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Author(s): Nancy Berns
Source: Gender and Society, Vol. 15, No. 2 (Apr., 2001), pp. 262-281
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DEGENDERING THE PROBLEM
AND GENDERING THE BLAME
Political Discourse on
Womenand Violence
NANCYBERNS
Drake University
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violence and gendering the blame-and discuss their implications for the fight
againstdomestic violence.
The discourseanalyzedin this articleis an exampleof whatFaludi(1991, xviii)
describesas a "backlash"to the feministmovement:"apowerfulcounter-assaulton
women's rights,a backlash,an attemptto retractthe handfulof small andhard-won
victories that the feminist movement did manage to win for women."Numerous
social issues have been framedwithin a backlashdiscourse,includingthe "libera-
tion" of violent women offenders,women's fear of success, infertility,the break-
down of the family, delinquentyouth, and tension and conflict between spouses
(Chesney-Lind 1999; Faludi 1991; Mednick 1989; Staggenborg 1998; Wood
1999). Accordingto the backlashdiscourse,these problemsareactuallya resultof
the women's movement.
Attackson the battered-womenmovement'sconstructionof domestic violence
arenot new.The movementinitiallyconstructedthe problemas a resultof a cultural
and structuralsystem of genderdiscrimination-a patriarchalsystem thatincludes
other forms of violence and discriminationagainst women (Gordon 1988; Pleck
1987). Political oppositionto the battered-womenmovementintensifiedin the late
1970s because of its attemptsto demystify the patriarchalunderpinningsof vio-
lence againstwomen. Local communitiesand governmentagencies were not com-
fortablewith the political argumentthatwife beating was a result of a patriarchal
society (Dobash and Dobash 1992; Gordon1988; Pleck 1987). To secure funding
for sheltersandotherservicesfor victims,manysheltersandbattered-womenactiv-
ists de-emphasized their feminist politics. Clinical language, psychotherapeutic
intervention,and professional social workersthat focused almost exclusively on
victims' personalneeds took overmanyof the shelters.Attentionwas divertedfrom
the abusersandfromculturalandstructuralfactorsthatfostereddomesticviolence.
The dominantfocus on victims, not abusers,was quite differentfrom the earlier
child abuse movement, as illustratedby congressionalhearings. "In the hearings
aboutchild abuse, witnesses triedto explain why parentsabusedtheirchildren;in
the hearingsaboutwife abuse,expertsgavereasonswhy batteredwomen were will-
ing to be beaten"(Pleck 1987, 195). Motivationsandcharacteristicsof wife abusers
were not discussed.
Analyzingpopularrepresentationsof social problemsis importantbecauseindi-
viduals draw on these sources when constructingtheir understandingsof issues
such as violence against women. The media are perhapsthe most dominantand
most frequently used resources for understandingsocial issues (Gamson 1992;
Kellner1995). The mediaculture"helpsshapeeverydaylife, influencinghow peo-
ple thinkandbehave,how they see themselvesandotherpeople, andhow they con-
structtheir identities"(Kellner 1995, 2). Newspapercolumns, magazine articles,
films, made-for-TVmovies, television specialreports,andtalkshows areall public
arenas where images of domestic violence are constructed,debated, and repro-
duced.Fromthese resources,individualsconstructtheirown conceptionsof whatis
normal and acceptable. These conceptions, what Cicourel (1968) calls "back-
groundexpectancies,"govern all social interaction.The backgroundexpectancies
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magazines (with numberof articles) are National Review (9), The New Republic
(5), andReason (2). The men's magazinesare Gentlemen'sQuarterly(1), Esquire
(2), Men's Journal (1), New Man (2), Penthouse(10), and Playboy (4). I do not
addressherearticlespublishedin TheNation andTheProgressive,two progressive
political magazines thattypically use a feminist frameworkin their articles about
domestic violence.
For this study,domestic violence is definedas physical, sexual, and/orpsycho-
logical abusethatoccurs betweentwo adultsin an intimaterelationshipregardless
of maritalstatusor sexual orientation.1Althoughchildrenare certainlyvictims of
domestic violence, I did notincludearticlesthatfocusedexclusively on child abuse.
