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Cobalt’s Mark Rutstein on love, loss reach President Obama’s desk. On the long-stalled Employment Non-Discrimination Act, U.S. Rep.
and coming out. Page 26 Barney Frank said ‘we’re still trying to figure out a way to get that done.’
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D.C. court rejects ballot measure on gay marriage Council had the authority to pass
Judges divided on throw at turning back the clock.”
Solmonese was referring to implementing legislation to restrict
city charter issue efforts by the National Organization voter initiatives or referenda.
for Marriage, an anti-gay group, to “Appellants’ challenge focuses
By LOU CHIBBARO JR. use its sizable financial resources to on the validity of Council legisla-
lchibbaro@washblade.com support Jackson’s campaign to over- tion that requires the [election]
turn the D.C. Marriage Equality Act. board to refuse to accept any pro-
The D.C. Court of Appeals has Solmonese added, “The D.C. posed initiative that would author-
ruled 5-4 that the city acted within Council made a wise decision ize, or have the effect of authoriz-
the law when it refused to allow a decades ago that no initiative should ing, discrimination prohibited by
minister to place a voter initiative be permitted to strip away any indi- the Human Rights Act,” Thompson
on the ballot seeking to overturn vidual’s civil rights. The court unani- said in the decision.
the city’s same-sex marriage law. mously found that the proposed anti- “Specifically, appellants con-
The court’s nine judges unan- marriage initiative would have the tend that, in establishing that
imously agreed July 15 with the effect of causing discrimination, and requirement, the Council over-
D.C. Board of Elections & Ethics in doing so, stood up for the entire stepped its authority and acted in
that a ballot measure to overturn D.C. community.” contravention of the District of
the D.C. Marriage Equality Act, if Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key
Rev. Anthony Evans, president Columbia Charter. Alternatively,
approved by voters, would con- of the D.C.-based National Black appellants contend that the pro-
stitute discrimination prohibited Bishop Harry Jackson lost his case before the D.C. Court of Appeals Church Initiative and one of the posed initiative would not author-
by the city’s Human Rights Act. that sought to place a voter initiative on the ballot seeking to overturn plaintiffs who joined Jackson in ize or have the effect of authoriz-
But four of the judges, including the city’s same-sex marriage law. seeking to overturn the same-sex ing prohibited discrimination.
Chief Judge Eric Washington, dis- marriage law through an initiative, “We disagree with both con-
sented from the majority, saying the ruling by a D.C. Superior Court on a local issue of whether the D.C. said opponents of the law will tentions, and we therefore affirm
law banning ballot measures that judge, who also held that the Home Rule Charter and a subse- continue their fight. the Superior Court’s rulings that
would result in discrimination prohib- election board acted within the quent amendment to the charter “Today the court has told the the Council acted lawfully in
ited by the Human Rights Act is law in denying Bishop Harry allows ballot measures to be held 500,000 residents of the District imposing the Human Rights Act
invalid because the City Council Jackson’s petition to file papers to that would result in discrimination. of Columbia that we have no right safeguard and that the [election]
passed it in violation of the congres- place the Marriage Equality Act The case would not be on the issue to vote on their own laws,” Evans board correctly determined that
sionally approved D.C. Home Rule on the ballot as a voter initiative. of same-sex marriage itself or said in a July 15 statement. “This the safeguard required it to reject
Charter. Associate Judge John Jackson, pastor of a church in whether the U.S. Constitution is wrong. We should have a right the proposed initiative.”
Fisher wrote the dissenting opinion. Beltsville, Md., recruited several requires states to accept same-sex to vote on issues challenging the D.C. City Council member Phil
The majority decision, written D.C. same-sex marriage oppo- marriage, as other pending lawsuits fabric of our lives here in D.C. Like Mendelson (D-At Large), who
by Associate Judge Phyllis nents to join him as plaintiffs in in state courts have asserted. I’ve said in the past, we will con- chairs the committee that guided
Thompson, says the Council acted the case, Jackson v. D.C. Board “The court’s ruling today is a sig- tinue to fight — taking this all the the same-sex marriage law through
within the scope of the Home Rule of Elections & Ethics. nificant victory for justice, the rule of way to the Supreme Court. We the Council, called the appeals
Charter and a subsequent charter Jackson has said he would law and the protection of all D.C. will not give up easily.” court decision a major victory for
amendment, which it says gave appeal the case to the U.S. residents against discrimination,” In the majority decision, the city and the law’s supporters.
the Council sufficient discretion to Supreme Court if his side lost at said Human Rights Campaign Thompson said the claim by “It’s significant that all of the
restrict ballot measures from tak- the appeals court level. President Joe Solmonese on July Jackson and those who joined judges agree that Bishop
ing away rights protected under Legal experts have said it’s pos- 15. “It’s time for the National him in challenging the city’s deci- Jackson’s initiative would be dis-
the Human Rights Act. sible — but unlikely — that the Organization for Marriage to realize sion to ban a marriage ballot criminatory,” Mendelson said.
In issuing its decision, the Supreme Court would agree to equality is here to stay no matter measure rested on the technical Jackson could not be reached
appeals court upheld an earlier take the case because it is based how much money they want to question of whether the City for comment.
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At a press conference July 15 on educational or extracurricular activities.
