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Jake Antezana
David Burns
Salisbury University
Spring 2017
Internship Insights
There was once a young man, he was the son of a king, but not just a
king, he was son of the king that ruled over land that was farther than the
eye could see, but also was more powerful than any other kingdom around at
this time. The son had always dreamed of becoming king, but he enjoyed
learning from his father, and although he felt as if he was ready to take on
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the role of king, he still sat back and watched instead of being active and
getting involved with his father. There came a time of great war and
adversity in the land, and when his father had gone to war to lead his people
he had encountered an enemy he couldnt escape. His father was hit with a
spear that was thrusted his way, and although it did not take his life, he
could not do his kingly duties, therefore the next in line would have to step in
and take care of the kingly duties. Although this would be a short amount of
time that this young man would take over as king he would still have much
growing up, and of course the story had much more detail and many more
side stories, but I completely related this story to the internship I was
roles in life they are leadership roles, now whether that is being the head of
the food chain or being the leader of the group, people who know how to
communicate often play a pivotal role in organizations across the globe. This
YoungLife. Overall, YoungLife this semester taught me that leaders are often
the servants, leadership is supported by people who buy into your system,
and most importantly leaders lead by doing and not saying. Throughout the
course of this paper I will discuss: what I learned about communicating with
a network of people to attain a common goal, the things that I didnt expect
about this certain internship and what it means for my future in ministry,
how I feel about my future career choices, where I fell short during this
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semester, the specific area that I enjoyed the most and took the most pride
in, and finally I learned what this internship really means for my life, and I am
communication has on pretty much every field or profession out in the world
centered around kids in Middle and High Schools, and then in those schools
we also have programs for the special education students, this organization
is really focused on mentoring kids and being there for them when no one
else is, and especially when no one cares to be. One thing I oversaw over the
course of the semester was a couple of teams of college students who were
in place at high schools and middle schools in Salisbury. I had been involved
in youth groups when I was back home and we always had great spiritual
leaders and then in college I was involved in FCA and Bible Studies, but had
never taken on the role of being a head of one of these organizations. This
semester taught me that it looks 100% easier than it actually is, when going
about my life and college I was always like all they have to do is meet and
discuss stuff, it cant be that hard and what I found out was that it is so
much more than that and that these people should be paid an enormous
amount of money.
This semester I had dealt with an enormous amount of stress and
honestly just dealt with life, and it felt as though when everything could go
wrong it did, but also felt that when everything could go right it did that as
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was able to lead my peers and my congregation which was actually middle
for what these leaders do, and also gave me an incredible understanding of
as a pastor.
I had to manage two separate teams of college kids, and this in itself is
a tough challenge because each of these students has a life of their own and
list could go on. I had to learn a great deal of patience with people, as when I
tried to set up meeting times, people could not make them all the time, if we
had specific events planned certain people would text me an excuse to why
they didnt come. At one point in the semester one of my peers that I was
leading actually decided to quit, and the way he told me was through lunch
and it took me by surprise because this was in the middle of the semester
when I needed his help the most. He ended up coming back and helping
about two weeks later, but I had to outline and discuss new parameters for
set more strict standards and guidelines which we would end up following
the rest of the semester. I learned that being a leader and communicating
with a group is much different than being part of a team and communicating
that way, it requires more preparation and much more behind the scenes
work. Overall there were many things that I didnt know about leadership in
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were good and some were bad. I would say one of the things that was a
great surprise, and maybe should not be a total surprise was that my
was great because I did not expect him to hold my hand throughout this
whole process and he actually did not, but he was very respectful of my
he would point me in a direction and I would go. I really embraced the whole
aspect of this is my ministry and I ran with it, and honestly there were
times when I struggled but also times where I thrived, but Dave was there
Bennett Middle and also with the Mayor Jake Day, I really appreciated him for
those moments, because those were things that I did not have access to. He
was there when I needed advice and he always gave me great examples of
situations and apply my own skill set to them and make them my own. I was
challenged every day to use what I know and who I am to deal with
situations. Dave never bailed me out of a situation, but he was always there
if I needed a word of advice or most of the time it was prayer that I needed.
The thing that surprised me the most was actually what I learned
this type of work, which is ministry, you NEED a community of people who
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are going to be there to support you and have your back no matter what the
case may be. Whether you succeed and get all the recognition, whether you
fail and get all the blame, whether you succeed and get no praise, and
maybe most importantly when you fail and get no blame, they keep you
and leader that can guide you and that understands you, and Dave taught
me that this semester. I know that for me to be successful in the near future I
semester that the day you stop learning is the day that you die and I
this internship I was given glimpses of what my future looks like in regards to
leading others and learning how to be a servant, and I wouldnt trade this
a pastor would look like and it entails many things I did not know about, but
many trials and tribulations, but I also experienced many extreme joys and
upsides of ministry. I did learn that through this experience that I feel more
my own church. I would say one of the things that really confirmed my
learned that when people say do as I say and not as I do are people that
are actually not fit to be leaders. I learned that leadership is selfless and is
someone who says I am less and you are more. The reason I loved learning
this is because it actually backs up what I will be talking about and be doing
for the rest of my life, and that is the life of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
In Jesus life he lived in a way where He was always serving His disciples and
He was looking for opportunities to show them that its not what people do
for you, but what you do for them that dictates your life. Because after all if
and sad world. Sometimes in this internship I did not meet the expectations I
set for myself, and that branches off of the living a selfish life.
