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by Luis Souza
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situation is different, the author, publisher, and distributors of this book
are not responsible for any adverse effects or results emanating from the
implementation of suggestions in the following text. Use your common
sense.
ISBN-10: 1502824752
ISBN-13: 978-1502824752
I dedicate this book to my mother, who
always told me that I can be successful in anything I do.
CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1
CHAPTER 1: 1987. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9
CHAPTER 2: iYou! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15
AFTERWORD . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 127
INTRODUCTION
Like everyone else, you were born into bondage. Into a prison
that you cannot taste or see or touch. A prison for your mind.
Morpheus
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yourself and to have and implement your own ideas you will be
realizing that you dont have much competition.
As Helen Keller says, People dont like to think, if one thinks,
one must reach conclusions. Conclusions are not always
pleasant. This is especially so in the beginning of the process of
freeing your mind from negative conditioning. The conclusions
that you may reach with your thinking may be deceiving, but
you need to keep thinking things through despite the
unpleasant answers that will come up and this will help you
change your way of thinking till it doesnt deceive you anymore.
As Henry Ford said Whether you think you can, or you think
you can't -- you're right. It is the way you think that makes it
so.
In this book you will learn a very effective way to think to
make sure that you CAN!
You will learn that although your thoughts do matter for
whatever you may want to accomplish, there are other very
important components to enable you to reach your goals which
are your feelings and actions!
Thoughts, empty of feelings, are worthless and lead to hollow
actions.
But thoughts impregnated with powerful feelings will and
have already led to actions that literally changed the world on
countless occasions of our history as a whole and in peoples
everyday lives too.
Besides that, monitoring your thoughts and assuring that they
are always the right positive ones to reach your goals can stop
you from behaving like a dog trying to bite his own tail. You can
and must use affirmations and other self-suggesting ways to
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CHAPTER 1
1987
Dying is not the worst thing that can happen to you
...living enslaved to a bad conditioning is!
Luis Souza
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A WORD OF CAUTION:
Keep reading at your own risk only if you are serious
about making mind-blowing improvements in your life.
If you have a dream as wild as I did, many years ago and wish to
manifest it, my advice to you then is to start your own powerful
journey by becoming your own president, just the way I did. Dr.
Benkendorfer was right.
How do you begin your journey? You do that by beginning to
feel better right now!
Why? It is the singularly most important key that will open all
doors right where you are today to right where you want to
reach in the future!
This is the fastest way to attract what you want! Its that
simple. Lets discover the secrets this book will unfold that can
help you manifest your dreams as it did mine.
Lets begin with iYou!
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CHAPTER 2
iYou!
You dont get what you want, you get what you are.
John Kanary
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and more of the iThings that have originated from Steve Jobs
technological legacy.
My conclusion, as an online business owner, is that a MacBook
Pro could indeed, and will really, improve my productivity. Ill
certainly buy it at the right time for my business I thought. That
was the plan.
and all other companies out there know this fallacy and take
advantage of this fact.
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WATCH OUT!
However there are some snags that you need to be aware of.
If you have some parts of the new programming conflicting
with that of the old programming within, you will feel a great
struggle to overcome these conflicts and may prefer to forget
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You will then be fully aware that your inner world creates your
outer world, just as T. Harv states!
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etc.
Unlike extroverts who love the crowd energy, introverts tend
to feel drained and discharged after a whole day at social
gatherings or by simply going to Universal Studios in Orlando, as
it happened with Naomi. While extroverts recharge their
batteries interacting with other people, introverts do the
same in solitude.
When an introvert interacts with strangers over a long period
of time such as many days and/or months, left with no time to
recharge and reorganize ideas in solitude, she or he might
collapse from sheer exhaustion as it happened to me in
Germany, 1988. Being trapped subconsciously by social stigma,
for the next 27 years I was ashamed of that incident although I
didnt know why and how it happened. This is because we live
in an extrovert-idolized world and if we dont qualify we need
to feel bad. We are taught this and we even promote the idea
that you need to be or at least behave as an extrovert in order
to succeed.
Its ironic that this continues to happen even in this day and
age because the world has changed! If you look at many leaders
in our society over the last few decades, you will see that we are
now living in an Introvert Revolution period of our history.