Capitol Hill, several U.S. House Washington Blade file photo by Michael Key
The ACLU said the case is precedent-setting because the dis-
members emphasized the impor- trict is the first in Mississippi to implement a policy banning dis-
tance of passing legislation to make U.S. Rep. Jared Polis (center) and others are renewing their efforts to crimination and harassment on the basis of sexual orientation
the nation’s immigration laws fair pass the Uniting American Families Act, which would benefit bi-national and gender identity.
and enable LGBT Americans to same-sex couples. “I’m so glad this is all over,” McMillen said in a statement. “I won’t
sponsor their foreign partners for ever get my prom back, but it’s worth if it changes things at my school.”
residency in the United States. are happier, healthier and more several years and in my heart The ACLU filed a lawsuit in March when the district canceled
The strengthened call for able to succeed with this essential know that I am as American as my a prom at Itawamba Agricultural High School after McMillen
passing comprehensive immi- social safety net,” he said. native-born cousins,” he said. asked to bring her girlfriend to the event and wear a tuxedo.
gration reform comes as limited Rep. Luis Gutierrez (D-Ill.), a Along with lawmakers, a coali-
time remains in the legislative pro-immigrant lawmaker, said tion of 37 organizations — includ-
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Immigration Equality, one of U.N. accreditation
Same-sex partners currently provisions of UAFA this year,” the organizations working to UNITED NATIONS — The U.N. Economic & Social Council
have no recourse under any portion Gutierrez said, according to his pass UAFA, is a leading voice voted Monday to accredit the U.S.-based International Gay &
of family law in the U.S. immigration prepared remarks. “Including among those groups. Other Lesbian Human Rights Commission after strong lobbying by the
code. The policy threatens to keep UAFA makes the tent that much LGBT groups in this coalition Obama administration.
an estimated 36,000 bi-national bigger and makes the coalition include the Family Equality Obama, in a statement issued by the White House, welcomed
same-sex couples from remaining that much stronger.” Council, the National Gay & the vote as an “important step forward for human rights.” With the
together in the United States. Late last year, Gutierrez intro- Lesbian Task Force and the group’s inclusion, he said “the United Nations is closer to the
Among those who spoke in duced immigration legislation that Human Rights Campaign. ideals on which it was founded, and to values of inclusion and
favor of passing immigration was seen as a more liberal alter- Rachel Tiven, Immigration equality to which the United States is deeply committed.”
reform inclusive of this language native to the working bill expected Equality’s executive director, said The group will now be able to attend U.N. meetings, submit
is Rep. Jerrold Nadler (D-N.Y.), for introduction in Congress. current law is taking LGBT fami- statements and collaborate with both government and U.N.
who sponsors the Uniting Although his legislation at the time lies “and sending them into exile.” agencies on human rights for lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans-
American Families Act, a stand- didn’t include UAFA-like language, “Together we will fight for immi- gender people, commission officials said.
alone bill that would address the he recently revealed his support gration reform that protects all fam- According to the Associated Press, the 54-member council,
situation for LGBT families. for including bi-national LGBT fam- ilies,” she said. “We will organize, known as ECOSOC, approved the U.S.-based group’s applica-
Nadler said passing immigra- ilies as part of immigration reform. we will protest, we will demand that tion for consultative status by a vote of 23-13 with 13 absten-
tion reform that includes protec- Other lawmakers who appeared the Uniting American Families Act tions. Many of those voting “no” — including Egypt, Saudi Arabia,
tions for the LGBT community is at the July 15 event to show their and the Reuniting Families Act be Pakistan, Russia and China — cited procedural reasons.
“absolutely essential.” support for such legislation were part of a just, humane and compre- But the U.S. government and 14 members of Congress who sup-
“In particular, bi-national LGBT Rep. Jared Polis (D-Colo.), a gay hensive immigration reform bill.” ported the organization’s application said they believe it had not
couples must be granted the right lawmaker and proponent of immi- Still, challenges remain in pass- been approved previously because the group promotes gay rights.
to sponsor their permanent part- gration reform, as well as Rep. Mike ing UAFA-inclusive legislation. The International Gay & Lesbian Human Rights Commission,
ners for immigration, just as other Quigley (D-Ill.). Patrick Egan, a gay political science which has offices in South Africa, Argentina and the Philippines,
committed and straight married Erwin de Leon, a gay D.C. resi- professor at New York University, has been trying since 2007 to get consultative status with
couples can,” he said. dent and Blade contributor, also said the chances of Congress ECOSOC, which serves as the main U.N. forum for discussing
Rep. Mike Honda (D-Calif.), called for UAFA-inclusive legisla- passing reform inclusive of LGBT international economic and social issues.
the sponsor of another UAFA- tion at the press conference. families are “pretty low.”
inclusive bill known as the He said passage of such a bill “It’s going to be very difficult to
Reuniting Families Act, also would help him obtain a green get the 60 votes together in the the U.S. House. Sen. Chuck bill inclusive of LGBT families.
addressed the importance of card to remain in the United Senate to move the bill forward Schumer (D-N.Y.), chair of the In a brief interview with the
passing such legislation. States with his spouse, whom he and they’re going to be reluctant Senate Judiciary immigration sub- Blade on Capitol Hill late last
Honda said “ending discrimina- married earlier this year in D.C. to put anything in there that jeop- committee, is expected to intro- month, Schumer noted the UAFA
tion” against bi-national same-sex “Thanks to vagaries of the U.S. ardizes its passage,” Egan said. duce the legislation in the Senate. language was in the framework for
couples is “in line with American val- immigration system, I still do not Capitol Hill observers expect the While the Senate bill has yet to immigration reform legislation.
ues and is good for our economy.” have my green card, even though Senate to debate and vote on com- be introduced, framework for the Asked whether the provision would
“We know that American work- I consider the United States my prehensive immigration reform leg- legislation made public earlier this be in the bill upon introduction,
ers who have family by their side home, have lived here legally for islation before a bill is taken up in year shows support for passing a Schumer replied, “I believe so.”
