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Dear Mr. Kushner
Frisch alums write to fellow graduate Jared Kusher about immigration ban
JOANNE PALMER
T
he Frisch School in Para-
mus, an Orthodox high
school, draws students
from all over the area, and
its graduates often retain a strong bond
to the school and to other graduates.
They also graduate the school, they
say, with a strong understanding of Jew-
ish values and a deep connection to the
Jewish community. Nava Friedman Gabrielle Kaplan
Graduates leave the school and go on
to life in the wider world with a wide range of someone who is an alumnus of our school
political beliefs and affiliations. and it is not a huge school, Ms. Fried-
One of the schools most well-known man said. This is someone who has had
recent alumni is Jared Kushner, who grew the opportunity to get into the highest level Frisch School graduate Jared Kushner serves as a senior adviser to his father-in-
up in Livingston and graduated from high of government, and have the kind of influ- law, President Donald J. Trump.
school in 1999, going on to Harvard College, ence that very few of us have. So how can we
NYU Law School, the New York Observer, real harness this connection that we have, in this into each other at various meetings and ral- refugees into the country. Those things are
estate investments, and eventually the White political atmosphere, to provide a message lies. Ms. Kaplan thought the letter was a great connected. As a people who have a personal
House, where he is a senior adviser (at 36 that we feel needs voicing? idea; she, Ms. Friedman, and other friends all connection to refugee status, it is something
these things are relative) to his father-in-law, In the particular moment, we were par- posted it. In a week, it amassed almost 200 impossible to overlook. Its not just in history
President Donald J. Trump. (Had he been a ticularly concerned with the immigration signatures, mostly from alumni, most of them books. We have seen it ourselves, and so we
few years younger, he probably would have and refugee ban, she continued. It seems Mr. Kushners age or younger. Some former have to take a stand.
gone to the Rae Kushner Yeshiva High School like a really good opportunity to make our teachers, administrators, and parents signed Its not just something that can happen,
in Livingston, funded by his family and voices heard, and particularly because they as well. There also are some oxymoronically or that might happen. Its something that has
named after his grandmother, but it did not are coming from a community that has ties anonymous signatures. happened to us, and so we are in a unique
open in time for him.) to Jared. We wanted to get our values across, and position to raise awareness of it.
Some other Frisch graduates (although cer- Aside from all the glamour and the con- they come straight from the Torah, Ms. There are some groups in the Orthodox
tainly not all of them statistics are not avail- nections, in some way, when I read profiles Friedman said. It talks about how we are community, defined broadly, particularly
able) see Mr. Trumps presidency as a direct of Jared, I feel like I recognize him, she said. supposed to care for the stranger. Our coun- in the Northeast, that are working on ways
contradiction of many of the Jewish values He is representative of us in some ways, so try took care of our parents and grandparents to oppose harsh treatment of refugees and
they were taught and by which they have I think it behooves us to make this kind of who came here, and then there were the oth- immigrants, she added.
chosen to live. They are most upset by the statement. ers who didnt and suffered horribly because Ms. Friedman, Ms. Kaplan, and their
presidents executive order, which attempted The letter is polite, respectful, and short. It of it. That made us particularly concerned friends were able to find some of Mr. Kush-
to keep out visitors from seven Muslim-major- does not mention Mr. Trump by name, and about what is going on. ners email addresses, although no one knows
ity countries indefinitely, other immigrants talks only about the immigration ban, and The Jewish education I received both at if he still looks at any of those accounts. Mr.
for various periods of time. It has been called how it conflicts with Jewish values. home and at school always had as one of its Kushner, unsurprisingly, has not responded
a Muslim ban, caused havoc and great Ms. Friedman talked about the letter with most fundamental elements the idea of lov- to the open letter from Frisch graduates, any
fear at the nations airports, and was both some Frisch friends, including her class- ing the stranger, Ms. Kaplan said. It is all more than he has to the one from Harvard
stayed and then withdrawn. On Tuesday, the mate Gabrielle Kaplan, who also grew up in over the Bible. That is part and parcel of why grads. But, the signers think, maybe there is
Department of Homeland Security issued Teaneck. Ms. Friedman and Ms. Kaplan both we are taking a stand against the executive some chance that it might make a difference,
new rules that if left untouched will lead to live in New York now, but they kept running order and coming out in favor of welcoming and they are obligated to try.
more restrictions and deportations.
Mr. Kushners Frisch classmates were not
This is the letter that Frisch alumni sent to fellow graduate Jared Kushner, class of 1999
the only ones to have been taken aback by
his father-in-laws policies, and most par- Dear Mr. Kushner, fresh in our minds as we see refugees from some of the most
ticularly by the immigration ban. One of his It is a rare opportunity to have you, a fellow member of the
war-torn countries on this planet barred from entering our
country.
classmates at Harvard, like Mr. Kushner the Frisch School community, play such a critical role in guiding
The Torah repeatedly teaches us to love and welcome the
grandson of Holocaust survivors, wrote an the future of our country.
stranger, for we too were once strangers in Egypt. In fact,
open letter to Mr. Kushner, asking him to use As fellow graduates, students, parents and educators of
the central holiday on the Jewish calendar is dedicated to
the Frisch School and proud members of the American Jew-
his influence to help repeal the ban. That commemorating this fact. We implore you, as a Jew and as
ish community, we are alarmed by the Presidents Executive
open letter went viral and amassed many sig- Order barring immigrants and refugees from seven Muslim
a graduate of an institution that instilled you with Jewish
values, to exercise the influence and access you have to an-
natures very quickly. majority nations. Your family and all of ours know too well
nals of power to ensure others dont suffer the same fate as
One of those graduates, Nava Friedman, what can happen when America shuts its doors to those
millions of our co-religionists. We ask you to ensure they gain
who grew up in Teaneck, where her parents most in need.
the second chance our grandparents received to succeed
Like you, many of us are the children, grandchildren and
still live, and was in the class of 2008, wrote and thrive in America.
great-grandchildren of those who escaped to this country
a similar open letter to Mr. Kushner. Where when the lands of their birth promised almost certain death;
Respectfully,
the Harvard letter drew on American values, like those of your grandparents, many of their parents, sib-
however, hers drew its inspiration from the lings and extended families did not make it to our shores and The Undersigned Members of the Frisch School Community:
Jewish tradition. perished in the Holocaust. The memory of the St. Louis rings [A list of names follows]
I just starting thinking that here is
Taking courage
Bnai Yeshuruns Project Ometz aims to help families facing mental illness
Banji Ganchrow children help with their able to discuss what has are supported by their mental health pro-
mental illness with parents worked for them. Rabbi fessionals, but parents often do not have
Mental illness has never been an easy who are starting that painful Zahtz also was very clear anyone to support them. Parents are reluc-
topic. process. in saying, We will only tant to discuss their own struggles, often
Although many people suffer from After speaking to many match up people whose focusing only on the needs of their child.
mental illness, the stigma attached to it local day school principles children already are under As a community, if we dont know what
prevents people from discussing it with and mental health profes- the care of a mental health is going on with the family, we cant help
others. As a result, not only is mental ill- sionals, and learning that professional. The parents them, Rabbi Zahtz said. But the fact that
ness devastating, it can be isolating to both many children are affected, seeking support whose Parents are slow and hesitant to come
patients and their families. Rabbi Zahtz recognized that children do not have to forward, really illustrates the need for a
Rabbi Ari Zahtz, the assistant rabbi at something had to be done. be getting counseling, program such as this one.
Congregation Bnai Yeshurun, an Ortho- The bigger picture is open- although one hope is that On Monday, February 27, Dr. David Pel-
dox synagogue in Teaneck, is trying to ing the conversation and they will consider the ben- covitz, a well-known child psychologist,
change that. addressing the stigma, he Rabbi Ari Zahtz efits of such professional will speak at a teleconference, open to
Together with other members of the said. One day, we are hop- help eventually will go the public, sponsored by Congregation
community and guided by mental health ing it wont be so hard to be open. Though to the website and detail their situation. Bnai Yeshurun, called You Are Not Alone
professionals, Rabbi Zahtz has started he knows that Project Ometz isnt the only They then will be paired with parents who Parenting a Child With Mental Health
Project Ometz, with the goal of changing solution, he is hoping it will be a positive are under the care of a mental health pro- Challenges. Dr. Pelcovitz is an instructor
the way our community views mental ill- step forward. fessional but want to lend support. And in in pastoral counseling at Yeshiva Univer-
ness. (The Hebrew word ometz translates Project Ometz will provide a nonjudg- the process, it will give them courage to sitys Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological
to courage, in acknowledgment of the tre- mental ear; parents will know that some- find the strength needed to support, help, Seminary, and the director of psychology
mendous courage it takes to come forward one will listen to them and help them and heal their child. at North Shore HospitalNYU School of
to ask for help.) The goal of Project Ometz devise strategies to cope with everyday Rabbi Zahtz thinks that support from Medicine. He has worked with Jewish com-
is to pair parents who have been successful living. Parents who have and continue to other parents is a good first step in help- munities in the United States, Europe, and
in navigating the process of getting their live with a child with mental illness will be ing these families. As the patients, children See Courage page 59
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been designated an enemy of
the best friend the country
the American people by the has. It is far from perfect,
president of the United States
when I spoke to Ari Goldman last week.
but it serves as an essential
Mr. Goldman, a professor of journal- check on government abuse
ism at the Columbia School of Journal-
ism, is a former religion reporter for the
and corruption.
New York Times. Next Sunday morning,
March 5, he will speak at Temple Beth has changed radically, he said. They When someone says Time changes
Rishon in Wyckoff about how the Times just got rid of their regional copy desks. for me when I light the Shabbat can-
and other news organizations cover Now, they organize by things like break- dles, I can sort of prove that it doesnt
Judaism and Israel. ing news and features. actually change. Its the same as it was
Complaining about the New York The Times is a whole new entity from before and after. But if youre willing to
Times long has been a hobby for Jews and what it was even five years ago. The focus add empathy and see the world from
others. Donald Trump, however, broke is no longer on the paper. The focus is on the point of view of the believer, you
new ground in taking his media criticism the web presence. Far more people read can tell their story better. Empathy is
to the White Houses twitter bully pul- it on the web than in the paper. he said. a value in all reporting, but I think its
pit (Richard Nixons attacks on the press Ari Goldman But the changes dont alter the core of greater importance when you write
were shared only with confidantes, the principle of the Times: Now more than about religion.
underlings who compiled his enemies in the Constitution, he suggested that in ever people have to understand the Religion isnt always provable, and
lists, and his recording system) and in a sense the New York Times is a public importance of getting facts, he said. its not always backed up by facts. Its
borrowing harrowing language from such trust. Only someone who doesnt under- The biggest responsibility of journalists a point of view, and you want to allow
successful foes of the press as Joseph Sta- stand its role would call it the enemy. is to tell the facts accurately. Thats the people to have their point of view. You
lin and Joseph Goebbels. Mr. Goldman said his talk will not be bread and butter. People have to know can question it but you have to see it
political. But the political environment, the difference between truth and lies. from the point of view of the believer,
he said, is proving good for his profes- Ultimately, you cant get away with he said.
sion and for his journalism school. lies forever, Mr. Goldman said. Are there limits to such empathy?
