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Its true how love can bring pleasure and bliss in anyones life and
that it motivates people to achieve many things, but love can also
blind them. Being blind, in this case, means that someone is
unable or unwilling to perceive or understand. When a woman is
brutally beaten by the husband she loves, she fails to see all the
harm he has done to her physically and emotionally. Many
reasons for this are probable. For one thing, she fixates only on
the positives such as all the materials goods he has provided or
the generous acts he has performed for her. She sees that he has
a well-paying job that keeps a roof over their heads and food in
their stomachs, or, that they have kids together. The only reason
she lives with her hopeless plight is because she wants her
children to grow up with a father figure still in their lives. Author
Rabbi Julius Gordon once said, Love is not blind, it sees more,
not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less. But
doesnt love if it wants to see less, cause itself to be blind? In my
opinion, it does. Because her love overlooks all the wrong hes
doing, it is choosing to be blind. But is not love supposed to be
beautiful? Is not love supposed to make someone happy? If so,
why are so many women pulling back from getting help and from
doing something about their situations as victims? Many of these
unfortunate women know what the outcome would be if they tried
to do something about their situations. For a battered woman,
because she knows what will happen, she chooses to turn away
from seeking help. Women in situations like these are neglecting
to see the truth. Love is blind if the person in love is refusing to
see the things that are going wrong or hurting the relationship. In
the Holy Bible, 1 Corinthians, Chapter 13 verse 6, states, It (love)
does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth.
My mother has a friend with whom she grew up. Her friend got
married and had four kids with this man. Over the years of this
womans relationship, her husband verbally and physically abused
her and their children. No one really knew what was going on
because she never said anything to anyone, not even my mother.
All everyone knew was that she would mysteriously have these
bruises on her arms, face, and body. It wasnt until sixteen years
into the relationship when she finally found the strength to leave
him. She told my mother what was going on, but my mother
already had an idea of what was happening. My mothers friend
took her husband to court for a divorce and received full custody
of their children.
Romantic love can blind a person, but no one can easily tell or
justify if this infatuation is real love when a person is swept away
at point blank. Because of how our longings and hopes can blind
us in love, we must compensate by never losing sight of ones
individuality and by always being true to oneself. My mothers
friend took sixteen years to realize her big picture. It was hard to
see because the truth can hurt and humans can so easily deny
truth in the name of love, even when the truth is right in our faces.
It takes time to realize the obvious: in order to find love, one must
live in truth first.
Works Cited
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Culture affects Domestic Violence
Domestic violence is the act of violence or abuse against a
person living in ones household, especially a member of ones
immediate family (Dictionary.com). I believe that domestic
violence is affected by culture. In many communities, domestic
violence is not a big topic, but to many women in different
cultures; it is an event many women deal with everyday. Domestic
violence is more common in other cultures and culture can affect
womens rights. Throughout many cultures around the world,
domestic violence is present among their communities, and even
the domestic violence rate in America is higher than other cultures
that have respect for womens rights, such as Spain. In foreign
cultures there is a higher domestic violence rate, such as the
Philippines.
Culture to me is the way a person acts based on the beliefs that
have been taught to a person by their family while growing up.
Peoples actions today are based on how they were raised. The
culture in the Philippines is very different then the culture in
America. Women in the Philippine culture are treated very
different from the American cultures. The domestic violence rate
in the Philippines is becoming a serious problem throughout the
country (U.S. Department of State). Many men in the Philippines
feel as if their wives have no say over anything that goes on in the
household. Many men in the Philippines feel they are beholden to
control their wives. Women have a stereotype that they are to be
inferior to the men in the culture. In the culture this is what many
men think is acceptable in society. This is a leading cause of
domestic violence. Some men say that it will never happen again,
but abuse is more likely to occur after it has happened one time
before. Women who are in violent relationships keep the signs
and symptoms uncharted from the eyes of family and friends.
Domestic violence is caused from the way Philippine men were
raised to relegate the women in their home. Also, women who are
living through domestic violence feel they have lost all of their
rights.
In places such as the Philippines, where women have fewer rights
than women in America there is a high presence of domestic
violence. When the country that a woman lives in doesnt
acknowledge that their rights are being violated, some may feel
like they cant avoid domestic violence. Young girls who are
exposed to domestic violence have a greater chance of becoming
involved in an abusive relationship when they are older (Safe
horizon). The women in the Philippines go through physical,
emotional, and sexual abuse. Many women are beat and sexually
abused, mostly from their husbands. There are a number of
reasons why they go through the abuse, a few are that they
cannot get away from the abuse, they feel they arent worthy of
anything better, or they think it is normal for the abuse to occur.
Womens rights in the Philippines are not respected as the mens
rights are (U.S. Department of State). The women living in cities
in the Philippines formed the Philippine Women Commission
(PWC) to help women who are suffering from domestic violence
and abuse from men (U.S. Department of State). In the
Philippines culture the women look as though they are inferior to
the men in their society. There are organizations in America that
are trying to help the women in the Philippines. In other countries
there are organizations to help women affected by domestic
violence.
