The honorable adjudicators, committees and audiences

And my beloved friends who participate in Comfair 2017

Good afternoon
First of all, I would like to thank God who has given us such deeply enjoyable,
particularly faith, and healthy comfort, hence we could attend here in a good condition. And
also, I would like to thank you to the adjudicators who allow me to deliver my speech.

Ladies and gentlemen,

Before i deliver my speech,I have one question for you. So, please listen up carefully.
Im a boy and we can be friends for sure. Im a student. So, we all are still studying. But
what if I add more words. Im a boy, Im a student, and Im a victim of bullying! Victimized
and being bullied by students and by people around. You will not see me like other normal
boy anymore. Im always intimidated and harrased , forced to do something what they want.
Depressions, fearness, sleep problems, and sorrow. Those are feelings i always feel .... there
is no day without being haunted by those feelings and people who bully me. What do you
think about bullying ? is it good ? is it bad ?

Ladies and gentlemen,

Bullying is use of violence, threat , and coercion to abuse or to intimidate others.
Indonesian Child Protection Commission (KPAI) explained that since 2011 to 2016 has
found about 23 thousand cases of physical and psychological violence against children. This
is not a small number for case of bullying and it gives bad impacts to the new generation. On
behalf of anti-bullying. I deliver this speech with two purposes. . First, to build and to raise
awareness about bullying .Second, to inform the solution of resolving bullying problems.

Ladies and gentlemen,

At a school, there is always a person that has big egos and big confident.This person
has a group of followers or supporters, and they feel like they rule the school. They have
strength and power. They always look down on the other students and also disturb the other
students. Do you know who they are ? Bullies. They like to bully student over and over no
matter what. They often bully through physical acts, like pushing and kicking and through
verbals, like using bad words and bad calling name to gain power and control over the target.
If this happens repeatedly. Fearness, low confidence, pathetic appearance, and depression . all
of this is just what the victims will always feel and get. Their target is student with tendencies
like low popularity and feeling of helplessness, only has a few friends or even no friends, and
anti-social. Other students often tolerate this bully , why ? because they are afraid of bullying,
they would rather be accepted than bullied. There are several types of bullying. Physical
bullying, verbal bullying, sexual bullying, and cyber bullying. Despite of that, bullying
knows no gender, no size, and no background. Victims and worse impacts what we get from
bullying.

Ladies and gentlemen,

Why bullying can happen around us ? is it for looking for attention ? yes, it is. Is it
because of family influences ? yes, it is. Are bullies lack of empathy and understanding ? yes,
they are. Even someone is bullying the bullies so they release their angers to others and bully
them. These are the cause why bullying is happening. Victims can reduce the risk of being
bullied by learning how to show their self-confidence, avoid the bullys tactics, and obtain
support from the others. If you are being bullied, tell them to stop, get away from the
situations and tell to trusted adult. If you see someone being bullied, be an upstander. Be
brave to tell the bullies to stop and be friends with the bullying victims. If we dont stop it, it
will just be an endless bullying. Bullies will bully new people and that bullied people will
bully another people and that another bullied people will bully the other people and so on ,
theres no end.

Ladies and gentlemen,

Do you know what the worst impact of bullying is? Mental problems? No. Health
problems? Still no. Its ... suicide. Victims that have become really hopeless, may think about
suicide as the one and only way to escape from bullies. So, lets stop bullying and start
respecting each other. There is no better way than to start from yourself.

Ladies and gentlemen, this is the end of my speech for today. My name is Adhiya. Thank you