People are energized to follow the And what about the realm of reli- Yes, Mr. Goldman said. I think
Now more news more and to want to change the gion, which relies on the evidence of if someone is doing harm, if a certain
world and they believe they can do that things not seen, as Hebrews 11:1 puts it? practice is harming people, you would
than ever through journalism, he said. Thats How do you cover religion for a secular still try to see it from the believers
people have to helping our enrollment numbers. newspaper? point of view, but you have to call out
Recent years have seen a decline in As it happens, Mr. Goldman teaches a the abuse.
understand the the number of journalism students, class on just that topic.
importance of matching the steep drop in journalism Theres a great term that I use: Who: Ari Goldman
jobs. Tens of thousands of journalism empathetic objectivity, he said. Jour-
getting facts. jobs have been lost, he said. Its cer- nalists are supposed to be objective, to
What: All the religion thats fit to
print: How The New York Times
tainly impacted our school. just tell the story down the middle, to and other news organizations cover
In the wake of the presidents Friday Mr. Goldman is a graduate of Yeshiva tell both sides. When you write about Judaism and Israel.
Twitter attack against the New York College and Columbia Journalism religion you have to add a heavy dose Where: Temple Beth Rishon, 585
Times and four television networks, Mr. School. He started at the Times as a of empathy. You have to understand the Russell Ave., Wyckoff.
Goldman emailed that the New York copy boy. For much of his two decades believers point of view even if it its not When: Sunday, March 5, 9:45 a.m.
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Joanne Palmer
S
o what is kabbalah, really?
Is it a spiritual fad that cycles in and out of fash-
ion, catching on in the non-Jewish world, snaring
celebrities like Madonna before they discard it for
the next thing?
Is it the subject of scholarly tomes that are groundbreak-
ing in the academic world, full of extraordinary historical
detail and insight, but far too dry for the mass market?
I
f Tikvah Wieners hopes come to
fruition, a new modern Orthodox
coed high school will open in Ber-
gen County in September 2018.
Its a school that aims to answer the
question: What if school was more likelife?
Life, after all, does not come in 45- or
90-minute periods. Life does not sepa-
rate out the language-based aspects of
your activities from the mathematical,
your secular activities from your reli-
gious identity.
Life is often a group activity.
Ms. Wiener, who lives in Teaneck, is
a former head of the English depart-
ment at the Frisch School in Paramus, Tikvah Wiener Rabbi Michael Bitton Raz Haramati
now the countys only coed Jewish high
school. She is now finishing up her He said that with a growing number stuff. Youre the product. and a very meaningful way of learning.
third year as chief academic officer at of students in the day school system, Ms. Wieners partnership with Rabbi The day is going to be divided into lon-
the Magen David High School in Brook- theres enough demand. I think theres Bitton began years ago, long before she ger blocks of times, giving kids a chance
lyn. Magen Davids director of instruc- room for four great high schools in our went to Magen David, when he called to to really get into their learning, whether
tional technology, Rabbi Michael Bitton community, each with its own position. ask about the interdisciplinary work she Judaic studies or secular. Theyll be
of Lakewood, will be her partner in the Its good for the marketplace. Hopefully was doing at Frisch. able to make things that are important
venture. When this school year ends, what it does is it makes all the products At the Idea School, they will be co- for them, whether art or STEM that
they will leave Magen David to devote even better. heads of school. stands for science, technology, engi-
themselves full time to creating what We want to be part of the community We chose that title deliberately, neering, and math or other projects
theyre calling the Idea School. Idea and contribute to the community, Ms. she said. One of our aims is to create they want to create.
is an acronym for innovation, design, Wiener said. To that end, she has been a collaborative environment. We want Hebrew acquisition is going to be
entrepreneurship, and the arts. meeting with principals of day schools teachers to be co-teaching. So our lead- a major focus of the school. Well be
that will feed into the school, and of the building chesed into the school day,
high schools with which it will compete. she continued.
The school will not neglect content and One of my concerns is how are we
s a t h t e r
d ay h e c
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Were looking for
skills such as
teamwork,
collaboration,
iteration towards a
solution, pulling in
from diverse areas of
knowledge and
ability. These need to
be primary skills.
with his experience in the business world, where
he works in finance. Were looking for skills such
as teamwork, collaboration, iteration towards a
solution, pulling in from diverse areas of knowl-
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edge and ability, he said of his workplace. These
need to be primary skills. People are driven by fol-
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there as well. Fundamentally we believe the study of
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skills, but it all needs to be done from an integrated
Jewish perspective, one that will lead to students more
passionately connected to their Judaism. Solomon Schechter
He said such a model is rare in Jewish education.
In fact, theyre studying a Presbyterian school
Sunday Day School of
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learning for an idea of how such an integrated reli-
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ive Bergen County women vis-
ited Israel earlier this month as
part of the Jewish Federations of
North Americas Heart to Heart
mission. The mission included 68 women
from 19 communities across the country.
In addition to four packed days visiting
projects funded by JFNA and partner orga-
nizations such as the Jewish Agency for
Israel, World ORT, and the Joint Distribu-
tion Committee, some of the local partici-
pants spent time in Nahariya, the Jewish
Federation of Northern New Jerseys P2G
Partnership City in the north.
It was a special visit, as we were able
to spend some quality time with the folks
on the ground who run the programs that
are directly supported by JFNNJ, said
Dana Post Adler of Tenafly, a board mem-
ber of JFNNJ and the National Womens
Philanthropy Board of Jewish Federations
of North America and co-president of the
Womens Philanthropy Board of JFNNJ.
We had an emotional visit at the train- From left, Gale Bindelglass, Suzette Diamond, Dana Post Adler, Franci Steinberg, and Lisa Hecht overlook Jerusalem.
ing center within Nahariyas firehouse,
where we presented one fireman, Gil Bar- adults, and JAFIs emergency assistance
sano, with a photograph and plaque of his to families in the Jerusalem area who lost
son Adar, who was killed in action during their homes in the November forest fires.
Operation Protective Edge and who had I got to see and do many things, and
also been a volunteer firefighter in Naha- meet many people that I wouldnt have
riya, Ms. Adler reported. The training cen- had I been on a tourist trip, she said.
ter was funded by JFNNJ. Being with Dana on this very special
We visited Bayit Cham Warm House journey was like having my own personal
where we met two successful young scholar in residence.
women who had used the services of the Ms. Hecht said her most moving expe-
home when they were considered youth rience was being asked to lead the She-
at risk during their teenage years. We met hecheyanu prayer with three other first-
with a Hungarian Holocaust survivor who timers as their bus reached Jerusalem
told us her story at the survivors group at sunset. I will always remember that
that our dollars support, and we toured moment: my first trip to Israel, arriving
a small food pantry and thrift shop for in Jerusalem the City of Gold and
needy families. Having lunch by the Medi- reciting this ancient prayer surrounded
terranean with the P2G leadership and the by so many amazing women.
deputy mayor, my friend Orna Starkmann, It was the fifth Heart to Heart Mission
is always a special treat. for Gale S. Bindelglass of Franklin Lakes,
Ms. Adler recruited the other local and her 13th trip to Israel in 11 years. She
participants. One of them, Lisa Hecht of said that on every trip she comes away
Tenafly, had never been to Israel before. thoroughly impressed by the spiritual,
The best part of the trip for me was agricultural, and technical wonderment The women attended the group bnot mitzvah of these Ethiopian girls. They
seeing Israel through my dear friend of Israel and feels romantically in love have come a long way in their lives and it was so wonderful to share this day
Lisas eyes for the first time davening at with this complicated and glorious land. with them and their families, Franci Steinberg said.
the Kotel, walking through the Old City, On last years mission she marked
and soaking up the connection that we her adult bat mitzvah alongside Russian the Holocaust Memorial Committee, and Iraqi dishes for needy neighborhood
all have to the history of our people, women who spent a lot of their lives board member of JFNNJ and Jewish Fam- children, a program the federation sup-
Ms. Adler said. I also hope that she was not even knowing they were Jewish, she ily Service of Northern New Jersey. She ports through JAFI and JDC.
impressed by all the good work we do said. This year she held one of the four built a teaching kitchen in her home to While enjoying the lunch we all
through our federation. poles of the chuppah over a group of host outreach events for the Jewish com- made together, quite to my surprise
Ms. Hecht said she indeed was Ethiopian-Israeli bnot mitzvah. munity revolving around her philosophy after spending real quality time talking
impressed by projects such as Masira, Ms. Bindelglass has many communal of food, love, and gratitude. with the chefs running the event I was
a JDC program to help integrate and affiliations: past co-president of Womens Thats why one of her favorite experi- tapped on the shoulder, asked to stand
empower disabled Arab-Israelis in their Philanthropy, immediate past chair of ences during Heart to Heart was cook- up, and they bestowed me with their
communities; the Ethiopian National the Jewish Community Relations Coun- ing alongside grandmothers in Petach apron, Ms. Bindelglass said. I was basi-
Project, which runs a variety of support cil, past chair of the Brotherhood Sister- Tikvah who earn an income preparing cally named Top Chef of a group of 70
programs for Ethiopian-Israeli youth and hood Interfaith Committee, member of traditional Moroccan, Tunisian, and women, and they asked me to go home
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Based on the best-selling Polish novel, A Grain of Truth
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lecture series. Organizations. Mr. Hoenlein, a repeat pre-
wenty years ago, while he was The idea was readily accepted. Indeed, senter, spoke in 2010. The talks title then
sitting shiva for his father, Israel on March 19, the Israel and Pearl Stern was Assessing U.S.-Israel Relations: Is the
Stern, Jules Stern of Spring Val- Memorial Lecture series will present its Special Relationship Still Intact?
ley received a visit from Rabbi 20th annual speaker. (When Mr. Sterns Thats the same thing hell be speaking
Moshe Tendler, the religious leader of his mother, Pearl, died some nine years ago, about this time, said Mr. Stern. He and his
late fathers synagogue, the Community her name was added to the program.) wife, Lila, are affiliated with Shaaray Israel,
Synagogue of Monsey. The series, funded by the Stern family, formerly the JCC of Spring Valley. The
My father had been a longtime mem- has brought the community many dis- only difference between the last talk and
ber and president of the congregation, tinguished speakers. This years talk will the upcoming one is the Roman numeral
Mr. Stern said. I asked Rabbi Tendler if feature Malcolm Hoenlein, the executive II in the talks title. Well hear what
he could suggest a continuing memorial vice chairman and CEO of the Conference has taken place in the seven years since
the first lecture, Mr. Stern said. Gener-
ally, about 150 people attend each lecture,
Who: Malcolm Hoenlein, executive vice chairman and CEO of the Conference of hailing not only from Rockland County but
Presidents of American Jewish Organizations
from northern New Jersey, Westchester,
What: Will speak on Assessing U.S.-Israel Relations II: Is the Special Relationship and Long Island as well. Malcolm Hoenlein
Still Intact? His father clearly made a mark on the
When: Sunday, March 19, at 10:15 a.m. community, Mr. Stern said. In May 1997, Schreiber Hebrew Academy of Rockland,
Where: At The Community Synagogue of Monsey, West Maple Avenue at the an op-ed in the Rockland Jewish Reporter full of beautiful things about my father. As
corner of Cloverdale Lane was basically an obit of my dad; and it happens, Rabbi Muschel was the third
Why: For the 20th annual Israel and Pearl Stern Memorial Lecture after dad died I got a letter from Rabbi speaker in the lecture series.
