BECOME Master of Your Life

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Become Master Of Your Life
We all have questions in our mind lets

share few of them
Who Need GOD?

Why One Need GOD?
Where We Find GOD?
How GOD Will Help Us?
There Are Many Such Question!
Do we really need to
know the GOD!
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This Book Is Dedicated To My Father

Late Sr. Gurbax Singh Bakshi. He Had Given Me The
Thoughts And Understanding To Realize The World With
Different Vision.. Love You Dad
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What We Need Is!
Something
Which Will Work For Us!!!!!
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INDEX
Sr. name page

1 PREFACE 6
2 WHAT WE NEED FROM LIFE 9
3 GAME PEOPLE PLAY. PART I 20
4 GAME PEOPLE PLAY. PART II 24
5 RESTART YOUR LIFE 29
6 YOU... THE MASTER OF YOUR OWN LIFE 36
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PREFACE
In this world
many happenings are

happening around us
death, birth, rain, light,
darkness, winter, summer,
snow, gravity, good or bad
many things are happening
around us. It seems like
all these happening are independent but actually everything is
connected, Its a cycle of events which is happening around us one after
the other. Every Happening is the end result of previous happening. Its
a cycle of birth and death, like summer comes after winter; it means
summer is the death of winter and vice a versa. Same way day is a
death of night and vice a versa.
Lets understand more precisely about life

cycle of a tree. Its a complete life cycle of birth and
death, birth of fruit is a death of flower, birth of flower
is a death of a bud, seed is a death of fruit, a plant is a
death of seed, a complete cycle of death and
birth. Death of one is the birth of other and its so
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smooth and silent that nobody realizes whats happening.
Everything is connected and its continuous. Its hard to find

out the space between the happenings, its hard to realize when one
form of life is transformed into other form. Is it a chain reaction! Yes
its a never ending chain reaction. Death
and birth happening at the
same time and space
and no one realize
whats happening
death transforming
into birth.we take
this as normal.
Same
transformation of death
into birth and death is
happening in animal kingdom too. But
dont visualize this transformation of death into birth, thats why we
feel this death and birth and this really affect us all.
We feel ignorant about the mystery of death and
birth in animal kingdom.
In this universe every reaction is a result of a
previous action and every reaction produces a new action.
This whole universe is result of continues happening
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chain of actions and reactions. This continues happening of Actions &

Reactions are cause of evolution. This continues happening of events is
one which accumulates the system of life! Called life
cycle..The ultimate mystery for human Race to know or to
explore
When I started this book, the goal in my mind was to know the
truth behind the actions and reactions happening around us, and to find
out the relation between all actions and reactions. What is the meaning
of these actions and reactions? How these will help me in my day to
day life. How this ultimate energy flowing will help me to achieve my
destiny. How I will become master of my life.
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CHAPTER ONE
WHAT WE NEED FROM LIFE
In early age of human race all the happenings around him like
day, night, rain, lightning, heat, cold, wind and earthquake etc all
natural happenings make him restless. He feels like all these
happenings are there to kill him. He fails to understand all these
happenings, those are happening around him. All the times he had
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curiosity to know more about these happenings. With every passing day
the list of his queries was increasing.
All the time he was thinking and discussing about the

happenings around him. He was always trying to save himself from
these happenings. He was continuously looking for the reason for these
happenings.
He was trying to find out the power working behind all the
happening! What is the purpose of every happening? How human being
effected with these happenings? What are the effects and after effects
of these happenings? Everybody is affected with these happenings and
everybody is trying to find reasoning behind these happenings.
People have different thoughts, different explanations different
reasoning, different logics, different wavelengths, different attitude,
different psyches, different cultures, and
different experiences towards the
happenings around them. With
progress in the civilized world
of human he starts realizing
that all these happenings are
there to help him. Now he is
comfortable with all these
happenings around him. But now
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more complex questions come into his mind for the happenings around
him. Now he wants to know more about everything happening around
him.
He wants to know who had created this earth. We came from

some other place or we had been created by someone here only? Who
had made this life cycle? What is birth or death? What after
death? And what was before birth? Most importantly
who is running this system of life cycle? There was
no one available to answer these questions. Rather nobody
was having an answer. But everybody was looking for the
answer.
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Everybody was curious and everybody

were compiling the facts to solve the mystery of
happenings. What happened was few people with
higher intellectual level then other people had
created different thoughts and explanations for these
happenings? Everyone explaining things
differently, all explanations were depending upon
their culture and their personal experiences. They feel
like there is someone who is doing this all they named it GOD. Out of
these many different explanations one thing common among all these
different explanations, that no explanation was without GOD, not even
one that which believed that they dont believe in GOD interesting.
Everybody is trying to explain that behind every happening

around the universe there is a GOD (every language or Religion have
different name for it) he is sitting somewhere and operating everything
in this world. This way all the people with lesser intellectual level had
started believing all the people with higher intellectual level. Now they
had followers with them and this was the time when religion first
comes into the existence. Now we have different religions.
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Every Religion has different theories and explanations for the

happenings around. People with higher intellectual level had the ability
to justify all the questions in front of their followers more the followers
bigger the religion.
At that time there was no parameters to verify the facts given by

different religions. Every explanation was new for human mind.
Human mind were not just open but empty too. They just were
grabbing the thoughts given by the people with higher intellectual level,
rather than selecting or analyzing the thoughts. Only two things were
happening at that very time Speaking And accepting. If you had
capacity and courage to speak, masses were ready to listen and they
accept it without analyzing the facts. By that time they used to worship
earth, sky,
lightning, water,
darkness, sun,
wind i.e. all the
natural source of
power or any
things which was
beyond their
imagination and
understanding.
Things which
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frightened him existed in the system of life cycle. I.e. by now their fear
became the master of their mind.
This was going perfectly till people had faith in all this. With
passage of time a concept of SUPREME GOD comes into existence.
This means that there is someone who is above all GODs called
supreme GOD, supreme GOD is one who controls everything in system
of life cycle... Slowly, slowly with time many GOD and SUPREME
GODS come into existence. Now everyone wants their own GOD.
Now the people with higher intellectual level people will

become the messenger of GOD. They started their own explanation in
their own way. People started doing blind faith to this messenger of
GOD. They all were started claiming or IN OTHER WORDS forcing
the human race that whatever they are saying and
explaining about the GOD is the only truth. Even
Few claimed that only they can release to human
race from the wheel of death and birth. Few said that they
are the only source for human race to realize the GOD.
Few claimed that they are the relative of GOD. Few
said they are the forecaster of the supreme
GOD.
All these people had different time frames for the evolution of
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earth and they had different explanation for queries. Why humans are
here on planet earth? How they came into existence? Who was the
creator of human being or whole living beings? Who was operating the
system of life cycle? If you had studied all the explanation given by
different people born at different places and at different time intervals
while sitting on same table? You realize that all these explanations are
misleading.
All these
explanations are misleading and
contradictory to each other. Everybody were trying to prove that their
theories and explanations were the ultimate truth. They were not just
explaining but in reality they were dictating the human race. They
claimed that they had hotline connection with the supreme. Whatever
they are dictating is the only and the ultimate truth.
Every messenger claimed that they are the people sent by the
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supreme to look after the system of life cycle created by the supreme
They are receiving the information and techniques to run and maintain
the system of life cycle by SUPREAM GOD. This is wrong and
misleading by itself, as every single person who claims that he had
been sent by the supreme explaining happenings in the system of life
cycle differently. There is no similarity between their theories and
explanations about the happenings in the system of life cycle. These
theories and explanations which were dictated by these messengers
did not give the impression that these were dictated by the single source
called GOD. Everybody claimed that there is only one GOD. If its true
then, why not he (GOD) taught the same thing to every messenger?
Why every single messenger explains these happenings differently?
If supreme himself is dictating them differently. This means