Over the years I have read many biographies. It is good to read
biographies of the richest men in the world as they give one
inspiration. Ive read about Aristotle Onassis, who was the
richest man in the world for many years after the World War II,
and Bill Gates, who was the richest man in the world for many
years towards the close of the 20th century. He still is No.2 on
this list today.
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CHAPTER 3
What Are You?
Man of all creatures is more than a creature,
he is also a creator.
Maxwell Maltz
JAPAN
The year was 2005.
My wife, Marisa, and I had decided to buy a piece of land and
build a house, but we had no money to do it. I had spent three
years promoting a book, prior to this, without success, not
knowing what I now know with regards to the Law of Attraction.
The only alternative at that time was to work in Japan for a
period of three years as a labor worker. It seemed the only way
to get money to build our house.
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plastic frame and put it over another conveyor belt that passed
through an oven to dry the ink.
Outside the oven and at the end of this second conveyor there
was a third worker waiting for the already dried ink painted
plastic frames to check if they were ok, i.e. if these frames were
in accordance with required quality control standards.
These three workers worked twelve hours a day in one week
and 12 hours a night in the following week, usually from
Monday to Friday and during more frenetic periods, from
Monday to Saturday. With the exception of 10-minute breaks
every three hours and a one hour halt for a meal, they werent
allowed to sit. They had to stay on their feet during the real
work activities.
So for two years I was the second labor worker, the one
stationed inside the painting room, which made me feel better
than if I had been outside in one of the other two working
positions!
As soon as I learned the job and conditioned myself to work
fast, it became clear to me that staying inside the painting room
meant that I only got to feed the robot, while it would do the
actual work.
Being able to work fast, I got to work just 20 seconds and
would quite simply cross my arms while I watched the robot
working for the remaining 40 seconds of each minute. Those
remaining forty seconds was my freedom time and I was
determined to use them well. For instance, it was during this
free time that I drew and perfected the floor plan that we
ultimately used to build the house where I now live with my
family.
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THE REVELATION
YOU ARE MORE THAN A ROBOT!
As you know a robot is a machine in which Programming leads
directly to Action. There are no Thoughts and Feelings between
the Programming and the Action. I am sure this is the reason he
seemed to be so happy all the time!
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discard.
So, its very important to have an image of your mind that you
can visualize every time you want to understand what is
happening inside you. This puts you in control of the flurry of
incoming and outgoing thoughts and that puts you in control of
your mind. To show this clearly, you will need a visual.
Here, I give you a very basic and simple image that you can use
to visualize your mind and body from now on.
The first time I saw this image was in Bob Proctors You Were
Born Rich seminar. He has used it to help millions of people
improve and enrich their lives for more than 40 years and still
continues to do so. Dont fool yourself into thinking that this
image is too simple and basic to be of any help to you. Its
dynamic usage will lead you to understand why this image is so
powerful.
Just try it!
For the rest of this book, Im going to use this simple image to
illustrate the many processes that happen inside your mind and
body that can lead you to success or failure.
Now that you have an image where you can visualize your
whole self you will understand the reason for the title of this
chapter what are you? and not who are you?
You will realize that you are not your body, you are not your
mind, you are not your name, you are not your profession, and
you are not the role you play in your family or in your
community.
Finally, you will see the meaning in this question: What are
you?
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Dont forget to use the key that unlocks you to all this magic:
FEEL BETTER!
Shall we take a look at our Inner Mirror?
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CHAPTER 4
The Inner Mirror
Mirrors reveal only what your mind believes it sees.
Dee Remy
WHATS IN A NAME?
I was born a year after my parents marriage and they had to
choose a name for me. I was told years later that while my
mother wanted to name me Otavio after my father, my dad
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She was right, because in many ways, and for many years, I
behaved just the way my father did; expressed things the way
he did, especially in the negative sense.
Even when I was in my mothers womb, I remember my father
crying out loud and trying to impose himself forcefully on other
people. Like every sensitive fetus in a womb does, I registered
this behavior subconsciously, for it was the most powerful one I
felt. Although I didnt like it, subconsciously, I thought this was
a good thing.