In some English cultures and Hispanic cultures there is a high
respect for women, but there is still domestic violence throughout
their communities. Some people say that countries with a low
respect for women have a higher rate of domestic violence, but
they are misinformed because domestic violence is present in
every community, every country, and in every type of culture in the
world. One in four women will experience domestic violence in
their lifetime (Safe Horizon). Domestic violence victims are found
throughout many cultures. There are many different organizations
around the world that help women in situations where they are
being abused. Women around the world want to be free of
oppression and domestic violence. According to the (national
network to end domestic violence), in 2012 about 64,324
domestic violence victims received help from organizations
dealing with domestic violence. There is even domestic violence
in our own country, and women here have more rights than most
women do in other countries. In Spain, there have been an
increasing number of domestic violence cases each year (Tumbit,
2013). America has many organizations that are helping women
who have experienced domestic violence regain their confidence
and move forward with their life. The Prime Minister Jose Luis
Rodriguez Zapatero of Spain has made fighting domestic violence
one of his top priorities (BBC NEWS). Zapatero has implemented
a Zero Tolerance for the perpetrators in domestic violence
(DW.DE). In Spain in 2010, 73 women died by the hands of their
partners, which is substantial amount less than the statistics in
2010 for America. Culture does have an effect on the domestic
violence rate because the domestic violence rates in the
Philippines are much higher than America.
Edouard Manet once said: The attacks of which I have been the
object have broken the spring of life in me People dont realize
what it feels like to be constantly insulted. Domestic violence
affects many women in many different cultures. Culture does
affect the amount of domestic violence cases in many countries.
Domestic violence is a terrible thing that happens to many women
in certain cultures around the world, and should be a top priority
to stop. Countries that have a low respect for womens right have
a higher percent of domestic violence cases. Domestic violence is
present throughout the world, and it could even be happening to
many individuals loved ones. The domestic violence rate in
America is higher than other cultures that have respect for
womens rights, such as Spain. Do you know how common
domestic violence is in your culture?
Works Cited
"2010 Human Rights Report: Philippines." U.S. Department of
State. U.S. Department of State, 8 Apr. 2011. Web. 18 Nov.
2013. .
"At the end of myselfat the feet of Jesus: What abuse has
marred, Jesus can make new." At the end of myselfat the feet of
Jesus What abuse has marred Jesus can make new. N.p., n.d.
Web. 20 Nov. 2013. .
"Capital Area 24 hour Crisis Line: (225) 389-3001 or 1 (800) 541-
9706." Domestic Violence Statistics. N.p., n.d. Web. 18 Nov.
2013. .
"Domestic Violence Statistics." Domestic Violence Statistics. N.p.,
n.d. Web. 18 Nov. 2013. .
"Domestic Violence: Statistics & Facts." Safe Horizon ::. N.p., n.d.
Web. 18 Nov. 2013. .
"Domestic violence in Spain on the rise." Tumbit.com. N.p., n.d.
Web. 18 Nov. 2013. .
"NC Summary." National Network to end domestic violence. N.p.,
n.d. Web. 18 Nov. 2013. .
NYTIMES. "Spain Struggles to Tackle Domestic Violence."
Nytimes.com. N.p., n.d. Web. 18 Nov. 2013. .
"National Summary." National Network. N.p., n.d. Web. 18 Nov.
2013. .
"Philippine Commission on Women." Statistics on violence
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"Spain Tackles Domestic Violence." DW.DE. N.p., n.d. Web. 20
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"Spain hits back at abuse culture ." BBC News. BBC, 11 Oct.
2004. Web. 20 Nov. 2013. .
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Child Domestic Workers in the Philippines
Child Domestic Workers in the Philippines
Introduction
Children are considered the future of our countries, with their own
rights, especially to education. However, as seen by this story, this
is simply not the case everywhere. While we are living in the 21st
century many people simply assume that slavery is a thing of the
past, especially child labour, but as you will see, this is far from
the truth.
According to Anti-Slavery International, a child domestic worker is
defined as any person under the age of eighteen who works in
households other than their own, doing domestic chores, caring
for children, tending the garden, running errands and helping their
employers run their small businesses, amongst other tasks.
The Victims
While there are many reasons as to why children enter the world
of domestic work, the main reason always seems to come back to
the fact that they need to support and sustain themselves and
their families financially and no education or qualifications are
required. Children will also voluntarily start work as a domestic
worker in order to escape domestic violence or from a sense of
duty to their parents.
Child domestic workers are also often controlled and isolated from
their family and friends. Many employers will not allow visits and
those that do tend to discourage them. Also, many child domestic
workers simply do not get paid as their accommodation and food
is seen as enough. As a result, many domestic workers end up
prostituting themselves simply to get enough money to eat.
On the 16th of June 2011, the ILOs new labour Convention No.
189, Convention on Decent Work for Domestic Workers,
established the first global standards for domestic workers
worldwide. This convention ensures that domestic workers have
the same rights as those available to other workers, such as a rest
of at least 24 consecutive hours every week, and reasonable
hours of work (Global March Against Child Labour, 2010). The
Philippines ratified the convention in August 2012, bringing this
international treaty into legal force in the Philippines (The
Philippine Star, 2012).
Government Actions
Anti-Slavery International said that when asked what they want for
their futures, child domestic workers continuously say that they
want security and a better life. They tend to want to work in roles
that help others, such as social workers and nurses, but most of
all, they want to show other child domestic workers that they can
in fact be successful. However a lack of education and low self-
esteem often means fewer options for them and they continue in a
life of domestic labour.
Conclusion