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ISTJs are dependable through and through, and this trait is clearly expressed when it comes to their romantic
relationships. Often representing the epitome of family values, people with the ISTJ personality type are
comfortable with, and often even encourage traditional household and gender roles, and look to a family
structure guided by clear expectations and honesty. While their reserved nature often makes dating ISTJs
challenging, they are truly dedicated partners, willing to devote tremendous thought and energy to ensure
stable and mutually satisfying relationships.
As their relationships transitions into the long-term, ISTJs gladly see to the necessary daily tasks
around the house, applying the same sense of duty to their home life that they do in the workplace.
While this may not translate into particularly exotic intimate lives, ISTJs are dependable lovers who want very
much for their partners to remain satisfied. It takes patience on the part of more adventurous partners, but if
different activities can be demonstrated as equally or more enjoyable than those already within ISTJs' comfort
zones, they are perfectly capable of trying something new.
However, emotional satisfaction can be another matter. While ISTJs are able to provide surprisingly good
emotional support, this only happens when they realize that it's necessary, and there's the rub. As Thinking (T)
types, ISTJs are not naturally receptive to others' emotions, not unless they are stated clearly, and a partner
usually only says "I'm angry" when it's too late to address the initial grievance.
People with the ISTJ personality type can get so caught up in the belief in their correctness, in "winning"
arguments they thought were about facts, that they don't realize their partner may have viewed things from a
perspective of consideration and sensitivity. Especially with Feeling (F) partners, this can be a huge challenge
for the relationship. Ultimately though, ISTJs' senses of responsibility and dedication set the tone, and they
spare no effort in noting to this distinction moving forward, the consequences having been demonstrated as
real.
While ISTJs' staid approach may seem boring to some, there is an undeniable attractiveness to it, though felt
perhaps more by respect and admiration than emotional passion. ISTJs' shells hide a strong and quiet
determination and reliability, rare among other personality types, which can benefit even the flightiest
personalities, allowing them to stay connected to the real world while still exploring new territory. Partners
who share the Observant (S) trait are the best fit for ISTJ personalities, with one or two opposing traits to
create balance and to expand ISTJs' sometimes overly isolated world, such as partners with Extraverted (E) or
Prospecting (P) traits.
4. FRIENDSHIPS (/ISTJ-FRIENDS)
2. STRENGTHS & WEAKNESSES (/ISTJ-STRENGTHS-AND-WEAKNESSES)
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