Nachum Muschel, principal of the Adolph SEE MALCOLM HOENLEIN PAGE 20
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writes about how her In the face of pain, trauma, grief, fear,
unimaginable evil, how do people go on?
camps but he loved to talk about the
father rebuilt his life How do they keep going? How do their
hearts keep beating? How do some of them
eventually love, laugh, not forgive, not for-
get, but regain some measure of joy?
He didnt like to
Yes, faith is an answer, but that just kicks talk about the
the question back one step. If its faith,
where does that come from?
camps but he
If there is any one answer, its that there is loved to talk
no one answer. Just as each story of trauma
is different, so is each response to it.
about the
When it comes to the Holocaust and aftermath.
yes, of course, thats where we were going
the fact that anyone was able to go on and aftermath. The survivors were all broken
live is astonishing. How did they do it? This and adrift but they were all alive. They
area has been home to many such survi- didnt know why they survived my father
vors, each with a terrible story, a miracu- did have a little bit of survivors guilt but
lous escape (because everyone who sur- they were alive.
vived had a miraculous escape), and a new Hirsch had been in the camps with an
life. Of course its unlikely that anyone was older cousin, who worked hard to protect
able to shed the past fully all that pain, him. The cousin made it to liberation but
all that loss, all those figurative nightmares died a week later. But Hirsch and later
that for so many people became literal the fictional Daniel in his daughters book
nightmares, every single terrible night. But was liberated by British soldiers, who
so many survivors still managed to rebuild. brought this almost dead boy back to life,
One of those survivors was Hirsch Dor- Iris said. Daniel, like Hirsch, was befriended
bian, who settled in Fair Lawn with his wife by a non-Jew who also was being nursed
and children, and lived there until he died back to functionality by the Brits; this man,
in 2010. His daughter, Iris, an actress-turned- older, mysterious, not completely hon-
journalist, who grew up in Fair Lawn and est, and kind, was central to Hirschs story
returned to live there recently, has turned his and even more to Daniels (because fiction
story into a lightly fictionalized young adult works that way).
novel, An Epiphany In Lilacs. In real life, it was ORT that shaped the
As its title suggests, the book is a story of rest of Hirschs life. When he was in a DP
hope. thats where he went from the hospital
Hirsch Dorbians story began in Liepaja, ORT workers taught him the rudiments of
Latvia; he was born in 1930, arrested on tool and die fabrication.
erev Yom Kippur in 1944, sent first to Kai- Hirsch had a cousin in Paterson, so he
serwald, then to work camps, including landed there when he was 18; one of his sis-
Stolpe, and liberated from Stutthof in 1945. ters, her husband, and their mother went
He wasnt yet 12 when he was arrested, there as well. His other sister was in Brazil.
and he was 14 when he was liberated, Iris Of course, in 1948 there was a draft,
said. His father already had died of natural and the Korean War was brewing. Hirsch
Hirsch Dobian sits on his mothers lap, flanked by his sisters, Reva and Cilla. All
Hirschs parents, Channah and Mendel Dobian. survived the Holocaust.
said. You could spend an entire after- Iris wanted to be either an actress of sleazebags in the music industry,
noon there, just talking with Esther and or a journalist; for reasons she can- she said.
the other ladies. Esther has charisma, not explain now she thought journal- But journalism always beckoned, so
she said, and a great nose for stories. ism would be more intimidating, so eventually Iris applied and was accepted
Iris grew up with these larger-than- after a solo vacation in England that to journalism school at Columbia
life parents, went to local public schools took her to just about every club and partly on the basis of pieces shed writ-
and to the Fair Lawn Jewish Center, and other music venue in Great Britain but ten in the Forward and then became
then to college at NYU. There, I discov- afforded her the time to see nothing the editor of Stage Directions, a journal
ered the downtown New York City club else, including any standard tourists aimed at theater professionals. She was
scene, she said. It was the 1980s, and sites she followed that dream. She using the expertise shed gained in the-
I have no regrets. My best friend and I was mildly successful she got some ater but her parents background was
would study, and then at night wed go to acting fellowships, was accepted into lying fallow.
dance, at Danceteria or the Ritz, where I a theater company at Vassar College, In 2008, Iris wrote a book called
later worked as a cocktail waitress, or the and another in the Barter Theatre in Great Producers. Its a combination
Pyramid, or the Peppermint Lounge. We Virginia, and earned an Equity card. of interviews with successful Broadway
would be out all night, until it closed, at I knew that in the theater there was a producers, including Cameron Mack-
3 or 4 in the morning, and then I would premium on youth, she said, and she intosh and Michael David, and descrip-
have a Shakespeare class at 9. was young. (And also very attractive, tions of the work of either recently dead
You can only do this when youre but that she didnt say.) She also wrote ones, like Joe Papp and David Merrick, or
Esther and Hirsch Dobian young. lyrics for musicians, but there are a lot longer-dead ones, like Florenz Ziegfeld.
Esther and
her children,
Elliot and Iris,
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for Dad.
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acronym for president of the United States. has been supportive of Trump, called on anti-Semitism. top advisers like Stephen Bannon, Ste-
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vaded the organized Jewish community. centers, and said Trump must outline his We appreciate that President Trump it terms identity politics and argues
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Representative Keith Ellison (D-Minn.), running for the
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for Trump.
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explain Trumps hesitation. Peter Bein- bone to or at least trying not to alienate
corner
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attack that he must fend off. I wondered many other Jews believe you, so please
if it was simple belligerence that the make it clear that not only are you not
more you ask this president for some- an anti-Semite but that you reject people
SINAI Purim thing, the more he is likely to say you
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the controversial 2009 Durban Review Conference in criminal activity, said he edited their answers manipula- squelches that information.
Geneva, telling attendees that they should be embar- tively. Horowitz denied the charge and attributed their reac- Lund also noted an increase in sexual harassment in
rassed and ashamed by their anti-Israel bias. The inci- tions to pressure from their superiors. public swimming pools, though she wrote that Horowitzs
dent also was captured on tape by JTA. In an op-ed published by the Svenska Dagblade earlier claims that rape is increasing are false.
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trating Europe across the Aegean Sea, reporting that Liberal Youth of Sweden, criticized Horowitz for relying on rapes in 2015, the average has risen in Sweden by 18 percent
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waved Israeli and ISIS flags on campus; students are But in that same op-ed, Lund also said that Trumps be classified as rape.)
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Missouris governor, Muslim activists launch security and peace to the Jewish-American community
who has undoubtedly been shaken by this event
efforts to repair vandalized Jewish cemetery Greitens cited the concept of tikkun olam, or repair
The Jewish governor of Missouri, Eric Greitens, said he $17,750 as of Tuesday afternoon. of the world, and asked helpers to bring rakes, garbage
will volunteer to help repair a St. Louis-area Jewish cem- The activists said any funds remaining after the cemetery is bags, wash rags, and more cleaning supplies. My team
etery where at least 170 gravestones were toppled during restored will go to repairs for other vandalized Jewish centers. and I will be there tomorrow, and Id invite you to join
the weekend. Through this campaign, we hope to send a united mes- us, he said.
Meanwhile, two Muslim activists have launched a crowd- sage from the Jewish and Muslim communities that there is The governor already had condemned the vandal-
funding campaign to raise $20,000 for repairs. The drive, no place for this type of hate, desecration, and violence in ism on the Chesed Shel Emeth cemetery in University
started by Linda Sarsour and Tarek El-Messidi, brought in America, they wrote. We pray that this restores a sense of City and called on people to fight acts of intolerance
and hate.
Disgusted to hear about the senseless act of desecra-
tion at the cemetery in University City. We must fight
acts of intolerance and hate, Greitens wrote in a tweet
Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey Monday evening after the vandalism was discovered.
Advocacy Day tor, Anita Feigenbaum, told the New York Times that
between 170 and 200 headstones were toppled. Some
were broken. The headstones are in the cemeterys
oldest section, dating from the late 1800s to the mid-
A chance to meet with state legislators in 1900s, she said.
I just am quite shocked it affects so many people,
Bergen, Hudson, Passaic counties so many families, so many generations, Feigenbaum
told the Times. This cemetery was opened in 1893.
to discuss key issues. In an interview with the Huffington Post, Lt. Fred-
rick Lemons of the University City Police Department
declined to classify the vandalism as a hate crime.
Right now, everything is under investigation, Lem-
Including
ons said. Were looking into all possible leads. The
Racism, Anti-Semitism and Security police are reviewing cemetery surveillance cameras,
according to the report.
Senior and Adult Disability Services Greitens, a former Navy SEAL whose military awards
include the Bronze Star, was elected the first Jewish gov-
Educational Funding Parity ernor of Missouri in November.
In a post on Facebook he called the vandalism a
Israel Solutions: NJ Water despicable act of what appears to be anti-Semitic
vandalism.
Jewish Federation of Northern New Jersey to divide us through an act of desecration will find
instead that they unite us in shared determination.
50 Eisenhower Drive, Paramus, NJ 07652 From their pitiful act of ugliness, we can emerge
even more powerful in our faith.
Immediately after the announcement of the vandal-
8:30 Breakfast and Briefing
ism, the Chesed Shel Emeth Society, which owns the
10:00-12:30 Visits to legislators' local district offices cemetery, posted a message on Facebook informing
families with relatives buried there that it is assessing
1:00 Lunch and de-brief
the locations and damage and will post names that are
affected as soon as we are able. Many monuments are
facing down and we wont be able to read the names
Ron Rosensweig, Chair, JCRC and see if there is any damage until we lift the stones.
Stan Goodman, Chair, JCRC Government Relations In an update on Tuesday afternoon, the society said a
Committee local monument company had begun to put the monu-
ments back on their bases. It said it would try to have a
Adele Grodstein & Emma Horowitz comprehensive list of the toppled monuments posted
Event Co-Chairs by Wednesday.
A local church, the All Nations Church, launched an
appeal to help repair the damage caused by the vandals.
Register at www.jfnnj.org/advocacy The church said on its website that it would match up to
Questions? Contact David Silverman $500 in donations to the cemetery.