GOD is having commonsense lesser then a common human being. This
means it is not worth to know, worship pay respect to
GOD, who himself is not clear how to teach his
messengers so that these messengers will teach and
explain the something to human race and lead them the
way to GOD itself here comes the contradiction
either GOD is true or either messengers are true.
Both cant be true at the same time one has to
be wrong there is a possibility that both can be wrong at
the same time. But its not possible that both are true at the same time.
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If we have to find out the truth then only one can be true and one can be
true only when other is wrong there is no other way. One has to be
wrong either GOD or messenger.
Everybody is claiming differently about the concept of GOD, it

clears that all explanations and theories are just the imagination by the
individuals about the concept of GOD. All these explanations and
theories are made to manipulate
human race to become more
powerful and to rule the
human race. No theory or
explanation has any
connection with concept of
GOD which they used to explain.
Now there are many issues we need to know few are

1 Dose GOD really exists? If yes! How it will help human
kind?
2 Does GOD have any relation with religion?
3 Do all these religious guide lines lead to him (GOD)?
4 Did all these human made explanations or theories worth
to pay respect?
5 Does all theories about the concept of GOD are made just
to rule the human kind?
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6 is it necessary to know GOD and worship him?

To answer these entire question either GOD by himself come
and explain it to human kind or we have to rely upon the people who
had created the concept of GOD. We call them the messengers.
We can divide these messengers generally in two categories as

per the theories developed by these messengers. Messengers in first
categories are those who had been directly sent by GOD himself to
dictate the human kind. The messengers in second category are those
messengers who are not sent by the GOD directly but they had
experienced GOD through these different techniques.
These techniques had

been developed by
themselves under the
guidance or with the
grace of GOD. Now
they are trying to
explain human kind
that how to experience
GOD. This is how they
are serving the humanity
and they are performing this
duty by the consent of the GOD. This all is
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happening with the divine order of GOD. To prove this all they have
different and infinite theories with them.
Once we go through both the categories you realize both have

different platforms and have no relation and similarities in their
theories and explanations about happenings in the system of life cycle.
In this book my aim is not to discuss that there is GOD or no

GOD. The whole purpose of this book is to know How to Get Help from
Other Side which is freely available for all? We all need it. lets
get it. Lets accept it, to make life a better life.
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Chapter two
GAME PEOPLE PLAY. PART I
In this universe
physical law says that every
action have equal and
opposite reaction and every
reaction generates more
actions, this is a chain of
actions and reactions its an
ever ending chain reaction. This
is the reason how universe is developing and getting more and more
complex every day in terms of material and
intelligence. In this universe no happening is
ineffective every happening has its remarkable
effect on this universe. Every single or small
change in matters and mind has its effect upon
universe.
This action and reaction are of
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two kinds physical and intellectual. Both are created with energy fact
which is good to know that energy cannot be created or destroyed but
energy can be changed from one form to other form by applying some
action or due to some reaction. This is why every intellectual action in
human mind generates intellectual reaction in others mind and this will
lead to development of intellectual level in universe.
To understand the mystery of actions and reactions on human

minds and its development lets go through a simple example. Just look
at the relationship of teacher and student. From ancient time this
relationship is in the existence it is a chain reaction one teacher had
produced few students and out of few students some become teachers
and those teachers produced few more students this is a ever ending
process and still happening around us. Every generation of teachers
pass on their experience to their students and students after enhancing
through their ideas and creativities that information passes on to the
next generation of students as teachers.
This way impact of once mind is

affecting others mind and chemistry of minds
began. With time the chemistry of minds
becoming more and more complex and life is
getting more and more tactful. Thats why life
needs more inelegant efforts then physical efforts
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with the passage of every single day. Every mind is getting more
effective every day.
Just look at your life and the past history you will find the
answer by yourself. In ages back physical fitness was the indication of
strength but now inelegance fitness is the indication of fitness. In terms
of mind we can divide this human kind in two categories one to rule
and second to serve. One thing which is very important that everybody
is ruling at different levels and everybody is serving at different levels.
Charles Darwin
declared that survival is
the primary impulse
of life. He had
given the
statement that
only fittest will
survive. In this
statement word
fittest has different
meanings for animals
and human beings. Nearly
all animals lower than men are
motivated by instinct, but their capacity to think is limited. Therefore
they prey upon each other physically. Man with superior sense and with
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passage of time after gaining experiences from generations developed

