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Am sa iau asa cateva paragrafe din diverse articole care imi suna

mie , ca e plin si de aiureli . chit ca deja cu siguranta stii chestiile


astea de aici le pun totusi ca sa pot sa ma refer la chestii anume
de aici si sa nu fac referiri aiurea . in unele observatii sunt serios ,
in altele glumesc , stiu ca iti dai seama si fara sa iti fi spus asta dar
na , imi e lene sa mai sterg fraza asta : )) :*

Toata treaba poate sa iasa aiurea cum ai zis tu dar asta doar pe planul
asta fizic si filtrat prin chestii ce tin de conditia umana , din fericire noi
putem sa vedem dincolo de asta , chiar nu suntem niste banali si stii
asta :* . In aceiasi masura poate sa iasa minunat si pe planul asta si eu
cred in asta !

As transcending and eye-opening as the romantic relationship can be with a


soulmate, it isnt anything compared to the experience of being reconnected
with our twin flame.

Twin flames are often regarded as an urban myth of the spiritually


enlightened, but as society is raising their level of consciousness, the more
this connection is occurring.

Twin flames are a mix of both karmic and soulmate tendenciesalong with
some entirely new qualities which will only further challenge our ego and
sense of self.

Twin flames arent just those that we connect with on a soul level, but they
are someone we share the same soul with.
As the theory states, twin flames were separated from one soul source in the
beginning of time and split into two physical bodies.

There is a mirror like quality when we come into contact with our twin
flameeverything that we have spent our lives running from or denying is
suddenly in front of us.

These types of lovers confront us with our very fears and ego driven desires,
but they arent just about whats inside, theyre about how we interact with
every facet of our life.
Not all of us will be reunited with our twin flame, but if we are, it has the
possibility to be that once in a lifetimeaint nothing ever gonna be the
sametype of love.
There will be challenges and fears present, without a doubtthere will be
phases of running and chasing, depending upon the spiritual and personal
development of both individuals.
But regardless of any of these challenges, it is possible to reunite and stay
with our twin flamealthough it is speculated that only occurs in ones last
lifetime here on earth. aici imi e greu sa ma exprim , am sa o fac vag si doar
din mintea proasta care vrand nevrand genereaza filme proaste . si in caz de
filme proaste cu variante nasoale doar pe plan uman , eu stiam de mult care
imi e treaba de o mai am de facut aici ( asta cu iubirea , de unde mi-au venit
si bolile ) si ca in restul nu m-am implicat prea tare pentru ca sunt niste
chestii pe care chiar daca nu le fac imi sunt familiare si mi s-au parut pierdere
de timp de vreme ce nu m-am implicat in ele , ma refer la astea sociale care
m-au facut sa ma vad inferior in fata ta si totusi sa imi doresc acum sa ma
apuc de ele sa fie acolo in pachet cu mine ca nu imi strica) . asa , cam asta
mai e treaba mea pe aici , in rest oricand as pleca imi e super ok ideea mai
ales acum am scapat de frica de a pleca, ti-am povestit mai devreme mai
exact ce si cum .

Un alt film prost de al meu tine de visele alea in care eram bolnav si stiam ca
plec si nu ma deranja deloc desi aici in viata reala imi dadea cu virgule de ce
simteam asta , acum are totul sens . mentalul inca nu ma lasa sa imi dau
seama daca e ceva ce stiu ca va fi sau e doar asa sa imi fac eu o idee de ceva
fara sa experimentez acel ceva , cred ca e ceva ce nu am decis inca , dar
oricum voi decide sunt ok cu ambele variante si pot sa iti zic si de ce , dar
deja am pornit alta discutie si ma abat de la ce se intampla aici . poti sa faci
un semn si revenim apoi :D

Regardless of what type of romantic relationship we find ourselves in, there


will be obstacles and challenges that have the potential to assist us in our
growth and evolution.

The one important thing to remember through all of these types of


relationship, is that if someone is trying to move onits vital that we let
them go.