It was only natural that I started behaving like him from a very
early age.
Thats how I became my father, Otavio, when confronted with
many situations in my own life. While I resented the things he
did to me, I still behaved like him. I wanted to be an angry,
short-tempered, aggressive personality. I thought that was the
right way to be.
What further reinforced my idea that it was cool to be the
short-tempered guy who explodes easily was the heroes
depicted in the Hollywood movies I had watched during my
childhood and adolescence. I remember some of Mel Gibsons
and Tom Cruises films that show these actors characters being
short-tempered, quick to explode, arrogant and gutsy. I was
in awe of them.
I turned out to be a short-tempered child, teenager and young
adult with a very negative attitude.
While it may not be a problem to display rash tempers and
emotional explosions during ones school and college years, it is
a whole different ball game when you get a job. You enter a
sludge zone where your movements and your angry explosions
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anything else. If now you are a cat, you need to start seeing a
lion in your inner mirror!
Remember that Conditioning (Programming) leads to
Thoughts that lead to Feelings that lead to Actions which finally
get the Results!
Your self-image is a group of ideas about yourself that is
included in the package that we call conditioning or
programming. We can certainly say that your self-image is the
core of your conditioning.
To get better results, you need to go directly to the root of all
evils. You need to condition your mind to live a better life. Like
I said earlier Dying is certainly not the worst thing that can
happen to you, because living enslaved to a bad conditioning
IS!
The good news is that you can choose and change your
conditioning right away.
If you have a bad self-image, you can get a better one right
now! You dont need to suffer for many years as I did!
Here are some of the things you can do to change your old
negative self-image in your inner mirror:
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achieve. Thats the reason you may feel doubtful after setting
some goals.
So you have to feel and envision yourself as being capable of
achieving what your heart desires.
Say now to yourself fervently: The me I see is the me I will be!
And you will feel the truth of this reality in and around you.
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When I started using this technique some time ago I had to cut
my throat many times a day, especially so during the first
week. But with time it became rarer to observe any bad self-
image thoughts trying to pass through my conscious mind.
You see those thoughts werent mine! Those thoughts
werent created by me, at least not by the person I am in the
present moment and the one I intend to become in the future.
They were a byproduct of years and years of mastering the
inner bad thoughts and feelings game. I am now aware that,
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[Write here some of the thoughts that you already know that
you want to eliminate with the Cut-Your-Throat technique]
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CHAPTER 5
Goal Image Programming
You are now, and you do become, what you think about.
Earl Nightingale
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n this chapter, I shall explain the importance of having a
positive goal image and how to set it up so that you can use
it correctly and effectively to make your dreams a living
reality.
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another, one on the left, the next on the right, and so on, over
and over again. Non-stop.
He was never tired or bored and he was always focused.
Inside his programming there was an image of the frame that
he had to paint and then he used that image to move
accordingly to the width, height, thickness and other
parameters related to that particular frame.
For instance, the movements he used for a 32 LCD TV were
different than the ones used for a 42 LCD TV. He also had to
use ink of different colors for TVs of different colors.
So every time my mounting line team had to paint a batch of
plastic frames for a different type of TV, the Japanese
programmer guy would come to my painting room, stop
everything and tell me that I should souji.
Being a complete analphabet in Japanese, hearing the word
souji simply meant to me that I had to press a large red
button to stop PaintyBoy and take a piece of cloth and/or a
broom to start cleaning the place inside and/or outside the
painting room, while the programmer would prepare PaintyBoy
for his new painting goals.
In the beginning I didnt like the idea of doing any cleaning,
but with time I realized that it was cool to do something
different, just for a change. My job was very repetitive and
boring.
With time I also learned that I could perfectly pretend that I
was cleaning something, and then I was cool with this souji
thing!
While I was pretending to clean the walls and floor inside
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But, NOT all thoughts that you see on your conscious mind
screen are really created there. In fact most of them arent!
Your conditioning (a.k.a. programming), on the other hand, as
depicted in the image above, is located in your subconscious
mind. This means that, among the innumerable thoughts that
you see on your conscious mind screen, you will see many
thoughts coming from the SUBCONSCIOUS mind.
