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ADULTERY ALLEGATIONS
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NCANDWENI
DUMISANI & MBALI
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WE ARE
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Thandaza & Busani

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BREWING CATFIGHT
TROUBLE IN PARADISE CONFESSION OF A PASTOR
I SHOT MY WIFE THREE
Teko stands TIMES BUT I DIDNT KILL HER

by his
cheating ance
25 September 2013 Issue #386
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Lets shape our children

E VERY WEEK, I receive letters from youngsters who aspire
to be models, artists and entertainers. As much as our role
as members of the media is to empower, educate and

           
          
as actuarial science or forensics. But who can blame our children?
We live in a country where there are very few celebrities who place
value on education. You can count a handful of SA celebrities who
           
young celebs dont hide the fact that they dropped out of college
to pursue careers in acting and singing.
             
good you look and speak. Its even more worrying that our edu-
cation system has reduced the pass mark to 30 percent and has
recorded that primary school pupils are struggling with maths and
              
prefer the world of arts as they see it as a quick way to make mon-
ey. Popular fashionista, Dion Cheng, once said that there will come
a time when doctors and architects will be celebrities because they
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need to be worried about the future of our children.
          "  
the government or media, but with parents at home. As a parent,
youre the steward and custodian of your childs future. Perhaps,
the starting point is to buy your child an educational book instead
of a PlayStation.
Explain to them that theres more to life than being a celebrity;
that they must invest their time on something that will sustain
them for life. We have enough models, singers, DJs, dancers and
actors as it is. We need young people who will come with techno-
logical inventions and change the future of our country. So, parents
encourage your child to read, explore, invent and achieve. Its
never too late to reverse the trend.
We look forward to a future that will have celebrities who are
scientists, doctors, mining engineers, meteorologists, accountants,
speech therapists, among other profes-
 
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Can she live

WITHOUT
A MAN?
Its clear that Thandaza likes to
keep her relationships in the
family. Tshepiso Makhele
asks if she will change her
ways with Busani

I F HER
 
 
 
 
 


  
 
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Pity it cant defend itself. Miss Buthele-
zi, as we would rather call her, just to
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surnames she has acquired when mov-
ing from man to man, or rather relative
to relative, is notorious for her track
record with men. She also makes for a
remarkable businesswoman who works
the boardroom just as great as she
works the kitchen.
She is the full package; maybe thats
why men so often become smitten with
her and rush her to the altar.

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Her trail of relationships and marriages
 @  '   * 
Mukwevhos son, Edward.
Their union is still what makes Than-
daza the favourite daughter-in-law to
the Mukwevho family.
Though their relationship was rocky
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heart, Thandaza managed to snatch the
man and claim his last name.
She made her way up the corporate
ladder through the Mukwevho family
business. Sadly, their romance reached
an untimely end when Edward died.

8 Move! | 25 SEPTEMBER 2013

 COVER STORY

TRADITIONAL CUSTOMARY next time she visits.

MARRIAGE It could be soon; with Thandaza you
After Edwards death, Catherines never know. She might just be back
     
+"  Will Thandaza there sooner than we think. After all,
love, Thandaza was heartbroken. once more prove this is the same woman who cheated
Yet, the Mukwevhos still made their on her hubby with Pheko and slept
customary request clear: Thandaza that she is a 

 
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had to marry again in the family. man-magnet 6 
   


  
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the idea and wanted to just mourn
the passing of her husband until such
time that she felt she had healed, the
royal family persisted in their ex-
pectation that she should follow the
traditional command.
Thandaza then married Ndalamo;
Edwards cousin, Alberts son. They
later fell in love but their marriage un-
fortunately collapsed due to business
rivals who competed for Ndalamos
attention.
At this point, we empathised with
her as we thought that she was the
unwilling victim of circumstances
beyond her control. We also felt that
she was somehow unlucky in matters
of the heart and marriage.
We thought Miss Buthelezi would
take a breather and maybe go on
holiday to regroup or spend more
time with her son, Vusi. But no, she
soon found love again in the arms of
Pheko Mokoena.
THE ONE THAT GOT AWAY
After she fell for Pheko, the writing
was on the wall: Thandaza was keep-
ing it in the family.
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who can never be gone and Pheko has left again, she is
alone for long? alone once more.
Will this single status last a little
longer than it has in the past, or will
Thandaza once more prove that she
is a man-magnet who can never be
The relationship between Pheko alone for too long? Only time will tell.
and Thandaza was never on the
agenda for the Mukwevho family, in
fact, they were bitterly opposed to
it. They were against her bringing a
Mokoena into her life and into their
family business.
Things got too complicated for the
love-struck couple and they went
their separate ways, only for Miss
Buthelezi to hop to another man and,
perhaps not surprisingly, another
Mokoena, Ranthumeng.
THE SETTLEMENT
It soon became quite apparent that
Thandaza was just trying to heal a
broken heart, and that Pheko would
always be the one love of her life that
got away.
Maybe it was because, unlike
Edward and Ndalamo, she had
never made it to the altar with him.im.
 Into this scenario stepped Ranthu- u-
Edwards cousin from his mothers
side. But with him, Miss Buthelezi fell
head-over-heels in love.
She loved this man with the type of
passion we had gotten a glimpse of
when she was with Edward.
Pheko was powerful but gentle
at the same time, and he knew just
what to say to make Thandaza weak
at the knees.
But even with Pheko, Thandaza had
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The two met in a bookshop and in
a short space of time wedding bells ells
were ringing loud and clear.
Not again, we all collectively
sighed, but yes, she was moving
from being called Mrs Mukwevho o
to being Mrs Mokoena.

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to maintain her position in Phekos
life. The ever-scheming Meme was
not ready to stand aside and let Than-
dazas walk to the altar with Pheko be
an easyy one.
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ing up with her back-and-forth
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COVER STORY

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what was the story behind him.
She could be try- 1      
curious the ladies were about him, he
ing to find pieces of kept it as professional as possible and
Edward in his rela-       *$ 
family business, only to drop a bomb
tives. Mrs Mokoena on the ladies when he introduced his
might still move wife, Joyce.
on to the next hot, 67+6&79:)/1
influential man Joyce was not on the scene for long,
but Thandaza ensured that she be-
came close with this humble woman,
who sadly died of cancer.
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Although Thandaza is making us    2  
dizzy with her man-hopping, maybe died, she asked Thandaza to take care
if we could try to at least see things   _     2-
through her eyes, we would notice  `  2   +
that perhaps, successful and wealthy    
     
                     
was left when Edward died. We can only hope against hope that
Why else would she keep it so much          
in the family? She could be trying to Busani, it lasts.
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search for a while. Now that Joyce is gone and Busani
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When Busani came on to the scene,      '!4 _
nobody knew whether he was taken we can only wonder and wait to see if
or not, but it was clear that most of the two will keep things strictly pro-
the ladies found him easy on the eye. fessional, and if Thandaza will ignore
He is strong and manly, and knows `"      
his business. He turned heads at the the altar this time.

10 Move! | 225 SEPTEMBER 2013