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Goodwin said to be ‘open’ on LGBT issues becomes the youngest member November and that Goodwin’s the folks that believe in equality in
But new W.Va. of the Senate. He was sworn in past work with the governor West Virginia,” Skinner said.
senator an unknown this week. means he would be aligned with A lingering question for
Stephen Skinner, board presi- Manchin in terms of ideology. Goodwin is how he would vote
to advocates dent for Fairness West Virginia, Skinner said believing Goodwin’s on “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” repeal
said he had no information on positions on LGBT issues to be sim- when the issue comes before the
By CHRIS JOHNSON Goodwin’s background on LGBT ilar to Manchin’s is “absolutely” a full Senate. A provision for repeal
cjohnson@washblade.com issues, but he thinks the senator safe assumption. is in the fiscal year 2011 defense
would be open to discussion. As far as Manchin’s views on authorization pending before
Many supporters of LGBT rights “I think he’s certainly someone LGBT issues, Skinner said the gov- Congress, and opponents have
are expressing confidence that the who would be open to engaging in ernor has been “thoughtful” about vowed to strip out the language
temporary replacement for Sen. discussions on LGBT issues,” LGBT issues and twice came out from the legislation.
Robert Byrd (D-W.Va.) will be sup- Skinner said. “But that, of course, publicly against a state constitution- Byrd was a “yes” vote in Senate
portive of pro-LGBT legislation in doesn’t mean that we know any of al amendment in West Virginia ban- Armed Services Committee in
the Senate even though his views his public stances.” ning same-sex marriage. May on an amendment that would
on such issues are unknown. Michael Mitchell, executive direc- “However, he did that in the lead to repeal of the law.
West Virginia Gov. Joe tor of the National Stonewall context of saying that our state The late senator’s support
Photo courtesy of W. Va. governor’s office
Manchin (D) announced last week Democrats, said Goodwin appears [Defense of Marriage Act] was was noteworthy because it came
that Carte Goodwin, his former Carte Goodwin was named to to be a “very smart and energetic sufficient,” Skinner said. “So on the condition of adding 60
general counsel, would fill the succeed West Virginia Sen. choice” to represent West Virginia. although the end result was cer- days between the time for when
Senate seat vacated by Byrd Robert Byrd, who died earlier this “I just hope that he remem- tainly something that we wanted the president and defense lead-
upon his death earlier this month. month. Goodwin’s stances on bers that he will be a senator for from him, he’s clearly not in favor ers would certify that the U.S.
At a press conference at the LGBT issues are largely unknown, all West Virginians — including of marriage equality.” military is ready to end “Don’t
statehouse in Charleston, W.Va., but activists are hopeful he’ll be LGBT West Virginians — as well Skinner said Manchin has Ask, Don’t Tell” and the time for
Goodwin reportedly said he has ‘open to engaging in discussions.’ as remember that he can be a “indicated at least privately” that when repeal would go into effect.
“no agenda” in the Senate other leader, and should be a leader, he would support a state law pro- Skinner said he’s expecting
than “working to fight hard every replacement for Byrd because for those West Virginians who hibiting job bias against LGBT Goodwin to follow through on
day for West Virginia families,” the West Virginia Legislature is aren’t necessarily there yet on people in the workforce. Byrd’s commitment to repealing
according to the Hill newspaper. considering a change to state LGBT issues,” Mitchell said. “The important thing about Sen. the ban on open service.
Goodwin, who didn’t respond law to allow for a vote to fill the Many political observers are Goodwin and Gov. Manchin is that I
to the Blade’s request for com- Senate seat this fall. expecting Manchin to pursue a know that they will have an open Story continues at
ment, is seen as a temporary At 36 years old, Goodwin run for the U.S. Senate in door and will be fully engaged with washingtonblade.com.
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I have encountered many gays Nor did the District’s gun laws one got killed, which is just the of the District. Editorial Intern
JULIETTE EBNER
and lesbians who have or carry prevent the tragedy of a 14-year- way I prefer it. Had I not had it that Staff Photographer
arms for self-defense against hate old shooting 10 people and killing night in 1982, we would have Holmes Norton and the DC MICHAEL KEY
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crimes or for home defense. Some four this past March through the been beaten or stabbed to death. Council should be held account-
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umn many of my lesbian friends prevent law-abiding citizens from firearm saved my life and the of getting D.C. residents a vote, Sr. Acct. Executive
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that they own guns: rifles, shot- That is why Tom Palmer, one of asked me one day if I might be selves. Let’s remem- JERYL PARADE
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Going for
the gay gold
Large contingent Ashley, a software manager, also
works at Covington & Burling. The
of local athletes two train at 5:30 a.m. twice a week at
Hains Point in D.C. before their work-
heading to Germany days begin. Ashley says the Games
for Games provide an unrivaled experience.
