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St. Thomas Aquinas and the Christian
Understanding of Friendship
Patrick Quinn
‘The Social and Theological Importance of Friendship
Wien we examine Aquinas views on fendi, its not to dict »
dec immediatly that his account follows closely on that of Aste
Stout inthe eighth and ninth books of the Nicomachean Ethie. Th
‘Specialy uve of those passages where Ageinas analyses the hun
‘qualities that constitute riendly ‘eltionships although Anstte’s
Infuece isnot whol absent ether from te Thome eaten of he
thesia implications of fienship. Bu, though it coud be sil hat
Thomas account of human fendhip is effectively o more than «ep
tion and development of Arstode's views, wht difcetntes his ew
fom the later the theological content which Aquinas bles groundt
all authentic forms of fendiess. This might be summed up by sayin
that, eventhough, like Aristotle, Aquinas clay values fendship a8
‘sapremely soil vie, he insists at ti lime rote nthe seca
‘lationship which Go has with human beings and, more fandametly,
‘ith Himself. This relationship is characterise by such guitar god:
‘es and love which, in tum provide all utenti cdl elas
‘with te kind of onlogicl basis hat confers on them what Aguas
Dercives tobe thir distinct thologial character. Any account of be
‘homie testment of fendbip mur consequently take no conse
sion tis divine foundation which he believes grounds all atentc
Imaifeations ofthis relationship and which, i paul, scoring 10
‘Aina, pres the Cristian formu of feds.
St Thomas teateat ofthe divine roots of fendship i therfore of
‘Pariculr intrest ot only for what i sayy about the nature of Godt
‘elaionhip with human beings but, perhape more notably, for what i
‘reveals ofthe Thomisic view of the ner dynamics of divine existence
‘lf. According this, God's relationship with Hint can be pinay
‘eine interme of endship. This ena the very bert ofthe divine ie
pe ih « point of departure wich wil allow bien
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ater the love of wie or bores. As
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dente nl ies fh Kind and ema ta wot a
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leven might gure with he itr xan, he ea don of
wht scams clear enough, which that fends ple
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pins an he Cristin Understanding of Fries
chart: wherefore
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(srm23.)
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msFriendohip East and West
Caritas repaid asa piary vite by Aquinas because God iis
Brimaryabjectiveas the Being in Whom onc can find rt (871.230,
This vitwe is all-embracing and also includes one's neighbour
STIH25.), oot to mention one's enemies (S-TH-1.258) and al
sinners (§TI-i125 6), St Thomas makes special pint ofncdng te
aman body in his ist (S-U-255) and be unequrvealy dele th
‘he body is not naturally evil though ts coreplay he cai
the basison which the friendship of carta rts. hiss Go, the uma
source fom which all happiness ows (STI-I125 12), Our Siendsip
with God evokes sabjectve rejoicing claims Thomas. and wear cme
ford in ll our arships and worldly afictons(SC.G1V 22)
Friendship and the Nature of Ged
However, although Aquinas regards our fiip for God a ting of
Peranount importance fer our own general web esos an cen we
profound dimension of fcnhip in tion wo how err tin ede
eine He undetines this pectin what heey bout God ning one
(Gola) sliay tari) im STL313 a1 God enpngs i aces
social ie which occurs a the very tna of divine easeace Th wat
onstines God's primary scaly so tht even in the company of al
angels ad the besifid sou, God, according w Aquinas, woul sl remain
in abohtesotode wee i pt fo the plurality of Dine Resxs, The
implica i that interpersonal raion, with all hat ty cle in
‘ers of mutual equality, are more dese than sli acta ni
highest manifestation, hs pence apis even Go Hise Unt in
lalty exis init most perf fom nhs divine Tiny adits hee at
God mysteriously gives eyreson to His own ray fem which Bere
xiii the divine sprit bond of lve Aguas ut daa at
these areal relationships n God (S728 1), setaly Sine ad eal
‘ach ter (S7.1282) while yt beng distinct (S7.1283) Mos ingot,
ts network of inrperona reaceships denotes the existence of tice
Divine Peon On this po, be argues hatte fr peren perona)
‘fine a subsist india of raonal mate, spice wit mont
Perit inal ofrature, God mast have hs efton ina mach moe excl
‘ay tan cetres do (S293). He ato diialy of knowing how
‘appt the erm pronto the Trntarian God bt clans fat he pons
"solve i we rad the disc divine reltnsip th rig Gt
‘sbssent ones mpi in al of th of ose, he spect of tna
‘Such the themes which form the background to Agua’ dscesson
ofhow God canbe fiends with Himself On the face oft ows scm as
‘God is behaving in a somewhat aries ftion when He said to
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to God, ‘tend
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Sythe vine wownd of alife ise can be understood ae if of intense and perc fiends, 5
we have seen. Its iner dynamics ate depced as a mysterious sto
interpersonal relationships which are dogmatically proclaimed for St
Thomas th Chrisian believer, nthe dotine ofthe Ty. Thi teaching
hat God is xsntaly and priarily a sociable being Who exresse he
fulness of friendship in the divine life elf the mc for bomen
‘mutt. Gods endl relationships wit mankind, which mayor ay
ot be reciprocated, re manifestations ofthis divine goodness sad son
ste the theological bass, a we ave sid ofan atitdeof fiends
towards ater, ven our enemies. Oe might ask ere how God's en.
ship wth human beings can ever manifest equality whic, n other contcts,
signify for Aquias an important fetre of ftendship: However if one
allows the direction of St Thoma thinking onthe subject, perhaps the
swe ics in the godess of God Who not only pratucusly crated
human beings but also provides them with the capacity to shat in he
vine ile itself by being destined to sce God's cosence inthe heal
Allof this lo indicates something ofthe distance between the inking
of Aguins and that of Aristotle onthe subject of fenhip while rapt
ing the evident sands ofconiuity linking them both ‘The distance
definitively theological Is St.Thomas’ partir understanding ot how
‘Goi present trough fendi hat enables im to pursue the Seton
‘is engiis took even nto the most dificult ren of Christan lita
ofthe Tiny. From amore comemporay point of view:perhaps Ait
"ot valuable contribution tothe ani of endship might be sen ini
constnt fort to provides theorti justifinton of ts importance as 2
‘wprenely worthwhile socal viru which brings about selP-tansecndence
through concer forthe ther. Ins dong, endship lao humans the
"networks of relationships in which we participate and arguably revel 0
‘the posits of more perfect state of communal co-existence than
that which we pest en.
Notes
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eenater Tia sad
4 Stasi srw-mtnaiea
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the Christin Understanding
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