COMES NOW petitioner, by the undersigned counsel and
unto this Honorable Court, most respectfully alleges:
1. Petitioner is of legal age, Filipino citizen and a resident of
Baang, Catigbian, Bohol while respondent is likewise of legal age, Filipino citizen and a resident of Tagbilaran City, Bohol, where he may be served with summons, orders and other legal processes of this Honorable Court;
2. Respondent and petitioner are husband and wife, having
been legally married on February 14, 2013 at St. Joseph Cathedral in Tagbilaran City, a copy of their marriage certificate is hereto attached as Annex A;
3. A child was born in wedlock, Jones Lim, aged 3 years old,
a copy of his Certificate of Live Birth is hereto attached as Annex B;
4. In retrospect, petitioner and respondent were classmates
at Holy Name University where they both studied law. Back then, respondent had a girlfriend but things did not work out for them so they broke up. Petitioner and respondent met again in 2010. This time, they were already lawyers and were both starting out in the field. They decided to put up a law office together;
5. Aside from being law associates, they were likewise
attracted to each other physically. Initially, petitioner did not want to be with respondent for she knew of his reputation as a playboy, having had a long list of girlfriends. However, respondent was persistent in pursuing the petitioner. They finally got into a relationship in 2012 and frequently indulged in sexual intimacies which resulted in petitioners pregnancy;
6. Upon knowledge of the pregnancy, respondent did not
communicate with petitioner for two weeks. Eventually, he proposed marriage to petitioner. They were married in a simple church ceremony in 2013;
7. Unprepared to face the rigors of married life, the newly-
weds lived together. Their first few months of being married was marred by frequent fights and disagreements as they were constantly at odds, no one giving in for the other. Respondent frequently stays with his parents instead of going home to his conjugal home with petitioner. He was also a party-goer and was almost always drunk;
8. Three months after getting married or in May 2013,
respondent flew to Paris for a 6-month vacation even if petitioner needed him as she was about to give birth, a copy of his plane ticket to Paris is hereto attached as Annex C;
9. Despite financial support coming from respondent,
petitioner felt uncomfortable living on her own with their child. She left their conjugal home and went back to her parents;
10. Before his tourist visa expired, respondent came back
to the Philippines but refused to live again with petitioner. He was resigned to just visiting his baby boy from time to time and giving financial support to their child;
11. Time went by with the parties living separately on their
own. It became convenient for both to live separately as they would constantly fight when they are together. They maintained a casual relationship in their law office;
12. This arrangement went on for about a year until
petitioner took the courage to talk with respondent and they both agreed to try and live together again as a family. Unfortunately, since both of them distrust each other, they frequently had arguments and disagreements. Respondent was always out with his friends, drinking and getting wasted. Even when their child got sick and was hospitalized, respondent chose to party leaving petitioner to fend for and take care of their child alone. Worse, petitioner found out that respondent had a lover in Paris, who had remained in touch with him. And worst, respondent had not severed his relationship with her, thus, the woman maintained communications with him. This was the last straw that broke the camels back, so to speak; 13. To date, they have gone separate ways and there is no hope for reconciliation;
14. Petitioner, convinced of the futility of her efforts,
decided that she deserves to start life anew with feelings of hope for a brighter future since there is obviously no hope that respondent can cope up with his obligations as husband;
15. Petitioner engaged a clinical psychologist who
conducted a psychological evaluation on the ability of respondent to cope up with the essential obligations of marriage. After evaluation, respondent was found to be psychologically incapacitated to perform the essential marital obligations of marriage borne from his lack of maturity, which affected his sense of rational judgment and responsibility. These traits reveal his psychological incapacity under Art. 36 of the New Family Code of the Philippines and is more appropriately labeled Narcissistic personality disorder, a copy of the Psychological Assessment Report is hereto attached as Annex D;
16. Petitioner is filing this petition to declare her marriage a
nullity. Respondent showed no concern for his obligation towards his family in violation of Art. 68 of the New Family Code which provides that husband and wife are obliged to live together, observe mutual love, respect and fidelity and render mutual help and support. Petitioner is also filing this case under Art. 36 of the same Code as the respondent manifested apparent personality disorder and psychological dysfunction, i.e. his lack of effective sense of rational judgment and responsibility, otherwise peculiar to infants, by being psychologically immature and failing to perform his responsibilities as husband;
17. That said psychological defect or illness is grave,
serious and incurable and existed prior to the marriage and became manifest during its existence.
PRAYER
WHEREFORE, premises considered, it is most respectfully
prayed that the marriage of the petitioner with the respondent be declared a nullity. It is likewise prayed that if and when parties are able to enter into an extrajudicial settlement as to custody and joint parenting, the same be adopted by this Court and in the absence thereof, a fair and just settlement of their rights and obligations as parents be adjudicated by this Honorable Court. We pray for such other reliefs, just and equitable under the premises. Tagbilaran City. January 21, 2017.
Atty. Antonette Janvy Sumampong
Counsel for Petitioner 0504 Tamblot Street, Tagbilaran City, Bohol IBP No. 764814 PTR No. 5448574 Roll No. 33476 MCLE Compliance II 0009328 Dtd. December 2, 2016
VERIFICATION
I, AGNES TEJANO-LIM, of legal age, under oath, states:
01. That I am the petitioner in this case and that I have
caused the preparation of the same petition;
02. That I attest to the truth of all the allegations in the
same petition of my own personal knowledge;
03. In compliance to the Supreme Court circular against
forum shopping, I hereby certify that: a) I have not commenced any other action or proceeding involving the same issues before the Supreme Court, or Court of Appeals, or any other tribunal or agency; b) to the best of my knowledge, no such action or proceedings is pending in the Supreme Court, Court of Appeals or any other tribunal or agency; c) If I should learned that similar action or proceeding has been filed or is pending before such tribunals or bodies, I shall report that fact within five (5) days therefrom to the court of agency where the original pleading and sworn certification have been filed.
AGNES TEJANO-LIM
Affiant
SUBSCRIBED and SWORN to before me this _____ day of
___________, affiant exhibited to me her ______________ dated ________________ issued in _________________. Doc. No. ________ Page No. ________ Book No. _______ Series of 2009.