The time frameof 1970-99 covers articlesintroducedafterthe rise of the battered-
women movement.Until the late 1970s, the mediaused the termdomesticviolence
to refer to riots and terrorism(Tierney 1982). Even after the early 1970s, articles
were listed undertopics such as quarrelingand conjugal violence so I conducted
broadsearcheson two periodicalindexes,the Reader'sGuideto PeriodicalsIndex
and Access. Additionalarticles were found in some magazines not listed in these
indexesthroughissue-by-issueexaminationsof these magazinesand/orcorrespon-
dence with the magazine'seditors.
In this article, I describe a patriarchal-resistance
perspective.Of the articles in
this study, 81 percentuse this perspectivein theirportrayalof domestic violence.
The overwhelmingmajorityof the men's andpoliticalarticleson domesticviolence
appearedin the 1990s. Only one article was publishedin the 1970s, which was a
story in Esquire on domestic violence duringthe Christmasseason. Five articles
were publishedin the mid-1980s:one in Playboy,one in NationalReview,andthree
in Penthouse.The remainingarticles, 82 percent,were published in the 1990s. I
argue that most men's and political magazines were not interestedin publishing
articles on domestic violence duringthe 1970s and early 1980s when the public's
discovery of the problemwas still relativelynew. However,when battered-women
advocatesbeganmakingsignificantprogressin gainingmediaattentionandchang-
ing legislation to help victims of abuse, the men's and political magazines
responded.Therefore,most of the articlesappearin the 1990s. Also, in particular,
the 0. J. Simpson and Nicole Brown Simpson, and the Lorena and John Bobbitt
cases duringthe mid-1990s inspiredmany of the articlesin these magazines.
StrausandGellesaretwoof themanyresearcherswhohavefounddomesticviolence
distributed
equallybetweenthe sexes.In abouthalfthe casesof mutualbattering,
womenweretheinstigators-theoneswhoslapped,sluggedorswungweaponsfirst.
(Dunn1994,16)
The same strategy and sources illustratedin Dunn's New Republic article are
repeated in Playboy, Penthouse, and National Review. In Playboy's "Women are
Responsible, Too,"JudithShervenandJames Sniechowski(1994, 45) cite several
studiesthatshow women andmen areequallyviolent. They begin the list of studies
with the wordfacts:
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Two years later in 1996, Sidney Siller repeats this list of facts, with a few minor
changes, in his Penthouse column. Other authors use Gelles's and Straus's research on
domestic violence along with other studies to arguethatwomen are as violent as men.
Arguing that men and women are equally violent is the most significant and fre-
quent strategy used for degendering the problem. Therefore, it is important to point
out how their use of sociological research is distorted. This perspective ignores crit-
icisms of Gelles's and Straus's research, Gelles's (1997) and Straus's (1993) own
warnings about the misinterpretations and misuses of their research, and other
research that contradicts the sexual-symmetry perspective.
Critics of Gelles's and Straus's research attack the argument that men and
women are equally harmed by physical violence in marriages. They argue that
Gelles and Straus failed to look at the amount of women's violence that was in
self-defense and at the extent of injuries for men and women (Saunders 1988). Per-
haps in response to these criticisms, Straus and Gelles have acknowledged that the
results from their study can be misleading because the Conflict Tactics Scales used
to gather the data did not measure the purpose of the violence or the injuries result-
ing from assaults (Gelles 1997; Straus 1993). Gelles (1997, 93) criticizes those who
take the data on battered men out of context:
card and abusing the justice system. Dunn (1994) employed most of the patriar-
chal-resistancestrategiesin her New Republicarticletitled "TruthAbuse."In the
same year, CathyYoungwrote a strikinglysimilararticlefor the National Review
titled "AbusedStatistics."Youngalso publisheda majorarticlein 1998 for Reason
that attacks the battered-womenmovement. In 1995, the National Review used
WendyMcElroy to write about"TheUnfairSex."McElroy(1995, 74) attacksthe
women's movementfor "pushingimages of women as victims and men as beasts"
and "usingthe issues of domestic violence andrapeto create a new jurisprudence
thatassesses guilt andimposes punishmentbasedon gender."McElroyarguesthat
the battered-womenmovementabuses the justice system and unfairlyprosecutes
men. Using women's voices is criticalfor legitimatingthis perspective.By having
bothmen andwomen advocatingthis frame,the issue of genderis furtherremoved
from the discourse.
