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extra marital scandals (they are usually hidden well though). I directly observed this in my citys
congressman and his wife and other politicians my family are close with. Although they try to
keep things under the wraps a lot of people still know that the husband is involved with several
women. This kind of people present in the government may act as a blockage to the passing of
certain bills that aim to revise the inequality in the law. If the law of male adultery gets passed
they too will easily get accused, charged and penalized as it is easier to prove adultery than
concubinage. With the mens power in the congress, efforts of changing the laws become more
difficult.
The peculiar thing about his situation however, is not only that there is some sort of
invisible hand that prevent feminist bills for being passed but rather the way society acts towards
extra-marital affairs of the wife versus the husband. In the Philippines, when a man cheats his
wife usually tolerates his behavior and still remains in the same roof as the husband. I have
directly observed this in my family. For example, my grandmother remained as the faithful
wife to my grandfather who had uncountable mistresses and even sired children with them. Two
of my aunts also remained with their husbands even after several cases of cheating. Even my
mother was no exception as she too remained with my father even after two cases of adultery.
However, when it was one of my aunts who cheated she became a pariah in the family. Nobody
would like to talk to her. She was not invited in family functions and people would start doubting
the parentage of their children. She becomes a fallen woman. Notice that from these observations
the mans crime is not even penalized. It is rather tolerated and hidden, sometimes even with the
cooperation of the wife and their families.
The curious thing about this is that his behavior is reflected in the law and at the same
time the law influences peoples perception of what is right and is wrong. This thus creates a
chronic system the perpetuates sexual discrimination. To be able to spark a change one needs to
shake such system to disturb this kind of striation. I personally think that both Article 333 and
334 be repealed for a marital infidelity law wherein both husband and wife and their consorts are
charged equally. However, even if the law was changed to be stricter on extra-marital infidelities
it is more difficult to be imposed on men because of societys tolerance to male infidelity. But if
the law can be used to shake the system by those people in power and increase awareness of
womens rights then I think that it may create a significant change in societys gender
discrimination. Furthermore, the current concubinage and adultery charges can only be filed by
the offended spouse. I think complaint should include the families of the conjugal couple because
while the wife might tolerate it the family may not and this decreases the tolerance of people
towards crimes like these.
Efforts have been recently made in the government in light of gender equality in the
law. Gabriela has continuously been actively proposing for the decriminalization of adultery.
They have also been proposing for a bill that seeks to change the term to marital infidelity,
which would have been applicable to both male and female spouses. Also, recent efforts have also
been made to include same-sex infidelity cases (same-sex extramarital affairs are currently legal).
The measure seeks to broaden the scope of Article 333 of the Revised Penal Code, to also include
punishment for same-sex adultery. However, while these bills have been proposed a long time
ago (i.e. 2009 for the Gabriela revised Article 333 and 334 and 2013 for same-sex revisions) no
recent changes have been made to the RPC when it comes to this topic. This suggests that there
has been no significant pressure on the government to pass this laws. Another way that we can
pressure these changes is to make the people aware of this discrimination to spread their
awareness. With a bigger population pressuring the government it is possible that these changes
can be accelerated.