“The appeal is first of all, all these
By JOEY DiGUGLIELMO queers together in one city,” she
says. “Normally we’re the 10 percent
The Gay Games medals that les- but during the Gay Games it revers-
bian attorney Andrea Reister keeps es and we’re the 90 percent and
in her office at Covington & Burling that’s really fun. … It’s just a very
on Pennsylvania Avenue — three supportive and vibrant community.”
golds and a silver for cycling — have Modeled loosely after the
had a somewhat unexpected effect. Olympics, the Gay Games started in
Natural conversation starters, San Francisco in 1982. Athletes
Reister says they’ve been a way from all over the world compete.
to come out to clients without Most are LGBT but heterosexuals
making a proclamation. can enter too. Gold, silver and
“People who know me very well bronze medals are awarded in
know it’s just part of my persona,” about 30 sports and athletes of all
she says. “They’ve become a very skill levels are welcome to compete.
positive aspect of who I am. And it’s The D.C. area, represented by
an easy way to get it out there with- Team D.C., a local umbrella organi-
Washington Blade photo by Michael Key
out making it a big deal. They’re zation of LGBT sports leagues,
something everybody can relate to.” which has about 2,500 players on Andrea Reister (left) and Marty Ashley practice for the Gay Games Monday evening at Hains Point in Washington.
Reister, 52, is gearing up for her about 30 teams, will again have a Both have won medals in past Gay Games events, and are hoping to add to their trophy case in Germany next week.
third Gay Games. She competed in strong representation with about
Sydney in 2002 and in Chicago in 100 attending. That’s down sharply and I knew I wasn’t alone.” Team D.C. president Brent Minor some of them put all their medals on,
2006 but is switching gears for this from the roughly 300 who attended Washington resident Scott is having shoulder surgery and can’t they’d sink to the bottom of the pool.
eighth installment of the Games, the 2006 Chicago Games, a fact Thompson, 47, competes in tennis go this year but says the Games pro- We also have body builders who do
which kicks off next weekend in Team D.C. board member Kevin and the triathlon. He first attended vide a good mix of fun and competi- quite well. We have a volleyball team
Cologne, Germany. She and her Majoros attributes to the distance the 1990 Games in Vancouver and tion. Because anyone can enter and who won bronze last year in their divi-
partner of nine years, Marty Ashley, and cost of flying to Germany. has attended several times since. He most of the participants are gay, it’s sion. It really demonstrates that we
will compete together in golf. Majoros, a Blade sports colum- won a bronze medal at the 2006 Out infinitely easier to participate in the have an active gay and lesbian
“I’d done pretty well in cycling nist who’ll turn 50 during the Games in Montreal, a break-off Gay Games than the Olympics. sports community here.”
so I thought maybe it was time to Games (which last through Aug. event that emerged during a squab- Many sports have events broken This will be the first Gay Games for
try a different sport,” Reister 8), will compete in swimming and ble among Gay Games organizers. down into age and/or skill levels, 38-year-old lesbian Claudia Gebert,
says. “And Marty has always in two jumping competitions. The “The great thing about it is you making it easier to qualify for a who’s running in both the 10k and 5k
competed in golf and I wanted to Baltimore resident and Gay have a lot of people coming togeth- medal. But that doesn’t mean the races. It will give the Germany native
be able to spend time training Games silver medalist says the er who are focused on sports,” Games are a field day. Competition a chance to visit her hometown of
and competing with her.” Chicago Games were amazing. Thompson says. “You can go to a can be fierce — in swimming espe- Nesskirch, which will require a three-
Ashley, who has a Gay Games “You have 12,000 gay athletes all circuit party, but let’s face it, that’s cially — and several world records hour train ride from Cologne.
silver medal of her own in golf, marching around for 10 days,” he mostly about partying and sex. And have been broken at the Games. She learned of the Games after
was bitten by the competition bug says. “It was the first time in my life I felt that’s fine, but here’s a healthier Minor says Team D.C. athletes she joined D.C. Front Runners, a local
after attending the 1998 Games in like we were all supposed to be the group who are really involved in always come home with a boun- LGBT running outfit. She came here
Amsterdam as a spectator. She way we are. Not that I don’t feel normal sports. All that kind of stuff just ty of medals representing the last year as a biomedical researcher.
then competed in Sydney and right now, but I felt even more normal. pales to the good-natured fun you District and its region well. “I have to go back anyway to get
Chicago and says training for this It’s kind of hard to put into words. I felt have at the Gay Games. It’s always “Our swim teams always garner a a Visa stamp and I’ll see my family
year’s Games has been fun. part of something bigger than myself such a positive experience.” great deal of medals,” he says. “If too,” she says. “It should be fun.”
26 washingtonblade.com • july 23, 2010
SOCIALAGENDA
Friday, July 23 p.m. as part of the Capital Fringe Festival.
HIRSHHORN AFTER HOURS is tonight at A teenage boy’s obsession with Bruce
the Hirshhorn Museum and Sculpture Springsteen leads him to New York City.
Garden, Independence Ave. at Seventh Lovers, rockers, and gypsies challenge
Street, S.W., from 8 p.m. to midnight. Come him to embrace his queerness. Does he
out for an outrageous night of campy drag have what it takes to rock it out like The
and electrifying dance music hosted by Boss? Tickets are $15 and can be pur-
drag performer Summer Camp. There will chased at Fort Fringe, 607 New York Ave.
be live performances by Karl Marks, N.W., or by phone at 866-811-4111.
Brandon Joseph Neukam, and Sunrize WET GIRLS tonight at Club Liv, 2001
Highway. DJs Matt Bailer (MIXTAPE, 11th St., N.W., from 10 p.m. to 3 a.m. Get
Peach Pit) and Bil Todd (RAW) will be spin- drenched with everything from pop to not,
ning an eclectic mix of electro, alt-pop, featuring DJs K La Rock (You Ain’t Slick)
disco, and house, with visual projections by and Junebullet (She.Rex/You Ain’t Slick).
Richard Sawka and Erik Loften. Catch the $5 cover and must be 18 or older to enter.
