might be quite easy for begin to change. As they do, you can safely
you. In fact, it may just take a brisk walk tolerate greater levels of exertion.
rather than hard exercise. Even though it’s easier than exercising
Exercise at your minimum level for four hard, exercising smart is much more effective.
minutes. Then, after four minutes, start exer- It’s also healthier, not to mention more fun!
cising hard enough to bring your heart rate

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