A Submissives Initiative BDSM Checklist

Use this checklist to either gauge your own interests or sit down and go over it with your partner and
discuss each topic together. This is also a great way to talk about your fetishes, laugh a little and a
learn a lot about your partner! The BDSM Checklist is an excellent ice breaker for introducing BDSM
into your relationship.

For each activity, there are three answers.

The first answer should be, if youve ever tried that activity before

Yes = I have participated in this activity before

No = I have not participated in this activity before

The second answer should be your interest in engaging in that activity on a scale of 0 5.

0 = I have no interest/dont like this.

1 = Not very interesting/dont really enjoy this too much.
2 = This is alright.
3 = This is nice/fun/interesting
4 = I really enjoy/think Ill enjoy this activity
5 = I LOVE THIS/CANT WAIT TO TRY THIS

The third Answer would be to write any explanations or more information after your answers.
Remember, the more information you have the safer/hotter/more fun things will be.

Examples:

Flogging: Yes/5 - I especially love to be flogged on my back!!!

Tickling: Yes/5 - My feet are my most ticklish place but I didnt tell you that!

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 Bondage Intricate Rope:
SEX:

Anal Sex: Bondage Mental:

Bondage Outdoors:
Armpit Sex:

Ass Cheek Sex: Bondage Private:

Butt Plugs: Bondage Public:

Boxing / Closeting:
Dildo Anal:

Dildo Oral: Caging:

Finger Sex: Cock Bondage:

Genital Intercourse: Crucifixion:

Cuffs Leather:
Hand Job:

Including others: Cuffs Metal:

Licking: Duct Tape:

Full Head Hoods:

Licking:

Massage: Gags ball type:

Gags bits:
Oral Sex:

Gags cloth:
Phone Sex:

Gags inflatable:
Sex in Public:

Gags phallic:
Sex Outdoors:

Gags tap:
Swinging:

Gas Masks:
Teasing:

Gates of Hell:
Vibrators:

Harnessing leather:
BONDAGE:

Harnessing rope:
Blindfolds:

Headphone/Earplugs:
Body Bags:

Masks:
Bondage full body:

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Mummification: Suspension:

Padlocks: Suspension Horizontal:

Plastic Wrap: Suspension Inverted:

Restraint Duration: 1-3hrs: S&M:

Restraint Duration: 3+ hrs: Abrasion:

Restraint Duration: multiple days: Anal Dilation:

Restraint Duration: overnight/full day: Anal Fisting:

Restraint in public under clothes: Asphyxiation:

Restraints Ankle: Bastinado:

Restraints Arm leg sleeves: Beating hard:

Restraints Hand Cuffs: Beating soft:

Restraints Leather: Belt/Strap:

Restraints Metal: Biting:

Restraints Rope: Caning:

Restraints Thumb Cuffs: Choking:

Restraints Wrist: Clothespins:

Restraints Wrist to ankle/neck/waist: Cock and Ball Torture:

Silk Scarves: Cupping/Suction:

Sleepsacks: Cutting:

Slings/Swings: Electricity Tens Unit:

Spreader bars: Electricity Violet Wand:

Stethescope: Face Slapping:

Stocks: Fireplay:

St. Andrews Cross: Flogging:

Straight Jackets: Hair pulling:

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Hairbrushes: Whipping Signal Whip:

Hot Oils: Whipping switch:

Ice Cubes: Whipping Taws:

Injections: FETISH:

Nipple Clamps: Abandonment:

Nipple Torture: Acrophilia:

Nipple Weights: Acrotomophilia:

Paddling: Agalmatophilia:

Piercing temp: Barosmia:

Pinching: Being Recorded:

Punching: Bestiality:

Riding Crops: Bestiality:

Scratching: Body Worship:

Spanking on all fours: Boot Worship:

Spanking over knee: Branding:

Spanking hard: Brown Showers:

Spanking soft: Brown Showers:

Strapping Full Body: Castration Fantasy:

Urethral Sounds: Catheterization:

Whipping buggywhip: Chamber Pots (use):

Whipping bullwhip: Cock Rings:

Whipping Cat: Cock Rings:

Whipping genitals: Corsets:

Whipping knotted whip: Corsets:

Whipping Quirt: Cross-Dressing:

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Cross-Dressing: Pain:

Diapers: Piercing (Permanent):

Dirty Sex: Posing for Erotic Photos:

Douching: Prostitution (real):

Enemas: Public Exposure:

Erotic Dancing: PVC:

Exhibitionism: PVC:

Fear: Recording Scenes:

Feathers/Fur: Rituals:

Feathers/Fur: Shaving:

Foot Worship: Skinny-Dipping:

Golden Showers: Sensory Deprivation

Gun Play: Spandex:

High Heel Worship: Spandex:

Humiliation: Speculums (anal):

Infantilism: Spitting:

Latex: Supplying victims:

Latex: Swallowing Semen:

Leather: Taking Erotic Photos:

Leather: Tasting Yourself:

Lingerie: Tattoo:

Lingerie: Tattoos:

Medical Instruments: Tickling:

Needles: Uniforms:

Oral/Anal Play: Uniforms:

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Voyeurism: Hot or Sensual Waxing:

Wearing Fluids: Housework:

Wrestling: Humiliation Private:

POWER PLAY: Humiliation Public:

Bathroom use control: Humiliation Verbal:

Begging: Kneeling:

Behavior Restrictive Rules: Lecturing:

Butt Plugs public: Manicures:

Chastity Belts: Manicures:

Clothing choice: Name Change:

Cock Worship: Orgasm Control:

Collar and Leash: Orgasm Denial:

Collars: Personality Modification:

Competition: Pussy Worship:

Crawling: Serving Orally:

Eye Contact Restriction: Sexual Deprivation:

Following Orders: Sleep Deprivation:

Food Choice/Directed Eating: Speech Restrictions:

Forced Dressing: Standing in Corner:

Forced Exercise: Struggling:

Forced Homosexuality: Symbolic Jewelry:

Forced Masturbation: Weight Gain/Loss:

Forced Nudity: ROLE PLAY:

Forced Servitude: Chauffeuring:

Given Away: Fantasy Gang Rape:

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Fantasy Rape: Pony Play:

Initiation Rites: Prison Scenes:

Interrogations: Prostitution (pretend):

Kidnapping: Punishment Scene:

Medical Scenes: Puppy Play:

Other Animal Play: Religious Scenes:

Physical Examinations:

Schoolroom Scenes:

Serving as Art:

Serving as Ashtray:

Serving as Furniture:

Serving as Maid:

Strap on Dildos:

Important Questions:

Do you have any mental health issues that would impair or hinder a scene?

Do you have any physical health issues that would impair or hinder a scene?

Do you have any fears or limitations that would impair or hinder a scene?

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