World Premiere of the latest, outrageous Celebrate SHABBAT SERVICES, 8:30-
digital short from CRACK, featuring 10 p.m. at the Washington, D.C. Jewish
Summer Camp, Chris Farris, and Karl Community Center, 1529 16th St.
Jones and directed by Greg Price with orig- Services are followed by an Oneg social.
Photo courtesy of National Gallery
inal music by Bluebrain. Tickets are $18 BALTIMORE BELTWAY DIVAS SHOW at
and must be purchased in advance by Ziegfeld’s, 1824 Half St., S.W., with Tatiyanna Busboys and Poets presents ‘HOWL’ in celebration of the exhibition of Allen
going to hirshhorn.si.edu/afterhours. Voché, ChiChi Rae Colby, Phoenix Ginsburg’s photographs at the National Gallery of Art.
In celebration of the landmark exhibition Bloomingdale, JoAnna Blue, Sparkle
“BEAT MEMORIES: THE PHOTOGRAPHS Alexandria, and the comedy of Shawna be matched by the Charlize Theron Africa
OF ALLEN GINSBERG” on view at the Alexander with non-stop club dancing. $5 Outreach Project and goes directly to Monday, July 26
National Gallery of Art through Sept. 16, cover from 9 to 10:30 p.m. and $10 after 10:30 building a foster home for abandoned The Capital Area Rainbowlers Association
Busboys and Poets, 5th & K Sts., and Split p.m. and always includes $1 off your first drink. youth in Cloetesville, South Africa. presents the LGBT SUMMER BOWLING
This Rock present “HOWL” in the City at 8 The first ever MSS APEX AND MISS APEX THE DC WOMEN’S DINNER will be at SOCIAL at AMF Annandale Lanes, 4245
and 10 p.m. Renowned poet Anne Waldman, NEWCOMER hosted by Kristina Kelly and Cafe Luna, 1633 P St., N.W., at 7 p.m. Markham St., Annandale, Va., from 8 to 10
friend of Allen Ginsberg, will present three Tony “I Thank You” Nelson is tonight at Apex RSVP by sending an e-mail to dcwom- p.m. Bowling is just $1.99 per person per
performances of his legendary poem Howl. at 10 p.m. Special guest entertainers include ensdinner@gmail.com game plus the $4.46 shoe rental fee. There
Inspired by the spontaneous nature of the Destiny B. Childs, Serria Spaulding, Big DC FRONT RUNNERS FUN WALK/RUN at will be some free pizza and fun door
Beats, Matthew Hemerlein leads a string Daddy, Isis Deverreoux, and Arione Rock Creek Park is today from 9:30 to 11:30 prizes/raffles. You do not need to field a team.
quartet in a musical improvisation to accom- Decardea. There is a $10 cover and you must a.m. The walk goes from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. Just attend and bowl anywhere. RSVP to
pany the poem. Waldman will also perform be 18 to enter, 21 to drink. and the run goes from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. Les at president@carabowling.org
her original poems and will be preceded by SAGE METRO DC MONTHLY MEETING at
local poets Chris August, Kenneth Carroll, Saturday, July 24 Sunday, July 25 the DC Center, 1318 U St., N.W., from 6:30-
and Venus Thrash. Tickets are $10 and can be ADAMS MORGAN GIVES BACK is an all 2ND ANNUAL BET MISHPACHAH 8 p.m. SAGE Metro DC provides support and
purchased at brownpapertickets.com. Visit day event. Buy a Citizen Effect wristband KUGEL BAKEOFF at 5 p.m. at DC JCC, advocacy for the aging LGBT population.
washingtonblade.com for more on this event. for $10 at citizeneffect.org to receive free 1529 16th St. N.W. Bake and bring your
The Faux-Real Theatre Company pres- and discounted drinks, food, and more in favorite Kugel. Participants will vote on the Tuesday, July 27
ents QUEER IN THE USA tonight at the the Adams Morgan neighborhood at par- best, and that recipe will be used to make Adventuring presents ARLINGTON EVENING
Goethe Institut, 812 7th St., N.w., at 11 ticipating businesses. All money raised will the Kugels served at the Break the Fast. BIKE RIDE at 6:30 p.m. This ride continues the
summer-long series of Arlington Evening Bike
Rides. New riders and those who may be a lit-
Walk, run or sashay in new 5k Rehoboth race tle out of practice are welcome. The ride will go
through Alexandria’s Del Ray neighborhood on
a 17-mile loop using bike trails and quiet resi-
By JULIETTE M. EBNER walk where creativity and costumes are dential streets. Arrive by 6:25 p.m. at the
encouraged and prizes will be awarded Clarendon Metro station elevator entrance,
CAMP Rehoboth and the Seashore in several categories. T-shirts will be pro- Wilson Boulevard and Highland St., and the
Striders will hold the inaugural “Sundance vided to the first 300 registrants. ride starts promptly at 6:30 p.m. Bring helmet,
5k: Run, Walk or Sashay!” on Sunday, Aug. What started as a rained-out pool water and $2 for Adventuring.
29 in Rehoboth Beach, Del., to kick off party to celebrate the 10th anniversary
“Sundance Week,” CAMP Rehoboth’s of Steve Elkins and Murray Archibald in Wednesday, July 28
annual Labor Day weekend benefit. 1988, the annual Sundance benefit DC CENTER SUMMER LGBT INTERN
“We thought that we would add takes place the Saturday and Sunday MIXER at the DC Center, 1318 U St., N.W.,
something that would help to expand nights of Labor Day weekend at the from 7-9 p.m. Are you an intern in D.C. this
Sundance,” said Chris Beagle, a mem- Rehoboth Beach Convention Center. summer? Know any interns that are LGBT
ber of CAMP Rehoboth’s board of direc- “It started as a small group that got togeth- or allies of the LGBT community? Please
Photo courtesy of Beagle
tors. “A large number of people said they er to celebrate the end of the summer and help spread the word about the first LGBT
would like to see outdoor events.” friendship and it has evolved into a fundraiser CHRIS BEAGLE, of CAMP Rehoboth, Intern Summer Mixer at the DC Center.