Destruction of Jewish headstones is a painful act of
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anti-Semitism, said Nancy Lisker, director of the Ameri-
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Arab families in France and beyond, every- politically correct censorship, right-lean-
body knows but will not say that anti-Sem- ing French Jews reacted with outrage over
itism is transmitted with mothers milk. Bensoussans prosecution, using language
Bensoussan later insisted he meant this even more heated than the hyperbolic
as a metaphor for culturally transmitted rhetoric common in their favorite media.
bias. Nevertheless, his words prompted Former Le Monde reporter Yves Mamou
both the Collective Against Islamophobia called the prosecution a jihad against the Anti-Semitism, condemned the prosecu- said that people whose origins are in
in France and the International League truth and Frances new Dreyfus trial, in tion as shocking. Muslim countries have been responsible
against Racism and Anti-Semitism, or reference to the wrongful conviction of a I think its deplorable how LICRA has for most of the hundreds of violent anti-
LICRA, independently to initiate a crimi- Jewish army captain for treason in 1894. lowered itself into this quagmire of a trial Semitic incidents recorded in France in
nal trial against him for allegedly inciting Sammy Ghozlan, founder of the center- against telling the truth, he added. recent years. At least eight people were
racial hatred. right National Bureau of Vigilance Against Ghozlan, a former police commissioner, murdered since 2012 in jihadist attacks on
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centrist circles, exposing the left-leaning LICRA to criticism view with RCJ radio, accusing LICRA of opting for inquisi- who said that anti-Semitism in Muslim areas is in the
by Finkielkraut. tion against Bensoussan. air that one breathes.
Last year, Finkielkraut received the countrys ultimate I call on all activists, followers and sympathizers to draw Laacher and Bensoussan were using metaphors,
academic distinction when he entered the Academie Fran- their own conclusions [about LICRA] from this ignominy, Finkielkraut argued, and neither speak of any biologi-
caise, the countrys pantheon of great thinkers. On January he said. Finkielkraut called the prosecution of Bensoussan cal dimension to the culturally transmitted phenom-
29, Finkielkraut, a member of the dovish JCall a group an exceptionally grave event politically, judicially, and enon they describe. That refutes the incitement to
of French Jews who oppose Israels settlement policy historically. racial hatred charge, he said.
announced he would resign from LICRA over its decision During the interview, Finkielkraut noted that in 2015 But in an election year with the far-right National
Front group leading in the polls, this technicality soon
was eclipsed in the media by the trials broader impli-
cations on free speech and race relations.
The trial is a way of avoiding investigative thought
and any public expression on Islam except for praise,
Finkielkraut said in the RCJ interview.
In a scathing op-ed in Marianne, a weekly, colum-
nist Martine Gozlan called the trial shameful and an
attempt to silence free thought.
Its a recurring accusation by advocates of several
French thinkers, Jews and others, who have paid a
personal and public price recently for speaking out
against Islam or in defense of Israel.
The list includes Michel Houellebecq, who has
received death threats for writing a novel critical of
political Islam; Bernard-Henri Levy, who is reviled by
many members of his left-wing circles for defending
Israel, and Finkielkraut himself, who was ejected vio-
lently from a public gathering recently because he is
a Zionist.
Gozlan also noted that LICRAs fellow plaintiff, the
Collective Against Islamophobia, has been accused
including by LICRA itself of propagating anti-Semitic
disinformation against Prime Minister Manuel Valls,
whose wife is Jewish.
On February 2, Philippe Karsenty, a French Jewish
activist who is deputy mayor of the Paris suburb of
Neuilly-sur-Seine, echoed Gozlans sentiment in an
op-ed he wrote with lawyer Pierre Lurat.
How could a group established to defend Jews
come to assist a judicial jihad waged against a Jew-
ish intellectual specialized in the history of the Holo-
caust? they asked.
It was a withering attack on LICRA, a group founded
by a Jewish journalist in 1926 in an effort to defend
a Jew charged with the Paris killing of a Ukrainian
nationalist. The Ukrainian was responsible for
pogroms in Ukraine in which the Jewish killers rela-
tives died.
Amid growing criticism, the head of LICRA, Alain
Jacubowicz, who is Jewish, broke his silence about the
affair. In an op-ed published earlier this month, he
accused Bensoussan of benefiting extremists with
his statement on Islam.
Jacubowicz had a point.
Bruno Gollnisch, a Holocaust denier and European
Parliament lawmaker for National Front, embraced
Bensoussans cause. In a January 25 op-ed published
on his website, Gollnisch equated Bensoussans trou-
bles to those of Jean-Marie Le Pen, who was sidelined
as the National Fronts leader after many convictions
for hate speech against Jews and Muslims.
There are truths were forbidden to speak, Goll-
nisch wrote about both men.
Bensoussan in turn broke his own silence on the
affair and replied to Jacubowicz in an open letter pub-
lished Monday.
Turning Jacubowiczs claim against him, Bensous-
san wrote that the popularity of a populist, anti-immi-
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listening to adults tell them what they can do and what
they cant do, and theyre bound by different rules. Here,
we put them in charge, we tell them that the future is
theirs, and they respond in very powerful ways.
In an increasingly borderless world, one of the hall-
marks of both the 2017 BBYO convention and the organiza-
tions growth trajectory in general is international expan-
sion. This years gathering saw delegates from Austria and
Poland for the first time.
The power of the BBYO movement comes from the
connectivity that exists between the teens, and a lot of
that connectivity starts at the convention, Grossman
said. The global nature of what we offer is a differentia-
tor in their lives. Theres nowhere else, or very few places,
where a teen from Dallas, Texas, can find a best friend
from Slovakia. But they come here and they can find that
best friend, and then they can see them again during the
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FROM PAGE 37 member, agreed. plete, Ellie and Aaron who will begin at Brown University
inspire the local chapters. International Nsiah Ellie Bodker, who will attend Syra- in the fall and hopes to go on to law school from there
Aaron, 18, of Winston-Salem, N.C., is particularly cuse University in the fall and hopes to major in informatics, want to help BBYO meet its goal of surpassing 20,000 mem-
moved by seeing BBYOs operations in Hungary, said that I really found my voice through BBYO. bers around the world.
whose estimated Jewish community of 100,000 is I think a lot of eighth-grade girls start out really shy and Its a special moment in Jewish history that 2,500 young
down from 800,000 before the Holocaust, but is uncomfortable with BBYO, but the idea that people were people from across the globe can come together at the con-
thriving. listening to me and I could say whatever I wanted, and run vention and celebrate what it means to be Jewish, Gross-
Seeing our program there, and seeing that its a program on whatever topic I felt I was passionate about, man said. This is a place where they can be hopeful, they
been so successful, and its only been there for a was really appealing to me, she said. can be bold, and they can be community-builders. JNS.ORG
year. I think its super beautiful and amazing and
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ties, but also the ones that still have the remnants
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After spending six weeks abroad in Europe and
Israel, Ellie and Aaron are set to visit South America
in the spring before their tour of duty ends in May.
We have this global platform to run programs and
inspire Jewish teens, that the more we see whats
out there, the more were inspired to dive into
these issues and take action and get our task forces
for Healthcare Professionals
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18, of Kansas City, Mo, said.
This year especially, were so focused on the
global aspect, and incorporating people talking
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their native languages a little more, and embracing
the diversity and unique-ness in the room has really
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The need for Jewish connectivity also can exist in
places where you might not think such connection is
lacking. Daniel Segal, 18, a youth leader for Maccabi
Tzair, an Israel-based sister organization to BBYO,
explains that the 25 to 30 different youth movements
all cater to specific populations, except for Maccabi
Tzair, whose pluralistic nature mirrors BBYOs.
Daniel said that he started Maccabi Tzair in third Keynote SpeaKer
grade, and there he learned how to manage work-
ing with people. By eighth grade, he was not only Amir Sagie
part of a team, but the head of teams, and that posi-
tion gave me skills for life, he said. Today, he oversees
Deputy Consul General of Israel in New York
the efforts of 60 youth coordinators and 200 Maccabi
Tzair program participants from third to 12th grades.
The fact that you have many Jews [in Israel] Thursday, March 23
doesnt mean its not necessary for them to get in-
formal education after school, Daniel said.
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hat thorniest of all issues, the Israeli- Shulchan Aruch, he wrote, adding that Karo
hat is going on here? to think that this barbarity which Palestinian conflict, is on the front meant to adopt the amendment to the Bar Pappa
All of these can she was free from in her life, at burner, so a review of Jewish law on ruling.
be isolated inci- least physically, would lap up the subject is in order. In any case, all agree that settling the Land of
dents, all happen- against her in death, even in this Granted, halacha is not monolithic, and it is Israel is important enough to set aside even Shab-
ing within the last few weeks, but very, very muted way. not closed to interpretation. Different people see bat rules.
they are starting to add up. We live in troubled times, he the law differently. This is as true in this case as On the other hand, there is biblical evidence
There have been threatening continues. Hate and barbarity in any other. One thing is not open to interpreta- to suggest giving up land is not so great a sin, or
phone calls to JCCs and other Jew- are always with us. But today they tion, however: We are commanded to settle the may not be a sin at all, if the price is right. Solo-
ish institutions, mainly but not are being granted permission to Land of Israel all of it, not just a piece of it. mon gave 20 cities in the Galilee to Hiram, king
entirely in the United States. There act. So important a mitzvah is this that there even of Tyre, yet the biblical text offers no condemna-
have been four waves of those We must fight it, he adds. is a rabbinic ruling allowing Shabbat to be vio- tion, probably because of what he got in return:
calls so far; twice, the Kaplen JCC It is important that we realize lated in order to buy property in the Land of The building materials for Gods House and his
on the Palisades in Tenafly has that we are not the main targets Israel. According to the Babylonian Talmud trac- own. (See 1 Kings 9:11.)
received one of those calls. of this hate. We are not Mexican, tate Bava Kamma 80b, a member of In the current case, trading land for
Thankfully, no one has been or Muslim, or visibly foreign. Most the Bar Pappa family decreed, the peace would be worth the price,
hurt. The calls have been hoaxes although not all of us are white. deed of sale may be written even on too, if the peace offered is a true
although that is perhaps the We blend. But we have to realize Shabbat. peace, one that battles terrorism
wrong word, implying as it does that hate is alive once again not This offended other sages, who with vigor; that includes all of the
some element of teasing fun. that its ever been dead and that attempted an amendment by ref- states now opposed to Israel; that
These calls have been cruel tricks, we can hear its dread footsteps erencing a ruling made by another has a system that puts peace into
designed to instill fear. They have shaking the earth, if we listen. sage in a different context. While it practice through such means as
sent children out coatless on We have to listen. We cant is not permissible for a Jew to make trade and tourism.
