BadBoy Lifestyle Newsletter VOL.

Welcome to BadboyLifestyle Newsletter VOL 1.

Starting from now, every few weeks,we'll release new Newsletter
VOL 1 :
-BadBoy: "Game"
-Revan: "Bodylanguage"
-Cortez: "System Problems"
-Shark: "Shark on the beach"
-Danijel: "Hanging out with Badboy on Pag"

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****Game**** ( BadBoy )

Its funny how most guys in this community, they don't want to become world-class players, most of
them just want a GF or a 2 to have.
I don't know for others, but I don't need new girl every day, I am more of guy for Long-term
relationships, cause I love my Girls, hanging out with them, their attention.Game is little bit different
when you go for One-night-stands, and when you want a relationship with girl.

if you want to go for relationship, then its smart, to not push physical things during first 2
meetings.Actually, you can even do it, but be careful how you fuck her ( for more low-energy fucking,
with lot of eye-contacts, hugs, cuddles. Cause that way, you send more of 'relationship signals'

Also smart thing, is during PU, to pay lot of attention to Rapport, and not so much to Attraction, cause
Relationships are primary based on Connection, Trust & Comfort ...(those three together gives
RAPPORT !

If you want to be successful with girls and with people in general, you must be congruent with things
you say, and things you do. Everything you say, and you do, it must be congruent, with way you look,
and way you move. Otherwise, you'll confuse ppl. and people will not understand you at all. The
easiest way to be congruent, is not to use too much of prepared structured material, that comes from
lot of different players.Its much better, and easier, to just focus on yourself, so everything that comes
out of your mouth, comes from how you feel, and what you think(from attitudes and beliefs).
If it comes from you, your deep inner self, then there is no way you can be Incongruent.

Using too much of prepared material available around community, will send lot of different messages
to girl. Its better for you that those things are congruent with your self !
99% of guys use this material-routines cause they don't know what to say 'stalling'
what if I tell you that I can make shy guy into talking MONSTER into 20minutes!!
There is no such thing as 'stalling' anymore after you meet us!!
ut talking a lot , and not stalling is just one small portion of big puzzle. Crucial communication, is not
done on that layer, its done on communication layer behind words... FEELINGS layer.

remember old saying of Badboy " Its not what you say, its HOW you say it"
that's it.
If you talk to girl, and you feel scared, or insecure..she is going to pick up that feeling ! And there
problems starts. So its crucial to be aware of emotional states you are projecting.Some guys teach
routines, and to repeat them million times, so you get comfortable with them, so you can project
comfort state while talking to girl !! funny. I project that state using body language, taking lot of space,
being comfortable, so she picks up that state, and so she also feels comfortable!!
how many times I wrote about "Being Alpha, is not about being Alpha, is about being RELAXED"
now, you know why!!
That is power of body language, and how to control people around yourself with just body language.
Also voice is, one of our best weapon we have. IT must be deep, and strong !Just good voice can turn
woman on like nothing else!
aso, your voice must be congruent to the way you look...
Can U imagine some masculine guy, like Revan for example, with cartoon-network, high pitch voice??
as my Girlfriend would say " you cant connect guy face with voice.... he is fucked up"(she has guy like
that in her social-circle)

so voice, must BE DEEP, STRONG, and that equals SEXUAL!!

BadBoy
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*******About BodyLanguage*******( Revan )

Hey guys.
Lately Ive been discussing a really interesting concept with my buddies
Whats the thing that makes you look like a ten in womens eyes?
Is it looks? - No looks are just something you get indication of interest on - Its basically something that
gets you a degree of attention. And In order to PU you must get attention. So looks do matter but not
nearly as much as percieved by society.
Its all down to lifestyle - If youre a football "champion" or better to say someone like Dennis Rodman,
you grow accustomed to meeting 10 and SHB 11 and getting indication of interest from them - Its like
something that happenes EVERY day to you - Because in the eyes of a SHB11 you live the lifestyle of
a 10!
Dont get me wrong though, you dont have to be Dennis Rodman in order to flirt with women:)
What I am saying is - look at their attitude, their inner game, their beliefs . Act like Dennis Rodman -
take a look at his Bodylanguage when he talks with women -
Because you see, bodylanguage are anchours - They are anchours to specific states
For instance man, If you talk to me and I fold my arms, Im not in a positive state - Hell, Infact I think
that you are full of shit and I couldnt care less what you think of me.
On the other hand - If I take up position like Im at home, watching my favourite movie and imagine
having my dick sucked by my fuck buddy -
What state am I in then?!
You cannot feel bad if you go into alpha bodylanguage because YOU FIRED an ANCHOUR in yourself
imposed by SOCIETY - You are most comfortable in your own home after all - you are king there!
SOOOO guys - Fire off that KING anchour!
Also, do these guys ever use "material"?
Do they need structured routines or gimmicks to PU?
Not really - Because deep down, they act like tens...They assume attraction and act accordingly. They
are congruent with what they want.
Because guys, the game fundamentally really comes down to what you want, your emotional
intelligence(calibration), and your boldness in order to get it.
"Material" infact isnt material.
That simple.
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******System problems ******** ( Cortez )

Lot of guys ask me the same question: how to become seducer/pickup-artist/expert for laying women.
They also
often ask me what line to use to get in, which specific sentence to say, how to make a good game-plan
etc.

