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Businessmen Dont CryOr Do They?
What is clear is that today we are over- Our emotional pain threshold has some-
whelmed with so much more information, how been reduced, so it only requires
noise, than ever before. relatively small events to tip the balance.
One day, for example, I was sitting Whereas years ago, with a higher thresh-
in a high-street coffee shop with all the old (with more experiences to measure
associated background chatter, writing
against), it took much more to reach that
this article, while at the same time watch- tipping point and for emotions to bubble
ing a rugby match on my phone and lis- over.
tening on my headphones. I also had my
tablet on the table within easy reach to All Work and No Play...
look stuff up. At the same time, our work environment
Perhaps we have become shallow has changed rapidly. Remember a time
thinkers and shallow feelers. With so much when a job in banking, or the public sector,
information, our emotions are now much was considered as a job for life!
closer to the surface and therefore more Even if it sometimes meant the only way
likely to spill over? for promotion to senior levels was termed
We are also bombarded daily with static as dead mans shoes.
and moving images in the media such as The latter changed as anti-ageist legisla-
we have never experienced before. And tion spread through organizations. At the
never in such graphic full-color detail. same time, we started to live longer and
In my childhood years, not too long a fter retire later.
WWII, images of atrocities were gener- Now, we have more changes in our lives
ally seen well after the event, in black and than at any time in our recent past. We
white, and so grainy as to be indistinct. live longer, retire later, have more jobs,
Men were men and boys were boys in more marriages, more opportunity to expe
those days! rience stuff wed never have dreamed of
It was the time of the stiff upper lip. I previously.
guess because both men and women had Does this then mean we are function-
experienced stuff through one or two world ing at a more fragile level? Unfortunately,
wars that, hopefully, will never be seen I think we are.
again. We are constantly tip-toeing through a
Vietnam was the next major conflagra- veritable minefield of events, each having
tion and the first to be covered by the me- the power to send us off into a tailspin if we
dia almost live and in technicolor. are in the slightest caught off balance.
It has never been more important to
Has the Tipping Point Moved? maintain a healthy worklife balance than
As we are now viewing extreme events today. With such pressures on us from all
through technology and a third persons directions, we need that release valvethe
eyes, has that removed us, distanced us, escape mechanism. We need to be able to
from the issue itself? let off steam.
We have not experienced these signifi- Perhaps this is where our emotions may
cant events at first hand, so has that pro- get the better of us. If our threshold is
portionately moved our emotional tipping lower, our capacity to cope with things is
point? less than it used to be. Perhaps we are more
When we now experience something im- easily caught out when our emotions sud-
mediate and personal are we therefore less denly bubble over.
able to deal with it? We generally do not That moment when the tears start to well
have other extreme events in our lives to in your eyes, the top lip starts to quiver, the
measure against. hairs on the back of your neck start to rise.
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