unusually cold days. They have afford not to listen. the transaction on Shabbat, they Entering into this consideration
disoriented fragile old people. We dont know why President said, he or she may ask a non-Jew to Rabbi are two sins I discussed exten-
They have unnerved the com- Donald J. Trump has been so act in his or her stead. While to do Shammai sively in my January 8 column:
munity by their pointless, stupid, opposed to naming and condemn- so in other cases violates a rabbinic Engelmayer pikuach nefesh (threat to life) and
unmistakable hatred. ing anti-Semitism, giving it two prohibition, the mitzvah of settling shfichut damim (the needless spill-
There was vandalism in a Jew- sentence fragments in a talk at the the Land of Israel takes precedence. ing of blood). Pikuach nefesh is considered to be
ish cemetery in suburban St. Louis National Museum of African Amer- That amendment failed to satisfy two of the pre-eminent in religious Judaism. Almost nothing
this week. About 180 headstones ican History and Culture. Most of most authoritative codifiers of Jewish law, who not even Shabbat or the laws of kashrut takes
were toppled. Again, no one was the time he does not denounce often take opposing views: Rabbi Joseph Karo precedence when life is threatened.
hurt at least physically. Josh anti-Semitism, as opposed to (author of the Shulchan Aruch), and Rabbi Moses Expropriating Palestinian land to build new
Marshall, a journalist who created intolerance in general, despite Isserles (the Rema, author of a halachic gloss to settlements puts the lives of the people who
and edits Talking Points Memo, being urged to do so by a gamut of Karos work). move into those settlements in danger. Almost
writes that his mother was buried Jewish leaders, including not only Ruled Karo, It is permissible to acquire a certainly violence will erupt, and blood almost
in that cemetery. She was born in the ADLs Jonathan Greenblatt and house in the Land of Israel from a non-Jew on certainly will be spilled. Thus, both pikuach
the United States, the daughter of the American Jewish Committees Shabbat and to sign and register it. (See Shul- nefesh and shfichut damim are halachic factors
Jewish immigrants, lived free of David Harris, to name just a few, chan Arukh, Orach Chaim, 306:11.) that must be taken into account.
anti-Semitism but sometimes felt almost at random, but also the The Rema agreed, but only if the document The same, obviously, is true of a one-state solu-
guilty about that freedom, a con- ZOAs Morton Klein, who gener- was written in a language other than Hebrew. tion, which carries with it the necessity of deny-
tinent away from the Holocaust, ally has been loathe to ask for such That is because writing on Shabbat in a language ing to the Palestinians living in such a state equal
and died young, many years ago. statements from the president. other than Hebrew is only a rabbinic prohibi- status under the law. (Anything else risks having
He still misses her. We know that forthright denun- tion, which is trumped by the biblical impera- the Palestinians become the majority and vot-
This barbaric and pointless van- ciations of anti-Semitism, like tive to settle the Land of Israel. ing Israel out of existence.) Aside from the many
dalism hurts, he says. forthright denunciations of rac- This scandalized Rabbi Yechiel Epstein, author times the Torah requires that there be one law
Stones can be replaced and ism, misogyny, and other forms of a commentary on the Shulchan Aruch. A for citizen and all other residents (see, especially,
the dead are dead, Mr. Marshall of hatred, are necessary. Hatred grave error occurred in the printing of the Exodus 23:9 this Shabbat, and also Leviticus
writes. But it strikes hard against grows in the dark. Slime accumu- 19:34 and 24:22), the Torah also requires Israel
something deep inside of me, lates in shadows. Lets bring it out Shammai Engelmayer is the rabbi of to act morally, or risk losing its right to the land.
something even over the decades into the light and disinfect it. We Congregation Beth Israel of the Palisades in Explained Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch, in
still umbilically connected to her, cant afford not to. JP Cliffside Park. commenting on several verses in Leviticus 18:
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meant and what will happen in the future, most of us recall is Mr. Rushdie going into movement decrying this evil measure,
o one who was living in the it delivered one message that no one can hiding for many years, only seen on rare focused on killing those whom the ayatol-
1970s can forget this song, the deny. Women are empowered and deter- occasions, with bodyguards in tow. What lah deemed unfit. After all, Rushdie was no
way Helen Reddy sang it, and mined to keep it that way. many people do not know is the fate of oth- warlord but a writer of fiction.
the impact it had on the young Helen Reddy was right. No ones ever ers who were involved with the publication Since that time, we have become increas-
girls who heard it. gonna keep me down again. No, never. of his novel. ingly familiar with the impact of sharia
It was an anthem, something that dove- And so I was filled with great sadness According to a piece in Vanity Fair by law, especially when it comes to killings
tailed perfectly with Mary Richards (aka and trepidation when I saw that one of the the late Christopher Hitchens, in addition of women who shamed the family honor
Mary Tyler Moore), who we watched launch marchs key organizers was Linda Sarsour. to Iranian attempts on Rushdies life over by simply living their own lives. Remem-
a successful career as a single woman. Or Some of you may recognize Sarsour as the the years, Hitoshi Igarashi, the novels Japa- ber Noor Almaleki? Her father intention-
Anne (aka Marlo Thomas) living alone executive director of the Arab American nese translator, was stabbed to death on the ally killed his daughter in Arizona in 2009
in New York City and having the audac- Association of New York, as a surrogate campus where he taught. The novels Italian because she had become too Western-
ity to end her series, That Girl, without for the Bernie Sanders campaign, and as a translator, Ettore Cariolo, was knifed in his ized, he said, and brought disrespect to
R
ecently, my wife and I spent some interesting comparisons and contrasts closing plenary on Feminism There also were wonderful pre-
a wonderful Sunday attend- between then and now. as Tikkun Olam 19 years ago, sentations on women rabbis (a
ing a conference sponsored by For example, while nine speakers made now is president of JOFA. And delightful neologism), both in
the Jewish Orthodox Feminist presentations at both conferences, by 2017 other earlier presenters, like a stirring presentation at the
Alliance. one of the female speakers sported the title R. Yitz Greenberg and Esther plenary by Rabbi Lila Kage-
It was a long day that began with a 9 a.m. of rav and another of rabbi. Sadly, a num- Krauss, were simply attendees dan, the first woman to use the
plenary and lasted until 5:30, when the sixth ber of 1998 speakers have gone to their this time, sitting in the audi- title rabbi as a member of the
session concluded. It was chock full of pre- eternal reward. In this regard I note princi- ence among many who most clergy in a modern Orthodox
sentations on, for example, womens Torah pally, but not exclusively, the serious loss of likely had no idea how impor- synagogue, and an eye-open-
learning, ordination and leadership roles, Rivkah Houpt, Belda Kaufman Lindenbaum, tant to the Orthodox feminist Joseph C. ing scholarly session on Past
agunah, conversion, mental illness, sexual Shaindy Rudoff, Honey Rackman, and espe- movement their neighbor was. Kaplan as Prologue: Ordaining Women
abuse and Women of the Wall. And thats just cially R. Emanuel Rackman, who I referred to Some of the sessions this Rabbis and Their Discontents
what was offered in the first of the six equally in my unpublished article as the grand elder year focused on topics that simply werent led by Dr. Pamela Nadell and R. Dr. Zev Eleff.
diverse time slots. statesman of Modern Orthodoxy. Our com- on anyones agenda in 1998, primarily Yael (21st century aside: Dr. Eleff was one of five
This wasnt the first JOFA conference munity deeply misses them. Ukeles and R. David Bigmans very personal virtual friends I finally was able to meet and
we attended. Nineteen years ago we spent Others have changed roles. Blu Greenberg, exploration of When Plan B Becomes Awe- chat with in person at the conference.)
Presidents Weekend at the Second Interna- who as president of JOFA chaired the earlier some: Jewish Single Motherhood by Choice. But even more touching than the speakers
tional Conference on Feminism and Ortho- conference, now bears the title of founding And two other sessions discussed Orthodoxy and presentations was the unscripted and
doxy, sponsored by JOFA, Drisha, Ohr president. She was acclaimed at the opening from a 21st-century vantage point Drs. Syl- moving moment during the plenary, when
Torah/Midreshet Lindenbaum, (the late and plenary as the dreamer who laid the ground- via Barack Fishmans and Jerome Chaness one speaker asked all the women in the room
lamented) Edah and the Womens Tefillah work for the Orthodox feminist movement, academic yet engaging and impressionistic who had ordination or were studying for the
Network. (Historical aside: the First Interna- lauded as someone whose moral leadership, analysis of Somewhere A Place for Us? Per- rabbinate to stand. More than 20 women,
tional Conference on Feminism and Ortho- tenacity and gentle chutzpah have shattered sonal, Societal, and Institutional Changes for stood to thunderous applause.
doxy, held the year before, was not spon- the traditional limits for women and created Orthodox Women in America and Israel, In light of the recent unfair, poorly thought
sored by JOFA because it was that conference undreamed of possibilities, and honored and an exciting SRO discussion among Dr. out, and unnecessary paper issued by a
that led to JOFAs creation.) with the presentation of a scholarly Fest- Yehuda Kurtzer, Dena Weiss, R. Shmuel Hain, seven-man rabbinical panel declaring women
I was quite moved by the 1998 confer- schrift. (In addition to all of Blus wonderful and R. Ethan Tucker on Blurred Boundaries: rabbis beyond the pale in Orthodoxy, and
ence and wrote an article about it called contributions to Orthodox feminism, she was Post Orthodoxy. giving an at best lukewarm endorsement of
An Orthodox Jewish Feminist. Unfor- my babysitter back in our early Far Rockaway Ordination was a major topic at the con- yoatzot halacha, it was heartwarming to hear
tunately, I couldnt get it published not years, and Im honored that weve remained ference in many ways. Thirteen women with R. Herzl Hefter, the founder and rosh beit
even in the Jewish Standard (with a differ- friends ever since.) some type of ordination and title (rabbi, midrash of the Harel Beit Midrash in Jeru-
ent editor). Rereading it this year, I found Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, a speaker at the rabba, maharat etc.) were listed as speakers. salem, gently correct someone who asked
the family. He now is serving time. Or the from 2014 seems to imply that following
2008 murders of Anna and Sarah Said, sharia is simply about following a certain
Texas teens who were shot many times by diet. @RobertWildiris I dont drink alco-
their father because they would not agree hol, dont eat pork, I follow Islamic way of
to forced marriages. This case is still open, living. Thats all Sharia law is.
because their father left their lifeless bodies Yet she avoids mentioning the basic fact
in a car and ran. that women are not free under sharia. Dis-
And what about the case cited in Sar- sent is not tolerated. Women are not even
sours 2012 CNN piece, called My Hijab allowed to leave their house unaccompa-
is My Hoodie? Sarsour asserted that the nied by a male family member. It is not
murder of Shaima Alawadi in San Diego about a diet, loans, or credit, it is about the
that same year was a result of Islamopho- subjugation of women. As Pakistan-based
bia. However, the facts found that her hus- journalist Khadija Khan writes, How come
band killed her after finding out that she she forgot to mention that in Saudi Arabia
was going to divorce him. He is now serving and many other Muslim states, her kind of
a 26-years-to-life sentence. activism would cost a woman her family,
And what about female genital mutila- her honor and probably her life?
tion? This is when a girls clitoris is cut so And dont think that Sarsour believes in
that she cannot have any sexual pleasure in civility toward those with whom she dis-
order to keep her honor. Though the figures agrees. A particularly cruel tweet focused
are not completely reliable, because of the on Brigitte Gabriel and Ayaan Hirsi Ali, both Helen Reddy in 1973
sensitivity of the subject, this heinous ritual fighters for freedom and against sharia.
is happening in America. It even was dra- Sarsours desire? I wish I could take their why a march dedicated to the empower- And why not a womans rally against
matized in an episode of Law and Order. vaginas away they dont deserve to be ment of women would embrace a woman honor killings and female genital mutila-
Sarsour is not only a supporter but a women. For those who dont know, Ayaan who believes in and is actively working to tion? As Helen sang, I am woman, hear me
cheerleader of sharia. One tweet from is a victim of female genital mutilation. Defi- subjugate them to the men in the world. Lets roar.