One example of the
subconscious kind of
thought can be when
you go to a place or
touch an object and
instantly see on your
inner screen an image
of your mother saying
dont go there or
dont touch that.
Another example is
when you repeat to
yourself that you are
a loser and that you
wont achieve
anything in life. So, when you dont achieve something you
want in life, you see that Im a loser and wont achieve
anything in life thought-message popping up on your conscious
mind screen.
Sadly, I did that for many years, while trying to build my online
businesses. Let me tell you just what I did to myself because of
negative subconscious programming.
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You can be sure that the big guys who make the big money
online have amazingly bright minds. They certainly are very
smart and clever. But, as my mind was far from being right, I
wasnt one of them yet!
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YOUR FEELINGS
Although, feelings pass through your whole body, they arent
really created by it. Your feelings come from your emotional
subconscious mind and pass through all your nervous system,
inundating your body with an energy that you classify as bad
or good according to how you feel.
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YOUR GOALS/RESULTS
On the subject of goals, you need to know that you have an
amazingly powerful piece of equipment in your hands!
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[Write here what thoughts that usually make you feel good]
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CHAPTER 6
Vibration, Targeting,
Amplification
Every thought has a frequency.
Thoughts send out a magnetic energy.
Rhonda Byrne
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a human being is that you are also a creator. You are different
from your dog and PaintyBoy (created by man) for you have the
power to create what you wish with your thoughts. You have
the power to shape energy in endless different forms and ways!
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Using your conscious mind properly you will find out that what
you have between your ears is a piece of equipment much more
powerful than any computer created by man. With this
equipment, you can connect to a different Internet that is
also far more advanced than the one we now use physically on
the planet.
To explain how this works in a more practical way so that you
can understand, lets use PaintyBoy, the robot, as an example,
yet again.
When a programmer enters a new painting programming
through the robots control panel, it is able to perform new
movements, but its new electronic thoughts dont really
spread out around the place. Its electronic thoughts dont
attract anything to it. They simply make it perform tasks like
painting plastic TV frames.
You, on the other hand, are different from the robot. Your
thoughts not only lead to emotions that put your body into
action, but they also produce vibrations that are transmitted to
the farthest galaxy on the universe! I have always wondered:
Could there be aliens receiving these vibrations somewhere far,
far away? It is a strong possibility when backed with such a
powerful theory that has proven to be a fact.
Every time you put out a thought with a high level of power,
intensity and duration, you are broadcasting to everyone else
on the planet. People who are in the same frequency will be
attracted to you, while others, who are on different
frequencies, will be repelled. Thats the Law of Attraction!
The book, The Secret, reinforces that the phenomenon I have
just described is very real and solid. The Law of Attraction is as
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real as the Law of Gravity and other physical laws, but it is also
senior to them. Being a master of the Law of Attraction you can
become a powerful creator, who needs to be very responsible
when applying this intense and power-packed force for what
one desires.
I know you are impatient and eager now to learn this magic
and I can read your thoughts as you shout them out in
excitement: I dont want to do crazy stuff; I just want to reach
my goals! So how can I do that?
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STEP 1
You need to decide what you want and think about it on your
conscious mind screen. I call this Targeting. Once done, you
move on to step 2.
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STEP 2
You need to feel the feelings as if you have already received
your desires. I call this Vibrating. It is the way you feel that
defines the type, power, intensity and duration of the vibrations
you are putting out.
STEP 3
Now you need to keep feeling those positive feelings, increasing
the intensity every time you do it and as long as its necessary to
reach your goal. Doing this means that you are amplifying the
vibration signal that you are transmitting to the universe. I call
this Amplifying.
With the image of your already achieved goal on your inner
screen you are targeting your vibration. Along with the
increasingly positive emotions that you feel, you are
amplifying the vibration power and intensity. The bottom line
is that, you are constantly transmitting an increasingly powerful
vibratory signal. Do it for as long as its necessary to reach your
goal and you will understand the importance of being persistent
in whatever you want to accomplish in life.
Allow this vibration to flow through your body. You can feel it!