the capacity to think and to reason, not to eat his fellow men physically;
he gets more satisfaction by eating other humans
financially and emotionally.
In my life I came across almost every kind of

person peace loving, GOD fearing, rationalist,
destroyer, preachers pro GOD or Anti GOD, social
workers, politicians, smart people, foolish people, hard
workers, lazy peoples, egoistic peoples, cool people.etc. All
look like different people moving in different directions. but when you
go deep inside the minds you find that They are not different but they
are at different inelegance levels but all are moving in the same
direction, direction to rule others.
Everybody is trying to overpower everybody. Two things that

makes the difference between animal and humans and those are
emotions and economics. Everybody is trying to play with the emotion
of others and eating other humans financially. Look around and feel,
This is the game which every human is playing with every other human
but at different levels. .
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Chapter Three
GAME PEOPLE PLAY. PART II
The people we see
around us, perhaps daily,

live quite obviously on
different levels of
developments. Often it
takes a mere glance at
their expressions to
perceive that all of them are
not equally wise. The
differences suggest powerfully that all
human beings are in a process of development - not as species merely,
but as individuals. The motivation that drives everyone,
including the lower animals, is desire. All seek to
avoid pain and experience pleasure. Human
beings are more developed and in intelligence and
understanding than other animals
Desire is no doubt most important

motivational factor for human beings. Without desire
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nothing can be achieved. Without desire the process of development

cant be possible. Most interestingly we desire without knowing how to
desire. Just like we want to play with fire without knowing the
character of fire this is how we play with our self. We desire for getting
that desire fulfills we felt happy and then we want to keep that
happiness forever.
There are two things first one is moh and second is lobh. Moh
means what I have I want to posses forever and lobh means I want
more. Moh stands for past and lobh stand for future. What so ever we
have we dont want to lose it and what we look in future we want it for
our self at any cost or by any mean. Moh means
possession for ever as this possession gives
us happiness and we want this happiness
for ever means permanent. What happens
with this possession for happiness this will generate
desire to hold this moment of happiness for ever to
hold this happiness is an conditional process. That
means to hold this moment of happiness for ever we
need such and such things as it is conditional.
To understand this process

of moh and lobh lets find out an example a man is
walking down the hill sun is shining as usual, birds are singing. Grass
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and trees are covered with dew drops; fresh breeze is making air fresh.
Suddenly clouds appear on the back ground. What a wonder full
moment! Man feels happy and like this
moment, he
likes the
moment as
this gives him
happiness. At
this moment a
new thought
comes in his mind how to capture this
moment forever? How to capture this moment, this moment awakened
his desire to posses this moment forever. He thought how I can posses
this moment forever .This is possible only if I can click picture of it.
This is possible only if I had a camera with me. Only then I could hold
this image for ever i.e. possession forever. This is the height of lobh,
that we want everything which gives us happiness forever we want
material possession of everything which gives him happiness.
Now the desire of having camera is getting fire inside him, he

starts thinking that until and unless I possess that camera to capture the
moment he cant be happy till that time. Now this poor man is sad man
and wants to capture the moment forever. He starts dreaming about
camera which will help him to capture the moment and to become
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happy. After two months he gets the camera. He went back to the place
where he finds that moment again he clicked the moment and came
back happily. Now he will have that moment forever. He developed the
pictures. He is not that happy! Why? Picture is not clear. To get clear
picture he need better camera, lenses and other accessories. For those
accessories he needs more money which doesnt have at present... He
starts working very hard to earn money which he needs to buy these
accessories.
Now what happened with this man? He is so stucked up with

the things he had started to get this camera. Now he doesnt have time
to visit the place where he had captured the moment. Ah well never
mind at least he is having it, a very own camera of his dreams .is he
happy anymore? He was much happier before his
decision of getting that moment of
happiness forever. Then after getting
the system to capture the moment
which will brings happiness inside
him forever.
Now he learned that to capture