2015 says, Youll know when youre living nitely no sisterhood here. debate those like Sarsour, but lets not lend
under Sharia Law if suddenly all your loans Ive been down there on the floor, no them the spotlight in events that are antitheti- Martha Cohen is an award-winning
& credit cards become interest free. Sounds ones ever gonna keep me down again. This cal to their mission so they can fool the unin- producer and creative executive. She lives in
nice, doesnt it? Another interesting tweet lyric keeps ringing in my ears as I ponder formed in an effort to return to the Dark Ages. Fort Lee with her husband and son.
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he morning after
Israeli Prime Minis-
ter Benjamin Netan-
yahus first official
meeting with President Donald
J. Trump last week, many head-
lines proclaimed that the two-
state solution whereby an inde-
pendent, sovereign Palestinian
state would be created alongside Ben Cohen
the state of Israel within agreed
and final borders was if not
quite dead, fast approaching deaths door.
I want to suggest that those who interpret the outcome
of the Trump-Bibi meeting in that manner should dig a little
deeper.
There is something of a revolution in thinking and approach
going on, and whats being overturned is what you might call
the Palestine First strategy of regional peacemaking. But
that doesnt have to mean that a solution involving Palestin-
ian sovereignty has been extinguished.
The idea of Palestine First was rooted in the mid 1960s,
just before the Six-Day War, when Yasser Arafat and his com-
rades in the Fatah movement took over the Palestine Lib-
eration Organization. Until that point, the PLO had been an
instrument of the Arab League. By asserting Palestinian inde-
pendence from Arab collective decision-making, Arafat set the
stage for a violent struggle against Israel in the name of Pales-
tinian return, and full sovereignty from the Mediterranean
Sea to the Jordan River.
It took thousands of deaths and several bitter wars for Ara- Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and President Donald J. Trump at the White House on February 15.
fat to realize that his armed struggle was doomed to failure. AVI OHAYON/GPO
representatives verbally assaulting the historical and religious and religious struggles. In addition, it meant acknowledging
connections of the Jewish people to Jerusalem and the land that the absence of full Palestinian sovereignty, and the unful- Ben Cohen, senior editor of TheTower.org and the Tower
of Israel, is the principal memory of the Obama years when filled demand for the return of all the Arab refugees of the magazine, writes a weekly column on Jewish affairs and Middle
it comes to the Israeli-Palestinian dimension of the regions 1948 war and their descendants, lay at the heart of the regions Eastern politics. His work has been published in Commentary,
many conflicts. It didnt deliver for anybody, and served ills. It is that assumption that was so dramatically exploded by the New York Post, Haaretz, the Wall Street Journal, and many
only to deepen Israeli fears of Palestinian eliminationism, as the meeting between Trump and Netanyahu. other publications.
P
arshat Mishpatim oppressed. Whenever we a central spiritual challenge on our jour- stranger, for you too were strangers in the
blesses us with resort to the logic of whats ney. We are commanded not to wrong or land of Egypt.
the power of dis- mine is mine, God reminds oppress the stranger. This mitzvah appears The clarifying phrase ve-atem yedatem
cernment, as we us that All the Earth is Mine. twice in Mishpatim. The first time we see et nefesh ha-ger (for you know the soul of
attempt to live our lives in Mishpat is usually trans- this commandment we are charged to keep the stranger) gives me the key to the door
balance with Divine justice lated as rule, judgment, or it because we ourselves were once strangers of compassion. The verb yada (to know),
and love. We are blessed with ordinance. When I encoun- in the land of Egypt. signifies intimacy. When I encounter the
the holy task of being pres- ter this word, I understand it This reasoning does not quite hold. stranger, I am commanded to know her
ent, vigilant, and kind, that as impeccability. When the Those who suffer oppression often them- soul, to step inside her skin, to see that his
our actions might be in agree- Rabbi Toltec Shaman, Don Juan, selves go on to oppress others. Whatever pain, his joy, is not different than my own.
ment with the vision of whole- Shefa Gold cautions Carlos Castaneda hurt I suffer becomes the source of my This moment of knowing breaks the chain
ness and connection that we Jewish Renewal that he must be impeccable, destructive powers. The wound that is of oppression.
received at Sinai. he is trying to impress upon layered over with scar tissue makes me When I encounter the suffering of the
We embark upon this holy his student the utmost impor- insensitive to the suffering of others. To stranger it can be an opportunity for me to
task in the context of the value system of our tance of staying alert and aware of the con- acknowledge the pain of others, I would approach and begin to heal the place inside
particular culture, time, and place. The Torah sequences of ones actions. Every word and once again have to feel my own. myself that remembers suffering. From
gives us an example of a people struggling to deed ripples out to affect the whole so the Parents who abuse their children have that place of newfound wholeness I can
express a loving and exacting justice in their welfare of the whole must be considered. most likely been abused themselves. The then work for justice and become a healer
world. In order to follow the example of our This consideration extends through time chain of suffering continues. Each subse- of the worlds pain. The secret ingredient is
ancestors, we must discern the principles of as well as space. How will my actions benefit quent generation seeks revenge for the mis- profound connection with the other. Gazing
justice and apply them in our own lives and or harm generations to come? fortune it has endured. We inherit the myth into the soul of the stranger, compassion is
in our own world. For instance: We are blessed with the responsibility of of good guys and bad guys so that we born. This compassion embraces your own
If you take a neighbors garment as a being scrupulous with what we consume, know exactly who to blame. The stranger in suffering as well as the strangers. Remem-
pledge, you must restore it to him before what we waste, and how our lives impact our midst is always a likely target. We are bering what it was like to be the stranger,
nightfall because thats his only covering the planet. This responsibility helps us to caught in this cycle of oppression in which the spiritual challenge is to let your heart
and where is he going to sleep? When he stay awake and aware of our potential to our suffering festers and grows inside us, open first in compassion for yourself, and
cries to me I will hear, for I am gracious. destroy as well as create. Mishpatim strips becoming a weapon of continued blame then expand to encompass the reality of the
(Exodus 22:25-26) us of any excuses for cruelty or apathy. Even and retribution. Yet the spiritual challenge stranger who stands before you.
In other words, kindness supersedes the our enemy may count on our help when she remains: How can I transform my suffering
rules of property. Empathy for the neigh- is in need. into compassion for the stranger? Rabbi Shefa Gold, a native of Paramus,
bor who might shiver through a cold night When a mitzvah is repeated in the Torah, We receive this commandment again in now lives in New Mexico. She is the
is what is really important. We are given the its a sign to pay close attention. When it is the very next chapter; this time it comes author of Torah Journeys: The Inner
assignment of being Gods ears as we listen repeated 36 times, we know that not only with further clarification. Do not oppress Path to the Promised Land, from which
for and respond to the cries of the poor and is that mitzvah important; but it stands as the stranger, for you know the soul of the this is adapted.
BRIEFS
Orthodox reporter simple question. Not a fair question. Okay, Israel is pivoting toward Asia in a very students find roommates.
sit down. I understand the rest of your clear and purposeful way, Netanyahu, Joomie which was launched during
seated by Trump question, Trump said, before calling him- who was making the first visit to Singapore the BBYO International Convention in
During a contentious press conference self the least anti-Semitic person that you by an Israeli prime minister, told Lee at the Dallas last weekend prompts users to
at the White House last week, President have ever seen in your entire life. state dinner. Next month Ill go to China; answer questions on their Jewish youth
Donald Trump told an Orthodox reporter When Turx attempted to interrupt the somewhat later this year Prime Minister group affiliations, levels of Shabbat and
to sit down after the reporter asked a president, Trump told him to be quiet. [Narendra] Modi of India will come to visit kashrut observance, music preferences,
question about the uptick in anti-Semitism You should take that instead of getting Israel. Perfectly poised between China and sleeping habits, and more. After answer-
across America. up and asking a very insulting question, India is Singapore, and Im not [saying ing the questions, students can see profiles
Jake Turx, from Ami Magazine, he said. JNS.ORG this] merely in the geographic sense, Im of other users who have downloaded the
responded to Trumps call for a friendly saying that as a gateway to Asia, Singapore app, are planning to go to or already are
question by saying that nobody in his is a perfect partner. at the same institution, and might match
community has accused you or anyone Netanyahu declares In the past, Israeli-Singaporean relations their needs and interests.
on your staff of being anti-Semitic and pivot to Asia during were relatively discreet, partly due to Sin- We believe that usage of Joomie will
that we understand that you have Jew- Singapore visit gapores large Muslim population. Netan- help facilitate the transition to college for
ish grandchildren, you are their zayde yahus visit, therefore, marks a significant many students, and ultimately promote a
(grandfather). Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netan- warming of relations between the coun- greater engagement in Jewish life in cam-
What we are concerned about and what yahu said that Israel is pivoting toward tries. JNS.ORG puses across North America, Matt Gross-
we havent really heard being addressed is Asia during an official visit to Singapore. man, BBYOs CEO, said.
an uptick in anti-Semitism and how the Netanyahu enjoyed a state dinner Mon- The idea for the app was formulated
government is planning to take care of it, day with Singaporean Prime Minister Lee New app helps during a hackathon sponsored by the
Turx continued, referring to recent inci- Hsien Loong. Both leaders praised the Jewish students find Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family
dents such as bomb threats at JCCs. nations strong bonds and similarities. Lee roommates who meet Foundations ROI Community, in which
Trump interrupted Turx and accused talked about Israels assistance in build- teenagers brainstormed ways to use tech-
the reporter of being dishonest and ing Singapores armed forces, and said his their needs, interests nology to connect with BBYO or summer
insulting. country believes a two-state solution is the The Jewish pluralistic teen movement camp friends while they transition to col-
See, he said he was going to ask a very only way to achieve peace between Israel BBYO introduced a mobile app to help lege. Joomie can be downloaded in the
simple, easy question, and its not....Not a and the Palestinians. Jewish high school seniors and college Apple app store or Google Play. JNS.ORG
If I Forget
tackles tough questions about heritage
Miriam Rinn recommendation for tenure at his small When Lou (Larry Brygmann) comes on of the legacy of social justice that inspired
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liberal-arts college, and he is both ner- stage, one of the plays central metaphors generations in the first half of the twentieth
teven Levensons Jewish family vous and excited about the publication of reveals itself. Lou inherited a clothing century. That is the heritage that Michael
drama If I Forget, now at the his latest book. store from his in-laws in a poor section of claims as his own, the one that marks his
Roundabouts Laura Pels The- Michaels sisters, Sharon and Holly, Washington, an area that is now gentrify- Jewish identity. When Sharon accuses him
atre, asks several difficult ques- Hollys husband, lawyer Howard (Gary ing. Sharon is particularly fond of Lous of attacking their family and all it stands
tions: What is the significance of heritage? Wilmes), and her irritating teenage son current tenants, Latinos who have paid the for, he cannot understand her anger. A
Do we know who we are without it? Who Joey (Seth Steinberg) are the other guests same low rent for many years. Holly has further irony is that Israel may be the only
gets to determine that heritage? at the party. The youngest of the three a plan to take the space over for the inte- place where a secular Jew can live the fully
While it is not entirely successful, the siblings, Sharon (Maria Dizzia), lives in rior-design business she wants to establish. engaged Jewish life Michael so admires.