If you dont feel it you are not being a very sensitive player
of your body which is like your own musical instrument. It
could also be because your body is not tuned in properly to
produce the musical notes and melodies that you want to put
out, in order to be able to attract what you want. In a certain
sense, your body is just like a violin, violoncello or any other
type of musical instrument that you may think about. However,
you can remedy this lack of sensitivity.
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CREATOR OR CREATURE?
Everything changed when I realized that Im responsible for all
that happens to me. I attract every person, thing and
circumstance to my life. If I attracted something that I didnt
want, it means I simply need to change my inner targeting,
vibration and amplification process to attract what I do want.
In order to use the Law of Attraction properly, you need to
take responsibility for everything that is happening in your life.
You need to see yourself as a creator and not only as a creature!
If you maintain a self-image that says you are ONLY a creature,
you will continue to be pushed around, back and forth and
sideways in this vast ocean of energy in which we live. You will
be at the hands of what most of us call Fate. Its a negative
inner GPS programming that believes that you and I are not in
charge of our lives and not responsible for what happens to us,
whether good or bad. It leads you believe that you are a victim.
But it is only your inner negative programming and as you now
know, you can change it.
T. Harv Eker says that rich people believe I create my life;
while poor people believe life happens to me. In other words,
rich people believe they are creators, while poor people believe
they are merely creatures.
Feeling bad is the result of believing you are just a creature.
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CHAPTER 7
Inner GPS
Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
Ben Sweetland
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goals. But by the time they get there they feel so exhausted that
they ask themselves if all that suffering was really worth the
entire exhausting journey they had undertaken.
The right way to use your inner GPS is exactly the way you use
your cars GPS. You set the address that you wish to reach (in
this case your goal that you need to achieve) and then you trust
that it will give you the right directions (instructions). These
directions (instructions) are given in little bits and pieces like
turn right or turn left and you just need to confidently
follow them to reach your destination (goal). You do not,
however, receive complete instructions. Just as you do not get
to see the complete map on your Cars GPS, you do not get to
see it on your inner GPS.
Your inner GPS operates and communicates with you in the
very same way that your Car GPS does, but in order to
understand that you need to know how to hear its
instructions. Assuming that you already know that to set up
your goal or your destination address you simply need to have a
clear image of it on your inner conscious mind screen, you now
need to apply firm belief and positive emotion to this image.
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Looking at the
image above, you see
exactly where things
are happening inside
your mind the
conscious and the
subconscious.
STEP 1
In your conscious mind you program the destination, the goal
that you want to reach. To do that you simply focus on the
WHERE you want to go, or the WHAT you want to accomplish.
Your conscious mind should NOT spend time thinking about
HOW you will get there.
If you focus your conscious mind too much on the HOW (the
route) to get where you need to go or what you want to
accomplish, you will begin to see doubtful thoughts appearing
on your conscious minds screen. These doubts will then turn
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into fearful feelings and anxiety that will block your body and
impede it from acting in a purposeful way.
STEP 2
Know that it is your subconscious mind that will deliver the
instructions you need to reach your goal. Your subconscious
mind takes care of the HOW to reach where you want to go or
the HOW to accomplish your goals. The HOW (or the route you
need to take) is taken care of by your subconscious mind that
calculates and establishes the best route you need to take. It is
the task of the subconscious mind to get you what you want.
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This is the main reason why you feel good and keep feeling
better.
A WORD OF CAUTION
When you start to practice it, you may receive an old
conditioning negative thought on your inner conscious mind
screen saying: its impossible to feel good now, because Im
not happy, or because I didnt reach my goal yet. Please
dont believe these types of negative thoughts, because
they are completely deceiving you.
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WORDS OF WISDOM
This is what Maxwell Maltz says about happiness in PSYCHO-
CYBERNETICS and I share this with you: Be happy and you will
be good, more successful, healthier, feel and act charitably
towards others. He also says: happiness is simply a state of
mind in which our thinking is pleasant a good share of the time.
If you wait until you deserve to think pleasant thoughts, you
are likely to think unpleasant thoughts concerning your own
unworthiness.
In other words if you keep thinking crap, this crap thinking will
continue until you feel like crap.
So, stop! Change this right now!
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CHAPTER 8
Fake It till You Become It!
You must be the person you have never had the courage to be.