those moments of happiness forever he
needs further attachments for his camera. Then again he had desire to
get those attachments and working and putting stress both physical and
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mentally. He got himself to busy in arranging the attachments so

badly that hardly he gets any time to capture the moments which gives
him happiness. What joy it is..This is what the game people play with
themselves.
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CHAPTER FOUR
RESTART YOUR LIFE
Just look around what you extract from the world around us.
Most of the people are struggling for their lives. Life has become
miserable for them. Life is not a gift for them life will become a
punishment to them. How this happened to them. What went wrong
with them that the life is no more worth living for them?
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Just start from birth before birth how you are getting your food
what efforts you did to get that. After birth you need oxygen and milk
to survive who had provided you that who had given you the sense that
how to breath and how to take milk? All that you have to do is just to
learn how to have it; nothing else had been done from your side. With
the passage of time you will start getting everything you desire for
yourself without efforts. Then you start doing efforts for your
requirements and desires. After getting your
desires fulfilled you desire
possessing them
for life long. More
and more you
start desiring
more and more
you start
working for
that then the rat race for
possession and desire will
keep on going and you feel that you
are trapped. Here is the point where you feel like life is not a gift for
you its a punishment. One can understand this only when one reaches
at this point. One ultimate truth is once in a life time everybody reaches
at this point. When he thinks there is no way to escape here is the point
when you have to restart your life again
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To restart life what we have to do is reprogram our self with

new softwares for our subconscious mind. Before we reprogram our
subconscious mind we have to be very clear our self in terms of faith
and process of learning.
Until and unless we

dont have a faith in
anything it is hard
to achieve that.
Faith is the chief
engineer of our
own mind. When
faith and thoughts
work together the
subconscious mind instantly picks
up the vibrations and translates that into code and
transmits it to the other side of the universe to get help for you from
other side. Faith is the one of the strongest emotion. This affects your
life in such a way that no other can affect you. Faith is a state of mind
which may be devolved by continuous repetition of instructions to your
subconscious mind, through the principle of auto suggestion.
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Repetition of definite orders to subconscious mind is the only

way for the development of the emotion called... Faith.
o Faith Is The Starting Point Of Every Success.
o Faith Is The Bliss Of All The Miracles And Mysteries.
o Faith Is The Basic Component For Every Invention.
o Faith Is The Only Gate Way Through Which We Can Get Help
From The Other Side.
o Just Have Faith In Your Self To Have Faith In Infinite
Intelligence On The Other Side, Impotently Freely Available For
You.
o Faith Is The Key To The Mind.
o Faith Is An Invitation To Happiness.
To learn how to learn, lets learn how our mind used to learn. To
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understand this just go through a simple example when we were too

small and we have no idea what waking up is. We are totally unaware
with the fact that there is something called waking and you dont know
how to walk.
When you grown up you start realizing your outer world. You
come to know that others are walking and you dont know how to walk.
This is something you must know this desire comes into your mind.
And you start doing efforts to learn it.
Once the desire for walking comes into your mind you start
doing efforts for it. Slowly, slowly you learned it with continues
practice. But this time you are well aware with the fact that you are
walking. You are very much conscious about each and every move you
move.
Once you know that you

know that you know with continues
practice, repeatedly instruction to
the sebaceous mind you start
walking unctuously. Now there
is no need to watch your every
move. In other words your
walking activity is controlled by auto
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driver called your subconscious mind. Now you are not putting your
attention to your walking.
This is way we learn our every activities through continues flow

of infinite intelligence from the other side of universe. The flow of
blessing is constantly coming from other side of the universe. What all
we have to learn is how to accept it. You have to make yourself more
sensitive to understand, to feel and to make yourself accepter of the
tremendous energy and intelligence which flowing towards you from
the other side of the universe. Faith in that what you demand. You will
get that exactly depending upon your persistence power.
How firm you are with your desire? That means are you
sticking with your desire or you keep on changing your desire? If you
are firm with your desire you will get it full filled defiantly and if you
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keep on changing your desire you, youre self spoiling your life. What
picture you had in your mind and sending that to other side in return of
this action you will get the definite reciprocal in spiritual or physical
form? The process of learning and believing what you are doing and
expecting from the other side of universe is the only way to Restart Your
Life, Lets learn it..
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CHAPTER FIVE
YOU... THE MASTER OF YOUR OWN LIFE
You are the master of your own life. Yes you