play bristles with provocative declama- the house with Lou since their mothers Whether this ambition is anything more What does Jewish heritage and identity
tions on American Jewish life, Holocaust recent death and is the sort of woman than a bored housewifes fantasy is debat- mean in an open, assimilationist society to
politics, gentrification, academia, parent- who feels that the world takes continuous able, but Holly has a clever name and busi- someone who is not religious? These quan-
hood, parnassah, and other aspects of advantage of her. She recently broke up ness cards, so she figures shes ready to go. daries seem ever more confounding next
middle-class angst. Its often very funny, with her boyfriend, whom she caught in a All she needs is the space. to the brazen anti-Semitism of some of the
and highly intelligent throughout. compromising position with her cantor The Fischers struggle with who the store fans of the current administration.
Spanning the summer of 2000 to the on her recently dry-cleaned duvet, no less belongs to and what its heritage means to The second act brings alterations to
winter of 2001, the play opens at Lou and she cant stop reminding her siblings them individually. Does Lous dream that everyones situation. Lou has had a stroke
Fischers house in northwest Washington of how little they do compared to her own his children will take over the family busi- and is much frailer; his children have to
D.C., at a party for his 75th birthday. The sacrifice. Holly (Kate Walsh), the oldest, is ness bind them together or drive them come together to deal with his care. Michael
guests include his son Michael ( Jeremy hostile and undermining in her own way. apart? How realistic is it that a Jewish father has experienced a dramatic setback and the
Shamos), a Jewish studies professor, and Wealthier than her siblings, she subtly wants his kids to take over a dollar store in others have their own issues as well.
Michaels wife, Ellen (Tasha Lawrence), a carps at what they do, especially picking a rundown neighborhood? Not very. Most If I Forget is a recipient of an Edger-
social worker. Michael is deeply worried at Michaels writing. Its too obscure, its Jewish merchants sent their children to col- ton Foundation New Play Award, and it
about their daughter Abby, who is on a too boring, and its too unsuccessful. lege in order to avoid such a fate. certainly merits attention for its complex
Birthright trip, or as Michael describes it, One of the strengths of the play is the The more effective metaphor in the play family and political dynamic. While the set
a 10-day bus ride through a war zone. interplay between these three; they feel is the uproar over Michaels book, Forget- design awkwardly emphasizes the Fischer
Ellen is much more supportive of Abbys like people who have known each other ting the Holocaust. Theorizing that Ameri- familys separation, Daniel Sullivans brisk
visit, which she sees as a spiritual jour- long enough to understand just how to can Jews have embraced the Holocaust as direction keeps the focus on the social cur-
ney, something that may help Abby cope wound. Levenson is part of the team their true heritage, Michael argues that the rents underlying the time just before the
with her psychological struggles. Michael responsible for the hit musical Dear Evan communitys obsession with the Shoah September 11 attacks, which would change
and Abby have just bought an apartment Hansen, and he is sensitive to the slights and its commensurate knee-jerk support so much in the countrys psyche. An engag-
in Park Slope on the strength of Michaels and injuries siblings can inflict. of Israel is a symptom of its abandonment ing play for open-minded theatergoers.
Kenneth Lonergan, right, gives directions to Manchester-By-The-Sea stars Lucas Hedges, left, and Casey Affleck.
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48, and DAVID LINDE, 56; Levys best 2016 Garfield firmly established himself
he 89th Academy Awards will known as the director of The Night in as an A-list dramatic actor (Hacksaw
be presented on Sunday, Feb- the Museum films. Lindes paternal and the Scorsese film Silence) and
ruary 26 on ABC, starting at grandfather, a lawyer, fled Nazi Ger- well be seeing him in top films for a
8:30 p.m. Jimmy Kimmel will many. His father, HANS LINDE, 92, long time to come.
host. This year, like other recent years, became influential nationally while Lead actress: NATALIE PORTMAN,
the honorary Academy Awards were serving as an Oregon Supreme Court 35, Jackie. Its unlikely that Portman,
presented in a separate ceremony, but justice); Fences (SCOTT RUDIN, 58); who won the lead actress Oscar in 2011
will be noted at the televised ceremony. Hacksaw Ridge (DAVID PERMUT, (Black Swan) will win this year. Vot-
Documentary filmmaker FREDER- 62); Hell or High Water (JULIE YORN, ers figure shes already won one; shes
ICK WISEMAN
WISEMAN, 87, received an hon- 50); La La Land (MARC PLATT, 58 young-ish; and theres no tidal momen-
orary Oscar. A former law professor, father of actor BEN PLATT, 23; and tum for Jackie, the film, now. Still, I
he became a full-time filmmaker in GARY GILBERT, 52, a co-owner of the think Portman and the script captured
1967 and his so-called observational NBA Cleveland Cavaliers); and Moon- Jackie Kennedys sense of vulnerability
films usually are studies of institu- light (JEREMY KLEINERS, 41). about her place in the world. I believe
tions (schools, prisons, hospitals), that exact vulnerability later led Jackie,
presented without narration. A Acting categories her sister, and perhaps her daughter as
partial exception is his latest film, Lead actor: ANDREW GARFIELD, 33, well, to seek out Jewish men. Ill expand
In Jackson Heights (2015), which Hacksaw Ridge. As Ive noted in my on that idea in a future column. Mean-
showed a diverse New York City column, Garfields father is Jewish and while, the odds favor a win in this cat-
neighborhood in Queens, to his mother isnt. Twice, in the context egory for French actress Isabelle Hup-
be precise through local of defending Ridge director Mel Gib- pert (Elle). Like Portman, she was in
meetings (at a mosque, son, Garfield said hes Jewish. Other every scene in her film. Unlike Portman,
synagogue, etc.). times, he edges off that self-description. she has never won an Oscar and shes
The following are my Like many celebs, he calls himself spir- 63. Voters likely figure its high time
confirmed Jewish nomi- itual, but isnt a member of an orga- to honor this universally acclaimed
nees in all but the tech- nized religion. Recently, Ive thought actress. On February 17, talking to the
nical categories. that there may be a Jewish upside to Jewish Journal of Los Angeles, Hup-
working with Gibson it probably pert gave the first detailed interview
Best picture forced Garfield to think seriously about about her Jewish background. She said
Here are the Best Picture what being Jewish means and maybe that while she was raised Catholic, she
nominees with a producer Im thatll lead to something of benefit to identifies as half Jewish. She said her
James Polk
Election consequences: Christina Kamilaris
The JCC of Fort Lee/
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dietitian at ShopRite
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The Shabbat Project:
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piano; Liat Tretin, Ayelet The Sisterhood of the
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Sharon Amir, vocals; with CBI hosts its annual
Purim USATF-certified
jfnnj.org/iCAN. Sunday Sunday
Victor Lesser, musical
director, Manhattan City 5K run/1 mile walk, Israeli film in Tenafly: FEBRUARY 26 FEBRUARY 26
Music. Ms. Prezant died in beginning and ending IAC Cinematec, a
a rock climbing accident at the shul, 10 a.m. Race series of Israeli films at Seforim sale: Yeshiva Seniors meet in Suffern:
in 2012. Funds raised will proceeds benefit Camp the Kaplen JCC on the Universitys students Singles 65+ of the JCC
support local families in Ramahs Tikvah program, Palisades, continues with continue the 30th annual Rockland meets for lunch
crisis through the JCCs an overnight camp for Farewell Baghdad, Seforim Sale, North at Sutters Mill, noon. 214
Stephanie I. Prezant children with special 7 p.m. Series with English Americas largest Jewish Route 59, Suffern, N.Y.
Bucky Pizzarelli Community Support needs. Music, snacks, and subtitles continues book sale, in Belfer Hall, Individual checks. Gene,
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Concert in Closter: Ave. Robyn Rosenfeld, registrants. Costumes You? 411 E. Clinton Ave. on YUs Wilf Campus
Temple Beth El of
Northern Valley
(201) 408-1429, encouraged. 10-10
Norma Ave. Registration,
(201) 408-1409. in Manhattan. www.
theseforimsale.com.
Friday
rrosenfeld@jccotp.org, or
continues MusicLAB (201) 796-5040 or MARCH 3
www.jccotp.org. Monday
(Live at Beth El), a new
series underwritten by
RFlanzman@aol.com.
MARCH 6 Tuesday Teaneck Shabbaton: The
Whole Foods Market, Sunday FEBRUARY 28 Shidduch Project hosts
with Bucky Pizzarelli and MARCH 5 Museum trip: Jewish a pre-Purim Shabbaton
Friends, 8 p.m.; doors Federation of Northern Purim to Pesach: for modern Orthodox/
open at 7:30. Bucky The news: Ari Goldman, New Jerseys Reach for Drisha faculty members, machmir professionals,
will be joined by his Columbia University the Pomegranate travels including Wendy 23-40, at Congregation
performance partner Ed journalism professor to the Tenement Museum Amsellem, Miriam Keter Torah. Includes
Laub, Buckys son, Martin and former New York in Manhattan for a Gedwiser, Jon Kelsen, three interactive meals,
Pizzarelli, and violinist Times reporter, discusses docent-led tour, 11:30 a.m. Aaron Koller, David oneg with speakers,
Aaron Weinstein. 221 Right Off The News for followed by lunch at Silber, and Devora cocktails, and speed
Schraalenburgh Road. the Food for Thought Reserve Cut Kosher Steinmetz, teach (Dis) dating; musical
(201) 768-5112 or tbenv. Book discussion in order, Service, and Havdalah and kumsitz,
Distinguished Speaker Steak House. Bus service
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series at Temple Beth available. Minimum gift
the One Book One Transition from Purim to by Rachel Ruchlamer
Rishon in Wyckoff, to JFNNJ required. www.
Community project Pesach, for a seminar and Dr. Shani Ratzker.