Gradually, you will discover that you are that person,
but until you can see this clearly,
you must pretend and invent.
Paulo Coelho
Y ou now have all that it takes to reach your goals. You are
now ready to begin your journey to become iYou. You
know that you need to begin to feel better, think positive
thoughts, image your goals on your conscious mind screen,
enter your destination into your Inner GPS, set up your targets,
send out vibrations, amplify them and continue to feel good all
the time. This sounds wonderful but what if you are not really
feeling any of it? What do you do with this priceless
information when you cant feel it because it isnt true, at least
for now, in your reality? What then?
There is a very effective way to come out of your negativity.
All you need to do is to fake it to become it. You need to
pretend that you are this positive and strong person who has
already achieved his or her goals. I will explain in detail later on
in this chapter.
Right now, there are dragons to slay along the way such as
negative conditioning or remaining in your comfort zone, when
you are on your way to reach your goals. But dont let them
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stop you. You need to get rid of them if you are to embark on
your empowering and freeing journey of happiness.
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With the FEEL BETTER Team I get all the inspiration and
support that I need to reach huge masses of people, while
Empower Network gives me all the tools and trainings to get my
word out there, through blogging, videos, events and the like
where I meet incredible like-minded people who are going on
paths similar to mine.
It was all the energy that I got from attending the Empower
Network FREEDOM 2014 event in Miami that gave me the
inspiration and courage to write this book now. In that event I
met fantastic people!
I saw disabled people, in wheel chairs doing their best to reach
their goals, expressing themselves through blogging and other
Internet means. I even saw a blind man who blogs, makes and
uploads videos on YouTube, to get his word out there. I was also
inspired by older folks who are starting a new career at the age
of 65 or more. One such person is my new friend Todd, who is
planning to move from USA to Italy in the near future, taking
advantage of his new mobile lifestyle.
The founders of Empower Network are really smart and
generous, because I could feel that they are putting out their
very best to help people break through and crash their inner
terror barriers. I especially loved the part when D.S. asked all of
us again and again whose time is it? and we, a group of more
than 4,000 people, answered Its my time! while we hit our
chests.
minutes, you will feel far more confident than you were before.
This can be very useful in many situations. Amy Cuddy says that,
if necessary, you should go to the bathroom and stay in a power
pose like this during 2 minutes, before a job interview; before
speaking with a beautiful woman that makes you feel insecure;
before giving a speech on a stage in front of 10,000 people, etc.
It was Amy Cuddy who changed the old adage fake it till you
make it to fake till you become it. This change makes perfect
sense, especially if we consider what is in this book.
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CHAPTER 9
FEEL BETTER Movement
In my country we go to prison first
and then become President.
Nelson Mandela
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1) BE A LEADER
Once you accept the responsibility of feeling better, this will
spread to helping others feel better. Youll want to create the
ripple effect. For that, you always need to have a dream big
enough to accommodate all the dreams of people who are
already following you or who will be, sooner or later. If you
dont have a dream big enough to accommodate theirs, they
will stop following you or wont join you in the first place. It
doesnt matter if these people appear in your life as your
employees, customers, fans, subscribers, friends, etc. the fact is
that they will only follow you if you have a big WHY, lots of
passion for it and a vision or dream big enough to help their
dreams come true too.
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movement and you will watch a very funny and inspiring short
TED TALK video, that will let you have a clearer image of what
Ive just said.
Thats the way movements are built. Thats the way social
change is accomplished. Thats how mankind evolves. All it
takes is one seemingly ordinary introvert man or woman who
finally decides to say NO to negative-conditioned thoughts
that have enslaved him/her up until that moment.
NO, I dont want to feel bad anymore. He or she says.
NO, I dont believe anymore that feeling bad is good for me!
He or she cries.
From now on I want to FEEL BETTER! He or she broadcasts
to the people of the world.
Thats exactly what happened to Rosa Parks, in Montgomery,
Alabama, December 1, 1955, when she said No to the driver
of a bus, who wanted her to give her seat, in the first row of the
Colored section, to a white passenger. This single word and her
courage to sustain it ignited one of the most important civil
rights protests of the 20th century. As Reverend Martin Luther
King Jr. said that day addressing the crowd that gathered in
support of Parks: There comes a time that people get tired of
being trampled over by the iron feet of oppression
3) LET IT BE YOU!