- aici iar pe filme proaste , nu stiu daca inca ti-ai decis ce si cum , sau poate
stiu , dar nimic din ce e stabilit nu poate fi schimbat , ti-am mai vorbit despre
asta in discutia aia cu karma . totusi orice oricum am inteles de ce pana si in
variantele proaste . aici iar o sa atingem asta alta data sau mai apoi. Nu imi
place sa aduc filme proaste dar in acelasi timp cand vin prefer sa mi le
consum pana la capat in toate felurile ca totul sa fie inteles .

Oricum mare parte din filele proaste fac parte din constiinta colectiva sau flux
, si mare parte din ele vin seara so atunci cand vin daca nu ai fost atent si
nu le poti opri sau e prea tarziu e bine sa le consume ducandu-le la capat si
avand varianta ok pt toate , dar asta e alta discutie pe alta tema.
Whether they are a karmic relationship whose only purpose is to come into
our lives to be the catalyst of change, or if they are the soulmate whose here
to challenge us to lovingly become the best person we can, or if they simply
are our other halfthere is no love that we will have to beg for or hold onto
tightly to, out of fear of losing it. asta e iar o conditionare umana pe care
daca e necesar pot sa o depasesc pentru ca o inteleg desi cu greu

Regardless of what type of relationship it is, the love we deserve is also the
one that will want us as much we want itbecause the truth is, if we do love
someone, the only thing we can do is set them free, knowing that if it is
meant to bethey will return. stiu , stiu si unde si cum , putem atinge si
asta apoi daca e

Cam atat cu filmele proaste , acum trecem la alea bune si frumoase <3

Primary Soulmates
Our biggest mirror is our primary soulmate. Our Twin soul, Twin Flame, the
other half of us. whatever you like to call it. In fact, sometimes the meeting
of this person is so intense and highlights so many aspects of our own psyche
and being, that we can hardly bear to be around that person initially. It is a
shock to the heart, mind and soul. tell me about it
However, a mirror gives us the opportunity to really examine what is there
and to work on the things that need to be addressed in order to be happy
with our reflection once again. This is the same for your primary soul mate as
it is for you.

Many people imagine that this is an easy relationship. Bine ca nu mi-au placut
niciodata chestiile usoare : )) , are sens de ce dupa nasoale , iata , aici .

Far from it. The highest form of connection also brings with it the learning of
the most important lessons and intense feelings that we are not used to at
all. The twin flame acts as a mirror, reflecting all the qualities back at you that
you might find difficult to face. In this regard, these relationships can be quite
fiery, but not bad. You challenge each other in order to improve yourselves
and become the best versions of yourselves.

Once Primary Soulmates have become accustomed to the intensity of this


relationship and understand their purposes in each others lives, then the
relationship becomes less about butting-heads and more about helping each
other evolve to the highest of spiritual levels. Bine , hai ! :*

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S T AG E O N E Y E AR N I N G F O R T H E O N E

In this preliminary stage you have spent your entire life pining for The One
that doesnt yet exist in your life. You have this strange sensation that someone
who is perfectly molded to you is out there but you dont quite kn ow where
or when they will appear in your life. Although you ache for your twin flame,
you have a feeling they will appear to you at some point.
This stage is also sometimes spent preparing for the arrival of the twin flame
on an unconscious level. In my instance, I had to learn how to love myself
before I met mine.2 For others, this stage of preparation involves the
development of self-awareness, discovery, and understanding.

