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BRAIN STRUCTURE
Anytime anyone is about to have a baby the first question is "Is it a boy or a girl?.
People ask this question because there is a difference between the two genders. Everyone
knows there is a difference but no one ever stops to see how many there truly are. We
usually become angry or frustrated with the opposite sex because we have forgotten this
important truth. We expect the opposite sex to be more like ourselves. We desire them to
"want what we want" and "feel the way we feel. We have forgotten that men and women
are supposed to be different. As a result, our relationships are filled with unnecessary
friction and conflict. When you remember that men are from Mars and women are from
For a long time there has been considerable scientific interest in studying differences
between men and women especially because their brains are different. Typically, mens
brains are 11-12% bigger than womens brains. This size difference has absolutely
nothing to do with intelligence, but because men need more neurons to control their
greater muscle mass and larger body size, thus they have a larger brain. Men tend to
process better in the left hemisphere of the brain while women can process equally well
between the two hemispheres. This finding supports the observation that men rely easily
and on their left brain to solve one problem at one time. On the other hand, women can
When the Martians and Venusians got together, they encountered many problems
especially in communicating with each other. Their expressions were similar, but they had
different emotional emphasis. You can see how a "literal" translation of a woman's words
could easily mislead a man who only used facts and information to convey message. One
of the biggest challenge for man is to correctly interpret a woman when she is talking
about her feelings while woman find it hard to interpret a man when he isn't talking.
Silence is most easily misinterpreted by woman and she may begin to imagine the very
worst -"He hates me, he doesn't love me, he is leaving me." No wonder woman becomes
insecure when a man suddenly becomes quiet! As you can see, more than half the women
said lack of communication contributed to the broken marriage, while 48.9 per cent of
men said so. This shows that communication is one of the important key to a success
marriage life.
Martians and Venusians have different ways of coping with stress. When a Martian
gets upset, he never talks about what is bothering him. He would never burden another
Martian unless their assistance was necessary to solve the problems. Instead, he becomes
very quiet and goes to his private cave to think about his problems. If he can't find a
solution, then he does something to forget his problems, like playing games or sports.
When a Venusian becomes stressed, she will seeks out someone she trusts and then talks
about her problems to find relief. When Venusians share feelings, they suddenly feel
better.
As a conclusion, these differences found in men and women help me understand why
relationships are complicated, and why is it important to learn and accept these
differences. We should understand that we perceive things different and there are things
understanding each other and be mature in the relationship as to make changes for the
benefit of both.
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