The equasion is: the more you depend on various 'methods' and 'systems' based on what you have to
say to lay
women, the less success you gonna have.
Why?
1. Women have incredible radars for shit. If your 'technique' isn't perfect, you're not gonna get a pussy
because
from their perspective, if you need to sell a story to get laid, then you are worth shit. They want
'attractive' guys,
and 'attractive' guys don't need to perform stuff in order to get chicks.
2. Depending on complicated 'techniques' fucks you up internally. It projects or maintains a strong
belief in you
that you are not worthy, that you have no right to get a hot chick. And women feel this insecurity in
men. They
are repulsed by timid, confused and insecure men that doesn't know what they want. The best opener,
pattern
or C&F line can't help then to take a beautiful chick to bed.
Every man that wishes to become a good seducer should tend to end up as a natural seducer. Natural
seducer is
a guy who became one with his stuff. He doesn't have to think about wha he says, he is calm and
more
comfortable in company of good looking women than alone. He doesn't carry a burden of routines to
perform
and unchangeable plans to fulfill. He doesn't think he's obliged to do any action to attract women, yet
women
are attracted to him wherever he goes.
Routines are just a ladder that is to be thrown away when you get on the top. Once when you are there
you can
say whatever you want and still get a chick. That should be objective of all future seducers.
The more complicated game, the less success is gonna follow. It's easy to get lost in the process.
Insted think on this: people mate since the beginning of time - there is nothing more natural than
getting laid.
Brothers, if you want a game, a plan, two steps are enough:
A) Find an attractive chick
B) Fuck her
So simple.
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*********Shark on the beach ********* (Shark)
Have you seen how the situation is funny on the beach?
If you take a walk on my beach you will see some hot chicks showing themselves in their new baithing
suit that matches their bags. They will all be fried until death just cause cosmo magazine instructs
that....but much more amuzing is to see tha guys haha
If a good chick is on the beach she may be reading a book and an army of guys will play some ball
game infront of her haha what excusers.
They all have big muscles and sun tanned bodies and new cool italian beach wear from the latest
issue of Mens Health....they think tips from there will help them haha...maybe if they drink new 15bottle
set: did you see it some 15 bottle set with: anti hair loos, better penis power, anti-wrinkle and who
knows what.....
I always laugh at the society which gives you approval to get the hottie only after you become rich,
goodloking bodybuilder who is also fashion conscious haha
They have not been fucking whole year and excusing themselves with lines: I am getting ready for
summer...and now they are playing ball games and doing acrobatics infront of her...
The summer has come and eweryone is so eager to find good chicks...I just smile at that cause I am
tired of girls anyway and had action during the year..
even though those lamers playing ball are funny they may succeed if nobody else gives a try. So if you
are on the beach and you want to get a particular girl just give a glimpse of an eye to your competiton
showing off their muscles and then burst into action...
I like the beach cause after swimming makeup cannot hide anyhing and you can see the whole
body..so you know excatly how she looks like...
On my bech there is some "party all day place"
where peolpe come to hang out or chill out (whatever that means?) so it is a nice place where they
serve coktails and dance in sand...Sometimes a hottie is danceing there so I may go to her but usually
I dont waist time dancing when there are hot chicks on beach lieing down and just "begging to be
approached".
However I have too many chicks that I dont have time to see so I will approach only if I see something
really stunning. You know whats funny also: if you do a good approach and first few sentences all
socitey-infected people will think that you two are "friends from before" and will not interrupt you, they
will wait for you to finish talking...Boyfriends will think you know her from before or he will sense he is
below you so will not interrupt...you may feel sorry for them especially when she gives you her number
infront of him orleaves for icecream with you right there 10 min after you met!
Shark
You may have become interested in Shark...check out the site there is more.
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********Hanging out with BadBoy on the Island of Pag Croatia 10.-13.07.2004******* (Danijel,
newsletter guest)

So many things happened in those three days that I would have to write 30 pages if I wanted to write
everything that happened and everything I learned from Badboy, that's why I'm gonna make it short.
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Last time when I was in Zagreb, when I got to meet Badboy,Shark and Cortez had realy great time and
made friends with them, Badboy said about going together to the sea and that he will call me.
So like 3 weeks ago Badboy called me and said ''Let's go brijati(party) on the sea''. I said who all is
gonna go?
He said ''Just you and me solo'' I said great . We heard two weeks later and talked where and when
should we meet in Zagreb.