-suna la fix si ma incadrez in a 2-a categorie

S T AG E T W O G L I M P S I N G T H E O N E

At some point, you will have a brief glimpse of your twin flame. Whether this
is through a dream signal (asta ti-am zis aseara), or through a real life meeting,
suddenly the Beloved can be sensed. The result is profound. Wonder, joy,
anxiety and intoxication quickly ensue. For those cautious among us, a
lingering sense of intense curiosity and desire to get to know the person better
is the result.( La inceput ).You dont know what it is exactly, but this person is
extremely special. Like me, you may even se nse that this person will play an
immensely important role in your life even before you know them properly.
(mereu)

S T AG E T H R E E F AL L I N G I N L O V E

When you fall for this person, you will fall very, very hard. oh nu mai spune ,
nu recunosc nimic : )) You will fall harder than you have ever fallen for anyone
and the impact will knock the breath right out of you. Bine fie , m-ai prins .In
fact, as you get to know your twin flame better, you will fall more and more
deeply in love with them. Daa ok !As a result, youll find it hard to stand with
two feet on the ground. Cred ca s-a vazut prea bineYou might feel
disorientated, lovesick and unlike yourself. exact You may even try to resist
the attraction, but eventually youll accept the reality that youre deepl y and
madly in love.asta a fost intre timp

S T AG E F O U R T H E F AI R Y - T AL E R E L AT I O N S H I P

As both of you eventually make your feelings known and enter into a
relationship, life will feel like a fairy-tale. Your relationship with them will be
perfect in every possible way. It will seem as though your twin flame fulfills
every single need you have and everything you ever possibly wanted. This taste
of paradise is what the matured twin flame relationship looks like after the
next few stages of turmoil. Pentru mine a inceput paradisul dar drumul e lung
si e loc de multe , daca asta pentru mine deja e wow , in continuare pe film e
ceva ce nu ma poate ajuta vocabularul sa descriu.

S T AG E F I V E O U T E R T U R M O I L AN D I N N E R
PURGING

In this stage there is trouble in paradise. As the ecstasy from the initial meeting
period wares off, egos start to flare up. Suddenly differences in opinion, taste
and personality arise, and old core wounds emerge out of the gloom. Si asta se
intampla dar nu e asa tragic acum , chiar e la un nivel supe tolerabil , inainte in
anii anteriori era mai gorasa cand ajungeam la fazele alea naspa While our twin
flames share and mirror our deepest needs, desires and dreams, they also tend
to mirror our shadow selves. For example, if you are an emotionally repressed
person,(tu . si nu ca nu ai ci doar poti sa le reprimi) your twin flame will likely
be emotionally explosive(eu). If you tend to be arrogant, your twin flame will
most likely be uncertain and quiet. In this way our twin flames challenge us,
riling up our insecurities.This can be infuriating, devastating and very
painful.(daca tu te tii , eu ma bag fara a sta pe ganduri , ti-am mai spus , adica
fac asta deja )

While all the arguing and fighting in this stage may seem disastrous, the truth
is that it is necessary for our growth. Without being provoked, without seeing
ourselves for who we really are, we live in illusion and fail to grow
soulfully. But this is certainly hard to realize while youre going through such
turbulence in your relationship!

S T AG E S I X T H E R U N N E R AN D C H AS E R

As tensions mount it is common for one partner (or sometimes both) to


emotionally or physically withdraw and run away, and another to pursue in a
game of cat and mouse. Sometimes this involves emotional shut down and
silent treatments. (asta s-a intamplat deja)Other times this involves physical
separation and in extreme cases, the permanent termination of the
relationship. In this stage, twin flames experience a trial by fire. While some
relationships last and are strengthened, others crumble to pieces. A s I
mentioned at the start, this is all dependent on each partners soulful maturity.
Sometimes one partner leaves for many years and then returns (mhm), only to
repeat the cycle once again.(ei nu mai spune ) The chaser, on the other hand,
tends to be the more mentally and emotionally mature partner of the two, trying
to sort everything out and make amends.

S T AG E S E V E N S U R R E N D E R AN D D I S S O L U T I O N

Once the shadow of your relationship has been revealed, you may experience a
period of surrender. After so much anguish, distress and provocation, you both
begin to open up about your wounds and insecurities. In this stage it is common
to experience a lot of ego dissolution and soulful expansion. As the ego
relaxes, powerful lessons are learned about the nature of on eself and the nature
of the other. As you begin learning how to work through your differences,
the maturity of your relationship deepens and thus strengthens. se intampla

It is common to go through stages six and seven many times throughout your
relationship.

