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Do this protocol on yourself, clients or loved ones. When you do it with others, it is very important
not to ask them for any personal or embarrassing information; reassure them that the process will
work even if they keep all the information to themselves and dont share anything with you.
Sometimes during work with guilt and shame, people have a desire to share the content after it had
been released; if they volunteer it and youre open to hearing it, be my guest; otherwise, allow them
to keep what is private, private.
Preparation
1. Write down a movie title of something you feel guilty or ashamed about; something you
either did or didnt do
2. On a scale of 0 -10, guess how upset youd be if you thought about that event.
3. Write that number at the top of the next page.
4. Pick a colour, a number, a shape, an object or any other metaphor so that someone else
wont be able to guess what it is, e.g.
The blue teddy
The day the wind blew
Uncle Alfred
5. Now fill out the 5 following sheets for this one issue:
6. Go through the script yourself or ask someone to lead you through it, step by step.
NOTE
To get the most out of this process, do not be smart, do not guess, do not follow your intuition,
do not reframe and do not change the statements -
just stay with the words for this simple exercise;
let the tapping do the work!
[metaphor] ________________________________________________________,
and I would like to deeply and completely (say with emphasis) love, accept and forgive him/her
now.
Alternate the following statements on ALL the EFT tapping points for TWO rounds (a, b, a, b, a, b,
etc):
b. What if he/she did the best he/she could at the time (emphasise)?
After 2 complete rounds (tapping through all the points), GUESS how intense you think youll feel if
you were to think about that event again ___________
IF INTENSITY = ZERO
Test it: Tap while vividly imagining that particular event.
If tested OK (your intensity about that specific event remains zero), guess what will happen to the
intensity levels if you were to tell someone else all the details of the incident.
Note: you dont actually have to tell anyone - its just a way to test! If it seems important to you to
tell someone you trust, do it, and tap while you do; there is often great healing in sharing something
that we felt guilty or ashamed about with others; just remember that the person may not respond in
the way that youd like them to, so pick your audience selectively.
If it still tested OK (your intensity when you think remains zero) do a celebration dance and pick the
next thing you feel guilty or ashamed about!
and I would like to deeply and completely (say with emphasis) love, accept and forgive
[name]____________________________________________________ now.
Alternate the following statements on ALL the points for TWO rounds (a, b, a, b, a, b, etc):
[metaphor]____________________________________________________________
b) What if [Name] ______________________ did the best he/she could do at the time
(emphasise)?
After 2 complete rounds (tapping through all the points), GUESS how intense you think youll feel if
you were to think about that event again ___________
IF INTENSITY = ZERO
Test tap while vividly imagining that particular event.
If tested OK (your intensity about that specific event remains zero), guess what will happen to the
intensity levels if you were to tell someone else all the details of the incident.
Note: you dont actually have to tell anyone - its just a way to test! If it seems important to you to
tell someone you trust, do it, and tap while you do; there is often great healing in sharing something
that we felt guilty or ashamed about with others; just remember that the person may not respond in
the way that youd like them to, so pick your audience selectively.
If it still tested OK (your intensity when you think remains zero) do a celebration dance and pick the
next thing you feel guilty or ashamed about!
and I would like to deeply and completely (say with emphasis) love, accept and forgive us now.
Alternate the following statements on ALL the points for TWO rounds (a, b, c, a, b, c, etc):
After 2 complete rounds (tapping through all the points), GUESS how intense you think youll feel if
you were to think about that event again ___________
IF INTENSITY = ZERO
Test tap while vividly imagining that particular event.
If tested OK (your intensity about that specific event remains zero), guess what will happen to the
intensity levels if you were to tell someone else all the details of the incident.
Note: you dont actually have to tell anyone - its just a way to test! If it seems important to you to
tell someone you trust, do it, and tap while you do; there is often great healing in sharing something
that we felt guilty or ashamed about with others; just remember that the person may not respond in
the way that youd like them to, so pick your audience selectively.
If it still tested OK (your intensity when you think remains zero) do a celebration dance and pick the
next thing you feel guilty or ashamed about!
and I would like to deeply and completely (say with emphasis) love, accept and forgive you now.
Alternate the following statements on ALL the points for TWO rounds (a, b, c, a, b, c, etc)
After 2 complete rounds (tapping through all the points), GUESS how intense you think youll feel if
you were to think about that event again ___________
IF INTENSITY = ZERO
Test tap while vividly imagining that particular event.
If tested OK (your intensity about that specific event remains zero), guess what will happen to the
intensity levels if you were to tell someone else all the details of the incident.
Note: you dont actually have to tell anyone - its just a way to test! If it seems important to you to
tell someone you trust, do it, and tap while you do; there is often great healing in sharing something
that we felt guilty or ashamed about with others; just remember that the person may not respond in
the way that youd like them to, so pick your audience selectively.
If it still tested OK (your intensity when you think remains zero) do a celebration dance and pick the
next thing you feel guilty or ashamed about!
and I would like to deeply and completely (say with emphasis) love, accept and forgive myself now.
Alternate the following statements on ALL the points for TWO rounds (a, b, c, a, b, c, a, b, c, etc):
After 2 complete rounds (tapping through all the points), GUESS how intense you think youll feel if
you were to think about that event again ___________
IF INTENSITY = ZERO
Test tap while vividly imagining that particular event.
If tested OK (your intensity about that specific event remains zero), guess what will happen to the
intensity levels if you were to tell someone else all the details of the incident.
Note: you dont actually have to tell anyone - its just a way to test! If it seems important to you to
tell someone you trust, do it, and tap while you do; there is often great healing in sharing something
that we felt guilty or ashamed about with others; just remember that the person may not respond in
the way that youd like them to, so pick your audience selectively.
If it still tested OK (your intensity when you think remains zero) do a celebration dance and pick the
next thing you feel guilty or ashamed about!
The intensity is usually zero or quite low at this point; if not, thats ok and youll want to start
digging for aspects see next page.
Complete each of these sentences in at least 5 10 different ways; just write down the first thing
that comes to mind: