Oral sex: Myths and facts

Pervasive myths about oral sex have long existed amongst Indians. Yet, oral sex
has indisputably emerged as the hottest and newest trend among people
Down Under.
A recent survey revealed that according to sexual health experts improved hygien
e standards are turning more (Aussie) couples over to the practice.
However, in India, we still notice a strong reluctance towards the, otherwise be
lieved, most pleasurable act. In fact, oral sex is listed as 'illegal'
under Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code, stated as being 'carnal intercourse
against the order of nature', which does not carry the potential for
procreation.
Apart from the legal restrictions, a lot of Indians also seem to nurture erroneo
us beliefs to perform or avoid oral sex.
Dr. Shivani Sachdev Gour, fertility expert, Phoenix Hospital, states, "Oral sex
is wrongly related to the culture of the country and is not merely
considered as an act of pleasure. In India, there's a lack of education, which
has made couples ignorant about oral sex. Young girls often fear pregnancy
or might relate their irregular periods to indulging in oral sex, which is untru
e as the two have no correlation."
Dr. Megha Hazuria Gore, clinical physiologist agrees, "For Indians, anything whi
ch is done out of the ordinary and is beyond the conservative meaning of
sex comes with numerous myths. Likewise, oral sex is not seen as a normal part o
f sexual interaction and it's considered to be a pornographic act."
A large chunk of the aam janta also seem to argue that oral sex can never make t
hem climax, which is why they prefer steamy sex romps. However, its'
advisable not to nurture any preconceived notions about this act without actuall
y trying it out or without having proper knowledge about it.
Housewife Prerna Malhotra (name changed), narrates, "I love giving and getting o
ral pleasure, but at times when my husband comes back from work and
refuses to take a shower, I don't feel comfortable. His stinking body and sticky
mouth doesn't let me enjoy the act, so I avoid it."
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Unlike Prerna, a working professional Ritu Joshi shares, "My husband has never w
orn a condom while having sex and considering his potent libido, I fear,
it might be medically unsafe for both of us. So, I feel oral sex can at least h
elp us keep infections at bay"
Stating these as wrong notions, Dr. Rajan Bhonsle, an expert on sexual relations
, elucidates, "Oral sex is not 100 per cent safe and can lead to infections.
The worst part is that those indulging in oral sex might not even know whether t
heir partner is carrying any sexually transmitted disease or not.
As a result, they land up being the victims of medical repercussions."
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Myths and facts related to Oral sex
Here are the most common myths about oral sex and actual facts behind it...
Myth 1: You can lose your virginity having had oral sex
Mention sex and people think that their virginity is at stake. Oral sex, where t
here is no contact between sexual organs, has been regarded as a taboo
that can leave you a non-virgin, which is untrue.
Expert talk: "You can lose your virginity only when there is a physical penetrat
ion. People should learn about the scientific logic and remove their
emotional barriers from their mind. Though oral sex can take away their emotiona
l virginity," explains Dr. Megha.
Myth 2: Oral sex can get you pregnant
Inquisitive to have sexual pleasure in different forms (read oral sex); most wom
en carry fears of unwanted pregnancy. Oral sex (by means of fellatio)
alone cannot result in pregnancy. Though it carries a minor risk of pregnancy, i
f the semen comes into contact with the vaginal area indirectly, so it???s
better to exercise caution.
Expert talk: "For pregnancy, the male sperms have to unite with the female eggs
to start fertilisation and child formation. But during oral sex, there's
no such process happening. The sperm is either in the mouth or is ejaculated on
the body, but nowhere does it meet the egg, so there's no chance of
pregnancy," asserts Dr. Shivani.
Myth 3: Oral sex is always unhygienic
Though one's personal hygiene completely depends on their innate routines and ha
bits, Indians still get a repulsive feeling towards the oral form of sex.
It comprises unhygienic threats only when practiced with multiple partners, but
if it's between two partners regularly, hygiene should not be a problem.
Expert talk: "If either of the partners does not believe in cleanliness and fres
hness, there is an understandable reluctance towards oral sex. It's a fact
that sex organs secrete and also that a man urinates and ejaculates from the sam
e point, but maintaining good hygiene can ensure an enjoyable act," opines
Dr. Bhonsle.
He further suggests that couples must wash or gently clean their organs before a
nd after the act gets over. Also, if you???ve just come back home, after
long hours of work, take a shower to get away with that sticky smell that tends
to irk your partner. Make sure you???ve changed your clothes and there???s
a feeling of freshness before you invite your partner for the oral act.
Myth 4: You can never have an orgasm from oral sex
Oral sex is always believed to be essentially a foreplay act, which in no way ca
n result in an orgasm. But the fact is that oral sex arouses both partners
to a climax and there is full possibility of achieving an orgasm which is even
better than natural sex.
Expert talk: "During the oral sex act, the woman's clitoris gets stimulated and
evidently, they find the orgasm more pleasurable and satisfactory.
It applies to men also, as it's like a masturbation act," clarifies Dr. Shivani
.
Myth 5: Oral sex is absolutely safe, can't cause any STIs
One of the most prevalent myths maintains that oral sex is a far better way of a
voiding risks of HIV and other Sexually Transmitted Infections (STI).
While the fact is that body fluids get exchanged during oral sex, so chances of
transmitting infections are high.
Expert talk: "You can get severe forms of sexually transmitted diseases and infe
ctions through oral sex and the worst part is they are visible on your face.
The infection commonly spread is 'cold sore', which is spread from the genitals
of your partner and it makes a white ugly mark at the bottom of the lip area,
though this can be treated with antibiotics,' explicates Dr. Shivani.
Myth 6: Oral sex is a substitute for vaginal sex
The myth is common amongst teenagers. They are convinced that it's a substitute
for the natural form of sex that helps them remain sexually active.
Expert talk: "Oral sex gives pleasure, but you can't use it as a substitute for
vaginal sex. Agreed that hormones are high and biology is playing
its role in the process, but there has to be a time and place for it. Teenagers
tend to involve in oral sex without actually knowing it pros and cons,"
says Dr. Megha.

Myth 7: Condoms can't be used while giving or receiving oral sex

Ever wondered why markets are flooded with flavoured condoms ??? for a simple re
ason, they are especially made for oral sex and most couples are still
unaware about it. The most common query relating to this myth is that how safe i
s swallowing condom lubrication during oral sex.
Expert talk: "Understand the need for such precautions. A woman can???t stand th
e idea of spilling male semen all over her mouth and it is not a good
feeling too, so condoms come in handy. As far as lubrication is concerned, flavo
ured condoms are safe since they are specifically meant for the oral act,
" says Dr. Bhonsle.