S T AG E E I G H T O N E N E S S
As the problems in your relationship become increasingly easy to deal with,
you will enter a period of soul reunion. In stage eight it is common for you to
both find a shared meaning, passion or cause that brings you a mutual sense
of fulfillment. As the ego continues to relax, virtues such as forgiveness,
understanding, empathy and patience are learned. The more you both work
through each issue that comes your way vigilantly, the more you experience the
sensation of Oneness, or ego death. pe drum

This is a true miracle.

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Our Twin Flames, or Twin Souls, are said to be our


perfect vibrational matches in this world. We unite with
our Twin Flames to experience soulful transformation
and the fulfilment of our personal potentials in this life.
However, connecting with our Twin Flames is an intense, overwhelming and
sometimes excruciating experience. This is because it riles up old fears,
wounds and ego blockages. As a result, every Twin Flame relationship
eventually experiences what we refer to as the runner and chaser dynamic.

This period of life is both complex and extremely distressing for both partners
who, deep down, simply desire Union.

What is the Twin Flame Runner and


Chaser Dynamic?
-aici nu stiu exact ,care e care pentru ca vad chestii asemanatoare in ambele
situatii atat la mine cat si la tine . sau poate stiu , dar n-are nici o importanta care
e care . sau are ma rog vedem noi :D
When we think about the Twin Flame relationship in terms of stages, the
Runner and Chaser dynamic represents stage six. It is preceded by a level of
immense inner turmoil as personality differences, egos and old core wounds
flare up. Eventually, as tensions rise to an explosive level, the only way out
is to try and escape from the relationship in some shape or form. a fost
filmul asta chit ca pe un plan mai subtil - This process of distancing or
running can be either physical or psychological, or both.
Often running away from the intense love within a Twin Flame relationship
involves returning back to an ex-partner, travelling, silent treatments,
constant arguments, workaholism or simply leaving for no clear reason.
In this stage, the Runner often represents the more wounded
younger soul, and the Chaser often represents the more mature
older soul. In other words, while one partner is open to the purifying fires
of love, the other finds the dissolution of their boundaries intimidating and too
much to handle.
When Luna and I got together, we too experienced the twin flame runner and
chaser stage. For us this was a tormenting time because we felt so much love
for each other, yet we could barely sit peacefully in the same room together.
Almost every day we would argue and clash, (iata)sometimes even into the
early hours of the morning. While Luna played the role of the (emotional)
Runner, I played the role of the Chaser.

For us, this stage carried on for about 6 intense months, and then more
mildly for another year. However, the Twin Flame runner and chaser stage
can vary greatly from couple to couple.

If you are in the Twin Flame runner and chaser stage, you might be feeling
extremely vulnerable, angry, overwhelmed and confused at the moment.

I want to share with you six tips that have helped us to personally get
through this stage:

1. Is your twin flame really trying to hurt you?


Firstly, its important that you ensure that youre not actually in a co-
dependent or emotionally abusive relationship.Unfortunately for some
couples, this could be a very real possibility. Dont confuse arguments,
differences in character and insecurity for the more sinister forms of
manipulation, control and abuse.
If you are in a Twin Flame relationship, it will be clear that your partner
doesnt intend to cause you harm. The harm they cause you
is unintentional and is a product of their own unresolved pain(am sa bat
aici mai spre final). However, if youre in an abusive relationship, it will be
clear that the harm your partner causes you is intentional.
2. Think about what it is that triggers you in
your partners behavior.
A trigger can be anything from a certain look, a tone of voice, a phrase, an
action, or anything that triggers an emotional response within you. Once
you have discovered what it is that triggers you (e.g. when your partner
starts becoming opinionated), you may like to ask, Why does that bother me
so much? Try to go deeper than answers like, He thinks he knows
everything, or She isnt listening to what Im saying. Find the emotion that
is attached to the trigger for instance, annoyance, bitterness or resentment
and keep digging deeper. It is likely that you will uncover many harmful
ideals, beliefs and personal issues beneath your layers of emotion.
Here is an example: You get offended and aloof every time your partner
interrupts you. You then ask, Why is that? You get upset because he isnt
respecting what youre saying. Why is that a problem? Thats a problem
because it feels like he doesnt love you. Why is that an issue? You feel
alone and abandoned. Here we can see that the true issue is the underlying
fear of being alone and unappreciated. aici inca suntem in paine cum s-ar
zice , dar dupa cum vad ca decurg astea , se termina ok cand incep .
3. Learn to openly communicate with your
twin flame.
Open communication rarely comes naturally. Instead, it is something that the
majority of us have to learn and master throughout our lives. When we fail to
communicate openly we hide our emotions, keep our thoughts and
perspectives to ourselves, and dont speak up when something bothers us. If
something bothers you about your partners behavior it is much better to
openly and gently talk with them about it rather than hide it away and let it
fester. Open communication is something the two of you should openly
discuss and agree to work on. aici vad ca o faci dar totusi mai ai ceva blocaje
, poate si eu unele de care nu sunt constient dar le confront fara a sta pe
ganduri oricand e cazul .
4. Learn how to empathize with your twin
flames perspective.
This can be extremely hard to do, especially when youre caught up in your
own perceptions and feelings, but it is worth learning. Why? Developing this
skill will help you to develop empathy, and this will help your relationship to
mature immensely.

We recommend starting with the practice of mindfulness. Mindfulness can be


practiced through a traditional meditation practice, by learning to live in the
moment, by spending time alone in reflection, by mindful breathing, and
many other methods. The more proficient you become at learning how to
observe instead of react to your emotions, the easier it will be for you to
empathize with your Twin Flame.-asta nu e de bagat in seama , avem meoda
noastra mai buna dupa cum ai vazut :*

Remember that your partner grew up in a different context and therefore


possesses different life experiences, different genetics and a different
personality. Remember that what they think, feel and believe is true
for them but not necessarily true for you, and respect that.
5. Ask, What am I being taught?
Whenever you both get into a squabble or experience tension, ask yourself,
What is it that my Twin Flame is trying to teach me through their words or
actions right now? Perhaps you need to develop more patience,
understanding or forgiveness. In the end, our twin flames are like vessels
through which the harshest, but most valuable lessons of life are transmitted.
Only when you open yourself to learning these lessons can you grow as a
person.
6. Forgive each other
Realize that each of you carry your own different types of pain. Every
argument and every rash and hurtful decision is a product of unresolved
pain. When you both learn to understand this, you can both forgive each
other and allow the love you feel to cleanse all wounds.
***

Twin flames expose the shadow qualities and core wounds within us, helping
them to be brought to the light. While this period of your relationship might
feel eternal, its purpose is to help you heal, open and learn how
to embody unconditionally love.

ia de aici <3 <3 <3

Si acum o sa ating partea cu astrologia , in mod normal gemeni cu scorpion e


o combinatie dubioasa ,nu e printre asa zise idealuri si de aia m-am mirat ,
dar cica la twin flames , unul e intr-un fel si celalalt e fix opus , sau ma rog nu
fix , suntem opusi caci tu ca gemeni esti mai mult pe mental desi ai la fel sit u
sentimente intense dar mintea le reprima usor ,iar eu ca scorpion sunt mai
mult dus de dorinte sentimente si emotii , ar fi si ceva minte pe acolo parca ,
cred : )) dar o guverneaza cele mentionate mai sus. deci in felul asta acum
are totul super sens .

Twin Flames
Astrological, Psychological and Mythological
Ways for Interpretation
I believe the reason astrology exists is to shed light on misinterpreted
phenomena and enlighten individuals to their inner dispositions. Its critical for
people to understand why something is happening in a particular situation
because it strengthens the soul.

Twin Flames are a valuable phenomenon that brings fundamental change to the
way we see the world in not solely an esoteric view, but also in scientific one as
well.