In the fight against domestic violence, men are almost always presumedguilty. The
image of the batteredwomanis a firmone in the Americanmind.The printandelec-
tronic media portraymen as brutalperpetratorsof domestic violence, while at the
same time depicting women as sympathetic,innocent victims. (Siller 1996, 22)
In his March 1996 column, Asa Baber uses the 0. J. and Nicole Simpson case as an
example of this innocence versus evil campaign:
The cant from the feminist community has been: Men alone are vile abusers;the
women they bully are blameless prisoners.ThroughoutO.J. and Nicole's marriage
(and aftertheirdivorce),he was nothingbut a cad andbrute,while she was an angel.
Complex human interactions?There were none. It is time for us to challenge this
superficialanalysis. (Playboy, Baber 1996, 33)
Articles using this theme challenge women's innocence by employing the first two
gendering strategies: highlighting women who are abusers (and arguing that they
are at least as violent as men) and holding female victims responsible for their role
in their own victimization.
Although the argument that women are as violent as men relies heavily on socio-
logical statistics and research as described above, some articles include examples to
illustrate female violence against men. Brott points out that not all men are physi-
cally stronger than women as the stereotype would have it. He uses the following
example to illustrate the physical abuse women can exert:
But not all men are bigger than their wives. On one occasion, Stanley,whose wife
weighed more than200 pounds,locked himself in his car to keep her from attacking
him. She managedto get in anyway.Once inside she shoved him face down into the
passengerseat andjumped on him, puttingher knees in his back. He reachedfor the
cellular phone to call for help, but she wrestledit away from him andhit him several
times on the side of the head with it. (Penthouse,Brott 1993, 32)
In her New Republic article, Dunn gives examples of female violence that failed to
trigger a national discussion of how dangerous female abusers can be. Here is one
of those examples:
Asa Baber, the writer of Playboy's "Men" column, often discusses his own victim-
ization as an example of female violence:
I lived with a woman who physically abusedme. It didn't startout thatway. Like all
romances,it beganoptimistically,butsomethingsoured,andherresponseto whatshe
soon considered my unacceptable presence was to go on the attack. She raged,
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Quite often, the abuse victims and the men they kill seem to have been involved in
consensual relationships,from which the women derivedbasic emotional gratifica-
tion.The womenrefusedto leave the relationshipswhengiven a realopportunityto do
so because they welcomed the intensity of their spouses' feelings. (Reason, Peele
1991, 40)
Baber applies this idea to the 0. J. and Nicole Simpson case by using attorney
Melanie Lomax's quote: "Nicole was involved in this dance with O. J. Simpson.
She has to bearher shareof the responsibility."He warnshis readersthatsome peo-
ple will be offended by that statementand "will dismiss it as a classic example of
blaming the victim. But her words are accurate"(Baber 1996, 33).
Baber himself was the victim in a violent relationshipand reportsthat until he
acceptedthe fact thathe was partiallyresponsiblefor the violence, he couldn't get
out.
GenderingSocialResponsibility
Some of the blame-genderingarticlesincludemanyof the same culturalthemes
used by the battered-womenmovementitself: sexism, culturalacceptanceof vio-
lence, public awareness, and education. However, the perspective toward these
themes is dramaticallydifferent.Sexism relates not to feminist concerns such as
objectificationof women butto "malebashing."Concernaboutculturalacceptance
of violence is limitedto acceptanceof female violence againstmen. This is the third
strategyfor genderingblame for domestic violence: critiquingthe social tolerance
for women's violence but not for men's violence.