are the creator and master builder of two poles in system of
life cycle i.e. pole of happiness and pole of unhappiness.
All the actions or the reaction in your life will lead you to
either of the poles happiness or unhappiness. You are
moving like pendulum between these poles. Its your
polarity with the happenings around you which decide your
movement towards any of these two poles. Both poles
produced equally strong magnetic fields. Your polarity will
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decide effect of magnetic fields on your life.

In system of life cycle you are an individual.
You cant live alone and selfishly in the

system of life cycle. You have to think in
totality with the system of life cycle. You have to
act like an integral part in the system of life cycle. No
individual have power to be happy while considering him
only and acting selfishly.
You cant detach yourself from the system of life

cycle. You are not born individual or by individual efforts.
There is a whole interference
by system of life
cycle for your
existence in this
system. You cant
separate yourself
form the totality. We
all are integral part of the
chain in the system of life cycle. We
have to follow the system of life cycle. If you are unhappy
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with the happenings around yourself, means you are not in

integration with the system of life cycle.
Before we go further we must find answer to the
simple question who I am? And answer is equally simple

you are
information. What? Yes

you are just an
informmation, just
think about it. How
you feel by knowing, you
are just an information nothing
more than that. It hurts you, yes it
hurts you and your ego too its hard to digest but it is
true. Lets explain it. For
example you are Mr.
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.. And you are 30 years old with 70 kg weight.

Take a pen and piece of paper and start writing down
answers to few questions..
1. Who are your parents?
2. Who had given you this name?
3. What is your family back ground?
4. What is your education?
5. What is your profession?
6. Who are your friends?
7. What are your hobbies?
8. What are your strengths?
9. What are your weaknesses?
10. What you like the most?
11. Why other love you?
12. What you hate most?
13. What you if love someone?
Take your time to answer these questions. Write answers to
these questions in detail, from the core of your heart.
Without answering this question whole heartedly
you will not be able to understand the fact which I
want you to understand. So go back and answer
the questions.
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If you had not written it yet, write it now.
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..
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..
..
..
..Thanks
for completing all question whole hearty.
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Now erase it all .
What remains after erasing every word? Nothing

just a blank sheet! This is what you were at the time of
birth. Ego less. Now you are just a mass of 70 KG .Yes
you are just a mass of 70 KG, nothing less nothing more.
Now you are not feeling any ego, you are finished you are
just disappearing just mass of 70 KG. Now find out
yourself if you can!
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You are just an accumulation of direct or indirect

intelligence that we were getting from the other side from
last 30 years. This whole information is just stored in your
mind. Your ego feels uplifted and feels comfortable by
possessing this information. As human being you love
possession of everything which makes you proud as we
already discussed in previous chapter.
Moment we
erase this information
from your mind.
What happened how
you feel? Are you
feeling vacuum
inside by
realizing that you
are no more with
this system of life cycle. System
of life cycle had taken up everything which he had given
you in 30 years. Now you stand nowhere. Just a physical
body, good for nothing without the accumulated
information received from other side directly or indirectly.
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Now there is nothing to be proud upon, now there

is no ego, we have nothing to posses. All possessions are
the gifts from the other side. Now you are at absolute zero,
or no mind . now you having no connection with the
system of life cycle. There is no importance of yours for the
system of life cycle... Nothing can influence you and you
dont have impact on your surroundings anymore. You
have become unresponsive for the system of life cycle.
Remember we are nothing at our own. Whatever we

are, we are just because of the system of life cycle. We are
the integral part of each other i.e. we are for this
system of life cycle and this whole system of
life cycle is for us or vice versa. Everything or
every individual are interrelated or interconnected
through the system of life cycle with each other.
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We are made
for each other and there
is no place for
selfishness. We are not
individual. We are not
independent. We are not
alone. We are not self sufficient. We are not the totality.
We are not the master builder. You need everything in this
system of life cycle and everything needs you too! You
cant be selfish. You have to synchronies yourself with the
system of life cycle. Quality of synchronization with the
system of life cycle will decide the quality of your life.
Better the synchronization better the life.
The moment you get selfish you become out of the

beat with the system of life cycle and start moving toward
the pole of unhappiness. For unhappiness what may be the
cause is, the effect is visible and
defiantly you dont like the effect. You
cant change the effect but yes you can
change the cause. As you are the master of
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our own life you can remold your character.
There is great power inside every one that one can

transform himself to reach the pole of happiness Instead of
moving towards the pole of unhappiness without having
any check on himself. One thing which one must
understand that one cant change his destination but one
can make his journey of life much easier and happy by
listening voice from the other side.
All living beings are pre

programmed and all behave alike, who
belongs to the same species like loin, elephant,
snake, fish, crow, etc, etc. all individual
species have definite character
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depending upon the way they are programmed. Human

being is different from all other living being. This
difference is very narrow.
One thing which makes the major

difference is the capacity to think and say
why. This ignites his desire to learn the
system of life cycle. All other living
being accept everything as it is without any
apprehension. But human beings need answers for every
happening around, they want to know why it is so? His
willingness to know everything happening around makes
him superior to all other living beings because of the
infinite intelligence he is getting from the other side.
This why will act like a seed? This Why

makes him hungry and curious for the happenings around.
His ego
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act as a water, mind act as a land for the seed, Character is

tree and finally the creativity is the Fruit. This is a chain
reaction. This creativity is a deciding factor for your
happiness or unhappiness. All are interlinked and
dependent on each other.
Look
around in this
system of
life cycle
countdown
different
living
beings
around you.
Dog, cat, snake,
rat, sparrows, crow, fish, hen, the list is very

long. What you find common in all the
living being that is character. Every living
being except human beings have particular
character and you can explain or categories there
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character. All dogs have particular character, cats have

different every animal is having specific character but there
is no particular character of human beings..
it is impossible to define character of human

beings in totality? Try it. Its not possible. You cant
categories human character in totality, all behave
differently, humans can change their character any time at
will This is why humans are different and superior to all
other living beings as other species cant change their
character dog can not behave like cat, a horse cant behave
like elephant. All are individual but cant survive as an
individual. This is the beauty of this system of life cycle.
Human being
is the only
living being
which have a
capacity to
change his basic programming although he is a pre-
programmed living being. Human being is equipped with
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the capacity to change his character according to the

external environment. He can change his character at will
or as per requirements. He can change his habits and
behavior at will. He can change himself from vegetarian to
non-vegetarian, cool to hot, introvert to extrovert, cruel to
kind etc. any time. there is an endless list of qualities. But
none other species can do this.
Every individual human being is differently

programmed by the system of life cycle. This basic
programming of individual will become law for an
individual and this is called character. So he behaves and
reacts accordingly. For every individual to be successful,
one must understand basic laws specially made for him by
the system of life cycle. We have to learn
these basic internal laws for individual
and totality with the help of intelligence
which we are getting from the other side
directly or indirectly. Understanding the
internal laws with the help of
intelligence must illuminate the
path of success. You can do this not by
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neglecting them but by learning how to live happily with

them.
To understand the internal law, take example of

simple physical law the law of gravity. Very first when
man conceived the idea of flying, the biggest hurdle in
front him was the gravity. Earth attracts everything towards
his centre known as gravity. He starts thinking about flying
without gravity. Same time on other hand he learned that
nothing is possible on this earth without gravity. He was
left with two choices. Either he dropped the idea of flying
or to find out how to overcome gravity without leaving and
neglecting it.
He learnt the law of thrust from the system of life

