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December 3, 2016
Interpersonal Communication
Gina Johnson
Interpersonal Communication Competence Essay
is not a born given talent, but is a skill that must be frequently reevaluated,
message is being sent and received as it was intended. I have learned that effective
but also after reading the text and participating in our in class activities. Henceforth,
I know that my new found knowledge of the concepts and ideas of how to
self-concept and the way I listen and respond. These concepts are impactful
about the things I am willing to tolerate and compromise about. Now, I am aware
addition, I learned which life roles I valued as important and how those roles help to
contribute to the woman I am becoming, while also identifying the bad habits that
evaluation activity has revealed that self-doubting was my biggest downfall. I saw
changing the negative self-image I saw of myself into the positive, optimistic person
I wanted to be.
When learning about the concept of listening and responding, I took away
two important ideas from this lesson; the difference between listening and hearing
and actively listening takes practice. First, I learned that there is a difference
between listening and hearing. To listen you must be actively engaged in mindful
meaningful messages that are not vague, whereas in hearing, you tend to engage in
mindless listening because there is no interest in the topic, which then causes the
noticed how people believe they are great listeners without understanding what it
means to listen. For instance, many think listening always requires a response
when in fact, that is not always the case. My personal evaluation showed me that
sometimes conversations are held because people want to be heard and not given
an answer.
positively. I use more inclusive language and holding myself accountable for the role
and responding concept journal, I said that I would engage in relational listening
and so far that has happened. Now, I have meaningful conversations rather than
meaningless conversations. Prior to enrolling into this course, I was aware that I
needed to improve and develop in certain areas of communication skills. I knew for
because I would only listen to what I wanted to hear. Then respond negatively to
Overall, my goal is to be honest with myself and others about needs and
shown me that we are not naturally great communicators as people, but that we
can be taught to be great communicators. In addition, this course has encouraged
communication are, not assuming that the message sent is negative, asking the
person to clarify when I do not understand, and to evaluate the message that I am
sending. For the most part, interpersonal communication has provided me with the