Many articles discuss why society does not hold women responsible for their
violence. One theoryput forthsays thatthereare two sets of rules concerningvio-
lence. Brott supportsthis idea:
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When it comes to domestic violence, society seems to have one set of rules for men
and another for women. Perhaps it's because we have been socialized to view
women's violence as somehow less "real"(and consequentlymore acceptable)than
men's violence. (Penthouse,Brott 1993, 34)
Brott argues that our society teaches girls that it is OK to be physically violent and
that people applaud women striking back.
On the other hand, men are told to "never hit a girl" and if they are hit to "take it
like a man." Brott argues that this type of socialization leads male victims of abuse
to not protect themselves. Because of how men are socialized, they are reluctant to
report being victims of abuse. "Men are trained not to ask for help, and a man's not
being able to solve his own problems is seen as a sign of weakness" (Brott 1993,
32). Brott gives an example of how male victims are treated when they do come
forward:
Most of the articles suggest that to stop domestic violence, society must acknowl-
edge and hold female abusers accountable. In the following quote, women are sin-
gled out as needing to be held responsible:
This perspective is right in that female violence should be taken seriously. How-
ever, it should not be used only as a strategy to obscure male violence. These men's
and political magazines continue to ignore the male abuser and the cultural and
structural context that tolerates male violence. They point out the cultural context
that tolerates female violence without providing a similar analysis for the tolerance
of male violence.
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BlamingBattered-Women
Advocates
The fourthmain strategyfor genderingthe blame is blaming battered-women
advocates. These advocates are accused of spreadingmyths and false statistics,
abusingthejustice systemanddiscriminatingagainstmen,promotinga male-bashing
campaignandfailing to acceptequalresponsibilityfor stoppingwomen'sviolence.
In a Penthousearticle,Siller (1986, 26) arguesthatsocial institutions-inspired
by feminists-are unfairlyaccusingmen of being the sole perpetratorsof domestic
violence and ignoringthe men who are victims: "Pigeonholingmen as aggressive,
animalistic,andbrutish,these feminist-inspiredcabalsbroadlyandunjustlyaccuse
men of being the sole perpetratorsof domestic violence."Ten years later,Wendy
McElroy (1995, 74) broadensSiller's argumentby accusing "radicalfeminists"of
using domestic violence andrapeto createa "newjurisprudencethatassesses guilt
and imposes punishmentbased on gender."McElroy claims thatmen's rights are
being violated in this fight againstrape and domestic violence:
of treatingmenas a separateand
Thissortof injusticeis theinevitableconsequence
antagonisticclass,ratherthanasindividualswhosharethesamehumanity aswomen.
Menarenot monsters.Theyareourfathers,brothers,sons,husbands,andlovers.
Theyshouldnot be madeto standbeforea legalsystemthatpresumestheirguilt.
(National Review,McElroy 1995, 88)
One point often discussed in these magazines is that radical women's groups
actively oppose the spreadingof anyinformationregardingfemale violence against
men. McElroy (1995, 74) says that "in the currentclimate of hysteria,those who
questionthe conventionalwisdom aredenouncedas enemies of women."Feminists
are accused of threateningresearchersandotherswho speakon behalf of male vic-
tims. The most common example emergingin these magazinesinvolves Suzanne
Steinmetz, who has researchedbatteredhusbands.
These magazines arguethatnot only are the radicalwomen's groupsopposing
any information regarding female violence against men but are also actively
encouraging a campaign of male-bashing. "Andin general the battered-women
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just say that 5 out of 4 women are batteredby men, and be done with it?"(Young
1994, 46).
DISCUSSION
TakingWomen'sViolence(andMaleVictims)Seriously
Many of the articles using the patriarchal-resistanceperspective make valid
points. Women'sviolence should be takenseriously,andmale victims of domestic
violence deserve supportand protection.But these concernsare mostly a camou-
flage for what is primarilya political countermovementto the feminist construc-
tions of domestic violence. If magazine publishersand editors were interestedin
reportingon the seriousness of women's violence and the need to help male vic-
tims, the contentand framingof the problemwould be very differentfrom the arti-
cles describedabove. A 1998 articlein New Man gives insight into what this per-
spective may look like if abusedmen were the centerof the concernas opposed to
the political opposition to the battered-womenmovement.