cycle which behaves opposite to gravity. This will helped
him to overcome all the difficulties due to gravity. Once he
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learnt this, since then his dream of flying come true. He is

flying not by leaving the law of gravity but he is flying
because he understand the law of gravity his behavior and
learned how to conquer this from the system of life cycle.
Everything is present in the system of life cycle and

only we have to discover it. In this system of life
cycle Every problem has its own
solution. If one is looking for solutions he

has to find out the problem, solution is already
there. Similarly if you are looking for answers find
out question. Ability to find out question
is comes from Why your ego will feed it.
This is the source of inspiration and energy for every
human being to accept the intelligence from the other side.
The human brain is a

biological created thinking machine
that has evolved for both personal
and self preservation and survival of
all the species. The ego which is a
motivational force for everyone to
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speak, think and struggle for the fulfillment of the

individual desire. Every individual is programmed for
specific purpose and he behaves and reacts accordingly. Its
a duty of every individual to find out the purpose of his
visit and desire accordingly. You unconscious ego will help
you to fulfill that actuality, your ego is all-time present and
working, just like our automatic metabolism which keeps
on working whether we are aware of its functionality or
not. We need not to tell our heart to beat 70 times a minute.
It will keep on beating regardless of our awareness. The
brain function that controls heart rate is automatic and does
not need our consciousness to make it work. Ego cant be
destroyed unless the physical body dies.
Our outer world is

exactly a replica of our internal
world. If we dont like the
happenings around dont
blame the outer world
for these happenings. This is not something which
is coming to inside from the outer world, but in
actuality it is something which comes from inside to
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the outer world. It is just the polarity of the thoughts which

needed to understand. Once it is done your journey towards
the pole of happiness starts and the world of happiness is
open for you. Just learn to tune your internal transmitter
and you will become the master of your life.
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Dapinder Singh Page 1

Become Master Of Your Life

We all have questions in our mind lets

Who Need GOD?

This Book Is Dedicated To My Father

What We Need Is!

Sr. name page

many happenings are

Lets understand more precisely about life

smooth and silent that nobody realizes whats happening.

Everything is connected and its continuous. Its hard to find

chain of actions and reactions. This continues happening of Actions &

WHAT WE NEED FROM LIFE

All the time he was thinking and discussing about the

He wants to know who had created this earth. We came from

Everybody was curious and everybody

Everybody is trying to explain that behind every happening

Every Religion has different theories and explanations for the

At that time there was no parameters to verify the facts given by

Now the people with higher intellectual level people will

If supreme himself is dictating them differently. This means

Everybody is claiming differently about the concept of GOD, it

Now there are many issues we need to know few are

6 is it necessary to know GOD and worship him?

We can divide these messengers generally in two categories as

These techniques had

Once we go through both the categories you realize both have

In this book my aim is not to discuss that there is GOD or no

GAME PEOPLE PLAY. PART I

This action and reaction are of

To understand the mystery of actions and reactions on human

This way impact of once mind is

passage of time after gaining experiences from generations developed

In my life I came across almost every kind of

Everybody is trying to overpower everybody. Two things that

The people we see

around us, perhaps daily,

Desire is no doubt most important

nothing can be achieved. Without desire the process of development

To understand this process

Now the desire of having camera is getting fire inside him, he

Now what happened with this man? He is so stucked up with

Now he learned that to capture

mentally. He got himself to busy in arranging the attachments so

To restart life what we have to do is reprogram our self with

Until and unless we

Repetition of definite orders to subconscious mind is the only

understand this just go through a simple example when we were too

Once you know that you

This is way we learn our every activities through continues flow

You are the master of your own life. Yes you

decide effect of magnetic fields on your life.

You cant live alone and selfishly in the

You cant detach yourself from the system of life

with the happenings around yourself, means you are not in

Before we go further we must find answer to the

simple question who I am? And answer is equally simple

information. What? Yes

.. And you are 30 years old with 70 kg weight.

If you had not written it yet, write it now.

Now erase it all .

What remains after erasing every word? Nothing

You are just an accumulation of direct or indirect

Now there is nothing to be proud upon, now there