Be aware that in this century, oppression is not obvious as it
was for Rosa Parks. And, as a matter of fact, these days most of
the oppression that you may be feeling probably is coming from
your subconscious mind. Most certainly, some of oppression
comes from your family and friends, even if they dont do it on
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purpose and a whole lot more oppression may come from the
media and movies too.
Say NO to this very insidious kind of oppression!
Say NO to those negative-conditioned thoughts that are
trying to oppress you once more.
Become the person who will start a whole new and gigantic
ripple in the evolution of mankind.
Let this person be you. The world needs you.
Feel good now and keep feeling better and sooner than you
expect you will have a crowd following you, just like a huge flash
mob in the center of New York City.
OBAMA
I remember Obamas Yes We Can! famous speech in 2008,
during the worlds worst financial crisis that happened in this
century. It felt great hearing his FEEL BETTER words. Wil.I.Am
has even composed a song called Yes We Can. It is very
inspiring.
NELSON MANDELA
Although oppressors put Nelson Mandela in jail for 27 years, he
was still free in his mind. He still had control of the way he
thought and felt. It is a shame to realize that I did exactly the
opposite, for the same amount of time.
He had his body imprisoned and his mind free. I had my body
free but my mind imprisoned for the same amount of time: 27
years. I went to that mind jail exactly the moment I accepted
that feeling bad was good for me again.
While Nelson Mandela never stopped thinking as a creator, I
thought as a creature for so long that it even hurts to remember
it was I who had imprisoned me for 27 years. That jail sentence
turned out to be very hard for me.
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Use it.
Thats the real meaning of freedom!
6) LEARN TO BE FREE
YES, YOU CAN BE FREE!
As long as you exercise your birth right to think and feel in a
way that empowers you, you will keep feeling, not just better
and better, but freer and freer as well.
Toward the end of the FREEDOM event in Miami held by
Empower Network, its CEO, JCron, asked the audience if
someone would like to share his or her dream with others.
Among the people who shared, the one who impressed me the
most was a guy who was sat in one of the last upper rows of the
amphitheater.
From his point of view he could see more than 4,000 people
present at that event and he said that his dream accommodated
all of ours, because he saw a world where everyone is free, a
world where all humanity is free. When I heard that, I looked at
my wife, Marisa, and said this guy must be an adolescent for
it is in this phase of our lives that we have ideals like this and we
want to save the world.
Well, even if Im not an adolescent anymore, Im right here
volunteering to join that guy to make his everyone-is-free
dream come true. Thats the reason I wrote this book. I am
eager to spread the FEEL BETTER culture and turn it into a
huge FEEL BETTER movement that shall work steadily like an
antivirus, ridding humanity from the virus of negative
conditioning that corrupts their system by enslaving them to
feel bad.
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This is just the
beginning
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The level that I see you now, when you are approaching the
end of this book, is the next one: conscious incompetence.
Now you may not know how to apply what you just read but
you do know that you will need to keep practicing till you
become perfect in the execution of the techniques to be able to
reprogram yourself as you wish, target your thoughts with
power, intensity and enough duration to attract all you want.
It is exactly through practice that you will reach the next level:
conscious competence. This is a very cool place to be, because
you know that you know and will be able to apply the
techniques in a very effective way.
Miracles, coincidences, serendipities and the like then start to
be your common ground. When they occur you simply know
they were supposed to happen. In fact, you start to expect that
theyhappen. The more you believe they will happen, the more
they happen and the more magical your life becomes.
You start to feel really FREE in the deepest sense of this very
short yet powerful word.
By influencing the universe with the amplified vibrations that
you will be sending out, you will literally be able to reshape that
very same universe. Once you do that, you will be able to
attract what you want at higher and faster speeds.
But beware that this level of freedom is only reached once, by
diligent practice, you make your positive energy ball bigger
than the negative energy ball that you have been carrying
around for many years. You will need to overcome inertia and
keep your faith high in order to reach that level.
