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Mentoring
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Objectives
• Behavioral feedback
• Manipulation
• Direction and supervision
• Providing (all) the answers
Why Coach or be Coached?
• Spontaneous
• Scheduled
• Formal
• Informal
• Situational
• On-going
• Coaching is about:
– The right reasons
– The right mindset
– The right preparation
– The right approach
The Coaching Structure
• Active Listening
– At the base of interpersonal communication.
• Feedback
– The embedding of Active Listening as the last
step in a process that creates an opportunity for
improvement.
• Coaching
– A specific form of Feedback that stresses (among
other things) the building of agreements.
Establishing the Coaching Relationship:
The 5-Step Coaching Process
vs.
• Developmental Relationship
– More experienced person helps guide a less
experienced one
– Ongoing relationship
• Learning
• Challenging
• Communications
Types of Mentoring
• “Mosaic” approach
– Cheerleader
– Coach
– Confidant
– Counselor
– Patron
– Role model
– Can you think of others?
Mentoring can be …
• Directive – transfer of knowledge and wisdom
– Advantages
• Experience, hindsight, provided with solution
– Disadvantages
• Less committed
• Non-Directive – helps mentee form their own
solution
– Advantages
• Buy-in, no need for mentor to be expert
– Disadvantages
• Longer time, may not have experience to form
5 Myths of Mentoring
• Someone who:
– Enjoys helping others
– Has requisite experience
– Is successful in your area of interest
Approach the Mentor
• Easier if you already know them personally
– Schedule a meeting
– Meet over a cup of coffee
– Discuss a particular issue
– Keep the meeting short
– Let the relationship grow organically
• More difficult if you do not
– Ask a mutual acquaintance to introduce you
(consider using LinkedIn)
– Bold approach is to contact them directly
– Follow coffee/meeting approach above
Making the Most of Mentorship