The scenic course is considered an “out- for CAMP Rehoboth,” said Beagle. is helping to organize a new 5k race at Mautner Project presents MIND-BODY
and-back” course, meaning it starts and fin- Saturday, Sept. 4 is the Sundance the beach next month. WELLNESS FOR WOMEN WHO
ishes at the same point, in front of the CAMP Auction, both silent and live, from 7 to 10 PARTNER WITH WOMEN: CURRENT
Rehoboth Community Center on Baltimore p.m.; it will include food and an open bar. munities. Its mission is to promote cooper- ISSUES with Leslie Calman, Elizabeth
Avenue in downtown Rehoboth Beach. Sunday, Sept. 5 is the Sundance. The party ation and understanding among all people, Ide, and D Magrini at Equality Maryland,
Runners will continue through town, begins at 8 p.m. with dancing until 2 a.m. while working to build safe, inclusive com- 1201 Sharp St., Baltimore, at 6:30 p.m.
crossing Lake Gerar, and head north toward There will also be an open bar all night. munities with “room for all.” This is part of the Speakers Series.
Cape Henlopen State Park. Just prior to the Sundance benefits the CAMP Rehoboth For more information about Sundance
park entrance, runners will turn around and Community Center; a percentage of the weekend and CAMP Rehoboth in gener- Thursday, July 29
follow the same route back into town. race proceeds will also go to the Center. al, check out camprehoboth.com. Atlas Performing Arts Center presents
The top overall finishers will be Celebrating its 20th anniversary this Pre-registration for the 5k race, held at SUMMER FILM SERIES: GAY 101 show-
awarded prizes as well as the top three year, CAMP Rehoboth is a non-profit com- 7:30 a.m. on Aug. 29, is $20 through Aug. ing “Where the Boys Are” starring
finishers in nine age groups ranging munity service organization dedicated to 22. After that, general registration is $25. Dolores Hart and George Hamilton at the
from 9 and under to 70 and older. creating a more positive environment in For more information on the race and to Paul Sprenger Theatre, 1333 H St., N.E.,
There will also be a one-mile “FUN” Rehoboth Beach and its surrounding com- register, visit seashorestriders.com. at 8 p.m. Buy tickets at atlasarts.org or at
the box office one hour prior to the movie.
july 23, 2010 • washingtonblade.com 29
THEATERAGENDA
Legendary costume designer on his career in theater
tion of “A Leap of Faith,” a musical to artists and bohemians, and
5-time Tony winner adaption of the same-titled 1992 began stalking famous couturier
Long returns to D.C. Steve Martin screen comedy about Charles James. Eventually, James
a fraudulent preacher. agreed to an apprenticeship that
in October for “My studio [a loft in Lower lasted an intense three years.
‘Henry VIII’ Manhattan] is currently overflowing
with photos of choir gowns and
When his sartorial mentor died in
1978, Long returned to the theater,
sheriff uniforms,” reports Long. “It’s designing costumes for produc-
By PATRICK FOLLIARD when a designer thinks that they tions helmed by directors he’d first
are most familiar with a certain look met as classmates at Yale.
Legendary gay costume or period that they really need to “I’d dress the phonebook for the
designer William Ivey Long has take a closer look. Sorting through right director or choreographer,”
never tried to disguise his sexuali- archival material is a huge part of adds Long. “Who is in charge real-
ty — neither among friends nor what I do. Research and costume ly makes a difference in terms of
professional contacts. “Imagine construction are everything.” inspiration and the overall experi-
that? I’m comfortable with who I A native North Carolinian, Long ence. I’d count [Broadway’s] Jerry
am,” Long reports playfully. “It’s grew up surrounded by theater. Zaks and Susan Stroman among
been my experience that so long Both of his parents were theater my favorites.”
as you do your job and pay your educators. As a kid, Long designed Long designed the chic black
Photo courtesy of Long
bills most people will accept you.” his first costume – an Edwardian dress and mink so crucial to
Indeed the man does his job. collar for his dog. At just eight, he WILLIAM IVEY LONG has won five Tony Awards. Valerie Harper’s portrayal of
Throughout his fabulously suc- appeared in a local historical pro- Tallulah Bankhead in “Looped” that
cessful costume design career, duction titled “The Lost Colony.” Over the years, his way of hands on learning for the next played at Arena Stage last sum-
Long has won five Tony Awards Long graduated from William designing costumes has changed. generation. And whether or not mer. More recently, he designed
(and every other prize that and Mary College with a degree “The scope has definitely they adhere to my methods isn’t costumes for the national tour of
Broadway and off-Broadway offer). in history, and then went on to broadened,” explains Long, 62. important, but it’s crucial for them “Dream Girls.” Sadly, the D.C. run
His amazing body of work includes study set design at the Yale “As I’ve become more successful, to have this kind of experience.” was recently canceled due to poor
hit shows like “Grey Gardens,” “The School of Drama (where house- I’ve been able to hire assistants. After graduating from Yale, Long advance ticket sales. Local audi-
Producers,” and “Hairspray.” The mates included Meryl Streep and Also, I’ve become a destination for felt rather at sea and woefully ences will have the opportunity to
recent production of “9 to 5” marks Sigourney Weaver). Studying interns and summer job seekers. unprepared for a career in theater, see Long’s artistry up close once
his 58th Broadway show. design under the exalted Ming But that’s really the only way our so he set out to find his next men- again in October when he cos-
Long is busy at work designing Cho Lee was a period that Long business is passed down. It’s a tor. Long moved to Manhattan’s tumes Folger Theatre’s production
for an upcoming Broadway produc- remembers as “a magical time.” guild, really, and that requires Chelsea Hotel, that storied home of Shakespeare’s “Henry VIII.”