The message of persistence Never, never, never give up! that
is in a magnetic sticker over my fridges door is very important
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in all situations in life and even more now when you will be
fighting your inner and outer wars that are on your way to the
4th full freedom level of unconscious competence.
In the unconscious competence level you will get all the
neuropath ways established to use the techniques presented in
this book in a very competent way.
It will then seem that you can drive your car effortlessly
without having to steer it with your hands. You can speak on the
phone, eat and even clean your teeth without any risk of
crashing your car while you are driving it. Once youve mastered
it, you wont need to think about the movements that you need
to do with your hands and the places you need to look for in
order to drive your car in a safe manner. For some paths there
will be no need of any GPS because you know the way to go
the curves and signs, the turns
This happens when you become unconsciously competent
with the driving-your-car related activities and the same can
happen when it comes to your power of attracting what you
want in your life.
Unconscious competence is the level you want to reach but
you will need to go through the other ones before reaching it.
You can do everything on your own, but usually it is harder and
longer to get to good results, and you may be disappointed and
frustrated while facing terror barriers popping all over your
inner screen.
Thats the reason I encourage you to join our FEEL BETTER
Team. Within our team you will get all the support you need to
grow and use your attraction powers in a very effective way.
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FREEDOM PAPERS
I hereby declare myself FREE to choose my
own thoughts and feelings. It also means
that Im also RESPONSIBLE for this choice
and whatever may be its effects in terms of
actions and results in my life. From this day
forth, I will act and behave as the CREATOR
of my own life. From now on, whenever life
offers me the options of feeling like a victim
or as a slave would do versus feeling better,
I will choose to FEEL BETTER.
Date: ______
___________________________
Your name:
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Books:
PSYCHO-CYBERNETICS, by Maxwell Maltz
Secrets of the Millionaire Mind, by T. Harv Eker
You Were Born Rich, by Bob Proctor
Think and Grow Rich, by Napoleon Hill
The Law of Success, by Napoleon Hill
The Magic of Thinking Big, by David J. Schwartz
As A Man Thinketh, by James Allen
The Missing Link in The Law of Attraction, by Wayne Evans
Movies:
The Matrix, starring Keanu Reeves
- Very impressive metaphorical movie about the way we
live nowadays.
The Secret of My Success, starring Michael J. Fox
- A fantastic Fake It Till You Become It fable that I
watched innumerable times in 1987 when this movie
was launched.
Working Girl, starring Melanie Griffith
- Another great fake it till you become it fable that
gives me inspiration to keep faking it till I become it!!!
Django Unchained, starring Jamie Foxx
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Songs:
Change Your Mind, by Sister Hazel
You Get What You Give, by New Radicals
Tubthumbing (I Get Knocked Down), by Chumbawamba
Search for The Hero Inside Yourself, by M People
Right to Be Wrong, by Joss Stone
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Let The River Run & Coming Around Again by Carly Simon
Eyes of The Tiger, by Survivor
Roar, by Katy Perry
Ive Got A Millionaire Mind, I Say Yes To Success, by Mariya
Brown
TV:
Throw away all your TV antennas and connect your TV set to
your computer. Keep yourself as far as you can from TV crap!
YouTube:
Watch it on your TV set, carefully selecting what you are going
to watch. Beware, there is a lot of crap here too!
Newspapers:
Stay far from them! Apart from the Sports session, which is
good to follow, their main business seems have the main goal of
keeping people trapped feeling bad. You dont need even the
classifieds section, because the best deals were already taken
before any classified ad is published. Feel better and you will
find ways to find those best deals!!!
Emails:
Keep your inbox always clean. Create many filters to make sure
that only the very important messages ever appear in your
inbox.
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www.RawVeganPower.com
- With the low fat raw vegan diet I feel like a raw king!
And no matter what you decide to do, I highly recommend that
you eat lots of fruits! They really are the food of gods, as my
friend Jeff Sekerak, the Super Fit Vegan, says.
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ARTICLES
CNN.com/world. (2008). Mandela at 90: Mandela in his own
words. Retrieved February 17, 2014 from:
http://edition.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/africa/06/24/mandel
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WEBSITE VIDEOS
BarackObamadotcom. 2008. Barack Obama: Yes We Can.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fe751kMBwms
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