Friday-----Saturday

I was at home packing stuf that I need and having trouble getting money and all the funny stuf that
happens when you're going somewhere.I didn't sleep at all cause of getting money in the last minutes.
I get the money and I go for Zagreb. I came around 8am and I send Badboy a sms that I am in
Zagreb.He said park your car somewhere and tell me the name of the street and I will come there. I
park the car infront of Dom Sportova and send an sms where I am. Badboy says he will come in 45
minutes. So I wait and relax and drink some mineral water that I had. Badboy comes and we pack his
stuf in my car and hit the road.

On the road we talked about the game and joked around. We drove like 1,5 hour to the Senj and like
0,5 to the ferry, but there we got stopped and had to wait like an hour cause of the standstill.We get on
the ferry and get on the Pag. We go for Gajac and find an apartma there,pack our stuf from the car and
hit out to see the beach.
We go and have a drink at the Oaza bar at the beach and relax from the road.We talked about the last
workshop in Munich how he made Balkanboys out of his students and about that Nightlife's laying on
the floor thing.Badboy shoved it to me and I laught to it.He said it can be really good thing for
nonverbal rapport ''The two of you against all of them''.
We joked around and then I catch some sleep on the beach and then we hit the waters.

Later we went for dinner and ordered something good to eat. I talked about myself and Badboy shoved
me the blablabla routine it's not like a routine it's more like bullshiting on an Emotional level and He
showed me an exercise for developing a deep seductive voice and made me do them. It was my first
time that i did something like that,because I never did express my feelings in that way. In the beggining
I was like ''No, man I just can't do it''.But Badboy persisted and started pulling words and telling me in
to what emotion I should GO FIRST(love,anger,fear,romantic,jealousy,happiness,sexual.ect.). It's a
really good exercise for developing the Emotional(Romantic) part of the contrast jerk/emotional guy, so
that when you talk with the girls you aren't just one dimensional Jerk. And I think that is the sticking
point with the most of the guys,cause they try so hard to develope just that Jerk part of their personality
and It's like I have to be Alpha,Alpha,Alpha, I have to be C&F(break rapport) and then It's like
Attraction,Attraction,Attraction and you blow yourself out in the midle of the go out and meet women
when she's trying to gain rapport with you or later after you PU her and get kiss closes and #closes
and you meet for day2 she feels uncomfortabile and doesn't trust you because there is no real
Emotional based Rapport. For better explanation read Badboy's post Understanding Game .

After the dinner we went back to the apartman to get ready to go out. I was asking Badboy on what I
should wear and showing him what clothes I got.Then you see Badboy pull out this white jacket and
says to me ''Wear this without a shirt under!'', I was like laughting,cause I thought he was joking and i
was like ''No I can't'' but Badboy made me do it. So we dress up and hit to the clubs, we were to early
and there weren't so much people at that time. We go for Kalypso Club and as we enter you can see
all the waitereses and the women bombarding us with indication of interest's. We were like Gods laying
on three chairs each with Alpha Bodylanguage and drinking coctails. All the guys in the club from
waiters to guests were intimidated by us, there was a circle around us like 10 meteres and nobody
except the women had the balls to come near us.We laught like crazy at this and all this is done just by
Alpha Bodylanguage and the way we were dressed. It's crazy we were like the most money guys in the
club, we were like the owners of the Club. It was crazy looking at the waiteresses and other girls how
they just can't help themselves, everything that they were doing was looking at us and bombarding us
with indication of interest's or as Badboy would say '' The biches are weak!''. As we were laying there
and we had girls approach us and it's really funny how much of an EXCUSERS girls are with their
openers.
Later we went to the Aquarius Club and the same thing happened, so we made a few circles
around,but there were no good targets,because the student girls haven't finished their exames yet and
haven't come to the Pag so we had some drinks and chilled.
That night I learned realy great stuff how just your Bodylanguage and the way you Dress can change
the way people percieve you WHAT YOU SUBCOMMUNICATE.
I learned from Badboy how when you turn the game around and position yourself and
Subcommunicate to others that you are a SHG12(SuperHotGuy) just by your Alpha Bodylanguage and
Dressing style and Attitude
All you have to do is show up at the club or enywhere and the girls will actualy pick you up.
That is the main thing because you're communicating from a frame of Abundance(CONFIDENCE) so
girls will be attracted just by that and all you have to do is let them rapport you(Seduce you). Shit! ITS
JUST TOO EASY!
That's the reason why Another Seduction Forum and other stuff is not good,because all thet they are
doing is communicating from a frame of Scarcity(INSECURITY) where they think they have to have
1000+ Routines to just get the girl attracted to them, instead of just positioning themselves in a reality
of a SHG12.
Before founding Another Seduction Forum after listening TD's Interview on DYD and getting fucked up
by it, I was having a similar frame of Badboy's I would dress good and behave like I was SHG12 and
did crazy PU, sometimes even without words,like BUM kiss-close-IsolationRapport&Kissing#close
and then sometimes SEX.
When you position yourself High SHG12 you can forget about all those problems you had, there are
no bitch-shields or any kind of trouble,cause SHE is trying to get in to your pants,cause your such a
cool guy.
You'll have 10's and 9's, you can have anything you want, then it just come to your
calibration(Emotional Inteligence) skills.