This is the point where I kind of struggled in the internship, and it came
right after I had some tough luck with my car at school. I had gotten into a
really weird car accident as my car was still drivable, but then found out that
the insurance company would total it. The reason this was so difficult for me
to accept and deal with was because only eleven months before my other
car got into an accident and it got totaled, and I just felt as though I was
never going to get a break. I still did the required things of me from Dave,
but I did not do the above and beyond that I expected from myself. I started
to focus on myself and what I needed to do for me. Although this is what
some people say they need to do, it does not work for a ministry group that
focuses solely on other people and their needs. And although this was for
about two weeks it still impacted the relationships I had with my teams and
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the kids I was leading. But the great thing about it is that it was only a phase,
and I was pulled out of that and was able to get ready just in time for some
to do some things that I was not familiar with, some of which included:
couple of YoungLife teams in the Salisbury area, and meeting with Mayor
Jake Day about the status of our youth in the Salisbury Community. In each
and every area of this semester I was always working on something and
towards something, and I am not able to differentiate or pick one that stood
out to me, but I am glad that I was able to complete all of my projects and
complete them to fruition. One of the highlights was that I made a t-shirt,
which can be seen on my website, and it was worn at our banquet for the
Eastern Shore fundraiser. This same shirt will be worn throughout the
summer at all of our camp fundraising events and even when we go to the
summer camps, it will be used to identify our area when we have family
dinners and area recognition nights at camp. This was definitely something I
was very proud of and am very happy with how the design came out. One
thing that I really enjoyed doing was overseeing the money transactions at
Shorebirds baseball games where each kid that comes earns money towards
their camp trip. But I was in charge of carrying and collecting money from all
over the stadium and bringing it to the stadiums treasurer for them to
collect and to see how much money we raised and how much money our kids
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would collect. And maybe the most important thing I did all semester was
lead a WyldLife club in Bennett Middle School, which was a huge step for
YoungLife in the Salisbury area and made history as we were able to have
club in the school which was the first time in Middle School history in
Salisbury. One of my favorite things that Dave and I did together was meet
with the Mayor, and discuss the problems of neighborhoods and problem
areas in Salisbury. It was really great seeing the direction he would like the
city to go in, and hearing some of his plans were inspiring and made me feel
as though I made the right choice with the field I was choosing to go into
after college. Maybe the most important thing I learned this semester in my
internship was that not everything is at it seems, and that most of the time
projects and many other times while being in school everything that we have
been involved in has been dictated or scripted and has an end goal for us to
accomplish. Thats the reason that this internship was crucial to success and
to really giving me an insight into what I said I wanted to do for the rest of
my life, it gave me an actual taste of what the real world looks like and how
sometimes, when the cards do not go your way, realizing that there will be
another hand and next time that hand no matter what the cards, will be
time. It showed me that in life we do not have a semester, and that all the
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showed me that building blocks are crucial and are literally foundational for
the house that will be built on it one day. I learned that not one person can
11 quarterbacks on the field we are going to lose the game, and the same
your life and in your future, and that it is up to me where I look to for advice
and where I look to for support. This internship did not just each me
something that a course has over the last four years of college at Salisbury
just solely focused on the fact that this course (outside of the classroom) has
even go to thank anyone. I do want to thank Dave Etling, as well as Dr. Burns
for this incredible trip and journey this semester of the Spring of 2017.
In life I have found out that it is more about other people, and that if I
live for myself my whole objective and goal in life really becomes null. In this
crucial to life. Which leads me to how I was surprised this semester and that
was how my Supervisor and mentor for this semester really showed me how
to lead and it was not through walking me through everything, but rather
telling me his life and seeing how I could apply it to my situation, I realized
how much I really needed someone to teach me consistently about life. And
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realized that what I wanted to do was not going to be a walk alone, but that I
will have a community around me constantly and will always have the
support of those people and my family. I found out that when life hits you it
sometimes knocks you down, and can even knock you out for a little, but
that doesnt mean that we stop and give up, I learned that perseverance is
necessary in progress. The things I was the most proud of would take too
long to re-list, but I had some projects I had to accomplish and I did them,
with my favorite project being the t-shirt. And finally I learned that this
graduate, I found that this was the single most thing that could prepare me
for life. And I am forever grateful for that. Finally I do know one thing about