9:45 a.m. Sponsored by jfnnj.org/pom.
sponsored by the Jewish through April 4, at Shidduchprojects@
the Fred Emert Memorial Federation of Northern
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New Jersey, the JCC JCC on the Palisades 7-9 p.m. Drishat Shalom (201) 522-4776.
with TBR patron Paramus/Congregation
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Beth Tikvah offers a
buffet. 585 Russell Ave. discussion by Carolyn
Israeli film Fill the
Void, 7:30 p.m., for a
to outstanding young
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Sunday
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Kaufman on this years series Top Films You in college or beginning MARCH 5
book, Let There Be May Have Missed. An their professional or
Stephanie Prezant zl Water by Seth Siegel, Orthodox girl in Tel Aviv graduate careers, and Pre-Purim benefit:
Purim pandemonium in
10:30 a.m. 304 East is looking forward to an who seek to join a Frum singles, 30-45,
New Milford: Solomon
Tribute concert in Midland Ave. Refreshments. arranged marriage to cohort of dedicated meet at Marine Park
Schechter Day School
Tenafly: The Kaplen JCC (201) 262-7691 or www. a young man she likes. peers to engage in Simcha Hall in Brooklyn
of Bergen Countys
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Sunday @ Schechter
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Series presents Purim Israel on campus: Jewish
She Loved tribute She helps to care for 65th St., Fifth floor. comedy, shadchanim,
Pandemonium, an Federation of Northern
concert in memory of the new grandson and (212) 595-0307 or www. and facilitators, 6 p.m.
interactive experience New Jersey hosts iCan
Stephanie Prezant, 8 p.m. soon her father asks drisha.org/drishatshalom. Proceeds benefit Project
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Across Down
1. Be petulant (after losing a game of 1. Not one for a haircut
Shesh Besh, perhaps) 2. 49- Down, to an idealistic Zionist
5. Foe of a pauper voiced by Scott 3. Idly (like an uninspired schlub)
Weinger 4. Great foe of Kirk
10. Aid for a shochet 5. Talking Bush?
14. Baruch follower 6. Rabbi Weiss of note
15. Make like Judah (but not Jonathan) 7. Guides for the perplexed; Abbr.
Maccabee at getting captured 8. No such thing as ___ question
16. Comic actor Eugene 9. Pieces from a Spielberg classic?
Job hunters attend a previous job fair at Yeshiva University. COURTESY YU 17. Great African writer? 10. Hamas rival; Abbr.
19. Challah need 11. Rabbis Sunday counterpart
YU and Touro to host Jewish job fairs 20. What a Talmud has that an iTalmud
does not
12. Share a pair of tefillin to the point of
deterioration
21. Secular texts? (Abbr.) 13. Descendants of David, once
Yeshiva Universitys Center for the Jewish More than 60 Jewish day schools from 15
23. Biblical, e.g. 18. Most Western Wall prayers?
Future and the Azrieli Graduate School states and organizations from North Amer- 24. David was anointed with it 22. Make Israel Great Again, e.g.
of Jewish Education and Administration ica and overseas will be there to meet and 25. Classic rap group managed by Jerry 26. And the children of Israel ___ for
will host the annual Jewish Job Fair on conduct interviews with candidates. Heller Moses (Deut. 34:8)
Thursday, March 1, at the Max Stern Ath- To book appointments with day school 28. Eastern European Chief Rabbi? 27. Shulem Shtisels secretary
30. Lo and no (in a vote) 29. Romema and Menora Mivtachim
letic Center on YUs Wilf Campus, 2501 employers in advance and to receive
32. 2003 James Caan comedy 31. Stereotypical skill of many a bubbi
Amsterdam Ave. at 185th Street, in Man- email updates, register at www.yu.edu/ 34. Most in need of a massage and a 33. Strasbourg sibling
hattan. The fair is free and open to the jewishjobfair/video. shvitz 36. Little lady after a chupah
public from 7 to 9 p.m., with priority 35. Roman or Khazarian 37. Heatherton and Andrews
admission for YU students and alumni Touro students and alumni in all majors 38. Simmons and others 39. Most like the figures of 37-Down
39. Central European Tennis player? 40. 65-Down, e.g.
beginning at 6. and professions are invited to attend
41. Jewish Jr. 41. Ones forgiven in a jubilee year
In addition to showcasing a variety of Touro Colleges Career Fair on Wednesday, 43. Grande who studies Kabbalah 42. Makes like Johanssons Black Widow
professional opportunities at Jewish day March 1, from 1 to 4 p.m., in Manhattan. 44. But ___ after twenty-five years its 45. Power problem thats no problem
schools, organizations, and nonprofits, Participating employers will interview for nice to know. (Tevye & Golde) for the Ultimate Power
the fair provides a networking opportu- available jobs or internships. Online regis- 46. Tannaim needs? 48. Mashugana
47. Agitated state (of Saul when dealing 49. Home of the countrymen
nity for job-hunters seeking information tration is available at www.touro.edu. For
with David) 50. Doodad
on careers in the Jewish community. information, call (718) 535-9375. 51. Western European Prophet? 52. Actress Debi
53. Rugrats dad 54. Thurman with 52-Across in 2005s
55. Work a chuppah Be Cool
56. What blows up in a tent? 58. Last stop for Moses
57. Marvel of a name? 60. Show with a Pharaoh
Sign up for the FREE 59. Arch for Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel &
Leah?
61. Molding that sounds like a synonym
62. (9-Down) belonging to this little fel-
low
64. ___ Heifer
3 4
H
between setting and character provokes a at Sachsenhausen begins to tell a group of
ow do people behave range of feelings. The sight of crowds pour- tourists about the camps prison-within-a-
when they visit a concen- ing into a room is creepily reminiscent of prison system used to interrogate Jews.
tration camp or a Holo- Holocaust prisoners being shepherded But shortly after he starts his talk, a
caust memorial? into train cars or gas chambers. Footage of group of English-speaking tourists crowds
Do they act as if they are in a place of rev- visitors trying to get their tour headphones the screen, obscuring the Spanish group.
erence or mourning? Or do they behave as to work is amusing until it isnt. The fact A British voice overlaps with the Span-
crowds do at any tourist attraction tak- that some visitors joke around or act like ish one. As the English group grows, one
ing selfies, goofing around, snacking and theyd rather be anywhere else inspires young woman balances a water bottle on
drinking as they amble along? feelings of anger (at least in this viewer). her head. Eventually the Spanish group
Just what constitutes appropriate behav- The people who came to these places
ior at a Holocaust memorial site has been a 40 years ago came with a different pur-
hot topic recently. Last month, the Israeli- pose than people now, Loznitsa told the
German writer and satirist Shahak Shapira
reignited the public debate about Holo-
New York Times last year. Now people
dont remember, and sometimes I think
The people who
caust tourism with a website shaming tour- they dont even understand where they came to these
ists who appear in flippant selfies taken at
the Holocaust memorial in Berlin. Shapiras
are and what the places are about.
The film takes its title from German
places 40 years
site, titled Yolocaust, superimposed smil- writer W.G. Sebalds final novel, Auster- ago came with a
ing tourists with gruesome images from the
Holocaust, such as piles of corpses. Sergei Loznitsa set up stationary
litz, about an eponymous academic whose
parents were killed in the Holocaust. The
different
I find it dangerous that this is becom- cameras in two former concentration protagonist visits the Theresienstadt camp purpose than
ing normal, Shapira told a German news
program shortly before shutting down the
camps. in the Czech Republic to learn more about
his parents deaths, ruminating there on
people now.
project, saying it had served its purpose. It wears a T-shirt with an image of a skull, memory and history. Loznitsa has said his
kind of suggests that people are not dealing another with the phrase Cool story, bro. documentary is a variation on the novel. disappears almost entirely from view
with the real purpose of this memorial. Some take smiling selfies or lighthearted (The filmmaker was traveling this week and shrouded by the nonchalant, English-
Last summer, the smartphone game group photos in front of Sachsenhausens declined a request for an interview.) speaking crowd even though the viewer
Pokemon Go raised eyebrows for guiding Arbeit Macht Frei gate. The only dialogue comes in a few scenes continues to hear parts of the guides talk.
some of its users into the Auschwitz-Birke- Despite its lack of narrative or plot, the involving tour guides in the first, about The scene represents what could be
nau Memorial and Museum as well as to seen as Loznitsas powerful thesis: Its
the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum in easy to be swallowed up by the tourist
Washington, D.C. This followed a few experience and forget to engage with the
years after an American tourist took a smil- significance of a place even at sites that
ing selfie at Auschwitz, drawing outrage commemorate one of historys most hor-
on Twitter and calling attention to other rid tragedies.
online chronicles of inappropriate selfie- Still, none of the tourists captured by
taking, such as the Facebook group With Loznitsas cameras are blatantly disre-
My Besties in Auschwitz. spectful. Nonchalant, yes, and somewhat
And now the behavior of tourists at self-absorbed in the 21st-century way.
Holocaust memorial sites and the tough There are plenty of selfies in Austerlitz
questions surrounding it is explored in (including one particularly funny one
a probing documentary film, Austerlitz, involving an overweight man slowly rotat-
by Ukrainian director Sergei Loznitsa. ing a selfie stick); even a man wearing a
The film just had its U.S. premiere at the kippah happily poses for photos in front
Museum of Modern Arts Doc Fortnight of the Arbeit Macht Frei gate.
festival in Manhattan, but it garnered By the end of Austerlitz, most viewers
praise last year, after it was shown at major are likely to feel conflicted about how to
international film festivals in Toronto A scene from Austerlitz, a documentary that chronicles the tourist experience judge these unwitting tourists. After all, is
and Venice. in two former concentration camps. PHOTOS COURTESY OF AUSTERLITZ/LOZNITSA it fair to judge someone by how they are
Presented without commentary, the captured on camera for a few minutes?
90-minute black-and-white film is a series And shouldnt Jews be encouraged by
of long, lingering shots of tourists walk- the fact that Holocaust sites continue to
ing around Dachau and Sachsenhausen, draw record crowds? Doesnt that signal
a former concentration camp near Ber- increased interest in learning about Holo-
lin. Loznitsa placed stationary cameras caust history?
around the camps, capturing thousands of Loznitsas point, however, is not about
visitors sauntering in and out of the frame. individual tourists, whether they choose
It is unclear whether Loznitsa hid his cam- to take a silly selfie or to reflect deeply
eras, although the tourists seem oblivious throughout their visit. The message, he
to them. has said, is that visiting a concentration
Most of the visitors seem as if they are camp should not be presented like any
walking in a shopping mall or perhaps an other mundane tourist experience.
art museum. They mostly look aimless, I think it must be like a church, he
restless, tired, and bored. Some laugh and told the Times. If you want to pray for
smile as they file into a room, like they are the souls of all the people who are in the
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do not include amounts for taxes and insurance premiums, if applicable. The actual payment obligation will
development. as a child doing entrepreneurial stuff
be greater. Property insurance is required. Other rates and terms are available. Subject to credit approval. With so much information com- and trying to make small businesses,
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