30 washingtonblade.com • july 23, 2010
BUSINESSAGENDA
‘ ’
Gay couples and the urge to merge
ence your decision to keep assets the portfolio may have a significant-
When should you There are a few things to consider separate. Depending in which ly different (i.e., higher) risk profile.
consider combining before registering your names state you reside, co-owned assets Couples should discuss financial
may be subject to the claims of expectations and goals they would
finances? your same-sex spouses’ or part- like to achieve, including respective
on joint accounts. ners’ creditors. One spouse or and combined goals such as home
By DAVID M. TAUBE partner may have assets he or she ownership and retirement.
ing, joint household expenses, it’s a same-sex spouse or partner to the wishes to protect from the other Merging spending and saving
Since the momentous March 3 different story for investment money. other spouse or partner is consid- who is engaged in a high-risk busi- habits should also lead to a talk
inception of same-sex marriage in Maintaining joint accounts builds ered a taxable gift. No limit exists ness or occupation. about your money history – credit rat-
the District of Columbia, the urge shared decision-making, awareness for federally recognized marriages, A spouse or partner may have ing and score, any troubles with cred-
to merge has surged. As of June of financial matters, and perhaps as spouses can freely transfer significant inherited family assets it in the past, including bankruptcy.
24, the D.C. Superior Court’s most importantly, trust. However, tax, money or property to one another that need to be protected for Newlyweds and other couples
Marriage Bureau had recorded legal, and practical matters offer without tax consequences. heirs from potential loss in a will also need to figure out who
2,966 “spouse-to-spouse” mar- cautions for a household account Same-sex spouses or partners future break up or divorce. will actually pay the bills and file
riage license applications, closing and red flags for investments. should keep a record of how much In the District and states with the tax returns. Ideally, you
in on the 3,096 “husband-and- Taxes. Whether you are mar- each contributes to a joint same-sex marriage, you can own should address how your assets
wife” requests for all of 2009. ried, civil unionized, domestic part- account. To avoid having to file a certain assets as “tenants in the and finances will be handled in a
In your rush to hire a wedding nershipped, or simply co-habitat- gift tax return, neither half of a entirety,” which provides married pre- (or post-) nuptial or domes-
planner, register at your favorite ing, the fact remains that, for taxes, couple should contribute more couples joint ownership with right of tic partnership agreement.
high-end retailer, and select your the federal government does not than the $13,000 gift limit over the survivorship, without joint liability.
exotic honeymoon destination, recognize your relationship. As a amount the other half provided. Practical matters. Each spouse (This article is for information-
have you thought about what mar- married couple living in the Federal estate taxes may also or partner may have different goals al purposes only and is not finan-
riage means to your finances? In District, you would have to file your influence your decision to keep for the money and approaches to cial, legal, or tax advice. Please
the excitement of a merger, some city income taxes jointly, but would assets separate. Unless you can how it would be invested. While one consult with your adviser before
newlyweds may jump at the chance file separate federal tax returns. document the contributions by may be planning for imminent retire- making any decisions.)
to combine their finances. But wait, There are potential federal gift each same-sex spouse or part- ment and dialing back the risk level,
there are a few things to consider taxes if one same-sex spouse or ner, the IRS will include the another may be thinking about
before registering your names on partner contributes more than the entire value of property owned returning to school for a new career. David M. Taube, CFA, is CEO & Chief
joint accounts. other to a joint account. Under cur- as “joint tenants” in the gross This may take on greater impor- Investment Officer of Kalorama Wealth
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THEATERAGENDA
Sesame Street meets South Park
Avenue Q: The Musical The Trekkie Monster is now
Avenue Q brings Shakespeare Theatre “acted” by Michael Liscio, Jr.,
irreverence to Company who also plays Nicky, but does
Lansburgh Theatre an especially bravura job bring-
Shakespeare Theatre 450 7th St., N.W. ing out the reclusive porn-lover’s
Through Aug. 15 gruff charm. As for Nicky, he is a
By DAVID J. HOFFMAN $76 - $86 sweet but messy and jobless
202-547-1122 character living with Rod, a clos-
Puppets have full-on puppet HarmanCenter.org eted Republican investment
sex. Racism and pornography banker (acted by Brent Michael
and unemployment are also an homage to the creators of DiRoma, making his touring
addressed head-on. Hilarity and Sesame Street. It plays at the debut on “Avenue Q”).
irreverence ensue. Shakespeare Theatre Company’s As for the show’s gay subtext,
But somewhere Kermie is Lansburgh Theatre until Aug. 15, Rod likes nothing more than sit-
having a panic attack at the and is a first-rate, road-show ver- ting home leafing through his
arrival of “Avenue Q,” set on a sion of the original, innovative, favorite book, “Broadway Musicals
street with a string of tenements foul-language Broadway musical of the 1940s.” One night a sleep-
Photo courtesy of Avenue Q
in a low-rent, outer-outer bor- that in 2004 won the Best Musical less Rod thinks he hears Nicky
ough of New York City. Tony Award, snatching it from the AVENUE Q puts a foul-mouthed and gay-inclusive spin on ‘Sesame Street.’ say, “I love you, Rod,” in his sleep
It is sufficiently reminiscent of hands of “Wicked.” and is jubilant that his secret
Sesame Street, on public TV As for “Q” standing for “Queer,” simile of the Cookie Monster, cares the puppets, which cost up to crush on the slacker is requited.