Sunday

In the daytime we mostly chilled in Cocomo Club in Novalja and beach Zrce. Everywhere we went it
had the same effect in Cocomo all the girls were looking at us. It was just fucking crazy there's no
other word for it.
We chilled and drank coctails at the Kalypso Club and got all the girls that work there approach us and
we joked with them.They were shooting us with water pistols. Badboy even got showered with his
Nescaffe.
It was very interesting to see Badboy how he does rapport, and it was very interesting how good girls
react to a guy with a Lifestyle. He got a girl saying ''We really need to talk alone, I dunno there's
something really interesting about you''. We chilled around the most of the clubs Papaya, Aquarius,
Kalypso.and everywhere we went it had the same effect, we were like the owner of the Jachts, the
richest motherfuckers on the Island.

When it was around 22.H we started to dress and than we went to the Cocomo upstairs where there
was a really good launge. We imediately took over the place. The way we were laying on the chairs
like owners of the club and joking around we were the center of attention of all the girls there, even the
girls that came with their boyfriends couldnt help themserlves but to send indication of interest's.Then
around 24.H a storm hit us and it started raining and wind blowing like crazy, so me and Badboy
waited for it to stop and we went home to sleep, cause it was all empty.

Monday

We chilled at the Aquarius Club and on the beach.Badboy explined to me how in order to be a good
PUA you have to have good Calibration(Emotional Inteligence) so you can pickup where their Energy
Level is when you approach them, and you have to have good Energy Control so you can pace their
Energy from High Energy(Party Guy) to Low Energy(Rapport-Deep Seductive Voice). We talked about
alot of stuff about Subcommunication from girls and it's really funny how they use it when you SMS
with them. We talked about how you never want the girl to figure you out so you become
PREDICTABLE to her. The way to be always UNPREDICTABLE is to always change the pattern. It's
like when she wants you to be a good guy you give her the jerk. When she thinks you're gonna be a
Jerk you give her the romantic guy.
And bealive me Badboy is a C&F Jerk to his GF after listening to the SMS'es he was sending to his
girlfriend He's one of the C&F'est guys I've ever met. Or as how his GF would say he's a ''Corrupted
Devil!!!''
But then again he knows to be really Romantic when she's not expecting it at all.
We talked about becoming more and more Direct in the game and not being EXCUSERS as Shark
likes to say.

Later around 21.H we got dressed and went out to the Novalja and took a circle around the city.
While walking we talked about Shark's Direct game and why it's so effective. He told me how he saw
the best PU in his life done by Shark. You'll laught your ass when you hear this!
Later we went to Cocomo and took over the place again.
We were laying on the sofas relaxing and joking and Badboy said how after this I'm gonna always
have the Bodylanguage that he taught me. And the same stuff happened all the women in that Launge
like 20 of them were like looking at us, playing with their hair and giving indication of interest's.
One of the girls in a group(2 guys-2 girls) that was about 3 meters from us was showing us her pussy
and her breasts and was turned with her whole body towards us, her head was turned to the group just
as she could talk to the group.It's funny how girls can't control themselves when they feel attraction to
an Alpha.
The bitches are just to weak!
Later in the night when we went to the clubs, I saw Badboy how he takes over the girls with High
Enery(Party Guy) and Lowers it down with Palm reading and then using his Deep Seductive Voice and
getting girls in to a trance state. He showed me an exercise how to control your Energy, how get on
High Energy in seconds.
He explined to me how when you talk to girls you have to talk with emotions, because girls react only
to emotions, so if you talk to them without emotions it's like dryfucking them with logic.
The whole night we had girls opening us and partying with us. That is all you need, be a SHG12 and
come to the club.

Me and Badboy talked about alot of other stuff those three days, so it wasn't just all about PU, cause
you really shouldn't focuse all you time for just that. We were there more to chillout and relaxe that to
party.
After working on alot on PU you get tired from it, so it's good to take a brake sometimes and just chill
from the world. We talked about alot of stuff so guys be prepared for more great stuff from
Badboy&Shark.
This was not workshopm it was just hanging out, and chilin with BadBoy

Danijel