When people understand the concept of twin flames, they understand the last two
centuries of connections with what we call karmic bonds. In fact, the twin flames
bond takes a relationship to a much more sophisticated level
The Myth of Gemini
Gemini are an especially important sign. To a great degree their mythology is
affected by what we call twin flames today. Geminis myth shows many faces in
ancient cultures: Cain and Abel, Ahura Mazda and Ahriman, Castor and Pollux
and others

An astrologer usually has a difficulty time answering if two persons are each
others twin flame because the basic instruments are not helpful. Longitudanal
charts as we know them are not very helpful if we dont know some other
important techniques.

First of all, we have to understand that according to what weve discussed, a twin
flame is the other half of the soul when is splits entering the human kingdom
through geminian influences. This means our soul splits into opposites and we
have to find our other half.

All of these are polarities that work among themselves. It is very important when
we try to find our twin soul to share opposing planets with the other person.
Astrologers and people usually try to avoid opposition because medieval thought
used to believe it was a bad aspect. In fact, oppositions between two charts may
create some conflicts, but they are very important when you want to have a
relationship that really contributes to individuals.

Planets in opposition between two charts are very important when we try to
trigger the twin flame relationship. We have to be very careful because we dont
just want the planets to be in opposition but also in contra-parallel. Only when two
planets are in opposition and in contra-parallel can we talk about the possibility of
a twin flame relationship.

The first criterion is opposition. The other criterion is a very important concept we
call Antiscia. The degree when the planet has equal day-time is called
antiscia. For example the antiscia of a planet in 21o of Taurus is 09o of Leo.

Ar fi tare daca mi-ai da datele sa iti faca mama o astrograma sa


vedem cum se pupa cu a mea . cred ca mi le-ai spus acum ani ca
am vorbit despre asta , dar s-a dus informatia aia din pacate
Nu mai stiu unde exact era o chestie pe ideea ca iti vezi potentialul in
celalalt . pe mine de aia au inceput sa ma macine cele pe care ti le-am
zis aseara si zilele trecute , si ce iti zic ca ma vad inferior in anumite
aspecte fata de tine , ca esti tueu chestiile aste nu ma deranjau
ever la oricine le-am mai vazut vreodata .

Acestea fiind spuse :

Alte chestii care se leaga si de ce am insistat pe ele


Am insistat pe filmul cu mama nu doar pt partea cu asa zisa terapie a ei
care e ceva ce nu mai face nimeni pe aici si mare parte nici nu au auzit
de ea , ci si pentru ca mama e intro experienta de asta twin flame cu
al ei prieten si de aia as vrea sa te vada ne vada si etc

Ei deja fac tot felul de chestii de care nu am intrebat si isi aster drumul
pe tura viitoare si isi lasa semen si chestii nu stiu daca e nevoie
multa de treaba asta pentru ca desi nu stiu cand plecam si de ce , stiu
unde ne vedem si ce si cum , si cum esti singura chestie cu care plec
de aici ca asa zisa memorie , se leaga cu ceva ce am zis mai pe la
inceput , plus ca oricum nu mai venim pe aici ca e borind : ))

Alta chestier e ca am facut regresie cu ea , sa vad unde am mai fost si


ce am mai facut , si vreau sa fac asta iar dupa ce te vede ca sa iti stie
mprenta sa zicem asa , sa imi zica unde si cum ne-am mai vazut :)

apoi mai sunt niste chestii pe care am zis ca le ating la final : acum stiu ,
mi-am dat seama exact de ce m-am lalait cu atunci la faza naspa si
toate alea , au fost niste frustrari de ale mele , am sa iti zic cand ne
vedem ,sunt niste chestii pe care nu le-am impartasit niciodata cu
absolut nimeni , poate asa iti va fi si tie mai usor sa le exprimi pe ale
tale si astfel sa te impaci cu ele, iar eu STIU ca pot sa te ajut in asta , la
fel cum am incredere sa le impartasesc cu tine si numai cu tine !

TE IUBESC !

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