since 1969 and beloved by get over it. It’s really just not that big one way or the other. $10,000 each and are so-called However, it turns out that it’s actu-
Generation Y for its politically a deal. However, Bert and Ernie Remember, most of these char- single-rod, double-rod and live- ally Rod who is dreaming all this,
correct multi-cultural neighbor- (whoops, I mean Rod and Nicky in acters are puppets, designed by hands puppets depending on how and Rod later angrily denies that
hood and ethnically diverse fam- this show) are gay, or at least ready the ingenious Rick Lyon, who cre- the head and arms are animated he is gay, insisting that he has a
ilies, to merit the following state- to come out, but only after first ated the role of Trekkie Monster by the actor serving as puppeteer girlfriend named Alberta who lives
ment in the playbill: “Avenue Q swearing they’re not, as they sing (“Me want porn!”) in the original who also generally supplies the in Vancouver, but no one has ever
has not been authorized or the duet “If You Were Gay,” while Broadway production but who is voice. The folks remain in full view seen his “beard” and he some-
approved in any manner by the insisting, a la Seinfeld, “not that also a puppeteer and designer with of the audience and make no times mixes up her name.
Jim Henson Company or there’s anything wrong with that.” more than 25 years experience in attempt to conceal themselves or Other story lines are woven
Sesame Workshop, which have And hey, no one else in the cast, theater, film and TV, including their lip movements. The puppets into “Avenue Q,” including para-
no responsibility for its content.” including Trekkie Monster, a porn- “Sesame Street.” He and his com- interact with each other and three bles about coming-of-age and
Even so, the show is basically obsessed Muppettish furball fac- pany, The Lyon Puppets, build all human characters. finding “purpose” in life.
32 washingtonblade.com • july 23, 2010
FITNESSAGENDA
Fitness and exercise: myths vs. facts
program that targets all areas of Myth #5: More Sweat well-rounded eating strategy, not
If you’re in pain at the abdominals and remember Equals More Fat Loss through excessive supplementa-
the gym, then you’re to allow one day in between for Most of the weight you lose tion. The body is always better off
rest and recovery. Abdominals, through sweat is water weight and eating well and receiving all it
doing it wrong like all muscles, need a minimum is not an accurate measure of needs through food. Granted there
of 48 hours rest and should not permanent fat loss. Save weigh- are some vitamins, minerals and
By KEVIN M. NORRIS be worked every day. ing yourself for the morning nutrients that may prove challeng-
before you exercise for a more ing to take in through food and
There are more exercise Myth #3: Weight Lifting accurate measure and remember some supplementation may be
myths than there are exercises and Women to stay hydrated throughout the necessary, but you should not
and as a personal trainer I have One of the most misleading day, not just during exercise. Eight become a walking pill box.
heard my share. misconceptions is that if women 8 oz. glasses of water should be
There’s the classic case of see- weight train, they will gain big your minimum. Myth #8: Stretching
ing someone in the gym who muscles. Women have trace is Not Necessary
looks fit. There is a natural ten- amounts of testosterone, neces- Myth #6: Lose Weight Stretching is a crucial compo-
dency to emulate that individual sary for muscle building, so they Before Weight Training nent of a well-rounded exercise
Photo by iStockphoto.com/Georgijevic
and adopt some of his or her rou- simply cannot pack on pounds of Muscles are far more metabolic program. Exercise can often
tine without knowing whether the The person sweating the most at the muscle overnight without supple- active and burn more calories as shorten muscles, which can
exercises or techniques are safe gym isn’t necessarily the most fit. mentation and aggressive train- compared to fat, which more or make them more prone to injury.
and effective. There is a mislead- ing. Building muscle will not hap- less just sits there and is not meta- The more you exercise the more
ing assumption that because between working hard and push- pen overnight. bolically active. Therefore it is stretching should be part of your
someone looks good, they must ing yourself too hard. essential to include weight training routine. It is always best to
be doing something right. This Myth #4: Spot Reduction in any weight loss program. stretch muscles when they are
assumption can often be far from Myth #2: Lower Abs We all have “problem areas” Muscles are also denser than fat warmest, generally at
the truth and even dangerous. There is no such thing. The that we want to focus on and rid and will give you a leaner more the end of an exer-
abdominals are comprised of that area of fat and flabbiness. defined and less-flabby physique. cise routine.
Myth #1: No Pain No Gain several muscles that run the However, spot reduction is
Exercise should never hurt entire length of the abdominal impossible. It is unattainable to Myth #7: Supplementation Kevin M. Norris is a
and if you are in pain during or wall vertically, horizontally and burn off fat in a selected area. Fat is a Must health and fitness columnist
following an exercise routine, you diagonally. It is impossible to iso- is burned off from the entire body The best way to receive all the for DC Agenda and owner
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have pushed yourself too hard. late the “lower” portion of the abs at the same rate. Nonetheless, vitamins, minerals and nutrients LLC. Personal Training.
Although it is important to push over the upper. It’s simply not a the area that holds the most fat that the human body needs is Reach him at
yourself, there is a fine line different muscle group. Create a will lose the most fat in the end. through a knowledgeable and kevinmnorris@aol.com.
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