AfterNew Man publishedits cover storyon abusivehusbands(Abraham1998),
the editorsclaimed to have been "inundatedwithlettersfromanonymoushusbands
begging the magazine to tell the other side of the story"(Thomas 1999). In their
March/April1999 issue, New Manpublished"TheHusbandAbusers."This article
claimed that 15 percentof domestic violence victims are men. One of the biggest
differences between the New Man article and articles using the patriarchal-
resistanceperspectiveis thatit focuses on the question:"Whatcan a man do when
his wife is abusive?"As opposed to just blamingwomen for the bulk of domestic
violence, this article tries to help male victims. Although male victims are given
advice at an individual level, culturalsolutions are also addressed,including the
need for churchesto take a more proactiveposition on the problemof all spousal
abuse.
It is significantto point out thatthe types of abuse the articleclaims husbands
face aremainlyhumiliation,verbalandemotionalabuse,and "deliberatewithhold-
ing of sex."Althoughphysical violence was discussed,most of the examples were
of verbalabuse.The articlepoints out that"abuseagainstwomen tends to be more
severe thanthat againstmen" (Thomas 1999, 57). And the authorclaims thatmen
representonly 15 percentof all domesticviolence victims.The articlealso differen-
tiates between types of women's violence:
serious investigationof husbandabuse found that verbal abuse was the biggest
problemfor male victims. This is a far cry from the equality of physical violence
thatthe majorityof men's andpolitical magazines argue.Perhaps,if otherauthors
relied less on questionable statistics from one source and more on doing a thor-
ough investigationof women's violence, a more complete picturewould emerge.
But again,I do not thinkthatis the goal of these articles.Providingpoliticalopposi-
tion to the battered-womenmovementappearsto be the drivingforce.
keep oureyes clearlyon the powerandthe violence, we can see thatthese tacticsare
transparentfor what they are, attemptsto preventplacing responsibilityon those
who commit and benefit from acts of violence" (Kivel 1992, 104).
Certainlywomen's violence needs to be takenseriously,butin a way thatmoves
researchandpublic debateon violence forward,not backward.Renzetti(1999, 45)
pointsout that"despiteall we do notknowaboutintimateviolence, we do knowthat
it is gendered."The fact thatwomen aresometimesviolentgives us no reasonto dis-
miss the importanceof genderin understandingthe problem.The public debateon
women's violence is intensifying.Currently,perspectivesreflectingthe patriarchal
resistancedescribedin this study are leading this debate (see also Renzetti 1999;
Schwartzand DeKeseredy 1993). How a problemis framedaffects public opinion.
The dominant frame currentlyportraysmen's and women's violence as equal.
Moreresearchon women's violence is neededto help answerquestionsandprovide
a rich context for understandingthe violence. This additionalresearchis neededto
counterthe distortedimages of women's violence that are portrayedin the men's
and political magazines.
CONCLUSION
NOTE
1. How to label the problemcontinues to be debated (e.g., Jones 1994; Meyers 1997). The term
domestic violence is criticized for not identifyingthe roles of victim and offender.Similarterms criti-
cized for this obfuscationinclude domestic dispute,family violence, conjugal violence, spouse abuse,
partner abuse, and maritalaggression. Othercommonly used terms, such as batteredwomen, abused
women, wife abuse, and wife beating, identify the victim but obscurethe offender.Termssuch as wife
abuse andspouse abuse arecriticizedfor ignoringabuseoutsideof marriage.Manyfeminists and advo-
cates use the termbatteredwomen,butit impliesthata woman'smainidentityis thatof a helpless victim.
I use the term domestic violence in this study to more accuratelyreflect the language used in the dis-
course I analyzed.
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